@@blytheru4418, even if you look into history there are many famous names of horrible people whose name alone could give a person ptsd or make them scared or terrified
I love when Jade fronts, especially since here she heard Chloe talking about littles and went "No, this is unacceptable. You're not talking about my babies without me."
I was genuinely moved by Jade's words here. I do think that children's safety is taken way too lightly in today's society. Hearing that someone would protect a child from the internet like this, which too many parents don't really care about, honestly makes me smile so much. Parents these days tend to share information about their children of which they have no say in whatsoever. Those children might suffer, feel ashamed of it after. Thank you for making this video, and I send your system the best of wishes and respect.
I know right, there are kid youtube channels where the kids barely get to have any privacy at all. And I remember playing this online game at the age of 8, and I got so scared by everything with “Hackers” and “They can find out who you are and where you live.” And all of this, and then these “games” where people would fool kids to hurt themselves or their family would get hurt.
Yeah, my mom would always post every picture of me that she could on her Instagram and even when I say I don’t want her to post them she still does it. It makes me very uncomfortable and honestly kinda scared, I really agree with you. And now I don’t know how to make her stop posting these things of my daily life.
@@lmao00o Your mother probably thinks that the pictures she's sharing of you are just cute, so her intention is most likely not to cause harm. However, she might not know about the consequences of sharing photos of you. She isn't the one growing up with the internet, you are. You should tell her that cyber security is not something to be taken lightly. Please talk to her, and make her understand the dangers of sharing photos of you. At least try to make her turn her social media accounts on private. I hope this goes your way, good luck and have a good day!
I think the fact that Jade quickly fronted for this topic says alot about how protective they are over their littles. I don't blame them for being so fiercely protective over them.
one of my closest friends has DID. we are currently in highschool and their system has 2 littles, and one of them (littles) was coerced into leaving schoolgrounds by another student. im not going to go into detail about what happened, but it was absolutely TERRIFYING for me when i found out. if they switch to a little during a class that im in, i would usually take them to the library/safe space until the host, or whoever else fronts comes back. in this case i was not there. i can FULLY understand where jade is coming from here. shes not here for anybodys bullshit, shes trying to protect their littles. i cant even imagine what wouldve happened to that little if no one saw, since then ive been placed in as many classes with them as i can. thank you for posting this video, people really need to be educated on this. its not a light subject, just because they arent in a body of a young child doesnt mean they arent.
i am so thankful that your friend has someone so loving and caring about them and all of their alters in their life. sending you both much love and hoping that your friend and their littles stay safe.
I just now watched the interview you did when a little fronted. I completely agree with Jade and all of you that your littles should be deeply protected. Still, I am quite thankful to have seen a little front because they were a complete joy to watch. Thank you for allowing that part of the interview to be shown. I'm sure a million people before me have said this, but please tell them that they did a wonderful job.
It really helped me understand the kind of littles with trauma she’s talking about in this video. That child has seen some things and can’t go through anything else, just let them live and be happy
I watched the interview a couple of days ago. Really eye opening, and I am so grateful to have witnessed that moment. I of course can’t begin to imagine what she has gone through, but seeing her come forward and eventually open up and feel comfortable talking… I was actually crying. I’m having tears in my eyes typing this, too.
@@miizukiakiiyama when it is about children online, yes it is. It can attract people with ill intentions. Kids should never disclose their name, age/if they are minors, residence location, etc. No attack or anything here, just honestly concerned.
Jade's so very sincere and clear. I truly admire how assertive she is, and how easy it is to tell that she means what she says and says what she means.
I’m so happy to see you reupload this. What’s been done to you is horrible and disgusting. Your system has ALL of our support. So glad that your videos are starting to come back. I learned about DID from you and I believe I’m a better person from it.
fighting what? (no pun intended, im asking seriously. i can be very short to these things and i cant seem to be able to comprehend them in most cases )
@@nightydew The short of it: some douche-canoe was obsessed with Chloe (at the time) and when They told the creep They didn't want that kind of relationship, the guy claimed all of Their videos, harassed The System, made threats and UA-cam ended up taking down a. lot. of the videos. They have been taking legal action against said douche-canoe and reclaiming their voice after going on hiatus for a while. Fighting for what They created that some butt-hurt stalker wanted to take credit for to destroy what he couldn't have. (Incase you're new here🤗)
When she said “we need to let them have the childhood we didn’t have. We will protect them.” I understood. I used to not, I was even a bit sad. But I’ve made so many pacts with myself that I’d keep my future children as safe as possible while still letting them experience life and allow them to do simple childish things like sledding and what not. Cause I never had that, and I wish I did. Not to mention everything else
I don't think I will ever be able to take that responsibility. To be a good father, to love someone the way he deserves. I think that what happened in my childhood scarred me for good and, while I'm able to somehow live my life, that is best to let the anger that I bear die with me.
Our littles are also highly protected. They don't give their names or even front unless we are alone OR we deeply trust the person we are with. Even then, they co-front with a protector for their safety and comfort. They've been through too much. We're glad to see y'all's videos coming back, friends!
@@wildyit She'll protect you. She would say what needs to be said. You only know her from her protective side and not yet know her as a friend. You shouldn't judge someone based on a few minutes of their videos.
@heartofyarn you can judge their character, jade said even though there were nice people she still didint give them any leeway, meaning she is not a very compassionate person, therefore I would not want to be around her if possible
Jade is like the mother to all of the littles, I think it is a good idea to protect children online since they can be easily manipulated by malicious people. It would be nice to meet the child alters but I understand that your safety is your first priority. I’m so glad these videos are back!
I will say, I know this is old and I can't remember if Jade is still around, but I love her. I love how blunt and straightforward she is in this video. She tells you exactly how she feels and how important the littles and their wellbeing is.
I completely understand the need for privacy when it comes to littles. Even people knowing that littles exist in the system can be dangerous for all of the reasons said in the video and unsaid. Stay safe and protect your boundaries 🫶🏼
Jade, as the protector, made a good decision to come to front. Chloe wasn’t harsh enough and serious enough, jade knew that is wasn’t acceptable so she knew to come forward
As a person without DID who wishes to learn out of respect, this video just cleared up why littles are protected, and it helped that someone just said point-blank why they're protected so I don't accidentally say or do something harmful. Thank you for teaching me this very important and vital lesson.
I honestly couldn’t agree more with jade here. As one of the gatekeepers/protectors of our system, I never let the littles front online, unless an adult is fronting with them. We too will do whatever it takes to protect them. -Max
Wow... The dilating of your eyes @ 2:06 was an instant, physical change at the moment of switch. Absolutely fascinating. P.s. Much respect for wanting to protect your littles! The safety and welfare of all of you has to be #1!
I was wondering if maybe you could talk about the interview with Anthony Padilla? How you all feel it went, if anyone was anxious about it and maybe even react to it on camera? I just found your channel and I love it already
I fell in love with Anthony Padilla even more when the little came out and he changed his whole attitude and voice to make the little one feel so welcomed. ❤️🥰
As a mother and a long time viewer I completely understand. I would never give out any information regarding my children. Bless you, know you are loved and appreciated.
As someone with d.i.d myself we have the same set of rules for our littles. Glad to see other's see it the way we do. Our littles are like any other children, we are the one's who parent them and keep them safe and we will do whatever it takes to do so.
@@yesmaam090 why? She’s a foster parent and is thinking about adopting the child and needed resources. Someone looking for help to get their child the proper care shouldn’t be concerning.
@@warriorwolfette I think their concern was because they thought it was your co-worker’s child not foster child. One of the vital conditions for DID to happen to a person as a trauma response is unstable and often damaging relationship with their primary caregivers- often parents. So I think the user worried that your coworker could be part of the source for the DID and the trauma surrounding it. It’s incredible that your coworker chose to foster a child with complex mental health issues, that would really scare a lot of people. It’s also so good for you to provide resources to help her understand and nurture the child in the best way possible xx
@@ambermorley8003 Even if it wasn’t a foster child- there have been situations where the biological child that was not living with their parent while whatever was happening to them was happening to them, there are split custody agreement sometimes or just noncustodial parents that don’t see the child that often- so assuming that parent who is actively seeking resources would be the one abusing the child is a little strange because if they were abusing said child why would they also then be seeking resources to help the child afterwards? abusive people don’t do that.
@@warriorwolfette there definitely could be situations like that but I think the commenter worried because of the complexity of DID it’s not just about trauma alone. It’s just worth bearing in mind why the commenter had concern for the child.
I completely understand where Jade is coming from. As a parent, I don't want my own children on the internet. There are to many messed up people who are 100% willing to hurt, exploit, and harm children. And as someone who's own parents didn't monitor my use of the internet growing up and I had experiences of being threatened on sites that no longer exist due to harassment of children or were used to lure children into giving out personal information because the theory "its a child's game. No adult would play it of course im talking to another kid" (because like Jade said children are children and they trust you to be honest with them) ...I make it my #1 priority to protect my kids from that.
I’m very glad jade came out to talk about this because her sterner tone drives the message in further into our brains - respect systems & their littles
I would love to know the littles but I completely understand your guys choice not to expose any information because kids innocents are so prescious, (pardon my inability to spell words). I know the internet can be a dangerous place. I do have a question though to further understand. Do/can the Littles age in the system? Has anyone in the current aged from being a little? (I have no means in offending anyone, I do find it it’s hard to sometimes ask questions just in case is does and I know through text a lot of things can get misinterpreted)
That deep breath when Jade finally comes through to the front . . . She's not HAPPY to have to talk about what I've come to think of as Her Babies in their system, but she's THRILLED to articulate her need and the need of the rest of their system to maintain their little's innocence as much as they're capable of. I could be a 500 lb bodybuilder and I would be TERRIFIED of Jade if I even ACCIDENTALLY did anything to a little in their system. The Anthony Padilla interview was a HUGE insight as to exactly what a little is and how they are and they SHOULD be protected at ALL costs. Just like my daughter and son. I really wish they didn't have to shut down their PO Box, I've wanted to send everyone that we've been so privileged to meet something of their own, especially Omega and just a BUNCH of little-friendly items since (of course) we have no idea how many there are, ages, genders or names. OF COURSE, that is purely logical and reasonable. Maybe Patreon will have some answers for me . . .
Devastating to see these videos gone and seeing them back up feels like a miracle. This was such an important video for this channel, it needs and deserves to be here.
So understandable that Jade fronts when Littles are discussed. This sharing you do gives a real look into DID. The sad fact, as Jade voices, is that small children are exposed to harmful situations that gives room for DID to develop. What a mind will do to protect itself and the emotions it allows is remarkable. I commend you for allowing us a look into your system. Peace and prosperity, Cindy
Even though Jade has that strict and severe way of saying things, I feel all that deep motherly love she is carying. "We need them to have the childhood that we never had. " That got me.
I’m thanking Jade about what she’s saying. I think we will be more prudent with our littles, we didn’t know people could be that much horrible. We don’t want them to be hurt, it is something I can’t let happen. I just can’t. So thank you.
As someone who works in childcare and has had to do extensive safeguarding training I know all too well the dangers children can face. Absolute respect to all of you for what you're doing to keep yourselves and the littles safe
I can only sadly imagine what Jade has seen to be so strong, but I saw her eyes, her intent, and even her annoyance; and I can see that she is a wonderful strength for you all. I have not watched many videos yet, but from my own trauma, I can say that I wish I had had a friend as strong as Jade is (and you all) at protecting your littles. Thank you for having the courage and strength to educate and share with us all.
I admire how you all fiercely and passionately protect your littles and try your best to give them the childhood that you wish you may have had and didn’t get to have. It’s also a privilege to still hear you be willing to talk about littles in a system generally and even show us switched of certain littles in different videos so we can be more educated about them in a general way and de-stigmatize it in our minds. A lot of love to you all, DissociaDID!
Whether you see it or not, and whoever is reading, I wanted to say how just happy I am that you make content! It’s hard to describe the feeling I get when watching your videos, especially videos like this, but let me assure you that it’s 100% positive. If it’s safe for you to do so and you want to, please continue to make videos.
if you switched to the littles in a safe controlled environment where they could play and be happy do you think that would help with the growth and healing process of your d.i.d? i have a feeling that the little ones as you call them are almost like the core of the system and can guess as why they need to be protected.
It's always nice to see someone looking out for a child, even a child within the same system. It's not that different in my mind. Jade is definitely a brilliant protector.
This is perfectly understandable and very smart of Chloe's system to be this protective. It's also a little sad that Jade and Chloe and the rest of their system are more protective of their littles than a lot of parents are with their kids.
Swear I feel like I desperately need a Jade I honestly wish I'd bad a jade in my life during my childhood. Nobody could ever fault your system for protecting your Littles the same as anyone should protect children regardless. The trauma your system has endured is obviously unspeakable and I truly deeply am sorry for all of it. I was abused as a child myself and Im a mother now so the idea of protecting Littles both in your system in the outer world in general is absolute and mandatory because there are horrible people. Absolute respect to your entire system for being brave enough to educate but doing so in a way that's safe and keeps you protected ❤️
Honestly, this video has woken me up. I'm not a system, but I am an age regressor and don't really have a safe space to regress anywhere but online, and because I'm in a child-like mindset, I'm naive and stupid, I think everyone is a safe space until proven otherwise. I overshare some of my information, sometimes when little sometimes when big, but it's more dangerous when I'm little because I don't understand the consequences of oversharing. There are so many creeps online targeting littles, either system littles or age regressors, and it's disgusting to see. I will be so so much more careful now. Thank you Jade and Chloe
I wish more parents were this protective of their children, I’m new to the channel but I love seeing how caring all the alters are for each other and how they interact with each other
I feel so safe watching your videos. I started to go to a psychologist bc of dissociation symptoms. I might have some disorder but still we are working on that. Not DID tho, I'm sure of it. But, the way you speak. The breaths you take and when the dissociation is happening you look kinda tired, it's good to know that I'm not alone with that. It's not just being tired, way more than that. And you make me feel better about this since people told me I had nothing to be tired of. That my life is too good for me to be not okay. Wish you the best, thank you so much.
This is one of the first times I've seen Jade and I feel like she has access to most of the memories. You can hear it in her voice when she's talking about problems around children. Also it was very interesting and fair how Chloe started the video and Jade just took over and was just like: No.
I went to a doctor recently and found out that I have a dissociative disorder. It makes me space out and basically go on auto pilot. Watching these videos really helps make me not feel alone. Even though they are different disorders and I don’t have alters. Thank you Chloe and Jade for this video. ❤❤
Thank you Jade for all the words you used. It was very clear to understand. Hoping more people will understand what you say and that this world will get more safe.
I don’t have DID but PTSD and therefore can relate to this on a certain level. I’ve experienced severe trauma in my childhood and want to keep any and every kid I meet safe, doesn’t matter if I know them or not. Thank you all for being so informative on this channel!
Jades words are so powerful, and it’s true. Most of these positive comments probably do have some sort of naiveness about them. We all do, me, you, everyone. It’s hard to understand something like this if you haven’t experienced it yourself.
Jade's eyes are like daggers. They make me fear if Anything I say could so easily offend, while at the same time, I immediately have respect for everything she does. I wish you all well. May your littles feel forever safe by your side..
I just want Jade to know how much I respect and appreciate her care for the privacy of the littles in the system as curious as I am about all aspects of D.I.D she's 100% right the safety of everyone especially the littles is and always should be your collective top priority
it is *such* a great thing that all of your alters understand that it’s vital to preserve the psyche of the littles. i cant speak for everyone else of course (however it seems everyone in the comments heard jade loud and clear), but i totally entirely understand and respect that it’s dangerous for them. thank you to both chloe and jade for explaining it in such a direct, honest manner. much love to you all ✨💜
I'm so glad this video is back. Still 100% understand and respect what Jade says. You guys absolutely deserve your privacy and your littles deserve their protection and their childhood. Once again, thank you for making this video
Hello, I didn't read all the comments, I expected negativity. I've only been diagnosed with DID for the past 5 years, prior being diagnosed Skitzoaffective Disorder because my "parts" would speak & it was seen as auditory hallucinations. I love this video because DID is poorly understand & Littles in particular are a touchy issue
Really like Jade a lot. The littles need to be protected, as much or moreso as anybody in the system. I hope the trauma carrying littles can heal safely and have a safe and amazing childhood/life. I wish everyone in the system the same too. Love you guys thank you so much for everything you're doing. Really appreciate yous❤
May I just say I think it's so cool how switching looks? And it's so cool that you come back as someone completely different! Also, edit: I love Jade's protectiveness over the littles. I just adore that firmness from a parental figure, and I think that anyone who doesn't understand the protection shouldn't really be parents.
I think it was really nice of y'all to take the time to explain this when you obviously don't owe anyone an explanation. I completely respect your decision and agree that it's best to protect the littles as much as possible. And I'll definitely keep this in mind so I'm sure not to ask other systems questions about their littles. I hope you let the littles know though, that there are people out there that are so so proud of them and they're doing great ❤
I have DID and I love other people learning about how this is for people. I also love seeing how other people with DID are comfortable educating people, and referring to themselves differently with we, us, etc which is something Ive always been scared to do. Thank you
This is pretty neat, if you listen to jade's words, she changed the language of littles with trauma, so I'm assuming the little couldn't follow, Jade touched on what I can only assume was personal points or what may have befallen one in their system Very interesting approach Ms. Jade.
i think that setting those boundaries (especially with littles) is a great idea and i respect that completely and as someone with littles in my system i personally know the benefit of these boundaries so on behalf of everyone in the moon system i just wanna say thank you for posting a video on this topic and thank you for keeping them safe from any and all harm
I was wondering what can happen to a Little when they come out in public and is in panic? How do the other alters help that little to understand what is going on?
@@Tadpole_Plyrr2 hey I hope your system is doing good! :) I have a doubt about persecutors and positive triggering. And I'm sorry if this comes out as rude or insensitive. I'm trying to educate myself. Answer it only if you're comfortable. I totally understand if you don't want to! No pressure! :) So say, someone's (a friend's alter maybe) persecutor is out fronting, and I see them trying to harm the body. What can I do to stop it and save the body? Chloe did say positive triggering for any reason is rude and offensive. But if I'm trying to save the body from injury or something, is it rude to positively trigger a primary protector? I believe the persecutor will definitely feel bad if that is done. So what should one do in that case? Again I apologize if this came out as triggering or insensitive. I don't mean to :/
I wish nothing but all the best for you and your system ♥️ i sincerely hope these uploads mean things are looking up, we miss you and respect your privacy 💖♥️
Wow, great video! I have a dissociation type disorder, but it could also be from PTSD. It can be so difficult at times to keep my thoughts going in a conversation. I'm glad that you are choosing to prioritize safety! I'm a future Social Worker as well and safety is super important and I'm glad that your system knows this!
Chloe: “I’ll link the video for you 🥰”
Jade: “You can find it on your own.”
Now thats what a good example of DID is
Lol
lol
There are two types of people in this world
@@V3C._ yes
"We don't share their names, because even a name can be powerful."
-Jade
There are many books with that theme such as Harry Potter names have power
I saw your comment RIGHT when Jade said it lol
@@blytheru4418, even if you look into history there are many famous names of horrible people whose name alone could give a person ptsd or make them scared or terrified
Yup
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I love when Jade fronts, especially since here she heard Chloe talking about littles and went "No, this is unacceptable. You're not talking about my babies without me."
2.8k likes and no replies? Lucky me. First!
@@Femboy_Irisic05 Thanks XD.
@@TheTrueDuchess Lol
That’s what I was thinking XD as soon as I heard Jade’s voice I knew we were in for a lecture-
When Jade comes to the front, you listen and respect.
Hell yes. There is no messing about with Jade because she will eat you alive with her words if you dare to invade/ disobey
Jade: h-
Us: Yes ma'am
Jade demands respect in her tone and was so informative about this topic that the information conveyed just sticks with you
Idk why but this video makes me feel safe and protected. If people like jade were ever teachers /in positions of power, it would be amazing!!
Jade is very clear, but still very respectful
Jade terrifies me, but I wish to god I had someone like her. I kept on nodding and sitting at attention like: "Yes, ma'm, no ma'm"
Jade is strict and she has right to be and thats what I like these different personalities are serious
Same
Same
Same
Me too, happy to see I’m not the only one intimidated by her
I was genuinely moved by Jade's words here. I do think that children's safety is taken way too lightly in today's society. Hearing that someone would protect a child from the internet like this, which too many parents don't really care about, honestly makes me smile so much. Parents these days tend to share information about their children of which they have no say in whatsoever. Those children might suffer, feel ashamed of it after.
Thank you for making this video, and I send your system the best of wishes and respect.
I know right, there are kid youtube channels where the kids barely get to have any privacy at all.
And I remember playing this online game at the age of 8, and I got so scared by everything with “Hackers” and “They can find out who you are and where you live.” And all of this, and then these “games” where people would fool kids to hurt themselves or their family would get hurt.
Ramon Momono “Who you ate”. 😂
@@lillybell2579 Lmao it was a typo, it’s fixed now.
Yeah, my mom would always post every picture of me that she could on her Instagram and even when I say I don’t want her to post them she still does it. It makes me very uncomfortable and honestly kinda scared, I really agree with you. And now I don’t know how to make her stop posting these things of my daily life.
@@lmao00o Your mother probably thinks that the pictures she's sharing of you are just cute, so her intention is most likely not to cause harm. However, she might not know about the consequences of sharing photos of you. She isn't the one growing up with the internet, you are. You should tell her that cyber security is not something to be taken lightly. Please talk to her, and make her understand the dangers of sharing photos of you. At least try to make her turn her social media accounts on private.
I hope this goes your way, good luck and have a good day!
I think the fact that Jade quickly fronted for this topic says alot about how protective they are over their littles. I don't blame them for being so fiercely protective over them.
one of my closest friends has DID. we are currently in highschool and their system has 2 littles, and one of them (littles) was coerced into leaving schoolgrounds by another student. im not going to go into detail about what happened, but it was absolutely TERRIFYING for me when i found out. if they switch to a little during a class that im in, i would usually take them to the library/safe space until the host, or whoever else fronts comes back. in this case i was not there. i can FULLY understand where jade is coming from here. shes not here for anybodys bullshit, shes trying to protect their littles. i cant even imagine what wouldve happened to that little if no one saw, since then ive been placed in as many classes with them as i can.
thank you for posting this video, people really need to be educated on this. its not a light subject, just because they arent in a body of a young child doesnt mean they arent.
Thank you for helping your friend and their little alters.
Thats beautiful!
i am so thankful that your friend has someone so loving and caring about them and all of their alters in their life. sending you both much love and hoping that your friend and their littles stay safe.
you’re an amazing person looking after your friend and their various alters
Bless your heart. You're a good friend.
Chloe: 💖protect the childen💖
Jade: 💀🔪PROTECT THE CHILDREN🔪💀
Why is this true XD
I just now watched the interview you did when a little fronted. I completely agree with Jade and all of you that your littles should be deeply protected. Still, I am quite thankful to have seen a little front because they were a complete joy to watch. Thank you for allowing that part of the interview to be shown. I'm sure a million people before me have said this, but please tell them that they did a wonderful job.
It really helped me understand the kind of littles with trauma she’s talking about in this video. That child has seen some things and can’t go through anything else, just let them live and be happy
I watched the interview a couple of days ago. Really eye opening, and I am so grateful to have witnessed that moment. I of course can’t begin to imagine what she has gone through, but seeing her come forward and eventually open up and feel comfortable talking… I was actually crying. I’m having tears in my eyes typing this, too.
What interview
@@BabySterny90 the anthony padilla interview
I cringed a bit when he hugged the little tho :|
I’m a child myself, and what Jade said just made me very happy, she’s very protecting and comforting I appreciate her for standing up for kids.
I get what you mean, but please do not reveal that personal information like that to the internet. Stay safe!
@@CelticBotansDigitalArt saying your a child isnt personal information
@@miizukiakiiyama when it is about children online, yes it is. It can attract people with ill intentions. Kids should never disclose their name, age/if they are minors, residence location, etc. No attack or anything here, just honestly concerned.
@@miizukiakiiyama still harmful in a way.
@@miizukiakiiyama exactly bruh
Jade's so very sincere and clear. I truly admire how assertive she is, and how easy it is to tell that she means what she says and says what she means.
I’m so happy to see you reupload this. What’s been done to you is horrible and disgusting. Your system has ALL of our support. So glad that your videos are starting to come back. I learned about DID from you and I believe I’m a better person from it.
what happened to their videos?
@@wack545 They made a video explaining what happened: ua-cam.com/video/pZ5uqkfjkBw/v-deo.html
@@wack545 a lot of their content got taken down
Couldn't believe my eyes but I knew these would come back. What a fantastic way to end the year. We love you, stay strong, keep fighting. ❤🌹
fighting what? (no pun intended, im asking seriously. i can be very short to these things and i cant seem to be able to comprehend them in most cases
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@@nightydew The short of it: some douche-canoe was obsessed with Chloe (at the time) and when They told the creep They didn't want that kind of relationship, the guy claimed all of Their videos, harassed The System, made threats and UA-cam ended up taking down a. lot. of the videos. They have been taking legal action against said douche-canoe and reclaiming their voice after going on hiatus for a while. Fighting for what They created that some butt-hurt stalker wanted to take credit for to destroy what he couldn't have. (Incase you're new here🤗)
Every time Jade talks to us I’m just like ..yes ma’am. no questions asked
I understand why Jade prefers living in her cave, doing her stuff. When she spoke about how naive some people are, I felt that...
When she said “we need to let them have the childhood we didn’t have. We will protect them.” I understood. I used to not, I was even a bit sad. But I’ve made so many pacts with myself that I’d keep my future children as safe as possible while still letting them experience life and allow them to do simple childish things like sledding and what not. Cause I never had that, and I wish I did. Not to mention everything else
I adore promises like these and I’ve made a similar one. You seem like a lovely person, I wish the best life and future to you 💞
I don't think I will ever be able to take that responsibility. To be a good father, to love someone the way he deserves. I think that what happened in my childhood scarred me for good and, while I'm able to somehow live my life, that is best to let the anger that I bear die with me.
Our littles are also highly protected. They don't give their names or even front unless we are alone OR we deeply trust the person we are with. Even then, they co-front with a protector for their safety and comfort. They've been through too much. We're glad to see y'all's videos coming back, friends!
I think everyone needs a friend like Jade in their lives.
I don't want a friend like jade
@@wildyit Why?
@@heartofyarn jade would not be exciting to be with
@@wildyit She'll protect you. She would say what needs to be said. You only know her from her protective side and not yet know her as a friend. You shouldn't judge someone based on a few minutes of their videos.
@heartofyarn you can judge their character, jade said even though there were nice people she still didint give them any leeway, meaning she is not a very compassionate person, therefore I would not want to be around her if possible
the way jade looks into your eyes when she says' we will do anything to protect them'
Thank you Jade for protecting your children! No one needs to know anything about them.
Jade is like the mother to all of the littles, I think it is a good idea to protect children online since they can be easily manipulated by malicious people. It would be nice to meet the child alters but I understand that your safety is your first priority. I’m so glad these videos are back!
Children's safety is always important, whether it is a regular child or an alter
Glad to see Jade being the protector they need
I love how you can still see dissociation after Jade fronts, to me there's no room for speculation it feels much too genuine
It is Genuine and Society needs to stop Shaming Vulnerable People. 💗
@@shatteredbones1048 agreed!
I will say, I know this is old and I can't remember if Jade is still around, but I love her. I love how blunt and straightforward she is in this video. She tells you exactly how she feels and how important the littles and their wellbeing is.
She is still aroundl
I completely understand the need for privacy when it comes to littles. Even people knowing that littles exist in the system can be dangerous for all of the reasons said in the video and unsaid. Stay safe and protect your boundaries 🫶🏼
Love the hair and makeup btw! Always slaying and I love it!
Jade, as the protector, made a good decision to come to front. Chloe wasn’t harsh enough and serious enough, jade knew that is wasn’t acceptable so she knew to come forward
You go girl, set those boundaries!
Jade will protect her kids NO MATTER WHAT. She is a mother and a queen 👑
As a person without DID who wishes to learn out of respect, this video just cleared up why littles are protected, and it helped that someone just said point-blank why they're protected so I don't accidentally say or do something harmful. Thank you for teaching me this very important and vital lesson.
I honestly couldn’t agree more with jade here. As one of the gatekeepers/protectors of our system, I never let the littles front online, unless an adult is fronting with them. We too will do whatever it takes to protect them. -Max
Wow... The dilating of your eyes @ 2:06 was an instant, physical change at the moment of switch. Absolutely fascinating.
P.s. Much respect for wanting to protect your littles! The safety and welfare of all of you has to be #1!
Just like my new best friend naøwah
I was wondering if maybe you could talk about the interview with Anthony Padilla? How you all feel it went, if anyone was anxious about it and maybe even react to it on camera? I just found your channel and I love it already
There was a livestream she did where she talked about it. It’s on here somewhere. There thumbnail is a picture of Nin and Anthony.
@@MouthwashTyphoon and a little bit in the trisha video DID did. Saying they where respectful understanding etc
I found her through that interview too!!!
I fell in love with Anthony Padilla even more when the little came out and he changed his whole attitude and voice to make the little one feel so welcomed. ❤️🥰
As a 13 year old, I understand Jade's point so well, and I wish I had someone to care about me like that.
As a mother and a long time viewer I completely understand. I would never give out any information regarding my children. Bless you, know you are loved and appreciated.
As someone with d.i.d myself we have the same set of rules for our littles. Glad to see other's see it the way we do. Our littles are like any other children, we are the one's who parent them and keep them safe and we will do whatever it takes to do so.
A coworker of mine has a child with DID, I shared your channel with her, it’s helped them immensely. I’m so thankful I came across your content.
That’s concerning that your coworker has a child with DID.
@@yesmaam090 why? She’s a foster parent and is thinking about adopting the child and needed resources. Someone looking for help to get their child the proper care shouldn’t be concerning.
@@warriorwolfette I think their concern was because they thought it was your co-worker’s child not foster child. One of the vital conditions for DID to happen to a person as a trauma response is unstable and often damaging relationship with their primary caregivers- often parents. So I think the user worried that your coworker could be part of the source for the DID and the trauma surrounding it.
It’s incredible that your coworker chose to foster a child with complex mental health issues, that would really scare a lot of people. It’s also so good for you to provide resources to help her understand and nurture the child in the best way possible xx
@@ambermorley8003 Even if it wasn’t a foster child- there have been situations where the biological child that was not living with their parent while whatever was happening to them was happening to them, there are split custody agreement sometimes or just noncustodial parents that don’t see the child that often- so assuming that parent who is actively seeking resources would be the one abusing the child is a little strange because if they were abusing said child why would they also then be seeking resources to help the child afterwards? abusive people don’t do that.
@@warriorwolfette there definitely could be situations like that but I think the commenter worried because of the complexity of DID it’s not just about trauma alone. It’s just worth bearing in mind why the commenter had concern for the child.
Jade was able to share her thoughts very clearly and effectively.
Also love the makeup look here!
I completely understand where Jade is coming from. As a parent, I don't want my own children on the internet. There are to many messed up people who are 100% willing to hurt, exploit, and harm children. And as someone who's own parents didn't monitor my use of the internet growing up and I had experiences of being threatened on sites that no longer exist due to harassment of children or were used to lure children into giving out personal information because the theory "its a child's game. No adult would play it of course im talking to another kid" (because like Jade said children are children and they trust you to be honest with them) ...I make it my #1 priority to protect my kids from that.
I’m very glad jade came out to talk about this because her sterner tone drives the message in further into our brains - respect systems & their littles
I would love to know the littles but I completely understand your guys choice not to expose any information because kids innocents are so prescious, (pardon my inability to spell words). I know the internet can be a dangerous place. I do have a question though to further understand. Do/can the Littles age in the system? Has anyone in the current aged from being a little? (I have no means in offending anyone, I do find it it’s hard to sometimes ask questions just in case is does and I know through text a lot of things can get misinterpreted)
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Yayyy they’re back
Cross fingers that this is the end of all the issues 🤞love y’all ❤️
That deep breath when Jade finally comes through to the front . . . She's not HAPPY to have to talk about what I've come to think of as Her Babies in their system, but she's THRILLED to articulate her need and the need of the rest of their system to maintain their little's innocence as much as they're capable of. I could be a 500 lb bodybuilder and I would be TERRIFIED of Jade if I even ACCIDENTALLY did anything to a little in their system. The Anthony Padilla interview was a HUGE insight as to exactly what a little is and how they are and they SHOULD be protected at ALL costs. Just like my daughter and son. I really wish they didn't have to shut down their PO Box, I've wanted to send everyone that we've been so privileged to meet something of their own, especially Omega and just a BUNCH of little-friendly items since (of course) we have no idea how many there are, ages, genders or names. OF COURSE, that is purely logical and reasonable. Maybe Patreon will have some answers for me . . .
Devastating to see these videos gone and seeing them back up feels like a miracle. This was such an important video for this channel, it needs and deserves to be here.
jade is extremely well-spoken and quite serious but i feel like aside from wanting to protect the littles she does have a soft spot for them
So understandable that Jade fronts when Littles are discussed. This sharing you do gives a real look into DID. The sad fact, as Jade voices, is that small children are exposed to harmful situations that gives room for DID to develop. What a mind will do to protect itself and the emotions it allows is remarkable. I commend you for allowing us a look into your system.
Peace and prosperity,
Cindy
Even though Jade has that strict and severe way of saying things, I feel all that deep motherly love she is carying.
"We need them to have the childhood that we never had. " That got me.
I’m thanking Jade about what she’s saying. I think we will be more prudent with our littles, we didn’t know people could be that much horrible. We don’t want them to be hurt, it is something I can’t let happen. I just can’t. So thank you.
As someone who works in childcare and has had to do extensive safeguarding training I know all too well the dangers children can face. Absolute respect to all of you for what you're doing to keep yourselves and the littles safe
Jade's words are so powerful, I feel protected by her too!! Glad she takes the little's safety and protection so seriously, as she should!!
I can only sadly imagine what Jade has seen to be so strong, but I saw her eyes, her intent, and even her annoyance; and I can see that she is a wonderful strength for you all. I have not watched many videos yet, but from my own trauma, I can say that I wish I had had a friend as strong as Jade is (and you all) at protecting your littles. Thank you for having the courage and strength to educate and share with us all.
I admire how you all fiercely and passionately protect your littles and try your best to give them the childhood that you wish you may have had and didn’t get to have. It’s also a privilege to still hear you be willing to talk about littles in a system generally and even show us switched of certain littles in different videos so we can be more educated about them in a general way and de-stigmatize it in our minds. A lot of love to you all, DissociaDID!
Whether you see it or not, and whoever is reading, I wanted to say how just happy I am that you make content! It’s hard to describe the feeling I get when watching your videos, especially videos like this, but let me assure you that it’s 100% positive. If it’s safe for you to do so and you want to, please continue to make videos.
if you switched to the littles in a safe controlled environment where they could play and be happy do you think that would help with the growth and healing process of your d.i.d? i have a feeling that the little ones as you call them are almost like the core of the system and can guess as why they need to be protected.
It's always nice to see someone looking out for a child, even a child within the same system. It's not that different in my mind. Jade is definitely a brilliant protector.
Honestly, not sharing info on children online is good advise for ALL children, alters or otherwise.
This is perfectly understandable and very smart of Chloe's system to be this protective. It's also a little sad that Jade and Chloe and the rest of their system are more protective of their littles than a lot of parents are with their kids.
Swear I feel like I desperately need a Jade I honestly wish I'd bad a jade in my life during my childhood. Nobody could ever fault your system for protecting your Littles the same as anyone should protect children regardless. The trauma your system has endured is obviously unspeakable and I truly deeply am sorry for all of it. I was abused as a child myself and Im a mother now so the idea of protecting Littles both in your system in the outer world in general is absolute and mandatory because there are horrible people. Absolute respect to your entire system for being brave enough to educate but doing so in a way that's safe and keeps you protected ❤️
Honestly, this video has woken me up. I'm not a system, but I am an age regressor and don't really have a safe space to regress anywhere but online, and because I'm in a child-like mindset, I'm naive and stupid, I think everyone is a safe space until proven otherwise. I overshare some of my information, sometimes when little sometimes when big, but it's more dangerous when I'm little because I don't understand the consequences of oversharing. There are so many creeps online targeting littles, either system littles or age regressors, and it's disgusting to see. I will be so so much more careful now. Thank you Jade and Chloe
"when it comes to our system and our little they will be kept safe" AS THEY SHOULD
As a mom I support this 100%
So so nice to see you post again even if it's reuploads xx missed you all
I wish more parents were this protective of their children, I’m new to the channel but I love seeing how caring all the alters are for each other and how they interact with each other
I feel so safe watching your videos. I started to go to a psychologist bc of dissociation symptoms. I might have some disorder but still we are working on that. Not DID tho, I'm sure of it. But, the way you speak. The breaths you take and when the dissociation is happening you look kinda tired, it's good to know that I'm not alone with that. It's not just being tired, way more than that. And you make me feel better about this since people told me I had nothing to be tired of. That my life is too good for me to be not okay. Wish you the best, thank you so much.
This is one of the first times I've seen Jade and I feel like she has access to most of the memories. You can hear it in her voice when she's talking about problems around children.
Also it was very interesting and fair how Chloe started the video and Jade just took over and was just like: No.
wow I can feel the sincerity through the screen. that girl was dead serious. dont mess with her kids.
I went to a doctor recently and found out that I have a dissociative disorder. It makes me space out and basically go on auto pilot. Watching these videos really helps make me not feel alone. Even though they are different disorders and I don’t have alters. Thank you Chloe and Jade for this video. ❤❤
Kya you have no idea how much joy your little channel intro jingle brings me. I’m glad you’ve been able to get so many videos back up!
Thank you Jade for all the words you used. It was very clear to understand. Hoping more people will understand what you say and that this world will get more safe.
I’m thankful to see someone so protective of their children. It’s a scary world with people letting their children surf the internet unsupervised
I don’t have DID but PTSD and therefore can relate to this on a certain level.
I’ve experienced severe trauma in my childhood and want to keep any and every kid I meet safe, doesn’t matter if I know them or not.
Thank you all for being so informative on this channel!
Jades words are so powerful, and it’s true. Most of these positive comments probably do have some sort of naiveness about them. We all do, me, you, everyone. It’s hard to understand something like this if you haven’t experienced it yourself.
Jade is like a teacher who everyone is quite when they walk in
Jade's eyes are like daggers. They make me fear if Anything I say could so easily offend, while at the same time, I immediately have respect for everything she does. I wish you all well. May your littles feel forever safe by your side..
Jade is terrifying but at the same time sweet and gives parental vibes
I am so happy you can reupload, i just discovered this channel and was so sad to hear what happened to your videos... Lots of love
I just want Jade to know how much I respect and appreciate her care for the privacy of the littles in the system as curious as I am about all aspects of D.I.D she's 100% right the safety of everyone especially the littles is and always should be your collective top priority
it is *such* a great thing that all of your alters understand that it’s vital to preserve the psyche of the littles. i cant speak for everyone else of course (however it seems everyone in the comments heard jade loud and clear), but i totally entirely understand and respect that it’s dangerous for them. thank you to both chloe and jade for explaining it in such a direct, honest manner. much love to you all ✨💜
Children are untouchable!!! Thank you for this.
I am enjoying and celebrating all these reuploaded videos.
Jade has all the RESPECT in the world.
I literally got goosebumps every time she made eye contact with the camera. Ma'am you're wonderful & powerful 🙌
I'm so glad this video is back. Still 100% understand and respect what Jade says. You guys absolutely deserve your privacy and your littles deserve their protection and their childhood. Once again, thank you for making this video
Hello, I didn't read all the comments, I expected negativity. I've only been diagnosed with DID for the past 5 years, prior being diagnosed Skitzoaffective Disorder because my "parts" would speak & it was seen as auditory hallucinations. I love this video because DID is poorly understand & Littles in particular are a touchy issue
Really like Jade a lot. The littles need to be protected, as much or moreso as anybody in the system. I hope the trauma carrying littles can heal safely and have a safe and amazing childhood/life. I wish everyone in the system the same too. Love you guys thank you so much for everything you're doing. Really appreciate yous❤
I honestly love the way Jade is so clear about her points and communication.
May I just say I think it's so cool how switching looks? And it's so cool that you come back as someone completely different!
Also, edit: I love Jade's protectiveness over the littles. I just adore that firmness from a parental figure, and I think that anyone who doesn't understand the protection shouldn't really be parents.
I am beyond happy to see all your videos coming back one by one 💗 I’m so happy you’ve fought for this we are all behind you ❤️
I think it was really nice of y'all to take the time to explain this when you obviously don't owe anyone an explanation. I completely respect your decision and agree that it's best to protect the littles as much as possible. And I'll definitely keep this in mind so I'm sure not to ask other systems questions about their littles. I hope you let the littles know though, that there are people out there that are so so proud of them and they're doing great ❤
Jade's words made me shiver, I honestly find the thought of what the littles have witnessed gut wrenching. Wish you all the best guys
Jade actually scares me she’s like “ I won’t go into detail on that……..”
Jade really sounds like a parent to me and I love the sincerity in her voice and calmness
I have DID and I love other people learning about how this is for people. I also love seeing how other people with DID are comfortable educating people, and referring to themselves differently with we, us, etc which is something Ive always been scared to do. Thank you
This is pretty neat, if you listen to jade's words, she changed the language of littles with trauma, so I'm assuming the little couldn't follow, Jade touched on what I can only assume was personal points or what may have befallen one in their system
Very interesting approach Ms. Jade.
I admire you and respect your decision to respect the Littles. All little ones whether you have DID or not should be protected.
i think that setting those boundaries (especially with littles) is a great idea and i respect that completely and as someone with littles in my system i personally know the benefit of these boundaries so on behalf of everyone in the moon system i just wanna say thank you for posting a video on this topic and thank you for keeping them safe from any and all harm
Aside..
Her makeup is absolutely everything!
I was wondering what can happen to a Little when they come out in public and is in panic? How do the other alters help that little to understand what is going on?
I believe they have made at least one video where they talk about exactly that issue, but I can't remember when or what it was called
For us our persecutor will scare the little back into the body if they cannot handle fronting
@@Tadpole_Plyrr2 hey I hope your system is doing good! :)
I have a doubt about persecutors and positive triggering. And I'm sorry if this comes out as rude or insensitive. I'm trying to educate myself.
Answer it only if you're comfortable. I totally understand if you don't want to! No pressure! :)
So say, someone's (a friend's alter maybe) persecutor is out fronting, and I see them trying to harm the body. What can I do to stop it and save the body?
Chloe did say positive triggering for any reason is rude and offensive. But if I'm trying to save the body from injury or something, is it rude to positively trigger a primary protector?
I believe the persecutor will definitely feel bad if that is done. So what should one do in that case?
Again I apologize if this came out as triggering or insensitive. I don't mean to :/
As a person responsible for a child’s (or multiple children) safety, it’s valid to take care of them in the way that you feel is the best.
I wish nothing but all the best for you and your system ♥️ i sincerely hope these uploads mean things are looking up, we miss you and respect your privacy 💖♥️
Wow, great video! I have a dissociation type disorder, but it could also be from PTSD. It can be so difficult at times to keep my thoughts going in a conversation. I'm glad that you are choosing to prioritize safety! I'm a future Social Worker as well and safety is super important and I'm glad that your system knows this!
Everyone deserves a friend like Jade