Agar koi silent treatment de raha hai regularly Aapko kisi se salah nhi lena hai Aap turant aise vyakti ko tyag do jo silent treatment de rha hai Because aise person kbhi nhi sudharte hai
Mere bhi husband aise hi hai , iski vajah se mai bohat bade depression ki shikar hui , bad mai muze bohat dr ko dikhana pada mai thik ho gayi lekin tab se mai apne khushi ke liye jeeti hu , hamesha dusro ke liye jine ki koshis ki ,jab meri bimari ke time koi nahi tha , mental health Puri kharab ho gayi , dr mere liye bhagvan nikle , unohne muze thik kiya , tab se dusro ke bare mai sochna band kiya ,puza karti ,adyatmik rahne lagi ,mast rahti scooty sikha muze jaha Jana ,jati kisi ke aage muze le chalo le chalo nahi bolti jeevan 47 year se dusre umeed laga ke rakhi hu , aaj khud jeena sikh liya , mai doctor thi mere pati meri bhavna samzenge , bad mai laga bacche , lekin aisa nahi hota unlogo ki bhi koi galti nahi unko apni life se fursat nahi ,lekin unko mera time chahiye , mai. Sab samaz gayi , kaise jeena hai , apna time apne liye diya , choti ,choti khushi milne lagi ,our man khush hone laga ,mai kisi ko badal to nahi payi ,. Lekin khud ko. Khush karne mai lagi , aaj mai , lekin jeevan mai itna pata chala ,dusra koi hame khush nahi rakh sakta ,. Khushi bheekh mangte raho our depression mai jao ,agar nahi thik huy to tadaf tadaf ke mar jao , meri nanad aisi mar gayi lekin husband ne apna. Time nahi diya ,
Aese log silent treatment deke hame taklif dete hai..ak bar compromises karna chahiye bar bar aesa ho to aese relations ko ignore karke aage badhna chahiye sir ye hi hai bas ..bar bar kisi ko manane se acha hai...akele jina sikh le...baki bhagvan malik hai..
कुछ नही है रिश्ते रखने नही है यही उत्तर है उन लोगो का। बोलचाल बंद करना कोई परिपक्वता की निशानी नही है या तो अपनी बात मनवानी है। या संबध तोडने है बस। ये जहर होता है जो कयी सालो से भर रहा होता है।
भईया अगर कोई जानबूझ के चुप रहे ,, सिर्फ सताने के लिए ,और हर रोज का उसका ये खेल बन गया हो तब किया करे,, उसके अंदर एक ईगो हो की , सामने बाला आकर मुझे बोलेगा ,मेरे सामने जुकेगा ,तब किया किया जाए
Mujhe is video ki jrurt thi sir.... Thank you so much,, mere husband ya to chup ho jate h, ya bhala bura bolne lg jate h... Mai v silent ho jati thi but frustrated v ho jati thi but ab mai baat krugi
Thank you for this video, i am going through the same in my marriage since past 6 months and i am now moving out because there is no companionship despite attempts to communicate multiple times, it's only making me sad and mad . The other person just doesn't care. I think this also a manipulative technique to get what you want without putting any effort .
Thanku sir ye btane ke liye ki ankho ke samne aaye lekin mn me n aaye ,resources ka use karo taki life aake badhe,aur career oriented ho jao hobby apnalo ,spiritual ho jao life me kisi ki jarurat nhi padegi...thanks helped me a lot...
Sahi बात है. मेरे पतीने मुझे silent treatment dete थे. पंधरा बीस दिन तक बात नही करते थे. बहुत तकलीफ होती थी. जिंदगी नरक बन गई थी. अब वो भी न ही रहे.पुराना दर्द ताजा हो गया.
Mt husband's behavior is like this. .please elaborate more on therapy for such situations! Aapne ek bhai ke Tarah sab samjha diya. Bohot bohot dhanyawaad!
Mere husband ne muje ghol dia aur aaj bhi he is like that.....khud bolne chahe th mujpr blame bhaav khana lekin meri sunne k bad chup rehna hi muje torture krta h Communicate krti hu lekin hadd cross hone se ab me bhi side ho rhi hu thak gyi hu
Yes ,,aap bilkul sahi..mere saath aisa mere in laws m kiya..fir m bhi ushshe alag ho gai..lekin ushe badi pareshani hui ki maine apne liye stand liya..fir vo insaan bahut paise wala tha ushne sirf meri family se rishta Tod liya..jishshe meri personali life m problem Hui...lekin carrier oriented hone k Karan cheezein sambhal par ushne badla liya aur jo ushka apna Bhai jo ushe pyaar karta tha..ushka apnmaan kiya mere bache ka aur rights Tod liya...
Thank you bhaiya ji, meney toh apne aap ko puri tarah se adhyatm mey kar liya hai , bagwat Geeta padti hu , apney ko kaam mein busy rakhti hu . Aapka bhaut bhaut abhar . 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Jab aap anxiety or emotional pressure main hote ho... Tab itna maturely baat ko sidhe tareeke se kehna easy nahi hota.. u start getting angry and shouting to their cold behaviour and when they speak they trash your self respect .. and you react out of anxiety and then they and their family blame you for your reaction. I have gone through this multiple times in my married life. It was just full of blames and rigid framework of way of life for just daughter in law. Husband never tried to understand me. Now we are separated not talking to each other been few months
@@AS53246 So after 3 months of my previous separation my husband came back .. but along with his family. They told me to forget everything and start fresh. We had counseling session we talked our heart out there but still during counseling session I did not find that my husband has actually realised few things from his heart. But still since he and his family came to kind of convince me I went back to my in-laws place. I found little difference in my husband's nature but there was absolutely no change in my mother in laws nature...she keeps fighting with my jethani as well as me.. one day i was very sick and she still created a scene and my husband just once politely told her to ignore. But then untill her anger is not come down the environment of the house is just scary and I was always on my toes. They just wait for one miss from your end so that they can get upset and if you react then everybody along with my husband will shout at me. I got admitted 3 weeks before but there also my in laws were just interested in creating rules for me and my family and trying to save their son from staying with me in hospital. This happened twice and i blasted on my husband on same day and told him to buzz off from my life and hospital room. Now he has stopped talking to me bcz I shouted at him. And again it's been a month we are not talking to each other. My husband disrespects me and does not value me. This time I am inclined towards separation legally. But I am just exploring some more time just to be sure about it before I finally tell him about the separation.
Kuch cases mein ye sambhav nhi hai because confront karne per wo aapko hi galat sabit karne ki koshish karega...mainly in case of narcissist because he is not ready to take any responsibility. In that case there is no solution except distance to safegaurd your peace
Aap ne bilkul sahi kaha #Anubhav ji Mne yahi tarika apnaya hai apni life mein, mere husband ne mujhe theek isi tareeke se mentally torture kiya hai, ab rishta aisa ho gya hai ki vo mere liye sirf meri aur mere bachhon ki needs poori karne ka jariya ban kar reh gye hain bas
@@sureshsharma4166 Hanji aap ki baat bilkul sahi hai, lekin suresh ji har ghr mein situation alag hoti hai, kahin patni pati ki kadar nhi karti to kahin pati patni ki kadar nhi karta , Aur jis word ke liye aap ne sorry bola bola hai na jyadatar mardo ko sirf isi se mtlb hota h, aurat ki feelings se unko koi lena dena nhi hota
Us insan ko koi frk hi nhi pdta ho ki unka relation hmare sath khrab ho rha h,,,wo insan khud to baher kisi or k sath sahi h or ghr me hme silent treatment de rha ho to kya krein ,,,
Aap ki hr video me jo bhi topic hota hh uska jo aap explain krte ho wo ese lgta hai jaise aap khud ko us jga pr rakh kr bolte ho isse bdiya koi bhi explain nhi kr skta sir jaise aap krte ho aap ki video 1000 percent original hai aapne bhut struggle kiya hai tbi itna jante ho bina mehsus kre koi ese explain nhi kr skta M sure thanku sir God bless u wd good health wealth prosperity 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Write sir..dhanyavad ap ne sahi bat batai he...our sabhi bhai bahen se kehe na chahugi..khud se pyar kare apni parvah kare khud me bizi rahe ..jo hame pasand he vo kare..song suno prathna karo kisi ki madat karo bass khush raho...life ak hi bar milti he..jabarjasti kisi ko pyar ki bhik mat mango😢😢🙏🙏🙏🙏
Aaj Maine first comment kiye Bhai ek ladki hai Bhai Sadi nhi hua aur uske bachedani operation ho gya hai v jindgi se paresan rhti bahut humesha mrnke liye bolti hai plz aap isper vedio banaye taki v aap ki bat samjhe aur jina sikha plz ek vedio banao aap ki kaise jiye v koi Rasta plz 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Anu bhaiya I don't know how you r familiar with these mind disturbing problems of life, I don't know you'll read it or not nd what you'll think after reading my cmnt bt still I want to share my pain with u what I'm going through for seven yrs...your each nd every point is related to my own life...i hve been facing someone's selfish, toxic nature,egoistic, arrogant, superiority complex behaviour) Before I started watching your vdos , I had only two words ( selfish nd Heartless)in my mind to express that person's over all behaviour, after watching your vdos I became familiar that these r called traits of human behaviour ( narcissistic persons) nd today I'm also familiar to another trait's name which that person gives me always which u called 'silent treatment'... I watched your vdos till the end, I want to ask you something that if the other person keeps a habit of persuasive, even if that person is wrong , if you confront to that person, he never excepts own fault nd started conflicts, started insulting u with very down level rude arrogant behaviour even on a small topic which u just want to ask or express,keeps a nature to overpower you always, Even after that I never stopped conversations, bt that person started showing such behaviour as u explained in the video,like if you r calling nd he is in front of u bt ignored u,asking for something he just ignored u,nd when he is in need comes in front of u with much sweetness in his behaviour, nd once when his motive finished ,again started showing his rudeness to you, that person wanted me to make him happy by helping him in his regular activities day by day , nd after several nd several days he will show you mercy nd started talking to you like he is doing favor on you...this is just a technique for that person to acquire his wish or implement his thoughts on you, effortlessly... So facing these things every single time I feel myself tensed, hurted nd broken💔 that person has no worries at all... Just enjoying what he is doing to me, nd when you help to that person in needs or you care when he is unwelll he said to other member, she is just pretending to show her good, How would you feel? Just think for once.... So I'm asking you bhaiya why should i care for such heartless persons,who never cares for me, your love care means nothing to that person,always has an intension to hurt you metally nd deeply...i had a fear in my mind that some day I will finish my life cz of this person's toxic behaviour, I feel pity for myself why I'm so much imotional Bt after watching such helpful vdos gradually posted by you I started feeling , it's enough! no one has the right to hurt me,I don't need anyone in my life, it's ok to live alone..... thnk you Anu bhaiya for all the helpful vdos, it gives much nd much mental strength
आपणे पहिले एक video मे यह कह था की आपकी silent बी एक अच्छा जवाब होता हे किसीं arrogant आदमी को। इस Video मे आप Silent treatment को immature behaviour बता रहे हो 🤨। इंसाण जाणबुजकर किसीं को Silent treatment नही देता. वो परेशान हो जाता हे किसि गध्ये के सामने अपना माथा पिट पिट के. हर बार आपको अपना पॉईंट prove करणे के लिये explanation देना पढे किसीं के सामने तो इंसाण ऐसे आदमी को पागल समज के Silent treatment देना चालू कर देता हे बजाय उस्के साथ उलजने के।
Exactly.. Jab bar bar prove karne ke baad bhi aapko ek hi cheez samjhani pare tab dukh se aadmi chup ho jata hai. Kyuki har koi gali ke jawab gali se nahi de sakti.
Accha lega video sir. Point 5 is very closed to my life. Jo I did in my real life. Karne m 15 sy 16 saal lagy but bahut sahi h in extreme case. Make yourself busy in routine work, adopt any hobby n become spiritual. All r very accurately said by u. Indifferent hone m hi life smooth ho jaayegi.
Ye sab to thik h.. But I am totally depend on him for our basic needs.. I have no job and my children are small... Same treatment bacho ke sath bhi krte h.. What could i do?
@@parveenyadav5128 pls try to follow point 5. Really it will help. Apne bas k saary karm karo, spiritual ban jao(geeta pado), busy rekho apne aap ko acchy karyo m. Ghar k karyo m. Baccho m. Apno m. Jo apko value nhi dy reha h woh kabhi nhi dega then why Hving expectation from him/her. What u hv ussey tho mat lose karo. Enjoy yur life.
Yes sir meri bhi same problem hai, mere bhi husband mere sath aise hi karte hai. Aaj mai aapki ye video dek kar mujhe rona aagya😭😭😭,. But sir maine bhi unhe bahot samjaya per yo ny samjate, aur ghar ke bade ko bolu to mere sari inlaws mere khilaf hai. Hamar love marriage hua hai isleye koi muje support ny karta 😭😭😭
Apne aap ko thoda interesting bnane k liye mehnat karo.. sab theek ho jayega... shadi todna ilaj nhi hota .. partner aapse kya chahta h usey value karo... aur aap hi usey vo do... husband wife ek joda hotey hain... ek Matlab ek hi hota h do nhi hota.. khhud ko unse alag mat samjho.. unke liye sochna shuru kar do ek intertsiner ki trah.. bado ko involve krne ki zaroorat hi nhi h.. apne andar positive thoughts itne badhao k husband ki negativity chuppi apne aap aapki vjeh se desolve ho jaye.. sab solutions isi me ho jayenge... accept this challenge of life... n win this game smartly .. u can . U are life partner of ur husband..
Thanks a lot, Sir main bhi apna ego pe stick raha mera Gf bhi but abb dono ki zindagi bekar hogaya hai mujhe hi uske pass jana hoga maturity ke sath. Tabhi problem Solve hopayega 🙏
Sir aisa bhi toh hota h ki...silent treatment k alwa koi option hi nhi bachta... Kuki jab pata h...har baar sirf hum hi galat h...chahe kabhi bhi ladai ho jaaye... Toh kya faidya uss insaan se kuch bhi kehne ka. Better h chup hi ho jao phir toh.
Mai aur mera husband dono ek dusre ko silent treatment dete h...na mujhe ab interest h un se baat kar ne mai na unko...ab ghar mai shanti aa gaye h...kon roh roj jhagra aur bahas kare..
Bhaiya Mai b ek relationship me hu..Aur mera jo partner h vo settled b h... Humara relationship 5 saal ka h.. lekin vo apne ghar pe shaadi ki baat pata nahi kyu nahi karta hai..jabki Uske ghar me sabko pata h..aur waha log kehte b h ki jisse bologe ho jayega..fir b vo baat nhi karta h..jab b mai usse kehti hu ki bat karo vo bolta hai aj karungaa kl karungaa par Abhi tk nahi kiya...Aur mere Ghar me sab shaadi k liye force karte hai... Mai kya Karu bhaiya please btaiye
Thanks sir many aáp kaa yah video lagatar 03 bar suna hai mayry friend ki laif May is tarh ki problem chal rahi hai pichley 10 sal say pichley 2 sal say jyada problem may hay May Pura pryas kar raha hun ki unki problem solv ho jay thanks
My mother in law does that, when I confront her about it, wo mujhe zaleel krti hain phir baat shuru krti hain. It's like she is waiting for me to come so that she can kick me down.
It may be nature of some person to give silent treatment but many times we come across with abusive and narssistic nature people where it is compulsory to give them silent treatment.
अनुभव सर, मुझे एक situation का हल नहीं मिल रहा है, कृपया इस टॉपिक पर video बनाए की, indirect taunt marne walo se kaise deal kre, kyuki kisi bhi insan ko daily egnore Krna ya daiy ldai Krna possible nhi hota, खास कर ऑफिस में
Sir mere husband bhi same silent treatment de rh hai 3mahinese aur ab muhj bardash nhi horh hai meri mental health thik nhi rhti hai me fun-loving nature hai lekin wo kuch b chiz solve nhi krte ab divorce tak bat agyi hai😢
Hello sir ...mera bhai h 24 year ka ho gya h ...vo bht darta h baat bhi kuch bolega toe khul k ni bolega ...bethe bethe kuch sochta e rehta h ...padhai me bhi man ni lgata or na e koi or kaam me interest h uska bht sidha n descnet h bht bhola h koi kuch bhi kehta h maan leta h bht slow uska dimag chlta h usko humne bht dr. Ko dikhya but kuch ni hua ... sir ab vo bada ho gya h 24 year bht hoti h mere papa k ek e beta h kya karu bto sir plsss plsss plsss kya kia jaaye
Agar koi silent treatment de raha hai regularly
Aapko kisi se salah nhi lena hai
Aap turant aise vyakti ko tyag do jo silent treatment de rha hai
Because aise person kbhi nhi sudharte hai
Absolutely
You are absolutely correct
Mere bhi husband aise hi hai , iski vajah se mai bohat bade depression ki shikar hui , bad mai muze bohat dr ko dikhana pada mai thik ho gayi lekin tab se mai apne khushi ke liye jeeti hu , hamesha dusro ke liye jine ki koshis ki ,jab meri bimari ke time koi nahi tha , mental health Puri kharab ho gayi , dr mere liye bhagvan nikle , unohne muze thik kiya , tab se dusro ke bare mai sochna band kiya ,puza karti ,adyatmik rahne lagi ,mast rahti scooty sikha muze jaha Jana ,jati kisi ke aage muze le chalo le chalo nahi bolti jeevan 47 year se dusre umeed laga ke rakhi hu , aaj khud jeena sikh liya , mai doctor thi mere pati meri bhavna samzenge , bad mai laga bacche , lekin aisa nahi hota unlogo ki bhi koi galti nahi unko apni life se fursat nahi ,lekin unko mera time chahiye , mai. Sab samaz gayi , kaise jeena hai , apna time apne liye diya , choti ,choti khushi milne lagi ,our man khush hone laga ,mai kisi ko badal to nahi payi ,. Lekin khud ko. Khush karne mai lagi , aaj mai , lekin jeevan mai itna pata chala ,dusra koi hame khush nahi rakh sakta ,. Khushi bheekh mangte raho our depression mai jao ,agar nahi thik huy to tadaf tadaf ke mar jao , meri nanad aisi mar gayi lekin husband ne apna. Time nahi diya ,
Aese log silent treatment deke hame taklif dete hai..ak bar compromises karna chahiye bar bar aesa ho to aese relations ko ignore karke aage badhna chahiye sir ye hi hai bas ..bar bar kisi ko manane se acha hai...akele jina sikh le...baki bhagvan malik hai..
shahi kaa aapney islye move on hogae kyaa kre asaa pyaar ka av muje koe frk nhi pdtaa koe aagya hae meri life jo muje bhohot pyaar krta hae 😂
Samjhane ke baad bhi agar koi baar baar apman kare to chup rehne ke alawa koi chara nhn hota.
saath rehke bhi akele rehna bahot mushkil hota he... par akhir me aap khud hi apne aap ke liye hote ho ... focus on ourself....
For you, now, I am a mature and mentally strong woman..Sir, I pray to Allah give you a better reward.
कुछ नही है रिश्ते रखने नही है यही उत्तर है उन लोगो का। बोलचाल बंद करना कोई परिपक्वता की निशानी नही है या तो अपनी बात मनवानी है। या संबध तोडने है बस। ये जहर होता है जो कयी सालो से भर रहा होता है।
सही बात है ये ज़हर मुझमें है या अगले में।
भईया अगर कोई जानबूझ के चुप रहे ,, सिर्फ सताने के लिए ,और हर रोज का उसका ये खेल बन गया हो तब किया करे,,
उसके अंदर एक ईगो हो की ,
सामने बाला आकर मुझे बोलेगा ,मेरे सामने जुकेगा ,तब किया किया जाए
Mujhe is video ki jrurt thi sir.... Thank you so much,, mere husband ya to chup ho jate h, ya bhala bura bolne lg jate h... Mai v silent ho jati thi but frustrated v ho jati thi but ab mai baat krugi
Law nikalna chahiye..jo log silent treatment dete he unke against...
Why?
Akele jeene ki aadat daal li h ab aur trust nhi tudvana
Priorities badal lo khud kamakr
Maine bhi yahi kiya hain
I think this is the best thing to do what you said.
This is the reason why high competition in jobs
Thank you for this video, i am going through the same in my marriage since past 6 months and i am now moving out because there is no companionship despite attempts to communicate multiple times, it's only making me sad and mad . The other person just doesn't care. I think this also a manipulative technique to get what you want without putting any effort .
Anu bhaiyya aapke samjhane ka tareeka hi alag h
Great boss...
Thanku sir ye btane ke liye ki ankho ke samne aaye lekin mn me n aaye ,resources ka use karo taki life aake badhe,aur career oriented ho jao hobby apnalo ,spiritual ho jao life me kisi ki jarurat nhi padegi...thanks helped me a lot...
Thank you very much sir to make such videos and spread awareness. Atleast, we can come out of self guilt..
Sahi बात है. मेरे पतीने मुझे silent treatment dete थे. पंधरा बीस दिन तक बात नही करते थे. बहुत तकलीफ होती थी. जिंदगी नरक बन गई थी. अब वो भी न ही
रहे.पुराना दर्द ताजा हो गया.
Mt husband's behavior is like this. .please elaborate more on therapy for such situations! Aapne ek bhai ke Tarah sab samjha diya. Bohot bohot dhanyawaad!
Most valuable batein app bol gaye ho sir 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
God bless you
You are a source of inspiration
Well Explained,I think it will help more needy people.
Mere husband ne muje ghol dia aur aaj bhi he is like that.....khud bolne chahe th mujpr blame bhaav khana lekin meri sunne k bad chup rehna hi muje torture krta h
Communicate krti hu lekin hadd cross hone se ab me bhi side ho rhi hu thak gyi hu
Thank you for the video... I so much wanted this
Yes ,,aap bilkul sahi..mere saath aisa mere in laws m kiya..fir m bhi ushshe alag ho gai..lekin ushe badi pareshani hui ki maine apne liye stand liya..fir vo insaan bahut paise wala tha ushne sirf meri family se rishta Tod liya..jishshe meri personali life m problem Hui...lekin carrier oriented hone k Karan cheezein sambhal par ushne badla liya aur jo ushka apna Bhai jo ushe pyaar karta tha..ushka apnmaan kiya mere bache ka aur rights Tod liya...
सर, ये आपका अनुभव मेरे लिए इससे भी बढ़कर है।🙏🙏
Much needed topic Sir .
Thank you bhaiya ji, meney toh apne aap ko puri tarah se adhyatm mey kar liya hai , bagwat Geeta padti hu , apney ko kaam mein busy rakhti hu . Aapka bhaut bhaut abhar . 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Bhai aap ki video dekh kr bahut himmat milti h thank yau
Jab aap anxiety or emotional pressure main hote ho... Tab itna maturely baat ko sidhe tareeke se kehna easy nahi hota.. u start getting angry and shouting to their cold behaviour and when they speak they trash your self respect .. and you react out of anxiety and then they and their family blame you for your reaction. I have gone through this multiple times in my married life. It was just full of blames and rigid framework of way of life for just daughter in law. Husband never tried to understand me. Now we are separated not talking to each other been few months
Dear how u handling this
I have a children and my in laws and husband are evil
And I am not able to leave them
@@AS53246 So after 3 months of my previous separation my husband came back .. but along with his family. They told me to forget everything and start fresh. We had counseling session we talked our heart out there but still during counseling session I did not find that my husband has actually realised few things from his heart. But still since he and his family came to kind of convince me I went back to my in-laws place. I found little difference in my husband's nature but there was absolutely no change in my mother in laws nature...she keeps fighting with my jethani as well as me.. one day i was very sick and she still created a scene and my husband just once politely told her to ignore. But then untill her anger is not come down the environment of the house is just scary and I was always on my toes. They just wait for one miss from your end so that they can get upset and if you react then everybody along with my husband will shout at me. I got admitted 3 weeks before but there also my in laws were just interested in creating rules for me and my family and trying to save their son from staying with me in hospital. This happened twice and i blasted on my husband on same day and told him to buzz off from my life and hospital room. Now he has stopped talking to me bcz I shouted at him. And again it's been a month we are not talking to each other. My husband disrespects me and does not value me. This time I am inclined towards separation legally. But I am just exploring some more time just to be sure about it before I finally tell him about the separation.
Same here
Hi dear. Currently I am going through same . Ditto... how did you cope with this. I have a small baby just 1 year old
Bhut sahi bhaiya..it's reality.
Kuch cases mein ye sambhav nhi hai because confront karne per wo aapko hi galat sabit karne ki koshish karega...mainly in case of narcissist because he is not ready to take any responsibility. In that case there is no solution except distance to safegaurd your peace
Thanks bahiya. You explain very well.
i find myself because of your videos sir.....thnk you so much.
I needed this very much because I have that experience
U r sooooooo intelligent sir........ Thank u
Bhaiya pranam apko bahut bahut shukriya ..app sach mein ek acche bhai h mere h video dekh kr bahut kuch sikhti hu sab kuch smjhti hu
Aap ne bilkul sahi kaha #Anubhav ji
Mne yahi tarika apnaya hai apni life mein, mere husband ne mujhe theek isi tareeke se mentally torture kiya hai, ab rishta aisa ho gya hai ki vo mere liye sirf meri aur mere bachhon ki needs poori karne ka jariya ban kar reh gye hain bas
@@sureshsharma4166 Hanji aap ki baat bilkul sahi hai, lekin suresh ji har ghr mein situation alag hoti hai, kahin patni pati ki kadar nhi karti to kahin pati patni ki kadar nhi karta , Aur jis word ke liye aap ne sorry bola bola hai na jyadatar mardo ko sirf isi se mtlb hota h, aurat ki feelings se unko koi lena dena nhi hota
Same
Mere husband ka same nature hai, aur main is se bht pareshan rehti hoon. Bahut akela feel karti hoon.
Zayadatar logo ke rishtey ki yhi problum h
Mere v husband aeise hi h jindgi nrk bna di h
Same happen with me
Aap kaha se hoo kya hum baat kr skte hai
Ya to bolenge hi ni aur agar bol denge to aag ugalte h aag
Very nicely explained.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Thanku soo much sir
I needed this video
Aapne solution Bata diya sir
Thank you so much ......
Very nice video sir🙏 thanku
I really needed this video....Thank you such sir 🙏
Us insan ko koi frk hi nhi pdta ho ki unka relation hmare sath khrab ho rha h,,,wo insan khud to baher kisi or k sath sahi h or ghr me hme silent treatment de rha ho to kya krein ,,,
Very nice solution Sir 👌👍
Well explained bhaiya 👏
I am 100% agree with your every point...
I am also applying such types of behaviour to observe others mind and behaviour, it helps a lot. After that I start conversations from them.
Don't practise such dark manipulative skills .. no good will ever come out of it
Right.. thanks sir 🙏🙏
Sir agar koi insaan hume silent treatment de raha h....toh it means ki hum uske liye imp. Hi nhi h
Deep knowledge...
Amazing video sir🙏
Sir you r so good.।।। Thankyou
Aap ki hr video me jo bhi topic hota hh uska jo aap explain krte ho wo ese lgta hai jaise aap khud ko us jga pr rakh kr bolte ho isse bdiya koi bhi explain nhi kr skta sir jaise aap krte ho aap ki video 1000 percent original hai aapne bhut struggle kiya hai tbi itna jante ho bina mehsus kre koi ese explain nhi kr skta M sure thanku sir God bless u wd good health wealth prosperity 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Kavita, God bless you :)
Write sir..dhanyavad ap ne sahi bat batai he...our sabhi bhai bahen se kehe na chahugi..khud se pyar kare apni parvah kare khud me bizi rahe ..jo hame pasand he vo kare..song suno prathna karo kisi ki madat karo bass khush raho...life ak hi bar milti he..jabarjasti kisi ko pyar ki bhik mat mango😢😢🙏🙏🙏🙏
Aaj Maine first comment kiye Bhai ek ladki hai Bhai Sadi nhi hua aur uske bachedani operation ho gya hai v jindgi se paresan rhti bahut humesha mrnke liye bolti hai plz aap isper vedio banaye taki v aap ki bat samjhe aur jina sikha plz ek vedio banao aap ki kaise jiye v koi Rasta plz 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Anu bhaiya I don't know how you r familiar with these mind disturbing problems of life, I don't know you'll read it or not nd what you'll think after reading my cmnt bt still I want to share my pain with u what I'm going through for seven yrs...your each nd every point is related to my own life...i hve been facing someone's selfish, toxic nature,egoistic, arrogant, superiority complex behaviour)
Before I started watching your vdos , I had only two words ( selfish nd Heartless)in my mind to express that person's over all behaviour, after watching your vdos I became familiar that these r called traits of human behaviour ( narcissistic persons) nd today I'm also familiar to another trait's name which that person gives me always which u called 'silent treatment'... I watched your vdos till the end, I want to ask you something that if the other person keeps a habit of persuasive, even if that person is wrong , if you confront to that person, he never excepts own fault nd started conflicts, started insulting u with very down level rude arrogant behaviour even on a small topic which u just want to ask or express,keeps a nature to overpower you always,
Even after that I never stopped conversations, bt that person started showing such behaviour as u explained in the video,like if you r calling nd he is in front of u bt ignored u,asking for something he just ignored u,nd when he is in need comes in front of u with much sweetness in his behaviour, nd once when his motive finished ,again started showing his rudeness to you, that person wanted me to make him happy by helping him in his regular activities day by day , nd after several nd several days he will show you mercy nd started talking to you like he is doing favor on you...this is just a technique for that person to acquire his wish or implement his thoughts on you, effortlessly...
So facing these things every single time I feel myself tensed, hurted nd broken💔 that person has no worries at all... Just enjoying what he is doing to me, nd when you help to that person in needs or you care when he is unwelll he said to other member, she is just pretending to show her good, How would you feel? Just think for once....
So I'm asking you bhaiya why should i care for such heartless persons,who never cares for me, your love care means nothing to that person,always has an intension to hurt you metally nd deeply...i had a fear in my mind that some day I will finish my life cz of this person's toxic behaviour, I feel pity for myself why I'm so much imotional
Bt after watching such helpful vdos gradually posted by you I started feeling , it's enough! no one has the right to hurt me,I don't need anyone in my life, it's ok to live alone..... thnk you Anu bhaiya for all the helpful vdos, it gives much nd much mental strength
Right thoughts.
Blessings for the best
Right sir.. Tq👍🙏
सर आप बोहत अच्छे से बता ते हो मेरी सास मेरे सात ऐसा करती है उसकी गलती रहती है मेरी नही रहती मै बोलती हु तो चुप रहती है
Sahi kaha sir aapna
Very good motivation.
Shi kaha apne
Woh kuch baat sunne hi nhi chahta jab bole toh bolta hai pareshn nhi kro
Yes u r correct,
God Bless you 👍👍
Thank you sir
Sir aap genius hain, thanku so much for your guidance, u r the best, God bless you Sir,🎉
Thanks ...sir
the best advice
Bade hi aag lagate h
Muje padna h aur kuch karna h lekin isi chiz se roda atka rhe h th me bhi ab bure banne pr mujbur ho gyi hu......
Thankyou 🙏
Akshaya tai radu nka , khush raha , masta raha, tumhich tumchya jeevnacha shilpkar ahat. Aapan dukhi rahilo tar konala kahi farak padat nahi ,
Bahut atcha laga
आपणे पहिले एक video मे यह कह था की आपकी silent बी एक अच्छा जवाब होता हे किसीं arrogant आदमी को। इस Video मे आप Silent treatment को immature behaviour बता रहे हो 🤨। इंसाण जाणबुजकर किसीं को Silent treatment नही देता. वो परेशान हो जाता हे किसि गध्ये के सामने अपना माथा पिट पिट के. हर बार आपको अपना पॉईंट prove करणे के लिये explanation देना पढे किसीं के सामने तो इंसाण ऐसे आदमी को पागल समज के Silent treatment देना चालू कर देता हे बजाय उस्के साथ उलजने के।
Exactly.. Jab bar bar prove karne ke baad bhi aapko ek hi cheez samjhani pare tab dukh se aadmi chup ho jata hai. Kyuki har koi gali ke jawab gali se nahi de sakti.
Thanks sir jee
❤️❤️❤️❤️BLESSING
Nothing to say but thank you 😊
Maine bola tha tu chila chila ke he said ki mujhe chor do ..after every 15 days he gave me silent treatment...
Very nice video sir
Tq sir
Thik hai bhiya
Accha lega video sir. Point 5 is very closed to my life. Jo I did in my real life. Karne m 15 sy 16 saal lagy but bahut sahi h in extreme case. Make yourself busy in routine work, adopt any hobby n become spiritual. All r very accurately said by u. Indifferent hone m hi life smooth ho jaayegi.
Ye sab to thik h.. But I am totally depend on him for our basic needs.. I have no job and my children are small... Same treatment bacho ke sath bhi krte h.. What could i do?
@@parveenyadav5128 pls try to follow point 5. Really it will help. Apne bas k saary karm karo, spiritual ban jao(geeta pado), busy rekho apne aap ko acchy karyo m. Ghar k karyo m. Baccho m. Apno m. Jo apko value nhi dy reha h woh kabhi nhi dega then why Hving expectation from him/her. What u hv ussey tho mat lose karo. Enjoy yur life.
Only say thanks ❤❤❤
My mom is giving me this. But I am happy she won't irritate me anymore lol 😃😃🤣
Yes sir meri bhi same problem hai, mere bhi husband mere sath aise hi karte hai. Aaj mai aapki ye video dek kar mujhe rona aagya😭😭😭,. But sir maine bhi unhe bahot samjaya per yo ny samjate, aur ghar ke bade ko bolu to mere sari inlaws mere khilaf hai. Hamar love marriage hua hai isleye koi muje support ny karta 😭😭😭
Same with me too Akshayaji
Divorce him
Same with me but I left him after 3 years.
@@happybirthday9652 shadi se pehle to apne ap ko achha hi dikhata tha
Apne aap ko thoda interesting bnane k liye mehnat karo.. sab theek ho jayega... shadi todna ilaj nhi hota .. partner aapse kya chahta h usey value karo... aur aap hi usey vo do... husband wife ek joda hotey hain... ek Matlab ek hi hota h do nhi hota.. khhud ko unse alag mat samjho.. unke liye sochna shuru kar do ek intertsiner ki trah.. bado ko involve krne ki zaroorat hi nhi h.. apne andar positive thoughts itne badhao k husband ki negativity chuppi apne aap aapki vjeh se desolve ho jaye.. sab solutions isi me ho jayenge... accept this challenge of life... n win this game smartly .. u can
. U are life partner of ur husband..
Nice👍
Thanks a lot, Sir main bhi apna ego pe stick raha mera Gf bhi but abb dono ki zindagi bekar hogaya hai mujhe hi uske pass jana hoga maturity ke sath. Tabhi problem Solve hopayega 🙏
Muze aiss topics pr or batayee appse vinti hai🙏
Sir aisa bhi toh hota h ki...silent treatment k alwa koi option hi nhi bachta...
Kuki jab pata h...har baar sirf hum hi galat h...chahe kabhi bhi ladai ho jaaye...
Toh kya faidya uss insaan se kuch bhi kehne ka.
Better h chup hi ho jao phir toh.
M agree with you
Mai aur mera husband dono ek dusre ko silent treatment dete h...na mujhe ab interest h un se baat kar ne mai na unko...ab ghar mai shanti aa gaye h...kon roh roj jhagra aur bahas kare..
Good mam
Bhaiya Mai b ek relationship me hu..Aur mera jo partner h vo settled b h... Humara relationship 5 saal ka h.. lekin vo apne ghar pe shaadi ki baat pata nahi kyu nahi karta hai..jabki Uske ghar me sabko pata h..aur waha log kehte b h ki jisse bologe ho jayega..fir b vo baat nhi karta h..jab b mai usse kehti hu ki bat karo vo bolta hai aj karungaa kl karungaa par Abhi tk nahi kiya...Aur mere Ghar me sab shaadi k liye force karte hai... Mai kya Karu bhaiya please btaiye
Thanks sir many aáp kaa yah video lagatar 03 bar suna hai mayry friend ki laif May is tarh ki problem chal rahi hai pichley 10 sal say pichley 2 sal say jyada problem may hay May Pura pryas kar raha hun ki unki problem solv ho jay thanks
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Sir🙏🙏💖
My mother in law does that, when I confront her about it, wo mujhe zaleel krti hain phir baat shuru krti hain. It's like she is waiting for me to come so that she can kick me down.
It may be nature of some person to give silent treatment but many times we come across with abusive and narssistic
nature people where it is compulsory to give them silent treatment.
Evan nassistic abusive people give silent treatment oppossite you
अनुभव सर, मुझे एक situation का हल नहीं मिल रहा है, कृपया इस टॉपिक पर video बनाए की, indirect taunt marne walo se kaise deal kre, kyuki kisi bhi insan ko daily egnore Krna ya daiy ldai Krna possible nhi hota, खास कर ऑफिस में
Sir mere husband bhi same silent treatment de rh hai 3mahinese aur ab muhj bardash nhi horh hai meri mental health thik nhi rhti hai me fun-loving nature hai lekin wo kuch b chiz solve nhi krte ab divorce tak bat agyi hai😢
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Hello sir ...mera bhai h 24 year ka ho gya h ...vo bht darta h baat bhi kuch bolega toe khul k ni bolega ...bethe bethe kuch sochta e rehta h ...padhai me bhi man ni lgata or na e koi or kaam me interest h uska bht sidha n descnet h bht bhola h koi kuch bhi kehta h maan leta h bht slow uska dimag chlta h usko humne bht dr. Ko dikhya but kuch ni hua ... sir ab vo bada ho gya h 24 year bht hoti h mere papa k ek e beta h kya karu bto sir plsss plsss plsss kya kia jaaye
Mere sath esa hi hora he koi ego nhi he mere me wo bs muje apni takat dikhana chah rha