jxsilicon9 I had a ex I dated for two weeks write me a email a few years ago when he could of just FB message me. He wrote 20 pages of why I shouldn’t of broken up with him, and my reason was bullshit. I don’t know how he found my email address. The reason why I broke up with him is because he lied about his age. I just turned 19 and he was 37/38, he looked young and told me he was somewhere in his mid 20’s and I believed him till I seen his ID
That's because we want good grades. He probably split verbs, had run on sentences and everything else. The way it flows for us isn't necessarily what teachers want. 😊
He honestly could have understood that she was drunk, left her house after she made the first pass, and offered to check on her the next day. Even after the second pass, he still could have left the house and talked to her about it once she was sober, especially if they were so-called friends. Never said she groped him, never said she forced or coerced him. I'd fully understand the sexual assault claim if she'd actually assaulted him. Even then, it STILL wouldn't justify murder.
Exactly. That's what I'd say to a woman. She should have understood that he was drunk. She should have left the house and offered to check on him the next day. She could have talked to him when he was sober........... Come on man, sexual assault is sexual assault. Why is it a pass when it's men?
@@teem5642 @Tee M Yes, sexual assault is sexual assault regardless of the genders of the victim and assailant. But specifically regarding this situation, these people were allegedly friends, he was inside of her home, she was drunk and he was sober, she tried to kiss him, and he dodged it. At that point, he should have just got up and left. Why stay and remain in that situation? And regardless of all of that, my point is that it's still no excuse for him to kill her. ESPECIALLY after they'd moved on from each other's lives.
But its not a good idea to think that one could use common sence,when this human clearly have psychic issues . One cannot reason where there are no reasons...
Is it just me, or does he always sound really drunk now? I am a huge Chris Hansen fan, but he is constantly slurring in these videos. Come on papa Hansen! Get your shit together! You’re like our new Christ that has risen, lol.
I think the whole sexual assault claim is bullshit.....however...they downplay it in this situation because it came from a man but if the EXACT situation happened to a woman it would be totally different....
Wrong. its down played because if this happened to a woman being "sexually assaulted" by a man the way it happened here it still wouldnt be sexual assualt. i agree that men can be raped and assaulted its very possible even by a woman, but this wasnt a sexual assault he was her superior he shouldnt have been in her house watching tv with his drunken coworker.
Emily Sanchez ah yes! Your right! If i go somewhere i shouldn't and i drink alcohol then anything that sexually that happens to me is not assault even if i don't wish to participate. I suggest you go build yourself a time machine and go back to 1973... your logic MIGHT be taken onboard. If we work on your facts here... that basically admonishes at least 50% of convicted rapists. You really should take up being a lawyer for the defence of sex offenders
I agree but I also think it is not necessary to report sexual assault when a drunken friend asks you to have sex. She should have been punished for it, because it was not okay and she is not supposed to have sex with her superior, but they also could have talked it out between the two of them. And I don't say this because he is a man, I think a women in the same situation could also have gone home and talk with him when he is sober, get an apology and then just keep away from each other. He is definitely obsessed with every little mistake she makes and it wasn't her fault that he was not treated the way he wanted by others.
this dude wasnt even sexually assaulted. the most physical he even claimed she got she touched his arm. and he responded by fucking setting his own car on fire and murdering her two years later. far worse things happen to women and all that happens is they get called sluts and get ostracised.
Yeah all in caps lock, but he was so mad that he actually had his pinky on the shift key thru the whole manifesto. He got real heated when he forgot to ‘save as’ before he kicked the power plug and the computer closed down. 😂😂😂
To all the non military people saying "he was the victim and he got in trouble because he was the superior putting himself in that situation?". The thing is, you aren't allowed to fraternize with people below your rank, especially if they report to you! It isn't victim blaming, he broke military rules too... He SHOULDN'T of been fraternizing with her and it's his responsibility as the superior to maintain the professional relationship and say no to private hang outs... That's why he was reprimanded.
Exactly. And it's not just military, it's any level of rank in any place. I was management in a lot of businesses and I wasn't allowed to hang out with any employees that were lower than me, if I did that then I would understand if consequences ever came down on me. Don't make yourself a victim just cuz you can't follow simple rules, common sense.
I don't care if it was a man or a woman in that scenario, it wasn't sexual assault. She went to kiss him, he rejected her. He follows her to the bedroom and she asks him to join her and he says no and leaves. That is simply a rejection, an attempted hook up that was turned down. If he felt threatened after she tried to kiss him he shouldn't have went into the bedroom but even then she didn't force him to do something he didn't want to do. She made a pass and got turned down; that happens all the time. As a woman, if I was him in this scenario and Lisa was a man or woman even I wouldn't consider this sexual assault, she asked him to join her, didn't threaten him or force him- she asked him.... for a man in the military this is pathetic. For a man in general, pathetic. If it had been a woman still pathetic but I'd go further and say drama queen or attention seeker..... ridiculous!
Right knowing she was drunk I’m sure they both were drinking but still u know someone has got to know 😢 he shouldn’t of said nothing but the. Again ppl hide it to much the. Again now he lost his job . Did they hook up ? I. Curious
I find it awfully telling that a man saying he felt violated sexually is ridiculed, mocked and disregarded, yet we're expected to treat a woman in the same position like a violated victim survivor of an assault. Why exactly do we have duch double standards against men? Womens lib was an issue til we dealt with it. When will we start treating men equally?
Look, I agree. The point I wanted to make, is that we are expected to coddle women & treat them as they've been victimized, whether it's been proven to be true yet, or not. Hell, we're not even to question whether it's true or not, or whether it's something that's been blown out of proportion, such as this, or if she's just been blown off by the guy & wants to ruin him at all cost. I as a woman myself, know that some women, will stop at nothing to ruin a man's life. I'm not saying that it doesn't happen, of course it happens. I'm saying, some women do, in fact, lie about it, just because they are angry & before an innocent man is vilified, there should be due process, not just believe the woman right away & vilify the man, just because she said so...because broadcasting the accusation alone, can ruin a life. Hillary Clinton said "all women (that make the accusation) should be believed" oh, except the women that accused Bill...?
This guy is not an example of a male sexual assault victim. Yes men are sexually assaulted and then not believed (mostly by other men cause they're seen as weak and unmanly). But this guy was offered sex and turned it down. He then got so obsessed and resentful at this imaginary assault (the most he claimed was that she touched his arm!), and he fucking murdered them both!! This guy is a total nutjob! Male survivors of assault deserve every support. This guy is a psychotic stalker and murderer.
Heather Feather thank you! Exactly how i felt hearing this story he is a victim and they treated him like it was nothing since she is a woman and he is a man like what the hell
It is very common for delusional men to convince themselves that an attractive woman has come on to them. I once offered a coworker to spend the night on my couch because he was too drunk to drive. The next day he told my manager that I tried to have sex with him. That was apparently his honest perception of what happened. I was shocked he took it that way, but what could I do?
This is true though. A guy friend of mine offered to give me a ride home from a party once and of course I took the ride (it was like 1am and it was a good 20 minute walk to my parents house, this was back in the day) and he pulled over about half way there and started to make a move I told him I wasn't interested and he for real asked "then why did you let me drive you home?" I was so shook I just got out the car and walked the rest of the way. Like, some people look too deep into the smallest encounters.
Sexual assault? I mean drunken, inappropriate harassment, for sure but is there something else that happened that wasn’t mentioned here? Even if the sexes were reversed and a drunken friend made a pass at me and asked me to get in bed with him...I wouldn’t call that an assault.
I agree! I would give him/her hell about it the next day when he/she wasn’t drunk:) if that is sexual assault, I’ve got to get busy filing complaints :)
@Rue U It's funny how women all the time talk about assaults like this. But when the situation is reversed all of a sudden it's just a drunken mistake. Hypocrites want it both ways.
I'm 18yrs Coast Guard and remember this case. In all fairness, in the military Lisa commented a sexual assault against him period. If she wasn't charged for that, the CG dropped the ball because we get training every year on the same things. It should have been sexual assault and alcohol incident. Now, the way Loya handled it was wrong. No one deserves to die or be shot, he should have seeked help from EAP for his mental distress. RIP Lisa and hope Loya gets help needed while he is incarcerated.
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There's a couple things that I think about the sexual assault charge. 1. Either she did more than just "try" to kiss him and "touch his arm" whilst asking him to sleep in her bed, or 2. He was sexually abused as a kid, and her trying to make a move on him triggered him and made him feel the emotions of sexual abuse. Because no normal human being (male or female) would write a 26 page email and report a drunk woman or man for "trying" to kiss him/or her and for touching his/or her arm. Especially if they were as close of friends as described.
He literally started the entire thing by making it public to his superiors. He could have just talked to her when she sobered up, told her he wasn't comfortable with what happened, and then moved on. He didn't though.
His attack on them was not because they were lesbians- he attacked them because he was questioned. The lesbians were disrespectful but he came off as a question mark.
Why is his claim of sexual assault not taken seriously? We all know damn well that if a woman, crazy or not, made those claims it would've been a way bigger deal.
no it wouldnt have. far worse shit happens to women all the time. i know women who have been raped and molested and everyone around them tells them to be quiet about it. and you dont see them setting their cars on fire and murdering their rapists.
Offering sex to a coworker is not sexual assault. Does he claim she coerced or intimidated him in some way that is missing from the video? Because her saying "come to bed with me" and touching his arm isn't sexual assault.
Alexa Mango Not true. There was a case while back that crime watch covered where a woman killed her sexual assault-er who happened to be her father. Don't speak without evidence to support your narritive.
I’m a transplant to Texas, and have loved it enough to make it my forever home, but Texans are a different breed of folk. HUGE hearts, and mostly great intentions. There is a set of “good ol’ boys” in most every area who give Texas a bad name though. It’s a shame, but I suppose true in many areas of the world.
We are only in part 1 of this but so far I have to say that if the sexes were reversed in this military would have backed the woman up to the destruction of the mams career. However, it seems he is a bit off but men should be taken just as seriously when they feel victimised as a woman would be. Now off to part 2 to see how off the rails this guy went
How was he "victimized"? He wasn't coerced or intimidated. She invited him to have sex and he refused. Then they both got reprimanded for fraternizing. Unless his version of the story is wildly different and missing from the account in the video, noboby was victimzed here, no matter the genders involved.
Brandy B while I agree that this is sexist and it would have gone down differently if the roles were reversed, it's my opinion that there likely wouldn't have been very much damage to his career. I think they didn't like that he reported it so they reprimanded him too and filed the incident down.
military hates reports of rape/ sexual assault from any gender and it ussually harms your career to report. There are literally hours of documentaries on how the military has long history of sweeping it under the rug and practically forcing women to quit. A few men were in some of the stuff I watched very similar treatment.
you can't trust no one not even family these days. when u have a job no matter what it is, u go to work to do just that "WORK".... Not make friends, everybody that smiles in your face is not your friend...my coworkers are cool at work and that's as far as it's going to go... I barley trust the friends I have let a co-worker....
Anyone else click because it said "Man Writes Disturbing 250 page Manifesto About Cow..."? I was very disappointed it said coworker after I got here haha.
What a nut. So she wanted to ride his face, he wants to start a war over that? Doesn't he have anything better to do? I'd have forgotten about it in about 15 minutes.
That is what HE claims. But even if it WERE true... Is that reason enough to kill BOTH of them?? The guy was obviously obsessed with her.. You are a woman too. Why the comment? If you ever cheated on your partner, would that excuse him/her if s/he killed you? Just wondering...
Mireya Monjaras I did not say it was acceptable all I was saying is I wanted to know loyas motive was it because they’re gay or was it because she actually did what she did
So she went to midland Texas high school where the movie “Friday night lights” is about, then she joins the coast guard and is stationed at kodiak Alaska where “the guardian” was about
So touching your arm is sexual assault?? May have been the other way around. He probably wanted something more with this young lady, when she told him she had other preferences.... Snap!!!
If arm touching is considered sexual assault then by golly gosh we all better press charges 😂 So wayment you told on yourself and her and your upset with it back firing on you 🙄
Wait... Why would SHE make sexual advances toward him.. But she's gay!! Are you sure it didn't happen the other way round? Then he got embarrassed/ angry that she rejected him. I just don't see why she would do that, even if she's drunk.
suckit1281 You can't see me, it makes me feel good to tell the truth. I don't go around acting like I can see through screens. You wouldn't have called that if you could see me you also wouldn't say any of it to my face. That's the difference between us. Your username is quite bitter though.
suckit1281 I'm not black this is why you shouldn't assume things as if you can see through the screen. I look better than her and have no reason to be jealous. Fact is not everyone Is beautiful yet when speaking about women. It's not even a compliment anymore it's like saying excuse me to be polite. This is flat out using the word incorrectly. She got what she deserves because women like her always get away with bad behavior. And I'm allowed to speak about a dead person. I didn't kill them nor does me speaking about them good or bad change anything. You're very illogical, you think saying words make you a good person or changes something about THAT MAN killing THAT WOMAN. You're watching this on a screen and you didn't do anything or help anything at all. Get over yourself. You did absolutely nothing to help this woman so acting like you give a shit makes you even worse. Oh it's so bad because a video popped up to entertain you. I bet you don't know about 1% of the men, women and children who die in your own city. Fake outrage, false sympathy you're a fraud and a joke. Btw suck it
I don't think this guy knows what sexual assault actually is. He got his arm touched and propositioned. Most women get worse than that on an average Tuesday. The absolute worst part is that she asked again, after he'd already said no. That's not sexual assault. That's not even sexual harassment, as he was the superior, and could expect no repercussions for denying her request. He could have left at any time. He wasn't scared for his life. He had absolutely no reason to believe that anything bad would come to him for any reason. To all of the people taking the dude's side, in any manner, the fuck is wrong with you? He was not sexually assaulted. He was not pressured to do something he didn't want to do, because she had no leverage over him - not size, not seniority, nor anything else. Bringing up whether men may or may not be "laughed at" for reporting sexual assault is a moot point - there was no sexual assault, here. And while I'd like to make it clear that I don't believe men should have to expect treatment like this, either, this is pretty standard stuff for a woman that goes outside during any point of the week. This is how women are treated pretty much daily, if they make themselves approachable. And if the woman were the "victim" of the same, it would still not be sexual assault. Creepy behaviour, absolutely. Criminal behaviour, absolutely not. The criminal behaviour happens a lot later, and makes it pretty obvious he was never a well-balanced individual. So stop taking his side. It makes you look tunnel-visioned and ignorant.
By reading the abbreviated title description "Man writes disturbing 250 page manifesto about a cow.." made me ultimately disappointed in the real story.
lol when they were describing how she was talking to adrian in a seductive way and you hear the man' say "why don't you come over here adrian" lol not what i was expecting
What a fcking psycho..Wow, he should be surprised she even made a sexual advance on him. Clearly she was drunk. A normal friend would leave and then laugh it off and tell them how stupid they acted the day before especially if that wasn't a common occurrence. He clearly has some mental issues. I'm just surprised she never seen that he was not all there before.
hatessmug omg you're probably one of those people who would call the cops too. I feel sorry for the person who hits on you. I don't think you should have a police record because you hit on someone and touch their arm when you're drunk. But that's just my personal opinion, cleeeeearly we are different!
Whether a girl did this to a guy or a guy dif this to a girl. Anyone is crazy asf to think this bs is really a police matter. And to take it to the point of murder?! You have to have some serious mental issues going on to even try to justify his actions.
Gemini Vixen Chelly Well he got not guilty due to mental illness. So probably the sexual harassment pushed to a point that shamed him that he planned out the entire ordeal. Same way some women keep quiet about sexual abuse till they reach breaking point and finally speak out some even after 30 years on Cosby's account. The fact they overlook the sexual harassment on his part is double standard. A close friend suddenly turned murderer. Seems like one of those cases where a guy forced and abused a trust of female friend but in this case the gender is reversed.
Is it just me, or does Chris Hansen always sound really drunk now? I am a huge Chris Hansen fan, but he is constantly slurring in these videos. Come on papa Hansen! Get your shit together! You’re like our new Christ that has risen in the last few decades. We forgive you, now give up the sauce! 💙 lol
Betty S Oh please Betty, you’re old enough to know that was a joke, and also old enough to know this is UA-cam, and I am also informing you I am an atheist. You’re in the wrong comment section if you want your feelings spared.
ASVP People's OPINIONS, sound like jealousy? You have a twisted mind. But to each his/her own. If someone thinks I'm average or below, that's fine. I'm not validated by their OPINION. I don't find YOU attractive AT ALL. Am I jealous of you, too? Lmao. Good day, sir.
Its horrible but why does it seem a little asshole-ish how they don't believe the sexual assault, it seem more like sexual harassment but because it came from a guy they believe its bullshit . I'm condoning what he did but if it was a woman, they probably make her a victim and give her sympathy.
The sexual attack probably means that he was angry because Lisa treated him as an affair partner although he has loved her so much, he wanted her as a girlfriend, but he had no choice but to be a good friend of her. after the sexual attack report, Lisa and Anne told him to stay away from them. the guy was so angry because the incident is not his fault and his promotion was cancelled.
Um .... he felt sexually violated because his drunken friend said "Come to bed with me" and touched his arm? I just want to make sure I got that right.
I'll tell you whats disturbing. Who the hell has time to write a 250 page manifesto about someone?
and i will tell u what's disturbing ...who the hell refuses sex from a female friend willing to and put his job/life in hell ?
probably millions of people in the US alone realistically. people are sad sacks of shit generally
jxsilicon9 I had a ex I dated for two weeks write me a email a few years ago when he could of just FB message me. He wrote 20 pages of why I shouldn’t of broken up with him, and my reason was bullshit. I don’t know how he found my email address. The reason why I broke up with him is because he lied about his age. I just turned 19 and he was 37/38, he looked young and told me he was somewhere in his mid 20’s and I believed him till I seen his ID
@@cheb221 A gay guy!!
Camille yikes 😯
this guy can write a 250 page essay about his coworker but i still cant finish my fuckin homework
I can't even manage 1000 words sometimes lmao even when writing about myself
Nobody says that manifesto was good
neither are my grades :/
lol I know right, it's all I can do to muster 250 words.
That's because we want good grades. He probably split verbs, had run on sentences and everything else. The way it flows for us isn't necessarily what teachers want. 😊
I could barely even write this one page essay for my English class
khaybreezy lol right?
It could be font size
@@jakeg3126 watch it be 8 pt times new roman single spaced
In 18pt font.....still struggling to knock out that one page....🤷😂
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I agree
Me too yo, I am literally addicted to this show I just hope they keep up the great work 👍
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All these videos start weirdly the same, by saying how hot, beautiful or sexy the dead person(s) is. It’s really creepy.
i think its mainly to form an attachment. it makes the story have more impact because she was "pretty"
He honestly could have understood that she was drunk, left her house after she made the first pass, and offered to check on her the next day. Even after the second pass, he still could have left the house and talked to her about it once she was sober, especially if they were so-called friends. Never said she groped him, never said she forced or coerced him. I'd fully understand the sexual assault claim if she'd actually assaulted him. Even then, it STILL wouldn't justify murder.
Exactly. That's what I'd say to a woman. She should have understood that he was drunk. She should have left the house and offered to check on him the next day. She could have talked to him when he was sober........... Come on man, sexual assault is sexual assault. Why is it a pass when it's men?
@@teem5642 @Tee M Yes, sexual assault is sexual assault regardless of the genders of the victim and assailant. But specifically regarding this situation, these people were allegedly friends, he was inside of her home, she was drunk and he was sober, she tried to kiss him, and he dodged it. At that point, he should have just got up and left. Why stay and remain in that situation? And regardless of all of that, my point is that it's still no excuse for him to kill her. ESPECIALLY after they'd moved on from each other's lives.
But its not a good idea to think that one could use common sence,when this human clearly have psychic issues .
One cannot reason where there are no reasons...
Is Chris Hansen doing his voiceover in a public bathroom?
Nic Neufeld he was just taking a seat there!
O.k. I thought it was only me
Is it just me, or does he always sound really drunk now? I am a huge Chris Hansen fan, but he is constantly slurring in these videos. Come on papa Hansen! Get your shit together! You’re like our new Christ that has risen, lol.
I just came to get something to eat!
SupremeOverlordess I'm pretty sure he's a recovering alchoholic
I think the whole sexual assault claim is bullshit.....however...they downplay it in this situation because it came from a man but if the EXACT situation happened to a woman it would be totally different....
yea because men and women are different
I agree. I havent watched the next few parts but this story would be completely different if she was accusing him of sexual assault
Wrong. its down played because if this happened to a woman being "sexually assaulted" by a man the way it happened here it still wouldnt be sexual assualt. i agree that men can be raped and assaulted its very possible even by a woman, but this wasnt a sexual assault he was her superior he shouldnt have been in her house watching tv with his drunken coworker.
Emily Sanchez "wrong" 😆😂 if she says sexual assault that's that. If you don't think so you're blind to what's going on these days.
Emily Sanchez ah yes! Your right! If i go somewhere i shouldn't and i drink alcohol then anything that sexually that happens to me is not assault even if i don't wish to participate.
I suggest you go build yourself a time machine and go back to 1973... your logic MIGHT be taken onboard.
If we work on your facts here... that basically admonishes at least 50% of convicted rapists. You really should take up being a lawyer for the defence of sex offenders
Lol. I guarantee he got so angry because SHE denied HIM and he’s legitimately mentally ill and wanted revenge.
Nice to see that sexism still stands and men can't claim to have been sexually assaulted without being made fun of.
fakeituntilyouareit Definitely agreed.
I agree but I also think it is not necessary to report sexual assault when a drunken friend asks you to have sex. She should have been punished for it, because it was not okay and she is not supposed to have sex with her superior, but they also could have talked it out between the two of them. And I don't say this because he is a man, I think a women in the same situation could also have gone home and talk with him when he is sober, get an apology and then just keep away from each other. He is definitely obsessed with every little mistake she makes and it wasn't her fault that he was not treated the way he wanted by others.
this dude wasnt even sexually assaulted. the most physical he even claimed she got she touched his arm. and he responded by fucking setting his own car on fire and murdering her two years later. far worse things happen to women and all that happens is they get called sluts and get ostracised.
It’s always been like that. I hope one day it’ll change. It’s not even a crime in England!
fakeituntilyouareit AND THE BAD VIDE COMES FROM MEN MOSLY
Something not right about this story
Lol - Best screen name EVER!!! Ur bf is very lucky
yeah his brain.
Attractive lesbos for starters
Their both very attractive female's....
Was it double spaced or not...?
Nah, with how determined he was, it was probably size 10 and single spaced. He really felt there was an injustice that needed to be addressed.
Lol
Yeah all in caps lock, but he was so mad that he actually had his pinky on the shift key thru the whole manifesto.
He got real heated when he forgot to ‘save as’ before he kicked the power plug and the computer closed down. 😂😂😂
Tora Chan and 35 font size
Hilarious!!😁
Dude wants a PhD in sexual assault. Wrote a goddamn dissertation.
To all the non military people saying "he was the victim and he got in trouble because he was the superior putting himself in that situation?". The thing is, you aren't allowed to fraternize with people below your rank, especially if they report to you! It isn't victim blaming, he broke military rules too... He SHOULDN'T of been fraternizing with her and it's his responsibility as the superior to maintain the professional relationship and say no to private hang outs... That's why he was reprimanded.
But they will overlook that smh
Exactly. And it's not just military, it's any level of rank in any place. I was management in a lot of businesses and I wasn't allowed to hang out with any employees that were lower than me, if I did that then I would understand if consequences ever came down on me. Don't make yourself a victim just cuz you can't follow simple rules, common sense.
That is not just for the military...That is for employment everywhere
Yep
I don't care if it was a man or a woman in that scenario, it wasn't sexual assault. She went to kiss him, he rejected her. He follows her to the bedroom and she asks him to join her and he says no and leaves. That is simply a rejection, an attempted hook up that was turned down. If he felt threatened after she tried to kiss him he shouldn't have went into the bedroom but even then she didn't force him to do something he didn't want to do. She made a pass and got turned down; that happens all the time. As a woman, if I was him in this scenario and Lisa was a man or woman even I wouldn't consider this sexual assault, she asked him to join her, didn't threaten him or force him- she asked him.... for a man in the military this is pathetic. For a man in general, pathetic. If it had been a woman still pathetic but I'd go further and say drama queen or attention seeker..... ridiculous!
Right knowing she was drunk I’m sure they both were drinking but still u know someone has got to know 😢 he shouldn’t of said nothing but the. Again ppl hide it to much the. Again now he lost his job . Did they hook up ? I. Curious
“I believed she touched his arm..” 😂😂😂
Taylor Echlin don't laugh
javier v. Why
Taylor Echlin because you're so cute 😊
this story is fucking weird AF
I find it awfully telling that a man saying he felt violated sexually is ridiculed, mocked and disregarded, yet we're expected to treat a woman in the same position like a violated victim survivor of an assault. Why exactly do we have duch double standards against men? Womens lib was an issue til we dealt with it. When will we start treating men equally?
Heather Feather EXACTLY! Thank you!
Look, I agree. The point I wanted to make, is that we are expected to coddle women & treat them as they've been victimized, whether it's been proven to be true yet, or not. Hell, we're not even to question whether it's true or not, or whether it's something that's been blown out of proportion, such as this, or if she's just been blown off by the guy & wants to ruin him at all cost. I as a woman myself, know that some women, will stop at nothing to ruin a man's life. I'm not saying that it doesn't happen, of course it happens. I'm saying, some women do, in fact, lie about it, just because they are angry & before an innocent man is vilified, there should be due process, not just believe the woman right away & vilify the man, just because she said so...because broadcasting the accusation alone, can ruin a life. Hillary Clinton said "all women (that make the accusation) should be believed" oh, except the women that accused Bill...?
This guy is not an example of a male sexual assault victim. Yes men are sexually assaulted and then not believed (mostly by other men cause they're seen as weak and unmanly). But this guy was offered sex and turned it down. He then got so obsessed and resentful at this imaginary assault (the most he claimed was that she touched his arm!), and he fucking murdered them both!! This guy is a total nutjob! Male survivors of assault deserve every support. This guy is a psychotic stalker and murderer.
I find it awful that he felt like killing her was what she deserved for touching his arm.
Heather Feather thank you! Exactly how i felt hearing this story he is a victim and they treated him like it was nothing since she is a woman and he is a man like what the hell
About time you guys uploaded. I had been waiting for 3 days. 3 DAYS!
Oh the travesty 😂😂😂
It is very common for delusional men to convince themselves that an attractive woman has come on to them. I once offered a coworker to spend the night on my couch because he was too drunk to drive. The next day he told my manager that I tried to have sex with him. That was apparently his honest perception of what happened. I was shocked he took it that way, but what could I do?
Wow ego 😂😂😂
Robin Marie why not call him a cab? Your stories fishy
UA-cam comment stories are always true, folks.
This is true though. A guy friend of mine offered to give me a ride home from a party once and of course I took the ride (it was like 1am and it was a good 20 minute walk to my parents house, this was back in the day) and he pulled over about half way there and started to make a move I told him I wasn't interested and he for real asked "then why did you let me drive you home?" I was so shook I just got out the car and walked the rest of the way. Like, some people look too deep into the smallest encounters.
@@mr100x3 are you serious
Sexual assault? I mean drunken, inappropriate harassment, for sure but is there something else that happened that wasn’t mentioned here? Even if the sexes were reversed and a drunken friend made a pass at me and asked me to get in bed with him...I wouldn’t call that an assault.
Sanbika Exactly.
I agree! I would give him/her hell about it the next day when he/she wasn’t drunk:) if that is sexual assault, I’ve got to get busy filing complaints :)
@Rue U It's funny how women all the time talk about assaults like this. But when the situation is reversed all of a sudden it's just a drunken mistake. Hypocrites want it both ways.
Umm that’s not sexual assault whether man or woman
It's absolutely sexual assault. If the roles were reversed it'd be sexual assault #MeToo
This is emotionally Disturbed man to begin with. Chose your friends wisley.
Ten thousand fists in the aiiirrRRRRR!!
i agree with you. he has personal issues that somehow got triggered when the alleged assault happened
Something's missing. She touched him on the arm? Lol. Oooo. Scary
A man commented on how pretty I am? Sexual harrassment!! XD
Kristi Arnold not that I agree with this psycho but just stfu. Reverse the roles and see if the guy doesn’t get instantly arrested
He’s sooo gay!
He would rather a man touch his arm.
ArtificialDragon
Did he say that on person are 3000 miles away thru Instagram
yeah this dude got serious issues with women
Did you know that the wrong mattress protector can ruin the feel of your mattress?
Heinous , and lumpy.
Lol thanks for the advice
“A 250-page manifesto” uh oh this ain’t gonna end well.
Most underrated comment I've seen so far.
I'm 18yrs Coast Guard and remember this case. In all fairness, in the military Lisa commented a sexual assault against him period. If she wasn't charged for that, the CG dropped the ball because we get training every year on the same things. It should have been sexual assault and alcohol incident. Now, the way Loya handled it was wrong. No one deserves to die or be shot, he should have seeked help from EAP for his mental distress. RIP Lisa and hope Loya gets help needed while he is incarcerated.
Instead of him just leaving her alone or ending their friendship he blew it way out of proportion 🙄
SEXISM AGAINST MEN IS NORMAL AND THAT IS WHAT DOOMS WOMEN DOUBLE STANDARDS
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Flip the situation around, would it be okay then? Please do perpetuate sexist double standards.
We have to keep this same energy when it comes to men doing it to women though.
"in the beginning she knew she was gay" *makes multiple sexual advances towards a man*. Ok...
I'm confused.
Treeface
Me too, me too....
Treeface you, me both
A pretty girl touched his arm, that's some people motive to kill
Smh
There's a couple things that I think about the sexual assault charge. 1. Either she did more than just "try" to kiss him and "touch his arm" whilst asking him to sleep in her bed, or 2. He was sexually abused as a kid, and her trying to make a move on him triggered him and made him feel the emotions of sexual abuse. Because no normal human being (male or female) would write a 26 page email and report a drunk woman or man for "trying" to kiss him/or her and for touching his/or her arm. Especially if they were as close of friends as described.
He literally started the entire thing by making it public to his superiors. He could have just talked to her when she sobered up, told her he wasn't comfortable with what happened, and then moved on. He didn't though.
I couldn't write 250 pages about myself.
Holy shit. People are still saying first? God what is wrong with y’all?
Eighth
YUNGGOONSHOT 😜
YUNGGOONSHOT perfect 👌 comment that was disgusting to hear at first 🌜 just eghhh
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His attack on them was not because they were lesbians- he attacked them because he was questioned. The lesbians were disrespectful but he came off as a question mark.
The guy is so nuts. His actions were harmful to others and self sabotaging. Really sick
Wow so many sick people in this world 🌎
Sometimes hearing about others misdeeds makes me feel less "crazy"
Anyone need an essay written? This is your man right here.!
He told thinking it would get her in Trouble. That backfired on him and he blamed her. What a sicko.
"And she was gay" 😂😂😂😂😂 -chris hansen
Why is his claim of sexual assault not taken seriously? We all know damn well that if a woman, crazy or not, made those claims it would've been a way bigger deal.
American Made exactly! I’m very sad for him. He might have been triggered from being assaulted as a child.
no it wouldnt have. far worse shit happens to women all the time. i know women who have been raped and molested and everyone around them tells them to be quiet about it. and you dont see them setting their cars on fire and murdering their rapists.
I’m not sure how big of a deal it would have been if she later wrote a 250 page manifesto and killed his ass.
Offering sex to a coworker is not sexual assault. Does he claim she coerced or intimidated him in some way that is missing from the video? Because her saying "come to bed with me" and touching his arm isn't sexual assault.
Alexa Mango Not true. There was a case while back that crime watch covered where a woman killed her sexual assault-er who happened to be her father. Don't speak without evidence to support your narritive.
I’m a transplant to Texas, and have loved it enough to make it my forever home, but Texans are a different breed of folk. HUGE hearts, and mostly great intentions. There is a set of “good ol’ boys” in most every area who give Texas a bad name though. It’s a shame, but I suppose true in many areas of the world.
"Broke bread together" LMAO geesh that must mean theyre close huh lol
SMFH
All of this because this dude couldn't say "I'm not interested " and leave?
Wow, that escalated quickly. Smdh. What a nut, it wasn't THAT serious dude.
We are only in part 1 of this but so far I have to say that if the sexes were reversed in this military would have backed the woman up to the destruction of the mams career. However, it seems he is a bit off but men should be taken just as seriously when they feel victimised as a woman would be. Now off to part 2 to see how off the rails this guy went
They probably downplayed what really went on...they seem to be patronizing him in this segment anyways.
How was he "victimized"? He wasn't coerced or intimidated. She invited him to have sex and he refused. Then they both got reprimanded for fraternizing. Unless his version of the story is wildly different and missing from the account in the video, noboby was victimzed here, no matter the genders involved.
Brandy B while I agree that this is sexist and it would have gone down differently if the roles were reversed, it's my opinion that there likely wouldn't have been very much damage to his career. I think they didn't like that he reported it so they reprimanded him too and filed the incident down.
military hates reports of rape/ sexual assault from any gender and it ussually harms your career to report. There are literally hours of documentaries on how the military has long history of sweeping it under the rug and practically forcing women to quit. A few men were in some of the stuff I watched very similar treatment.
Hunter Williams Exactly! 👏👏👏
Every town in a true crime story is "tight knit." Please people.
you can't trust no one not even family these days. when u have a job no matter what it is, u go to work to do just that "WORK"....
Not make friends, everybody that smiles in your face is not your friend...my coworkers are cool at work and that's as far as it's going to go... I barley trust the friends I have let a co-worker....
pretty girl
You are 100% right.
He really is mental.
Damn 250 pages of manifesto ... I bet his forefathers are one who wrote constitution 😂😂😂😂😂
wtf is going on here?
J G he was violated and victimized..I think. 😂
🤣 My thoughts exactly.
Anyone else click because it said "Man Writes Disturbing 250 page Manifesto About Cow..."?
I was very disappointed it said coworker after I got here haha.
Guy: Help, I was just raped!
Superiors: What happened?
Guy: A girl lightly touched my arm. I'll never recover from this!
These are the people protecting our coasts.
Yo. No way in HELL any dude would said NO to that chick. I bet she told him no n it flipped na. ... something seems real shady and left out
What a nut. So she wanted to ride his face, he wants to start a war over that? Doesn't he have anything better to do? I'd have forgotten about it in about 15 minutes.
Duke Nukem ☺😊😁😂😂😂😂
Snafu 😂😂😂
She nearly cheated on her wife though or is it not true
That is what HE claims. But even if it WERE true... Is that reason enough to kill BOTH of them?? The guy was obviously obsessed with her.. You are a woman too. Why the comment? If you ever cheated on your partner, would that excuse him/her if s/he killed you? Just wondering...
Mireya Monjaras I did not say it was acceptable all I was saying is I wanted to know loyas motive was it because they’re gay or was it because she actually did what she did
This is probably the most craziest Crime Watch I've seen yet.
1 more episode ( sits here with a pack of Cheetos watching 10000 episodes of crime watch daily )
So she went to midland Texas high school where the movie “Friday night lights” is about, then she joins the coast guard and is stationed at kodiak Alaska where “the guardian” was about
He did to him self, but it also tells me something seriously happened to him growing up.
So Loya is gay also?
250 page manifesto?! Coast Guardians have a lot of free time huh 😂
So touching your arm is sexual assault?? May have been the other way around. He probably wanted something more with this young lady, when she told him she had other preferences.... Snap!!!
@MissUrsaMinor that would make her bisexual
Wow I didn’t even wanna write this comment 😂 and he’s wrote 250 pages about a female wanting som action from him smh lol
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Nobody cares if your first
Doctor Doggo I do bcus I woke up 😘 🤣😁
Nobody cares if you care!
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He should of kept quiet. He brought this on himself.
If arm touching is considered sexual assault then by golly gosh we all better press charges 😂
So wayment you told on yourself and her and your upset with it back firing on you 🙄
This was only 4 minutes and it’s beyond crazy.
He was a total nut job who should have got on with his own life.
Wait... Why would SHE make sexual advances toward him.. But she's gay!!
Are you sure it didn't happen the other way round? Then he got embarrassed/ angry that she rejected him.
I just don't see why she would do that, even if she's drunk.
The narrator sounds like Jimmy Kimmel
B Fuimaono it's Chris Hansen
So disrespectful *points to corner* GO AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU DID 🤦🏿😂😂
SO MANY PEOPLE HAVE TOUCHED MY ARM! AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH
Ugly or average + white female = beautiful
This is the formula
Lndin Galle on the surface. Besides that, they are vain monsters.
Lndin Galle Any female...not just white. The hosts say it about 75% of the time they are talking about a woman.
TrollPriestZandum Narcissistic monsters*
suckit1281 You can't see me, it makes me feel good to tell the truth. I don't go around acting like I can see through screens. You wouldn't have called that if you could see me you also wouldn't say any of it to my face. That's the difference between us.
Your username is quite bitter though.
suckit1281 I'm not black this is why you shouldn't assume things as if you can see through the screen. I look better than her and have no reason to be jealous.
Fact is not everyone Is beautiful yet when speaking about women. It's not even a compliment anymore it's like saying excuse me to be polite. This is flat out using the word incorrectly.
She got what she deserves because women like her always get away with bad behavior. And I'm allowed to speak about a dead person. I didn't kill them nor does me speaking about them good or bad change anything. You're very illogical, you think saying words make you a good person or changes something about THAT MAN killing THAT WOMAN. You're watching this on a screen and you didn't do anything or help anything at all. Get over yourself. You did absolutely nothing to help this woman so acting like you give a shit makes you even worse. Oh it's so bad because a video popped up to entertain you. I bet you don't know about 1% of the men, women and children who die in your own city. Fake outrage, false sympathy you're a fraud and a joke.
Btw suck it
I don't think this guy knows what sexual assault actually is. He got his arm touched and propositioned. Most women get worse than that on an average Tuesday.
The absolute worst part is that she asked again, after he'd already said no. That's not sexual assault. That's not even sexual harassment, as he was the superior, and could expect no repercussions for denying her request. He could have left at any time. He wasn't scared for his life. He had absolutely no reason to believe that anything bad would come to him for any reason.
To all of the people taking the dude's side, in any manner, the fuck is wrong with you? He was not sexually assaulted. He was not pressured to do something he didn't want to do, because she had no leverage over him - not size, not seniority, nor anything else. Bringing up whether men may or may not be "laughed at" for reporting sexual assault is a moot point - there was no sexual assault, here.
And while I'd like to make it clear that I don't believe men should have to expect treatment like this, either, this is pretty standard stuff for a woman that goes outside during any point of the week. This is how women are treated pretty much daily, if they make themselves approachable. And if the woman were the "victim" of the same, it would still not be sexual assault. Creepy behaviour, absolutely. Criminal behaviour, absolutely not.
The criminal behaviour happens a lot later, and makes it pretty obvious he was never a well-balanced individual. So stop taking his side. It makes you look tunnel-visioned and ignorant.
any normal guy would have just smashed n dashed.
RallyDon82 yep. This dude ain't normal then. Therefore, he planned n killed.
RallyDon82 RIGHT that pissed me off and she's PRETTY
Maybe he’s not a hoe.
maybe not, but one thing is for sure, he is a top tier nutjob.
HE DIDNT CONSENT HE DIDNT CONSENT HE DIDNT CONSENT
By reading the abbreviated title description "Man writes disturbing 250 page manifesto about a cow.." made me ultimately disappointed in the real story.
If Lisa hit on me, she'd been pregnant. My bad
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lol when they were describing how she was talking to adrian in a seductive way and you hear the man' say "why don't you come over here adrian"
lol not what i was expecting
i watched this
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You think highly of yourself to think we could care less what you’ve watched on UA-cam🤣🤣🤣
Awesome I emailed a tip a couple months ago about this story!
*I've always been LEERY of friendships involving the opposite sex when one or both parties are involved with someone.*
number 150 why I have no friends and why im single.
I think when she invited him she had second intentions. If he would have had sex with her then we would be calling him a rapist.
StephanieRamas no cuz she wouldnt hv reported the act. This dude is nuts
StephanieRamas agree!
I love writing but I can barely write 15 pages for FUN. This man wrote about murder?!?!
What a fcking psycho..Wow, he should be surprised she even made a sexual advance on him. Clearly she was drunk. A normal friend would leave and then laugh it off and tell them how stupid they acted the day before especially if that wasn't a common occurrence. He clearly has some mental issues. I'm just surprised she never seen that he was not all there before.
"A normal friend would leave and then laugh it off" Really? have you been living under a rock to miss this whole #metoo movement?
hatessmug omg you're probably one of those people who would call the cops too. I feel sorry for the person who hits on you. I don't think you should have a police record because you hit on someone and touch their arm when you're drunk. But that's just my personal opinion, cleeeeearly we are different!
If a guy did this to a girl it would be sexual harrassment. He was sexually harrassed by someone he trusted.
Whether a girl did this to a guy or a guy dif this to a girl. Anyone is crazy asf to think this bs is really a police matter. And to take it to the point of murder?! You have to have some serious mental issues going on to even try to justify his actions.
Gemini Vixen Chelly Well he got not guilty due to mental illness. So probably the sexual harassment pushed to a point that shamed him that he planned out the entire ordeal.
Same way some women keep quiet about sexual abuse till they reach breaking point and finally speak out some even after 30 years on Cosby's account.
The fact they overlook the sexual harassment on his part is double standard. A close friend suddenly turned murderer. Seems like one of those cases where a guy forced and abused a trust of female friend but in this case the gender is reversed.
I bet the same guys saying women view flirting as sexual assault are the same ones defending this dude. Isn’t it lovely how they pick and choose.
Wot a maniac
Wait. Dude is “friends” with Lisa and can’t forgive her from being drunk and doing something stupid?
Is it just me, or does Chris Hansen always sound really drunk now? I am a huge Chris Hansen fan, but he is constantly slurring in these videos. Come on papa Hansen! Get your shit together! You’re like our new Christ that has risen in the last few decades. We forgive you, now give up the sauce! 💙 lol
SupremeOverlordess that's a Xanax slur.
youtube university I believe you. I’ve heard that shit before. 😩 He’s definitely impaired.
Why compare him to Christ? Do not take the Lord's name in vain.
Betty S Oh please Betty, you’re old enough to know that was a joke, and also old enough to know this is UA-cam, and I am also informing you I am an atheist.
You’re in the wrong comment section if you want your feelings spared.
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I THINK THE ONE WITH DARK HAIR IS THE ONE THAT WEARS THE STRAP!!!
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The dude was super dramatic, much like a lot of women in the same situation.
Both women are beautiful
Desserey Mares Beauty's Only Skin Deep
ASVP I don't think they're cute. Theyre both average at best. People have opinions, you don't have to be jealous to have one. .
ASVP People's OPINIONS, sound like jealousy? You have a twisted mind. But to each his/her own. If someone thinks I'm average or below, that's fine. I'm not validated by their OPINION. I don't find YOU attractive AT ALL. Am I jealous of you, too? Lmao. Good day, sir.
ASVP My pic isn't up for judgement... Your's is👿
Lexi WL that's your opinion and I gave my opinion
Its horrible but why does it seem a little asshole-ish how they don't believe the sexual assault, it seem more like sexual harassment but because it came from a guy they believe its bullshit . I'm condoning what he did but if it was a woman, they probably make her a victim and give her sympathy.
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a 250 page Manifesto???
yeah he may have problems.....
The sexual attack probably means that he was angry because Lisa treated him as an affair partner although he has loved her so much, he wanted her as a girlfriend, but he had no choice but to be a good friend of her. after the sexual attack report, Lisa and Anne told him to stay away from them. the guy was so angry because the incident is not his fault and his promotion was cancelled.
Um .... he felt sexually violated because his drunken friend said "Come to bed with me" and touched his arm? I just want to make sure I got that right.
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This Tell Sell narrator voice doesn't work for me, I feel like someone's trying to sell me a gun every other minute
Are we as humans getting criminally sicker, or do we just have a front row seat to the madness due to the 24hr news cycle and social media....?