HUGE props to him for looking beyond what he was told and taught, for questioning what was considered "right" at that time! Wish there was more people like him in the medical field... My therapist used to so obviously look for any slight hint of fault in my mother/my parents when in reality, they are why I am on this recovery journey and why I keep going even after relapses!
He is passionate and understanding. I've witness first hand Dr. K treating people with eating disorders and he is very passionate about his work and he is so hands on with his patients that he gets to root of the problem and he always say you can't take the eating disorder away from them but you can teach them how to control it while maintaining a healthy lifestyle. He is amazing with the pediatrics and they are lucky to have such a passionate man.
What a lovely guy, I have been using that model for years, glad to see someone else is. I do see clients with reckless parent who develop ED during their teens. They tell me, "one chaotic person is enough". They didn't develop it as an away to control their lives, they developed it as a way to control overwhelming home life.
what a wonderful compassionate man . i wish others would take the time to understand ppl w eating disorders like he has . we deserve to be listened to & shown compassion as anyone else
This is an incredible ted talk! The best I’ve heard thus far. Such a passionate man & very caring! His patients are very lucky to have someone as understanding as him!!
aw man this guy is everything I aspire to be his curiosity to understand an individual person and to first and foremost LISTEN to his patients with pure interest to learn about them is honestly beautiful.
My parents response when they noticed I was exhibiting anorexia nervosa symptoms was to bully and make fun of me. I am still fitting it coming up on 10 years later.
Can it be a tragedy of the values of our modern society that the families appropriate and pass down to their children? How about they teach their children it is the health and not the looks that REALLY matters? How about they teach their children it's the concern for others that they need to foster within them as the primary goal? Not self-focusing is the solution to any mental health issue. True success ALWAYS comes through self-realization based on concern for others. I think parents have to step up and teach their kids right.
Agreed, but this video also very much applies to males aswell despite using female examples. I do not know what this has to do to critique the video, other than maybe proving male examples. However, whereMaleway people approach ed recovery and therapy.
This man is well studied on eating disorders speaking as a survivor of it. I’m here to say that I was fully cured of my eating disorder through prayer. I never did any therapy and have had no relapses for 20 years. After numerous failed attempts to figure it out myself, I surrendered to God and began to continually pray to Him to heal me, and that was what finally cured me. To all those suffering with these horrible disorders, God loves you more than you can ever imagine and wants you healed!
Half of mental illness is literally the parent's fault for bad parenting. It's like the phrase, "there are no bad dogs, just bad owners." I believe the same can be said about kids. There's no such thing as a bad kid, just bad or absent parenting. I think parents are definitely to blame in a lot of situations where their kid is struggling with a mental illness. Not always, but USUALLY the parents failed the child in a major way that lead to thie child's demise. I'm tired of people saying don't blame your parents they did their best. Well some parents didn't do their best and they are definitely to blame for their kid's suffering. Oftentimes because those parents are INSUFFERABLE.
I have to point out that the painting of the flower face is something that patient saw on the internet and copied it ... I’ve seen the original ... don’t know if that makes a difference on its significance
Thanks Karen Buzzkiller 🙄 there’s nothing new on this planet and there hasn’t been for years. The artist of that picture deserves to feel good and not criticized by some rigid thinker who goes around trying to ruin people’s day. Have fun with that.
HUGE props to him for looking beyond what he was told and taught, for questioning what was considered "right" at that time! Wish there was more people like him in the medical field... My therapist used to so obviously look for any slight hint of fault in my mother/my parents when in reality, they are why I am on this recovery journey and why I keep going even after relapses!
one of the most astute observations on anorexia. amazing.
This was the most clinically accurate and comprehensive take on eating disorders I've heard!
He is passionate and understanding. I've witness first hand Dr. K treating people with eating disorders and he is very passionate about his work and he is so hands on with his patients that he gets to root of the problem and he always say you can't take the eating disorder away from them but you can teach them how to control it while maintaining a healthy lifestyle. He is amazing with the pediatrics and they are lucky to have such a passionate man.
What a lovely guy, I have been using that model for years, glad to see someone else is. I do see clients with reckless parent who develop ED during their teens. They tell me, "one chaotic person is enough". They didn't develop it as an away to control their lives, they developed it as a way to control overwhelming home life.
what a wonderful compassionate man . i wish others would take the time to understand ppl w eating disorders like he has . we deserve to be listened to & shown compassion as anyone else
this is probably THE most underrated ted talk
only if it affects you or someone in your life, or you will sit there like the audience and think "why I'm watching this"
@@rail7646 Yikes. No. If you have compassionate heart for those suffering with it you'd understand
This man is beautiful and a true inspiration. I wish I could meet him.
Me too
Me too!!!
What an absolutely beautiful man
I dream of having a doctor this dedicated
This is an incredible ted talk! The best I’ve heard thus far. Such a passionate man & very caring! His patients are very lucky to have someone as understanding as him!!
aw man this guy is everything I aspire to be his curiosity to understand an individual person and to first and foremost LISTEN to his patients with pure interest to learn about them is honestly beautiful.
why is this so underrated? It’s amazing
My parents response when they noticed I was exhibiting anorexia nervosa symptoms was to bully and make fun of me. I am still fitting it coming up on 10 years later.
Best talk about eating disorders. Science of adolescent development, autonomy, power,
Thank you for this. 🥺🤍
This changed my life
Why have none of my ED inpatient experiences for anorexia used this approach?
This was wonderful. Thank you!
Amazing talk. Thanks for sharing.
this makes so much sense
Can it be a tragedy of the values of our modern society that the families appropriate and pass down to their children? How about they teach their children it is the health and not the looks that REALLY matters? How about they teach their children it's the concern for others that they need to foster within them as the primary goal? Not self-focusing is the solution to any mental health issue. True success ALWAYS comes through self-realization based on concern for others. I think parents have to step up and teach their kids right.
Again, they NEED to talk more about males with eating disorders. 25% have anorexia nervosa
Agreed, but this video also very much applies to males aswell despite using female examples. I do not know what this has to do to critique the video, other than maybe proving male examples. However, whereMaleway people approach ed recovery and therapy.
This man is well studied on eating disorders speaking as a survivor of it. I’m here to say that I was fully cured of my eating disorder through prayer. I never did any therapy and have had no relapses for 20 years. After numerous failed attempts to figure it out myself, I surrendered to God and began to continually pray to Him to heal me, and that was what finally cured me. To all those suffering with these horrible disorders, God loves you more than you can ever imagine and wants you healed!
Would you be willing to share more?
This was amazing
so powerful ❤
i think i love him
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Half of mental illness is literally the parent's fault for bad parenting.
It's like the phrase, "there are no bad dogs, just bad owners."
I believe the same can be said about kids. There's no such thing as a bad kid, just bad or absent parenting.
I think parents are definitely to blame in a lot of situations where their kid is struggling with a mental illness. Not always, but USUALLY the parents failed the child in a major way that lead to thie child's demise. I'm tired of people saying don't blame your parents they did their best. Well some parents didn't do their best and they are definitely to blame for their kid's suffering. Oftentimes because those parents are INSUFFERABLE.
I guess it’s like a chain reaction of bad parenting creating similar children that then become new bad parents. Rinse and repeat.
interested in The Allocentric locked hypothesis, wonder why no further research has occurred to update the hypothesis
Because it mostly affects women and no one has figured out a way to profit from it. Because ca.pit.al.ism.
Fun times clocks on the walls.
This man seems to understand what he is talking about.
God bless him
I want to contact this man.
Peace
perfect
Not me relating to everything he's saying
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I have to point out that the painting of the flower face is something that patient saw on the internet and copied it ... I’ve seen the original ... don’t know if that makes a difference on its significance
Thanks Karen Buzzkiller 🙄 there’s nothing new on this planet and there hasn’t been for years. The artist of that picture deserves to feel good and not criticized by some rigid thinker who goes around trying to ruin people’s day. Have fun with that.
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one of the most astute observations on anorexia. amazing.