What about your doctor? What about your teacher/professor? What about your dentist? What about your lawyer? What about your vet? What about your therapist? Those are all people with expert knowledge on their subject, far better than most people, but not everyone wants to be them. I don't want to be my doctor but I'd listen to their advice.
@@slingboi you're missing the point. If you aspire to be a doctor then yeah take advice from your doctor if you think he's good at the profession. but if your doctor has a messed up love life you probably shouldn't take a relationship advice from him. That's where steve was going with it all!
A devoted man devotes not just himself but his resources and time to make devotion work. If he's not comfortable with those or himself, devotion won't work.
god, what’s with the pressure? Since when love has to be pressed? There are two types of men : the indecisive ones and the MEN who already know THE woman of his life. Without pressures !
"Never take relationship advice from someone whose status is worse than yours, and just because they are in a relationship doesn't mean it's a good one."
Right, once there was a family friend telling me to get married and that they found a nice guy for me and blah blah blah. And this family friend, the uncle and aunt were the worst couple on planet earth that I've seen, just because they didn't get a divorce doesn't mean their marriage was perfect. They were in an abusive marriage and just look at the guts they had to tell me to get married, I rejected their offer and told them I can find my own partner and don't need anyone's help
Good show good topic that's the best thing you said in the show why are your friends in this thank you for sharing have a wonderful weekend Happy Father's day God bless stay happy
"Quit taking advice from people you don't want to be like" Why do I feel like I don't like this quotation? Sometimes, those who have had a bad life give the best advice because they have had the Experience.... Nobody has it all, even those you want to be like can give misleading advice(unintentionally) I believe in praying and asking the holy spirit to put in your heart the right things to do. Shalom!
Olis Becky I see your point, but this still holds true. If someone had a lot of bad experiences, you’re probably going to do the opposite of what they did.
Wow where did you get that idea?? You sound rather stupid!! To judge someone for giving an ultimatum is not desperate! Without knowing their full circumstances! It coz someone had enough!! Are you really that dumb?
The woman said that she got mixed messages. Often when women are in this situation the guys are saying one thing but their behaviour is saying another. It's confusing and I think that was clear from what she was saying. I'm in a very similar situation right now. The guy says he wants me but has done nothing to forward the relationship. We have never been intimate with each other. He has had a number of serious issues come up. I don't know if they're excuses or if I should keep waiting for him to sort himself out. And if I choose to wait I have no idea how long that will be as he has not told me how long it will take.
There is a difference between ultimatum's and setting boundaries. Although setting a boundary may resemble an ultimatum, the intention and energy around it are different. Ultiimatum's tend to demand someone do something or change, boundaries give the person information around what your preferences, limits and deal breakers are and then releases them to make decisions regarding whether you are in alignment with one another or if they are able to honour your boundaries in order to make it work. Steve, you give great advice. Always an ah ha moment with you. Thanks.
The idea that if ur single then u must be jealous of people in relationships and thus give bad advice is totally wrong! Sorry Steve I disagree with you on this one. Many singles are just happy being singles and enjoying life to the fullest, and many couples are just miserable and wish their lives would be over. A good sincere advice has nothing to do with your martial status!
I agree with you 100%. I was against marriage since I was about 8 years of age, when I looked at the marriages of the members of both my mother's, and, father's families. I wanted children, and, in my mother's, and, father's mother's families, one married before bearing them. At 22, I was diagnosed with a spinal condition which made me decide not to do so, therefore, I didn't need to marry. I'm 72 years of age, and, have never regretted my decisions.
I talk to my friends to vent not for advice lol theyre just as screwed up as me lol and thats exactly what I tell them when they ask me for advice I say I can gv u my opinion but ur asking the wrong one lol
I DON'T ask my peers for advice. It makes more sense to ask a more experienced person for advice. They're more wise 🙏 (Please don't click on my face. I'm a germaphobe.)
Plus you may want different things from the relationship then they have in theirs. For me I want someone that has the same passion for travelling as I do,if not then I'd rather go solo.
First off... She needs to step back from her friends. More than likely, they see the potential and want to bust things up so they can get on your man. Secondly, if he is not a fit, he just isn’t a fit. Find somebody more ready for what you want or be patient with him and see if he just needs time. Or you could use this time to get yourself together too cuz if he is your dude and he is bettering himself, you should be doing the same.
Ultimatums aren’t good for men who aren’t together yet! You can’t change people!! What’s the rush? The guy’s not ready! Women are always in a rush when they love someone who’s not at their level!! The guy is too young for a relationship.
I'm sure she put out and now wanna lock him down. I was in a similar situation where I was talking to a 34 yo (I'm 25) and it had been 7 weeks of us doing this "playing house" thing where he would do boyfriend stuff and tell me he wants to be with me, but when I brought up him actually verbalizing that I'm his girlfriend, he wouldn't do it. Had all these rules about the amount of dates we needed to go on and etc. He then lost his job and made that the NRXT excuse why he wouldn't verbalize it...and I thought....I'm young, sacrificing parts of myself to make space for him and he couldn't even say "girlfriend" to make me feel secure... but could sleep with me... I was like I shouldn't have to beg somebody so I left.
Giving ultimatums saves you time and iys you being transparent with what you want. Its wisdom. Just leaving relationships when you dont get what you want is immature to me. Ultimatums is you at least trying to make it work. If it doesn't go in your favor you still maintain your peace.
Grant Franchey yah. My girl gave ma an ultimatum even though I was in college to be an engineer. Long story short she left me, I graduated, have a good job and she’s working minimum wage. Girls can be so impatient sometimes
No matter how old she is, she can't go around giving ultimatums to her college boyfriend. The next thing, he marries her, can't finish college, they have 1 or 2 kids and are facing Judge Lynn Toler all because she wouldn't let the guy get his acts together and ready for settling down. OR ultimately, he chooses to ditch her, then what? Ultimatums at any age doesn't bode well for a relationship.
Steve’s advice so make sense to me. I had a bff that divorced & have daughters. She kept insisting her advice to me on couples relationship & children education. I have 2 sons In some point sometimes I think she wants me to divorced too
I was with Steve until he said he's the same guy. He's 28. He didn't ask if he's going for a master's degree, didn't ask if he had a job and he was in school, just said he's in college so he's the same guy and doesn't have it together. That's not how it works.
Just ask if he just wants to be friends, or if he was interested in becoming more. If he says more then date; If not keep fishing. But keep it light, and friendly when asking.
A guy ain't buyin' the cow, if he gets the milk for free. But an ultimatum ain't gonna work! She just needs to quit playing around and putting out for him. Then HE can make a choice: do I want to do the best I can to have her forever, or don't I?
I was given an ultimatum before and there's 2 response a man can give both of which don't benefit the woman. Mine was stop watching adult videos or shed leave. I took the first solution to that and it was keep watching and lie to her saying I stopped. Since the other option was to just say bye I didn't like that one.
John Rawlings single is good for a while get to do whatever you want and don’t have to check in with anybody but Sharing your life with someone you like and they feel the same way is pretty awesome too.
so what you trying to say Steve is that we as woman should be stupid and wait on a man to get his self together while he reap the wife benefits and let him have his cake and eat it to while we sit back and be his cheer leader then he leave us after he gotten his self together and we're "the one" that got away. is that what you saying if not please explain to me.
Exactly! I couldn't have said it better. "Husband benefits" are for husbands, and "wife benefits" for wives. Too many people areout here playing house in situationships for several years and do *everything* together. Having sex regularly, renting property together, etc. Idk, people need to get back to the old fashioned way bc this modern way clearly isn't working 🤦
Hey, Not every guy goes to college/trade school at the same time. Some are in the military first. Some rather work and figure out qhat they want first and then they go to college. There is NO SHAME in any of the above.
I am a man and I don't like that advice from steve. sometimes he treats you well sometime he don't, that man clearly doesn't want her. he's just playing her. Don't wait on him, move on.
@@shawna8134 no she's not 50 for sure. She does have ridicules hair cut with cheap make up and clothing but I as a woman I can assure you that she's 35-40 this age.
eva800 either way she’s still old and need to be going for people her age range. She sounds really desperate to be going for a 28 year old still in college
Why can't she just asked him how he feels about her? She sounded insecure and a little desperate though. It could be that they're just hanging out and having sex and that's all it is. Or maybe she's afraid to ask him how he feels about her because she is afraid of the answer. But he's not ready for a serious relationship. Sounds like he's very busy in grad school so she need to leave him alone until he complete his studies. I remembered when I was in law school I didn't have time for relationships. Classes, studying, writing papers, making outlines and internships took up all my time!
Ultimatums are usually a bad idea. If you ask the right questions and you’re honest with yourself and what you want, you won’t need to give an ultimatum. Steve’s right, just ask him!
“Quit taking advice from people you don’t wanna be”
✔️💯
That was good
What about your doctor?
What about your teacher/professor?
What about your dentist?
What about your lawyer?
What about your vet?
What about your therapist?
Those are all people with expert knowledge on their subject, far better than most people, but not everyone wants to be them.
I don't want to be my doctor but I'd listen to their advice.
Well i declare
@@slingboi lol you missed the point - but good job of over thinking things :)
@@slingboi you're missing the point. If you aspire to be a doctor then yeah take advice from your doctor if you think he's good at the profession. but if your doctor has a messed up love life you probably shouldn't take a relationship advice from him. That's where steve was going with it all!
Can't complete my day without uncle Steve.
Yes...I agree with you. When the show ends, I don't know what I'll look forward to watching.
Nina Star I agree with you young lady, I'm not gonna watch no god damn Kelly
@@Mohammedaagh LOOOOL. I agree.
@@Mohammedaagh please give her a chance too.
His show is going to be cancelled soon so you might need to find a way to complete your day.
Girl don’t do anything, if he wanted you he’d let you know. When a man wants you, you won’t be confused
👏👏 Yes, it will be obvious
Right!
Yessss. Its rly that simple.
Exactly 👋🏻
Most will just take the free milk, lf you are serious and suggest a prenup it would increase her odds of him considering a big thing like marriage.
Don't GIVE an ultimatum just live it. If he don't do what he say he'll do then move on.
THAT PART
Awesome. Live with the one you want what you want with them. If they like it, they'll live it with you and you won't have to worry about an ultimatum.
He in college? She look like she in her 40’s
Yeah...might be why
Maybe he’s in grad school
@@sonrisaverdean757 she said he is 28 year old
She looks atleast 40
The wall is undefeated
The last thing that’s on a college students mind is falling in love. Move on and date someone your own age
Rogue Sniper Gaming I’m in college & I think about love
Not true. You can find love in college.
She probably has nothing more than a high school education and can not relate.
A devoted man devotes not just himself but his resources and time to make devotion work. If he's not comfortable with those or himself, devotion won't work.
Ultimatums usually don't work lol... Value yourself enough to know what you deserve 😊✨
god, what’s with the pressure? Since when love has to be pressed? There are two types of men : the indecisive ones and the MEN who already know THE woman of his life. Without pressures !
Exactly she is probably his lilly pad 😉
"Never take relationship advice from someone whose status is worse than yours, and just because they are in a relationship doesn't mean it's a good one."
Right, once there was a family friend telling me to get married and that they found a nice guy for me and blah blah blah. And this family friend, the uncle and aunt were the worst couple on planet earth that I've seen, just because they didn't get a divorce doesn't mean their marriage was perfect. They were in an abusive marriage and just look at the guts they had to tell me to get married, I rejected their offer and told them I can find my own partner and don't need anyone's help
Lol I wanted Steve to ask her how old she was!
Why that matters!!!! Look at jlo , shakira, britney they are all hanging out with young guys that are like 10 years younger...
Lmao
@@jburckhardt what wrong with marrying a younger man?
Steve’s father sounds like he had a wealth of knowledge.
Wisdom
"Quit taking advice from people you don't want to be..." Best advice ever!
Good question Steve,"are your friends in this?",girl use your intuition
I could listen to Steve talk all day about how men operate.
Wise words from your old man Steve!
Quit taking advice from people you don’t want to be…..you have no idea how much I needed to hear that!
Nice one Steve, "stop taking advice from people you don't want to be" l love your shows...
STEVE HARVEY IS A WHOLE MOOD I SWEAR
Good show good topic that's the best thing you said in the show why are your friends in this thank you for sharing have a wonderful weekend Happy Father's day God bless stay happy
Ultimatum is the ultimate form of weakness
zero you got me with that hair image 😆
The rule is "you don't give ultimatums and you don't accept ultimatums." It's not that complicated.ijs
"Quit taking advice from people you don't want to be like"
Why do I feel like I don't like this quotation?
Sometimes, those who have had a bad life give the best advice because they have had the Experience....
Nobody has it all, even those you want to be like can give misleading advice(unintentionally)
I believe in praying and asking the holy spirit to put in your heart the right things to do.
Shalom!
Olis Becky I see your point, but this still holds true. If someone had a lot of bad experiences, you’re probably going to do the opposite of what they did.
Amen! We think the same 😊
Quit taking advice from people you don’t wanna be ✅✅✅
Mr Harvey. Your father gave you some good advice.
Misery loves company. Woman live your life, use your intuition. Don’t seek advice from friends. The guy is in college and 28. See it for what it is.
Talk to the guy n see what he got for you know his mind before you fall again 😉 cuz what has happened before can happen again.
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RoyalMasterpiece 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
An ultimatum is a desperate move for me. Let someone make their own decision.
C B this is the best comment I've read! You're absolutely right! I'm not begging nobody!
Wow where did you get that idea?? You sound rather stupid!! To judge someone for giving an ultimatum is not desperate! Without knowing their full circumstances! It coz someone had enough!! Are you really that dumb?
Just ask him how he feels simple. All these ask Steve questions go to show that these women are terrible communicators
they're crazy
I think they don't ask because they are afraid of the answer.
The woman said that she got mixed messages. Often when women are in this situation the guys are saying one thing but their behaviour is saying another. It's confusing and I think that was clear from what she was saying. I'm in a very similar situation right now. The guy says he wants me but has done nothing to forward the relationship. We have never been intimate with each other. He has had a number of serious issues come up. I don't know if they're excuses or if I should keep waiting for him to sort himself out. And if I choose to wait I have no idea how long that will be as he has not told me how long it will take.
She just afraid that he meet another Girl & Fall for her.. She wants him for herself
That ain't love then,most likly if they end up marrying they'll end up getting divorced.shes gotta have better esteem then that.
ann l 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻bravo! Thats it, that's just lust, you can tell
She looks middle aged. He's 28 and in school. What did she expect?
J Q 😎
SWEETIE...STEVE SHOULD HAVE ASKED HER AGE....
GIRLFRIEND LOOK 35++ SMDH
J Q 😎
INTERESTING....SOUR PUSS IT DOESN'T TAKE MUCH TO MAKE YOU ANGRY 💃BYE🏃
@@phillipswatson3452 Damn, you mad cause a man doesn't want some dude calling him "sweetie"? You're weird af, lol. Foh, creepy cry baby. 👶🏼🍼🍼😂😂
J Q 😎
YOU AGAIN...DON'T ASSUME SOMEONE GENDER/NAME BEHIND A KEYBOARD... DUMBER THEN DUMB....
MILK🍼🍼& COOKIES 🍪🍪😜LOL😝
@@phillipswatson3452 creep
Hmmm its so many people I'll stop talking to based on that advice. Learnt so much from my Uncle Steve
Good advise Mr. Steve
There is a difference between ultimatum's and setting boundaries. Although setting a boundary may resemble an ultimatum, the intention and energy around it are different. Ultiimatum's tend to demand someone do something or change, boundaries give the person information around what your preferences, limits and deal breakers are and then releases them to make decisions regarding whether you are in alignment with one another or if they are able to honour your boundaries in order to make it work. Steve, you give great advice. Always an ah ha moment with you. Thanks.
best words ever said
"I don't take advice from people less successful than me."
-Kanye West
That was freaking huge...stop taking advice from people you dont wanna be...
Marinating on that one.
Steve's current wife gave him an ultimatum... and he handed her his card....
What do you mean "his card"??? Huh?
@@bluebellcrushedvelvet Playa card G
Because Marjorie was who Steve wanted. If you're not the girl he wants to be with, then you won't like his response to your ultimatum.
@@ko4miles speak English dude!! If you can't write in full sentences than don't even bother!
Your intuition don't lie listen to it.
That’s exactly what I believe in since i was a child. I’m not taking advices from anyone who I don’t want to be like
Steve’s father must’ve been great
I agree !
The idea that if ur single then u must be jealous of people in relationships and thus give bad advice is totally wrong! Sorry Steve I disagree with you on this one. Many singles are just happy being singles and enjoying life to the fullest, and many couples are just miserable and wish their lives would be over. A good sincere advice has nothing to do with your martial status!
Summer A thank you agree
Summer A, your comment is gold!
Thank you everyone 😊
I agree with you 100%. I was against marriage since I was about 8 years of age, when I looked at the marriages of the members of both my mother's, and, father's families. I wanted children, and, in my mother's, and, father's mother's families, one married before bearing them. At 22, I was diagnosed with a spinal condition which made me decide not to do so, therefore, I didn't need to marry. I'm 72 years of age, and, have never regretted my decisions.
I talk to my friends to vent not for advice lol theyre just as screwed up as me lol and thats exactly what I tell them when they ask me for advice I say I can gv u my opinion but ur asking the wrong one lol
I DON'T ask my peers for advice. It makes more sense to ask a more experienced person for advice. They're more wise 🙏 (Please don't click on my face. I'm a germaphobe.)
Plus you may want different things from the relationship then they have in theirs. For me I want someone that has the same passion for travelling as I do,if not then I'd rather go solo.
Girl u deserve better. If he hasn't changed,he aint going to change for u
Uncle stebiieee🤣 serving facts
First off... She needs to step back from her friends. More than likely, they see the potential and want to bust things up so they can get on your man. Secondly, if he is not a fit, he just isn’t a fit. Find somebody more ready for what you want or be patient with him and see if he just needs time. Or you could use this time to get yourself together too cuz if he is your dude and he is bettering himself, you should be doing the same.
Steve you are exactly right..... don’t talk to anybody you don’t want to be. 🙂 Don’t talk to to many people myself. 🙂
Great advice Steve!
Let's hope u ll continue the show
As a woman, I was given an ultimatum and as I response, I left. Ultimatums suck for both people involved.
You made the correct move, well done.
Her hair is gorgeous
Good advice‼️‼️‼️‼️
" Quit taking advice from people you don't wanna be. "
Ultimatums aren’t good for men who aren’t together yet! You can’t change people!! What’s the rush? The guy’s not ready! Women are always in a rush when they love someone who’s not at their level!! The guy is too young for a relationship.
How you mean he to young, he is an adult.
Baby girl I'll give you whatever it is you want GODAMM!
Steve says; "Quit taking advice from people, you don't want to be". I must not take advice from my parents because I don't want to be like them 💯
why wanna be like someone else, you would want to be the best you.
Great message 💖 very true
Thankz uncle steve
I'm sure she put out and now wanna lock him down. I was in a similar situation where I was talking to a 34 yo (I'm 25) and it had been 7 weeks of us doing this "playing house" thing where he would do boyfriend stuff and tell me he wants to be with me, but when I brought up him actually verbalizing that I'm his girlfriend, he wouldn't do it. Had all these rules about the amount of dates we needed to go on and etc. He then lost his job and made that the NRXT excuse why he wouldn't verbalize it...and I thought....I'm young, sacrificing parts of myself to make space for him and he couldn't even say "girlfriend" to make me feel secure... but could sleep with me... I was like I shouldn't have to beg somebody so I left.
Great advice
Great advice, Steve! What I’m wondering is what’s going on with the lady’s sweater at 2:12 though...? 🤔
Christina I’m wondering what’s going on with you? Hey girl 😎
Alex Trujillo haha! Hey there! 👋🏼
Finally the comment I was hoping somebody made 😂 Wondering that too...
Giving ultimatums saves you time and iys you being transparent with what you want. Its wisdom. Just leaving relationships when you dont get what you want is immature to me. Ultimatums is you at least trying to make it work. If it doesn't go in your favor you still maintain your peace.
The first mistake was asking her girlfriends.
You give me an ultimatum I'll automatically go the opposite
When Steve asked why are her friends in this a woman (I'm sure black) hollered out "AMEN!" LOL! 😁
College boy..... sit down
lol
An ultimatum is NEVER the answer!!!! Just imagine if the role was reversed and a guy gave a woman an ultimatum...woman would have an uproar!!! 😂😂
Grant Franchey yah. My girl gave ma an ultimatum even though I was in college to be an engineer. Long story short she left me, I graduated, have a good job and she’s working minimum wage. Girls can be so impatient sometimes
His 28 ....how old is she !!!
Dang l was looking for someone else to also say this 😂😂
No matter how old she is, she can't go around giving ultimatums to her college boyfriend. The next thing, he marries her, can't finish college, they have 1 or 2 kids and are facing Judge Lynn Toler all because she wouldn't let the guy get his acts together and ready for settling down. OR ultimately, he chooses to ditch her, then what? Ultimatums at any age doesn't bode well for a relationship.
Steve’s advice so make sense to me. I had a bff that divorced & have daughters. She kept insisting her advice to me on couples relationship & children education. I have 2 sons
In some point sometimes I think she wants me to divorced too
How you know the friend don’t got nobody. Maybe they been through it
I was with Steve until he said he's the same guy. He's 28. He didn't ask if he's going for a master's degree, didn't ask if he had a job and he was in school, just said he's in college so he's the same guy and doesn't have it together. That's not how it works.
She might be a little needy...
You can give me an ultimatum, you just don't like the answer 😂😂
Just ask if he just wants to be friends, or if he was interested in becoming more. If he says more then date; If not keep fishing. But keep it light, and friendly when asking.
Get out lady!
A guy ain't buyin' the cow, if he gets the milk for free. But an ultimatum ain't gonna work! She just needs to quit playing around and putting out for him.
Then HE can make a choice: do I want to do the best I can to have her forever, or don't I?
Quit taking advice from people that you don't want to be.
I am a woman and I can tell you I don't respond well to ultimatums or bullying myself.
***I love you Steve! PLZZ Go on Dancing With The Stars bc U KNOW HOW TO MOVE, Anybody with me??!!!***
True
Love it!!!
I was given an ultimatum before and there's 2 response a man can give both of which don't benefit the woman.
Mine was stop watching adult videos or shed leave. I took the first solution to that and it was keep watching and lie to her saying I stopped. Since the other option was to just say bye I didn't like that one.
So you chose to lie and be dishonest? Your message sounds like you're bragging about having a lack of integrity.
Ladies I have an ultimatum. Allow me to live the single life as I happily have been for two decades. :)
John Rawlings single is good for a while get to do whatever you want and don’t have to check in with anybody but
Sharing your life with someone you like and they feel the same way is pretty awesome too.
_Can’t ask for advice about togetherness who is always been single._
No just be friends
so what you trying to say Steve is that we as woman should be stupid and wait on a man to get his self together while he reap the wife benefits and let him have his cake and eat it to while we sit back and be his cheer leader then he leave us after he gotten his self together and we're "the one" that got away. is that what you saying if not please explain to me.
Exactly! I couldn't have said it better. "Husband benefits" are for husbands, and "wife benefits" for wives. Too many people areout here playing house in situationships for several years and do *everything* together. Having sex regularly, renting property together, etc. Idk, people need to get back to the old fashioned way bc this modern way clearly isn't working 🤦
“Quit taking advice from ppl you don’t wanna be”... In other words... Only take my own advice
Steve harvey
Hey, Not every guy goes to college/trade school at the same time. Some are in the military first. Some rather work and figure out qhat they want first and then they go to college. There is NO SHAME in any of the above.
I am a man and I don't like that advice from steve. sometimes he treats you well sometime he don't, that man clearly doesn't want her. he's just playing her. Don't wait on him, move on.
Gonna have to disagree with the point steve is making about the guy not having it together while the is in college.
Hey
Coaches don't play😴
Quit taking advice from people you don't want to be. That's a word!!
How old is this lady?
I thought the same thing. 33,34,35 ............?
47?
She gotta at least be 50.😂 tryna get with a 28 year old. These women are getting desperate. Her clocks ticking lol
@@shawna8134 no she's not 50 for sure. She does have ridicules hair cut with cheap make up and clothing but I as a woman I can assure you that she's 35-40 this age.
eva800 either way she’s still old and need to be going for people her age range. She sounds really desperate to be going for a 28 year old still in college
Why can't she just asked him how he feels about her? She sounded insecure and a little desperate though. It could be that they're just hanging out and having sex and that's all it is. Or maybe she's afraid to ask him how he feels about her because she is afraid of the answer. But he's not ready for a serious relationship. Sounds like he's very busy in grad school so she need to leave him alone until he complete his studies. I remembered when I was in law school I didn't have time for relationships. Classes, studying, writing papers, making outlines and internships took up all my time!
Don't wait on no man. He threw out enough signs and if his actions didn't set the tone for where she stands with him ? Good luck to her.
Not all college people are young!
Ultimatums are usually a bad idea. If you ask the right questions and you’re honest with yourself and what you want, you won’t need to give an ultimatum. Steve’s right, just ask him!