How to make yourself into narcissist repellant
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
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At my age, that’s all that’s left in the dating pool..narcissists..so, by default, I’ll gladly remain single..when I was younger, loneliness left me so vulnerable to these evil mentally depraved things..
Get a pet.
"I didn't know this was a fight."
*_"That's why you're LOSING."_* James to Nefariomous "Nefarious" Movie circa era 2023
When I went to therapy for an abusive relationship, I started to recognise friends with strong NPD traits too. Avoided two since with no guilt.
It's way more common than the 'official' figures.
Feels like in my area its 80% of people
Good 🍀
YES! It’s like that loss of innocence when you realize you are looking into the face of pure evil, and you never thought someone could do that to someone else, especially someone who is supposed to love you.
Thank you Danielle!!
You are helping me with self growth ,maybe? I mean watching these videos feels very helpful and guidance in a positive direction.
Good point!
After a 28 year relationship/marriage with a narcissist, I’m finding it really easy to weed people out. It almost like a 6th sense.
This narcissistic relationship dried me out, not wanting to mend with anybody else. Unable to unfreeze my broken heart forever. I'm officially declaring myself a zombie
Unchain your heart
I thought the same, but that would mean giving more power to the narcissist even if he's not here. Heal the best you can and don't stop living just because you were abused
I hope it will pass if you are getting proper guidance and have support group
Thank you
I do started recognise those behaviours
Thank you for your knowledge.And by the way,I think you are stunning ❤love and light.
The answer is absolutely no. You don’t have to start dating again if you don’t want to.
That's exactly right and I couldn't even imagine going on a date, let alone having another relationship, which is much easier now that I'm older!
I might change my mind after I've sorted out huge issues in my life, but might not either. 😊
I swear we know the same person.
They all get the same software updates.
I was married for 8.5 years and got discarded out of the blue!
The No Closure!
Smear Campaign!
2 months of anxiety, depression, and no answers!
Then I saw a counselor, and they determined from my marriage details start to the discard,, I was married to a Narcissist Wife!
OMG! SO SHOCKED AND DEVASTATED, to learn exactly what I was going through, there is a name for My particular pain and suffering.
I was diagnosed with Narcissist Abuse PTSD.
Now I'm in therapy and I am not dating at all nor do I want to!
After what I went through and still going through, I really don't see myself being able to be with anyone the rest of my life. Narcissism has really damaged me.
Please, don't loose hope
And loose trust in yourself
I'm glad i walked away, exhausted and confused and bruised in confidence though.. now lonely but everything better than where i was with this person, wow !
its why im not in the mood to date or make friends..focus on money, starting my business and fun adventures
the tempur tantrums are so common and annoying
Amen!! I appreciate your kind words of encouragement at this time given iam a survivor of this in family relationships/ dating im Finally seeing My worth it almost only took 37 years but here iam .
Thank you Danielle❤
I've noticed a secret in long-term aftercare when dealing with personality-disordered individuals. I find that if you're obnoxious enough towards them any time you might unintentionally interact with them, if you're intentionally obtusely hurtful towards them anytime your paths even peripherally cross, and if you keep them red-line pissed-off at you, it short-circuits their psychological process. Just...just hear me out. If you don't give in to your tendency to be all shiny nice-guy once the drama's all over and the screaming has stopped, if you don't go for those "reasonable adult" brownie points, you can actually form a boundary using their anger as a pen to keep them in. If you keep it greasy, bloody and fresh, this will prevent their hard drive from performing its usual catalytic conversion of taking you and any memories of you through the "Everlasting Happy Ending Machine" defrag and thusly keep them stuck with viewing you as "all black," rendering them incapable of re-idolizing you as being "all white" again when they want to return to you and siphon your resources. This also serves to circumvent any future hoovering activity.
No you don't need to keep dating. Get a Cat or Dog, and be happy single.
Ah ah. You need dating to feel the warm embrace...
Ask them to tell you the truth?
Ive read recently that 1 in 6 people are narcissists
Anybody could be taken advantage of and you should .
My ex justified discarding my kids and I because she left for another woman is that still considered narcissistic behaviour ??we were together for 26 years
you DON’T, HAVE TO.. continue dating… you can… GO✨SINGLE !!!!!!!