Well, it's God's plan for you. Sit back & enjoy his story for you! Hollar's sent me. They love the sourdough starter. You just need 100,000 more followers. God loves you & so do we! Hang in there 🙏🏻 💓
I am praying for your health to get better. Mental health is so important. It can hurt as if it were physical. Those puppies are great for healing energy. If you have any you would like to sell please contact me via my DM or email. I currently live in NC by way of SC. We had a dog two years ago and she passed of cancer the year before we moved to NC and I think it’s time for more love in this house. Thanks for listening and again wishing you all the best.
Great share! I'm guilty of the same when it comes to not finishing my to do list by the time I think I should. We put so much unnecessary stress on ourselves by not taking care of ourselves and listening to others who may or may not mean well in their opinions/advice. Take care of you and Jordyn and make sure God is first and it will all fall into place in His time.
Very true, everything is in God's hands. just because I many not finish something now doesn't mean that I failed, it could mean that isn't not meant to be something that needed to be done. I'm learning my plan is not always his plan.
Thanks for sharing, I too have a spouse with chronic illness, and we have 3 kids (including an adopted newborn). My advice, do what is best for you guys. Don’t hold yourself to an unrealistic expectation, leave room to give yourself grace. May God bless your journey!
Thank you! And good luck with you amazing sounding family as well! Chronic illness is no joke, we understand that load that can carry. Y’all got this too.
There is an enormous God that I pray you will feel come along side you and wrap His loving arms around you and Jordan. Just sitting in the morning sun and taking time to talk to God is so much better then meditation because He will answer you. God Bless and I will be praying for you both too. 🙏🙏🙏
Brother, I am at loss for words. I can relate exactly to what you are facing. The last 2 1/2 years have been really stressful and hard. But we will make it! All the best to you and yours!
Thank you for sharing. I can only imagine the stress of everything you guys have going on, but I am glad to see you talking through taking care of yourself. God bless!
Hey there, just wanted to send some good vibes your way and hope that you are doing well. It's important to take care of our mental health, and I hope that you are able to find ways to relax and destress. Sending love and positive energy your way!
I've found that, for me, I cannot predict what will happen and where I will be, in five years, much less one year. Preparing for a baby, scale back everything. It takes so much energy and focus just for that. I know how you feel, and can definitely say "hang in there". It is hard hard hard. "Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." -- Soren Kierkegaard
Kenny and I first met you at HOA last year and have followed your journey since then. (First on FB, now UA-cam) I really appreciate this video and your vulnerability. We started our UA-cam channel a year ago, and we’ve had a lot of ups and downs and huge life changes since then, so I can relate to what you’re sharing here. You’ve got to do what blesses your family the most. Sometimes that means slowing down/scaling back so you can focus on mentally, physically and spiritually adjusting/preparing for this new season your coming to. That’s wisdom! Thank you for sharing that wisdom with all of us.
Thank you for becoming friends since then and taking part in many of the different aspects that we have for people who follow us. Hope we get to see y'all this year too!
We all have our own lives. Mine is not the same as yours nor the same as anyone else. If we all just did the things that work for our own lives and not focus on what works for others. Our lives would be better. Just like every pregnancy is different. Do what works for you and im glad you have started to find that. Too many people think they should impose their life on others because it worked for them, but thats not how life works. Every pregnancy I was told multiple times on how life was going to be and what i should do and not do. I just did what I found worked for me and my family.
This is great advice, especially when it comes to pregnancy! We have had a happy bouncing baby since 4 weeks, where as friends of ours didn't even feel their kid movie till 4 months. Learning to work thru the movement at an early stage has been much easier then if we had waited to experience it at 4 months,
Actually just found out about your channel from the visiting puppy video at Roots and Refuge and came to see. With this video, I am glad to have added you to my newest channel! Thank you for the transparency ♡ my favorite channels and vlog "friends" include BOTH struggles and success. Thanks for being real ♡ As for the rest, meh, you have got this ;)
Thank you for being transparent. It is overwhelming when life changes come, but you got this. God gave you this beautiful baby and wife and you get the privilege to be a part of this new journey. Step back and don’t let each tiny thing overwhelm you. Seize those precious moments and walk in the truth that God has got you here for such a time as this. Take courage and be confident that He will guide your path and help you through this time. Enjoy every moment. One step at a time. One goal at a time. One task at a time. One foot in front of the other. Look forward to seeing you guys next week at the Gulf Coast Homesteading conference.
Everybody gets into a slump. Everyone has an opinion about what you are doing. Everyone gets overwhelmed. Being a new parent can be extremely stressful. When we had Madison we were really nervous, and scared about a hundred different things. It was a tough birth for Rachel, but after she was here we were great in the hospital. When we got home from the hospital we got inside, both sat down on the couch, Maddie was in Rachel's arms. The baby started crying and we both looked at each other and said at the same time, What do we do now... You figure it out. Baby, Jobs, Home chores, Homestead Chores, etc...One of the most important things my Dad told me was you will go through a lot of problems. Dont let your problems become your identity. Coping skills??? When we have a cognitive thought, it brings an emotion, then we act of that emotion. So when you have a negative thought understand that its negative, understanding that what your thinking is negative, consciously control your emotion, and you wont act on that negative emotion. Its hard but it becomes a habit. Look to God the answers are all in the Bible also. Emotional Intelligence goes a long way for good mental health. You have my number bud, use it if you need to.
Hey guys, just letting you know that you're not alone in that stress. When I was pregnant with my first, we had the same problem. Lots of "good intentioned advice" that so missed the mark of helpfulness. My parents and inlaws did alot of things with the thought of being helpful but it ultimately caused more stress. The changing of positions also caused stress as I was the one with the better paying job but had to quit because the physical stress of the job was causing problems. I didn't know what to do with myself after I stopped being the money earner and had to transition to mom mode. It took a little trial and error and hobbies, haha. I felt like I hadn't completed all I wanted to in life yet and was desperately trying to do what I could because I was told so many times while pregnant that "my life was over", "if I hadn't done what I wanted before baby I would have to wait til he was grow and I was old", and I couldn't mentally cope with that thought. I found peace though so no worries, those prior things are all lies. I'm a writer so I joined a group and took my new son with me and they loved having him there! They were so supportive that they called themselves my son's extra grandmas. So, what I'm basically saying is that don't let those who decided to give up their dreams for parenthood scare you guys into thinking that you'll have to put everything to the back burner. That's the biggest lie of all. So, as for coping with the first initial adjustment, I took lots of walks for me and my mental wellbeing. My son rode in the stroller and usually fell asleep, blissfully unaware of how recharging those walks were for me. I also did a lot of writing lol, but as I said I'm a writer so it's what I do. I had personal routines for certain things like cleaning. I made it my weekly goal to do one big clean day where everything was vaccumed once a week and it honestly helped me feel like I was getting back on top of things again. Somethings I did have to let go and put on the backburner and you guys may find yourselves doing that too but you guys just have to remember that it's okay. You don't have to be everything to everyone. And you can't fulfill all of baby's emotional needs if your emotional well is empty so stepping back sometimes is perfectly okay. I hope this helps. I'm glad you are standing up to those who want to speak that negative, fear riddled crap over what should be joy and celebration of the pregnancy. I wish you guys all the joy and wellness with this new change in life. And remember, nothing is ever going to get easier but you guys are going to get better 😉.
It's amazing, the things that we need to do for ourselves that seem so trivial on a day to day bases, that end up recharging us when we need it the most. we are ready for this new chapter and hope we can do it well.
My husband and I are in a similar situation - I fell pregnant three months after we moved into our new homestead and in the middle of Summer and have been battling extreme morning sickness since the beginning so everything fell on my husband's shoulders. We had some emotional family situations together too so our homestead quickly became overwhelmed and overgrown. We are slowly trying to get back on track now but gosh. Coping with all of that on top of doing the videos for youtube, I can imagine is an extra level of crazy. And you are right - I am so happy to see your updates so don't put that extra pressure on yourself! My heart is with you both. Know that this season of struggle will pass and the little blessings we are waiting for will be worth it.
Thank you for the encouragement, and I hope y'all are doing better now! I believe you talking a little about the things going on in yall's life as well in one of the comments of our previous videos.
Well, it's God's plan for you. Sit back & enjoy his story for you! Hollar's sent me. They love the sourdough starter. You just need 100,000 more followers. God loves you & so do we! Hang in there 🙏🏻 💓
I am praying for your health to get better. Mental health is so important. It can hurt as if it were physical. Those puppies are great for healing energy. If you have any you would like to sell please contact me via my DM or email. I currently live in NC by way of SC. We had a dog two years ago and she passed of cancer the year before we moved to NC and I think it’s time for more love in this house. Thanks for listening and again wishing you all the best.
Thank you so much! If you’d be interested in more info on the puppies be sure to check out our website! These babies all have wonderful homes already!
Great share! I'm guilty of the same when it comes to not finishing my to do list by the time I think I should. We put so much unnecessary stress on ourselves by not taking care of ourselves and listening to others who may or may not mean well in their opinions/advice. Take care of you and Jordyn and make sure God is first and it will all fall into place in His time.
Very true, everything is in God's hands. just because I many not finish something now doesn't mean that I failed, it could mean that isn't not meant to be something that needed to be done. I'm learning my plan is not always his plan.
Thanks for sharing, I too have a spouse with chronic illness, and we have 3 kids (including an adopted newborn). My advice, do what is best for you guys. Don’t hold yourself to an unrealistic expectation, leave room to give yourself grace. May God bless your journey!
Thank you! And good luck with you amazing sounding family as well! Chronic illness is no joke, we understand that load that can carry. Y’all got this too.
There is an enormous God that I pray you will feel come along side you and wrap His loving arms around you and Jordan. Just sitting in the morning sun and taking time to talk to God is so much better then meditation because He will answer you. God Bless and I will be praying for you both too. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for keeping us in your prayers.
Your doing great man! Don’t let anyone tell you how to live your life, everyone is different.
Thanks man!
Brother, I am at loss for words. I can relate exactly to what you are facing. The last 2 1/2 years have been really stressful and hard. But we will make it! All the best to you and yours!
Best wishes to you as well, and thank you!
Thank you for sharing. I can only imagine the stress of everything you guys have going on, but I am glad to see you talking through taking care of yourself. God bless!
Thank you for the support. It’s definitely a busy season, but we are taking it slow with care in mind.
Hey there, just wanted to send some good vibes your way and hope that you are doing well. It's important to take care of our mental health, and I hope that you are able to find ways to relax and destress. Sending love and positive energy your way!
Thank you! I have gotten some time to relax and feel much much better!
I've found that, for me, I cannot predict what will happen and where I will be, in five years, much less one year. Preparing for a baby, scale back everything. It takes so much energy and focus just for that. I know how you feel, and can definitely say "hang in there". It is hard hard hard. "Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." -- Soren Kierkegaard
There are many days when I wonder what the next hour will bring! 😂
praying for your family ❤️❤️
Thanks Sarah!
Kenny and I first met you at HOA last year and have followed your journey since then. (First on FB, now UA-cam)
I really appreciate this video and your vulnerability. We started our UA-cam channel a year ago, and we’ve had a lot of ups and downs and huge life changes since then, so I can relate to what you’re sharing here.
You’ve got to do what blesses your family the most. Sometimes that means slowing down/scaling back so you can focus on mentally, physically and spiritually adjusting/preparing for this new season your coming to. That’s wisdom! Thank you for sharing that wisdom with all of us.
Thank you for becoming friends since then and taking part in many of the different aspects that we have for people who follow us. Hope we get to see y'all this year too!
We all have our own lives. Mine is not the same as yours nor the same as anyone else. If we all just did the things that work for our own lives and not focus on what works for others. Our lives would be better. Just like every pregnancy is different. Do what works for you and im glad you have started to find that. Too many people think they should impose their life on others because it worked for them, but thats not how life works. Every pregnancy I was told multiple times on how life was going to be and what i should do and not do. I just did what I found worked for me and my family.
This is great advice, especially when it comes to pregnancy! We have had a happy bouncing baby since 4 weeks, where as friends of ours didn't even feel their kid movie till 4 months. Learning to work thru the movement at an early stage has been much easier then if we had waited to experience it at 4 months,
Hang in there brotha man this season shall pass and bring on a better one!
Thanks for the support!
Actually just found out about your channel from the visiting puppy video at Roots and Refuge and came to see. With this video, I am glad to have added you to my newest channel! Thank you for the transparency ♡ my favorite channels and vlog "friends" include BOTH struggles and success. Thanks for being real ♡ As for the rest, meh, you have got this ;)
Thank YOU for stopping by and adding us to your friends list!
Thank you for being transparent. It is overwhelming when life changes come, but you got this. God gave you this beautiful baby and wife and you get the privilege to be a part of this new journey. Step back and don’t let each tiny thing overwhelm you. Seize those precious moments and walk in the truth that God has got you here for such a time as this. Take courage and be confident that He will guide your path and help you through this time. Enjoy every moment. One step at a time. One goal at a time. One task at a time. One foot in front of the other. Look forward to seeing you guys next week at the Gulf Coast Homesteading conference.
Thank you, I want to work towards seizing as many moments as I can. Will keep our eyes for you!
Everybody gets into a slump. Everyone has an opinion about what you are doing. Everyone gets overwhelmed. Being a new parent can be extremely stressful. When we had Madison we were really nervous, and scared about a hundred different things. It was a tough birth for Rachel, but after she was here we were great in the hospital. When we got home from the hospital we got inside, both sat down on the couch, Maddie was in Rachel's arms. The baby started crying and we both looked at each other and said at the same time, What do we do now... You figure it out. Baby, Jobs, Home chores, Homestead Chores, etc...One of the most important things my Dad told me was you will go through a lot of problems. Dont let your problems become your identity. Coping skills??? When we have a cognitive thought, it brings an emotion, then we act of that emotion. So when you have a negative thought understand that its negative, understanding that what your thinking is negative, consciously control your emotion, and you wont act on that negative emotion. Its hard but it becomes a habit. Look to God the answers are all in the Bible also. Emotional Intelligence goes a long way for good mental health. You have my number bud, use it if you need to.
Thank you so much for your heartfelt response, friend!
Hey guys, just letting you know that you're not alone in that stress. When I was pregnant with my first, we had the same problem. Lots of "good intentioned advice" that so missed the mark of helpfulness. My parents and inlaws did alot of things with the thought of being helpful but it ultimately caused more stress. The changing of positions also caused stress as I was the one with the better paying job but had to quit because the physical stress of the job was causing problems. I didn't know what to do with myself after I stopped being the money earner and had to transition to mom mode. It took a little trial and error and hobbies, haha. I felt like I hadn't completed all I wanted to in life yet and was desperately trying to do what I could because I was told so many times while pregnant that "my life was over", "if I hadn't done what I wanted before baby I would have to wait til he was grow and I was old", and I couldn't mentally cope with that thought. I found peace though so no worries, those prior things are all lies. I'm a writer so I joined a group and took my new son with me and they loved having him there! They were so supportive that they called themselves my son's extra grandmas. So, what I'm basically saying is that don't let those who decided to give up their dreams for parenthood scare you guys into thinking that you'll have to put everything to the back burner. That's the biggest lie of all. So, as for coping with the first initial adjustment, I took lots of walks for me and my mental wellbeing. My son rode in the stroller and usually fell asleep, blissfully unaware of how recharging those walks were for me. I also did a lot of writing lol, but as I said I'm a writer so it's what I do. I had personal routines for certain things like cleaning. I made it my weekly goal to do one big clean day where everything was vaccumed once a week and it honestly helped me feel like I was getting back on top of things again. Somethings I did have to let go and put on the backburner and you guys may find yourselves doing that too but you guys just have to remember that it's okay. You don't have to be everything to everyone. And you can't fulfill all of baby's emotional needs if your emotional well is empty so stepping back sometimes is perfectly okay. I hope this helps. I'm glad you are standing up to those who want to speak that negative, fear riddled crap over what should be joy and celebration of the pregnancy. I wish you guys all the joy and wellness with this new change in life. And remember, nothing is ever going to get easier but you guys are going to get better 😉.
It's amazing, the things that we need to do for ourselves that seem so trivial on a day to day bases, that end up recharging us when we need it the most. we are ready for this new chapter and hope we can do it well.
We love you guys!
Love y’all too!
❤🙏
Awesome thank you for the input!
My husband and I are in a similar situation - I fell pregnant three months after we moved into our new homestead and in the middle of Summer and have been battling extreme morning sickness since the beginning so everything fell on my husband's shoulders. We had some emotional family situations together too so our homestead quickly became overwhelmed and overgrown. We are slowly trying to get back on track now but gosh. Coping with all of that on top of doing the videos for youtube, I can imagine is an extra level of crazy.
And you are right - I am so happy to see your updates so don't put that extra pressure on yourself!
My heart is with you both. Know that this season of struggle will pass and the little blessings we are waiting for will be worth it.
Thank you for the encouragement, and I hope y'all are doing better now! I believe you talking a little about the things going on in yall's life as well in one of the comments of our previous videos.