Things You Tell Yourself When You Have Anxiety | Dr Julie Smith

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  • @DrJulie
    @DrJulie  2 роки тому +393

    Hi I'm Dr. Julie subscribe & follow me for lots more videos on mental health.
    For more on this see my new no.1 bestselling book - Why has nobody told me this before?
    👉 linktr.ee/drjuliesmith

    • @purplenuggets6365
      @purplenuggets6365 2 роки тому +2

      Hi Julie! I just want to say I really love your videos and find them really helpful. I’ve had a problem at school recently and wondering if you can help. I have always been known as “the girl that never gets in trouble” but I’ve recently gotten in trouble and people keep talking about it. I feel like no one would like me anymore all because of one small problem. I’d really appreciate if you could help.
      Love from Australia 🇦🇺❤️

    • @rattlethewise
      @rattlethewise 2 роки тому

      TY

    • @Emmy-to5iw
      @Emmy-to5iw 2 роки тому +2

      I have anxiety

    • @teresagalvin312
      @teresagalvin312 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks again Dr Julie for sharing your knowledge its so appreciated 🙏🤘💕

    • @_Wel.
      @_Wel. 2 роки тому +1

      Thats me

  • @sophiesjourney1551
    @sophiesjourney1551 2 роки тому +1026

    I feel I'm interrupting people when I try to connect with them. I feel I'm not significant enough for them to want to spend time with me.

    • @amoenerd
      @amoenerd Рік тому +52

      I experience that too, you are not alone. We are significant to ourselves thats enough.

    • @PurvaD
      @PurvaD Рік тому +23

      OMG the last sentence. I say that to myself, too..

    • @sarahn5717
      @sarahn5717 Рік тому +10

      same here

    • @sibrajbehera4505
      @sibrajbehera4505 Рік тому +10

      Same here

    • @Annabeth_Chase14
      @Annabeth_Chase14 Рік тому +10

      Same here

  • @bobjustbob6170
    @bobjustbob6170 2 роки тому +3813

    Thank you you’ve helped me so much without even knowing it

  • @quiet_shy
    @quiet_shy 2 роки тому +201

    I didn't know it was anxiety causing these thoughts, I always thought it was depression. This is really helpful, thank you.

    • @Thomas_Winters
      @Thomas_Winters 9 місяців тому +19

      See, I’m not so sure at this point. I don’t see how people can live with only one. I feel like anxiety leads to depression if left unmanaged. I do think one can be depressed without anxiety, though.

    • @karadiberlino
      @karadiberlino 8 місяців тому +7

      I agree with both of you!
      It is complex. Healing is also not a walk in the park. Had anyone ever told me how much hard work it is to get out of depression, I would have never gotten into it. 🖐🏼😄 But then, who knows…there are interesting spiritual perspectives on depression. That it‘s the last stage before true awakening.

    • @smartmarketing173
      @smartmarketing173 8 місяців тому +6

      I thought it was low self esteem; for me a result of hyper critical parents. Even at 60, I still never feel enough

    • @rhondalund620
      @rhondalund620 8 місяців тому +1

      Yeah me too

    • @johnjaccetta2699
      @johnjaccetta2699 7 місяців тому +1

      ive heard anxiety and depression can be the other side of the same coin

  • @eyesfullofstars13
    @eyesfullofstars13 2 роки тому +859

    I started crying. I say these things to myself. Sometimes it gets so overwhelming, I tell myself I’ll be okay and this won’t happen tomorrow, and it does.

    • @nadaaaaaaa707
      @nadaaaaaaa707 2 роки тому +11

      I can relate ❤ I want you to know ur not alone❤❤❤❤

    • @Ayaaaaa.88888
      @Ayaaaaa.88888 2 роки тому +3

      Yep same

    • @cattygirl1005
      @cattygirl1005 Рік тому +8

      That the worst part of having anxiety. How much to cope with it doesn't go as we think

    • @jojkavargova6704
      @jojkavargova6704 Рік тому +2

      I am same...but its okay you will be ok, you can do better when you realise it 🤗🤗

    • @stardustring
      @stardustring Рік тому

      Me too

  • @MandiRose225
    @MandiRose225 Рік тому +89

    This is me 100%. Met an older woman the other day. She told me something that her parents told her when she was a kid. “You are better than no one and no one is better than you.” Changed my life. I don’t know why she was drawn to me but I’m so grateful. I spend no more time wondering if people like me or are talking about me.

    • @DrewJones77
      @DrewJones77 9 місяців тому +7

      What I fantastic mantra to say to yourself. The lady who was drawn to you clearly felt a connection and that you're a kind person, remember that.

    • @francalatona591
      @francalatona591 9 місяців тому +5

      And you just paid-it-foward by putting in the comment section. Thank you soo much for sharing it with us! 😊

    • @PreetiGuptaAvril
      @PreetiGuptaAvril 8 місяців тому

      Wow. Parenting done right ❤

  • @mariawilson-jimenez993
    @mariawilson-jimenez993 2 роки тому +40

    Trying to overcome your own negativity is the hardest thing

  • @johngarbutt2857
    @johngarbutt2857 2 роки тому +236

    “You'll stop caring what people think about you when you realize how seldom they do.” - David Foster Wallace

    • @andrewwhitebaritone5974
      @andrewwhitebaritone5974 2 роки тому +2

      You must not be a teacher.

    • @johngarbutt2857
      @johngarbutt2857 2 роки тому +1

      @@andrewwhitebaritone5974 🤣 Sadly I am not, though I did consider it at one time.

    • @andrewwhitebaritone5974
      @andrewwhitebaritone5974 2 роки тому +1

      Reason I say that is teachers, like politicians, police officers, and clergy, really do have people criticizing them constantly.

    • @andrewwhitebaritone5974
      @andrewwhitebaritone5974 2 роки тому +1

      It's not comforting to know that because, even though they're not thinking about you constantly, when they do think of you, they're planning your demise, and the plans they initiate are in motion, so the negativity actually is perpetual.

    • @Plethorality
      @Plethorality 2 роки тому +1

      @@andrewwhitebaritone5974 that sounds like paranoia, rather than anxiety.
      or maybe you just need to move to somewhere nicer?

  • @amberknighten5313
    @amberknighten5313 Рік тому +28

    Thank you! I'm struggling with anxiety at the moment. I'm having a hard time coping and feeling uncomfortable. I wouldn't wish depression or anxiety on anyone. Prayers going up for those out there who struggle with this. God's got this!❤🙂🙏

  • @Mouse-go3gc
    @Mouse-go3gc Рік тому +17

    Seriously feel this way at work. Coworkers constantly stare at me. We have a small room for people with anxiety to go when overwhelmed, but need a doctor's note to prove the anxiety. Whenever I come out, I feel people staring.

  • @Natalia-qd3df
    @Natalia-qd3df 8 місяців тому +3

    That’s pretty spot on and also crying by yourself for hours because you think no one likes you but in my case they actually dont

  • @mi2092
    @mi2092 2 роки тому +260

    “I’m not good at this.” Or “I’m not made for this.” Gets me all the time.
    Thank you Dr. Julie!

  • @Irene12850
    @Irene12850 2 роки тому +599

    "No one likes me"
    "People are taking about me"
    "People are judging me"
    "I am no good at this"
    I wish I didn't have this in my mind all the time but I can't do anything 😕 😔

    • @mixhlee
      @mixhlee 2 роки тому +7

      Same since this year 😪 it took a turn hope your better j9w

    • @ApollonarianShy
      @ApollonarianShy 2 роки тому +4

      M2. I'm mostly so cs I grew more like strangers w my mom & we never communicated but she made me feel a miserable about myself 😣
      Ik mb its not OK to write here these things but felt like sharing. Is it at you kinda similar?

    • @Irene12850
      @Irene12850 2 роки тому +8

      @@ApollonarianShylook it's ok others can say whatever sh*t they wanna say your pretty beautiful and perfect the way you are people are just saying it thinking that you should be "skinny" and when your skinny they will say your " under weight" it's ok just tell them to mind their business or just don't listen they will hurt you but be strong and brave your weak self is taking over you and you should let only your strong side on so don't listen

    • @timidbear4204
      @timidbear4204 2 роки тому +4

      I feel heard with these words if only my colleagues knew

    • @Irene12850
      @Irene12850 2 роки тому +1

      @@timidbear4204 its ok everything is gonna be fine don't worry I am sure you will be happy you will be very happy look even this shows you being happy➡️ 🗓

  • @eshal3553
    @eshal3553 2 роки тому +845

    This is actually me when I get in a bus some girls just start laughing or give me a stare or whisper to each other I’m like they are for sure discussing me

    • @burkinfaso
      @burkinfaso 2 роки тому

      They might and they are doing it on purpose - their tactic is to “attack” you in numbers, as a pack. Don’t pay attention - I know it might be hard to do, trust me they feel your reaction and they gonna keep on doing it. Next time it happens try something new - if you happen to look at them - pretend they are fresh smelly dog poop. Very smelly! And don’t be shy to express that disgust - show them you’re the boss, show them you’re unbothered! Because YOU ARE THE BOSS! you go girl! Never be afraid! 🤗

    • @lorenajoy8374
      @lorenajoy8374 2 роки тому +15

      Same tho

    • @fancypantscat1138
      @fancypantscat1138 2 роки тому +20

      my giftedness helps me with my anxiety in some ways but sometimes makes it worse. I learn differently and all the teachers i have had, especially my 2nd grade teacher who LITERALLY GASLIGHTED ME, view me as disrespectful. and being treated that way messes with my anxiety, which makes me lash out. but i dont really have problems most of the time with thinking people are talking about me because intellectually gifted people have very complex thoughts and a strong sense of justice, and that makes my thoughts on that kind of thing clearer and more realistic, making me think "its just my anxiety, they're very obviously talking about other things." and my strong sense of justice kind of makes me subconsciously deny that anyone can do anything wrong.

    • @burkinfaso
      @burkinfaso 2 роки тому +3

      @@fancypantscat1138 you’re absolutely right. My strong sense of justice has always been a blessing and a curse. I never new I had anxiety and ADHD (possibly being a high functioning autistic girl- as non of those things has been diagnosed as a child, but I’m an adult now and learned how to deal with most situations) just had to learn how to better understand myself as nobody else seemed to get it. But as I said I don’t regret it now!

    • @lucaskasssab4543
      @lucaskasssab4543 2 роки тому +3

      Look up the word Sonder

  • @musiclove4635
    @musiclove4635 2 роки тому +5

    True. We tend to best ourselves up over things that are only in our minds. Breathe and know you got this

  • @brickslayerstudio
    @brickslayerstudio 2 роки тому +56

    “You’re not alone there’s someone behind you”

    • @kimonaoodith5596
      @kimonaoodith5596 Рік тому +1

      Took a long time to get over this one... Hang in there 🙏

    • @thenoobofeaster
      @thenoobofeaster Рік тому +1

      Idk if this is supposed to be positive...? Damn, it gives me chills for some reason

    • @StainlessHelena
      @StainlessHelena 8 місяців тому +1

      In the corner of your eye you spot him...

    • @annabartos4046
      @annabartos4046 8 місяців тому

      @@thenoobofeasterSarcastic lol

  • @sumstoner
    @sumstoner 2 роки тому +80

    Exactly! I just wish people would understand. Having anxiety feels like I'm in a constant battle and sometimes I'm losing

  • @christmascorgi11
    @christmascorgi11 2 роки тому +280

    not me reading “things to tell yourself when you have anxiety” 💀

    • @twerkinglikeafeline7919
      @twerkinglikeafeline7919 2 роки тому +7

      OH NO NO NO NOOO

    • @wannurdalila3338
      @wannurdalila3338 2 роки тому +3

      Hahaha same I was confused

    • @amydorsey6001
      @amydorsey6001 2 роки тому +1

      Same brooo

    • @applefunfact
      @applefunfact 2 роки тому

      HELP 💀😻🤷😁😺🫂☹️😨😍✋😶😎🤨🥰😱👏🐕😌👺💔⁉️🥺🤐👽👅😳🙄😢🔫🙃

    • @miarosko9362
      @miarosko9362 10 місяців тому +2

      OMG LITERALLY ME I was so confused, straight to the comments like did I miss something no one told me about? ❤❤😂

  • @sarahamiracle
    @sarahamiracle 2 роки тому +21

    You really captured how it feels, with words and you can just see it on your face. Ty ❤️

  • @Frovael
    @Frovael Рік тому +11

    Yep sounds about right.
    And it doesn't help me that every time I do anything, my mom goes "people will judge you for that"..😑

  • @QueenSkylarFrost
    @QueenSkylarFrost 8 місяців тому +10

    I tell myself these things
    ALL
    THE
    TIME
    By this point, it's practically a routine
    I hate that so many of us go through the same things

  • @aileym2024
    @aileym2024 2 роки тому +1272

    When you think it says "things to tell yourself when you have anxiety"

  • @Hi_There988
    @Hi_There988 2 роки тому +24

    This is me…constantly…literally always…every second of my life…

  • @sampadamishra8484
    @sampadamishra8484 2 роки тому +23

    Your videos have helped me understand myself. I have been on this self discovery journey and you've helped me throughout it all. Thank you, thank you so much for all that you do. 💚

  • @itzluna5482
    @itzluna5482 Рік тому +2

    I tell myself all of these things, and it's nice to know there's someone out there who understands.

  • @SunitaTheGreat
    @SunitaTheGreat Рік тому +6

    You described me in few seconds.
    Yes, i feel like people judge me to the extent that I feel insecure and very less confident

  • @venti7078
    @venti7078 2 роки тому +23

    As a person with anxiety, I can confirm this is accurate.

  • @unclewillis913
    @unclewillis913 2 роки тому +5

    Scary how accurate this is, thank you Dr. Julie.

  • @Not_Haidy
    @Not_Haidy 2 роки тому +4

    Thank u! Studying with anxiety is really hard especially if u get distracted easily, but u helped me figure out whats wrong with me and how to accept it and cope with it!

  • @menchugay6061
    @menchugay6061 6 місяців тому

    You're beautiful Doc.
    The you attracts.
    The lessons learned.
    Thank Doc. Julie.❤

  • @a4thew
    @a4thew 2 роки тому +6

    I just realized I have anxiety a week ago. And all these things happen to me and it’s very difficult. And I hope for anyone who struggles with it, finds it easy and good.

    • @a4thew
      @a4thew 2 роки тому +1

      @plantopiamedics thank you so much this really helped!

  • @Kuruflower
    @Kuruflower 2 роки тому +31

    Ok you act that out too good. I'm guessing you've been there and you're helping others come thru. Thank you 🙏❤️

    • @Conald_isAfalseProphet
      @Conald_isAfalseProphet 2 роки тому +2

      Maybe, but she is a Psychologist and knows how some of us feel without knowing us. It does help though, her videos are very good.

  • @jbbmb
    @jbbmb 2 роки тому +6

    Thank You so much for all the content… You don’t even know me, but you changed my life for the better! Keep up the great work. Love all the way from Portugal 🇵🇹❤️

    • @DrJulie
      @DrJulie  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for this comment Joao. I hope my videos can continue to help. Julie

  • @cutehandlename7
    @cutehandlename7 3 місяці тому +1

    and we still accomplish things anyway 💪💪

  • @movewithmike
    @movewithmike 8 місяців тому

    On top of being an insightful therapist, you would make a great actress!

  • @reignwithbrains8242
    @reignwithbrains8242 2 роки тому +16

    I experience EVERY ONE 🎯😔 seriously a work in progress I can DEFINITELY relate 💯

  • @cindylehman4818
    @cindylehman4818 Рік тому +3

    Every time I walked down the street I felt like everyone I passed judged me and if it was more than one person they whisper about me. I had a therapist tell me I was a narcissist because I obviously thought the world revolved around me. It took year to get over that. Love your videos.

  • @Sheena123
    @Sheena123 Рік тому +10

    “People are talking and judging about me”
    “No stupid: They don’t care about you that much”

  • @MayDay43
    @MayDay43 Рік тому

    I have never felt more relatable in my entire life. It honestly feels so good to know I'm not the only one who deals with this.

  • @yourochelle
    @yourochelle Рік тому

    @embeihold & @drjulie two shiny sides to the same coin. Thank you both so much for making us feel better about life.

  • @arrowhead7863
    @arrowhead7863 2 роки тому +87

    Me: oh wow that's sad that people think that
    Also me: realizes I think all of these things

    • @trud6346
      @trud6346 2 роки тому +1

      Same but I have mordant severe anxiety severe depression heart rumor risk of adhd eating disorder bipolar physical

    • @arrowhead7863
      @arrowhead7863 2 роки тому

      @@trud6346 oh my gosh. I hope you'll get better. You're in my prayers

    • @Losjo4093
      @Losjo4093 2 роки тому

      Same

    • @Losjo4093
      @Losjo4093 2 роки тому

      @@trud6346 woah thats alot hope it gets better

  • @mishtimishti4127
    @mishtimishti4127 Рік тому +7

    After seeing this I started crying

  • @Klenovyj
    @Klenovyj 2 роки тому +26

    "It will never get better", "I can't be happy in the present moment"

    • @스네하보라색이네요
      @스네하보라색이네요 2 роки тому

      Same . When feel have i suddenly start overthink and i which I'm not good just think about only .

  • @davidaandpaula1341
    @davidaandpaula1341 2 роки тому

    Exactly my thoughts everyday! Thank you so much for helping me recognize my anxiety. You rock Dr Julie!

  • @JamesTrouten-t6z
    @JamesTrouten-t6z 8 місяців тому

    You give me hope. Thanks for your time ❤

  • @kelsiegillett-hill8773
    @kelsiegillett-hill8773 2 роки тому +85

    I thought it said things to say to yourself when you have anxiety and I was confused af

  • @foxle_
    @foxle_ Рік тому +3

    The last ones really hit home and I hate that it’s something that just is normal for me sometimes though it’s cool that someone out there actually knows how you think with that type of thing

  • @imanasim8290
    @imanasim8290 2 роки тому +4

    I used to think this when I had anxiety and a year after overcoming it, I’ve realised that I was less alone than I thought.

  • @AnveshiJain
    @AnveshiJain Рік тому

    You act so well ❤

  • @moloymondal2494
    @moloymondal2494 2 роки тому

    Ma'am you are doing an excellent job in providing the most important thing the youth needs nowadays that is how to cope with physiological problems.

  • @editing_parrots5838
    @editing_parrots5838 2 роки тому +13

    I didn’t know I had Anxiety, but after I watched this now I know that I have anxiety thank u so much

    • @livefreeordie5353
      @livefreeordie5353 2 роки тому +1

      It’s the human condition

    • @editing_parrots5838
      @editing_parrots5838 2 роки тому +2

      @@livefreeordie5353 ok? I still didn’t know I had anxiety

    • @eshaalalam1558
      @eshaalalam1558 2 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @ApollonarianShy
      @ApollonarianShy 2 роки тому

      There is a normal amount of anxiety everyone has like emotions, fear they could fail etc
      But when it's too much its chronic anxiety

    • @editing_parrots5838
      @editing_parrots5838 2 роки тому

      @@ApollonarianShy ik i have social anxiety!

  • @MC_DOOM44
    @MC_DOOM44 2 роки тому +4

    Sometimes I go really crazy when my anxiety kicks in

  • @nylir7495
    @nylir7495 2 роки тому +20

    "just calm down" on loop. I was almost shouting to myself on my mind. And of course that made me feel worse xD

  • @lisaalexander1824
    @lisaalexander1824 8 місяців тому

    What a great format and construct of your videos...full of life, movement and colour...but not frantically , just calm and uplifting❤

  • @sarahplayz5999
    @sarahplayz5999 2 роки тому

    I am concerned for my mental health after seeing this...
    Thank you for making me self aware ❤️

  • @livxedits.0
    @livxedits.0 2 роки тому +5

    I got the “people are talking about me” when I knew my friend group had a sleepover without me.

  • @sydney3569
    @sydney3569 2 роки тому +5

    When this happens to you daily🥲

  • @Belladawn4ever
    @Belladawn4ever 2 роки тому +4

    I have to go thru this at school everyday and honestly I hide from the crowd bc it’s just so annoying and people just can’t leave me alone and I get annoyed but I got to act like I don’t care

  • @SomebodyRandom39
    @SomebodyRandom39 8 місяців тому +2

    Whenever I try to socialize, I am either ignored or I feel like I am interrupting, so yeah... Living the dream

  • @InvisableMe
    @InvisableMe Рік тому

    You are great.
    Smart. Short. Accurate... and pleasant to watch. I really enjoy your videos

  • @razanakram5790
    @razanakram5790 2 роки тому +7

    I can relate with “people are judging me”
    Story time: I was in 2nd grade and I accidentally spilled chocolate milk all over my pants and I went to the clinic and she gave me sweats that were WAY too big so I had to tie it with a hair tie and while walking in the hallways back to class I see 4th grader girls looking at me whispering and giggling. I went back to class crying bc I couldn’t stop over thinking it. Eventually the teacher saw me crying and I told her what happened :/

  • @eshaalalam1558
    @eshaalalam1558 2 роки тому +8

    “People are talking about me”
    “People are judging me”
    “No one likes me”
    “I’m no good at this”
    I can relate to this :(

    • @Hhkkgfy
      @Hhkkgfy Рік тому +2

      Same, your not alone

  • @va.l_
    @va.l_ 2 роки тому +25

    when you thought it said "things to tell yourself when you have anxiety":
    me: uh- what?

  • @zenmama4160
    @zenmama4160 10 місяців тому

    Thanks for this channel. It’s really helping me to identify issues I was unaware of. There’s a saying: Knowing is half the battle

  • @janehopper5451
    @janehopper5451 Рік тому

    When this happens to me I tell myself "it's going to be okay" because thanks to you I know I'll get out okay love you and thank you for supporting everyone u can ❤️

  • @gga_lovexfire
    @gga_lovexfire 2 роки тому +11

    i feel like everyone says the "im no good at this" thing WAIT DOES EVERYONE HAVE ANXIETY THEN!? wait- NO

    • @whales.__.arecool
      @whales.__.arecool 2 роки тому

      not really everyone
      I have a classmate that I completely hate,but one thing I've always appreciated to him is that he'd always believe in himself and that he's the best at everything

    • @JennieKim-ef8kp
      @JennieKim-ef8kp 2 роки тому

      umm ?

  • @stqstr
    @stqstr 2 роки тому +6

    I had no idea these were anxiety symptoms 💀

  • @butterraccoon8296
    @butterraccoon8296 2 роки тому +6

    Yay, I have anxiety
    lol
    I already knew this
    But I enjoyed the video, I'm just being funny

  • @madebyari_
    @madebyari_ 8 місяців тому

    i have been diagnosed with anxiety and my thoughts include:
    “they’re probably laughing about me”
    “i can’t wear this or people will think i’m trying to hard / not trying enough”
    “they’re probably just friends with me because they feel bad”
    etc.
    basically just overthinking every little thing😕

  • @tammyseaman7186
    @tammyseaman7186 Рік тому

    You help me see past myself and my panic attacks! ❤ 😢 I now know I’m going to survive 😂 I enjoy following you and you make a great difference❣️🤗🏖🗣

  • @LemonaY_Gat
    @LemonaY_Gat Рік тому

    youre like giving me therapy through shorts,thank you this helped me into understanding what im feeling,youre awesome thank you :)

  • @ramyg5037
    @ramyg5037 Рік тому

    Love this doctor - she gives free advice which you would otherwise have to pay during an actual visit

  • @hpun
    @hpun 8 місяців тому

    yess!! this song is such a bop. great video too…i realized how much i’ve been saying these things to myself.

  • @SheilaJones-y3s
    @SheilaJones-y3s Рік тому

    It would be so nice if we who feel that way could find a way to support one another.

  • @kyuutatsu
    @kyuutatsu Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much! YOu've helped me identify destructive behaviors in myself, but I have managed to quell one of these lines the "I'm not good at this" line. I instead try to tell myself "trust the process" so I see it through and learn from the experience instead of giving up halfway

  • @Addy-hw8hf
    @Addy-hw8hf 9 місяців тому +2

    “They’re all judging me” is one of the things I tell myself. When I’m with people I’m scared to eat or put food on my plate because I’m scared of what they’re gonna think

  • @yuko9824
    @yuko9824 Рік тому

    Thank you dr julie .
    .your content is really helpful for me

  • @whompers4878
    @whompers4878 2 роки тому +2

    I’ve had anxiety for a while now and all of these things have happened to me, I love the orange and pink dress btw. Gorgeous on you!❤

  • @briannajohnson774
    @briannajohnson774 Рік тому

    This is so true. I have struggled with anxiety my whole life and always thought I was weird and that there was something wrong with me. Thank you for normalizing anxiety. ❤

  • @Kelib333
    @Kelib333 Рік тому

    You are so awesome!! Thank you!! Thank you!!!

  • @keishafearon6559
    @keishafearon6559 Рік тому

    Where have you been all my life..!! This is so accurate!

  • @victoria_softball
    @victoria_softball 2 роки тому +2

    Hi,I was diagonosed by my dad with Anxiety and i have suffered it and you helped me understand it more. I know that more people are like me i suffer from all anxiety so i want to thank you for these videos.-Kaede

  • @rachelpeters1927
    @rachelpeters1927 2 роки тому

    I almost cried because I saw myself years ago. Oh my god, I didnt realized how far better I am now. This self love journey was sooo hard but I am here! Realizing how I am now better with dealing with my inner demons :)

  • @liyasmaria4274
    @liyasmaria4274 Рік тому

    Mam you're are helping a lot of people to be aware and think of themselves.
    When ever l go through your videos l always have this thought that atleast 95percent of teen are inside this web of depression and we all were thought that it all were because we are in our teen ,why it is completely like that our youth have not only depression but also a long losted happiness that we share, our teens are merely edging by elder about our mentalhealth and more hopefully and happily, l am glad to see you talk about such things to public as a doctor even if you haven't mention teenager, even though a lot thanks.
    Thank you 😊

  • @Darcymac
    @Darcymac Рік тому

    Getting rid of social media helped me

  • @philfitzmaurice3170
    @philfitzmaurice3170 Рік тому

    Your a good actress also! Your little scenes are very convincing!

  • @PuenteAJ
    @PuenteAJ Рік тому

    Feels like you can see into my brain. Thank you

  • @safa4100
    @safa4100 Рік тому

    That "People are judging me/ talking about me is so relatable"

  • @bunniewood
    @bunniewood 2 роки тому

    This exactly! I had these thoughts every second of everyday for 25 years until I went on meds and my life changed.

  • @microphoneawake4708
    @microphoneawake4708 Рік тому

    I just raise my hand 🙋‍♀️ and and admit to it!

  • @signed.by.Tamana
    @signed.by.Tamana 11 місяців тому

    The “I’m not good at this” IS ME WITHE EVERYTHING

  • @dtattedmami
    @dtattedmami Рік тому

    I’m so happy I found you on my feed❤❤

  • @nicolestocks2853
    @nicolestocks2853 6 місяців тому +1

    Excellent song choice. I see you have worked very hard on this video. Never worry about what others are saying about you. They are talking to each other not you so it is none of your business what they say to each other. When they are talking to you and are letting you be involved in the conversation that is when you become involved. Never worry about what people gossip ABOUT you pay attention to what they gossip TO you and WHO THEY ARE. Always remember too that when people gossip about others they are probably gossiping about you too. So always be mindful of what you say in response to gossip about other people you dont know who these people are going to tell next since they are brave enough to tell you. You are no one special when it comes to being told gossip about other people. All this includes me as well and if ever you cant wait to dish out gossip about someone look in the mirror and gossip to yourself you may be surprised as to what you have to say about yourself. Thanks for the video. Stay awesome.

  • @michelle1492
    @michelle1492 Рік тому

    That's so true, why it is so relatable

  • @Sophia-love-624
    @Sophia-love-624 9 місяців тому

    Yes ty for being someone who accually knows, I've known a lot of counselors and they all exaggerated

  • @juriensmits8513
    @juriensmits8513 Рік тому

    You have helped me see so much I've been missing. Atleast now I know there is a problem

  • @Simply_Barbie
    @Simply_Barbie 9 місяців тому +2

    I’ve never thought I had anxiety, but I related to literally everything in this video- woah.

  • @AwesomeAmani
    @AwesomeAmani Рік тому

    I relate to this a lot. Especially the people are talking about me one. I go on WhatsApp and whenever my family members are online at the same time I automatically think they’re taking about me, and it gets quite overwhelming at times.

  • @nikkimckay860
    @nikkimckay860 Рік тому

    @Dr Julie. This video about Anxiety I can completely relate to this describes me

  • @Colbyy4life_
    @Colbyy4life_ Рік тому

    I’ve been recently hearing voices in my heads saying “they are gonna abandon you” or “your gonna embrace yourself” but the one I hear the most is “this is ur last day to live”