Lupe Leaves CHEATING Husband And Loses 435 Lbs | My 600-lb Life: Where Are They Now?

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  • @boskusboss
    @boskusboss 2 місяці тому +860

    NEVER, EVER CHEAT. Breaking up with someone is heartbreaking, but at least that’s honesty. Cheating is lying, betrayal, cold, and so much more. She was right to leave him

    • @bioshock8787
      @bioshock8787 2 місяці тому +3

      always cheat.

    • @loreylane3918
      @loreylane3918 2 місяці тому +20

      @@bioshock8787cheaters end up truly falling in love one day … they end up staying loyal to said person. And that person end up cheating on the ex cheater . And that’s exactly what they deserve. Remember that.

    • @jkosh2046
      @jkosh2046 2 місяці тому +12

      I'm not agreeing with him cheating. But I can only imagine how hard it is to take care of someone who doesn't want to take care of themselves. I don't feel bad for her. The years of neglect on herself was a choice.

    • @boskusboss
      @boskusboss 2 місяці тому +2

      @@jkosh2046 I do feel bad for him having to do that, but it just showed that she didn’t meet his expectations. He should have left her. He would have had guilt, yes, but he would also be able to find a woman out there that meets his expectations and someone who is right for him. Breakups are never easy, but cheating is the worst thing anyone could do. He had other ways to end it with her properly, but he chose to do it this way. Such a shame

    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson 2 місяці тому +3

      And no one need to dip their partner just after surgery. No real man do that. Just rapists. Threats to make someone not dare to not say no is rape and people defend it. It's disqusting to read many comments that felt sorry for the dude not able to get fu.... when she was in hospital and after surgery

  • @jbfrancis3225
    @jbfrancis3225 2 місяці тому +1062

    I’m not supporting cheating and abuse, however, that was a lot for the husband. I don’t know why some women thinks that a man is always an answer to their situations. Sometimes we need to be alone, to fix ourselves, heal from our brokenness before we enter into new relationships.

    • @Rockedict0174
      @Rockedict0174 2 місяці тому +61

      Really wtv you're saying doesn't make any sense.... he chose to be a full time care taker, no one forced him to do so... in any situation cheating is unforgivable🙂

    • @estherkritharakis9443
      @estherkritharakis9443 2 місяці тому

      Husband is a human being he has needs too as a man. Lupe should make the right choice either keep him or let him go. Lupe should make herself as a first priority, take care about your self first. There will be a man somewhere waiting for you.​@@Rockedict0174

    • @jugi9511
      @jugi9511 2 місяці тому +26

      Exactly... Quite easy to blame this man, living with a person that much selfdestroying and assist her every day is not something everybody woul do...

    • @Splodgeit03
      @Splodgeit03 2 місяці тому +26

      Then he should have left instead of cheating on her and treating her like shit 🤷 ... If you're in a relationship and you're drowning then you should talk about it, sort it out. Not just be an arse hole.

    • @felinasecrets6191
      @felinasecrets6191 2 місяці тому +9

      If man can't have intimate with a wife they will look somewhere else. Don't take your marriage or husband for granted. Take care of yourself and be attractive for your husband. Man wants trophy wife. If he is loser, it's better let go.

  • @xzxjessxzx
    @xzxjessxzx 2 місяці тому +423

    I felt bad for the husband at first, but the fact he made her have sex just after surgery is absolutely disgusting. What an animal.

    • @gemstar7286
      @gemstar7286 Місяць тому +9

      He really was a vile disgusting trash bag 🗑️😤🤨.

    • @AsmaMoh-lg5hi
      @AsmaMoh-lg5hi Місяць тому +2

      😵‍💫😨😰

  • @Lantismamman
    @Lantismamman 2 місяці тому +174

    WHY SUCH A HURRY to find a new man??? Learn to love yourself first.

    • @MargaretAlexander-t8r
      @MargaretAlexander-t8r Місяць тому

      But if she's comfortable what's the issue

    • @RichardPhillips-wg3yu
      @RichardPhillips-wg3yu 23 дні тому

      A lonely person is always horny.

    • @ecytb7042
      @ecytb7042 21 день тому +1

      @@MargaretAlexander-t8r confortable so what? thats not the issue..

    • @BowensVince
      @BowensVince 16 днів тому +1

      She's using men for her mobility

  • @thespanishchick1
    @thespanishchick1 2 місяці тому +810

    The audacity that he asked for intercourse right after surgery! I am happy that she is no longer with him. He is a bum and was using her! I hope she is happy today and healthy

    • @GiGiBabs04
      @GiGiBabs04 2 місяці тому +69

      Bad thing is that Gilbert is with another 600 lbs patient now & he even went with her to Dr. Now’s office and he was shocked.

    • @jennyharris5109
      @jennyharris5109 2 місяці тому +43

      That's ridiculous....She just lay in bed stuffing her face, while he was her slave and provider .

    • @raizahasmath5580
      @raizahasmath5580 2 місяці тому +13

      She was using him?

    • @jinkybaby1005
      @jinkybaby1005 2 місяці тому +13

      Why not. That's the least she can do for him. He a man at the end of the day

    • @wajeehasarwar
      @wajeehasarwar 2 місяці тому

      Can u tell me which video is that?​@@GiGiBabs04

  • @aw8951
    @aw8951 2 місяці тому +399

    He was her full time care taker... I dont agree that cheating was right here, but give the guy credit for what he must have done for years...

    • @503ashkatchem4
      @503ashkatchem4 2 місяці тому +29

      That’s called gaslighting

    • @Splodgeit03
      @Splodgeit03 2 місяці тому +53

      No one forced him to, he made a choice. If he didn't like it, he was able to leave. He didn't need to be abusive.

    • @high.vibrational.collective
      @high.vibrational.collective 2 місяці тому

      Hardly anyone is monogamous in the true sense of the word and there's men that wouldn't do all that even if the woman was looking like a model.
      Im so shocked that all these women who are morbidly obese have men and I see so many women single who are beautiful, intelligent and accomplished.
      Is it that once your standards are lowered you are more likely to find SOMEBODY?
      Is it that these women appeal to men who like to feel useful and caretake?
      It's an intriguing phenomena truly...

    • @brittanymonroe6569
      @brittanymonroe6569 2 місяці тому +19

      He chose to be her full time caregiver. He could have left, but he chose to stay. I’m sure she receives a disability check, that is usually the case in situations like these. They are in it for the money. You can tell he doesn’t work.

    • @serenedione
      @serenedione 2 місяці тому +14

      As a caregiver he was in control of what she ate on a day-to-day basis.

  • @fawcett2054
    @fawcett2054 2 місяці тому +245

    I have noticed that the majority of these people experienced mental, physical, or sexual abuse

    • @cthulucoon
      @cthulucoon 24 дні тому

      They're literally building a wall around them, using food

  • @TheUrbanGentAOB
    @TheUrbanGentAOB 2 місяці тому +1675

    Leaving your toxic husband, moving to another place, and immediately hopping into a new relationship and talking marriage super quickly?? Sounds like a recipe for disaster. She needed therapy immensely before entering another union with a new man, while still being married to the husband she just left like a month prior. Yes, her husband was apparently a piece of work, but so is she. Who does that? Gonna bring all that trauma into a new relationship if she isn't healed.

    • @pamelahaltmeyer.1288
      @pamelahaltmeyer.1288 2 місяці тому +108

      Yes! Leave the men behind until you are completely healthy!

    • @Justagal767
      @Justagal767 2 місяці тому +47

      Complete agree! Why does she look so angry when talking about her new man?

    • @JustMe-ej2zs
      @JustMe-ej2zs 2 місяці тому +5

      That part

    • @lynnaslauenwhite6484
      @lynnaslauenwhite6484 2 місяці тому +88

      If you hadn’t noticed there was a two year gap before she started seeing that other man, at 6:02 2years and one month later she talks about being together for a month so that means she waited two years roughly before getting into a serious relationship. Which is not bad the majority of people from what studies say people take roughly 6 months to get over someone and sometimes longer depending on how much that person meant to you..

    • @TammyHeafner-cy8ds
      @TammyHeafner-cy8ds 2 місяці тому +1

      😊😊😊😊

  • @leogoddess3863
    @leogoddess3863 2 місяці тому +345

    👀 GIRL... BE SINGLE & HEAL, just focus on you 100%. No distractions

    • @chiquitacapers8155
      @chiquitacapers8155 2 місяці тому +5

      Plus why you wanna bring children into your mess. Not wise

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@chiquitacapers8155right no wise at all.

    • @jalex3645
      @jalex3645 2 місяці тому +1

      How in rhe heck did she another partner?

    • @JavedMulaniIND
      @JavedMulaniIND 24 дні тому

      She needs to be in a relationship so that someone can wipe her ass.

  • @marymarzz
    @marymarzz 2 місяці тому +618

    These comments are so disgusting. Sure, he took care of her, but he mentally abused her until she agreed for intercourse, he didn't even take it seriously when she needed to go to the hospital because of it. He was also the reason she was gaining so much weight in the first place, and he cheated because Lupe couldn't please him. Open your eyes, you guys need help if you're still defending this maniac after reading my comment.
    Edit: watched more of the video and realized he also stole her stuff after she dumped him.

    • @GamingBelladonna229
      @GamingBelladonna229 2 місяці тому +33

      Yeah he thinks sex is more important than her health. He even bought her donuts after seeing her blood sugar was over 400. He doesn’t love her at all.

    • @hkjm29
      @hkjm29 2 місяці тому +14

      She is not a baby, she is the own reason to gain wait not him. Stop blaming people for our own mistakes. He cheated thats wrong but he also was forced to take care of her and this is marriage two people should act in it not one. For the tv, while she is laying in bed I am pretty sure he was the bread winner

    • @marymarzz
      @marymarzz 2 місяці тому +14

      @@hkjm29 and it ignoring everything else I said. Like I said, you need help if ur still defending him.

    • @deebell8727
      @deebell8727 2 місяці тому +15

      ​@marymarzz she has a lot of blame in this situation also. She layed in bed all day and he bathed and wiped her ass every day. How many men do you think would do that for a woman in her condition? You know he was a loser and cheater but she kept him around because she needed her ass wiped. Once she lost weight then she dumped him. She is looking for a caretaker just like she found in the next guy. Let's see if this one stays long.

    • @marymarzz
      @marymarzz 2 місяці тому +5

      @@deebell8727 what? She left him bc he was cheating and overall being a terrible person. She didn’t leave him when she lost weight.

  • @raizahasmath5580
    @raizahasmath5580 2 місяці тому +631

    Actually, that husband had been with her through thick and thin. He is wiping her ass. All of his hard works should NOT be forgotten and erased and replaced with the word 'Cheater'. Lupe should be at least grateful for all the hardships he went through for her care. It's Lupe who was using him. Once she lost weight and able to take care of herself, she dumped him. Until then she stayed with him knowing about him cheating.

    • @karenjohnson5634
      @karenjohnson5634 2 місяці тому +67

      Very good points. I agree.

    • @ashleylara7127
      @ashleylara7127 2 місяці тому +77

      Thank you for acknowledging him and his effort through out their relationship; I was thinking the same thing as I read through the comments… cheating isn’t right, but he did stay with her while she was at her heaviest and helped her

    • @raizahasmath5580
      @raizahasmath5580 2 місяці тому

      @@karenjohnson5634 Thanks

    • @raizahasmath5580
      @raizahasmath5580 2 місяці тому +34

      @@ashleylara7127 Indeed. These people in the comments section do not have the ability to think around all the facts.

    • @tracym6652
      @tracym6652 2 місяці тому +10

      Yep. I agree

  • @toosense
    @toosense 2 місяці тому +173

    So she found another caregiver and they moved in together after just one month. Ok. Hope she continues to heal mentally and physically.

    • @R3cuzican
      @R3cuzican 2 місяці тому +2

      Some ppl need somewhere to live so they move fast, move in and take whatever they can can get & do what they gotta do to have a place to lay their head.

    • @R3cuzican
      @R3cuzican 2 місяці тому +2

      Some ppl need somewhere to live so they move fast, move in and take whatever they can can get & do what they gotta do to have a place to lay their head.

  • @shadez020
    @shadez020 2 місяці тому +323

    Love the brutal honesty of the doctor!

  • @elsbethmcewan633
    @elsbethmcewan633 2 місяці тому +162

    CHEATING NEVER SOLVES ANYTHING. If you’re that u happy with your wife then LEAVE. Do her the favor of getting out of her life so she doesn’t have to put up with your cheating ass.

  • @misskitty7235
    @misskitty7235 2 місяці тому +235

    I don’t agree with cheating I’m not sure the guy should be labeled so badly. He became a caregiver. It must have been very lonely and isolating.

    • @tracym6652
      @tracym6652 2 місяці тому +41

      I agree, he was lonely and exhausted. Taking care of her was killing him inside. She also didn't seem all that appreciative of his care taking

    • @lashawnfryer401
      @lashawnfryer401 2 місяці тому +16

      I agree...all attention was on her, his need for love was being disregarded

    • @ingridsmith-allen1827
      @ingridsmith-allen1827 2 місяці тому +9

      Exactly, everyone quick to judge him. He's human being with his own needs that cannot be met by her... Wish them both happiness.

    • @ClaudiaLop-nn1lj
      @ClaudiaLop-nn1lj 2 місяці тому +2

      💯 agree

    • @GwenApMannanan
      @GwenApMannanan 2 місяці тому +14

      You can still leave before cheating. You can discuss things with your partner. You can get counseling. There is a lot you can do instead of cheating. bunch of enablers and cheating apologists

  • @johnb248
    @johnb248 2 місяці тому +85

    I wish all the doctors in USA truly care about the patients like this doctor most of them are about money

    • @xyz-ep7dq
      @xyz-ep7dq Місяць тому +1

      Tak jest na całym świecie....

  • @sibi1017
    @sibi1017 2 місяці тому +79

    It is a hard situation for both!!! I wish the best for both!!! I hope they can forgive and forget and have a happy life.

    • @tss9886
      @tss9886 2 місяці тому

      While I get what you are saying there is a word for what he was, enabler.

  • @LETMino85
    @LETMino85 2 місяці тому +34

    She's vulnerable. Easy to see. She needs to learn to stand up for herself and her boundaries.

  • @sukoon279
    @sukoon279 2 місяці тому +59

    But they literally never told us where she is now 😭

  • @kaylaloveslilpeepforever6825
    @kaylaloveslilpeepforever6825 2 місяці тому +93

    Lupe!❤ im so proud of you 🎉

    • @mama_Ca
      @mama_Ca 2 місяці тому +2

      Second to your comment 🎉super proud

  • @GLEAM0721
    @GLEAM0721 2 місяці тому +75

    How she had surgery and he asking for sex from her … that’s fkn crazy

    • @BadBunniez
      @BadBunniez 2 місяці тому +7

      Typical men

    • @prettygirlleanna1
      @prettygirlleanna1 2 місяці тому

      Didn't she say it was a month since her surgery

    • @GLEAM0721
      @GLEAM0721 2 місяці тому +1

      @@prettygirlleanna1 so … a month isn’t ish … didn’t you see her stitches pop open … are you completely unaware ?

  • @psyclonetheseahawk9261
    @psyclonetheseahawk9261 2 місяці тому +77

    400lbs. That's incredible.

  • @crystaldurham-austin8470
    @crystaldurham-austin8470 2 місяці тому +7

    Kudos to the doctor for keeping it real!

  • @anitahernandez6787
    @anitahernandez6787 2 місяці тому +8

    Her 1st guy went through alot, wiping her down, feeding her, taking her to doctors appointments , moving and lifting her all that is a full time job. Don't think 2nd guy will be around for long

  • @janelle9707
    @janelle9707 2 місяці тому +115

    Gilbert pressured her into sex. Then lost it. AND cheated! She's a smart strong woman!!! ❤

    • @ОльгаВердиева-е9д
      @ОльгаВердиева-е9д 2 місяці тому +2

      Трудно ему пришлось. Чем эта гора может заниматься, кроме как лежать на спине.
      Сколько нужно съесть еды, чтобы стать этим ?
      Да простит МИЛОСТИВЫЙ АЛЛАХ 🤲, СВЯТ ОН И ВЕЛИК, НАШИ ПРЕГРЕШЕНИЯ.

    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson Місяць тому

      @@janelle9707 that was acculy rape

  • @sweetgirl4u247
    @sweetgirl4u247 2 місяці тому +404

    People sitting and protecting Richard. Dude asked to get laid right after surgery. Getting drunk. Cheating. Yeah, a real keeper.
    Edit: Yes, I mean Gilbert. Sorry about that.

    • @kasimotinka123
      @kasimotinka123 2 місяці тому +12

      You mean Gilbert?

    • @joriejay7950
      @joriejay7950 2 місяці тому +3

      not the second guy! The first , Gilbert

    • @MindTheBusinessThatPaysYou
      @MindTheBusinessThatPaysYou 2 місяці тому +5

      Right, lol. I do understand both sides of the situation, but him wiping her ass is not equivalent to him being a cheater and a drunk. He put her through a lot emotionally which is probably how she ended up gaining the weight in the first place.

    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson 2 місяці тому

      @@sweetgirl4u247 that rape what he did. If she don't feel she can sa no it's rape

    • @AnniCarlsson
      @AnniCarlsson 2 місяці тому

      @@MindTheBusinessThatPaysYou then he need to end relationship. Not fu** others or rape her

  • @sandralee8131
    @sandralee8131 2 місяці тому +7

    He was there for her and her letting herself get to this point is her own fault I don’t blame the guy for this she needs to forgive him

  • @hkjm29
    @hkjm29 2 місяці тому +93

    He has been taking care of her and she calls it abuse. Yes it is wrong he cheated, but she abused this marriage for years when she was completely relying and throwing everything on her husband

    • @deebell8727
      @deebell8727 2 місяці тому

      She knew he was a cheater. She just pretended not to notice because she needed him to bathe and wipe her ass. No man will do that for as long as he did. Let's see how long this new man hangs around. She didn't look happy with him.

    • @wajeehasarwar
      @wajeehasarwar 2 місяці тому +6

      I definitely agree with you

    • @AyEwan
      @AyEwan 2 місяці тому +3

      True, I agree with you.

    • @rei09104
      @rei09104 2 місяці тому +16

      Bro who ask someone to have sex after a surgery?? You are insane

    • @sukoon279
      @sukoon279 2 місяці тому +4

      I disagree

  • @Windy_bee_material
    @Windy_bee_material Місяць тому +3

    She was ridiculous thinking anyone should endure the abuse if her irresponsibility . He should have left instead if cheating

  • @Deedeee_Isibor
    @Deedeee_Isibor 2 місяці тому +37

    I know what cheating means,this is what I will say Gilbert was patient,not all men can do the works he did,most would’ve ran

    • @SatiricalLizard
      @SatiricalLizard 2 місяці тому

      He pressured her for sex right after major surgery and ripped her stitches. And when he left he took all of her stuff.
      He is a bad person.

  • @jenkzkh
    @jenkzkh 2 місяці тому +11

    Watching this and cheering her on!! She deserved so much better and i hope she found it with her new guy!!! Proud of you!!!

  • @NyieasiahTaylor
    @NyieasiahTaylor 2 місяці тому +44

    i'm so proud of herr

  • @candygreYT
    @candygreYT 19 днів тому +1

    Who wouldn’t cheat on a person that can’t even show love and respect to themselves? She couldn’t even be intimate with him…

  • @user-le5ey3ul3b
    @user-le5ey3ul3b Місяць тому +5

    NOTHING justifies cheating, you really don’t like someone or are tired of a relationship? LEAVE. Don’t cheat, it’s disgusting.

  • @sneharaj6770
    @sneharaj6770 2 місяці тому +16

    Can u blame her husband for cheating. Dude he still took care of her for long in her worst time. Cheating is different but he can't be that bad if he stood with her

    • @GwenApMannanan
      @GwenApMannanan 2 місяці тому +1

      Clearly didn’t even watch the whole of this video muchless the rest of their story

    • @sneharaj6770
      @sneharaj6770 2 місяці тому +1

      @@GwenApMannanan i did but I don't see her that sweet either. U r clearly not getting what I meant so forget it

  • @natalielawyerchick
    @natalielawyerchick 19 днів тому +1

    Insisting on sex and then bursting her suture is abuse. No one is all good or all bad. Gilbert was her caretaker. That’s so hard to do, but that doesn’t mean he gets to put her life in danger

  • @KeepinUpWithKi
    @KeepinUpWithKi 2 місяці тому +76

    ARE YOU SERIOUS y tf would he ask her for sex after that major surgery ain’t no way I’m glad she left YES MAAM good for her

    • @pamelaholland404
      @pamelaholland404 Місяць тому

      Thank you! He was her caretaker, is that taking good care of someone, to demand intimacy after surgery ? He been messing around, why aren't you relieving yourself now, instead of expecting this from her right after surgery?😢

    • @KeepinUpWithKi
      @KeepinUpWithKi Місяць тому +1

      @@pamelaholland404 right it literally made her rip open ain’t no way.

  • @ankita19871
    @ankita19871 2 місяці тому +10

    I’ll never understand how people become that large.

    • @aleathacoleman6413
      @aleathacoleman6413 2 місяці тому +4

      Hormones, medicine, genetics, poor diet, lack of exercise, digestive problems, absorption issues, and other diseases affects a person's weight.

    • @ankita19871
      @ankita19871 2 місяці тому +1

      @@aleathacoleman6413 why don’t they take precautionary measures before it gets too late? They get very bulky and can’t move themselves without support. Most of them need to undergo surgery for losing that much mass.

    • @aleathacoleman6413
      @aleathacoleman6413 Місяць тому

      @@ankita19871 A lot of people take precautions like seeing a clinician for help with weight gain. Unfortunately, it may take years if not decades to get properly diagnosed. Medication adjustments may take months or years. They may not work. Changes in diet and including exercise may or may not help with weight loss. Everyone's experience with weight gain is different.

  • @jeanettewaverly2590
    @jeanettewaverly2590 2 місяці тому +35

    It was a ridiculous relationship from the get-go. But I’m proud of Lupe and her success.

  • @bebesimpleson9
    @bebesimpleson9 2 місяці тому +50

    Iono. I feel empathy for them both. He was candid about his sexual suppression (possibly not having other needs met by his wife) after caretaking for so long, and it drove him to drink and cheat. Meanwhile, she’s dealing with someone who broke a vow (through sickness and in health), however, as with any addiction, she also seems to have gotten to a point where her object of addiction was the center of her life. I’ve often thought that dealing with someone with an addiction feels like dealing with someone in an affair- it’s just not with a person. Addiction is hard on the addicted and extraordinarily hard on partners/anyone taking care of that person.
    Now did he and the people around her enable her by bringing her huge portions of food when she wanted, it appears so. Would I have left him? Absolutely. It was obvious that, just like her, he started getting in a bad place mentally, which was possibly directly related to coping with his life with her. He was wrong for all his self-indulgent actions in the end. Period.
    But all in all, how can I vilify just him? Both people’s choices and actions harmed one another. Both people had MAJOR issues with self control. Both became focused on how to get their physically needs met to the detriment of their health, physically, emotionally, and/or relationally. Both could no longer truly take care of one another- he couldn’t emotionally take care of her and she couldn’t physically (which led into emotionally) take care of him. Even in her talk about this next relationship she focused on how she herself is taken care of versus them taking care of each other. Iono.
    I hope both her and her ex are continuing to invest in their health and are on a path to emotional and mental healing. ❤️‍🩹

  • @Douggg1000
    @Douggg1000 2 місяці тому +57

    One of the things in the video that I saw Lupe do was exercising using movement of her arms with small dumb-bells -even though she was laying down. Which I think more weight loss candidates should constantly do movements activities even though they are laying down. Constant movement even if just waving their arms in circular patterns is better than laying there as a statue.
    It would also be more of a change of mental state because they would be doing something toward their goal which they can actually do in that direction. Later as the pounds come off, adhering to Dr. Now's diet plan, they will be able to stand and expand their exercising. But initially do what they can - i.e. movement of arms, hands.

    • @CrunchyGreenWater
      @CrunchyGreenWater 2 місяці тому +1

      I agree. And especially if they also have bad hips, knees, back pain, etc they can do exercises lying down or sitting and they can build up their stamina and strength and see positive results.

  • @alphawhiskey2922
    @alphawhiskey2922 2 місяці тому +47

    Wait, but did she get hip surgery?? I gotta know! 😭

  • @milansamaria8357
    @milansamaria8357 2 місяці тому +9

    That doctor was not foolin around he meant business.

  • @debral.fluker127
    @debral.fluker127 2 місяці тому +28

    Keep your head up. God bless you. You got this!!!

  • @carolgimenez5169
    @carolgimenez5169 2 місяці тому +30

    See theres someone for everybody ❤

  • @stephanyellis5216
    @stephanyellis5216 2 місяці тому +20

    The body is so amazing lupe plz take it slow in your new relationship

  • @lorig-ski
    @lorig-ski 2 місяці тому +31

    I'm sorry, but you need to NOT count on a man to take care of you!! Take months, even years to be happy with yourself - by yourself and take care of yourself! To quote the fabulous Ru Paul - " if you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else? Can I get an amen up in here?"

    • @celiabrown153
      @celiabrown153 2 місяці тому

      Obviously she has self love issues if she was 600 pounds. Some people need someone by them to help them through life and others are pk being by themselves. People deal with things differently.

    • @lorig-ski
      @lorig-ski 2 місяці тому +1

      She should be seeing a therapist, not looking to a man for love and validation. No good will ever come from looking to someone else to validate your self worth. What happens when this new guy cheats or decides to leave? She is right back to square one feeling unworthy of love. It's a dangerous headspace for someone to be in.​@celiabrown153

    • @celiabrown153
      @celiabrown153 2 місяці тому

      @lorig-ski and that's your opinion and your entitled to it. Everyone deals with things differently.

    • @cherylschneider6903
      @cherylschneider6903 2 місяці тому +2

      Makes you wonder why the new guy is there? How can these women get these men?.

    • @GreenGorgeousness
      @GreenGorgeousness Місяць тому +1

      Agreed to many hurt people throwing more hurt around. Some people deal in insidious ways.

  • @marielavela7952
    @marielavela7952 2 місяці тому +10

    She’s looking so much better now she can live life

  • @MsRadioButterfly
    @MsRadioButterfly 2 місяці тому +4

    She needs all the support she can get.❤ No matter who it is.

  • @Jayslay-b5u
    @Jayslay-b5u Місяць тому +1

    This is amazing
    She lost so much weight and she looks like an heathy and determined woman and fighter

  • @theriawilliams818
    @theriawilliams818 2 місяці тому +4

    She found another enabler and didn't do what she's supposed to do.

    • @ChrisTodd-2008
      @ChrisTodd-2008 15 днів тому

      You are right my friend, how are you doing?

  • @glitzygirl5443
    @glitzygirl5443 2 місяці тому +6

    You are such a super strong woman ❤ keep going! We’re rooting for YOU!! You take care of YOURSELF FIRST!! Love yourself ❤

  • @mzgizz
    @mzgizz 2 місяці тому +48

    I wonder how Lupe is doing now.

    • @anabatt1075
      @anabatt1075 2 місяці тому +2

      I heard she passed away. Idk if that's true.

    • @Howlersmum2
      @Howlersmum2 2 місяці тому

      She is alive. You can look up her progress on google. By the article I read, she’s doing really well now.

    • @blessingpeters-kj7vc
      @blessingpeters-kj7vc 2 місяці тому

      @@anabatt1075someone please confirm this

  • @Sifar333
    @Sifar333 2 місяці тому +19

    I am so proud of her she will have that hip surgery and shed the extra pounds soon enough.

  • @katherineking3174
    @katherineking3174 2 місяці тому +7

    God loves this women and us all

  • @nancybreaux9684
    @nancybreaux9684 2 місяці тому +116

    Her husband went through hell

    • @karenjohnson5634
      @karenjohnson5634 2 місяці тому +38

      I agree. He was sticking around and helping her. I can only imagine how frustrated he was in his life. It seems like he loved her to do all that caretaking for her, but it looks like he was miserable inside too. He was probably very lonely. Maybe they were just a bad combination. Hope they both are doing good now

    • @GwenApMannanan
      @GwenApMannanan 2 місяці тому +6

      You two clearly didn’t watch the whole video or know the whole story

    • @shesatthereandprayed4224
      @shesatthereandprayed4224 2 місяці тому +1

      Nobody us seeing his side ! He needed love and being cared too he is human but … he lost we cheated! I dont understand why is she dating again while still progressing?

    • @GwenApMannanan
      @GwenApMannanan 2 місяці тому +3

      @@shesatthereandprayed4224 you sound ridiculous. Enablers and cheating apologists be crazy. And btw he treated her like shit. You didn’t even learn their story and you’re making excuses for him. Grow up

    • @shesatthereandprayed4224
      @shesatthereandprayed4224 2 місяці тому +2

      @@GwenApMannanan i will let u be because u are one sided on your comment ! Nobody enabled nothing here it was just a suggestion to consider the trauma of others ! Anyways I am grown and well set up Madam ! Hugs and good night

  • @arca0478
    @arca0478 2 місяці тому +5

    Why would he give her gastric sleeve and not the bypass??

  • @nickidrew5113
    @nickidrew5113 2 місяці тому +65

    I don’t blame him. He was a caretaker, not her lover.

    • @OurGodlsGreater
      @OurGodlsGreater 2 місяці тому +14

      When you marry to someone you promise to be with them through sickness and in health. He was her husband, that was his job that HE signed up for. If he wanted someone else he should’ve decided that before marrying her, then being honest with her rather than cheating and mentally abusing her. God bless you tho🫶

    • @nickidrew5113
      @nickidrew5113 2 місяці тому +11

      @@OurGodlsGreater yeah I know but geesh she lied to him from the beginning. She catfished him too. The marriage was built upon a lie and he still cared for her. God bless you as well hun

    • @OurGodlsGreater
      @OurGodlsGreater 2 місяці тому +1

      @@nickidrew5113 She shouldn’t have lied to him and catfished him, but imo he shouldn’t have made that oath if he wasn’t willing to live up to it. Have a blessed day/night🤍🤍

    • @ShadowWolf357
      @ShadowWolf357 2 місяці тому +8

      "For better or worse, until ..."

    • @ashleychanelle9668
      @ashleychanelle9668 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@nickidrew5113 then he should break up with her, not cheat. Cheating is disgusting and dishonest, there is no excuse.

  • @silvialimeme3706
    @silvialimeme3706 Місяць тому +2

    What we must consider is that he might actually enjoy the state she was in. There is some kind of fetish related to this, I forgot the name. And her losing weight might have been the catalyst for the cheating. She also needs to take time on her own. Moving on that quickly is insane.

  • @nmartin5551
    @nmartin5551 2 місяці тому +14

    So Gilbert had to get laid right after that skin surgery? Dang. I can’t say that was right. EDIT: can’t make it to a single session of psychotherapy. Now she is getting in her own way.

  • @beatpirate8
    @beatpirate8 2 місяці тому +2

    she is making progress! dont let anyone slow you down!

  • @heykaykay_hd
    @heykaykay_hd 2 місяці тому +4

    Wow wow wow she did great!!! I hope she reaches her goal.

  • @barbgore3630
    @barbgore3630 2 місяці тому +3

    Good for you Lupe! That is an incredible miraculous journey. You are so brave. Extremely proud of you for staying with it. I pray you always keep in touch with your self care of love of self. Praise the Lord for carrying you through. 🙏🕊🕊🕊Blessings for your new rebirth🌹🙏🕊🕊🕊

  • @maureenpreslar1752
    @maureenpreslar1752 17 днів тому +1

    You got this girl. Push forward you look amazing ❤❤❤

  • @BrandyPowell77
    @BrandyPowell77 2 місяці тому +3

    My son’s ex wife has been married 5 times! Within 2 weeks of leaving my son and talking about getting back together, she was moving in with her ‘soul mate’. I assume he’ll be husband number 6. Ugh, some people just can’t be alone. And with all the loose skin and the weight loss, she probably felt if he told her that he cared, then she should jump into it head first.
    I’ve lost 200 pounds and the loose skin is driving me crazy. I couldn’t even imagine trying to date with it though.
    Thank God my husband is around for me. We’ve been together for 21 years.

  • @MiMi-rc1bv
    @MiMi-rc1bv 2 місяці тому +9

    I guess he was a feeder and she was his victim

  • @kimbarnett619
    @kimbarnett619 27 днів тому +1

    You are awesome, I just lost 60 pounds and I feel great hope you do too because we deserve to feel good about ourselves plus look great!

  • @joanmicali5596
    @joanmicali5596 Місяць тому

    this man is one In a million .such men are rare these days .

  • @LucyK.-fg9hf
    @LucyK.-fg9hf 2 місяці тому +2

    Please don’t come back with that man!!! You will have a beautiful future!

  • @susiemitchell1198
    @susiemitchell1198 2 місяці тому +2

    I don't know how the husband put up with Lupe as long as he did!!!!!

  • @evalynntinyari
    @evalynntinyari 2 місяці тому +2

    Really working hard not to gain weight it literally scares me.....not for my husband or anyone just for myself...I hope she heals and all others who are in such condition

  • @amyd2203
    @amyd2203 2 місяці тому +2

    That guy has every right to run.

  • @amyaspiringway3432
    @amyaspiringway3432 Місяць тому +1

    Relationship is to support eachother till end unconditionally when it's feel like toxic so need to move on bcz it will affect health she is such a strong woman I'm feeling proud how she struggle for weight loss finally she did it❤😊👍🏻

  • @christinemarie6648
    @christinemarie6648 2 місяці тому +5

    Once is a cheater is always one

  • @Williamsonandcompany
    @Williamsonandcompany 2 місяці тому +1

    Her first BF did a lot! Can’t blame him for cheating as to care for someone like this is way beyond a normal relationship.

  • @AnjelyneKharlynnai
    @AnjelyneKharlynnai 2 місяці тому +2

    How ungrateful I am for my good health

  • @christinemarie6648
    @christinemarie6648 2 місяці тому +1

    She needs to remember a number is a number, keep positive and keep going.

  • @jlynnd1616
    @jlynnd1616 2 місяці тому +1

    Wait a minute did she just say HE was holding HER back??

  • @flowerbirds2961
    @flowerbirds2961 2 місяці тому +1

    She has done INCREDIBLE despite what came her way. Not perfect (no one in life is) but she’s WINNING

  • @tiarasempire225
    @tiarasempire225 2 місяці тому +8

    Her husband literally did everything for her easy on him

  • @Natashasha2319
    @Natashasha2319 2 місяці тому +20

    If I gained so much weight that I couldn't take care of myself and completely depended on my man to provide and bathe me, I wouldn't be surprised if he did cheat. Honestly, I wouldn't blame him either. I wouldn't want him to be miserable because I am miserable. It takes a certain kind of person to care for someone who doesn't care about themselves. In reality, they both were bad for each other.

    • @daniellebroom9535
      @daniellebroom9535 2 місяці тому

      💯💯💯 my thoughts exactly. Yeah he cheated. But he also bathed her, wiped her ass, wheeled her ass wherever she needed to go because she was immobile…fuck I wouldn’t blame my husband. ‘Yeah he might’ve fucked you…but then he came home & wiped my ass and took care of all of my daily needs because I can’t take care of myself & if I can’t take care of myself and my needs then it’s highly likely I’m incapable of taking care of any of HIS needs either but yet here he is anyways.” Maybe my mentality is just fucked up? But hell he does all that shit for her and then it’s a lose/lose. He cheats - he’s an asshole so he pressures HER for sex - he’s an asshole. The timing was inconsiderate and fucked her stitches up and she had to go to the ER for it…bet she probably wishes he would’ve just got it from somewhere else and then came back home and resumed caretaker role instead but not too many people would admit to thinking that because they like playing the victim roll instead (“poor me, he had sex with another woman. The fact that I can’t/wont/just don’t want to help him bust a nut while he is literally taking care of a 600lb baby essentially that he calls his wife is irrelevant though.”) smh I hope her new dude knows he’s just the rebound caretaker so I wouldn’t get TOO invested in that new ‘1 month long yet moved in already because we’re ‘in love’ relationship” FFS I would just be flattered that even after seeing the absolute WORST parts of me, my body, and living like t
      hat every single day that my husband could even get it up to fuck me at all in the first place. And WANTED to, not just stomach it because *I* wanted sex lol.

  • @MrsDianaG
    @MrsDianaG 2 місяці тому +13

    Keep your chin up, Lupe! Please focus on your relationship with YOURSELF before you commit to another serious relationship with someone else! Friends are good, but you’ve got to find peace within your own self first. My two cents, sending you my warmest wishes.

  • @R3cuzican
    @R3cuzican 2 місяці тому +3

    A new full time caregiver???
    Does she still require full time care??? Who is the bread winner???

  • @fashionista.talenista96
    @fashionista.talenista96 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm so glad she got rid of him.

  • @ellyzabeth8008
    @ellyzabeth8008 2 місяці тому +1

    I don't blame her husband was cheating on her that was her fault. She didn't take care of her self until that heavy.

  • @salomenjeri5627
    @salomenjeri5627 2 місяці тому +1

    I hope she heals and most importantly not relapse back into her previous weight. Imo, both she and her new partner need to adopt a healthy and sustainable lifestyle

  • @enigma7395
    @enigma7395 2 місяці тому +3

    The women is ungrateful
    That guy has seen the worst of her no one would care for her like he did
    And ofcourse when u take care of someone for that period it would make anyone exhausted
    Nvm wish he gets a good wife she gets a good husband

  • @googleuser2426
    @googleuser2426 Місяць тому +2

    Family members have a bigger part in these peoples lives more than they will ever admit. Family enables her and keeps feeding her crap. Make her get up and make her own food.
    I have 0 sympathy for these people. They want someone to wait on them hand and foot. Give me a break.

  • @br-dj2ti
    @br-dj2ti 2 місяці тому +8

    You been with this new guy for a month and you moved in with him already come on now honey you can't be doing that stuff focus on yourself nobody else right now

  • @ginaparr9429
    @ginaparr9429 2 місяці тому +7

    You are looking great Lupe Fantastic Job

  • @jordanvillapando5416
    @jordanvillapando5416 2 місяці тому +4

    Lupe u must understand ur husband he gave his entire life in taking care of u if he did something wrong you must understand it

    • @Potato-me4wu
      @Potato-me4wu 2 місяці тому

      Cheating is still wrong

    • @beckahalvarez702
      @beckahalvarez702 Місяць тому

      ​@@Potato-me4wu definitely it's wrong, but IDK, if I had to wipe my hypothetical man's a$s, bathe him in bed constantly and he had that size, eventually I guess he wouldn't be the dashing handsome guy I fell in love with, yes, you promised for better or worse, but the flames switch turns off forever with such sights 😅

  • @severejay
    @severejay Місяць тому +2

    Well I really don’t understand why she allowed herself to get that big, the thing is food is good I cannot deny that fact but it’s only meant to be consumed when we are hungry but I hope she get the help she needs

  • @НаталіяКапуста-ю1ш
    @НаталіяКапуста-ю1ш 2 місяці тому +5

    I have never seen such a huge person 😮. It's must be very hard and dangerous.

  • @tfpauliina
    @tfpauliina 2 місяці тому +5

    She got a free nurse. Eye-candy.
    He was a bum.

  • @christinemarie6648
    @christinemarie6648 2 місяці тому +1

    Don't blame other people when they are no longer part of your life, don't talk to others that talk or tell you about the people you are done with.

  • @renaebailey82
    @renaebailey82 2 місяці тому +9

    Feel sorry for Lupe

  • @Realstepa
    @Realstepa 20 днів тому

    I have been single for 2 years now
    I want a serious relationship
    A God fearing person
    That's lovely ❤

  • @maryannjesuino9882
    @maryannjesuino9882 2 місяці тому +2

    How many men would even stay as long as he did??

  • @shanee585
    @shanee585 2 місяці тому +4

    A good, supportive partner will make a world of difference!!! Happy for you sweetheart!!! ❤

  • @Ianna-i2k
    @Ianna-i2k 15 днів тому

    Can't completely blame the man some things are hard to do and not everyone is strong , at least he was there when she needed him most that's what is important