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It happened to me a few months ago, and after she gave me that bullshit, I told her : you're NOT working, I'm paying for EVERYTHING so, if anyone is gonna sleep on the sofa, it's going to be YOU! She looked at me baffled but then I added, it's either the sofa, or you can sleep in your car! That argument was over in a minute! Thanks Roma for your support towards men! WE need it!
Well done my friend
I doubt that she expected you to let her know what time it was. Excellent job! She had some nerve coming at you like that if you're the only one in your relationship working and paying for stuff.
@@marcus813 worst part of it all, is that she's my wife! She's been ill for about 4 years now, and she's getting frustrated with it and lost her cool. But I was getting tired of her putting the blame on me all the time! So, I had enough and just HAD to shut her up.
Good job!
Seriously Chad
Chloe Roma is a high value human being in a time dominated by low value masses. Huge wisdom.
@@chrisdavies3223 who are you referring to?
I'm terrible at this. I meant thankyou C for pointing this nonsense out
@@WillBabbitt❤ you need to get some good news on this blog
@@chrisdavies3223 indeed.
@@PaulMoss-ev5hh often
The statement "We have literally trained women to be narcists" is really sticking with me. Really makes me think that the standards or "gentlemanly" behavior towards women that is taught from very early on can be very harmful by creating this imbalance of value between the sexes. I'll be chewing on this one for a good while. Thanks for the share.
women are like that from childhood, heck even boys are like that, diffference is boys are early weened out of that behaviour and put to place, feet on ground everywhere. not that boys or men would want that anyway but women dwell on it and now they have full pass.
Gentlemanly behavior required lady-like behavior in return. Too many women decided their happiness at a given moment was more important than acting properly, and it took a couple generations for guys to realize the deal was broken.
Which is tragic, because most guys just want someone to share life with, but instead end up dating women who will toss them aside the moment they think someone else will make them happier.
Hard disagree. It's not the gentlemanly behavior (exclusively, of course there are individual exceptions) that creates the imbalance. Men and women complement each other because they are different, and _both_ roles are required to form a perfect union. Being single is a different conversation, but if a relationship is what you're looking for light can't exist without darkness, nor yin without yang, nor good without evil.
If both sides are raised well there is balance. If one's sense of self or ego is unduly inflated (male _or_ female), I guarantee it had already become so _before_ the relationship they're currently in
@@micahnewby7964 I will explain what I mean. Lets say the general goal is for men and women to see each other's as equals with equal value. Most of what is expected in "gentlemanly behavior" is about not treating a woman as a strong and independent person that doesn't need assistance from a man but as either a lesser person that can't do for themselves or puts them on a pedestal of higher value and importance that you have to serve. To not comply is to be considered less of a man. So I would say a lot of value assigning happens in this way of thinking. This is by no means the only social construct we suffer under that does this but it is a significant one.
@@b20di3 I see where the difference is. Honestly? I understand what you mean when viewed from the perspective you present, I just have some fundamental disagreements with said perspective
"Let's say the general goal is men and women are equal, with equal value". No, let's _not_ say that. If we are both the same, one of us is unnecessary. Fitting together perfectly? The dream. Being two of exactly the same halves? Like forces tend to repel; _opposites_ attract
Also, I can't speak for other men exhibiting chivalric behavior, but I'm not holding doors open or walking on the street side of the sidewalk or stepping to someone who steps to you because I think you can't or that you're lesser. And I'm damn sure not doing it because of what someone else will think of me if I don't. In fact, most of the time there is _no_ conscious "because"; it's hardwired in with the protective instincts
That said, no one's perfect and people can do good things badly or for the wrong reasons. I am sorry if society or your own lived experiences have taught you that we're all over here thinking we gotta hewp the hewpwess widdle wady, but I promise we aren't all like that
It's so confusing...some women claim to be a warrior queen but want to be treated like a princess. They demand equality and then want to be placed on a pedestal.
Men have always struggled to understand what women want, but it's gotten so much worse...
Thank you, Chloe, for helping us make sense of it all!
A true "warrior queen" will slay the dragon to save you, yet she will also want you enamored with her. Too many "queens" are simply fancy feminists and golddiggers.
Why struggle to understand what they want. Simply do not care what they want. If they are not all over you already then what they want is not you (not a personal attack on you.. just a general statement.) If you encounter one that actually wants you (again, not an attack on you.. just a general statement) she will either be all over you or she will play games.. and if she plays games then she is not the one you want.
Nah. You find one who is all over you and there's a good chance she'll change her mind when she wants a new dyq.
@@rcrawford42 Fair point. That is the problem with living in a free country. Bottom line is to be wary at all times.
@@rcrawford42 Or a bigger.....bank account to mooch from.
Roma really making a huge difference in the lives of men from those types of modern women like no other UA-camr out there
Simp
Sing it brother.
Would you consider a woman using your money to support her children? Hasn't had a real job since forever and only uses you money to by herself things instead of putting that money towards helping men find good divorce lawyers or for custody battles go fund mes for struggling fathers? Hmmm
@@wedontneedtofight There are a lot of lawyers that block some time out of their fiscal year to do pro bono work. That means free fwiw. It'll take a minute calling around but I'm sure you'll find one. As for your 1st question... hell no I don't support that. If it's not your kids, it's not your monkeys and it ain't your circus. Provide for your child and nothing else. Money says she won't be able to afford a lawyer to get you to pay for those other kids anyway. And if it's someone you're dating, run like Forrest Gump . Just my 2 cents. Good luck my brother. -Drew
My wife and I have, over the years of our relationship, developed our own methods where neither partner is left feeling "less than" after an argument is resolved. I am very fortunate to never have been met with such a response as you described it.
Why the hell she still here watching this? Get your wife out
@@jetnight88 He didn’t say she was watching this.
Can you please describe it?
That is what my son,22, has to say about the females his age. I met his mom over44 years ago and was married to her for over43 years until I lost her to cancer. If she would have acted like that we would not have gotten past the first date and it would have been short.
I've thought the same thing, but also realized that the son or children wouldn't be here if not for it having taken time for this trait to come out. For myself, it was all worth it in order to have them in the world, but also I definitely agree. Were there earlier signs then I would have grabbed a fork and slowly walked backwards.
Sorry to hear about your wife.
My ex once told me that maybe I should go live with my mother. Mind you, I'm the one working and paying for everything. I lost it and told her maybe she should go live with hers. The look of shock on her face was a MasterCard moment. Lol
Putting her in her place: Priceless
Agree 100%. I own my home, so NO ONE tells me to sleep on the couch. However, I wouldn't stop there. Sleeping on the couch means: the witholding of physical affection, even if we are only talking about touch. This means: the relationship is DEAD. No one gets to weaponize the relationship as EXTORTION. I would tell whatserface to... GET OUT.
Pat Benatar sung it best "Stop using sex as a weapon!"
As a man I want to say thanks, and I am really grateful for your channel. As I haven't really dated all that much, I watch what to look for and especially what to lookout for! Thanks Chloe for sticking up for us men!
Seriously, young man? Looking over western women available about nowadays? I'd suggest same to you as I did to my grown son, to ignore western women totally; and instead Passport Bro it, in the Philippines or similar.
(Agree.) (Adding...) Part of the problem is society winks at female emotionalism (legally, socially, psycholigically). They are given leeway (or a safe space) in which this self centered emotionalism is allowed to fester.
Women need to be taught (as well a society) that emotions need to be controlled/channelled for good. Otherwise we get "spoiled children" as adults.
As a father my daughter's botttom was red a few times, I knew she would not be getting discipline anywhere else.
yah as society doing things backwards: assume people have emotion control from getgo, while we as humans learn it in group, in work. if selection criteria and worklife in general has turned into "emotion game", well.... it does seem to have happened like that, california culture (where this origin seems to be again) has spread all over world, especially cities and is put on pedestal as status thing.
People come from far and wide to hear the prophet speak. Thanks for being awesome.
I was raised around mostly females and by women. So I get it. The drama and craziness I dealt with as a teen that had a lot of female friends that were just that, friends!
Now, it's extremely difficult to know if anyone is genuine or not! You're amazing! Thank you!
So you’re gay right? Not an unusual occurrence among boys raised by all women.
You know what's amazing? There's a bunch of women who actually wanna hear you. You know what sucks? This woman has been scamming men since 2013.
@@wedontneedtofight how is it a scam? access to youtube is free
@@ProjectSwietek the only fans is not the subscribers equal cash flow
@@wedontneedtofight grow up. Its a service she chooses to provide. Those who pay pay by choice. Its not a scam, it isnt misleading, and its entirely optional. Let go your hate.
My gf, after a argument, came back with this after I tried being the adult and apologize.
I went from warm and sincere to Antarctica dead cold. As I was looking into her eyes as she said it. She saw that shift. That dead cold eyes.
I just pointed at thw door. And said " well, go find the bastard."
No fight for me? Or for this relationship? All shocked and stammering over the words.
Honey when it's worth fighting for. I'll fight. It's its worth it to me. You know I'll fight.
But if the drama, and just general headache of dealing with your day to day shit. Fucks up my mental or emotional health and stability. Your not worth the fight. So there's the door. And go find you your dream man.
She has since changed her tune.
And don't come back. I don't take returns.
@@markh.6687 yup
The last woman I dated said "That's just how I am" ... I responded with 'what in the hell type of almost 30yr old child shit is that?'
the woman I'm currently dating, when she's speaking I listen, when Im speaking, she listens. We both own up to our parts when things come up. Dating someone who's waaaaay healthier got me doing double takes.
its one of the many reasons why I am alone and solo. the attitude, the tone, the vibe they give off is so toxic that I will not put up with that bullshit. I wont settle for a female that is going to try and treat me like trash or demand shit like she is owed. women definitely don't appreciate the good men. until someone comes out of the blue that is non-toxic, ill stick to being alone
Yep.
I was in a similar situation in the late 1990's.
It lasted a week before I told her to take a hike.
This is an “American Woman” problem for sure, imhe! My wife is Japanese and she is nothing like this whatsoever! Best harmonious and mutually pleasing relationship in my life and I’m 41, she’s 52.
The American Woman song has so much merit and truth to it!
Sorry, I can't help it. That song was not about an American woman. It was about the entire country of America. It's using a single American Woman as a metaphor for the entire country. So get your head on straight and understand what the song is about.
Chloe, I've been married for 36 years to an absolute Saint of a woman. I'm so glad you are standing up for men. My lovely wife would NEVER do the things the women you call out do. God Bless you. BTW, no disrespect meant, but you are HOTT! Not just eye candy, but inside, too.
Roma you are BRILLIANT 👏 You call it 💯 RIGHT
You are a blessing to men everywhere ❤❤❤❤❤❤
A real man can stand on his own. A real man knows when to listen and to think twice before responding.
I've been wondering about that very same thing. I suspect it's because too many men view the woman as "the prize" rather than as a fellow human being with virtues and flaws of her own. The thing is by viewing the woman as the prize, you elevate her and subjugate yourself, giving away all your power and value in the process. Only by maintaining a perspective of mutuality and reciprocal and equal value can this dynamic be overcome. But this will require retraining both men and women to function with appropriate mutual respect in this new paradigm.
Recent breakup was this.. makes it hard to take accountability when you're the only one
I am so glad to have been born and be married of a generation that there is none o bsI have said before I've just celebrated 25 years of marrage to a wonderful woman which I have so much respect and total loyalty too and she has the same what happened to that simple concept of marriage. In my hats off to Roma army. For trying her best to help the younger generations. Be able to have what I have and others of my generation have. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
How exactly do they expect someone to be "man enough" to "handle" them? Do they mean someone who will put up with their bullshit? Because that's more likely to be someone passive, which is opposite to their idea of "man enough". Consequently someone who meets their expectations of being "man enough" to match their energy is likely to smack a ho.
Which then gives them a reason to say he was abusive once he is her ex. Until then she'll play the victim regardless... after all.. victims get all of the attention.
What they really want is someone stupid or with low enough self esteem to settle for their crazy BS...
Thank God i have the most beautiful, faithfull,gorgeous woman already . 😊
jaw droppingly speechless but not in a negative way
I once had a girlfriend like that. She never apologized for none of her misbehaves and i was always the "problem". I Wonder why she don't have a boyfriend yet she is so fu#@ing perfect 🤔 i later realized she was a narsist. She really fuc@€d up my mind. I don't think i have been right ever since we broke up....
What might keep you/us in balance is adding up other experiences, regardless them being similar or different. So get back on your horse and go for another path. Hopefully, some kind and genuine woman will make you remember what sweetness and femininity can bring to a relationship, and stay away, far away, from those who try to shame you from being either "controling, possesive, jealous, insecure etc etc" if you are exclusive, saying that "if you're looking for a puppet doll, that's not me, I need a guy that can handle me". Those need not a bf or husband to act a punchingball, but rather a doctor and medication to regulate their malignant narcissistic and abusive self-entitled f-ed up nauseating bossbitch obnoxious spoiled immaure teenager attitudes. Good luck.
@@marcolivier1307 haha 😂 well put into words! Thanks 🙂
Thanks Chloe this happens to all men. I appreciate you highlighting this Disney Princess Syndrome that most women have today. We can't say the things you say without seeming weak so we bite down and keep it moving. You make it so funny too 😂 One love
I honestly don't mean any disrespect, Chloe but you're looking extremely attractive with the new haircut.
Also, thank you for everything you do. You're our hero.
Another one is “I’m sorry you feel that way” cuz yk no one can ever apologize anymore
"We" didn't train them to be anything. The women I know like this have chosen to be self centered, unable to take accountability or responsibility, and have chosen to care only about how they look (outside and inside), instead of using the talents/gifts of nurturing, love, kindness, compassion, empathy that they naturally possess for the betterment of all of us, they chose to use these as leverage and now will reap what they sow, unfortunately it is a loss for us all. Like having the perfect gift for someone else and deciding to keep it for yourself. I pray daily that they find inner peace and can hold themselves to the standard they demand from others. Thank you Roma, enjoy your thoughts/videos immensely!
Thank you!!! Chloe Roma You are very important to all us men who go day to day quietly taking in bullshit.
Roma..I love you! I really love you. You always stood by us and inspired us to be better. I think on behalf of my fellow men I must say thank you ✨️🌹 people like you are rare these days. God bless ❤️
Dont reply to telegram comments its not chloe its a scam to get your details
Dont reply to telegram its not chloe its a scam
@@nathangrueber9834 yeah I am aware of the scam. Thank you so much for telling me though 👍🏼
English guy here big fan your point of view is so refreshing thanks for saying what we cant....
You have the thanks and respect of many of us norm good guys who get pulled into the whole...
Plus you make this Englishman laugh out loud humour best gift you can pass on....
Massive cup of tea and crumpets here anytime...especially if u can stop my ex stalking me....haha
Respect the shit out of how blunt n honest you are no bullshit needed
So so true! Preach girl
I am at a lose for words, I have heard similar things myself several times. TyTy for this video it opened up my eyes more to this type off stuff. Have an Awesome day 🥰
I may be a virgin but even I know not to behave like this. If you have to put up with someone then are they the one. Love the videos keep up the good work.
This is one of the reasons I am single by choise and also THE reason why my sister is single not by choise 😂
It's funny. I was having lunch with a female friend and explaining why I was divorcing my wife. I said that the marriage counselor we were seeing told me when I went back for 1-1 meeting, that my wife was the biggest narcissist she'd ever seen. My friend thought for a minute and said that she could see that, but she had only thought men could be narcissistic.
I get told "we survive because of you, please come to bed"
The best part of being with an older woman...they are called values...gotta love them.
OMG, I've never noticed that until now & you're absolutely right!! Thank you for being here for us dudes. Love it! 👏🏼👏🏼
Chloe, I love you, Dear one!
Thank you for dumbing it down, “Barney Style” for these ladies. You’re such a breath of fresh air ❤ your understanding and validation is truly heroic!
Yeah, if a girlfriend said something like what Chloe warned about, I’d have thrown her out of my life like Starscream throwing Megatron out of Astrotrain in Transformers: The Movie.
Get rid of the dead weight? I liked that movie even though they killed off Optimus Prime.
Same. And to think, I met the voice of Optimus Prime, Peter Cullen. :D
Subclinical trait narcissism is one of the dark triad/dark tetrad personality traits. As third wave feminism has progressed, we have seen more women suffering from the mental health problems that were once only prominent in men. Women’s suicide stats are starting to go up and it’s because those dark traits can only bring one down.
They want equality.... apparently this is what it looks like.
Holy Snakey’s nail on the head moment right there. I think you’re right a lot of women that I know including my own mother are toxic, narcissistic people, and I think you’re right I think we have trained women to be a narcissist. Somehow, God help us all.
This is a great video from an amazing person. Thank you for fighting our corner
Wishing you health and happiness, Roma. Always 😀
Hopefully, this video can stay up
I'm tired of that myself. For 30 Years a lot of music contained the idea of a guy being "strong enough to be her man " . Decode that and you get, is a guy willing to be an emotional punching bag for a Toxic, abusive, Narcissistic Chick who is more than willing to do things to her guy ( including flirting and cheating) , SHE, wouldn't want done to HER, in a million Years, and expect him to put up with it, as though it was his privilege to do so.
This is why I love and respect what you do and who you are... the brutal uncut truths... thank you for saying what we are crucified for even thinking...
Amen baby amen. Speaking the truth ❤
well that was jam packed and explosive
I want to own a Mil Mi-35 helicopter gunship one day. Note to self: learn how to fly a helicopter gunship.
Preach it lil momma, love you Chloe, keep up the good work!!!
Nailed it again hun. I've heard that same bullshit over my years and it's disgusting that ppl make excuses for themselves like that.
Appreciate your knowledge and I found during my marriage, ex wife kept doing that all the time. Had to leave her. Divorced for 8 years now.
Thank you! It feels so good to see a woman finally admit what us men already knew through experiencing it.
You are so right, if her is not on the lease, she would be out the door, or I would be, but I would never put up with that. A relationship is two people working together to make it work. Not one sided.
Trust me I know how awkward it is I used to be a service tech. Going to homes of the divorce and going to divorced couples are worst. The arguing while I'm working make me so uncomfortable
Thank you sister, your spirit is strong and your vision & observations are groundbreaking. The feminist princess powers have gotten to be too strong in our modern day and tend to bully nowadays rather than nurture, I don’t doubt there are crappy dudes and dudettes out there but I do believe you hit the nail on the head on this particular topic.
‘We’ appreciate your sympathetic and compassionate view and ‘we’, being guys, will try to humble ourselves toward good woman like yourself to do the same in similar situations. It takes 2 to tango, hopefully, with more trust & empathy, compassion leading to more passion!
True compromise. Peace. 🙏🏻
Yeah I agree, it’s ridiculous how many women don’t know how to apologize and move on
You had me at “ packing my bowl”
You rock Chloe. Thanks for your hard work and helping us. Btw your hair looks great😅
You absolutely nailed it!
This situation is why I am not married and my house is in my name only. The minute anyone acts up they go out the door.
Your the only one that I know of sticks up for mans right ....some woman are hateful I had a daughter at 19 and seen her maybe five time in her life...kills me today...she think iàm evil violent and has no heart ....I could go on in on I'd make your head spin ....but thank you for being our voice.... heartbreak I live with everyday....my one in only never had anymore....cause i was hurt from day one when i wanted to take my own life .....
I don’t know how I found this 34 seconds after you posted it
Thank you roma ! You stand up for us kind men
You have an interesting way of puting forward your views. It is very appreciated.
I know, I know...but as a Woman, Wife and Mom I very much enjoyed this video and you are bullseye-accurate with what you said!!!
More women need to see vids like this...a brutally honest MIRROR so they can realize how effed-up they truly are in their narcissism and where it comes from and costs them.
Husband and I? Our approach is 'It's us vs. the World'. He's got my back and I've got his and we've both got our daughter's covered.
Roma ((HUG)) Thank-you again for speaking plainly, honestly and ripping through the veneer of politiplastic that is smothering what it is to be Human.
...I hope that made sense. lol
I love your neck tattoo!! It's very eye-catching and attention-holding!!!
I just really want to say thank you and you are awesome!!!!!
100% agree with you Chloe , also I love your new hair style :)
Freaking Nailed It!!!
Sorry bub for staying, but you are epic and I knew I WOULD LOVE THIS!! I 1000000000% SUPPORT THIS
Your bangs look really good. Nice fresh look 😅❤🥰🫵
Roma you be spitting facts
I miss these videos, like a lot, I gotta watch your videos more often
This type of behaviour is one of the reasons why I'm single. I suspect that there's some good ladies about, but some of them are absolutely horrible. Thank you for sharing that and speaking up for men. Often we are treated like dogs. 😉
Very common? It's the norm. You ROCK!
Love the caugh part toke 😂😂. I would of filled the room with smoke 💨 quickly... I personally can’t stand walking into drama when all set to have fun. That must have been hard...😮more 💨
Who doesn't love Chloe? Mad as a box of frogs and totally on point ❤❤❤❤
THANK you and I love you!!!
Reminds me of this quote I saw, regarding women thinking like this and thinking its being a strong woman and men dont wanna deal with her because they arent strong enough, no you arent being strong, you are being insufferable and we are going elsewhere in light of better choices.
Bin single for over 10 now. Almost everyday I’m reminded of how much crap I’ve avoided by being a lone wolf. The struggle is real.
Love your new hair n dimples
Spot on, again! 🫵🤘😎👊
She’s always on point
I love you thank you for existing!
Wow your hair looks so good love it I haven't seen any other hair style from you it suits you very well
Yep! Spot on Girl 🙂
😂❤ i love seeing your stuff...you make me laff so much. Thpppuffankyou. X
Holy schnikes! That's a mic drop. 100% called that bs out!!
I had several girl friends over the years, and the most common thing that broke up the friendship, was the argument, "you know what I'm talking about". If I knew what you were talking about I wouldn't have asked, and not once have they ever come forward to apologize for assuming I could read their minds. The times were I messed up, and apologized, only one ever came back at me like you described, she was out the door that night. I admit, I have low tolerance for disrespect.
I truly like the way you think Miss Chloe Roma I do a hundred percent appreciate you and all you do 😁 your whole video just reminded me of my last two relationships in many awkward moments
I love this woman! I wish they all had her self awareness and critical thinking skill...
Yay! you kept your long texturized charcoal black hair. ❤
You're awesome. Right on
I love the way you end some of your videos 😂
Love your channel
My ex's version of "Hey babe a friend is here so maybe we should pick this up later" is verbally assaulting me saying her piece and then shutting the door in my face. To her that was trying to get away and stop the argument. She also would apologize a lot by saying "I'm sorry that you felt that way."