The difference between CHASING vs PURSUING A WOMAN!

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  • Опубліковано 18 чер 2024
  • The difference between chasing vs pursuing a woman! #wingman... In this dating advice video, I will help you know the difference between chasing and pursuing a woman. There are many online dating advice videos on chasing a woman, pursuing a woman, and even others urging you to never chase a woman. I want you to know how to differentiate between chasing vs pursuing a woman so that you can learn how to attract her. Take heed to this dating advice and be sure to watch the whole video.
    If you have been trying to understand women and want to know what women want in a man, then knowing the difference between chasing vs pursuing a woman is key. Knowing how to pursue a girl can be hard but it is the key to attracting her. Other people will tell you never chase a woman or don’t chase her however, these same people sometimes fail to help you understand the difference between chasing vs pursuing.
    I don’t want you to feel like you should never chase a woman, I want you to be able to differentiate chasing vs pursuing and be able to know the real reason why bad boys always win and good guys don’t.
    The difference between chasing vs pursuing a woman comes down to one main thing, but it affects your every action! I want us to look at how this one thing shows up in 38 rapid-fire examples of how you interact with women you want to date. Plus, the one thing that must be present for her to you! ;)
    As your wingmam, your female wingman, and a dating coach for men, I want to make dating easier for you. I hope and pray that you find this dating advice for men video helpful.
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  • @YourWingmam
    @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +32

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    • @actmyage2149
      @actmyage2149 2 роки тому +7

      How I see the distinction between the two: pursuing a woman is like placing a well-baited hook into a pond at the proper location and calmly waiting for the fish to take interest. If the fish doesn't come, calmly move to a different location with suitable fish and try again. Chasing a woman is running into the pond splashing and frantically grabbing at any fish which catches your eye.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +3

      @@actmyage2149 Excellent analogy! I approve this message! :))

    • @billmurray7473
      @billmurray7473 2 роки тому +4

      You remind of Karen Valentine
      from TVs "Room 222".

    • @lloydkline1518
      @lloydkline1518 2 роки тому +1

      Pursuing & chase basically mean same thing, Pursuing a woman show guy show her fancy 🚗car; talk her professional job etc etc chasing a woman is like my late female cat got pregnant by male neighbors cat

    • @tomfotografie5831
      @tomfotografie5831 2 роки тому +1

      The part about logic is a bit vague tho, how would you go about 'convincing' someone? Starting every sentence with i feel like ... ? Any good video recommendations about this? Nice video btw!

  • @brookvalley907
    @brookvalley907 2 роки тому +45

    Okay, okay. You are now officially the best relationship consultant on the net. You were spot on, on everything. You understand things of which other consultants are completely unaware.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +10

      Best compliment! Thank you! :))

    • @brookvalley907
      @brookvalley907 2 роки тому +5

      @@YourWingmam it is my best compliment. I have never given it to anyone else, because you "get it" better than anyone else. I pity the fool, who tries to game you.

  • @billmurray7473
    @billmurray7473 2 роки тому +49

    "You can't always get what you want.
    But if you try , sometimes,
    you might finally get what you need."
    -Rolling Stones

    • @normasnockers323
      @normasnockers323 2 роки тому +5

      Unless you are me...then its not even sometimes!!

    • @jamesparlane9289
      @jamesparlane9289 2 роки тому +5

      BILL MURRAY please allow me to introduce myself, I'm a man of wealth and taste.

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 2 роки тому

      @@jamesparlane9289 And you got the lyrics right.

    • @pureprogress9359
      @pureprogress9359 2 роки тому

      Wow good advice

  • @machtnichtsseimann
    @machtnichtsseimann 2 роки тому +57

    A turning point for me came when I finally decided to tell a woman who was late for our date that I would appreciate her letting me know ahead of time instead of making me wait. Plus, her reason was nonchalant and mumbled, laughing it off. IMO, not a good reason. When I told her, she got quiet and we managed to have a nice time, but she wasn't as animated and present like she usually was when we would interact. So? I never heard from her again. Maybe she thought I was an absolute a-hole for talking about being late ( IIRC, she was over close to 30 minutes late ) or maybe she got psyched out by being called on her BS. Either way, it was time in my life to voice my objection over rude and/or disrespecting behavior, i.e. not pedestaling anymore. And if that means one less opportunity with a rather attractive and fun woman in my life, it's worth the payoff in self-respect and the search for higher-caliber women.

    • @CharismaStrategies
      @CharismaStrategies 2 роки тому +7

      Couldn't agree more. As men of high value, this is what we should be doing anyway... It makes a man look more attractive as well. Never feel sorry or second guess yourself for putting your foot down. You wasn't in the wrong.

    • @machtnichtsseimann
      @machtnichtsseimann 2 роки тому +1

      @@CharismaStrategies - Thank you! ( I learned to finally put my foot down from observing high value men...AND women when I was the one pulling that BS on them. LoL. ) Peace and Prosperity to you and all of us high value men maintaining our standards.

    • @rcfoley
      @rcfoley Рік тому +2

      Kudos for the extra effort. 15 Max for me.

    • @VaronPlateando
      @VaronPlateando Рік тому

      ... (we as) gents need to care less to zero about our attractiveness to any xx.s who can't (by nature) bother to even basically appreciate else than being spent any m.e.a.t. specifically (that is - not the spender per se). as in: off that one goes, (too,) fine. not bothering for another of that ilk in line even... any gents' self-development has to relate to their own mental origin point of reference only. what sbdy. else sees in that or not is on their part only.

    • @patrickorourke41
      @patrickorourke41 Рік тому +4

      Dude 30 minutes late is unacceptable. I can understand like 10 minutes, but 30 is ridiculous.

  • @pauljanoff7941
    @pauljanoff7941 2 роки тому +22

    All your videos are stellar but this presentation may be your best yet. I remember asking a woman whom I had been chasing for about three months whether she had any insecurities. She replied, "Yes, I am afraid no one will ever approach my perfection." Run Forrest run!! I did. Thank you Anna for speaking the truth in love and with empathy.

  • @saughs
    @saughs 2 роки тому +13

    So many good points. I've done a lot of these things on both sides. Chasing led me to some cringy moments and blown opportunities, but I've also experienced a lot of the pursuing mindset - living my own life, being able to handle a girl being unreasonable without being reactive while also being willing to walk away if needed, trusting that I'll meet other girls, seeing them realistically... so many things I can relate to. Putting it into words definitely helps the lessons sink in.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @carlkluz4777
    @carlkluz4777 2 роки тому +4

    Another complete and well thought out presentation of the dynamics. Yay!

  • @alexanderhanooman
    @alexanderhanooman 2 роки тому +25

    Your videos are recommended for all my male Students. Firstclass education.

  • @bryanadams5091
    @bryanadams5091 2 роки тому +1

    Spot on! Great reminders and very effective at shining a light on each behavior

  • @tanelp1453
    @tanelp1453 2 роки тому +3

    After watching this I am glad to say that I've learned some of these things from my latest "chase" on my own and I can see some hope for me there now. Accepting the fact that I'm not attractive in any market is still somewhat frustrating and I need to figure out how to actually deal with it or how to begin doing something at all.

  • @carlhenryglobal8025
    @carlhenryglobal8025 2 роки тому +2

    One of your VERY BEST advice videos, so deep that I don't thing the guys making errors will take it to heart (until they fail) or (idea) you could do a video on each point individually to "ram" home the message - brilliant lists, thank you! Carl xx

  • @LordMullins
    @LordMullins 2 роки тому +1

    I think this lady is truly inspirational. Great advice as allways. Truly a legendary Wingmam

  • @jamesmeyers8161
    @jamesmeyers8161 3 місяці тому +2

    What keeps me watching?
    I am convinced you actually care.
    You are a real blessing.
    Thanks.

  • @jacquesvanderlinden
    @jacquesvanderlinden 2 роки тому +20

    This is a good video: a list of unknown rules for many men. Especially the "accept her flaws-rule". Nice, Anna.

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 2 роки тому +1

      She will also be excepting your flaws so seems only right.

  • @joejoe77_gold
    @joejoe77_gold 2 роки тому

    Explained very Well! I've not heard before, The Most important thing being Them Investing in you and Wanting to be Right! Great words!🙂

  • @apachidwill
    @apachidwill 2 роки тому

    This is the best video you have ever put out and the best one on the internet for dating. Finally someone explains it in a way that I understand ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @blakenorman7648
    @blakenorman7648 2 роки тому +9

    5:35 Don't do that. Act in such a way that she might think that's what you're doing but never directly stick another woman in her face like that. It communicates insecurity. You just walk away but never text her something like that.

    • @marcusyap5880
      @marcusyap5880 Рік тому +1

      That's kinda true, a high value woman will just leave

  • @alextorres8635
    @alextorres8635 2 роки тому +17

    I will never get used to how weird it feels to have to do all these steps so that SHE sees something that I already know about myself. It all feels like vetting on the fly. Like doing a job in order to keep a job. It will never NOT feel strange to me.

    • @rcfoley
      @rcfoley Рік тому

      A lot of us still catching up.

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 Рік тому

      I'm not about to stop doing my job so I can lose "my job".

    • @hibs5516
      @hibs5516 Рік тому

      It's not that complicated really. She explains it and it sounds complicated.
      But what it boils down to is take care of yourself, take an interest in your own life, wash your bedding, and don't try so hard.

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 Рік тому +2

      You bathe regularly so you stay healthy and you use deodorant so you don't smell up the place while you stand in line to buy your groceries or attend class or go to work and get along with people because they too respect themselves enough to launder their clothes and themselves regularly.
      That's just one of the costs of living in a civil society and if we want a relationship with a woman who has high standards then this is also part of that cost of living with someone.

  • @de-stress1973
    @de-stress1973 2 роки тому +1

    Anna, your videos are helping me so much ! You get the advice across so well , I love them

  • @jozsi26
    @jozsi26 2 роки тому

    Dear coach. I have to say it officially that the material in this video is like pure gold, premium stuff. Others would charge men big time for this information because this can change the way how most men(who don't know better) will relate to women.

  • @JIA1327
    @JIA1327 2 роки тому +23

    You ARE good. Excellent evaluation of men and women trying to find each other and themselves. You broke all of that down and arrived at the bottom line. Thank you !

  • @bobbydhal2199
    @bobbydhal2199 2 роки тому

    Anna , You are Amazing , Thank you this great video . Pursuing vs Chasing , what a big difference .

  • @jamieseiple
    @jamieseiple 2 роки тому

    Anna, you are just so cool. It is sweet of you to help men with such great advice. I see your kind heart, and you're a smart cookie too!

  • @matthewgreenawalt439
    @matthewgreenawalt439 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks very much for this. I've definitely chased after women in the past, just wasn't innately getting it, no pun intended, and lately I'd say that my mind and behavior has been aligning with those of your pursuit list, I am certainly seeing a drastic positive difference in how women look at me and talk with me almost any time I'm just out and about my business in public. You covered the details succinctly in this video, illustrated each side clearly and with excellence. Thank you again, God bless you. Still sharing your content 👍

  • @Infoseek777
    @Infoseek777 Рік тому +1

    A ton of gold you packed into this one!

  • @CoreyJonesMotivation
    @CoreyJonesMotivation 2 роки тому +7

    Yo, I needed this so much. The values you talked about in this video don't only apply to dating it applies to just being a man with a strong backbone. Thank you for your content it is necessary. BTW do you do workshops, seminars, or boot camps?

  • @ccriztoff
    @ccriztoff Місяць тому +2

    A woman who knows how to talk to men. Subbed

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Місяць тому

      Welcome aboard and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏

  • @111Phoenix777
    @111Phoenix777 2 роки тому

    Great information!!! Thank you for posting this.

  • @ernodios
    @ernodios 2 роки тому

    Wow that thing about women (or just people) staying in the wrong place out of sheer confirmation bias towards their choice and the amount invested is a new prism through which I had never seen relationships before. Thank you for the insight

  • @JulianaMelgar
    @JulianaMelgar 2 роки тому +1

    I'm learning so much from these videes. Thank you.

  • @ONESNZER0S
    @ONESNZER0S 8 місяців тому

    This is real good info, so appreciated.

  • @johncunningham5435
    @johncunningham5435 2 роки тому

    Anna! you have a very good grasp of how men think; my experience over the years has shown women are wired differently than men, making each encounter very interesting, "unfortunately a lot of men don't understand this concept", that makes dating more of a challenge.

  • @dennisjames6753
    @dennisjames6753 2 роки тому

    Enjoyed this video. Spot on!

  • @7Earthsky
    @7Earthsky Рік тому +1

    I never usually watch advice from women on youtube about guys but you are straight up the best no bullshit advisor on the subject....Subscribed for sure....Embarrassing to see my own behaviours in the past (and sometimes present) on the 'Chasing'' list....I obviously need to re-claim my balls a bit more.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Welcome aboard, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏

  • @jamesjonsy
    @jamesjonsy 2 роки тому

    I think you are an Angel for putting this information out.

  • @user-hd1qx2bd1r
    @user-hd1qx2bd1r 2 роки тому +4

    This is right here, why I like this Wingman Video Series so much!! Wingman Anna, not only explains what is going through the Female estrogen fueled Mind and the Female highly evolved Emotion centre, She herself knows and also feels the hardship on a male that we experience when dealing well, or not so well, with the Female. She understand both paradigms, and she even really comprehends and feels, how we testosterone driven males, try to cope, and that we find it a difficult road to hoe. Oh Baby! so hard! Thank Goodness she makes these Videos, cause there's few and far between that have such a Natural ability to do this! We're very lucky to have her, and be able to tune in here and go to school for our own personal relationship success! Big Thank You Wingman!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Wonderful compliments, thank you so much and thank you for watching! :)

  • @alienpyramid
    @alienpyramid 11 місяців тому

    I SO LUV YOU ANNA! I did all the negative stuff!!! This is a vid worth watching a 100 times, with a note pad!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  11 місяців тому +1

      Glad you found value in it! The good news is, that means there is a lot you can do to change your future. You got this!

  • @reivax5742
    @reivax5742 2 роки тому

    I wish you'd been around when I was engaging in self-defeating behavior around women in earlier years. Great material. Thanks.

  • @eh3535
    @eh3535 2 роки тому

    Always spot on! Thanks Anna! 😊😊😊😊

  • @akashgunjal8324
    @akashgunjal8324 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for all this videos I am new into this dating world and you are becoming more of a online relationship adviser for guys like me.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

  • @sirsynth225
    @sirsynth225 2 роки тому

    Top video! Incorporates a lot from previous ones without becoming "just a list". Learning every week from you - thanks!
    Totally unrelated remark: almost at the top, about 40% from the left there is an "artefact" in this video and the one from last week: maybe dead insect, maybe damaged lens, maybe sensor issue - good luck solving the tech part! ;-)

  • @geneski695
    @geneski695 2 роки тому +2

    Great Video Anna. I unfortunately, see myself in both categories. Fortunately more to the positive than the negative but I’ve still made too many mistakes.
    I value your opinions. They do help

  • @kencos8194
    @kencos8194 2 роки тому

    Great video, Anna. One of your best.

  • @robertjohnson1240
    @robertjohnson1240 2 роки тому

    You seem to have a great deal of experience and wisdom in this you also seem to really care about men in general I really appreciate that about you

  • @holypreachings6243
    @holypreachings6243 2 роки тому

    You are a blessings!! Please keep up the good works!!💯

  • @learnpianofastonline
    @learnpianofastonline 2 роки тому

    Very good. Thank you for posting and sharing your insight. I am all about learning and moving forward.

  • @dennydietrich3596
    @dennydietrich3596 2 роки тому

    Excellent video. Lots of really helpful points. Points made were quickly yet effectively.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching! :)

  • @jimmyjimmy2865
    @jimmyjimmy2865 2 роки тому +1

    Dear Anna,
    I've been watching your channel for a couple of years. I must say that the Lord has given you much wisdom. I have learned important things from your videos. But I do want to say that I don't only pray about which actions to take with the woman who will be my wife, but I listen. Seem like after I hear what has me do( my next move- for a lack of a better way of putting it), but it seems like in the next video or 2 (AFTER) you happen to say the same advise. I take this as a confirmation of what He told me.
    She is a( God fearing) Christian. And it was till are 3rd get together that we started talking about our faith and her eyes lit up when she started to talk about the Lord. Though many fall for attractiveness at first sight, and though she is very pretty it's wasn't till that instances that I knew she would be the one.
    Love isn't nessary like going through the drive through at Mc Donald's. With her it's been giving her space. Like the song says" Hold on Loosely But Don't Let Go". Our main challeng is that she got really hurt in a prior relationship, l just pray that she would open up about it. It would do her and us much good. And yes, once as soon as I knew she was the one I was direct with her about my intentions. Thank you for your video on pursuing. I know I'm doing the right thing in the right way in love and patience.

  • @bobmorgan5636
    @bobmorgan5636 2 роки тому +1

    A great video, great examples!!

  • @wisecounsel6135
    @wisecounsel6135 2 роки тому +17

    Over time I have realized that a lot of times you can think about it in this way
    "How does she perceives me"
    And the the answer should be
    "fun but Respectable and in control"
    You should not be smiling all the time, switch as your genuine mood changes and she can gauge your range of emotions. Laugh and have fun and be cool but also be able to be firm, from the beginning.
    Be confident and in control but speak and act in a way that you know that even if your chats or voice notes are to be shown to other people then there is not really much you can be embarrassed by.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +2

      Wise counsel indeed! Great tips! ;)

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 2 роки тому +2

      "Not desperate" is the short answer you are looking for.

    • @wisecounsel6135
      @wisecounsel6135 2 роки тому +1

      @@x-man5056 yes, sometimes we need to hear it in different words just like the words "Just be yourself". I didn't not get much help from those 3 words.
      Also Maintaining Masculine Frame is important

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 2 роки тому

      @@wisecounsel6135 If you (or any man) are pursuing female company of course you want to look your best. Your physical appearance is without question important...obviously. But if your are not an athlete with Adonis body and rugged good looks there are still plenty of women out there for you. EVERYWHERE.

    • @wisecounsel6135
      @wisecounsel6135 2 роки тому +1

      @@x-man5056 oh when I spoke about Masculine Frame I wasn't talking about physical but mental stability, assertiveness, decisiveness, foresight, leadership and control of emotions.
      A lot of times we as men tend to lose those aspects when in a relationship because of the fear of losing the relationship. Ending up trying to please her instead of maintaining the lead and losing mental stability trying to fix everything. This leaves the man weaker and less attractive overtime

  • @brentmoseley3176
    @brentmoseley3176 2 роки тому

    Awesome video, very helpful! Thank you!

  • @michaelkisil4052
    @michaelkisil4052 Рік тому +1

    Bravo, some of the best advice I've heard !

  • @graemechristopher4008
    @graemechristopher4008 2 роки тому

    Very very good teaching - intelligent, insightful, empathetic, and communicated articulately, with sincerity and like a ‘big sister’ trustworthiness.

  • @davegibbs6423
    @davegibbs6423 2 роки тому

    Men and boys need to see your video. Very spot on.

  • @bartstickney6491
    @bartstickney6491 2 роки тому +10

    Regarding the “one main thing”, that was phenomenally well articulated. Such has been observed and approached in a countless number of videos, but not quite as nailed down as you just described. Truly invaluable! Thank you Anna!

  • @dorian3044
    @dorian3044 Рік тому +2

    One of your best videos ever! I watched twice

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому +1

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @vdcg2010
    @vdcg2010 Рік тому +2

    Excellent explanation, you could not have made it easier to understand, thank you 🙏🏼 🙏🏼

  • @markemanuele1929
    @markemanuele1929 2 роки тому

    OMG!!! I found myself being so familiar with the things in the second half of the video it is scary... Thank You because I am now doing my darndest to become a Pursuer!!! I can't believe how many things I have been doing as a "Nice Guy"...

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  11 місяців тому +1

      How much has changed for you in the past year? I bet you think of yourself as a different man by what you know now!

    • @markemanuele1929
      @markemanuele1929 11 місяців тому

      @@YourWingmamYes, now my attitude is that I am the "prize", and that if I get "rejected" I have dodged bullet.

  • @Hawker900XP
    @Hawker900XP 2 роки тому +140

    The reason men don’t understand women: The rib God took from Adam to create Eve was the one we use to to read minds.

    • @wilfridjoseph5222
      @wilfridjoseph5222 2 роки тому +9

      This is an under-rated comment

    • @Shawn6751
      @Shawn6751 2 роки тому +1

      I didn't knew that

    • @dinop7488
      @dinop7488 2 роки тому +4

      Dude, how in the f can a rib be used to read minds? Mind reading would of come from an intellectual source (hint: brain) not a physical bone

    • @Uzodesign
      @Uzodesign 2 роки тому +4

      @@dinop7488 It's a joke chill out party pooper.

    • @Lonstermash
      @Lonstermash 2 роки тому +8

      THAT was funny!! And yeah, @Dino P, it's a joke

  • @ronj9448
    @ronj9448 2 місяці тому

    Nicely detailed video. When I was younger I sensed this but vaguely phrased it as "Join my parade" vs "Let me join your parade". Your parade needs to be exciting and interesting to get someone's attention.

  • @asscash1
    @asscash1 2 роки тому +1

    Keep the message going beautiful lady. Thank you.

  • @MyDyerMaker
    @MyDyerMaker 2 роки тому +7

    I believe it's 'Need vs Want'. She should know you don't need her and that you're secure in yourself, with or without her. She can't be made to feel like prey being stalked, but rather desired and wanted, while also feeling safe and secure.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +4

      When the student becomes the teacher! ;)

    • @deejames1st
      @deejames1st 2 роки тому +2

      This is better advice than the video!

    • @MyDyerMaker
      @MyDyerMaker 2 роки тому

      @@deejames1st Watch her other videos. It's all from her. She's a wise, good soul.

    • @deejames1st
      @deejames1st 2 роки тому +1

      @@MyDyerMaker Perhaps she is, I don’t know her personally. But your advice was still better than the video.

  • @ajunteburns6894
    @ajunteburns6894 Рік тому +1

    This was very helpful. I see that I was chasing alot instead of pursuing.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому +1

      I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

  • @webmedia3748
    @webmedia3748 6 місяців тому

    Very direct and valuable tips. Thank you Wingmam 👍

  • @madfrosty5228
    @madfrosty5228 2 роки тому +14

    When you realise that you are dealing with emotionally unstable child that does not even know what she wants and was damaged too much by her exes , trying to change and control you , take a deep breath look in the mirror and if you see a MAN in the mirror walk away , even if it hurts just leave , otherwise you will end up wasting your valuable time that cannot be replaced , woman can be replaced !

  • @raynewell6371
    @raynewell6371 2 роки тому +34

    Be cunning as a snake, yet gentle as a dove.

    • @TheTAEclub
      @TheTAEclub 2 роки тому +6

      Such high maintenance annoying brats arent worth it. How do I practice what I would do for .001 percent of women when the rest arent even close to worth it and repulsive if I try

    • @caelinchristante4021
      @caelinchristante4021 2 роки тому +5

      Matthew 10:16

    • @chrisconsorte7893
      @chrisconsorte7893 2 роки тому +1

      That’s the perfect balance if one can pull it off.

    • @jamesalexander6417
      @jamesalexander6417 2 роки тому +1

      I will be as unforgiving as an Amur tiger but with the memory of an elephant.

    • @ihsanakt
      @ihsanakt 2 роки тому

      Lit

  • @Inkinthegrass
    @Inkinthegrass 9 місяців тому

    Dang, I've got a lot of work to do. Thanks for recommending this

  • @anthonyfiducia
    @anthonyfiducia 2 роки тому

    Great info, thanks, agree with her having the choice, yes most people want to be right but I also believe if one chooses they are freely loving the other which makes it real;)

  • @DavidLawsonGeneva
    @DavidLawsonGeneva 2 роки тому

    Priceless video - thanks

  • @adegbenroagoro5180
    @adegbenroagoro5180 2 роки тому

    Great advice. As usual.

  • @joelombrdo
    @joelombrdo 2 роки тому

    Wingmam, you're looking as beautiful as ever. Nice post. I like the empathy you express in the video.

  • @anupamparasher
    @anupamparasher 2 роки тому +1

    You were correct point to point. I lost out because i was chasing badly. I am a good guy. But I was too desperate. Never created my value in front of her . Should have watched this video before I made this mistake. Lesson learnt for life.

  • @DavidLawsonGeneva
    @DavidLawsonGeneva 2 роки тому

    Your videos just get better and better - I feel shameful that this advice is rhodium and I get it free. After seeing your 5 reasons for a man to stay single, that's exactly what I - single, and I feel liberated from all pressure of "chasing women". You are right, it doesn't matter if it was Madonna chasing us. Is Madonna could enough for me? I think not.

  • @less_concerned1221
    @less_concerned1221 2 роки тому +1

    Your hair color looks great. Thanks for the video.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Thank you and thanks for watching! :)

  • @boyendelossantos3157
    @boyendelossantos3157 Рік тому +1

    Thanks, you're so rigth and logical,more power!!!🌹

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

  • @-Mark_F
    @-Mark_F 6 місяців тому +1

    Great advice. Lots of info. Thank you.

  • @peterwilliams6239
    @peterwilliams6239 2 роки тому +1

    Anna, this video was brilliant! You are the Tibetan master of relationships... if you spoke haltingly and had white hair and stringy beard it would be perfect 😉 seriously, I don't know how you keep all this valuable info in your head and reel it off like it's obvious. I've done and experienced many of these mistakes myself, and know in my heart that you nailed it. Thank you 😚

  • @edforth3324
    @edforth3324 2 роки тому +1

    Awesome Thank You, with these new powers I can be a Super Hero =) =)

  • @lensullivan7082
    @lensullivan7082 2 роки тому +4

    Good stuff, I've been a chaser in the past

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      Awareness is the first step to change. You got this! :))

    • @lloydkline1518
      @lloydkline1518 2 роки тому

      My late female cat got pregnant by the neighbor cat;;;: chasing ;; pursuing woman is more professional fancy car,, very nice job etc etc guys who pursuing woman do not have to chase pretty woman

  • @drmahidhar1876
    @drmahidhar1876 4 місяці тому

    One of your best and most valuable videos- thank you

  • @actmyage2149
    @actmyage2149 2 роки тому +1

    Very well-crafted piece today! So much in such a short period of time. You covered a complex topic rather thoroughly, given the time constraint. Bravo! My other reply seems to have not been swept away by the YT police, so I am considering myself fortunate today. Praying for you. -- Russ P

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому

      Glad you enjoyed it and glad your comment made it through the filter! Thank you for your prayers... I think they're working! God bless you, Russ! :)

  • @John-er9di
    @John-er9di 2 роки тому

    Excellent content-need all the content of these videos summarised in a book as some of us are speed readers and less time required if all this is in a book

  • @WelderStick-vt8ut
    @WelderStick-vt8ut 2 місяці тому

    New here and man do I got a lot of home work to do ... getting back into this world of dating in this day and age not have a lot to go on here but I'll give this a shot ... Confident I'll do good ... With the lady's tho... Love your channel...

  • @johnblaze4464
    @johnblaze4464 2 роки тому

    Good all round advice in general

  • @Hustlesworld617
    @Hustlesworld617 Рік тому +1

    Wow just wow! This was perfect advice

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Рік тому

      Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

  • @genetime7790
    @genetime7790 2 роки тому

    Very happy I found you

  • @ryanneal1999
    @ryanneal1999 2 роки тому

    I have a friend that says man doesn't choose women.... women choose men good video 👍🏾 and if you get chose by a woman you got to make sure she's right for you

  • @ravipeiris4388
    @ravipeiris4388 Рік тому +1

    Great analysis, please revisit this matter soon

  • @freedomday70
    @freedomday70 2 роки тому

    Hello Anna chasing , yes but only a little bit. Pursuing never,but to conquer forever.

  • @fillingstation9603
    @fillingstation9603 2 роки тому +1

    You are soo brave, i love you 💕

  • @accountant02130
    @accountant02130 2 роки тому

    Excellent Quality Content ... Great Video ...

  • @mrdinx
    @mrdinx 2 роки тому +1

    Nice makeup! You look great.

  • @brego12317
    @brego12317 2 роки тому

    Good advice!

  • @donovanw.2943
    @donovanw.2943 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for this helpful info!

  • @2kosher
    @2kosher 2 роки тому

    Omg! Your topics are SO interesting!

  • @donnelladams8362
    @donnelladams8362 Рік тому +1

    Much respect to you Anna

  • @jwolffilms
    @jwolffilms 2 роки тому +1

    During the last year or so of my 14 year marriage, I became the needy, pushover, pathetic guy. We had just moved to a new state for an awesome career opportunity for me and then COVID hit. No friends or family or support system in the new city and all I had was her and our son. She began pulling away and I began to do the passive aggressive, needy, pathetic behaviors of trying to guilt her back into my arms. Of course, this made her pull away more and the downward spiral continued until the (very) bitter end. But! This was the time all her lies and deceptions finally really started to come to light. This betrayal crushed me even deeper. I lost my sense of self during this time. So glad to be getting my identity and confidence back. Our divorce will prove to be the best thing to ever happen to me, in time. Thanks for the great content! And those eyes...

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  2 роки тому +1

      I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

  • @kunalsaiyan2126
    @kunalsaiyan2126 2 роки тому

    Best dating coach , seriously 🙏🕉️

    • @lloydkline1518
      @lloydkline1518 2 роки тому +1

      ❤Anna; lots of female dating & seducing woman coaches ;; Anna is the greatest

  • @speedomars3869
    @speedomars3869 2 роки тому +4

    Easy difference. If a woman does not give you a phone number, then its chasing. If she does, then its pursuing. If she refuses to return calls after that, then it becomes chasing again...If she returns calls but can never find time to go out, its chasing...if she goes out more than three times without putting out, then its chasing...if she puts out but is also putting out with several other guys, its pursuing. But the prize is more like a used car with more miles on it than a city bus.

  • @johnpaul2285
    @johnpaul2285 2 роки тому

    Thank you Anna You are the prettiest Expert I ever did see