@@lydiadevries8408 Yes of course it should never be one sided. However, the need to mention it is less needed in regards to the female human, in my opinion. I feel so sad for young men and the older 40 year olds. Males are way more targeted, it's so bad. I see so many different mother's, daughters, sisters, wives being treated with such disrespect and relentless, devaluation, for no reason other then the man/males, delusional perspectives,( inregards to what they have as a belief of or in), as to what a women represents or how the think. Problem is the information that is now in their minds, all that they get this information from with nothing else to really compare these things about female characters to has delusional views about what women really are or how they actually feel and think. Porn always has dishonesty, cheating and lies from female to Male and some shady kind of actions by women. Everything is always all about cheating on TV, in movies... even on the radio and music video's. It's so annoying because in reality women are actually nothing like this. However, it because a virus so to speak... eventually once you have been constantly treated as such eventually you become what you are treated as or deal with being treated with disrespect and constantly fighting your way through it. Men need to look around them and see how they keep loosening their dignity, all the chances of having real authentic relationships and to know what real love and being proud feels like.
The woman comes with assets: 1- She's a partner 2- She brings rest to his life 3- She's the multiplier 4- She's the reflection of his manhood 5- She's the man chief intercessor 6- She's the caretaker of his legacy 7- She's the prize! 🎉
These 7 assets is so true.,but some man just don't know how to appreciate a woman with these values. Some men like my kids dad think he's the prize among other things
@@kizzyrock 99.9% of men choose in the flesh first and foremost as their first critera. Don't come and whine because you chose wrong in the place by being superficial in your choosing I would say to them.
I watched my dad treat my mom well. She was a classy woman. She was confident had 7 children. We growing up never worried about money or security. I felt safe growing up with them together. I miss them both very much. May they rest in peace.
Truly blessed. I hunger, even now, at age 61, for that kind of first-hand witness of what marriage looks like. You have a great template to start with.
Ladies: We don't need to audition in the kitchen or the bedroom. A man will know within 1 year if you're his wife and you should know as well if you have a relationship with God and discern his spirit. Don't just rely on him to tell you that. You should have your own relationship with God. You should know who you are.
Hello sister Queen K I have question for you this pastor RC Blake's is he legit or are you saying he's a scammer. Because I'm not quite understanding your point I don't want to give him thumbs up when possibly I should be giving him thumbs down and praying for him. Post your answer please.
My dad always talked to me about men & how they really think, feel & behave. I was well schooled & warned about this as a young girl & teenager. His advice rang so true with a lot of guys I dated when I was younger. I was spared of some heartache along the way. Now I am happily married to a decent man, a gentleman who truely sees my worth, we will be married 24 years in October. I lost my dear dad in 2017. RC Blakes keep preaching! 🙏🏻💕
Blessings and congratulations on your marriage. You are lucky to have had a good resource for life's lessons. I didn't have any family instruction from either parent. I wasn't a bad child/private schooling etc.. my father was absent and my mother did not speak on any issue (very passive). I made my own decisions. Too often, mistakes were costly leading to physical and mental abuse in relationships. I'm not married but hopefully he finds me.
Hey Ms Sandra, please don't give up. My grandma got married for the first time at the age of 78. We now have a whole new bonus family. My Grandma is my hero. She stays at the gym, has the best fashion sense and is healthy and whole. Don't give up Ms Sandra. Stay loving on you. My grandma met her husband whilst joining a travel club!
@@munix9351 That is wonderful. It goes to show that we as women should never settle. A man is easy to get. But a good man is hard to find. There are so many women is unhappy, unhealthy relationships. Never ever settle. Your grandma is an amazing woman.😍😁
Im a wife. Im a lady and my dads only daughter and i have always felt powerful in not giving out and knowing i can walk in a room knowing not a man in sight has Had the pleasure of me.
As a man I’m gonna break it down. We need fathers like this to educate and lead us by example and enlightenment. I was a hard working successful professional man. But I didn’t have a spiritual education until I was adopted into a men’s ministry that educated me to think like this. This Pastor broke it down. This is the best sermon I’ve heard in some time.
For you to even understand that a father such as Dr.Blake is the missing spiritual guide or connecting to a men's ministry guidance is NEEDED to embody a Godly man's character That's a beautiful thing. That's right, Without proper teaching the people perish
I am re-watching this as a reminder for women to value themselves so men can value us , but most importantly love ourselves so we are not just looked at as objects. Thank you Pastor for your teachings. ❤
Don't guess, KNOW it. So many women have put such a negative stigma on not being married. As if it is always something wrong with them as to why they can't get or keep a man. I'm honestly believe that our younger women may truly have to entertain the idea of never being married, unless they are okay with being devalued. The "manosphere" message is spreading rapidly (Kevin Samuels.) More and more men will start to treat women as if he is doing her a huge favor by being in her life. So she just better put up and shut up.
I have been married twice and widowed twice. After my 2nd wife died a group of male friends were expressing their condolences (sometime after her passing) and they asked what I missed most in the "cacophony of silence" that my home had become. I shot back and answered that "I miss having the female perspective and point of view in my life." Collectively they looked at me like I was nuts and one even said, "Really? Are you serious?" Yeah, I am. When my 2nd wife died we had 20 minutes together to say our good-byes. She was at peace; we held hands; her final words to me were "thank you for all you have taught me." She could not possibly have said anything more meaningful.
Experienced this with my next door neighbor we were both single just doing the neighborly chit chat and then he wanted get too close and jump in bed. When he realized I’m not that woman he stopped chit chatting with me and I’ve seen several women at his home over night none steady in the 6 years I’ve been next door. SMH obviously if he can’t keep a steady women raises my eyebrows, he still cuts my grass for free though…
My husband asked me to marry him after 6 months. Every man I have ever been close to has asked me to marry them either 6 months in or before. I guess I have wife material stamped on my forehead lol. But I knew he was the one. When he hugs me, all of my stress fades away. We complete one another. Thank you Most High!
I am truly happy for you. It gives me hope. Even tho I am middle aged now. maybe I will still have that experience. I was not so lucky. 35 years of marriage and I am anything but safe. !
It’s definitely not deep when a man tries to sleep with you, especially on the first night or just right away... When they talk about sex or make a comment about my body, I run away real quick.. I’m offended. I’m done.
I am also very offended when a man talks about sex in my presence. Especially if we ain't sleeping together. Sex talk should be private talk between lovers.
"A man can have strong sexual attraction to a woman, and hate her at the same time." Amen. Know and understand your value. Good word Pastor #RCBlackes!
men that i meet don't care nothing about that., I met one from California a few years ago, who is a friend of a relative of mines. He said a lot of demeaning and belittling things to me and he didn't know me. I knew then he wasn't the one. It was like he was trying to make me feel low and insecure. I don't deal with the stupidity. I just date when I can and if they are not the one or they think i'm not the one we just don't go on another date. which is about twice a year. It's funny because later on they realize I'm not some old chicken head and when I do see them again they have egg on their face.
The unfortunate part is that there are men out there that meet women who could be their wives, but they lack the patience to wait until marriage for sex. They end up frustrating themselves in the process and wonder why they can only find women who want them for their money or their status and do not respect them otherwise. A woman who doesn’t know how to respect herself/her body will not know how to respect her husband (inside and outside of the home). I see it everyday.
And those same men try so hard to keep their "disrespectful compromised Prize"! Then when they Have to give up, they try and clump all of in the "all women ain't no good" category. These men choose poorly and position themselves badly. So sad
Then he is not good enough for you. When you get to the point of looking at it this way. Why do you want a man who has whored around like a ally cat 🐈 ? I sure as heck do not want that. Sex is a giving of yourself and if he is defiling himself with everyone in town. He is not of clean heart, mind or soul. Just how I see things.
@@donnalangley117 I so agree. There is no telling what kind of soul ties or sexual debris you will have visited upon you dealing with some of these men. The reward just may not be worth the risk 🙏
Celibacy is power. I see unhappy women who gave into a man early on and are not treated well. I will always be treated well, either alone towards myself or with my wonderful husband I haven’t met yet. I am a Priestess! So are all the women here.
@@warrencampbell8240 I would have to disagree. A lot of these so called men still play games to get what they want. Now a days it really doesn't matter how you carry yourself. Trust me I'm a witness
@@tashaequeen8935 I agree totally... and like all games both men and women know the overt and covert "rules".... and choosing your behaviour to get the result you want is part of this.
But can he get the sex anytime. Probably not. But why can you get the sex anytime. Ladies are so hot no man will say no. But these days are little bit different. Do women value themselves towards other women as far as sex goes. Since men depreciate women far as sex goes. How do God feel about this . Oh this is not wrong in God eyes thank you Lord and my savior
A king will instinctively know how to control his hormones for his queen 👑 A lust driven BOY will never understand this concept. I’ve had SEVERAL conversations with elders & couples married 20 - 40 + yrs & the one thing they all had in common was patience and RESPECT. She was his PRIZE 🙏🏽
Who wants to hear a funny, odd story about teen boys... Well. . . my 2 daughters met boys in middle & high school....the boys fell hard, & they never pushed for the physical. . . they stayed nearby for chances to hang out, they gave tokens of appreciation, I was floored ‼️ I worried so much about teen boys....l guess maybe they had not yet lost their innocence of real romantic notions.... Errr l wonder where they are now...girls are 27 & 30......LOL
This is exactly what a lot of people don't understand intimacy is a spiritual thing especially for believers We were not created to be " sex objects " that is not how God defines love.
Baby ..ITS SPIRITUAL...EITHER WAY..wonder IF THATS WHPsalm 37:8-9 8 Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret-it leads only to evil. 9 For those who are evil will be destroyed, but those who hope in the LORD will inherit the land.Y..IT SAYS...IF YOU HAVE THE THOUGHT..YOU HAVE ALREADY...DONE.... SOMETHING..
Sex is a part of love. And you can make love with some one you not married to. People want to put marriage on a pedestal it just don't work for a lot of people. Facts
@@mmason2754 I actually cannot have sex with someone that I am not married to because I desire to please God not man it sounds to me like you are just a man who wants to justify sin. The bible condemns fornication for a reason. You can also love someone and NOT have sex with them if you know how to possess your own vessel in sanctification and honor. I have had sex with one man, my husband and I have absolutely no regrets for that decision. I was the girl in my friends group who dried the tears of other women who felt " used " by men that claimed to love them. The ideas that you are presenting are a worldly paradigm and not at all scriptural God designed sex for the marriage covenant only because it is a physical representation of the holy trinity it is a sacred union. The bible is very clear that the Christian body is the temple of the holy spirit and that temple is NOT to be defiled with casual sex. Period.
@@mmason2754 marriage btw is not a " business arrangement" if you are looking for it to " work for you" rather than committing to the idea that you are meant to work towards the Goal of functioning as a team as husband and wife you are already approaching marriage from the wrong spirit. Real love is not about what you can get out of it. Love elevates you and it makes you willing to put your own neck on the line for the sake of your beloved. If you have not experienced that you have absolutely no right to supposedly school me or anyone else on " love" sexual desire ie lust is not love. Lust is simply an itch that you want to have scratched. If you can claim to love someone but have no desire to wake up next to them every morning then you have no clue what love actually is because love doesn't use you and then discard you. That is selfish desire not love. True love is selfless sacrificial and giving and no man's love could ever compare to God s love.
"The Woman is Built to respond to the Man"....thank you so much for that enlightenment. Seeds of distrust, dishonor and insecurities is all I have ever known from men. This is why I continue to be happily single as I know my worth and what it requires for me to commit. I REFUSE to waste my time with someone who does not have this level of awareness. Super hard to find......
I’m 21 year old kid living in newyork . I resonate with your message big brother . I appreciate the knowledge. Going thru enlightenment at the moment and I’’m grateful to come upon this wonderful message .
Congratulations. You're are getting the real deal. Please send this video to yourself and save it so you can listen over and over again. You may get a player who will try to charm you. Just smile and remember you are ahead of his game. Love you my precious Queen.
A quick testimony; I met a man who was only interested in if I could cook and what I could cook. I had the same feeling that he was just looking to fulfil the lusts of his flesh. It really upset me that he had no desire to discover who I was and I ended things with him.
If we are to "train up a child in the way they should go", then why aren't we putting this much passion into raising our boys to be godly boys, adolescents and young men as we do our girls . We continually lower the bar for boys. We say "boys will be boys, that's how men are, he's a guy". This provides excuses to all bad behavior without accountability. We let an ungodly, unholy society raise and train our boy children and then we are shocked by the demonic behavior. It is easier to build strong children than FIX broken men.
You can raise your sons with morals and prepare them to be Godly husbands, leaders but women are throwing themselves at men. If a man is not into free sex he's viewed in a negative light.
I feel like I've been the right thing to the wrong men!! I didnt know a lot of this because I had no teacher or example! But NOW that I know, I feel like I've discovered Gold!
You were attracted to those men, and routinely rejected the men that wanted to honor you. The reason you kept attracting the same guys over and over is your womb has been imprinted with the energy of those kind of men.
I am 20 and I have never been romantically involved with anyone. Going through the teenage years was filled with girlfriends getting their heart broken all the time. I started reading the Bible when I was 10 and it has helped me with everything. To learn that the heart is wicked and feelings dont tell you the truth and that many people dont know what love is or even how to truly give it away. The "hardest" part is people thinking that I am sad or ashamed or that I have some bad view of men, which is not the case. But you see, many times the adults that worry about me love life are married....but not exactly happy. I am thankful for their worries about me. But I have so much peace inside. Our Father says that celibacy is a gift not everyone seeks (or even tries to understand) God gives you a sense of confidence and satisfaction that frees you from the preassures of society. I feel so complete that my version of my best life is staying this way forever. Now, if in the future a pure and rightious offer comes, maybe I'll think about it. But if it never comes my way, the joy remains in me. I am aware that marriage is serious and is not always easy. I have a respectful fear of it, and I know that will keep me safe. If you are still waiting for that person, it doesn't have to be so dark. You can only be in a relationship once you are ready to give, but you first need to fill yourself up. Maybe when you are already filled up you'll be surprised at how less you need someone else. Then you'll be ready.
Keep on keeping on. Don't compromise your peace of mind, body and soul for no one. As you can see, you don't have many thumbs up. That's okay, because too many women sell-out just to have a man. I know because I sold out when I was YOUNG! BUT GOD KEPT ME INSPITE OF MYSELF!! NOW I'm old and I spend my time encouraging young women, too guard your ❤️ HEART, mind, body and Soul. So Good for you, keep on keeping on!
You absolutely💯 percent, have the right mindset to get through life on this side of eternity. Understanding the fallen state of creation, and how 'this too' will pass. Saving yourself for HIS glorious return is enough. Seeking first the Kingdom of GOD, and HIS righteousness. You will never be thirsty. Glory!!🙌
Hope this makes sense to you: God sure gave you a lot of wisdom at a young age. You were gifted at a very young age with emotional and spiritual knowledge, God instilled a curious and knowledgeable mind in you, which drew you to the Bible to seek more knowledge. I'm in my late 50's, what you articulated is wise beyond your years, but you didn't need years of experience to learn that wisdom, God introduced it to you very early on. You're going to do so very well in life, you're blessed. You'll be a huge blessing to others. I give thanks, praise and glory to God for the works He will be doing thru you. Amen 💛🙌🕊
I'm not bashing men but I say to the young women who come into my life, if we as women allow this negative treatment of us to continue, then they will! I love men and masculinity but as a woman, I set the pace. You cannot and will not treat me as a play toy.
And you have that right. Treat people like you want to be treated and I'm pretty sure man do the same. Men and women need to do it together set the pace. If one don't agree with one pace move on.
Sobbed my heart out listening to this. Just come out if an abusive relationship.. this was so healing to me to see a man acknowledge a woman's value and humanity like this.. thank you so much pastor Blake's.. I'll be getting the father daughter talk soon too. It's very valuable work that you're doing. It really is.
Hugs...was just attacked on 1st date..after spending so much time via phone and video...guard was down...he never acted sexual doing that period...didnt see it coming. Wish i had came across this video
Yeah that's a shame that man and women have to be abusive to one another. But who was the abuser the man or the woman. Because mostly its supposed to be the man. Is it that Adam and Eve thing no one seemed to talk about. Is in the Bible, do one think the abuse started after they ate that apple. No one can't explains why this goes on. Is the healing process in the Bible.
I needed to hear this . thank you so much. I got into a relationship with a man in 2012 and this video is making me cry because it's so spot on as to what happened to me. I left the shallow man 3 years ago and I'm still wondering what the hell happened. I met a very nice man online months ago and we are going to meet up and I fear a repeat of my past. It's heartbreaking because so many woman will just jump in bed and it makes it almost impossible for those of us that won't. It's almost impossible to find a man that understands and will be patient. I'm 66 and I see men in their 80s expecting sex on a first date. UNREAL! Thank you again as I need a reminder NOT to repeat my past mistake.
Thank you so much for this information! I was a daddy's girl growing up and had him ripped from my life at the age of 17. A crucial time when a young woman begins to make decisions and choices about men. You're of words of wisdom reminded me of the talks he used to have not just with me but the other young girls and boys in our neighbourhood. With the trauma of losing him, my brother molesting me and my mother forcing me to have an abortion in order to appease the church the church we attended all within a years time; I lost my way! My heart was crushed!! I pushed that betrayal and pain down so deep that here at the age of 56 I just remembered it. I couldn't understand why I lost sight of my value. I've been an empty shell making bad decisions for so many years! But I have been on a quest to reconnect my heart. It's a hard and daunting process. But I am so grateful for the opportunity to get it right! Every morning I rise is my chance to make it better and truly learn self love before ANYTHING else. Again, thank you!
It’s 4 am and I’m watching this… Amnon, hated her exceedingly! It broke me! I can’t stop crying. I asked God to reveal to me the truth. Your teachings are God’s word to me. He is revealing it to me. It’s painful and so hurtful. Thank you Pastor. God Bless you and your knowledge. It is so very meaningful.
My Daddy use to say "Men are resposnsible for why Women do not commit" Generations of Men have set the stage for women to become so independent and Men have become an "OPTION".
@@barbarawilliamson136Exactly! My Daddy said no wonan should EVER put up with men like this 👍 We can Opt to have a Godly man in our life or be alone. Either way we can enjoy life and be content.
@@corinnenorton6746 I'm 50 years old, never been married, no kids, no secret abortions that haunt me.. I'm just now seeing my own love for myself..I won't waste time with a man who doesn't appreciate my abilities, talents..I may not have children but I am a child of God..He loves me..I will be 51✌God bless February 10..God is good.
@@corinnenorton6746 thats a lie ,go ask older woman , how they feel being by themselves without sexual value give them a semblance of being happy alone
i surrendered 4 months ago! I ghosted the man that you explained. i will not compromise my virtue from the father. I deactivated fb and ig. I feel so much better i do notice that the men that do try to talk to me within the 4 months are a different caliber meaning they want a wife not a sex partner. im in therapy to do the inner work and releasing the soul tie. i will not carry baggage from the last man i was with. thank you bishop for confirming and rebuking women in love. i receive this wisdom from a man. Men know men #moralCode period
@@niecyh2313 Ma'am, think of therapy this way, our Lord created therapist, psychiatrists, psychologists, and doctors and put them down on earth, thereby, it isn't too far-fetched or unusual to say counseling can assist in healing someone. And to be honest, I'm not keen on the possibility that only fasting and prayer or simply asking God to release you from the tie works best. But, I do know I believe in psychiatric counseling as a means to becoming a conscious woman.
@@gidgethrobowski3860 thank you so much for explaining wisdom in becoming whole! we dont discredit the power of our savior & king JESUS! this is why many are not healed especially in the black church due to ignorance and self righteousness. The holy spirit is not limited and will use doctors to manifest healing in peoples lives.
Was definitely groomed by my father to look, act, and speak in ways that is most desirable men. What a waste of time in my life attracting men who were only after the superficial stuff. I was close to 30 before I woke up and decided to vet men based on how they respond to my intellect, my dreams, and my ambitions. I led with my brain and attracted a really smart and modest man who was willing to commit to working together on building a life together.
I've been a wife for boyfriends for the past 6-7 years and its been very depressing. Father God lead me through my love life lead me to my ordained spouse and help me achieve true love 💘
You deserve exactly that!!! I do understand what you are feeling. I have been there. The only way to raise the bar is to focus on you. Drop these guys and pick yourself up! It will be so hard! But once you genuinely stop caring about these stupid guys, you will attract the right guy.
Yes I agree with you may You rec'v the lord Jesus as your savior and follow him, By reading his word, and praying and keep thanking him for guiding you to the mate for you alone. Just keep with the lord, And it will be alright. Have a blessed day.
I'm learning to not do that because by Nature unnaturally giving and I want people to feel comfortable around me so I'm learning to make a man earn it and don't let a man that's not worth it to be around me so I won't give him that type of treatment you can't be a wife to your boyfriend
Yes ms. When you have asked Christ to save you, And you pray that prayer you just texed, rest in it, Wait and keep thanking him that the man is on the way, he will show up. No playing house, it don't Work. Sex outside of marriage messes up so Many people. Men and women. God sent his son Ti heal or minds and ti show us things we didn't Know. Opening doors to Abundant life style in him.
I'm going to have to listen to this everyday until it gets roots. I needed to hear all of this. I'm going to need the daily reminder for a while. I have had no "successful" relationships with men because I don't believe in premarital sex and have never engaged in it. They get so upset that I'm not willing to let them bastardize my body. One guy actually said "you act like your body is a prize." They are so manipulative and deceiving. These men didn't care about me, so I'm glad they are gone. When I heard you say that women are "spending their time trying to be sexy when they're a genius." A very popular UA-camr makes fun of women that value their PhD. That is one of the most prestigious degrees anyone can get. That man doesn't even have a college degree I've heard. PhD women are consulting with GED men, like you said. Men try so hard to devalue women to break them down until they no longer see their value. Sometimes it works. God has protected me. He's given me discernment, but I've had some close calls. Serpents are still cunning--even to this day. Someone once told me that when you have sex, you give away a piece of yourself that you can't get back. One by one, those men chip away little pieces of you that didn't belong to them. I decided that I wanted to be able to give my whole self to the man that I marry, not the leftovers. I do view my body as a prize. I've lived life of dignity and honor. I wear a band of rubies on my hand as well to remind me of Proverbs 31:10. I'm sad that I'm alone sometimes, but I don't regret it. One day someone will see my non-sexual value like you talked about and I'm waiting for him.
Giving yourself to somebody that hasn’t established a long term commitment is a mistake. You are so correct about giving away a part of you that you can’t get back. From experience that is so true. I’d love a band of rubies. You wear on your left or right hand?
@S. mills thank you. I'm a Nigerian living in the US, so I know you're 100% right. This fake account appears under many different names in different videos, smh.
@S. mills They do that with Pastor Sean Pinder too and I added the number but I then realized they were fake. I deleted and blocked them! They had responded to me before that tho.
@@THEBLACKTOXICMASCULINIST no. And why do I have to be a virgin just cause I don't want to be intimate. Most men wanna talk and after one day their expecting and wanting sex
My discernment when it comes to the choosing of a husband and life partner is now next level. No more settling for less than I deserve, thank you so much! For this advice that I wish I had in my life much sooner. And Lisa is truly a prize, that small gesture of bringing you the water shows how good it can be when we hold out for the real thing.
@@queenk555 Thanks for the heads up sis, I knew from reading it that it was a demon. Whenever the Lord is trying to do his work, the devil will always attempt to destroy it. But we know that he is a liar and a theif, and he will find no patience or audience here. Thank you, for caring enough to let us know. Stay blessed🤗⚘
I'm in a transition in my life. And I've noticed that what he said is right that when I sleep with some of these men I'm basically losing myself and I'm losing my self-respect. This video will change my life. I promise I am not giving myself up sexually like that anymore to a man. I have so much more to me. And the only way that person will see that is I have to make them work and I can't give into any type of Temptation or pressure.
Even before high school, it’s a conversation mom AND dad should have with both male and female young adults. Unfortunately with pay pressure for youngsters to be popular young women feel that to be popular they have to give them selves to a man and some feel that the only way they can get the man is to offer their body to that man and that is something that they learn pretty much in the teenage years, and some even before the teenage years, it’s a pity a lesson like this sometimes is not learned until A woman may be in her 60s. Some men unfortunately the 70s and have not learned that yet, it’s all about chasing the skirt, and adding a notch to the belt. If somebody had told me that when I was in my 20s I might not have understood what it meant, because at that age the brain was all about sex, but by the timeI got older, (30s), I realized That my fulfillment did not come from sexual intercourse, I was more comfortable when we laughed and giggled and even kissed.....
Glory HallaluYah In Elementary 5th grade and Maybe 4th grade never too soon and Middle School In The MIGHTY NAME Of Our MELANATED RESURRECTED Living JESUS Christ NAME I Pray The Holy Spirit Of The Most High Abide In His Peoples Homes and He send His Ministering ANGELS In The Night WATCHES To Our Unrepentant Family members and Friends We Are The Chosen People Of ABBA YAH. So called African Americans.SHALOM.
@@maddybee4523 I agree 100% my son is 8 and my girls are 13 and 14. My husband and I have ALWAYS been very upfront with them about this. I do homeschool them and use Christian studies, so I'm able to bring up real life issues with them on the daily. It's a scary time to be raising kids.😥 Above anything else I just want my kids to be good caring people that look to God for answers.
Adults just need to realize they are influencing the young people in their lives. As an adult I feel responsible to set a good example. There are too many older women complaining about men to young girls. Sometimes it seems intentional. Like not wanting anyone else to take their same path and end up happy, so they encourage their neices, daughters, sisters, ect. to "live their life". As in, remain single.
a woman's worth is the million dollar question. non sexually! feminism qualities being a major value....how many women are out here exhibiting this one trait? now how many women are out there seeking to be Mrs. independent dont need no man....whats that worth to a man? bottom line is all females out there dont have a clue about what being a virtuous woman consist of. just because she's a woman dont mean she should be entitled as a queen (virtuous woman)
I think they didn’t have the patience to wait until he actually got into his message, because he was lagging and he needed to do his setup prior to recording. He he took too long.
@S. mills The only people who are being preyed upon are all these confused folk running around gratifying themselves not unlike animals. Don't worry most people have mind enough not to give away thier money. But too bad they can't be as protective of their body. Just saying!
Pastor preaching better than we're shouting! 🥰 I needed to hear this message today! Pastor's wisdom is priceless and always on time! I've been conditioned by the toxic aspects of my culture to value myself as an object. I'm healing and growing more spiritual!
My ex husband was exactly like this. I was growing and he was at a stand still in his life and I thank God for removing me out of this toxic relationship!!!
Me too, God allowed a “me too marriage & ultimately moved me right out of an unGodly house/marriage to selfish Male. Freedom came with a price with the children being impacted negatively by dissolution of marriage. Ex husband emotionally poisoned the minds of the offspring especially the first born son. Praying fervently God will remove the emotional scars from the now adult children & return the prodigal Son home to see me, the Mother. I am the Caretaker of this Males legacy. No parents do not plant seeds of discord into children at any time, especially during dissolution of a marriage. Adulterous Husband is an absolute abusive Ex-Husband forever.
Sis you keep holding on and Trusting God. He’s bigger than all what we are going through!! I asked God right now to come against the enemy right now in the name of Jesus!!! Leave that situation right where it is and watch our God move!!!
I love how you hurt me, it makes me grow. You helped me dismantle a 25yr old soul tie. I was a virgin to a woman hater you describe here. I was so nieve and in denial. Dismantling him had me see him and myself clearly. You helped me set myself FREE ❤ His brokenness, broke me more than I was already broken. When a woman really gets this her self esteem lifts through the roof, I'm flying
Zuri Gee I agree..its crazy..the guy I talked to off and on stop being interested in me for whatever reason. But oh well life goes on..I hate when these so called men play these emotional games. It's not fair and it's sick. But I don't chase I keep it moving.
@@patrickmulopo7957 no I would not. He didn't play hard to get in the beginning. It's been to long now haven't seen him in over a month after 8mos of lies and fakeness. No telling who he's been with plus he broke my heart. I give up I'm not giving him no challenge either obviously he's getting that from another woman. Fuck him.
This should be required viewing for all couples before marriage as well as something parents should share with their children...both boys and girls...as they mature and begin dating and forming relationships. This is pure gold Pastor, what you are doing on this platform is pure gold. Thank you! I am blessed by this message as I have been by many others.
I think many of these men already know what they're suppose to do and how to behave towards women. I can't believe that there are that many completely naive men walking around short circuited like that. They just simply don't feel the need to put forth the effort b/c they can so easily get what they want without even breaking a sweat.. Way too many willing female workers making it far too easy for them; liken to those old blue lite special sales/bargain store basements where and if they can't find a bargain then and only then will they be willing to go up on another level and pay a fair price. Not all men out there but far more than what we think very well know better than what we see them doing!!
@RC Blakes Jr Haa, I just know you're not talking to me about some old hoodoo/voodoo whatever mess you saw in a mirror!! The devils spawn!!! key word here ladies ( NIGERIA ) Some of the most treacherous, notorious scammers to suck breath!!! Keep your money in your pocket Sistas!!!
I’m only 12 minutes in but you speak 🗣 TRUTH sir! I think one of the most heart breaking things is to play the role of a wife without actually being a wife ......ONLY to see him marry 💍 someone else and toss you aside like day old stale bread. Ladies, save yourself the trouble and keep your soul intact! Giving men pieces of you only leaves you broken and empty. You will never be whole if you allow everyone and anyone to have a “piece of you” literally.
This same thing happened to my charge nurse, she was with a mn for sometime, they was supposed to get married, date set, dress bought the whole thing, they ended up breaking up he dated someone else and ended up marrying the lady on the other woman wedding date. She came to work devastated. Talk about low down and dirty..... Just sad, you gotta be smart with these guys, know that your the chips, and the pop The Whole package ❤️✝️❤️💞🙂
@@denisechilds2391 My Lord in Heaven....I'm truly sorry to hear this of your charge nurse associate. Please tell her (from me) that she is God's favorable heir and her blessings are still in store for her to receive of marriage and all other parts of her life. Thank you for sharing this story to help us but may she be always uplifted to stay encouraged.
@@nicolegreene2208 I certainly will do, pleas keep her in your prayers, we talking about a good 75/80 thousand dollar wedding, and this man did that to her to the point where she was Soooo depressed, and we all know that leads to other dark things,. But I will definitely tell her
I am so happy I just discovered your videos. This video about the non-sexual value of women made me feel my importance for the first time in my life and I am now a senior woman. I knew only verbal abuse from a man and had given up hope of there being good, truly Godly men out there for my daughters and granddaughters. We need to clone you! May God bless you immensely!!! I am so happy I found you.
It becomes a crossroad for many women where you have to be ok with embracing singlehood & recognizing based on the lack of standards many men have, that you very well may be alone for a long time. However, be conscious of how you define being alone. It does not have to consist of sadness or a be bad thing. Being single has allowed me to define much of the greatness within me (the journey continues). When you give yourself a break from the "norm" of society as it relates to dating, you will learn a lot about yourself, increase your standards, and become comfortable with who God created you to be. We as ladies must truly walk in the very essence God created in us as women.
I remember as teenage when I learned that hard truth about how man look and value women buy what they can get and use her sexualy it literally crushed my soul because I was so hurt and disappointed so I just cried and very down for while and after that just lost complete interest in man and just didn't want them to even look at me.
"The woman is built to respond to the man ...and whatever seed the man provides, the woman will incubate it and give him a harvest" - Such powerful words, so if we generally are responding to men, no wonder when we still act in our masculine with certain men, it's because of what they put out. Essentially as Pastor Blakes said " A conscious man will allow and cause a woman to act in her natural feminine self because he is acting in his masculine the way God made him to. Amen to this word!
This is great! This is the type of stuff I tell my husband I want him to explain to our daughter because many dads are not explaining these things to their girls.
Thank you for this message!!! I get thoroughly offended by men who are too shallow to swim in my ocean! I was settling for the foolishness for too long. I’m no longer devaluing myself by settling and continuing to play the game.
Thank you once again for setting us right! We need to hear this and change how we do things! Narcissists will hate you but use you for sex. Awful people!
I swear i never get tired of learning from this pastor he just continously blesses me, every time im weary or feel lost or confused this brother shows up with a word to lift me up and my mind back on track❤
As a person who does not subscribe to organized religion personally, I support and love this message. I only make the disclaimer so that people who aren’t religious can let go of their judgements of religion to listen to love and truth. Thank you for this.
Thank you for this. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been brushed aside by many guys because I wouldn’t lay down. I felt ugly and undesirable. I then learned that it was just trash taking itself out. Also, I have always felt like women gave it up way too easy but I didn’t feel like I could say anything because of society. I felt as though I was in the wrong for having the self respect. This empowers me to continue on my path. Thank you so much.
I'm so glad to hear and know truth. If we don't get this word today something is not right. We as women are a gift from God. None of us need to sleep with a man to give us temporary satisfaction. No way. Sisters and my brothers as well do not waste your life.
It's hard to get a man when you have high standards because they go for the ones that are easier and then they get mad that they're not treated well. It's just a cycle that just continues around and around, if all women just wouldn't give it up and expect High output from the man then we would all have a better time
I was the only girl born in a family of men, brothers, uncles, their friends, and oh boy when I hear them speak on the things women put up with to be with them it is ridiculous. After seeing the treatment they gave women, I quickly became afraid of men. I know not all men are bad, but too many men enable and encourage other men to behave badly. I also despair at the women with such low self esteem to put up with so much nonsense
You don’t need to be afraid. What I learned about men like this is they don’t have the guts to approach women with high self esteem. They prey on easy targets because they are very insecure. As long as you show men you know your worth the bad ones won’t even try because they don’t know how to handle real women lol
Don’t be afraid. Take it to God. God can give you a good man that’s suited for you. A Godly man that will care take of you like Jesus takes care of us. ❤️
So many gems 💎 in this one!! If I could narrow it down to 3 points that hit me the most, I’d say.. 1. If men want to measure their manhood beyond how they can put it down in the bedroom, just take a look 👀 at your woman. Is she healthy inside and out, walking with a good amount of self esteem and confidence? She is reflecting your treatment and care. 2. Women can be a man’s greatest asset and his ultimate resting place if the man is willing and able to tap into her innermost qualities and value her beyond just wanting sex. When she feels safe, loved, seen, respected and heard, it allows her to naturally put her guards down and exude more of her natural beauty and femininity- making her a place of shalom for her man. 3. The right woman can be a multiplier for a man’s vision. If he sees her with the right perspective he won’t compete with her. He will appreciate the grace that’s on her life and feel extremely blessed that she was literally created to pour all of that genius onto his dreams and goals. Wheww all I can say is Yah blessed me with a beautiful righteous soul named Joseph on 2-17-23 and life hasn’t been the same! We BOTH have been watching RC Blake’s videos and getting great insight, wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I personally look at RC as a spiritual father figure since my dad wasn’t there for me and I had very few positive experiences with men in general in my youth. I’ve done a lot of my own healing ❤️🩹 work over the years and spent time getting to know myself and how much I was loved by the Father ABOVE. It was lonely at first but years and years later I am in a better place in life than ever and was open to receive the best possible love relationship with a man which is rooted in Yah (God) and founded on friendship first. He was willing to wait until we were in a divine covenant (marriage) until making love, and even after becoming one says he will go at my pace. Ladies and gentlemen, good WOMEN AND MEN still exist when you rewind ⏪ slow down and start to do things the way the Heavenly Father prescribed from the beginning. Again, thanks 🙏🏽 RC Blake’s for the ABSOLUTELY INSPIRING, AND INFORMATIVE CONTENT 💯🙌🏽💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
You were so happy when she brought you water. Lol, so cute! Always appreciate the little things from your partner and you'll get so much more in return!!
Thank you for this! I am 54 and somewhere between getting divorced and online dating the last 10 years it is hard to believe my value and worth. I do seem to be the woman who is not dating much and still single. I liked hearing that the man who deserves me is out there but might take more discerning. Thank you!
This is a great message that I plan to share with my daughter. On the other hand, there needs to be a message for the men. Women need to understand the distruction they can cause if they are selfish. There is no "Rest" in the home is she has issues. Even if the man provides an environment of trust and honor, if she does not "respect" men then she continues to tear down that good man that she is with.
Wow! This just puts a whole new perspective on the way relationships work. Thank you , I am a Gen x and can see how the relationships has deteriorated over the years from the 80's up to the present. We as women need to value ourselves and teach our boys and girls to have self respect and learn virtues from the bible ( Quran) in my case and or the Torah. Loved reading Proverbs as a child and still do. You and your wife set a very beautiful example of how a husband and wife should be towards each other.
This topic is very important. Thank you for posting. I totally understand. Before I even understood what a narc was I experienced this behavior. I picked up on it quickly and knew it was wrong... because I was adapted to being raised with respect and I was conditioned to the male figures in my life treating women with respect. My first time encounter with this behavior was scary and unbelievable. This narcissistic male went against everything that make spending time with someone of interest beautiful. The funny thing is males like this expect you to stay and be isolated and blind to their abuse. The guy was deeply conditioned from his upbringing and he treated all women poorly. He disguised himself very well but hated any woman who challenged him or expected more. I wasn’t born broken. But I experienced brokenness and males like this will be attracted to your brokenness and try and deceive and use you.
A nice thought but I am afraid thet you may have to change your approach. Childern have the right to a broad base education in religion so they can later on decide what suits them or not. The love of Christ or the fear of God confuses me and I think a child as well. We also have to teach our children about the other side of religion, it is by far the main reason for wars, killing, subdue women Priests and little boys, the list goes on. We have to make our childern aware of that side also.
Pastor when we lead with our brains we are labeled as too independent. Many men don't want a woman who is demonstrably smarter than them or more successful; they feel threatened. As a well educated entrepreneur I usually leave a lot of those details out. I find that many men are more concerned with if I can cook more than how I might be able to help him fulfill his purpose or build a legacy.
Talking to the wrong men. Stop entertaining clowns. Discernment, don’t leave home without. Your King will appreciate the Proverb 31 woman that you are. Shalom.
I needed to hear all of this. I thank God for you. My father unfortunately never shared this wisdom with me and that led me to great heartbreak and I grew up in the baptism church. In being exposed to your spirit and message, I'm confident if I keep hearing and holding this wisdom close to my mind and heart I won't be lost anymore. I feel it in my spirit and it gives me great joy and peace. Thank you, thank you, thank you😭🙏🏽
Thanks Rev, at 56 yrs old, I have finally surrendered to the fact that I AM THE PRIZE under God's vision, and have stopped looking for a man. I rest in the peace that HE , the Divine Soul Partner that God has crafted , will come and FIND ME when the time is right. thanks again for the awareness and insight, much love--Colleen
Bishop this is so true. I been a victim of this in the past! I’m Greatful for this platform. Your platform helped me heal from it! I didn’t realize I had a soul tie with him. I’m Greatful a church mother told me I did one day after she prayed for me. Continue to pray for me and all our Queens 👸🏽 who has been tricked abused by these men .
" A man must first provide an environment where his woman can experience trust and honor:" I really wish more men understood this
And visa versa
Candace Casey
I wish women knew not to accept anything less than this.
@@lydiadevries8408 Yes of course it should never be one sided. However, the need to mention it is less needed in regards to the female human, in my opinion. I feel so sad for young men and the older 40 year olds. Males are way more targeted, it's so bad. I see so many different mother's, daughters, sisters, wives being treated with such disrespect and relentless, devaluation, for no reason other then the man/males, delusional perspectives,( inregards to what they have as a belief of or in), as to what a women represents or how the think.
Problem is the information that is now in their minds, all that they get this information from with nothing else to really compare these things about female characters to has delusional views about what women really are or how they actually feel and think. Porn always has dishonesty, cheating and lies from female to Male and some shady kind of actions by women. Everything is always all about cheating on TV, in movies... even on the radio and music video's. It's so annoying because in reality women are actually nothing like this. However, it because a virus so to speak... eventually once you have been constantly treated as such eventually you become what you are treated as or deal with being treated with disrespect and constantly fighting your way through it. Men need to look around them and see how they keep loosening their dignity, all the chances of having real authentic relationships and to know what real love and being proud feels like.
Do the Chads and Tyrones provide an environment where his woman can experience trust and honor??? Women seems to love those types...
@@zoeboy2766 Some women, but not all women like these types.
The woman comes with assets:
1- She's a partner
2- She brings rest to his life
3- She's the multiplier
4- She's the reflection of his manhood
5- She's the man chief intercessor
6- She's the caretaker of his legacy
7- She's the prize! 🎉
Absolutely sis!! I will add 'The CORRECT women' So many men HATE women because they were hurt by soulless women who THEY chose in the FLESH....
Thank you so much for writing the points down
These 7 assets is so true.,but some man just don't know how to appreciate a woman with these values. Some men like my kids dad think he's the prize among other things
Responsibilities not assets.
@@kizzyrock 99.9% of men choose in the flesh first and foremost as their first critera. Don't come and whine because you chose wrong in the place by being superficial in your choosing I would say to them.
I watched my dad treat my mom well. She was a classy woman. She was confident had 7 children. We growing up never worried about money or security. I felt safe growing up with them together. I miss them both very much. May they rest in peace.
Continue to Honor, your parents even NOW!
You are truly blessed :-)
Truly blessed. I hunger, even now, at age 61, for that kind of first-hand witness of what marriage looks like. You have a great template to start with.
This is beautiful. Not everyone has this❤
Same 😭😭😭
Ladies: We don't need to audition in the kitchen or the bedroom. A man will know within 1 year if you're his wife and you should know as well if you have a relationship with God and discern his spirit. Don't just rely on him to tell you that. You should have your own relationship with God. You should know who you are.
Amen.
Well said.!
Hello sister Queen K I have question for you this pastor RC Blake's is he legit or are you saying he's a scammer. Because I'm not quite understanding your point I don't want to give him thumbs up when possibly I should be giving him thumbs down and praying for him. Post your answer please.
@@johnclement8913 someone hacked his account.
I was going to send him some money, but did I reached the foundation on the internet and I realized they were a fraud.
My dad always talked to me about men & how they really think, feel & behave. I was well schooled & warned about this as a young girl & teenager. His advice rang so true with a lot of guys I dated when I was younger. I was spared of some heartache along the way. Now I am happily married to a decent man, a gentleman who truely sees my worth, we will be married 24 years in October. I lost my dear dad in 2017. RC Blakes keep preaching! 🙏🏻💕
You and I share the same kind of dad.
Blessings and congratulations on your marriage. You are lucky to have had a good resource for life's lessons. I didn't have any family instruction from either parent. I wasn't a bad child/private schooling etc.. my father was absent and my mother did not speak on any issue (very passive). I made my own decisions. Too often, mistakes were costly leading to physical and mental abuse in relationships. I'm not married but hopefully he finds me.
@@chocolaza❤
@@juanitaeverett9100he will! You just have to know and believe he'll show up.
@kilaa3417, no.
“The condition of a mans woman (emotionally, physically, spiritually) under his CARE , is the measure of his manhood” 🙌🏽
Wow...so true. She is a reflection of him.
Can we make this a meme
“The condition of a man’s woman (emotionally, physically, spiritually) under his care is the measure of his manhood” 🙏❤️😇👥💌 love this statement!
MY GOD THAT IS A WORD!!!!!!!
Love this statement, very powerful 👍🏿👍🏿👏🏾👏🏾
I’m 74 years old and how I wish you had been my father to give me this precious valuable information 👍🏻😢!
So do I!
Just so sad how no one talks to us women about men/relationships etc. You are not alone..
Hey Ms Sandra, please don't give up. My grandma got married for the first time at the age of 78. We now have a whole new bonus family. My Grandma is my hero. She stays at the gym, has the best fashion sense and is healthy and whole. Don't give up Ms Sandra. Stay loving on you. My grandma met her husband whilst joining a travel club!
@@munix9351 That is wonderful. It goes to show that we as women should never settle. A man is easy to get. But a good man is hard to find. There are so many women is unhappy, unhealthy relationships. Never ever settle. Your grandma is an amazing woman.😍😁
A demon has hacked RC Jr's account. Do not fall for the fake prophesy above. Be blessed!
Im a wife. Im a lady and my dads only daughter and i have always felt powerful in not giving out and knowing i can walk in a room knowing not a man in sight has Had the pleasure of me.
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Amen!!!
Me too! Love it!
Bars
Yeeeesss females like this are rare ....the rest lost count to... many bodies
As a man I’m gonna break it down. We need fathers like this to educate and lead us by example and enlightenment. I was a hard working successful professional man. But I didn’t have a spiritual education until I was adopted into a men’s ministry that educated me to think like this. This Pastor broke it down. This is the best sermon I’ve heard in some time.
For you to even understand that a father such as Dr.Blake is the missing spiritual guide or connecting to a men's ministry guidance is NEEDED to embody a Godly man's character That's a beautiful thing.
That's right, Without proper teaching the people perish
He’s a blessing to this Earth 🌍
Thank you Greg 🙏🏽
I am re-watching this as a reminder for women to value themselves so men can value us , but most importantly love ourselves so we are not just looked at as objects. Thank you Pastor for your teachings. ❤
Love to see men joining in ❤
I been celibate 2 years. And havent met 1 man that sees more than sexual value. I gest at least being alone is better than being used.
So true these men are not worried about that.
All day. Alone is it with God and being PURE in his sight
Absolutely so true
I'm in your boat.. it's heartbreaking
Don't guess, KNOW it. So many women have put such a negative stigma on not being married. As if it is always something wrong with them as to why they can't get or keep a man. I'm honestly believe that our younger women may truly have to entertain the idea of never being married, unless they are okay with being devalued. The "manosphere" message is spreading rapidly (Kevin Samuels.) More and more men will start to treat women as if he is doing her a huge favor by being in her life. So she just better put up and shut up.
I have been married twice and widowed twice. After my 2nd wife died a group of male friends were expressing their condolences (sometime after her passing) and they asked what I missed most in the "cacophony of silence" that my home had become. I shot back and answered that "I miss having the female perspective and point of view in my life." Collectively they looked at me like I was nuts and one even said, "Really? Are you serious?" Yeah, I am. When my 2nd wife died we had 20 minutes together to say our good-byes. She was at peace; we held hands; her final words to me were "thank you for all you have taught me." She could not possibly have said anything more meaningful.
😮 😢
You seem to be an amazing person 🥺
@@min5899 I've been called a lot of things...but that's not one of them. Thank you.
She were not your wife.
@@jbbevanshe were not your wife Brother, read the scriptures, not as u want it but as God designed it.
Here's a nugget: Men will be nice and when they see they can't get you they will be mean to you. They don't have time for you.
Very true! Turn them down sexually and watch the tone change
Experienced this with my next door neighbor we were both single just doing the neighborly chit chat and then he wanted get too close and jump in bed. When he realized I’m not that woman he stopped chit chatting with me and I’ve seen several women at his home over night none steady in the 6 years I’ve been next door. SMH obviously if he can’t keep a steady women raises my eyebrows, he still cuts my grass for free though…
That is what I call a blessing.
That's because he's not the one!
That's not a real man.
My husband asked me to marry him after 6 months. Every man I have ever been close to has asked me to marry them either 6 months in or before. I guess I have wife material stamped on my forehead lol. But I knew he was the one. When he hugs me, all of my stress fades away. We complete one another. Thank you Most High!
Well congratulations I'm glad that you found someone. So y'all can be great for each other.
I am truly happy for you. It gives me hope. Even tho I am middle aged now. maybe I will still have that experience. I was not so lucky. 35 years of marriage and I am anything but safe. !
Adrienne Matthews, it is so nice to hear the way you feel when you’re hugged...truly beautiful!
So glad for you...❤️
That's good for you
This is beautiful 🤍
It’s definitely not deep when a man tries to sleep with you, especially on the first night or just right away... When they talk about sex or make a comment about my body, I run away real quick.. I’m offended. I’m done.
That makes two of us!!!! AMEN
Me too. who wants to be seen as just a piece of meat!?
AMEN to that! I desperately needed to read your post, it’s so encouraging I thought I was alone. In a nut shell. Thank you!
Many blessings! 🙏❤️
I am also very offended when a man talks about sex in my presence. Especially if we ain't sleeping together. Sex talk should be private talk between lovers.
Wow if a man don't give you a compliment he's not manly. Now he's in the friend zone I guess he won't be hitting that.
"A man can have strong sexual attraction to a woman, and hate her at the same time." Amen.
Know and understand your value. Good word Pastor #RCBlackes!
Definitely been there
men that i meet don't care nothing about that., I met one from California a few years ago, who is a friend of a relative of mines. He said a lot of demeaning and belittling things to me and he didn't know me. I knew then he wasn't the one. It was like he was trying to make me feel low and insecure. I don't deal with the stupidity. I just date when I can and if they are not the one or they think i'm not the one we just don't go on another date. which is about twice a year. It's funny because later on they realize I'm not some old chicken head and when I do see them again they have egg on their face.
Wow!
This is very true. Especially if you won’t give it up. His desire for you increases yet so does his resentment. Experienced this first hand 🥹😅
So can a woman
The unfortunate part is that there are men out there that meet women who could be their wives, but they lack the patience to wait until marriage for sex. They end up frustrating themselves in the process and wonder why they can only find women who want them for their money or their status and do not respect them otherwise. A woman who doesn’t know how to respect herself/her body will not know how to respect her husband (inside and outside of the home). I see it everyday.
And those same men try so hard to keep their "disrespectful compromised Prize"! Then when they Have to give up, they try and clump all of in the "all women ain't no good" category. These men choose poorly and position themselves badly. So sad
No lies detected. 🤨🤔
That is so true
Then he is not good enough for you. When you get to the point of looking at it this way. Why do you want a man who has whored around like a ally cat 🐈 ? I sure as heck do not want that.
Sex is a giving of yourself and if he is defiling himself with everyone in town. He is not of clean heart, mind or soul.
Just how I see things.
@@donnalangley117 I so agree. There is no telling what kind of soul ties or sexual debris you will have visited upon you dealing with some of these men. The reward just may not be worth the risk 🙏
A man can love a woman sexually and hate her at the same time is Soo true.
So True. Alot of men only want sex tho
This is 100% a fact.
Ladies shut it down.
That's crazy smh
I felt that when he said that
I could not understand the desire (not love) and hate being in one...until NOW... Im going to rewatch this... so powerful
Celibacy is power. I see unhappy women who gave into a man early on and are not treated well. I will always be treated well, either alone towards myself or with my wonderful husband I haven’t met yet. I am a Priestess! So are all the women here.
Same here. I'm well over fifty and haven't even dated in years. No longer looking because I've not been shown anything by a man yet.
He don't deserve even CASUAL interaction if he only sees me as a sex doll
Right????
Yep
Agreed. If you dress , speak, n walk and act to attract like a doll dont be offended if he treats you like one.
@@warrencampbell8240 I would have to disagree. A lot of these so called men still play games to get what they want. Now a days it really doesn't matter how you carry yourself. Trust me I'm a witness
@@tashaequeen8935 I agree totally... and like all games both men and women know the overt and covert "rules".... and choosing your behaviour to get the result you want is part of this.
Yes. Value yourself women! I recently heard a man say, "sex is everywhere, I can get that anytime".
@Koqui Onefourteen wow well said! It's the truth. Sneaky asses..🙆🏽
Several years and you even get to spend more time on your application to make you feel like you have to be
Do I need 647 677 7043
@Koqui Onefourteen well said
But can he get the sex anytime. Probably not. But why can you get the sex anytime. Ladies are so hot no man will say no. But these days are little bit different. Do women value themselves towards other women as far as sex goes. Since men depreciate women far as sex goes. How do God feel about this . Oh this is not wrong in God eyes thank you Lord and my savior
i wondered why some men don’t have these conversations with their daughters. but sometimes the father themselves are also misogynist.
A king will instinctively know how to control his hormones for his queen 👑
A lust driven BOY will never understand this concept. I’ve had SEVERAL conversations with elders & couples married 20 - 40 + yrs & the one thing they all had in common was patience and RESPECT. She was his PRIZE 🙏🏽
Well said👍🏻🙏
A+
👀 lol
Who wants to hear a funny, odd story about teen boys...
Well. . . my 2 daughters met boys in middle & high school....the boys fell hard, & they never pushed for the physical. . . they stayed nearby for chances to hang out, they gave tokens of appreciation,
I was floored ‼️
I worried so much about teen boys....l guess maybe they had not yet lost their innocence of real romantic notions....
Errr l wonder where they are now...girls are 27 & 30......LOL
A demon has hacked RC Jr's account. Do not fall for the fake prophesy above. Be blessed!
This is exactly what a lot of people don't understand intimacy is a spiritual thing especially for believers
We were not created to be " sex objects " that is not how God defines love.
You are right. See new comment about Proverbs 31 above
Baby ..ITS SPIRITUAL...EITHER WAY..wonder IF THATS WHPsalm 37:8-9
8 Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret-it leads only to evil. 9 For those who are evil will be destroyed, but those who hope in the LORD will inherit the land.Y..IT SAYS...IF YOU HAVE THE THOUGHT..YOU HAVE ALREADY...DONE.... SOMETHING..
Sex is a part of love. And you can make love with some one you not married to. People want to put marriage on a pedestal it just don't work for a lot of people. Facts
@@mmason2754 I actually cannot have sex with someone that I am not married to because I desire to please God not man it sounds to me like you are just a man who wants to justify sin. The bible condemns fornication for a reason. You can also love someone and NOT have sex with them if you know how to possess your own vessel in sanctification and honor. I have had sex with one man, my husband and I have absolutely no regrets for that decision. I was the girl in my friends group who dried the tears of other women who felt " used " by men that claimed to love them. The ideas that you are presenting are a worldly paradigm and not at all scriptural God designed sex for the marriage covenant only because it is a physical representation of the holy trinity it is a sacred union. The bible is very clear that the Christian body is the temple of the holy spirit and that temple is NOT to be defiled with casual sex. Period.
@@mmason2754 marriage btw is not a " business arrangement" if you are looking for it to " work for you" rather than committing to the idea that you are meant to work towards the Goal of functioning as a team as husband and wife you are already approaching marriage from the wrong spirit. Real love is not about what you can get out of it. Love elevates you and it makes you willing to put your own neck on the line for the sake of your beloved. If you have not experienced that you have absolutely no right to supposedly school me or anyone else on " love" sexual desire ie lust is not love. Lust is simply an itch that you want to have scratched. If you can claim to love someone but have no desire to wake up next to them every morning then you have no clue what love actually is because love doesn't use you and then discard you. That is selfish desire not love. True love is selfless sacrificial and giving and no man's love could ever compare to God s love.
"The Woman is Built to respond to the Man"....thank you so much for that enlightenment. Seeds of distrust, dishonor and insecurities is all I have ever known from men. This is why I continue to be happily single as I know my worth and what it requires for me to commit. I REFUSE to waste my time with someone who does not have this level of awareness. Super hard to find......
This will go right over the average man's head.
Yes!
True!!!!
Facts
A demon has hacked RC Jr's account. Do not fall for the fake prophesy above. Be blessed!
Lol. Maybe.
I am 61 and should have been married but because nobody talks like this i just had wasted time thank you but i am still dreaming before the lord comes
Good for you. Keep true to you xxxx
@@PlaywithDaisy waou your story is so relevant.
Never settle.. it’s never to late.
@@pjSoCal23 Thank you
A demon has hacked RC Jr's account. Do not fall for the fake prophesy above. Look at the other popular comments to see the same post. Be blessed!
The woman is the prize... did it for me! Only a real man recognize this 🙏🏽💪🏽❤🖤
A man must provide his woman with trust & honor.
More men need to hear this message!
Chris Coleman
More WOMEN need to close their legs & mouth Why just focus blame on the men SMH
I’m 21 year old kid living in newyork . I resonate with your message big brother . I appreciate the knowledge. Going thru enlightenment at the moment and I’’m grateful to come upon this wonderful message .
She’s the prize . I like that
Congratulations. You're are getting the real deal. Please send this video to yourself and save it so you can listen over and over again. You may get a player who will try to charm you. Just smile and remember you are ahead of his game. Love you my precious Queen.
A quick testimony; I met a man who was only interested in if I could cook and what I could cook. I had the same feeling that he was just looking to fulfil the lusts of his flesh. It really upset me that he had no desire to discover who I was and I ended things with him.
If we are to "train up a child in the way they should go", then why aren't we putting this much passion into raising our boys to be godly boys, adolescents and young men as we do our girls . We continually lower the bar for boys. We say "boys will be boys, that's how men are, he's a guy". This provides excuses to all bad behavior without accountability. We let an ungodly, unholy society raise and train our boy children and then we are shocked by the demonic behavior.
It is easier to build strong children than FIX broken men.
Well said Wanda 👍💖
You can raise your sons with morals and prepare them to be Godly husbands, leaders but women are throwing themselves at men. If a man is not into free sex he's viewed in a negative light.
👏👏👏👏
Clearly Wanda doesn't have boys. 😆
Checkmate!
I feel like I've been the right thing to the wrong men!! I didnt know a lot of this because I had no teacher or example! But NOW that I know, I feel like I've discovered Gold!
Good for you!!
@@angelamiller2105
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This is why black men need to be in the homes.
Me also. Had no father to teach me, and mom was too busy drinking. So tragic. Thank God for men like this who tell the truth.
You were attracted to those men, and routinely rejected the men that wanted to honor you. The reason you kept attracting the same guys over and over is your womb has been imprinted with the energy of those kind of men.
I am 20 and I have never been romantically involved with anyone. Going through the teenage years was filled with girlfriends getting their heart broken all the time. I started reading the Bible when I was 10 and it has helped me with everything. To learn that the heart is wicked and feelings dont tell you the truth and that many people dont know what love is or even how to truly give it away. The "hardest" part is people thinking that I am sad or ashamed or that I have some bad view of men, which is not the case. But you see, many times the adults that worry about me love life are married....but not exactly happy. I am thankful for their worries about me. But I have so much peace inside. Our Father says that celibacy is a gift not everyone seeks (or even tries to understand) God gives you a sense of confidence and satisfaction that frees you from the preassures of society. I feel so complete that my version of my best life is staying this way forever. Now, if in the future a pure and rightious offer comes, maybe I'll think about it. But if it never comes my way, the joy remains in me. I am aware that marriage is serious and is not always easy. I have a respectful fear of it, and I know that will keep me safe. If you are still waiting for that person, it doesn't have to be so dark. You can only be in a relationship once you are ready to give, but you first need to fill yourself up. Maybe when you are already filled up you'll be surprised at how less you need someone else. Then you'll be ready.
Keep on keeping on. Don't compromise your peace of mind, body and soul for no one. As you can see, you don't have many thumbs up. That's okay, because too many women sell-out just to have a man. I know because I sold out when I was YOUNG! BUT GOD KEPT ME INSPITE OF MYSELF!! NOW I'm old and I spend my time encouraging young women, too guard your ❤️ HEART, mind, body and Soul. So Good for you, keep on keeping on!
You are wise beyond your years! What a gift from God. May He keep you always!
Amen! Maintain your values. Stay focused on God. Keep your Peace ✌️.
You absolutely💯 percent, have the right mindset to get through life on this side of eternity. Understanding the fallen state of creation, and how 'this too' will pass. Saving yourself for HIS glorious return is enough. Seeking first the Kingdom of GOD, and HIS righteousness. You will never be thirsty. Glory!!🙌
Hope this makes sense to you:
God sure gave you a lot of wisdom at a young age. You were gifted at a very young age with emotional and spiritual knowledge, God instilled a curious and knowledgeable mind in you, which drew you to the Bible to seek more knowledge.
I'm in my late 50's, what you articulated is wise beyond your years, but you didn't need years of experience to learn that wisdom, God introduced it to you very early on.
You're going to do so very well in life, you're blessed. You'll be a huge blessing to others. I give thanks, praise and glory to God for the works He will be doing thru you. Amen 💛🙌🕊
I'm not bashing men but I say to the young women who come into my life, if we as women allow this negative treatment of us to continue, then they will! I love men and masculinity but as a woman, I set the pace. You cannot and will not treat me as a play toy.
Correct. A woman teaches a man how to treat her.
And you have that right. Treat people like you want to be treated and I'm pretty sure man do the same. Men and women need to do it together set the pace. If one don't agree with one pace move on.
Sobbed my heart out listening to this. Just come out if an abusive relationship.. this was so healing to me to see a man acknowledge a woman's value and humanity like this.. thank you so much pastor Blake's.. I'll be getting the father daughter talk soon too. It's very valuable work that you're doing. It really is.
Sorry to hear that. I pray you are healing and loving yourself more and more everyday. 💕🙏🏼
Hugs...was just attacked on 1st date..after spending so much time via phone and video...guard was down...he never acted sexual doing that period...didnt see it coming. Wish i had came across this video
@@Mssummer362008 oh dear, I'm so sorry to hear this. Wishing the very best healing energy for you. 😌😌
Yeah that's a shame that man and women have to be abusive to one another. But who was the abuser the man or the woman. Because mostly its supposed to be the man. Is it that Adam and Eve thing no one seemed to talk about. Is in the Bible, do one think the abuse started after they ate that apple. No one can't explains why this goes on. Is the healing process in the Bible.
Y'all women has not been taught the right way that's all that is. I'm praying for you and yours and all women across the world.
I needed to hear this . thank you so much. I got into a relationship with a man in 2012 and this video is making me cry because it's so spot on as to what happened to me. I left the shallow man 3 years ago and I'm still wondering what the hell happened. I met a very nice man online months ago and we are going to meet up and I fear a repeat of my past. It's heartbreaking because so many woman will just jump in bed and it makes it almost impossible for those of us that won't. It's almost impossible to find a man that understands and will be patient. I'm 66 and I see men in their 80s expecting sex on a first date. UNREAL! Thank you again as I need a reminder NOT to repeat my past mistake.
I'm speachless... a man in his 80s acting just like a 12 years old boy.
I’m patiently waiting on my whole healthy Godly man, until then I’ll be working on myself to be a healthy woman.✨🙏🏾.
EVERY WOMAN IN THE WORLD NEEDS THIS WORD AND MAN TOO
Thank you so much for this information! I was a daddy's girl growing up and had him ripped from my life at the age of 17. A crucial time when a young woman begins to make decisions and choices about men. You're of words of wisdom reminded me of the talks he used to have not just with me but the other young girls and boys in our neighbourhood. With the trauma of losing him, my brother molesting me and my mother forcing me to have an abortion in order to appease the church the church we attended all within a years time; I lost my way! My heart was crushed!! I pushed that betrayal and pain down so deep that here at the age of 56 I just remembered it. I couldn't understand why I lost sight of my value. I've been an empty shell making bad decisions for so many years! But I have been on a quest to reconnect my heart. It's a hard and daunting process. But I am so grateful for the opportunity to get it right! Every morning I rise is my chance to make it better and truly learn self love before ANYTHING else. Again, thank you!
You've blessed my heart with your strength! May God continue to shine the light you graciously share! Blessings!🙏🌟🌞🌄
THIS HAS TO BE THE SMARTEST MAN ON THIS EARTH!!! I SAY AMEN AMEN!!
I wish I’d been taught this as a young woman before I began dating intentionally
It’s 4 am and I’m watching this… Amnon, hated her exceedingly! It broke me! I can’t stop crying. I asked God to reveal to me the truth. Your teachings are God’s word to me. He is revealing it to me. It’s painful and so hurtful. Thank you Pastor. God Bless you and your knowledge. It is so very meaningful.
My Daddy use to say "Men are resposnsible for why Women do not commit" Generations of Men have set the stage for women to become so independent and Men have become an "OPTION".
Option?? the men act like chores, good women just don't want the nutty behavior, that they show us..
@@barbarawilliamson136Exactly! My Daddy said no wonan should EVER put up with men like this 👍 We can Opt to have a Godly man in our life or be alone. Either way we can enjoy life and be content.
@@corinnenorton6746 I'm 50 years old, never been married, no kids, no secret abortions that haunt me.. I'm just now seeing my own love for myself..I won't waste time with a man who doesn't appreciate my abilities, talents..I may not have children but I am a child of God..He loves me..I will be 51✌God bless February 10..God is good.
@@corinnenorton6746 thats a lie ,go ask older woman , how they feel being by themselves without sexual value give them a semblance of being happy alone
@@mamadytraore5797 I am an older woman 👍 I want VALUE.. not sexual value from a man. Waiting on my KING.
i surrendered 4 months ago! I ghosted the man that you explained. i will not compromise my virtue from the father. I deactivated fb and ig. I feel so much better i do notice that the men that do try to talk to me within the 4 months are a different caliber meaning they want a wife not a sex partner. im in therapy to do the inner work and releasing the soul tie. i will not carry baggage from the last man i was with. thank you bishop for confirming and rebuking women in love. i receive this wisdom from a man. Men know men #moralCode period
Therapy doesn’t bring healing only Jesus. Breaking a soul tie requires fasting and praying!
@@niecyh2313
Ma'am, think of therapy this way, our Lord created therapist, psychiatrists, psychologists, and doctors and put them down on earth, thereby, it isn't too far-fetched or unusual to say counseling can assist in healing someone. And to be honest, I'm not keen on the possibility that only fasting and prayer or simply asking God to release you from the tie works best. But, I do know I believe in psychiatric counseling as a means to becoming a conscious woman.
@@gidgethrobowski3860 thank you so much for explaining wisdom in becoming whole! we dont discredit the power of our savior & king JESUS! this is why many are not healed especially in the black church due to ignorance and self righteousness. The holy spirit is not limited and will use doctors to manifest healing in peoples lives.
Amen keep going
Proud of you queen!!! Keep us updated on your growth. We are rooting and supporting your success!!!
They ought to be teaching/preaching this in school beginning in early childhood all the way up senior homes!! Thank you so much for sharing Pastor 🙏
Right! @ Chas 3 LoL
Also accounting and money management.. oh, and let's not forget mental health.
Was definitely groomed by my father to look, act, and speak in ways that is most desirable men. What a waste of time in my life attracting men who were only after the superficial stuff. I was close to 30 before I woke up and decided to vet men based on how they respond to my intellect, my dreams, and my ambitions. I led with my brain and attracted a really smart and modest man who was willing to commit to working together on building a life together.
I've been a wife for boyfriends for the past 6-7 years and its been very depressing. Father God lead me through my love life lead me to my ordained spouse and help me achieve true love 💘
You deserve exactly that!!!
I do understand what you are feeling. I have been there. The only way to raise the bar is to focus on you. Drop these guys and pick yourself up! It will be so hard! But once you genuinely stop caring about these stupid guys, you will attract the right guy.
Yes I agree with you may
You rec'v the lord Jesus as your savior and follow him,
By reading his word, and praying and keep thanking him for guiding you to the mate for you alone.
Just keep with the lord,
And it will be alright.
Have a blessed day.
I'm learning to not do that because by Nature unnaturally giving and I want people to feel comfortable around me so I'm learning to make a man earn it and don't let a man that's not worth it to be around me so I won't give him that type of treatment you can't be a wife to your boyfriend
Yes ms. When you have asked Christ to save you,
And you pray that prayer you just texed, rest in it,
Wait and keep thanking him that the man is on the way, he will show up.
No playing house, it don't
Work. Sex outside of marriage messes up so
Many people. Men and women. God sent his son
Ti heal or minds and ti show us things we didn't
Know. Opening doors to
Abundant life style in him.
@@bjdis33
Ask Christ to save you and focus on his promises in that bible, it will be well
With your soul. He knows your mate, you don't.
I'm going to have to listen to this everyday until it gets roots. I needed to hear all of this. I'm going to need the daily reminder for a while. I have had no "successful" relationships with men because I don't believe in premarital sex and have never engaged in it. They get so upset that I'm not willing to let them bastardize my body. One guy actually said "you act like your body is a prize." They are so manipulative and deceiving. These men didn't care about me, so I'm glad they are gone. When I heard you say that women are "spending their time trying to be sexy when they're a genius." A very popular UA-camr makes fun of women that value their PhD. That is one of the most prestigious degrees anyone can get. That man doesn't even have a college degree I've heard. PhD women are consulting with GED men, like you said. Men try so hard to devalue women to break them down until they no longer see their value. Sometimes it works. God has protected me. He's given me discernment, but I've had some close calls. Serpents are still cunning--even to this day.
Someone once told me that when you have sex, you give away a piece of yourself that you can't get back. One by one, those men chip away little pieces of you that didn't belong to them. I decided that I wanted to be able to give my whole self to the man that I marry, not the leftovers. I do view my body as a prize. I've lived life of dignity and honor. I wear a band of rubies on my hand as well to remind me of Proverbs 31:10. I'm sad that I'm alone sometimes, but I don't regret it. One day someone will see my non-sexual value like you talked about and I'm waiting for him.
I'm glad you pointed out that bible passage. I will be referring to it for strength. Thanks.
The beautiful thing about God is that He restores everything the devil stole... Be blessed...💜🕊
Agreed on all accounts. Continue to save yourself and be willing to wait......the person for you will find you and value you as you are.
Giving yourself to somebody that hasn’t established a long term commitment is a mistake. You are so correct about giving away a part of you that you can’t get back. From experience that is so true. I’d love a band of rubies. You wear on your left or right hand?
Thank you for passing on Proverbs 31
He is so right. Men get sooo offended when I tell them I'm not just tryna be used for sex.
@S. mills thank you. I'm a Nigerian living in the US, so I know you're 100% right. This fake account appears under many different names in different videos, smh.
@S. mills They do that with Pastor Sean Pinder too and I added the number but I then realized they were fake. I deleted and blocked them! They had responded to me before that tho.
Are you a virgin?
@@THEBLACKTOXICMASCULINIST no. And why do I have to be a virgin just cause I don't want to be intimate. Most men wanna talk and after one day their expecting and wanting sex
I have men call me a lesbian man hater because I won't have sex with them. Smh sad
My discernment when it comes to the choosing of a husband and life partner is now next level. No more settling for less than I deserve, thank you so much! For this advice that I wish I had in my life much sooner. And Lisa is truly a prize, that small gesture of bringing you the water shows how good it can be when we hold out for the real thing.
Wow, Amen.
A demon has hacked RC Jr's account. Do not fall for the fake prophesy. Be blessed!
@@queenk555 Thanks for the heads up sis, I knew from reading it that it was a demon. Whenever the Lord is trying to do his work, the devil will always attempt to destroy it. But we know that he is a liar and a theif, and he will find no patience or audience here. Thank you, for caring enough to let us know. Stay blessed🤗⚘
I'm in a transition in my life. And I've noticed that what he said is right that when I sleep with some of these men I'm basically losing myself and I'm losing my self-respect. This video will change my life.
I promise I am not giving myself up sexually like that anymore to a man. I have so much more to me. And the only way that person will see that is I have to make them work and I can't give into any type of Temptation or pressure.
How are you doing dear? 1 year in purity here. I gave my body and soul to Jesus. Hes the King of my life.
This needs to be played in every High school. 💕
Even before high school, it’s a conversation mom AND dad should have with both male and female young adults. Unfortunately with pay pressure for youngsters to be popular young women feel that to be popular they have to give them selves to a man and some feel that the only way they can get the man is to offer their body to that man and that is something that they learn pretty much in the teenage years, and some even before the teenage years, it’s a pity a lesson like this sometimes is not learned until A woman may be in her 60s. Some men unfortunately the 70s and have not learned that yet, it’s all about chasing the skirt, and adding a notch to the belt. If somebody had told me that when I was in my 20s I might not have understood what it meant, because at that age the brain was all about sex, but by the timeI got older, (30s), I realized That my fulfillment did not come from sexual intercourse, I was more comfortable when we laughed and giggled and even kissed.....
Glory HallaluYah In Elementary 5th grade and Maybe 4th grade never too soon and Middle School In The MIGHTY NAME Of Our MELANATED RESURRECTED Living JESUS Christ NAME I Pray The Holy Spirit Of The Most High Abide In His Peoples Homes and He send His Ministering ANGELS In The Night WATCHES To Our Unrepentant Family members and Friends We Are The Chosen People Of ABBA YAH. So called African Americans.SHALOM.
@@maddybee4523 I agree 100% my son is 8 and my girls are 13 and 14. My husband and I have ALWAYS been very upfront with them about this.
I do homeschool them and use Christian studies, so I'm able to bring up real life issues with them on the daily.
It's a scary time to be raising kids.😥
Above anything else I just want my kids to be good caring people that look to God for answers.
Adults just need to realize they are influencing the young people in their lives.
As an adult I feel responsible to set a good example.
There are too many older women complaining about men to young girls. Sometimes it seems intentional. Like not wanting anyone else to take their same path and end up happy, so they encourage their neices, daughters, sisters, ect. to "live their life". As in, remain single.
@@purpleprose1315 yes. 100%
The 33 that didn't like this video are probably men who think that they're the prize or women that don't know their worth 🤫😂🙃
Ha! Right!
a woman's worth is the million dollar question. non sexually! feminism qualities being a major value....how many women are out here exhibiting this one trait? now how many women are out there seeking to be Mrs. independent dont need no man....whats that worth to a man?
bottom line is all females out there dont have a clue about what being a virtuous woman consist of. just because she's a woman dont mean she should be entitled as a queen (virtuous woman)
Now go run n' tell 'dat!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 well said!
I think they didn’t have the patience to wait until he actually got into his message, because he was lagging and he needed to do his setup prior to recording. He he took too long.
@S. mills The only people who are being preyed upon are all these confused folk running around gratifying themselves not unlike animals. Don't worry most people have mind enough not to give away thier money. But too bad they can't be as protective of their body. Just saying!
Pastor preaching better than we're shouting! 🥰 I needed to hear this message today! Pastor's wisdom is priceless and always on time! I've been conditioned by the toxic aspects of my culture to value myself as an object. I'm healing and growing more spiritual!
This message is absolutely divine and it's extremely important
Stay hydrated Pastor
Sweet move Lisa. Sparkling water!! I smiled too!
So happy to hear truth! I do hope women who hear yhis will listern to it until it is hidden in their hearts. May they also share such good news.
RC Blakes is truly anointed! I agree this message is vital
@@monicarosemindset Yes, He is 🙏
My ex husband was exactly like this. I was growing and he was at a stand still in his life and I thank God for removing me out of this toxic relationship!!!
Me too, God allowed a “me too marriage & ultimately moved me right out of an unGodly house/marriage to selfish Male. Freedom came with a price with the children being impacted negatively by dissolution of marriage. Ex husband emotionally poisoned the minds of the offspring especially the first born son. Praying fervently God will remove the emotional scars from the now adult children & return the prodigal Son home to see me, the Mother. I am the Caretaker of this Males legacy. No parents do not plant seeds of discord into children at any time, especially during dissolution of a marriage. Adulterous Husband is an absolute abusive Ex-Husband forever.
Sis you keep holding on and Trusting God. He’s bigger than all what we are going through!! I asked God right now to come against the enemy right now in the name of Jesus!!! Leave that situation right where it is and watch our God move!!!
Amen! Me too! Spot on
I love how you hurt me, it makes me grow. You helped me dismantle a 25yr old soul tie. I was a virgin to a woman hater you describe here. I was so nieve and in denial. Dismantling him had me see him and myself clearly. You helped me set myself FREE ❤
His brokenness, broke me more than I was already broken.
When a woman really gets this her self esteem lifts through the roof, I'm flying
Amen!!
NAIVE. I AM A HUMAN SPELL CHECKER.😊
Thank you Pastor I needed to hear this never thought about the resting of a man (trust) wow !!
Unfortunately the dating aaps has huge negative impact on the sexual market, the society is becoming disposable!! Very sad
Exactly. Women enjoy sex too.
They are interested until they know you, then switch up real quick. Lesson learned.
No. You then knew him instead. He couldn’t play the game no more! So Well done
Zuri Gee I agree..its crazy..the guy I talked to off and on stop being interested in me for whatever reason. But oh well life goes on..I hate when these so called men play these emotional games. It's not fair and it's sick. But I don't chase I keep it moving.
@@tashaequeen8935 It's cruel, I won't trust anyone anymore. Gonna have to work hard and prove selves.
@@zurigee6 I don't blame you sis, what a weird world were living in..smh
@@patrickmulopo7957 no I would not. He didn't play hard to get in the beginning. It's been to long now haven't seen him in over a month after 8mos of lies and fakeness. No telling who he's been with plus he broke my heart. I give up I'm not giving him no challenge either obviously he's getting that from another woman. Fuck him.
This should be required viewing for all couples before marriage as well as something parents should share with their children...both boys and girls...as they mature and begin dating and forming relationships. This is pure gold Pastor, what you are doing on this platform is pure gold. Thank you! I am blessed by this message as I have been by many others.
More men /grown little boy needs to really subscribe to your channel and learn from you. Amen 🙏
Word!!!
I think many of these men already know what they're suppose to do and how to behave towards women. I can't believe that there are that many completely naive men walking around short circuited like that. They just simply don't feel the need to put forth the effort b/c they can so easily get what they want without even breaking a sweat.. Way too many willing female workers making it far too easy for them; liken to those old blue lite special sales/bargain store basements where and if they can't find a bargain then and only then will they be willing to go up on another level and pay a fair price. Not all men out there but far more than what we think very well know better than what we see them doing!!
@RC Blackes Jr Satan!!! The blood of Jesus is against you!!!
@RC Blakes Jr Haa, I just know you're not talking to me about some old hoodoo/voodoo whatever mess you saw in a mirror!! The devils spawn!!! key word here ladies ( NIGERIA ) Some of the most treacherous, notorious scammers to suck breath!!! Keep your money in your pocket Sistas!!!
I’m only 12 minutes in but you speak 🗣 TRUTH sir! I think one of the most heart breaking things is to play the role of a wife without actually being a wife ......ONLY to see him marry 💍 someone else and toss you aside like day old stale bread. Ladies, save yourself the trouble and keep your soul intact! Giving men pieces of you only leaves you broken and empty. You will never be whole if you allow everyone and anyone to have a “piece of you” literally.
"AAAAAAMEN!!!!!"
This same thing happened to my charge nurse, she was with a mn for sometime, they was supposed to get married, date set, dress bought the whole thing, they ended up breaking up he dated someone else and ended up marrying the lady on the other woman wedding date.
She came to work devastated.
Talk about low down and dirty.....
Just sad, you gotta be smart with these guys, know that your the chips, and the pop
The Whole package
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@@denisechilds2391 My Lord in Heaven....I'm truly sorry to hear this of your charge nurse associate. Please tell her (from me) that she is God's favorable heir and her blessings are still in store for her to receive of marriage and all other parts of her life. Thank you for sharing this story to help us but may she be always uplifted to stay encouraged.
@@nicolegreene2208 I certainly will do, pleas keep her in your prayers, we talking about a good 75/80 thousand dollar wedding, and this man did that to her to the point where she was Soooo depressed, and we all know that leads to other dark things,.
But I will definitely tell her
I am so happy I just discovered your videos. This video about the non-sexual value of women made me feel my importance for the first time in my life and I am now a senior woman. I knew only verbal abuse from a man and had given up hope of there being good, truly Godly men out there for my daughters and granddaughters. We need to clone you! May God bless you immensely!!! I am so happy I found you.
It becomes a crossroad for many women where you have to be ok with embracing singlehood & recognizing based on the lack of standards many men have, that you very well may be alone for a long time. However, be conscious of how you define being alone. It does not have to consist of sadness or a be bad thing. Being single has allowed me to define much of the greatness within me (the journey continues). When you give yourself a break from the "norm" of society as it relates to dating, you will learn a lot about yourself, increase your standards, and become comfortable with who God created you to be. We as ladies must truly walk in the very essence God created in us as women.
Well said 👏 thanks for the message love and light sweetheart 💫💯🫂
Well said!!! I enjoy my singleness, while living my best life to become my better self. Know yourself and your value. Gems being dropped 💎💎💎
My husband needs to HEAR you! He once told me I need to put him on a pedestal. I responded only GOD!!
AMEN!!!!!
Sunshine Yates,
Did your husband say that because he knew that he is a good man and he treats you as his queen?
I remember as teenage when I learned that hard truth about how man look and value women buy what they can get and use her sexualy it literally crushed my soul because I was so hurt and disappointed so I just cried and very down for while and after that just lost complete interest in man and just didn't want them to even look at me.
Same.
"The woman is built to respond to the man ...and whatever seed the man provides, the woman will incubate it and give him a harvest" - Such powerful words, so if we generally are responding to men, no wonder when we still act in our masculine with certain men, it's because of what they put out. Essentially as Pastor Blakes said " A conscious man will allow and cause a woman to act in her natural feminine self because he is acting in his masculine the way God made him to. Amen to this word!
Very true.
This is great! This is the type of stuff I tell my husband I want him to explain to our daughter because many dads are not explaining these things to their girls.
Yes. Its very important that they hear this from men. If more men kept it real like this with their daughters so many wouldnt fall for the foolishness
Thank you for this message!!! I get thoroughly offended by men who are too shallow to swim in my ocean! I was settling for the foolishness for too long. I’m no longer devaluing myself by settling and continuing to play the game.
Thank you once again for setting us right! We need to hear this and change how we do things! Narcissists will hate you but use you for sex. Awful people!
Yes, they are!
Yes
Thank you for that message. I feel women carry so much pain and guilt because our value is not honored. It really encouraged me today!
I swear i never get tired of learning from this pastor he just continously blesses me, every time im weary or feel lost or confused this brother shows up with a word to lift me up and my mind back on track❤
As a person who does not subscribe to organized religion personally, I support and love this message. I only make the disclaimer so that people who aren’t religious can let go of their judgements of religion to listen to love and truth. Thank you for this.
Same
You're awesome beyond mesures, for being this much open minded, honest, and free of judgements. I adore you!
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This is by far one of the most safe, wholesome, uplifting, CLEAN messages I have ever heard in my life. Thank you Pastor Blakes.
All women need to hear this and apply it to their lives! 🙏 Thank you for sharing this wisdom!
Thank you for this. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been brushed aside by many guys because I wouldn’t lay down. I felt ugly and undesirable. I then learned that it was just trash taking itself out. Also, I have always felt like women gave it up way too easy but I didn’t feel like I could say anything because of society. I felt as though I was in the wrong for having the self respect. This empowers me to continue on my path. Thank you so much.
Raspberry I do totally understand where you're coming from
Love that! Yessss, let the trash continue to take itself out when it runs up on these standards.
I'm so glad to hear and know truth. If we don't get this word today something is not right. We as women are a gift from God. None of us need to sleep with a man to give us temporary satisfaction. No way. Sisters and my brothers as well do not waste your life.
Love how you put it "trash taking itself out!" Yes ma'am....you got it!✝️🙏😊
Typically the countenance of a woman tells the character of her husband. In most cases.
They don't want to acknowledge that part.
Great message!! Heard Creflo Dollar say, “when you sleep with a man before marriage then he stays at that level”.
The woman and man tend to stay on that level.
True❤
It's hard to get a man when you have high standards because they go for the ones that are easier and then they get mad that they're not treated well. It's just a cycle that just continues around and around, if all women just wouldn't give it up and expect High output from the man then we would all have a better time
Agreed on all fronts ♥️
That was his point, exactly
Exactly
They get weak like Women. Going after all that fake beauty...🤣 cost big coins
This is my problem, I don't have sex(I'm waiting until marriage)and the men of this generation can't wait, so they just move on to someone easier.
I was the only girl born in a family of men, brothers, uncles, their friends, and oh boy when I hear them speak on the things women put up with to be with them it is ridiculous. After seeing the treatment they gave women, I quickly became afraid of men. I know not all men are bad, but too many men enable and encourage other men to behave badly. I also despair at the women with such low self esteem to put up with so much nonsense
Both scenarios are very sad...
You don’t need to be afraid. What I learned about men like this is they don’t have the guts to approach women with high self esteem. They prey on easy targets because they are very insecure. As long as you show men you know your worth the bad ones won’t even try because they don’t know how to handle real women lol
Don’t be afraid. Take it to God. God can give you a good man that’s suited for you. A Godly man that will care take of you like Jesus takes care of us. ❤️
Thank u. I felt that
Maybe, you should tell these men what kind of creeps they are. That they need to grow up and stop treating women poorly. That might really help you.
So many gems 💎 in this one!! If I could narrow it down to 3 points that hit me the most, I’d say..
1. If men want to measure their manhood beyond how they can put it down in the bedroom, just take a look 👀 at your woman. Is she healthy inside and out, walking with a good amount of self esteem and confidence? She is reflecting your treatment and care.
2. Women can be a man’s greatest asset and his ultimate resting place if the man is willing and able to tap into her innermost qualities and value her beyond just wanting sex. When she feels safe, loved, seen, respected and heard, it allows her to naturally put her guards down and exude more of her natural beauty and femininity- making her a place of shalom for her man.
3. The right woman can be a multiplier for a man’s vision. If he sees her with the right perspective he won’t compete with her. He will appreciate the grace that’s on her life and feel extremely blessed that she was literally created to pour all of that genius onto his dreams and goals.
Wheww all I can say is Yah blessed me with a beautiful righteous soul named Joseph on 2-17-23 and life hasn’t been the same! We BOTH have been watching RC Blake’s videos and getting great insight, wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I personally look at RC as a spiritual father figure since my dad wasn’t there for me and I had very few positive experiences with men in general in my youth. I’ve done a lot of my own healing ❤️🩹 work over the years and spent time getting to know myself and how much I was loved by the Father ABOVE. It was lonely at first but years and years later I am in a better place in life than ever and was open to receive the best possible love relationship with a man which is rooted in Yah (God) and founded on friendship first. He was willing to wait until we were in a divine covenant (marriage) until making love, and even after becoming one says he will go at my pace. Ladies and gentlemen, good WOMEN AND MEN still exist when you rewind ⏪ slow down and start to do things the way the Heavenly Father prescribed from the beginning.
Again, thanks 🙏🏽 RC Blake’s for the ABSOLUTELY INSPIRING, AND INFORMATIVE CONTENT 💯🙌🏽💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
This brought some tears to my eyes. I've been needing to hear this for quite some time.
You were so happy when she brought you water. Lol, so cute! Always appreciate the little things from your partner and you'll get so much more in return!!
So true! My hubs can load the dishwasher and I'm appreciative. Small features carry a lot of weight.
Thank you for this! I am 54 and somewhere between getting divorced and online dating the last 10 years it is hard to believe my value and worth. I do seem to be the woman who is not dating much and still single. I liked hearing that the man who deserves me is out there but might take more discerning. Thank you!
20 minutes before sex he had no where to go but after sex he makes up all kind of appointment reasons to leave
Man ain't your friend
@@leahk.chanda4946 - tell her girl
@@passportbro904 it's really a sad thing
@@leahk.chanda4946 And a bed buddy ain’t your Husband/Wife
@@rockt1113 That's why am content bn single🤗 no stress
No Pastor. Drink your water and stay hydrated! It is Healthy, not unprofessional. 😇
This is a great message that I plan to share with my daughter. On the other hand, there needs to be a message for the men. Women need to understand the distruction they can cause if they are selfish. There is no "Rest" in the home is she has issues. Even if the man provides an environment of trust and honor, if she does not "respect" men then she continues to tear down that good man that she is with.
Let's hold each other accountable for our actions and encourage among us to have value and honor! To God be the Glory.
This is the primary reason there's so much divorce.
Wow! This just puts a whole new perspective on the way relationships work. Thank you , I am a Gen x and can see how the relationships has deteriorated over the years from the 80's up to the present. We as women need to value ourselves and teach our boys and girls to have self respect and learn virtues from the bible ( Quran) in my case and or the Torah. Loved reading Proverbs as a child and still do. You and your wife set a very beautiful example of how a husband and wife should be towards each other.
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A+, my Sista.
Wish I would have heard this 40 yrs ago this is beautiful God Bless you!
This topic is very important. Thank you for posting. I totally understand. Before I even understood what a narc was I experienced this behavior. I picked up on it quickly and knew it was wrong... because I was adapted to being raised with respect and I was conditioned to the male figures in my life treating women with respect. My first time encounter with this behavior was scary and unbelievable. This narcissistic male went against everything that make spending time with someone of interest beautiful. The funny thing is males like this expect you to stay and be isolated and blind to their abuse. The guy was deeply conditioned from his upbringing and he treated all women poorly. He disguised himself very well but hated any woman who challenged him or expected more. I wasn’t born broken. But I experienced brokenness and males like this will be attracted to your brokenness and try and deceive and use you.
Friggin eh!!on my way out the door soon.I saw it pretty quick..but needed to prepare.Ready now,good points you've made.
He hated her and put her out because he had committed a terrible crime against her. He didn’t want to face what he did.
I just love his reaction to the glass of sparkling water! Teach these men Bishop!
We women are responsible for this message ending I’m going to teach my grandchildren the value Christ has put on their bodies💪🏾💋
A nice thought but I am afraid thet you may have to change your approach. Childern have the right to a broad base education in religion so they can later on decide what suits them or not. The love of Christ or the fear of God confuses me and I think a child as well. We also have to teach our children about the other side of religion, it is by far the main reason for wars, killing, subdue women Priests and little boys, the list goes on. We have to make our childern aware of that side also.
Me too....
Thanks for the lesson I think iam sending this to my children as they grew without a father 👨
Pastor when we lead with our brains we are labeled as too independent. Many men don't want a woman who is demonstrably smarter than them or more successful; they feel threatened. As a well educated entrepreneur I usually leave a lot of those details out. I find that many men are more concerned with if I can cook more than how I might be able to help him fulfill his purpose or build a legacy.
Talking to the wrong men. Stop entertaining clowns. Discernment, don’t leave home without. Your King will appreciate the Proverb 31 woman that you are. Shalom.
On a biological level everything the same no matter what time we live in.
I needed to hear all of this. I thank God for you. My father unfortunately never shared this wisdom with me and that led me to great heartbreak and I grew up in the baptism church. In being exposed to your spirit and message, I'm confident if I keep hearing and holding this wisdom close to my mind and heart I won't be lost anymore. I feel it in my spirit and it gives me great joy and peace. Thank you, thank you, thank you😭🙏🏽
Thanks Rev, at 56 yrs old, I have finally surrendered to the fact that I AM THE PRIZE under God's vision, and have stopped looking for a man. I rest in the peace that HE , the Divine Soul Partner that God has crafted , will come and FIND ME when the time is right. thanks again for the awareness and insight, much love--Colleen
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Amen 🙏🏼
Amen! So true!
I’m a well-educated woman & now I Thank you for making me “ man-smart!” 😊
Bishop this is so true. I been a victim of this in the past! I’m Greatful for this platform. Your platform helped me heal from it! I didn’t realize I had a soul tie with him. I’m Greatful a church mother told me I did one day after she prayed for me. Continue to pray for me and all our Queens 👸🏽 who has been tricked abused by these men .
How could 149 person dislike this video? I wish all women, young and older could hear this.
Probably all men or women with hurt feelings. How can anybody disagree with the message. He just confirmed that I need to move on from my marriage.
@@ZumbawithDorothy I wish I'd heard this years ago, I wouldn't. So many wasted years in my dead marriage
These are the men his talking about.