10 True Sigma Vs Alpha Differences!
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- 10 True Sigma Vs Alpha Differences... In this dating advice video, I will give you the 10 true sigma vs alpha differences that will help you in knowing if you are an alpha male or a sigma male. If you want to know the male personality types that attract women and how to be more appealing then take heed to these dating tips for men and be sure to watch the whole video.
Both the alpha male and the sigma male share several similarities but they have a few distinct differences. I want you to know the different male personality types available and in this video, I will help you to distinguish between alpha male traits and sigma male traits.
I will not only give you the true sigma vs alpha differences in this dating advice, but I will also share with you what you can do whether you are a sigma male or an alpha male to become more appealing. In as much as you may want to understand women, I also want you to understand yourself better and be able to improve on the male personality types that you have in you.
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tbh i think this whole alpha sigma stuff is bullshit, i just a bunch of various personality types or more fractions of it mushed together and been put a label on it that is all... i don't think that there is a lot of data to back that stuff up! Better stick to well established fields in science... like the Big 5 Personality test, it says way more about you then these labels of alpha and sigma which are put over you by your surrounding. What i mean by that is wheathre (?) people perceive you to be an alpha or a sigma also depends on who you surround yourself with.
to be continued ....
What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
You know, that Elon Musk is fully in cahoots with the child-abusing psychopathic global elite, right?
Please think about it:
1.
Nearly always gets platinum PR.....daily.
2.
Hangs out with the global pedophiles.
3.
Tells big lies about his past life.
4.
He's fully engaged with the NWO 2030 agenda: total control of everyone, and billions killed off.
5.
He's building out 5G.
6.
Musk repeatedly gets into huge financial crises, and then finds money from somewhere at the last minute. What has he compromised, to get this money?
If you don't want to support mass euthanasia/genocide, then please stop promoting the cabal's puppet: Elon Musk
In my opinion, this is your most informative video to date.
@@backtothepast1850 I hope you are a teenager.
An alpha can talk about anything. A sigma can teach you something about anything
Dope
If there is a real Sigma thing, they aren't interested in holding class. YOU are NOT a Sigma.
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Fire 🔥
very true
I've come to realize in my earthly travels the alpha man draws his strength from being in a society. Without the social hierarchy, the alpha male wouldn't exist. Whereas the sigma's strength comes from keeping himself outside any social construct...only to re-engage when he chooses. This is why they need to be alone. Anna, you nailed it, and you're 1 in a million!
Yes Spot on!
As an observational opinion: Alphas have a manipulative way about them that draw the attention of the weak minded a wooing effect, feeding their egos. Hence why others fallow so easily and are unknowingly controlled. The weak minded and alpha feed off each others energy. Nether of the two can go without the other. While Sigma's are instinctively resistant and resourceful, self sustaining. Not releasing their energy to others or taking anyones energy. Sigma's are on a different game level. Like checkers and chess but sigma is 3 dimensional chess. But sigma's can interact with chess and checker level. Hence their mysteriousness, less emotional and more logical in expression. Women that are intellectually stimulated and curious might find Sigma males very appealing and interactive.
In my opinion an alpha is a weak man that depends on a pack. Without a pack he is nothing but a weak attention starve little b****
I'm an alien 👽 I don't date humans
@@darioschaeffer5513 you're not missing anything, this planet will cease to exist due to stupidity of humans
Great breakdown on sigmas, thank you. Sigmas are usually laser focused on fulfilling their purpose and don’t tend to get distracted by most things alphas or betas get distracted by, so they tend attract the women/friends in his life much more naturally.
An alpha isnt dostracted, thats why he gets things done
@@jangolub8240 Alphas get bad things done and are valued by the less intelligent members of society because those people can't see through the Alpha's propaganda.
An alpha doesn't get things done, they have other, more competent people to get things done. That's the strength of being extroverts, they motivate and mobilize others as a group. Sigmas leadership style is more of empowerment through one on one encouragement and providing what his reports need to get the job done.
Keep in mind that sigma is an alpha. He is just a low key, behind the scenes, analytical thinking alpha. A sigma is the only one that a typical alpha fears, because he's strong and unpredictable.
Lol, I had a good laugh at the comment towards the end. "How to be a real man"
Easy! Don't bother yourself with the cares of what a woman wants. Be you!
I hope so, I ain't living her life, I'm living mine
@@tralfazjettson They don't appreciate that anyway... unless they want to abuse men. The thing is living your own life is so good you might not want a relationship. When you're used to it being alone its so peaceful and comfortable. You find that when you go out on your own you end up seeing way more stuff and meeting more people.
In a relationship you will both have to give up things though. so it should be with someone who's worth it.
Yes and keep a lot of quality backup and walk at the drop of a hat.
Lol ... that's funny. Definitely i have a different definition of what is "real".
For me what exists is real ... so existing is enough proof of reality.
How to be a real man? Get born and come in to existence 😉!
Health🙋♂️!
Not bothering with the cares of others is the very definition of Sigma. LOL
I don't like the spotlight, I just quickly go to the corner but I'm always in the spotlight for some reason. People's curiosity and intrigue will automatically put you in the spotlight even if you don't want it.
100%
Same here
All you need is no REAL desire for female companionship and you can just sit by yourself in a corner like a Sigma and before you know it...you'll still be alone in a corner.
@@x-man5056 Yeah, that's the point of sitting in a corner so nobody would approach you. XD but the thing is a few still do.
@@reithreithreith I would predict they would be desperate hounds or women who lost a bet with friends. Regardless, if Sigma's are real, they have no interest in knowing about the label, let alone owning it. A Sigma wouldn't claim Sigma status because he just simply wouldn't give a sh*t. An Alpha wouldn't be interested in Sigma status either, it would be a down grade and Alpha's are to busy proactively making our own luck with the ladies.
If you are vocally claiming Sigma status, you are without question a Beta because a real Sigma wouldn't do it, wouldn't need to or want to. The only ones anxious to claim Sigma status are Beta's, they see it as an upgrade and fool themselves into believing the "I wait for them to come to me because I'm so mysterious" nonsense and that is exactly what it is, even if once in a blue moon it actually happens.
After being allured into a handful of your videos, I can't quite subscribe, but also can't leave without speaking up. The energy, passion, animation, complexity, straightforwardness, clarity, utility, and incitement of your communications is remarkable. Thank you AMJ
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Never cross a river on the baxks of two turtles. You never know if they will go in different directions. Make a commitment one way or another. Vasilating one way then another, is like threading water, it saps your energy and you don't get anywhere.
To apply this to the Rat Pack:
Frank Sinatra was the Alpha in that he NEEDED to be in charge even when it wasn’t in the best interest of the group.
Dean Martin was the Sigma as he was the one guy who would point out Sinatra’s flaws to his face (albeit with humor). He was also the one guy who would get up from the table and leave whenever he felt like it whereas the other guys would stay as long as Frank was holding forth at the table.
Sammy Davis, Jr. was Beta despite the fact of being the most musically talented of the Pack. Sammy was brilliant in his own right but for whatever reason he chose to follow Frank and not piss off Frank. Sammy’s loyalty to Frank sometimes went further than it needed to just as Frank’s need to lead sometimes went further than it should have.
Peter Lawford was the Omega of the Pack. A walking cautionary tale. ‘Nuff said with him.
On rejecting trends as a rule, Mark Twain wrote, "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause & reflect." On silence, (allegedly) Winston Churchill said "We are masters of the unspoken words, but slaves of the ones we let slip out." While this might be attractive to women, I would caution men against talking at length or in depth with most women on any subject.
Talking with a woman is a lot like talking to the cops. Anything you say can and will be used against you. (No offense to the ladies. Just calling it like it is.) Never drop your guard. Women don't occasionally "shit test" you. It is constant & unending. Again, just as there is no such thing as an off-duty cop, there is no such thing as a woman who isn't shit-testing you.
Lastly, isn't it sad & infuriating that we cannot have adult conversations and use simple words such as "sex" without Comrade UA-cam's algorithm poking its nose into the mix?
HA! Funny BUT true - GREAT way to put it... My most recent Ex-GF would always want me to "open up" to her and "confide" and then weeks or months later, after a few drinks when she was tipsy, she would go off on me and say things like "you're an a-hole just like your Father" (even though he's been gone for 10 years and she never even met the man) or "you are a closet abuser and I'll take you for everything you own" and on and on... Made me clam up around her and not trust her one bit after a few of those episodes. I got to the point where I simply told her "Hey, if you don't like me or this relationship, you know where the front door is and you can GTFO!". Actually had to go to Court last year to kick her out of MY house and to get a Restraining Order against her. Don't lie to them but NEVER confide your deepest stuff - that's what you have solid guy friends for.
I'm not gonna concern myself with how she interprets me. She can try to use my words against me if she wants, but then I'll move on to the nexy one. I just be who I wanna be and they can take it or leave it
Thanks for the excellent descriptions of Alpha and Sigma. I’ve known for a long time I’m a Sigma (INTP), dead on on all attributes, and I truly appreciate who I am. But it is more difficult for Sigmas to get the women we really want since so many women that have choices prefer the safety of the humdrum boring conforming Alpha. As you said, Sigmas are considered odd, and most women don’t want odd, or what might be considered weird. I also think many women want to be chased and Sigmas don’t care to play those games.
Spot on
INTP opens up whole universes of "odd"
Yup proud sigma here it is better to be odd than to be a follower like beta does 😂
Ah yes, an INFJ here, although I almost never write those letters, as some with those results keep on rambling on how special they are. I usually keep it on introversion and have to admit the term Sigma was totally new to me (perhaps because I am Dutch, dont know), but it fits, I guess. Also in my experience most woman want to be chased. My dear alpha friend does not understand me at on these subject and always tries to confince me to chase 🙂Is not going to happen. I rather end up alone than in a relation just because.
The good thing is that we Sigmas don't really care all that much. Our intelligence makes us aware of far more important things than women.
Superman = Alpha male; Batman = Sigma male.
Also, when playing poker, Alphas have tells, will bluff, and may even be suckers; Sigmas never bluff, have no tells, and are never suckers.
Yeah, ok, I can get onboard with that! :)
"I'm Batman!" chuckles, ...so very Sigma.
I'll agree with that.
Good insight.😆
I’ve always liked Superman, but he may be more Beta than Alpha. Look at his codependent relationship with Lois Lane. A white knight if I’ve ever seen one. An outsider doing everything he can to get the group, humanity, to accept him. Without his special powers, which he did nothing to earn, what kind of man would he be?
This is the best explanation I've seen. I have all of the characteristics of a Sigma, but I tend to be an open book too if I know someone. I'm an INTP on the Myers Briggs personality thing and I am pretty sure I'm a Sigma but I have some confusing crossover.
Everything you said is spot on ..
The only thing I would add and this is the biggest difference between a Sigma male and Alpha male ..
An Alpha male will always chase the girl ,
A Sigma male will make the girl chase him .. he will test her to see if she's worth he's time ..
Sigma, INFJ.
Introvert never shy.
INTJs are the Sigmas.
@@reithreithreith The Sigma/Alpha/Beta/Gamma theoretical model is broader than the 16 personalities model, so the definitions will overlap.
@@KorschtalI say all these labels should taken With a grain of salt. How can people label themselves as one or the other
@@ham7357 Most certainly, that's why I described them as a "Theoretical model".
We should certainly avoid taking them on as an "Identity".
That said, technically this applies to most psychological concepts, because they can't be exactly replicated.
On top of that, they can be extremely helpful to people who don't have a more 'normal' (and therefore accepted) personality.
You’re spot on about sigmas. The only thing I disagree with is I’m ready to meet my forever better half. Thanks for your videos. They help a lot of people figure things out.
The “Z” axis in this chart is the depth and breadth of the man: experience, intelligence, nuance. A shallow Sigma can seem an Alpha, a deep Alpha can be perceived as a Sigma. The intensity of the Z axis is decisive indicator that most archetypal models do not implicitly incorporate.
Very smart analysis!
Calc 4, it was a blast.
I'm just realizing now that I've always been a sigma, and my small bro has always been an alpha, and my other bro is a sigma as well, although I get along with everyone at the end of the day. Thanks for pointing these differences out, the examples you used really brought lots of clarity to me compared to other videos that seem generic... I recently subscribed (a day ago...) and I'm already hooked! Awesome content!
I’m just seeing this now! Thank you so much for appreciating this video, and I hope some of my other videos have helped you as well!
You are definitely the best relationship mentor in UA-cam, no doubt about it.! 😊
Hi Anna, hope you are well. At a young age my sisters told me I was a sigma guy, I did not know what they were talking about. Later in life other women I know also stated I was guy who held strong sigma traits. We often are mistaken as being egotistical and I have been called that a few times. I create my own space, I am introverted, I am internally confident with myself and its easy and fun for me to talk to women. One thing about sigmas like me, we do take time to get emotionally attached but to us, trust and integrity are key to relationships. If trust is broken I'm simply gone and will look for the net one. I do not crawl to anyone.
Interesting! After listening to that, it gives me a bit of introspection. I always considered myself an alpaha, but after hearing what you have said, I have crossover traits to Sigma as well, but still am very much more in the alpha catagory. Thank you for your analysis on this subject. Doesn't necessarily help in the dating world when you are in your 50's (women are crazy lol), but good info nonetheless.
Sigma without a doubt. Have been my whole life and I already knew this 25 years ago. Taken me 8 years to finally write my book which will put me bold and center on the world stage with my peers - which is why I'd been avoiding it.
Fake Sigma: "Yes, that's exactly right. I'm a Sigma!"
Real Sigma: "So that's what you're calling us now? O.K. whatever..."
For the record, the majority of true Sigmas are ambiverts.
Yes.
I agree
Nice, concise take.
Ik
If you really think about it too
Ambivertness is the definition of sigma
@@casuallyimmortal1595 I don't agree with the "Introversion/silent-type" assessment.
When one is made to be social, through either work function or biological imperative, I know I can be downright gregarious.
...but usually end up regretting it.
Still, as the function requires, so go I.
Introversion? Extroversion?
The moment defines, or opportunities are lost. Self reflection cannot happen in a vacuum.
Really like your style and delivery, Anna! Your sincerity and feminine nature clearly shows in your voice. Thank you for the videos!
As a sigma I thought this video was good. There is something I have a different opinion about and I would like to put it forward.
We sigmas really do not rebel just for the sake of rebelling - that's just dumb (from a S's perspective). That is FAR more likely to be an alpha (no offense alphas) who can't get on top and so is having a temper tantrum. A sigma will rebel for a REASON (something is wrong idiologically/intellectually) and FOR a reason (i'm going to be part of the solution - not the problem). An exception might be a immature (i.e. young and searching) confused and particularly disgruntled Sigma. But that would be the exception, not the rule.
The same could be said for the bad boy persona - if you see someone who flaunts his badboyness flagrantly and definently, making a big deal out of ot - it's probably an alpha. A sigma may be defiant as hell but he does so more silently, deservedly - unless he has a specific tactical purpose for confentational behavior.
Exactly. Sigma has nothing to prove as he gets his validation from whithin, so being rebellious just for the sake of it would be a complete ignorance and also a waist of energy.
Page 2…Howdy from Texas USA. Anna, since I watched your video on Sigma Male, I did sum more research on the subject. I came to the realization how much a true Sigma I am. OMG I am blown away. Everything in my life (since I was a child) now makes perfect sense. I knew I was different. However, I didn’t know why. I have virtually all the Sigma traits my research pointed out. Now I have a more complete understanding of who I really am, why I act the way I do and think the way I think. This will serve me VERY WELL in the future. Maby there is some Hope for me now? Since I am a highbred Sigma, I must be even more rare and valuable???
Anna, thank you again for your dedication and passion helping men. You articulate your words and thoughts very well. I can tell you are well educated and love what you do. It really shows. Thank you again. Good Job Cowgirl Anna. You Rock!
PS… We say Howdy and Y’all a lot also, here in Texas.
Nice. I've been thinking lately of all the times that I walked away from a group of people due to the fact that 'the group' was beginning to define me in ways that I didn't want to be defined. I'm a natural extrovert, but my inner world is very private. I had no idea that I was a Sigma! Good video.
Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching and adding to the conversation! :-)
Hey Anna, I found this very interesting. After listening to this I guess I would be a sigma. I really identified with not following trends just to fit it even though I don’t necessarily identify as a rebel. Maybe I have a few of each. Anyway, I enjoyed the video and enjoyed watching your video as usual. Have a great afternoon. 🙃
Glad you enjoyed it and yes, there can definitely be some overlap! Thank you for watching! :)
I'm a sigma but didn't know that classification until recently. Companies I worked for gave me personality tests 20+ years ago and they thought I was faking some of my answers because I would be in between the classifications they tried to place everyone in. They picked up that I tended to be an introvert but had some qualities of alphas or what they called "drivers" when it came to getting business done. On the flip side, I pay attention to detail and have strong analytical abilities whereas many true alphas like to focus on the big picture inside of the business world. Sigmas will also put introversion tendencies to the side when it comes to getting business done and can appear like alphas or "drivers". In dating, I tended to be an introvert not wanting to share my feelings very easily and not always perusing who I really wanted when I was younger. When the right woman came around though, I pursued her with all my effort and made my feelings known even though it was uncomfortable in my nature. We took our time to get married but are still married 23 years later.
Yes, I used to get those tests, I worked as a Electronics Engineer, thankfully the company I worked for understood I liked to work on my own, doing my work to my perfectionist standards in the shadows, I had two embarrassing situations 1/ A girl I liked asking me out, who's been my wife for the last 40 Years, 2/ A surprise gathering for me, by the company I worked for, I didn't care for that, on retirement 50 Years of service.
@@Paul-wc7lv Congrats on the retirement. Sounds like they were smart giving you space to do "your thing" to get the most out of you while you stayed satisfied. Well done on both sides!
So on point. As always an awesome video. When I was on active duty while deployed to Bosnia I was told no alcohol. I didn’t drink but I was of the mindset that I was a grown man and didn’t need to be told something like that. So I had the locals sneak in with locally brewed beer. We took cans of near beer and switched it out with the local beer. We got drunk in broad daylight.
Interesting ideas? My mother wrote a poem to me years ago as a teenager saying 'you march to the beat of your own drum' I kept her at a polite distance because she proved herself time an time again to be untrustworthy. I treated her well because she was important to the parent I loved an trusted. My Dad. I have never trusted groups or organisations. It is lonely sometimes. I just feel in my gut that it's never a good idea for me to sacrifice my individuality for the sake of present tense social gratification. A little isolation is always better than compromising my true self to a groups values. Have felt like that since I was a child ♥️ it seems I have Sigma traits. Thank you. To be honest these terms are based on positions in wolf packs. A different species from humans. I not sure how real these ideas really are 😂 but that could also be the sigma in me lol
Your last statement reveals the true sigma you are! lol
But you're right. ;)
What about BETA, Gamma, and Omega males!! Please define them. Many in your audience aren't alpha or sigma males.
Fascinating discussion! Thank you so much for this! I never heard of a Sigma male (I thought it was all Alpha or Beta). I definitely fit into Sigma category. I'd like nothing more than to just be alone in my thoughts in this crazy world that's going to #%@&. I also tend to go against the grain just for the hell of it and was known to be a rebel growing up. I am a mix of introvert and extrovert. I'd prefer to be alone most of the time, but if I'm in a social setting with others, I can easily carry on a conversation and get into the social scene going on (in fact, it can be a nice break from the Sigma solitude).
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
In addition to alphas, sigmas and betas, there are deltas, gammas and omegas.
Being a balance between extrovert and introvert is what's called an ambivert, you adapt to the situation, and you draw energy both from some socializing and some solitude. Has the best of both.
I think I like the close up for a short time and switching back to normal distance . I'm sure there's video creator jargon for that. But you know what I mean. You thumbnails have been spot on. I would think a thumbnail is difficult to chose
THANK YOU for the information and help you've given me. I'm always late to the party. I never heard of this Sigma, Alpha stuff until fairly recently. I have traits from both. That dynamic has been a killer for relationships. At this point, finding a mate will definitely be a God job. I figure it's been best to go slow, learn as much as I can, and then proceed with more understanding than I have now.
Great attitude! Thank you for your comment, you got this!
I've been looking into this for some time now and I am convinced I'm a sigma.
There are a few bits and pieces that don't quite fit but it's still by far the the most accurate account of my personality.
Many of these style of videos seem to be very flattering to Sigma's and make alpha's sound super competitive.
I'm glad you were more balanced about it.
I have friends who are alpha's and I love them dearly and don't like how they are pigeonholed as aggressive.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
A big Fan all the way from South African pretoria 🌹🌺 I love your content, keep it up
Awesome! Thank you so much for watching and enjoying! :))
…..as a retired military guy (with combat), Citadel grad, growing up in Marine Corps housing, I can’t find make friends in my town. The VA recently suggested to me I “vibe with my tribe” and that is really on point. Btw, thanks for all ur life saving posts (!)
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
This is the first time I've heard a definition of the "sigma male". Based on this video I would say I'm mostly sigma. One indicator is that I often find so called experts or advice givers to be condescending. You, on the other hand, are very pleasant to listen to and learn from. Thank you.
Hey, Anna. I absolutely see myself in the middle category of Sigma. But in a couple of areas i can push myself to be Alpha, but it's not often. So, i'll stay Sigma, even though i think every person is unique and has their own style and approach and views.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
No one is singularly alpha, sigma, beta or whatever. You will be various combinations of most or all of the six personality types, with one being predominate.
Alpha is mostly opportunistic and delegate someone to solve the problem, Sigma solves the problem by himself. Alpha is someone wanting to do, Sigma is somebody actually can do. Alpha is about quantity over quality, Sigma is about quality over quantity.
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
as someone commented below about sigmas being strange to women he nailed it dead on, when i was younger i played in bands and was the lead singer,
women who were interested in me had to approach me because i would not approach them. i have had many people in my life including my room mate tell me
that when they first met me they though i was off beat but once they got to know me then things were fine. as for alphas, i have a real problem with them and i was
involved in several groups with them and i wound up leaving because i had people tell me why are you listening to them when you know more than them, from what
i have seen lately is that 80% of divorces are filed by women and it would not surprise me if the majority of the males were alphas in those relationships or the females
were the alphas. and yes we do dance to the beat of a different drum but i really dont give a damn what most think of me. you either dislike me or respect me for who and
what i am and some dislike but have respect for me because of what i represent.
Anna...always such great advice and "tips"😎 I am becoming such a good student...thank you
Keep it up, I'm glad to hear that, and thank you for your response ❤ 🙂
Happy Tuesday spicy señorita Anna! Sending love your way from Florida, USA 🇺🇸 and wishing you a wonderful week 🙏🏻❤
Thank you, John, you too! Let me know what you think of this one! :)
@@YourWingmam I love your videos and I feel like I can be more sigma style only because I tend to be different and stand out to others from my perspective and I don't open about myself to people unless I feel comfortable with them but I do want to know about them and I'm a Scorpio ♏ too :-)
@@johngonzalez4298 I like the audio effects Danish Canadian used in this video
Great content Thanks!
In my younger days working in the corporate world,I was an alpha male.
After being in business for myself for thirty five years,became a sigma.
Very interesting! Wonder if sigma was always your true nature or if you evolved? :)
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Like to think I evolved.
I think evolved, cos that's what I'm going through. Alpha only works when you can be an actual alpha, but if you think about it there can only be ONE absolute alpha. So you realize that being the best version of yourself by your own definition is the most achievable and best for your mental well-being, and that defines you as a sigma. I think it takes more self consciousness to be a sigma while an alpha is powered by passion.
First time I'm hearing about the Sigma male. Wondering why I didn't fit in the other two categories. Now I know I am Sigma AF! Thank you for turning my face to this angle of approach. How about a video on how to garner the participation of each type in a community organization. Where their different skills can come together for the benefit of the whole.
Really appreciate this video n it's like I have all of these qualities for both..
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I'm sure I would fit the sigma side.
Most of what you said about sigmas was very accurate in describing me.
Not a spotlight seeker, sort of an introvert. A bit of a loner that sometimes enjoys socializing, but more preferable with a smaller number of people at a time, for example.
I appreciate your insight and understanding.
I wish I could give you big hugs.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Based on the traits discussed, here's a character comparison of the two: from the Lord Of The Rings, Boromoir ,(Alpha) compared to Aragorn (Sigma).
Or there's alpha (Jabba The Hutt), beta (C3PO) and sigma (Han Solo)
I think Elrond, Gandalf or Legolas would be better examples of Alpha than Boromir…
Sam is sigma frodo was the worst of betas
@@aaroncohenour559 possibly, but you are stepping outside of the realm of humans which kind of makes it difficult. Ill bet Legolas compared to Gil-Galad or Glorfindel is a different story. It's told that in the Eldar days, when Sauron and Gandalf we're in Mair form before coming to Middle Earth, Gandalf was somewhat off his game around Sauron (they had different names). Here's one:. Boromir to Faramir (book version) Faramir is by far the Sigma.
I'm still struggling with feelings of frustrations about what I'm not able to handle on my own (I'm learning how to drive LATE in life...) but One thing I am aware of is that I feel a connection to this sigma concept because honestly what I really want is to just to do my own thing...
I don't want to be big dog on top, I founded my own company and I'm building it on my own but there's this one thing that has been getting in the way and that's learning how to drive...
I am a reseller, in essence.
I just want to strike out and do my own thing and you know, now that I'm on the margins and edge of society I'm thinking things like well this sucks but it's an opportunity to learn how to do everything myself.
You are a gem!!! 🧞♀️ I love your articles and the way you deliver them ♥️🌷♥️
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I've only recently come across this personality architype. I always knew I wasn't an Alpha as most of them largely bother me to no end, and I'm not a Beta because I've known many and I'm definitely not that. That said, having watched a number of videos on personality traits of a Sigma [male] I definitely fit the mold here. Brings to mind something a friend once said about me not hours after meeting me, "You're the quiet one who sits and listens, but when you do speak everyone listens" and it's true, as a general rule I listen and don't really say much in a conversation, but when I do I rarely get cut off by anyone (or spoken over).
Ha! That's the most damn fascinating piece I've seen from the UA-cam M̶a̶n̶o̶s̶p̶h̶e̶r̶e̶ Dating & Relationship Sphere in many moons. 'Cause I've not followed up too much on what a Sigma Male is or does but always looked on "being an Alpha" as an exhausting acting role, not to mention the fact that pushy arrogant alphas (including the female variant) have caused me more grief by second-guessing and manipulating me into trouble, error and disaster than any other type.
Have finished doing my time as a beta in this world- I hope, I think- but as an "extrovert introvert" who's happy alone but likes the spotlight, started out behind the camera but now seems to do better in front, I'm damned if I know which one I am. My mother must have thought that "Sigma" was the answer years ago when she gave me a card that said "You March To Your Own Drum." And it is true that once a gal gets under my skin after a long time, it's years of work to let her go, but I'm okay with my own company in the end. Hmmm 🤔
What type are you, Anna- or do Sigmas not exist on the female side?
Hmm, you just might be a hybrid! Like me ;) lol
Last question is a very personal one. But yes, women also come in the Alpha, Beta and Sigma varieties, although less obvious, because social skills and subtlety usually comes more naturally to women than to men, especially in young ages.
Alpha females are the confident ones who tend to be the center of attention of groups of women, while Beta females are the more compliant or shy ones. And Sigma females are the loners who only make friends with those who naturally respect them for them, and play less games than other women.
@@henrikljungstrand2036 Makes sense, and thanks for codifying that. Yes, I can put a personal name to each example you just gave. Must say I'm rather taken with Anna's "hybrid" concept here- like girls (and guys) who are shy in a crowd but once you open them up a little they never shut up :D
That was an absolutely awesome video & comprehensive AF , Thank-you I very much enjoyed it. I subscribed 100%
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Great video and precise information without being vague..
Thank you for the explanation. I have been called a "Sigma Male" by women for the longest time and had no idea it was actually a positive and not a negative. Thank you!
Nah i think you are just pretender :)
Sigma male dont care about this,sigma male dont care about people,but about ideas,ideas are most important
Just wanna say I think this was really helpful to anybody who doesn't feel like an 'alpha' and wondered if it automatically made them a 'beta'
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Thank you girl. This was a real eyeopener. My best friend who I know now for over 40 years is a real alpha. Well.... this made me clear I am clearly a sigma. No positive or negative points made out of this.... just a statement. I just am glad for who I am and I love him for who he is. We are a different of two of a kind
Thanks for sharing!!
I am really enjoying your videos 😃. I'll say you're living true to your screen name.
I have wondered about myself, exactly what my psychological makeup is, and I'm pretty certain I'm mostly sigma and then a small part alpha. I don't know if by default the remaining part is beta... I think that would indicate contradiction. But I think that's fairly normal.
I'm definitely a lone wolf, marching to my own drum beat. I actually have no close friends right now. (Bad, and a bad sign 😵) but I normally have one or two close friends. According to what you've described here, I guess I must be somewhat alpha, in social settings. I find it easier than my three brothers to socialize and start conversations with strangers. I've started a couple of businesses and don't flinch where leadership is needed, but frequently when thinking about getting some R&R, I think of time alone. What I'm looking for in a lady is deep and committed relationship. I have described myself as being too emotionally dependent (in that one romantic love relationship) but maybe it's just that I'm looking for a deeper closer Bond than most.
Thank you so much
Keep up the awesome work
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time for a new category: TAU male (pronounced as the "TOW" in MGTOW). TAU males just aren't interested in how women label them.
Women aren't high in the priority list, so why would there opinion be any different.
Pure brilliance
What are you doing here then ?
@@Gohan9112 Fair question.
I'm here because I subscribe to this content creator and I generally enjoy hearing her perspective on relationship dynamics. But that doesn't mean I agree with everything she says.
@@patrickmarr7076 I'm the same way. I like her in that she tries to work all of this out in her brain. She actually thinks about what's going on. Even if she doesn't nail it, listening to get a psychological idea of where people are is fun for me and informative.
There's logic behind resistance. Everything a sigma does has its purpose
Absolutely!
I have always been a sigma male, I'm not shy but there are very few people that I care to know, I have always went my own direction and I don't need anyone's approval, Not even my family. I have always enjoyed being self-employed and doing exactly what I wanted,
I actually had to work a lot on Alpha traits because of different leadership positions I ended up in. And many of those leadership positions I gravitated towards the symphony because the people who I've been engaged in the leadership roles were incompetent. I never feel like I have to be in charge. Any social hierarchy that you participate in has three basic outcomes. Conform. Leave whether voluntary or not. Or take charge
Definitely Sigma. As a young child, my mother said that I liked to hang around the older boys and just watch and observe instead of being around those my age. In Adult life, I've lived and worked in 8 different countries as a consultant working on teams where I was a valuable asset but not the lead guy and preferring that over being in a lead role. Also, I've been a Libertarian since my teenage years and never like to jump at trends. Other Sigman's here have also have said that most women feel more attracted to Alpha's because they're usually more "popular" whereas Sigma's, to them, seem weird. I agree with that. And, yes, Sigma's fall really hard for the right woman and are devastated if it doesn't work out.
If you think you’re definitely a sigma.. guess what
...guess what? It's likely you are not, but probably a gamma or an omega. Check it out.
@@anvilangst7573 Yeah, that's what I'm thinking too. Hanging around with multiple people. Proud of team work. Those aren't Sigma traits. Sigmas are related to INTJs.
90% Sigma - 10% alpha.
Introverts vs Extroverts - I saw that connection from the very beginning and agree completely with you about their tendencies.
Even though I have a sense of which one you like better, I'm guessing you like both types for what they are and don't try to rule out one over the other anymore - you just strike me as open-minded that way... :)
I'd almost (almost) say that could be the place to start, Sigmas are more likely to see the introvert/extrovert connection right away. And thank you for the wonderful compliment about my being open-minded! :))
@@YourWingmam One thing that interests me are other nation's/people's cultures. The one cultural thing that really stands out from the Wingmam channel is that Americans and Canadians are WAY more alike than we are different.
I had the privilege to work many Canadians during my career and have nothing but good things to say about the Canadian positivity and politeness. Without losing any of our characteristic culture, I'd like all Americans to be a little bit more like our neighbors to the North!
Dont worry i am beta, i was just curious about video 😎
Great job. Enjoyed your view. I enjoy smart women. Thanks for sharing. Yes, behind the camera vs in front of the camera is a good indicator.
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Very good analysis. I have had to work hard to become more of an extrovert as a Sigma but it is exhausting. My military history though has turned me more to a rule follower within my moral guidelines. Morality guides me more than anything. You are dead on about relationships for sure. It takes a lot of work for a woman to get inside my walls but once she does she has full access and I am completely open to her and her alone.
I always thought I was very Alpha but after listening to this I am much more Sigma than Alpha.
Definitely Sigma (INTJ), even though I am front and center on my UA-cam channel. I loath it, but I am there.
Exactly! A great example of adjusting to fit the need. I should've mentioned that more when I talked about UA-camrs! :)
thats funny bc i am ISTJ. definitely prefer a secondary or tertiary role, out of the immediate spotlight, but still want the notoriety and reputation of being in the top echelon. sociopathic with a dash of narcissism. methodical, mostly objective.
i remember back to all my jobs. any time the appointed leader wasnt available, i naturally took up the position and people followed. obviously with having stunted emotions, its not as expressive but there is a natural flow to these sorts of interactions.
i think sigmas and alphas have an innate understanding of their positions. they arent ashamed, and they have mutual respect for where they fall on the communal ladder. sigmas understand community is the primary goal, and aren't afraid to sacrifice themselves for the community, despite being individualistic. sigmas are the essentially the safety net for society as they can fulfill almost all the functions of an alpha, without practice.
betas are as emotional as alphas, but they have the individualism of a sigma, which is a terrible combo. this results in the "jealous opportunist backstabber" type among close circles, usually attempting to replace or take down an alpha, which usually doesnt last very long.
Exceptional video Anna.
I’m definitely a sigma!! great video Anna you truly get even more breathtaking alluring stunning Anna every time I watch you:) :) keep up the good work!!!
Most people don't "get" my lifestyle , and I don't care. Yet I figure " they " respect my integrity.. So glad "lol" I now have a word to define me
My attitude is, what can others who "don't get it" being to the table when you're independent? It would be nice to be understood, but it isn't going to happen. I'll settle for acceptance.
That makes sense now, I was wondering why everybody was calling me Sigma Kevin
Glad to help you understand yourself better, thank you for watching! :)
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
@@YourWingmam What do I do if she dumped me for being disrespectful and lack of communication and I realized what I did wrong and was chasing and chasing and all she wanted was space but I was just calling her and expressing to her basically putting her above me and everytime we talked she got mean and etc… she wanted space but I just kept being netty and weak and yeah she blocked cuz I kept being annoying and when she blocked me I just tried to go around to break up and caused her to blocked me everywhere basically I over reacted and yeah I want her back but idk if I can help
Wow, I just wanted to say I wasn’t expecting you to understand as I selected this to watch but you really get it. I am sorry you had to grow up with an alpha father and sigma brother and any real sigma reading this will know why. Just thanks for being someone who understands, there are about a billion sigma male things out there now and it’s very rare to find one that’s pretty spot on!
Good one. A few things mentioned like: a loner, could care less about clothes, beats the drum, people turn up their hearing aid [literally] when I'm around in the conversation, A-political, can lead or follow, always behind the camera, keep your distance, but if you are in, you're all in... for about 8 months of passion is about all i can take. I'll weight the sig to alpha is; sig type?
I never heard of Sigma males before today and always thought I was an Alpha male because I have some Alpha traits but holy cow after hearing all the Sigma male traits I find out that I am definitely a Sigma male. No wonder I have had a difficult time with my own behavior, I wish I knew all this earlier in my life.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
Welcome 🤗 to the club brother
@@YourWingmam I have some how gained wisdom of life's ups and downs but at the cost of to many years passing.
Best example of the two types would be from the movie platoon. Willem Dafoes character is true sigma. Tom Berrenger is Alpha
Great analogy
Yeah, one's dead, the other's insane. :P
I come from a family of Alpha males, growing up and seeing how my uncles and older cousins did things, their views on leadership and how they treated people. I always disagreed, it sparked something in me to be different from them.
I’d say I have a few alpha traits, I take the positive aspects of the alphas in my family and reject the negative.
When I first found out about the Sigma male type I was drawn to it. I understood it, I resonate with it because it’s me, I have a lot more Sigma than Alpha in me.
Generally I don’t like Alphas, but I accept there’s a small part of me that is because of the bloodline I come from.
I decide who I want to be, and if I’m meant to be a leader one day, I decide what type of leader I’ll be. Not my bloodline, family, cultural expectations and pressures or society. Me, if I am going to lead one day, I’ll do it my way.
I’m proud to be a sigma… with a hint of alpha, lol.
Wow, you put a label on and described me perfectly. Extrovert Sigma with a tiny dash of Alpha. All my life... I have been on my own since I was 7 years old. I don't go looking for trouble, however, If it shows up I'm instantly ready to do battle (or come to the rescue of a fair madden). I don't give a F*** what other people think, with the exception of my clients and my family. "White water runs shallow". Thank you for your passion creating and publishing these informative videos. You Rock Cowgirl Anna!
Wonderful! Thanks for sharing Roy!
I'm a smegma male... I literally ooze charm.
In your dreams.
LOL
lol
I'm sigma, and a bit of an asshole.
Eeek
Interesting, You described me to a tee for a Sigma. Never even heard of a Sigma.
Thanks for your video. Useful for self analysis… ;). You have a new subscriber.👌
NB: Your “Alpha Male” example reminded me of a quote I heard a few years ago: “When life gives me lemons I give life lemonaids.” -Charlie Sheen
This is the post that earned my sub. Great job
"Strong silent type"
Not really, we care for very little and a lot of things to us are "trash".
the world is overwhelmingly mediocre and undifferentiated.
Competence and capability will get our attention, independence is strength.
There is no strong silent type. Silence is weakness, period. If you have no voice, then you have no power. The matriarchy wants you to believe that you should stay the way you are while they are busy sleeping with the alphas. Sigma is a beta that does not know that he is beta. Exactly what they want to convince men to be once they, women, are in their epiphany phase.
@@tastybrownie7448 Looking at the state of modern society, i understand where you´re getting at... but not really true though. Most of necessary products and services are cultivated without much talking. Good voice is needed in distribution and decision making, wich becomes meaningless if the sigma keeps his produce for himself (most likely he goes for what he needs to begin with).
@@tastybrownie7448 silence is weakness? you are not a sigma, that's why
@@serphence8566 All the goods and services were built by teams of people not one guy staying silent in the corner. It takes one visionary but he has to convince a lot of people with his voice and charisma. Silence is not what wins the day even for the technology billionaires.
@@YorickUnexpected I've always been described as stoic by friends and family that wanted to be nice instead of telling me what they really thought.
Sigma, for the most part...but not everything fit. I assume that's common.
Yes, there's usually some overlap! Thanks for watching! :)
Very good explanation! My compliments!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much!
You nailed me...
I didn't know these things about my self ..
I can't believe what I've learned about watching some of you videos ..
Love it.... Bring it sister 😅😅
I want to learn more about this ...there should of been a class in highschool of this stuff... I most likely would of had a male teacher ..
Would been my luck 😅😅
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YOUR welcome
I've known always to lead and guide a lady... But you deeper input on my learning a lady's make ... Sure makes feel more confident in some of the uncertainty I've always wondered about
Thanks q bunch!!! Keep up the good work
Well, the most introverted of the extroverts is the ENFP. Many of us are Sigma, few are Alpha.
Yes, I can totally see that being true! Thanks for sharing that info! :)
ENTP here. I have mostly Sigma traits except being an extrovert. Nothing wrong with an outgoing Sigma. I find we have more of a sense of humor.
ISTPs are pretty much the model Sigmas
I'm an ENTP also. I would rather be dead than get a job. I will always be self employed. I have lots of acquaintances who are "alpha" and they try to hire me all the time for my know hows. I will only do contract for them. I'm extroverted but would probably be labeled as "Sigma" because of my self reliance and rebelliousness streak against societal norms.
These are all just terms and labels to understand personality. I think Omega males are cool. LoL they are responsible and carry nothing.
Can i be your Sigma male Anna?
Actually this is a very informative video. Thank you
Glad you enjoyed it, you mysterious sigma you! ;)
He be Gumpin’
I guess I'm an Alma or Sigpha, because I have traits from both.
Side note - you definitely have a face that makes for good close-up videos! Totally related to the video topic, I know 😂
Hey Anna, I have been thinking about this idea of archetype male, for myself for years. But, I believe I have an exceptional sigma for you. Simon Cowell never wears ties and often wears custom black tee-shirts, to events. He has what at first seem like odd ideas that become normal.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Just be yourself - that's powerful whether you are S. Or A.
Oh, good grief. JBY again? Sure, if you were born with good looks, grew up in a functional, loving household in a good neighborhood, went to good schools, got good grades, lots of attention, appreciation, and approval from your caretakers, who happened to model effective social skills , which became your social interaction habits, then yeah, just be your fucking self. Everybody else has to improve themselves. JBY my ass !
@@ronbridges3933 you sound bit angry mate. I've also had to improve myself but also kept with JBY as a guide. Relax man.)
I would argue the idea that Elon is sigma.
He's rooted in imitation, not innovation.
Examine his history and it points to beta trends with sociopath diligence. IMHO
Interesting, I don’t know much about the history of his business, I examined the apparent traits of his character. Something to think about though!
@@YourWingmam Another of the PayPal Mafia began his book with the tale of EM stealing their code and using it on his knock-off payment site. The were in the planning stages of murdering EM when they came to their senses.
EM can't create. Only imitate.
... from what I've seen
History.
I believe, Elon is a Sociopath. But, the point is, only a sociopath or higher than sociopath can identify another sociopath.
As an introverted sigma, I wish I could like👍 this many times over! Anna described me very accurately, answering many questions I hadn't thought to ask myself.
This was really helpful. I'm definitely a sigma but had only heard that in passing. Now I can stop comparing myself to alphas. Thanks!
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
I'm familiar with Six Sigma, what's true sigma?
loner
Wrong, sigma's can do whatever they want in the sens of leadership, however, being authoritarian or being elctured by authority is something he hates, he won't feel comfortable in a high position, if the business isn't his own. Next they can go in the spotlight, numerousactors are sigma's and MGTOW, very truthfull of mind.
I’m a sigma , but I love to try and speak my mind. I don’t do it often but I try to because I’m self aware of how secretive I am of my cards. But I don’t like to drown my morals. Integrity is very important to me. Usually they only thing emotion based I’ll speak up about. Love your video 😁
Very good video. I find myself as a sygma male with some alpha male at times. When i am selling something or picking up contracts the alpha male kicks in and takes over. I have seen this when i was in my early 20's. Being 67 yrs. i have learned so much about myself and women. Thank you so much
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Wrong Again...Sigma's are Loyal whereas Alpha's are Players and users.
True
I'm 42 years old and never really thought too much into the male personality traits. Though, I always thought I was an alpha, but I never fit into all of the aspects of one. Then, just a couple months ago, I saw a suggested video of the sigma male personality trait. I didn't have a clue of what that was, so I decided to watch several countless videos on it. I realized that literally every one of the traits that I've seen in the videos is exactly descriptive of my personality, my views, my habits, and just about everything that you discussed in this video. I'm definitely, and always have been, an outkast or "Lone Wolf". Always have been standoffish towards people and non trusting, until I get a grasp on their intentions. I love my solitude, but I like my social time, seldomly. 90% of the time I like to be by myself. I was like that even as a kid. I think a lot of what started me to think that I might be an alpha was when I was drinking and it became out of control. Obviously, drinking can make anybody more social and not who they really are. I quit drinkin 2 years ago and started to revert more back to how I was before I drank. Nonetheless, it's pretty cool that I stumbled across that video about sigmas. My characteristics were always something that I felt were very difficult to explain to other people as to why I am the way that I am, when they questioned things. Now it makes sense. It was just one of those things that I couldn't put my finger on to explain it. It just was what it is
Even though some people don’t like labels, they can sometimes help us understand ourselves better and feel we’re not alone in our experiences and perceptions :)
@@YourWingmam Yes this is very true. I mean, I've always been comfortable within myself, and never concerned myself with my traits. But people have always kind of question why I do or don't do certain things like the crowd does. Never knew how to explain it. Other than just the fact that I don't feel that I want to or feel part of it
Honestly I'm surprised that I got a response lol. With all the comments most UA-camrs probably don't even see most comments. But you do have some pretty interesting views of things
Thanks for pointing out that introversion does not equal shyness...I would probably now identify as a somewhat extroverted sigma...although I would have been more introverted as a younger person...agree with others that most people are probably a mix, but with an identifiable bias overall...thanks for your work Wingmam! The main thing I think, is that we all continue to grow - leaving Beta ways behind - and push ourselves to be better and more well rounded men...letting go of ego and exercising humility with strength, which I believe is attractive to Women...cheers
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