बहुत motivational speaker सिर्फ काल्पनिक बाते करके कहानी बनाकर बोलता है जो कि reallife का हिस्सा नहीं होता और आपका हर एक वीडियो real life से जुड़ा रहाता है, थैंक्स you
अहंकार करना भी आवश्यक है ......... जब बातें चरित्र सम्मान और अधिकार पर आ जाए ...... कभी कभी जीवन में ऐसी स्थिति आ जाती है पर आपके वीडियोस मन को बहुत राहत देते हैं .धन्यवाद जी...........
मेरे साथ ऐसा रिश्ता 20 साल तक चला।साथ चलने की असफल कोशिश में मैंने अपने आप को ही खो दिया । सौ प्रतिशत सहने के बाद भी कोई कद्र नहीं हुई ,ऊपर से सौ इल्जाम भी लगाए गए। पैसा, शरीर ,पूरा ध्यान लगाया।अपनी हर इच्छा का गला घोंटा, पर न समझी की हद ने सब बरबाद कर दिया।
Mere sath bhi yahi hua sister 10 sal bad samjh aaya hai bahut royi na jane ab kya hoga jindagi ka kuchh banne ki umar mai kisi se dil lga liya jab dil toota to umar nhi bachi hai bas Rona hai ab 😢😢
Nice speech 👏👏 I'm a victim of narcissist person...got married and suffered a lot of emotional and physical abuse....not able to maintain a relationship...he never ever listened and understood what he did is wrong...he never ever asks sorry for his guilty act...then got divorce with him within a year... now living peacefully
नाम के अनुसार अनुभव सर आपकी अनुभव शक्ति बहुत ही अच्छी है ।इतने अच्छे से समझना और समझाना जैसे की ये सब आपके साथ हुई हो क्या गजब है आपके अनुभव।थैंक्यू सर
I had to leave marriage of 3 years bcoz of this personality disorder...in 2-3 meetings you can't analyse the narcissism. Narcissistic are trained in hiding there manipulative behaviour
But if the person is aware about narcissism, then he/ she can see red flags in first few meetings... I feel sorry that you must have been blamed for divorce n you must be facing smear campaigns & harmed reputation.. but finally you have a reason to be happy that you are free & can start your life with a normal person...
@@NS-id7ff yes learning comes from experiences... It's been 4 yrs of separation.... The special quality of narcissistic is they can't even let u go easily.... Stretched divorce cases etc
I lost myself because of this personality disorder . Face chronic dippresion & get all type of abuses like sexual and physical or imotional ..I am in therapy from one year ..and my family members asking for results from therapy . They have no idea I was completely dead inside
मैं आप की बात से इतनी सुधर सकती हुं यकिन ही नहीं होता है मुझे,सर आप इसी तरह के विडियो बनाते रहीए ताकि सारे लोग सही रास्ते पर आ सके thank you so much sir
My friend is a covert narcissist. I have distanced myself from her. Earlier, I used to share my problems with her, I never got the relief, instead my condition always worsened. It was important for my mental peace!
Yes sir, i have been through it for 25 years and for a girl its the most horrific thing to experience with everyday being a nightmare. The sad part is..you are not only a victim at home but also a kind of double victimisation occurs facing everyone around you who have no idea what you are going through.Please make more such videos about all the traits of narcissistic person as it is the most misunderstood topic in today's world.Thank you so much for making such vedios.😊
Sir, yeh sari qualities mere ex me thi. Before I was not aware of such qualities, but when I realized it I was tried to keep with safe distance from him & set my own boundaries. After seeing all these, he left me...😊😊 & after that, now I am also set him free for ever... 🤗🤗
This video actually helps a lot of people around the world, those who actually deals with them. Very important & helpful video.. Bhaiya aapka bahut bahut Sukriya... 🙏🙏
There is always a turning point in everyone's life when, we get to realise that, which is good/ which is not good for us. We have to accept the things the way they are... & one thing we must keep in our mind that, keep believing in ourselves...
Your greatness can't explain in words, you are giving a "SANJEEVANI BOOTI" to every listener to drink this world's poison and be a real hero to fight every problem about this life,you are a real guide who is shownig a respectful way to everyone
Pr aise log shanti chahte hi kahan h. Ye to samne wale ko dabane ke liye poora tamasha krte h. Rishtedaron , friends sab me bus aim h ki bahu ya biwi pr poora control rhe ,dara kr besti kr ke ya jo b Krna pade.
Sir I am facing the same problem but can't make emotional distance due to daughters future I know all the things but tolerating He doesn't think for himself that he is a psychic person He insults me every day But I can't break this relationship Each and every sentence said by you fits hundred percent in my life, how do you come to know all about such people I salute you
Kyuki log jaan buj kr jina haram krte h Suicide krne tk ko mjbur kr dete h Ek family me rehkr aalg nhi ho paty Problem bahut face krni pdti h Ek family member ki wajh se hum other family members ke samne bure ban jaty h Vo insan itna mjbur kr deta h ki koi rasta nzr nhi aata or depressed kr deta h Dimag pr bahut gehra asar hota h in sbka
Aapne bhaut sahi kaha narcissist people se emotionally distance maintain kar lena chaye chae woh apke loved one hi kyun naa..this video is really very helpful for me...thank you so much..😔🙏🙏🙏💛
इस प्रॉब्लम को इतने अच्छे तरीके से समझाने और इससे निबटने का तरीका बताने के लिए बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद ।इतने काम की बातें और इतने अच्छे ढंग से बताई हैं आपने वाकई इससे बहुत फर्क पड़ता है बंदे में सुधार हो या ना हो लेकिन खुद में कॉन्फिडेंस तो बढ़ता है और मेंटल टेंशन इतनी ज्यादा नहीं होती।
Aap sahi bol rhe ho.. Husbbd ka yhi haal tha mujhe bat bat pr galiya dena, marna peetna, gulamo ki zindgi jeerhi thi kisi se bat na karne dena.. Apni harbat manvana . Majbur hokar hamein alag hona pda mayke agyi hu or case chlrha h ab yhi hal meri choti bhabhi mere sath krrhi h bhai ko sikhati hain or ladayi krati hain ab main kahan jaun kya karu 6sal hogye mmy k pas rhte huey sb thik tha but last year bhai ki shadi k bad se ghar me bari bar jhagda hota h. Kl bhi bahut kalesh hua kahan jaun apna koi ghar nhi h .. Na job hain
Toxic relations which are mentally torturing us over the years need to be isolated.and separated to remain psychologically heathy in our life.otherwise we waste our life in fighting with each other but on the other hand we start to think that what people will say if we are separated?..but finally we need to take firm decision by neglecting opinions of others..Remember our life belongs to us only not for others
Apne hi khoon ke Rishtedar.Apne hi sage Sambhandi Dushman Hote Hain.jo Harbar Kisi na kisi tarah se hamari Tarakki Nahi Chahte.Aur Ham Doosare Caste Religion ko Dosh Dete Rahte Hain. This is the biggest mistake which we have been doing over the years
NPD Narcissistic personality disorder व्यक्ति का पता लगाना मुश्किल है क्योंकि उन मे immature,inflated and maturity के मिक्स लक्षण पाए जाते हैं। हमारे भीतर भी कुछ कुछ ऐसे ही लक्षण होते हैं। केवल उन्हे वही व्यक्ति डील कर सकता है जो सच में सात्विक यानी कि mature हो। सात्विक व्यक्ति को NPD का कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता।❤❤
Narcissists are super sweet in the beginning of the relationship. .but once they take you in their grip, they show their true colours. .esp.after marriage. .thats why its very important to identify the red flags when they become abusive. .n not get attached to them emotionally. .think logically n run miles away from them before they ruin your life. .these ppl are very manipulative and never change. .no contact with them is the best solution to save yourself. .
Most narcissist won't act sweet, because they have superiority complex, they won't try to lure people. Manipulators, maybe psychopaths or any common person. The problem is, we don't spend enough time with people, and hence, the real personality becomes visible later.
Yes you are right bhaiyaa. .psychopaths and sociopaths do such things. .even i have endured a lot of abuse and violence from my husband n in laws. . .n now i hve left them for good. .self love n being mentally strong is extremely important as you always ask us to do. . .thank u so mch fr always inspiring us🙏❤️
आप बहुत सही तरीके से समझते भी हो और समझाते भी हो। सर माता पिता को जो बड़े भाई बहकाते है प्रोपीटी कि लालच मैं उस पर वीडियो बनावो की कैसे छोटे भाई को बचना चाहिए और ।। माता पिता को use करके छोटे भाई की संपत्ति हड़पने वाले बड़े भाई यो के बारे में आईडिया दो सर छोटे भाई और उसकी फैमिली को परेशान कर रखा है। घर मे रहना मुश्किल कर रखा ह
Sir maine acchi tarah se jhela ha Yeh 2020 ki August ma, aise logon ko change karna bahut muskil hai. Psychiatrist k pass le jane k bare ma bolne se mujhe hi psycho sabit karne ma lag gaye thay, to maine apna boundaries set kar liya tha, 1 hi ghar ma Rehte hai lekin ma koi react nehi karti hu, aur aaj apka ye video dekh rahi Hu, sab kuch sahi sahi bol rahe Ho. Ma khud change ho gayi hu. . .
Apke life ki accountability apki h... No body is control your life accept you only so be independent and speak yourself when needed.....thnku very much garu ❤you are highly motivated person & my favourite.....
@WfweDcrf Really I don't believe in online dating my previous relationship is a trap & a hell for me .... By the way what's your name ? M abhi healing process pr hu toh No dating focusing on myself....👍
This video will be most beneficial for students category those who are willing to pursue their dream, career and job. And also those who have willing to fulfil their core desires
महोदय आपकी,अनुभाविक जीवन मुल्यों में सीखभरी वीडियो बनाने के लिए धन्यवाद। मैं आपके विडियो देखकर प्रभावित हुं ,मुझे आपके विडियो देखकर वर्तमान में ए एहसास हुआ की क्या करना चाहिए इस चीज ज्ञान मिला जो जिस दौर से गुजर रहा है या जिसके लिए कर रहा उसकी क्या अहमियत देनी चाहिए। और क्या लिखूं कम बातों में ज्यादा समझना!
M y vedio apka 3 ya 4 bar dekh chuki hun itna sukoon milta hai na m apko bta nahi sakti mere pati same ase hi hai bs apne Dil ko samjhane k liy or life m aage badhne k liy dekhti hun bar bar
Anubhavji mai apne maa baap ka eklauta beta hu.... But shadi hone k baad mujhe kuch reason se alag rehna pad rha hai... Mai rent k flat m rehta hu.. 11 saal ho gaye... 2 ghar hoker bhi aaj besahara rehta hu... Aaj mere paas job bhi nahi hai... Lekin mai har mushkil ka samna ker raha hu... Aur aaj apke videos dekh k aur himmat badh gayi hai...
Bhaiya starting m he is very polite ,helping and caring nature by after 2 year he is totally change means argument krte rhna ...apni har bat ko negative lene ...kuch bhi kahege wo negative way m hi lege.,. Ab wo door ja chuke h or blame krte hai h ki hm n koi step ni lia sath ane k liye... Jbki smj hi ni rhe ki nature s prblm hone lgi thi ... But I love him to bht hurt hu unhe khone se or bhool ni pa rhi mujhe sirf unki achhi cheeze yad arhi h ....
This is so crisp and clear , no nonsense advice.as I said the reality of life is this, which we all need to face .hope I get strength to handle ,as strong as you are. 🙏🏻
Maine Sasural mein her Baar ko Adhiyatimik way mein jaker sabhi Kushiton ko paar ker diya... Kushiton per Vijuy... Aapke video s se... Aiur Mata Pita ku Bhukiti aour Aadiyatim ki vujuh se... Ishwer ka Shukirana hai... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am actually thinking of getting separate from my parents as their behaviour suffocating me but at the same they are playing such a mind game that somehow i am getting caught in their emotions and causing loss tp me...but now i will speak with them and act which gives me peace of mind.... thank you sir
Sir ऐसा एक इंसान मेरे ससुर जी हे जो अपने आगे किसीको कुछ नहीं समझते। रोज छोटी छोटी बातों को लेकर कड़वी बाते सुनाते रहते हैं और गन्दी गालियां भी देते रहते की सामने बाला इंसान डर कर रो रो कर आत्महत्या कर ले। इसलिए जब मुझे कुछ समझ मै नही आया तो बस में उनसे बात करना बंद कर दी और दूर रहने लगी। Thanku for sharing this information मुझे इसकी बहुत जरूरत थी।🙏
Aaj mujhe laga k mujhe kisi apne ne samjhaya h mai depression me ja chuki hu meri mother narcissistic h or sbse buri baat ye h k mothers are known for their unconditional love no one understands my problem they say k tumhe bss aisa lgta h
Even I realised the toxic behavior of my mother led me to be under confident and person with low self esteem and also sensitive. I'll be following Anubhav bhaiya's advice now.
Pata nahin mein ne itno ka personal development videos dekha per jab mein ne aapka dekha kucch alag hee hai aapka videos.. Jiddi hai jabardast hai mano jesa feel hota hai nahin change hona hai to hona hai.. Bas thanx mere bade bhai aese videos humare liye banaate ho shukriya..
❤️ touching 👏👏👏 Lekin mazburi bahut khatkhak chiz hoti hai chahkar b yese logo ko na chora ja sakta hai na hi nibhaya.. zindagi udhebun me kattti rahti hai Aur aapki baate mazboot bana deti hai yesi zindagi me b khud ko jine ki tamanna banay rakhti hai.. immortal gap zaruri hai..aur apne sache dosto se social life se is immortal gap ko bhara ja sakta hai,dil se thanks Anubhav ji itna behtarin video upload karne ke liye.
Sahi kaha aapne humne to 6 years nikale aab nahi karte dirrect sidhi baatein aur kuch nai. Clear baat bolna hi sahi. Hum to ghr me dur hi rehte hai kum baat kam se kaam rakhna very esy apna kaam karo jyada dhyan mat do samne wale ko to kum hoga.
Meri first marrige kafi hinshak thi marna aur hamari jimmedari n lena.but ab mai apni 2 betiyo ke sath akele apne ghar rahti hu magar past pichha nahi chhor raha .kya mujhe life me dobar secend chance Dena chahiye ya nahi
100% sch kaha apne... Jhel rhi hu mai... Kafi kuchh waisa krne lgi hu jaisa ap bta rhe hai lekin jindgi grt bn kr rh jati hai ye bhi sch hai... Khas kr tb jb samne wala life partner ho .
Today I have seen your first video I like very much and I was in same situation but maine sab kuch shi se deal kr liya baki mai financial stable hu maine khudse hi sab thik kr liya bhot try kiya logo ne ki mjhe daba denge pr maine bina dare situation face ki apne liye har kisiko khade hona chahiye
One point is missed. All points and completely valid! If such kind of situation occurred, we have to connect with god with complete purity, discipline and routine and ask for the direction/ and our safety. Literally the victim is all alone.
We live in an era where innocence and maturity is considered weakness. People take you for granted when you give them too many chances. No matter what You should never compromise with your self respect . I once slapped a guy twice (Eventhough I am not proud of it). He and his family were constantly taking advantages of my family. They once disrespected my father which I couldn't tolerate.Humein aksar apni image ki fikar rehti hai jiski wajha se hum apne liye bhi stand nahi lete. Apne liye stand lene ke baad bhi hume sharm si mehsoos Hoti hai ke humne aisa kyu kiya.. par ek moment aisa ata hai jab aap ko khud se kehna chahiye ki enough is enough. Chaploos aur manipulative logon ke sath rehne se acha hai aap akele jiyein, shanti ke sath.
Abhi kuchh din pehle me kafi preshan thi puri trh se tut chuki thi sara din youtube pr videos dekhti thi ki thoda khush reh pau pr aisa kuchh bhi nhi hua fir jb aapki videos dekhi unhe smjha to mn ko shanti mili or dovara jeene ki aik ummeed fir se jagi he thnku so much bhai
Aapne jaise jaise bataya Aisa hi mere bade Bhai ne mujhe bataya , aap ek tarah se mujhe apne bhai ji ki yaad dila di aur exactly ab main yahi kar raha hoon us person ke sath jo apne aage kisi ko kuch nahin samjhta
Sir jo narcissists k saath humko deal karne mein problem aati hai vo generally hamare parents ya siblings hi hote hai. Kyuki agar koi friend ya bahar ka Insaan ho toh uss se toh deal ho jata hai araam se, hum usko chhod bhi sakte hai, unko bevkoof bhi bna sakte hai, so it's easy. But the main problem is when our own family members get diagnosed with it. So family se deal karne mein bahut zyaada hard banna padta hai, and it really hits very hard when your own family is narcissist
Ekdum sach..mjjhe apne jivan me family se leke sab waise mile hain..ek hotaa h point rakhna ki kyaa sahi h ..ek hotaa h ... Control krna niche dikhanaa ...m done with my parents ...i maintain distance..abhi b clashes hote hain ..they never see anything good in me ..always wahi mere life ko leke sahi hain ...and mai apna respect intact karke rakhke chalna sahi smjhti hu
Thnx sir. Mei aapka ey video dekhi mei 24saal sy apne husband ke saath ey sb problem jhel hu. Abhi bhi wahi hal hy apni galti ko manty hi nhi hy. Mei depression mi chali gi. Wo mujhy pagal bolna suru kr diye.. En 24 saal mi bahut trah ki galti kr chuke mei apni aakho sy dekhi pr bolty hy ha karunga. Ab eska kya jawab de. Aaj aapki video mujhy sahi rasta dekhaya.
My husband is like soo it has been years I am dealing with it. I have no option to get separated as I am financially not that strong. We don't talk for days. Kuch minutes me apne meri Zindagi bayan kar di.
बहुत motivational speaker सिर्फ काल्पनिक बाते करके कहानी बनाकर बोलता है जो कि reallife का हिस्सा नहीं होता
और आपका हर एक वीडियो real life से जुड़ा रहाता है, थैंक्स you
Yes inka hr video bhut good hota h
अहंकार करना भी आवश्यक है .........
जब बातें चरित्र सम्मान और अधिकार पर आ जाए ......
कभी कभी जीवन में ऐसी स्थिति आ जाती है पर आपके वीडियोस मन को बहुत राहत देते हैं .धन्यवाद जी...........
Ahankar aur swabhiman ,ye dono bhaav ek jaise hi mehsoos hote hain,lekin dono mein bahut bada antar hai,ahankaar kbhi nhi Krna chahiye aur swabhiman kbhi nhi chorna chahiye
मेरे साथ ऐसा रिश्ता 20 साल तक चला।साथ चलने की असफल कोशिश में मैंने अपने आप को ही खो दिया ।
सौ प्रतिशत सहने के बाद भी कोई कद्र नहीं हुई ,ऊपर से सौ इल्जाम भी लगाए गए। पैसा, शरीर ,पूरा ध्यान लगाया।अपनी हर इच्छा का गला घोंटा, पर न समझी की हद ने सब बरबाद कर दिया।
Hi plz reply
😢😢
मै तो हर दिशा से हर कोने से बर्वाद हो चुका हूँ।
मेरे साथ भी ऐसा ही हुआ है
Mere sath bhi yahi hua sister 10 sal bad samjh aaya hai bahut royi na jane ab kya hoga jindagi ka kuchh banne ki umar mai kisi se dil lga liya jab dil toota to umar nhi bachi hai bas Rona hai ab 😢😢
Nice speech 👏👏
I'm a victim of narcissist person...got married and suffered a lot of emotional and physical abuse....not able to maintain a relationship...he never ever listened and understood what he did is wrong...he never ever asks sorry for his guilty act...then got divorce with him within a year...
now living peacefully
Same here ,lived that kind of husband for 14 years Ieft him 2 years back with my son and planning to divorce him
Mai apni wife se v pareshan hu
@@rubyanand3367hi reply me
Good decision taken in time!
Same 😢 roj jhelna pdta hy ye sb
जिन्दगी में अगर बुरा वकत नही आता तो अपनों में छुपे हुए गैर और गैरों में छुपे हुए अपनों का कभी पता ना लगता✍️✍️✍️👍👍😊😊😊
Correct
Aapne ye Baat Bilkul Thik Kah Rahe Ho
धन्यवाद आफको सर जी बहुत अच्छा लागा आफकी सल्लाह सुझाव के लिये मे नेपाल से
Yes
Ha di ye to h
नाम के अनुसार अनुभव सर आपकी अनुभव शक्ति बहुत ही अच्छी है ।इतने अच्छे से समझना और समझाना जैसे की ये सब आपके साथ हुई हो क्या गजब है आपके अनुभव।थैंक्यू सर
I had to leave marriage of 3 years bcoz of this personality disorder...in 2-3 meetings you can't analyse the narcissism. Narcissistic are trained in hiding there manipulative behaviour
But if the person is aware about narcissism, then he/ she can see red flags in first few meetings... I feel sorry that you must have been blamed for divorce n you must be facing smear campaigns & harmed reputation.. but finally you have a reason to be happy that you are free & can start your life with a normal person...
@@NS-id7ff yes learning comes from experiences... It's been 4 yrs of separation.... The special quality of narcissistic is they can't even let u go easily.... Stretched divorce cases etc
Hi
I lost myself because of this personality disorder . Face chronic dippresion & get all type of abuses like sexual and physical or imotional ..I am in therapy from one year ..and my family members asking for results from therapy . They have no idea I was completely dead inside
@@apnizindgi8395 therapy is essential when you leave a narc person
मैं आप की बात से इतनी सुधर सकती हुं यकिन ही नहीं होता है मुझे,सर आप इसी तरह के विडियो बनाते रहीए ताकि सारे लोग सही रास्ते पर आ सके thank you so much sir
Banata rahunga :)
Sir..bhut dino se isi topic ka wait kar rha tha .love you 😘
My friend is a covert narcissist. I have distanced myself from her. Earlier, I used to share my problems with her, I never got the relief, instead my condition always worsened. It was important for my mental peace!
6:45 to 7:00 Aapne ek great life lesson Diya hai logon ko Jo main khud follow karta hoon aur baaki sabko bhi Karna chahiye
kya kam karte ho aap
Yes sir, i have been through it for 25 years and for a girl its the most horrific thing to experience with everyday being a nightmare. The sad part is..you are not only a victim at home but also a kind of double victimisation occurs facing everyone around you who have no idea what you are going through.Please make more such videos about all the traits of narcissistic person as it is the most misunderstood topic in today's world.Thank you so much for making such vedios.😊
Same here, you aren't alone sweta
Same here...please share how you have deal with them so that I can also work on those things.
Sir, yeh sari qualities mere ex me thi. Before I was not aware of such qualities, but when I realized it I was tried to keep with safe distance from him & set my own boundaries. After seeing all these, he left me...😊😊 & after that, now I am also set him free for ever... 🤗🤗
This video actually helps a lot of people around the world, those who actually deals with them. Very important & helpful video.. Bhaiya aapka bahut bahut Sukriya... 🙏🙏
Very good dear.
Very good 👍 action and intelligent decision now'Ur Life is safe 👍💐
Same here but i already have tried all these things and finally left him by making me very strong and hard
There is always a turning point in everyone's life when, we get to realise that, which is good/ which is not good for us. We have to accept the things the way they are... & one thing we must keep in our mind that, keep believing in ourselves...
Your greatness can't explain in words, you are giving a "SANJEEVANI BOOTI" to every listener to drink this world's poison and be a real hero to fight every problem about this life,you are a real guide who is shownig a respectful way to everyone
sir , aap ki baat bahut hi use full aayi " jo ik Baar dhokha deta hai vo Baar dhokha dega"
💚रिश्ते अगर सचमुच नासूर बन जाएँ तो शाँति से अलग हो जाने में ही भलाई है -----
Yeh sachhayi hain ranjeet .. Rishte kbhi kbhi ghaav etna dete hain jo kbhi nhi bharta .
Same here😭😭😭😭😭
Also rishton ko jhodna hi samajhdaari hai
@@unsheladcyberninja5066 right
Pr aise log shanti chahte hi kahan h. Ye to samne wale ko dabane ke liye poora tamasha krte h. Rishtedaron , friends sab me bus aim h ki bahu ya biwi pr poora control rhe ,dara kr besti kr ke ya jo b Krna pade.
That is what, I was searching this video from year's and year's Thanks a lot sir. ❤️❤️❤️🙏
God bless you bhai :)
@@AnubhavJain aapne mere husband ke baare mein mjhey samjhaya....uske liye biht boht dhanyavaad brother
@@unsheladcyberninja5066 same condition wwith me.
@@sushmitasingh7763 ye mere liye bhi hey bahot kaam aaya
Sir I am facing the same problem but can't make emotional distance due to daughters future I know all the things but tolerating
He doesn't think for himself that he is a psychic person
He insults me every day
But I can't break this relationship
Each and every sentence said by you fits hundred percent in my life, how do you come to know all about such people
I salute you
Sir aisa laga ye video mere liye hi bana h😭😭 thank u so so much 🙏🌹🙏🌹 apke sare point yaad rakhungi
Thank you Respected Sadguru.
giving wright advice.
Kyuki log jaan buj kr jina haram krte h
Suicide krne tk ko mjbur kr dete h
Ek family me rehkr aalg nhi ho paty
Problem bahut face krni pdti h
Ek family member ki wajh se hum other family members ke samne bure ban jaty h
Vo insan itna mjbur kr deta h ki koi rasta nzr nhi aata or depressed kr deta h
Dimag pr bahut gehra asar hota h in sbka
👍🏻😔
Sir please apna number bhejiye mujhe baat karni hai🙏🙏
@@suchitragiri320 r u in trouble?
मुझे लगता था ये सब सिर्फ मेरे साथ ही हो रहा है यहां तो सबकी यही कहानी है
Meri bhi yehi kahani hai
आपकी बात बिल्कुल सही है कुछ लोग ऐसे होते है जो बहुत परेशान करते है सभी को अपने आदत से।
Aapne bhaut sahi kaha narcissist people se emotionally distance maintain kar lena chaye chae woh apke loved one hi kyun naa..this video is really very helpful for me...thank you so much..😔🙏🙏🙏💛
इस प्रॉब्लम को इतने अच्छे तरीके से समझाने और इससे निबटने का तरीका बताने के लिए बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद ।इतने काम की बातें और इतने अच्छे ढंग से बताई हैं आपने वाकई इससे बहुत फर्क पड़ता है बंदे में सुधार हो या ना हो लेकिन खुद में कॉन्फिडेंस तो बढ़ता है और मेंटल टेंशन इतनी ज्यादा नहीं होती।
Thank you, God bless you :)
थैंक्स डॉट नेट
Yes right
San mai cala gaya hai to Kay kare
Sir mai bahut paresan hu.chhe din tik rahte hai or fir iganor karte hai.hamari gade ki vaje 17 sal ka ladka dipare San cala gaya hai to Kay kare
Narcissistic ke sath empath person hi fas jata hai.set boundaries,hve self respect stay away,become psycopath tbhi aise log hath me ayenge
True
Exactly
Right.... 👍
Sahi baat! On point
Aap sahi bol rhe ho.. Husbbd ka yhi haal tha mujhe bat bat pr galiya dena, marna peetna, gulamo ki zindgi jeerhi thi kisi se bat na karne dena.. Apni harbat manvana . Majbur hokar hamein alag hona pda mayke agyi hu or case chlrha h ab yhi hal meri choti bhabhi mere sath krrhi h bhai ko sikhati hain or ladayi krati hain ab main kahan jaun kya karu 6sal hogye mmy k pas rhte huey sb thik tha but last year bhai ki shadi k bad se ghar me bari bar jhagda hota h. Kl bhi bahut kalesh hua kahan jaun apna koi ghar nhi h .. Na job hain
Mai 19 years se is problem se nikal rahi hoon ..... toot chuki thi ..... Lekin aap ki video se Himmat mili ..... Thanks sir
My best wishes with you, God bless you
Toxic relations which are mentally torturing us over the years need to be isolated.and separated to remain psychologically heathy in our life.otherwise we waste our life in fighting with each other but on the other hand we start to think that what people will say if we are separated?..but finally we need to take firm decision by neglecting opinions of others..Remember our life belongs to us only not for others
Well said
$o tru€ 👍👍
Right 👍
Apne hi khoon ke Rishtedar.Apne hi sage Sambhandi Dushman Hote Hain.jo Harbar Kisi na kisi tarah se hamari Tarakki Nahi Chahte.Aur Ham Doosare Caste Religion ko Dosh Dete Rahte Hain. This is the biggest mistake which we have been doing over the years
@@ravidhanshetti9999 waah sir kya baat boli hai...aapki family k sanskar bhot hi ache hoge!!
NPD Narcissistic personality disorder व्यक्ति का पता लगाना मुश्किल है क्योंकि उन मे immature,inflated and maturity के मिक्स लक्षण पाए जाते हैं। हमारे भीतर भी कुछ कुछ ऐसे ही लक्षण होते हैं।
केवल उन्हे वही व्यक्ति डील कर सकता है जो सच में सात्विक यानी कि mature हो। सात्विक व्यक्ति को NPD का कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता।❤❤
Your explanation is correct. Right talk.
Kon kon apni lyf m dukhi h, before marriage, after marriage,like kro mujhe
Me abhi 6 years se diworce huaa he aaj
Congratulations 🎉🎉@@sunnypatil2374
जूनून होना चाहिए कामयाबी के लिए सोच तो हरकोई लेता है👈👈✍️✍️👍👍
Aapka ghtiya logo se paala nhi pda
@@saurabhnair8529 par apne patti ki ejat karna glt nhi tha , par osne mujhe nhi smjha
@@saurabhnair8529 jarur
Bhaiya apke videos dekh kr main bhot positive feel krti hu.thanku so much 🙏
Narcissists are super sweet in the beginning of the relationship. .but once they take you in their grip, they show their true colours. .esp.after marriage. .thats why its very important to identify the red flags when they become abusive. .n not get attached to them emotionally. .think logically n run miles away from them before they ruin your life. .these ppl are very manipulative and never change. .no contact with them is the best solution to save yourself. .
Most narcissist won't act sweet, because they have superiority complex, they won't try to lure people. Manipulators, maybe psychopaths or any common person. The problem is, we don't spend enough time with people, and hence, the real personality becomes visible later.
Yes you are right bhaiyaa. .psychopaths and sociopaths do such things. .even i have endured a lot of abuse and violence from my husband n in laws. . .n now i hve left them for good. .self love n being mentally strong is extremely important as you always ask us to do. . .thank u so mch fr always inspiring us🙏❤️
@@sanchm9931 I wish lots of strength and happiness for you. God bless you :)
You are absolutely right
True
आप बहुत सही तरीके से समझते भी हो और समझाते भी हो। सर माता पिता को जो बड़े भाई बहकाते है प्रोपीटी कि लालच मैं उस पर वीडियो बनावो की कैसे छोटे भाई को बचना चाहिए और ।। माता पिता को use करके छोटे भाई की संपत्ति हड़पने वाले बड़े भाई यो के बारे में आईडिया दो सर छोटे भाई और उसकी फैमिली को परेशान कर रखा है। घर मे रहना मुश्किल कर रखा ह
Sir maine acchi tarah se jhela ha Yeh 2020 ki August ma, aise logon ko change karna bahut muskil hai. Psychiatrist k pass le jane k bare ma bolne se mujhe hi psycho sabit karne ma lag gaye thay, to maine apna boundaries set kar liya tha, 1 hi ghar ma Rehte hai lekin ma koi react nehi karti hu, aur aaj apka ye video dekh rahi Hu, sab kuch sahi sahi bol rahe Ho. Ma khud change ho gayi hu. . .
I also same live
After u change u feel good how was your life
Apke life ki accountability apki h... No body is control your life accept you only so be independent and speak yourself when needed.....thnku very much garu ❤you are highly motivated person & my favourite.....
@WfweDcrf Single or self centred insan hi itna vocal hota h apne thoughts ko lke man 😉😂 if you are in relationship before you know what I mean 😂😂
@WfweDcrf Really I don't believe in online dating my previous relationship is a trap & a hell for me .... By the way what's your name ? M abhi healing process pr hu toh No dating focusing on myself....👍
Aapki kahi bat bhut hi knowledgeable hai.Bhaiya aap humare icon ho.🙏
Thank you :)
Bahut acha laga ki aap ne ladies ki problem samjhi Aur motivate kiya aap ne ladies ko
Very true sir , your channel and contents are really different as they are as if you do feel the situation first handed . Thanks a lot sir
My parents are very cunning fellow but im very emotional and kind.so your video is very helpful for me.thanks a lot.
Same here abusing each others daily….and if I complain they just say oh you don’t focus on this…forget it…
Sir mujhey is video se bhut positivity mili hain.. Thanks for motivate me
बिल्कुल सही कहा बेटा जी जीते रहो God bless you 🙏🏻 Beta ji
Better to depart like these types of people.... Then v can opt out way.... If not v not create our own world....thanku sir....
Ek Purush ek Maheela ke Durd ko Itini Shidut se sumuj sukita hai... Aap Mahaan hai Respected Sirji... 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
This video will be most beneficial for students category those who are willing to pursue their dream, career and job. And also those who have willing to fulfil their core desires
महोदय आपकी,अनुभाविक जीवन मुल्यों में सीखभरी वीडियो बनाने के लिए धन्यवाद। मैं आपके विडियो देखकर प्रभावित हुं ,मुझे आपके विडियो देखकर वर्तमान में ए एहसास हुआ की क्या करना चाहिए इस चीज ज्ञान मिला जो जिस दौर से गुजर रहा है या जिसके लिए कर रहा उसकी क्या अहमियत देनी चाहिए। और क्या लिखूं कम बातों में ज्यादा समझना!
Sir, you r absolutely right, such people should b dealt differently and smartly, otherwise they will make our lives hell.
M y vedio apka 3 ya 4 bar dekh chuki hun itna sukoon milta hai na m apko bta nahi sakti mere pati same ase hi hai bs apne Dil ko samjhane k liy or life m aage badhne k liy dekhti hun bar bar
Anubhavji mai apne maa baap ka eklauta beta hu.... But shadi hone k baad mujhe kuch reason se alag rehna pad rha hai... Mai rent k flat m rehta hu.. 11 saal ho gaye... 2 ghar hoker bhi aaj besahara rehta hu... Aaj mere paas job bhi nahi hai... Lekin mai har mushkil ka samna ker raha hu... Aur aaj apke videos dekh k aur himmat badh gayi hai...
Himmat rakho...parmatma aapke sath he
Bhaiya starting m he is very polite ,helping and caring nature by after 2 year he is totally change means argument krte rhna ...apni har bat ko negative lene ...kuch bhi kahege wo negative way m hi lege.,. Ab wo door ja chuke h or blame krte hai h ki hm n koi step ni lia sath ane k liye... Jbki smj hi ni rhe ki nature s prblm hone lgi thi ... But I love him to bht hurt hu unhe khone se or bhool ni pa rhi mujhe sirf unki achhi cheeze yad arhi h ....
This is so crisp and clear , no nonsense advice.as I said the reality of life is this, which we all need to face .hope I get strength to handle ,as strong as you are. 🙏🏻
God bless you :)
Anubhav ji !
Thanks for the mind blowing video ❤
Thank you so much for clearing all points and solving by doubts...God bless you so much
Maine Sasural mein her Baar ko Adhiyatimik way mein jaker sabhi Kushiton ko paar ker diya... Kushiton per Vijuy... Aapke video s se... Aiur Mata Pita ku Bhukiti aour Aadiyatim ki vujuh se... Ishwer ka Shukirana hai... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am actually thinking of getting separate from my parents as their behaviour suffocating me but at the same they are playing such a mind game that somehow i am getting caught in their emotions and causing loss tp me...but now i will speak with them and act which gives me peace of mind.... thank you sir
आप छोटी उम्र में ही सब कुछ सीख लिया, आपको लाखों प्रणाम,
मे ६५ का होके भी कुछ भी नहीं शिखा
Aapka har aek video Aankh khol deti h
Sir ji
Love you
God bless you
Thank you for making such videos ❤️❤️❤️🙏
Sir ऐसा एक इंसान मेरे ससुर जी हे जो अपने आगे किसीको कुछ नहीं समझते। रोज छोटी छोटी बातों को लेकर कड़वी बाते सुनाते रहते हैं और गन्दी गालियां भी देते रहते की सामने बाला इंसान डर कर रो रो कर आत्महत्या कर ले। इसलिए जब मुझे कुछ समझ मै नही आया तो बस में उनसे बात करना बंद कर दी और दूर रहने लगी। Thanku for sharing this information मुझे इसकी बहुत जरूरत थी।🙏
मेरे तो घर में ही है कैसे इग्नोर करूं बस दुखी होकर रह जाती हूं जिसके कारण बीमार रहने लगी हूं
मेरी भी यही कंडीशन है.
Same here
जितनी हो सके बात कम करो , यही इलाज है
Maine bhi 37 years se jhela hai .ab alag hun toh life mein shanti hai .
Mera bhi yahi haal hai deprresan or anxity ho gai hai 😢😢😢😢😢😢
Aaj mujhe laga k mujhe kisi apne ne samjhaya h mai depression me ja chuki hu meri mother narcissistic h or sbse buri baat ye h k mothers are known for their unconditional love no one understands my problem they say k tumhe bss aisa lgta h
Even I realised the toxic behavior of my mother led me to be under confident and person with low self esteem and also sensitive. I'll be following Anubhav bhaiya's advice now.
It happens dude... Murkho ko nhi smjh ata..
Pata nahin mein ne itno ka personal development videos dekha per jab mein ne aapka dekha kucch alag hee hai aapka videos.. Jiddi hai jabardast hai mano jesa feel hota hai nahin change hona hai to hona hai.. Bas thanx mere bade bhai aese videos humare liye banaate ho shukriya..
❤️ touching 👏👏👏
Lekin mazburi bahut khatkhak chiz hoti hai chahkar b yese logo ko na chora ja sakta hai na hi nibhaya.. zindagi udhebun me kattti rahti hai
Aur aapki baate mazboot bana deti hai yesi zindagi me b khud ko jine ki tamanna banay rakhti hai.. immortal gap zaruri hai..aur apne sache dosto se social life se is immortal gap ko bhara ja sakta hai,dil se thanks Anubhav ji itna behtarin video upload karne ke liye.
God bless you :)
Aapne bahut accha salution Diya hai sir
Sir aapki soch kitani aachi hai agar duniya me logo ki aisi soch ho jaye to duniya swarg ban jaye
भाई आप कितने पाजेटिव हो आपकी सोच बहुत अच्छी है।
Sahi kaha aapne humne to 6 years nikale aab nahi karte dirrect sidhi baatein aur kuch nai. Clear baat bolna hi sahi. Hum to ghr me dur hi rehte hai kum baat kam se kaam rakhna very esy apna kaam karo jyada dhyan mat do samne wale ko to kum hoga.
Most awaited video sir..ur solutions are always practical unlike those gurus who talk only from spiritual perspective
Bhaiya ake saval man me aa rahi hi
Meri first marrige kafi hinshak thi marna aur hamari jimmedari n lena.but ab mai apni 2 betiyo ke sath akele apne ghar rahti hu magar past pichha nahi chhor raha .kya mujhe life me dobar secend chance Dena chahiye ya nahi
100% sch kaha apne... Jhel rhi hu mai... Kafi kuchh waisa krne lgi hu jaisa ap bta rhe hai lekin jindgi grt bn kr rh jati hai ye bhi sch hai... Khas kr tb jb samne wala life partner ho .
Aap bahot ache tarike se samjhate ho Sir ☺️
You are good motivational speaker ☺️☺️
Today I have seen your first video I like very much and I was in same situation but maine sab kuch shi se deal kr liya baki mai financial stable hu maine khudse hi sab thik kr liya bhot try kiya logo ne ki mjhe daba denge pr maine bina dare situation face ki apne liye har kisiko khade hona chahiye
Kuch log zanam se hi badnaseeb hote hain 🙁naunko kisi sukh melta hai na wo kisise alag ho pate hain🙏👋
क्या बात कह दी आपने👌🏻
One point is missed. All points and completely valid! If such kind of situation occurred, we have to connect with god with complete purity, discipline and routine and ask for the direction/ and our safety. Literally the victim is all alone.
We live in an era where innocence and maturity is considered weakness. People take you for granted when you give them too many chances. No matter what You should never compromise with your self respect . I once slapped a guy twice (Eventhough I am not proud of it). He and his family were constantly taking advantages of my family. They once disrespected my father which I couldn't tolerate.Humein aksar apni image ki fikar rehti hai jiski wajha se hum apne liye bhi stand nahi lete. Apne liye stand lene ke baad bhi hume sharm si mehsoos Hoti hai ke humne aisa kyu kiya.. par ek moment aisa ata hai jab aap ko khud se kehna chahiye ki enough is enough. Chaploos aur manipulative logon ke sath rehne se acha hai aap akele jiyein, shanti ke sath.
Aaj lakho log aise hi ji rhe juthi saan k liye wo khus hai ya nhi isse matlb nhi
मेरे साथ ऐसा है मैं भी परेशान हूं लेकिन आप का विडियो देखकर मुझे हौसला मिला है
Abhi kuchh din pehle me kafi preshan thi puri trh se tut chuki thi sara din youtube pr videos dekhti thi ki thoda khush reh pau pr aisa kuchh bhi nhi hua fir jb aapki videos dekhi unhe smjha to mn ko shanti mili or dovara jeene ki aik ummeed fir se jagi he thnku so much bhai
Ap bilkul shi kh rhe...iska bhut experience h mujhe
Thank you very much 🙏
Aapne jaise jaise bataya Aisa hi mere bade Bhai ne mujhe bataya , aap ek tarah se mujhe apne bhai ji ki yaad dila di aur exactly ab main yahi kar raha hoon us person ke sath jo apne aage kisi ko kuch nahin samjhta
Every word u said , is precious 🙏
Meri jindgi ch koi v Unbearable situation aundi he ta main tuhadian videos sunn lendi han bahoot sakoon milda he
Best solutions you have given....thank you so much sir 🙏
Bahut accha samjaya Sir. Thank you Sir.
Sir jo narcissists k saath humko deal karne mein problem aati hai vo generally hamare parents ya siblings hi hote hai. Kyuki agar koi friend ya bahar ka Insaan ho toh uss se toh deal ho jata hai araam se, hum usko chhod bhi sakte hai, unko bevkoof bhi bna sakte hai, so it's easy. But the main problem is when our own family members get diagnosed with it. So family se deal karne mein bahut zyaada hard banna padta hai, and it really hits very hard when your own family is narcissist
Right bhai family bahut toxic h m bahut pareshan hun 😢😢😢
Ha,aapne sahi kha,muj me to himat nahi thi,per usne hi छोड़ दिया ,हमको,जो करता है भगवान अच्छे के लिए ही करता है
Thank you so much 🙏🙏for this wonderful video 🙏❤
God bless you
Thanks ,I am facing this since last 27yrs .he is my husband
Aapki sari bate sirf ik lecture nhi he.....balki us ko jivan me utara ja sakta he.....or ye wakyi work karti he......very effectyyyyyyy thank you.....
Thank you, God bless you :)
@@AnubhavJain sir how I make contact with u. How I share my problem with u.
Ekdum sach..mjjhe apne jivan me family se leke sab waise mile hain..ek hotaa h point rakhna ki kyaa sahi h ..ek hotaa h ... Control krna niche dikhanaa ...m done with my parents ...i maintain distance..abhi b clashes hote hain ..they never see anything good in me ..always wahi mere life ko leke sahi hain ...and mai apna respect intact karke rakhke chalna sahi smjhti hu
Thnx sir.
Mei aapka ey video dekhi mei 24saal sy apne husband ke saath ey sb problem jhel hu.
Abhi bhi wahi hal hy apni galti ko manty hi nhi hy.
Mei depression mi chali gi.
Wo mujhy pagal bolna suru kr diye..
En 24 saal mi bahut trah ki galti kr chuke mei apni aakho sy dekhi pr bolty hy ha karunga.
Ab eska kya jawab de.
Aaj aapki video mujhy sahi rasta dekhaya.
kya aap pesa kamati ho ya nahi ?
Sir jitna bhi aapne bataya hai wo sab mere sath chal raha hai bohot Badiya samjhaya aapne thanks 🙏🙏
My husband is like soo it has been years I am dealing with it. I have no option to get separated as I am financially not that strong. We don't talk for days. Kuch minutes me apne meri Zindagi bayan kar di.
महिलाओ को शादी के बाद बहुत कुछ सहना पड़ जाता है चाहे कमा रही हो या ना कमा रही हो,
Same
Same here
@@ragnigupta3977aise log kbhi khus hi nhi hote hmesha kmi nikalte rhte h m bhi aisa hi relations m thi ab aage pta ni kya hoga
Same condition 🙁
Sir apne thik kaha main apka ye video bar bar dekhungi or apne husband ko ase hi handle karungi
Thank u so much.its vry informative video thaks alot
Aap kitna ache se samjate ho🙏🏻
Lots of love anubhav bhai ❤️🙏
Thank you brother :)
भैया आपके सुझाव बहुत अच्छे हैं लेकिन ऐसे लोग किसी भी तरह से नहीं मानते।
Thank you thank you es topic k liye
Bhai anubhav tumne sahi boli video main maa baap apne aapko kuch jyada he samajhtey hain bhagwan se bhi upar
Super sir
Sar aapki baton se bahut sukun milta hai