5 Style Mistakes Lesbians Make But Shouldn’t

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  • @Felixfiefdom
    @Felixfiefdom 3 роки тому +1216

    I'm here to stan lesbians who are actively trying to go against the lesbian stereotype of committing crimes against fashion 👏

    • @Jess-jt4zf
      @Jess-jt4zf 3 роки тому +96

      Some people obviously took the "be gay and do crimes" meme the wrong way 😄😄😄

    • @Noah-js8ey
      @Noah-js8ey 3 роки тому +38

      Nah ok but lesbian styles are actually chefs kisses

    • @theburgersystem126
      @theburgersystem126 3 роки тому +21

      I’ve got a gay BFF and she rocks the high femme look. Think Jessica Kellengren Fozard high femme.

    • @kindacryptic
      @kindacryptic 3 роки тому

      💃🏾

    • @urdadsonic1036
      @urdadsonic1036 3 роки тому

      @@Jess-jt4zf lmao yea

  • @ninal6848
    @ninal6848 3 роки тому +323

    FINALLY SOMEONE WHO NOTICES THE SUIT THING!!!! IF YOU GET MARRIED AT LEAST GET IT TAILORED TO FIT YOUUUUUUUUUUU

    • @lurklingX
      @lurklingX 2 роки тому +22

      i mean... the wedding dresses get tailored, so why not the suits?

  • @adamparrishkinnie
    @adamparrishkinnie 3 роки тому +704

    Moral of the story bottoms r just as important as tops 😌

  • @sarah-dl3wt
    @sarah-dl3wt 3 роки тому +183

    The skinny jeans and chunky shoe was me, my brother used to call me Sonic 😩😩😩

  • @NW-pt8zz
    @NW-pt8zz 3 роки тому +686

    I always said that women shouldn’t strictly buy men’s clothes when there’s a bunch of women’s clothes that are made to look masculine and they’ll fit way better.

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 роки тому +256

      i agree that both sections have some
      gems, but i think it’s more comfortable for some to shop exclusively in the men’s section

    • @brochronicles
      @brochronicles 3 роки тому +42

      Men buy women’s jeans all the time because of more size and elasticity variation to achieve certain looks. I have heard them publicize it so many times.

    • @mariposaflame4194
      @mariposaflame4194 3 роки тому +52

      @@madeyoulooks agreed! I have always had a more athletic shape and have struggled for years with women's clothes even if they are supposed to have a masc look. There's no point in having hip cutouts in slacks or extra give for breasts when you have neither in the first place 🤷🏾‍♀️ fast forward years later I had the AHA! Moment when I put on my 12 year old son's clothes. All of a sudden I didn't have to tailor everything 😃 More room for arms and legs, less gapping in hips and breasts 👍🏾

    • @alyssagonzalez425
      @alyssagonzalez425 3 роки тому +17

      True but sometimes, There aren’t a lot of women’s clothes that look like men’s. What hard is finding clothes that have your style and that fit you well. If you do find men styled women’s clothes, (from my experience) they’ve always ended being very expensive.

    • @adelgado8917
      @adelgado8917 3 роки тому +6

      @@brochronicles but with that my question is would it be comfortable though? Like is the balls area. Because I wear women jeans but I do own guy sweats (they're so much thicker and comfy!), and one pair of cargo pants. I can feel the difference in my jeans to my cargo pants, I mean it's not crazy but there is a bit more space and the zipper is super long... but if a guy wears women jeans how does it for them with having the "pouch" in the crotch area? Just curious...

  • @user-eb6xz6vu6k
    @user-eb6xz6vu6k 3 роки тому +75

    wasn't expecting the lasagna/suit fitting analogy but im here for it

  • @ebonyscherr7685
    @ebonyscherr7685 3 роки тому +95

    As soon as she started saying “you got the red this, you got the red that”, I knew I was in trouble😭🤣

  • @jennamallow
    @jennamallow 3 роки тому +30

    “When you have a really cool top” “😏” at the corner of the screen killed me lollll

  • @alizac.6509
    @alizac.6509 3 роки тому +103

    I’m not a stud but I can definitely use some of these tips, especially that skinny jean one

  • @soundlyawake
    @soundlyawake 3 роки тому +422

    you’re almost at 10k so I’m suing everyone who hasn’t clicked subscribe yet

    • @sg5732
      @sg5732 3 роки тому +6

      Nicky!!!! 😍

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 роки тому +36

      👏🏾LET👏🏾THEM👏🏾KNOW

    • @livelikelotus1381
      @livelikelotus1381 3 роки тому +2

      I feel like u are copying my sister she had that name first

    • @lunaluna6474
      @lunaluna6474 3 роки тому +3

      @@livelikelotus1381 girl how was she supposed to know whats in your sis's mind xD

    • @Angel-pc7et
      @Angel-pc7et 3 роки тому +1

      Shes on 13.5k now !! Shes growing quickk :)) AS SHE SHOULD

  • @chooseitwisely98
    @chooseitwisely98 3 роки тому +182

    Dont mind me just applying some sunblock and preparing to get roasted lol

    • @LucijaViviana
      @LucijaViviana 3 роки тому +1

      Right! Why am I getting called out😭😂

    • @joziehaze
      @joziehaze 4 місяці тому

      same lol

  • @mads5610
    @mads5610 3 роки тому +66

    I appreciate having found this channel so much, there are so many channels for men's fashion and for femme girls... But it's so hard to find "masc" fashion advice for women... Same thing goes for hair, self care, lifestyle... I've been learning from men, because I have no other choice 👀 you give me hope 🥺👏

    • @Lockawannablu3z
      @Lockawannablu3z 2 роки тому +12

      We def need a team of women who are masc help with discussing all of these topics. Because we are women there are certain things we need to learn only from other women.

    • @CalThePaladin3733
      @CalThePaladin3733 Рік тому

      What self-care?

  • @ainoaguy
    @ainoaguy 3 роки тому +222

    Don’t mind me... just waiting patiently for this channel to blow up.

    • @ainoaguy
      @ainoaguy 3 роки тому +16

      Seriously this has been the type of content that I’ve been craving for years and I’m so glad that you’re making these videos,

    • @Twiti47
      @Twiti47 3 роки тому +2

      @@ainoaguy you took the words out of my MOUTH bro

  • @TheFrreakShhow2010
    @TheFrreakShhow2010 3 роки тому +186

    u made so many good points!! especially the one about having a variety of pants! i usually only wear high waisted pants but recently i started buying "regular" waist chinos and was surprised at how well they fit and felt, don't be afraid to switch it up yall (i promise everyone will still be able to tell you're gay)

  • @emilyonizuka4698
    @emilyonizuka4698 3 роки тому +91

    yes get on that colour theory! I personally like split complimentary colours myself. my mum would always criticize my clothing and I'm realizing now...she's just a matchy matchy person. like I was wearing a red dress with a purple shawl to a wedding and my mum was like those don't go together and I was like??? and then I realized she just thinks colours that are the same colour go together.

    • @forslaytion
      @forslaytion 3 роки тому +8

      same, my mom is all about matching colors.

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 роки тому +30

      color theory is KING. and i bet you killed them with the red dress and purple shawl.

    • @karly.asshhh
      @karly.asshhh 2 роки тому

      That's my mum and grandma lol but for real matchy-matchy for me makes people look so oudated and boring

  • @oooladip
    @oooladip 3 роки тому +46

    #3 is sooo true. I used to only wear leggings/skinny jeans and my style was lacking then. Expanding my pants was the level up I didn't know I needed

    • @NW-pt8zz
      @NW-pt8zz 3 роки тому +6

      Trueee. I don’t even like skinny jeans anymore.

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 роки тому +12

      sameeee

    • @oooladip
      @oooladip 3 роки тому +2

      @@NW-pt8zz Right! I barely wear skinny jeans and leggings anymore

  • @shelbygoodwin8025
    @shelbygoodwin8025 3 роки тому +46

    The comment about skinny jeans making your feet look big gives me SO MUCH INSIGHT into why I have a hard time not feeling weird wearing certain types of shoes

  • @abadira
    @abadira 3 роки тому +36

    The skinny jeans advice was something I needed to hear 😔

    • @quirmi_6770
      @quirmi_6770 3 роки тому +2

      I really stopped wearing skinny jeans lol, didn’t like the look, and I felt better in bagger clothes

  • @GratitudeGriot
    @GratitudeGriot 3 роки тому +181

    Color, texture, and prints are the foundation of my personal wardrobe. I've had people look at me like I'm crazy for certain combos I've put together lol I would say that matchy matchy is generational and regional. I've noticed living/traveling around the states that people in the South & Midwest in certain age ranges really lean into head to toe matches. I enjoy seeing people when they know they look good in their fit no matter what nobody says about it❤️

    • @zzzzzz-ti2rv
      @zzzzzz-ti2rv 3 роки тому +3

      you just made me remember in school how the girls would match their shirt, purse, earrings lol and I'm from louisiana. I remember one girl who always did it, she was the matching queen, hope she is still matching

  • @dejWA
    @dejWA 3 роки тому +18

    'Scuse me but Trunchbull is a style icon.

  • @najam6737
    @najam6737 3 роки тому +52

    i don't even dress masculine but this channel is everything thank you girl!!

  • @ahealingthing
    @ahealingthing 3 роки тому +79

    really needed that skinny jeans tip. also gonna put out in to the universe you creating a coffee table lookbook with pictures and your styling advice included. you truly doin the lorde's work 🙏🏿

  • @taifood899
    @taifood899 3 роки тому +15

    It’s the Barney purple stripes for me 😎

  • @sllnko
    @sllnko 3 роки тому +64

    i am addicted to this channel lmao

  • @kanellabasilion978
    @kanellabasilion978 3 роки тому +74

    ive never heard this spoken aloud but all of it needed to be said badly! there are so many beautiful ways to rock your own personal masculinity!! thank you jade xx

  • @NJSillaStew
    @NJSillaStew 3 роки тому +21

    It’s taken my a long time to feel comfortable in anything that’s not skinny jeans the one thing tho that I can’t ever ever leave behind is high waisted pants, it just makes me feel comfortable, it supports my belly, my hips, makes me feel like I’m being held and I’m okay with it.

  • @xyrah4899
    @xyrah4899 3 роки тому +14

    Lol I feel like I needed to hear the segment about shape pants

  • @JC-yy8iv
    @JC-yy8iv 3 роки тому +8

    Yesss branching out from the skinny jeans is scary but liberating

  • @Beisser76
    @Beisser76 3 роки тому +5

    On the suit topic on a budget: I feel like you're better off thrifting a cheap suit and getting it tailored well, than buying an expensive suit and not have it tailored.

  • @nikkiwilkes2795
    @nikkiwilkes2795 2 роки тому +8

    “This is a lesson that took me the longest to learn but…skinny jeans don’t go with everything” every lesbian in the world felt that 💀💀

  • @Victor-pv2pk
    @Victor-pv2pk 3 роки тому +28

    It’s time for you to start you women’s suit brand

  • @evann1007
    @evann1007 3 роки тому +27

    Dude you uploaded right as I finished my midterms for the day
    that was so perfect 🤣

    • @r4ym0nd.r4nc1d
      @r4ym0nd.r4nc1d 2 роки тому

      Omg i have the same name. I’m a non-binary lesbian

  • @artemisagrotera9230
    @artemisagrotera9230 3 роки тому +23

    ive been advocating for people (both men and women cuz men def dont know how to wear a suit properly either), to learn about how a suit should properly fit. since you've worked in this sector, would you mind doing a video on it? no pressure, please and thank you ❤️

  • @futureimperfect2826
    @futureimperfect2826 3 роки тому +12

    Just started watching. Hoping couple twinning is on the list.

  • @5Nunes5
    @5Nunes5 3 роки тому +8

    Also, thanks for the reference photos!! Key!

  • @leolovsen1448
    @leolovsen1448 3 роки тому +27

    I'm longing for something formal that isn't a gown or a suit, can we create that please?

  • @kaylahgreen5080
    @kaylahgreen5080 3 роки тому +4

    Tailoring Swift

  • @k2lola
    @k2lola 3 роки тому +7

    Idk why this video was recommended for me but I definitely watched it to the end lol

  • @edeng94
    @edeng94 3 роки тому +9

    Do you have tips on hairstyles? I’ve done cornrows, box braids, relaxer and recently shaved my head and can’t really figure out what look works best for me

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 роки тому +8

      honestly, just keep trying styles. that’s what i did and i think everyone kinda does. when you get to one that fits, you’ll know

    • @edeng94
      @edeng94 3 роки тому +2

      @@madeyoulooks 😍 thank you

  • @ninobrowne1731
    @ninobrowne1731 3 роки тому +8

    ❤️ the Matilda reference 😃

  • @nikkiep23
    @nikkiep23 3 роки тому +33

    I love this video Jade! The monochromatic look is my favorite. It just evelates the look and I love a woman in a well tailored suit. Its so sexy. Haha! Ugh the unnecessary bowtie irks me to no end. Oooh could you do a semi/ formal look? Proper fit?

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 роки тому +9

      that’ll take some work but i’ll put it on the list of ideas!

  • @m4rie4nge
    @m4rie4nge 3 роки тому

    the skinny jeans tip has me so down bad but you right

  • @5Nunes5
    @5Nunes5 3 роки тому +11

    I continue to 👍🏽 every video on this channel. So well executed. I bounce between fem/masc style. My style has already evolved because of you!!

  • @partlyart
    @partlyart 3 роки тому +5

    i'm very much a skirt and blouse sorta gal and i have no interest in looking masculine, but i stayed for the entire video and subscribed because the way you talk about style is so interesting! The fact that you are gorgeous doesn't hurt either lmao

  • @skilosunxx4911
    @skilosunxx4911 3 роки тому +28

    The 6 dislikes are from the lesbians that do this shiz

  • @swimmnlikenemo
    @swimmnlikenemo 3 роки тому +8

    Legend says that whenever you say “skinny jeans” one direction era Harry styles will appear and strangle you with skinny jeans while throwing Chelsea boots at you

  • @ewitsautumn
    @ewitsautumn 3 роки тому +11

    Hey Jade, will you ever do a style q and a? I love this channel, and your a and as on your main channel crack me up😂

  • @heatherlee2047
    @heatherlee2047 2 роки тому +1

    8:43 “Hats dont go with every outfit”
    *le gasp from lesbians around the world

  • @chilltowntomboi
    @chilltowntomboi 3 роки тому +5

    not miss trunchbull 😭

  • @tooeazzyy
    @tooeazzyy 3 роки тому +6

    I feel the skinny jeans one but with me being over 6’0 and being thicker I’m a little insecure from the waist down. I don’t want to make myself looking wider/bigger

    • @madeyoulooks
      @madeyoulooks  3 роки тому +6

      if you’re don’t for it. you should try a high waisted skinny jean or high waisted straight leg pant. they make your legs look longer and IMO make you look super proportionate

  • @aweirdonamedsam
    @aweirdonamedsam 3 роки тому +3

    As a lesbian fashion enthusiast, i totally agree with absolutely everything you said. Love this and im happy you posted this

  • @blaze7582
    @blaze7582 3 роки тому +1

    I'm 4'11 and my tailor has been with me 20plus yrs. I also brought my own sewing machine. Best 2 decisions I've ever made.

  • @cecesoclean4591
    @cecesoclean4591 3 роки тому +10

    now this channel has been active a short while, i think you should post a fashion related video on your og channel, in case people haven’t heard of or checked on this one, esp since you post so much here and these fools are missin out on your shine!!

  • @lilladyluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7270
    @lilladyluuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu7270 2 роки тому

    7:13 lil smirk dude

  • @A_H_V
    @A_H_V 3 роки тому +6

    I love these style videos i luckily know how to buy clothes that fit me my feet are small so if they look bigger thats a win for me

  • @KateORAGE
    @KateORAGE 3 роки тому +2

    Bruh you should do a series where you take lesbians shopping and teach them how to dress well, and also the lesbians are me.

  • @lilliescheffer5759
    @lilliescheffer5759 2 роки тому

    Ohhhhhh my goshhhhhhh when you said the shape of the outfit 💡it clicked!

  • @jacqsprat4645
    @jacqsprat4645 3 роки тому +2

    I’ve also stepped out of my comfort zone and have started buying more loose rolled up sleeve, button up, linen like women’s tops. Instead of always men’s shirts lol

  • @angelicachavez6118
    @angelicachavez6118 2 роки тому +2

    I'm considered more fem but those suits look good. And my only pair of jeans is some men's work pants that I got when I worked in demolition. Maybe my style is changing?

  • @knocksliderz6123
    @knocksliderz6123 3 роки тому +4

    I sick at dressing up and my girl is helping me out, and it’s getting old. I’m a chinos and shirt type of gal. This helps a lot!

  • @gandalfthegrey
    @gandalfthegrey 3 роки тому +2

    I feel called out about the skinny jeans thing. lol I wear the same color, same size, by the same brand every day because the brand I buy from has pants in my size.

  • @assassingirl2338
    @assassingirl2338 3 роки тому +1

    I love to matching 😅

  • @ollies.6844
    @ollies.6844 3 роки тому +3

    1:06 lol when you’re a Rajneesh (I know this is random, but since you’re living in Portland now you’ve got to learn the Oregon lore lol)

  • @synteis
    @synteis 3 роки тому +2

    I feel like my style has become more monochromatic throughout my twenties. I love blue and especially navy blues. I've definitely enjoyed playing with silhouette recently and having the confidence to rock different silhouettes.

  • @allisonmcintyre15
    @allisonmcintyre15 3 роки тому +6

    you’re becoming my favorite youtuber omg

  • @Ryan-mm1oj
    @Ryan-mm1oj 3 роки тому +2

    I literally just wear long sleeved turtleneck shirts with oversized t-shirts or flannels, mom jeans and chunky boots lol.

  • @frenchmayonnaise
    @frenchmayonnaise 3 роки тому +1

    Yes color theory!

  • @TheJaabaybay
    @TheJaabaybay 3 роки тому +2

    Honestly I recently decided to stop buying skinny jeans and it was the best style choice I’ve made in years. Mom jeans are a new fav of mine.

  • @Mr.555ishere
    @Mr.555ishere 3 роки тому +1

    wow that first mistake is literally me now and im dying to get out of it

  • @mrobi6197
    @mrobi6197 3 роки тому

    Tailoring !!!!!!!where you at girl!!!!

  • @moniquiemoore1438
    @moniquiemoore1438 2 роки тому +1

    I agree with suits I bought a Calvin Klein suit and had it tailored and it definitely looked good afterwards

  • @lunaluna6474
    @lunaluna6474 3 роки тому +10

    im a high femme but all i want is to be comfortable in this type of clothing :(

    • @existentialcrisiscat5188
      @existentialcrisiscat5188 3 роки тому +1

      I'd begin at oversized t-shirts. It's a great start to wearing masc clothing.

  • @BadgerBabyBoy
    @BadgerBabyBoy 3 роки тому +1

    1- Too matchy matchey.
    I agree.
    2- men’s suits, bad fit.
    Agree if it fits really badly
    3- Skinny jeans don’t go with everything.
    I don’t like skinny jeans that are too tight nor do I like pants that are way too baggy & please don’t do what some boys do & have your underwear & but showing coz your pants are falling down 🤦
    4- Hats don’t go with every outfit.
    I hope that’s wrong because I have alopecia & ALWAYS wear a hat or scarf to cover my bald head
    I’m afraid my hats often just look wrong but what can I do🤷‍♀️?!
    5- The unnecessary bow tie
    I agree to me if it’s unnecessary that means it doesn’t look good
    & I hate ties but I don’t hate bow ties
    I just dress for comport these days literally I don’t care how I look as long as it feels good

  • @kaizentruth8098
    @kaizentruth8098 2 роки тому

    #2 is what drives me a little crazy my first tailored tux was a life changer

  • @cawneeegan5892
    @cawneeegan5892 3 роки тому

    Comin here looking for the life advice I’ve been waiting for & it was the PANTS!
    Lmao. Can’t believe I’ve been stuck on skinny’s.

  • @NeededAnAccountNow
    @NeededAnAccountNow 3 роки тому

    This is THE. BEST. CHANNEL.
    So many years of questions answered and confusion cleared up about how to dress every time you post a video!

  • @TrinityLippard
    @TrinityLippard 5 місяців тому

    She got me with the skinny jeans 😅

  • @makesens
    @makesens 3 роки тому +2

    honestly my fave channel as of late 🤍 videos are gems after gems

  • @becrose5720
    @becrose5720 3 роки тому +1

    I honestly clicked because I liked your T-shirt and hat. And stayed for the vibe

  • @lurklingX
    @lurklingX 2 роки тому

    your bowtie outfit was cute though.... i liked that the tie was white so it blended in with the shirt. best bowtie in the vid, quite honestly. (sometimes those bowties look so dang awkward!!! i think people need to see if it works for THEM, not just do it arbitrarily. like hair. come on guys, lets just do what looks good, yeah?) but i really do love your current hair, cute as you were with the longer, and hats, etc.

  • @silindilentuli2019
    @silindilentuli2019 3 роки тому +4

    Congratulations on the 10k Woop Woop🎉🎉🍾🍾

  • @amillymiles
    @amillymiles 3 роки тому +2

    Love this content!!!!!!! This needs to blow up for all lesbians to do BETTER 😭the huge suits need to GO

  • @emd4390
    @emd4390 3 роки тому +1

    the way in which I thought this was your other channel when it came up in my recommended

  • @nuria6497
    @nuria6497 3 роки тому +1

    At first, UA-cam suggests a video about altering clothes from a channel I already subscribe to, then I get this :D thats how the algorithm should work, showing me interesting new things :)

  • @1hanakimi
    @1hanakimi 3 роки тому +1

    Needed all of these tips… but that hat tip hit different! 😂

  • @aeumurolake9563
    @aeumurolake9563 2 місяці тому

    Im here for this.

  • @licensetochill4992
    @licensetochill4992 3 роки тому +1

    One thing I hate about lesbian fashion is snap-backs/caps, especially when they are turned backwards. Reminds me of middle school boys 💀

  • @beanmaster42069
    @beanmaster42069 3 роки тому +1

    Honey... Baby Girl.. This tips, these tips. omg are sooo igjbthlsibfgh
    This helped me

  • @bleeka325
    @bleeka325 3 роки тому +3

    Dang sis! You a lil loud with the skinny jean tip I feel attacked 😅 you helping me get it together tho. Appreciate it lol

  • @chantelledoherty6309
    @chantelledoherty6309 3 роки тому

    the hats one hit home lol

  • @ashleyking5006
    @ashleyking5006 3 роки тому +1

    The way I have been looking for this channel😭

  • @email3352
    @email3352 3 роки тому +19

    The suit section will very much save the community. Imma need everyone to make Danielle Cooper their suit crush and fall in line.

  • @mbaleva5677
    @mbaleva5677 3 роки тому

    You're 100% right on #2. Part of my budget goes to my suits. I'm not tall, but hey, I know I look waaaaaay better with tailored / bespoke suits.

  • @kjartist494
    @kjartist494 2 роки тому

    So far my style is skater style as I like tomboy but also girl clothes. When chill, I go with skater style. Which is more recently used.

  • @meredithguido4775
    @meredithguido4775 3 роки тому +3

    I LOVED this video Jade!!!! Please more of this!!

  • @kayat1416
    @kayat1416 3 роки тому

    Referring to the first point. For me personally I feel this deep sense of fear if my clothes don't match. It's more of a comfort thing than anything else and that's also why I stick mostly to black as a comfort colour. I've been trying to break out of that and be more confident in other colours and it has been happening but I know not feeling the need to match would take more work.

  • @springonion8124
    @springonion8124 3 роки тому

    i wore all forest green yesterday and it slapped

  • @sea_hous
    @sea_hous 3 роки тому +3

    Spot on Jade. So insightful and deliberately worded. Love this content.

  • @juliabacon1258
    @juliabacon1258 3 роки тому +2

    I love all of your content on this channel. You really put your foot in it!!! I would love to see your take on masc center formal wear for different formal scenarios.

  • @reallycoolgal
    @reallycoolgal 3 роки тому

    Feelin' called out