One Man’s Struggle with Klinefelter Syndrome

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  • @janhall5659
    @janhall5659 11 місяців тому +36

    My Grandson has just been diagnosed with xxy.He is still in the womb and there is so much more doctors can do now.He will be loved by all my family.He has a cousin that has down syndrome. We all love him.He is smart and funny.

    • @jimisjimis6908
      @jimisjimis6908 Місяць тому

      An other thing to mension is that people with KS dont only need love but respect is also really important to make them feel like a man.

  • @Davett53
    @Davett53 Рік тому +66

    I was diagnosed when I was about 13,....when I was going through puberty. I had begun to develop "breasts", and my parents had me get plastic surgery, which was great, because I then had a normal male body. I don't have wide hips. Our family trait is shortness. My Pop was only 5 foot 4 inches tall, and my parents joked that I was the lanky one, I topped out at 5 ft.- 6 inches. My mom and sister are both 4 ft. 10 inches. I had read that I may have gotten KS, because my Pop was 10 years older than my mother. There had been some correlation related to having an older father. Maybe that isn't true any more. Pop was 42 and Mom was 32, when I was born. I did have learning disabilities, and was tutored all through school until I went to high school. I kind of blossomed in high school, I became socially comfortable with my peers. My creative hobbies, became something bigger. I wasn't good at academics, but I loved being creative and began making art. Even before graduating high school, I was already competing to get my art into exhibitions. I continued making art and earned my BFA, in Print Making. While in undergraduate school, my creative art making was recognized, and I won a 3 year art scholarship. I went on to graduate school, in Fine Art, and did both Print Making, Sculpture and Furniture making, & I earned my MFA. I competed to get into exhibitions, I was in group shows and one (man) exhibits. So little was known about KS, at the time I was diagnosed, at age 13 in 1966....though I began getting a monthly injection of testosterone. Which may not have been enough. I suffered in college with anxiety, and depression, and began seeing a therapist. ( when I was about 20)

    • @stopthephilosophicalzombie9017
      @stopthephilosophicalzombie9017 Рік тому +13

      What an inspiring post. Congratulations dealing with your challenges and making the most of your talents.

    • @Davett53
      @Davett53 Рік тому +8

      @@stopthephilosophicalzombie9017 Thank you for your kind comments. I give credit to my mother, though my diagnosis didn't happen until I was 13. I was struggling in school, and she was a teacher, so she did everything to keep from falling behind in school. She had no idea there was a connection to my Kleinfelters. In fact she never knew, nor did I, until months ago. She died when I was 43, and I am 70 now. It was assumed I had a learning disability, with no cause. I was referred to as a "late bloomer". I needed glasses when I was in 5th grade, and for all I know my poor vision, may have been a factor as well.

    • @SCCheaters
      @SCCheaters 8 місяців тому +2

      @@Davett53A mother’s love… Always so inspiring! Best wishes and regards to her and you my friend!

    • @Davett53
      @Davett53 8 місяців тому +1

      @@SCCheaters Thanks! In 1966 there was no pre-testing for DNA abnormalities. My mom somehow knew I might be left behind if I wasn't tutored. In years before, kids were shipped off to mental asylums, just for being born deaf or blind. Mom's no longer with us,...she'd be more than 100 years old, if she were. I loved her dearly, she was my biggest supporter. She had wisdom and a great comedic mind. She could make up a story on the spot, it would be hilarious, and educational. She would do voices for all the characters in her story, too.

  • @brittneybarfield9781
    @brittneybarfield9781 Рік тому +24

    It does so much for my soul to see this man carry on conversation seemingly with ease. His personality is awesome. He has overcome so much im sure! It gives alot of hope for kids struggling with this condition. Thanks for sharing!!

  • @ninjamaster3453
    @ninjamaster3453 Рік тому +26

    I'd like to hear more about Michael. He's a bright and inspiring person.

  • @AsmarterWorld
    @AsmarterWorld Рік тому +24

    When I was a teen I starting having gynecomastia and that was my main point of concern and not feeling great about myself. The surgery I has to remove it was the best choice ever and I don’t regret it ❤

  • @Davett53
    @Davett53 Рік тому +21

    When I was diagnosed with KS in 1966 at age 13, there wasn't much information about it. There may have been, but my doctor never directed me to anything to read about it. There was no Internet, only medical books in libraries. When I was 27 and had a steady girlfriend, (the Internet had yet to be invented) I looked up KS again in library books. There still wasn't anything much written about it. There were drawings of men with unusual bodies, and one passage I read that was depressing,.....saying KS men "tended to talk endlessly about nonsensical things". My girlfriend and I laughed about that one, because I did have a knack for talking about nonsensical things, and I was proud of it. It was the basis of my sense of humor. I loved making up stories and I was very talkative. I entertained my friends with my nonsensical stories and whimsical pondering. I still do.

    • @moonlightfitz
      @moonlightfitz Рік тому +2

      true 😂

    • @mikeifyouplease
      @mikeifyouplease 9 місяців тому +3

      Sounds like you would make a great author.

    • @Davett53
      @Davett53 9 місяців тому +3

      @@mikeifyouplease Thanks. The disheartening thing was having a much older sister who hated me, and took every opportunity to put me down and make me feel bad. She mocked my story telling, and later in high school, when my teachers were praising me & my creative writing,.....there was my sister, finding technical flaws, and spelling errors. I would send her letters, when she was away at college, and she would send them back, all marked up with red inked negative comments about my poor writing and spelling skills. I believed her, and assumed I was closer to being a moron, and that I would never amount to anything.

    • @mikeifyouplease
      @mikeifyouplease 9 місяців тому +5

      @@Davett53 I am very saddened to hear how you were treated by your much older sister. Sounds like she had issues herself.
      Hopefully, you have had and continue to have a happy and fulfilling life.

    • @Davett53
      @Davett53 9 місяців тому +4

      @@mikeifyouplease Thank you for you kind words & thoughts. Yes, Sis has issues. She was my folks first born child, and she was the "little queen" in the household,...then I was born 6 years later. (The blame should lie with my parents, for waiting so long to have me.) Not that, that is uncommon, but I think today's, parents try to have their kids, closer in age. So then I came along, and "being the boy",....meant I was treated like some special big deal. Sis got shoved aside, I guess. My folks always said she was "so independent" & smart. They didn't notice she felt pushed aside. So my sister blamed me, for her loss of standing. Older siblings are fairly often jealous of their younger siblings. Believing they got more goodies and attention. With a 6 year age gap, meant we were never in the same schools, at the same time. Maybe because of my Kleinfelters,..I was slow to develop. I took a long time to mature, I had learning disabilities,....that took a while to overcome. Our mom was a school teacher, and she made sure I was tutored. I was tutored from 2nd grade until I began high school. In all academics. By 5th grade, I became interested in art making and plastic model building. I excelled in those hobbies. In 6th grade I submitted a drawing in a local art competition, and I won it. My name was printed in our local paper, and I was awarded a blue ribbon. By time I was 12, I was winning awards in plastic model competitions. I customized car models, sculpting their bodies with a special putty. And the military models I built, I made them look realistic, by adding dirt to the paint, and poking hot pins into their bodies, to suggest they'd been riddled with bullets. As I got older I began taking art classes after school and on weekends. I began competing in local competitions. In college and grad. school I exclusively took art classes. I was exhibiting my art in local and regional shows. Winning awards and gaining recognition. I earned both a BFA & MFA, and won art scholarships, that paid for my schooling.

  • @KRYPTOSPOLLARD
    @KRYPTOSPOLLARD Рік тому +33

    I'm making an assumption here, but it's very well based in a lot of literature. When he said his physical attributes are the biggest thing, i think that there's a very very very fair chance that he's drastically underestimating the mental effects. The mental effects of low T are, much like many many other mental issues, so fucking hard to see while they're happening to you. I don't have XXY, but i have a pretty serious primary hypogonadism from an accident. My T was almost always

    • @michaelhiggins9791
      @michaelhiggins9791 Рік тому +6

      I understand what you’re saying totally! There are definitely some mental challenges I’ve experienced but I’m also very hard headed and determined. I have not been on testosterone but continue to push and challenge myself. The plan is to get back on there soon but I’m happy you bring this up.

    • @KRYPTOSPOLLARD
      @KRYPTOSPOLLARD Рік тому +1

      @@michaelhiggins9791 why are you not on currently, and why were you on originally ?

    • @KRYPTOSPOLLARD
      @KRYPTOSPOLLARD Рік тому

      @@michaelhiggins9791 oh sorry, i misread that.

    • @KRYPTOSPOLLARD
      @KRYPTOSPOLLARD Рік тому +1

      @@michaelhiggins9791 but yeah, it's crazy how it improves your mental state of you've been low. If you're not low and you want to go above and beyond, that's cool if you know what the deal is. I just hate that so many dudes have perfectly fine levels and they feel like they need to run extra T, and they're not trying to be the next Ronnie Coleman, and they don't have the lifestyle and genetics to get anywhere close. Many people need better hormone levels, but to see these guys ruin their natural levels because they want to try and look like somebody else, but they just ain't gone do that or be that, it's honestly sad.

    • @stopthephilosophicalzombie9017
      @stopthephilosophicalzombie9017 Рік тому +3

      That's good to know. I've suspected that I have low T (i'm in my early 50's) and I need to do something about it.

  • @codylaboy8992
    @codylaboy8992 Рік тому +6

    Thanks for posting guys!

  • @teobordianu3620
    @teobordianu3620 4 дні тому

    I love this so much, I'm so happy you're doing this

  • @NecroMoz
    @NecroMoz Рік тому +9

    What an absolutely lovely man.

  • @SayWhat-z4c
    @SayWhat-z4c 4 місяці тому +4

    Keep breaking stigma guys! I’m a woman & I am learning about this. You are people with a condition just living your lives. I like what Micheal said about getting past/ around challenges. Any human should be able to relate to that. Learning disabilities are mislabeled. It is not an inability to learn, it may mean working harder. Dyslexia doesn’t mean you can’t read, dyscalculia doesn’t mean you can’t do math. I’m studying medicine & we need to wash the stigma away from the science, because it’s gumming up the works.

  • @ohboy111
    @ohboy111 6 місяців тому +7

    I havent gone for treatment but i am sure i have this syndrome. Peiople of my age, my friends are normally living their life, study well, gain skiils, have money, have gfs, and there is me who dont have anything. What a joke of life!

  • @chrsd2536
    @chrsd2536 Рік тому

    Thank you for everything you do with your advocacy. You are so appreciated.

  • @PolarisFx
    @PolarisFx Рік тому +9

    I was over 6' when I was 12... you'd think that would be something people would view as a red flag, nope. You lucked out at 26, I found out last year at 39. We're like twins, except kleinfelters gave me insulin resistance and I became fat so my breasts blend in much better.

    • @Sparrow1138
      @Sparrow1138 Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing

  • @RustyMartin-b9f
    @RustyMartin-b9f Рік тому +9

    🌞🌅Good morning XXY community..one life one chance..let's have a positive day.. against all odds..👑🙏❤️💯

  •  Рік тому +4

    Somehow, because of the angle of the camera, the video didn't show perfectly how tall both of you are. People were walking in the background but it would have been a bit better to zoom out a bit, so viewers could have seen the difference more clearly.

  • @sophieellen1254
    @sophieellen1254 Рік тому +3

    I hope Michael is well and I hope you are well.

  • @store-i4p
    @store-i4p 5 місяців тому

    thanks for sharing this, this will help people understanding what people must be going through disabilities and not be a bully

  • @gratefulot360
    @gratefulot360 Рік тому +19

    When I was a teen I was told by my grandma that I should wear a bra. That hurt. I did get a double mastectomy in my fifties.

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY  Рік тому +5

      People can be so cruel. How are you doing now?

    • @hamdan1003
      @hamdan1003 Рік тому

      @@LivingwithXXY sir i have a question but I don’t have anyone to ask I don’t know anyone with KS pleased reply if u could tell me or if u have instagram

    • @Joe-nw7wh
      @Joe-nw7wh 7 місяців тому

      I found out when I was 15 I've hated myself ever since @ 19 I had breast reduction surgery best thing I ever did

    • @YASH_Luffy
      @YASH_Luffy 7 місяців тому

      @@Joe-nw7wh Bro what was your breast size then i am 15 too but a liitle more fat in breast do i have klinefaliter?

  • @chemicalkurdt
    @chemicalkurdt 9 днів тому

    I’m 46 and I just found out I have this. It’s pretty emotionally devastating but explains so much.
    As a child, I saw my doctor regularly and was constantly asking what was wrong with me, but he never did a chromosome test.
    Not knowing I had this or how to deal with it has pretty much destroyed my life up to this point.
    The doctor, I saw as a child (age 5-18) is still practicing, but the statute of limitations is over to sue for medical malpractice.
    So he gets to live in a huge mansion after totally dropping the ball on my life by failing at his professional responsibility to catch this.
    I know where he lives though. 😊

  • @pibidemusrilanka6182
    @pibidemusrilanka6182 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks a lot for the great service..

  • @doctordos6390
    @doctordos6390 Рік тому +4

    I know that i have that sickness without going to doctor because all symptoms (Except for No facial hair growth) because my body is slightly similar to him, and people mistaken me for a lesbian and they also make fun of me. I have trouble with social because of this. But praise God i learned to braced my condition

  • @matthewspratt8578
    @matthewspratt8578 Рік тому +3

    Geetings from KCMO, fellow 47 XXY! It's cool to see more people be out there with their KS! :)

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY  Рік тому

      It’s the only way we change the misinformation!

  • @stopthephilosophicalzombie9017

    What a nice guy. You both must be really tall because he didn't seem tall compared to you.

  • @M.-fy8gj
    @M.-fy8gj 9 місяців тому +1

    Hi Michael I am from Kansas too I looked this up because I have a cat with this he is a very special cat thanks for sharing

  • @Mikeexteriorcleaning
    @Mikeexteriorcleaning Рік тому +3

    Hey Michael, i'm also Michael, i also have kfs. I didnt get diagnosis till i was 33. Also tall 6'4", but not you're tall. Same like you. Gym is so much harder. Also gynaecomastia is a bitch, so i use skins to hide it until i had surgery. I struggled with Maths, but excelled with patterns, and remembering things specifically. Ive learnt a few languages including Auslan. I definitely feel sometimes like I'm both sides of the equation (male&female) .

  • @greggkimball4110
    @greggkimball4110 Рік тому +4

    On insurance tables, the average height of an adult American male is 5'9". By comparison, it would be helpful to know the average height of XXY adult males.

  • @JorgeGarcia-ir3zx
    @JorgeGarcia-ir3zx 4 місяці тому

    I didn’t find out until I was 43 when I was trying to make a family. I have lived a normal lifestyle. I was in shock when my urologist told me I was seen by two other doctors for the same answer I’m 50 now I raised 2 step children but it does seem to hurt mentally at times I would never have my own children. I’m very healthy thank God. And very positive.

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for sharing! Maybe you would want to do a podcast?

    • @helike13
      @helike13 2 місяці тому

      How was your dating life when you were young?

  • @j.b.4340
    @j.b.4340 10 місяців тому +3

    Very brave. As an adult, my shoulders are permanently malformed from hunching, in an attempt to hide my gynomastia, which I developed during puberty. After I had “them” surgically removed, I couldn’t straighten my shoulders. They’re turned inward, or curved. I was judged, and messed with, regarding my abnormal appearance. It wasn’t a good time.

    • @michigan1085
      @michigan1085 4 місяці тому

      I'm so sorry you went through that. Some people are just real jerks, especially in the teen years

    • @stevencostin4401
      @stevencostin4401 4 місяці тому +1

      Hi my name is ,steve, I'm from England uk, I was 58 when doctors found that I had klinsfelter syndrome & Asperger syndrome, when I about 17 looking more like a young woman & I had breasts wide hips 4 boys held me I was sexual assault I'm now 76 years old I still can see them,not knowing about life, my life was my dogs, later I throught I met the women of my dreams but really it was a very bad nightmare, & so I told her about my life and who I was, 5 years later I'm homeless, ( I brought the house for my mum & step dad) when I told her about the boys she said I probably enjoyed it, my mum was raped by my real dad & later I was born yes I still struggle with my dreams, my luck changed for the better when I met a wonderful women who was a teacher, but now because of klinsfelter syndrome my body is falling apart I've lost count of the doctors & hospital treatment, being a pensioner not much money I'm glad for our NHS & of course it's all free my treatment is long term, anyway love to all xxy klinsfelter syndrome I only wish was it's a shame I was lot older

  • @viktorluvbikskog9389
    @viktorluvbikskog9389 7 місяців тому +1

    I have Klinefelters. Definetely one of the issues I have is lesser testosterone. Have to get injected testosterone or it drops to dangerous levels while estrogen is at a normal level for males. It causes a lot of body/mental issues due to the constant hormonal change. Hoping when I get to the right dosage in HRT, I won’t have to worry about those sudden shifts and changes because of low T. KS has forced me to work on myself from all angles as it was more aggressive in my teen years and puberty with low t. And I’m coming to find out some ks patients are more at risk of developing certain kinds of cancers later on. But, there is also a big array of what that extra X chromosome does to the human body; even when the appearance is altered a little or majorly, the bodies function can also be completely out of whack too. I call myself an enigma sometimes.

    • @jancyfer8
      @jancyfer8 6 місяців тому

      Is there any natural supplement to increase klinfelter syndrome person?

  • @goo5976
    @goo5976 Рік тому +1

    When I was super thin I was happy about how I looked but as I gained weight my gyno got crazy and my fat around my hips got crazy too. I’m not sure if this is me but I hope I can find out some day

  • @Kansas_Clairvoyant-Medium777
    @Kansas_Clairvoyant-Medium777 9 місяців тому +3

    His body shape and boobs are the same as I have. Only thing is, I have always struggled horribly with learning and anxiety and depression and I am pansexual. I feel disgusting in my body but yet comfortable at the same time, which makes it completely double standard.

  • @MHDIQBAL-g3i
    @MHDIQBAL-g3i Рік тому +2

    Bisakah anda juga datang ke Indonesia
    Saya penderita penyakit ini dari Indonesia juga mau bagi pengalaman

  • @tumblewede333
    @tumblewede333 Рік тому +4

    Did he do Teatosterone treatment once diagnosed?

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY  Рік тому

      He did for a little while and then had to go off of it for a very long time. He hopes to get back on it soon

    • @lakeview8157
      @lakeview8157 Рік тому

      Its not good to be on Testosterone treatments for long periods of time.
      The worst part of it, is the itchy skin and you don't sweat while on it.😳

    • @stevencorrea8032
      @stevencorrea8032 Рік тому

      ​@@lakeview8157I didn't know that I've been off for years and have no problem

    • @moonlightfitz
      @moonlightfitz Рік тому

      @@lakeview8157 how are you doing without t?

  • @WalldoTheWInner
    @WalldoTheWInner 8 місяців тому +1

    Hang in there buddy.

  • @sharonstevenson199
    @sharonstevenson199 Рік тому +2

    Ditto l had the same experience

  • @Von199X
    @Von199X 9 місяців тому

    Man I don't know if I have it I'm taller than average and store fat on my hips and thighs slight gyno but not noticable

  • @krustysurfer
    @krustysurfer Рік тому

    Anyone done research on Atrazine exposure link with this gene expression?

    • @stevencorrea8032
      @stevencorrea8032 Рік тому +1

      Yes that is BPA Dr Tyrone Hayes does the atrazine

    • @krustysurfer
      @krustysurfer Рік тому

      @@stevencorrea8032 I will have to look that up

  • @NorthLoftier
    @NorthLoftier Місяць тому

    I'd marry this man. I fell in love with his personality

  • @marilynyoh7951
    @marilynyoh7951 21 день тому

    But he is the same height as the guy with the phone

  • @JR-lb4ng
    @JR-lb4ng Рік тому +4

    I just happened to see a video about this and the cry caught my attention.
    I was diagnosed when I was I believe 13 or 14.
    The doctor didn’t give it a name except to say that I had an extra chromosome and they did a blood test which revealed that I had a low sperm count and would unlikely be able to father children.
    Now after reading about what this 47,xxy is, it all makes sense.
    Gives me an answer to so many questions about why I have a small penis, small testicles and man boobs. Why I am under developed in muscles compared to my friends.
    Also makes sense as to why I have depression/anxiety and Diabetes 2.
    Wished I’d have known this earlier in life, might have been able to cope better but I’m 58 now and I doubt a testosterone shot would do me much good now.

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY  Рік тому +2

      You dont know till you go check you T levels and talk with your doctor about getting on it. Its never too late to help yourself!

    • @moonlightfitz
      @moonlightfitz Рік тому +1

      the doctor didn’t said anything about testosterone injections?

    • @Joe-nw7wh
      @Joe-nw7wh 7 місяців тому

      ​@@moonlightfitztime 4 a new dr.

  • @LikeFaaT
    @LikeFaaT 10 місяців тому +1

    I am xxy in Hong Kong

  • @RustyMartin-b9f
    @RustyMartin-b9f Рік тому

    Mind..body soul..360 health..💯❤️

  • @c87kim
    @c87kim Рік тому +1

    Damn they both 7 feet tall then?

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY  Рік тому +1

      No, I am 6’4” in Michael is 6’8”

    • @LikeFaaT
      @LikeFaaT 10 місяців тому

      @@LivingwithXXYI am 188cm

  • @WestMoney-uz6qz
    @WestMoney-uz6qz 6 місяців тому +2

    I would be in heaven if my family could afford plastic surgery

    • @OP-rooster
      @OP-rooster 4 місяці тому

      All my life I have to wear shorts my waist size is 50

  • @bouffant-girl
    @bouffant-girl 9 місяців тому

    I have this same syndrome diagnosis and I a. Undergoing treatment for this

  • @reme001
    @reme001 11 місяців тому +1

    Breast reduction is easily done.

    • @michaelhiggins2135
      @michaelhiggins2135 10 місяців тому

      There are actually multiple steps to the process of having them removed. I appreciate your concern but I’m ok! I promise!

    • @Joe-nw7wh
      @Joe-nw7wh 7 місяців тому

      Breast reduction has saved my life

  • @tdq1628
    @tdq1628 6 місяців тому

    I have prolonged stress, mentally damaged / can't be confident, my hands and feet are long, my family has a body that is not considered tall (1.64), I am tall (1.78), Penis length 14cm when erect, no breasts, I am 18 years old, Can I be diagnosed with Klinefelter?

    • @Ghost0864
      @Ghost0864 2 місяці тому +1

      No, klinefelter syndrome average height is 6’3 also they have gyno and small testis

  • @allisonlew4508
    @allisonlew4508 Рік тому +3

    WHY hasn't he gotten the gynomastia fixed by plastic surgery? It would help so much! And until then, wear a binder across his chest.

    • @LivingwithXXY
      @LivingwithXXY  Рік тому +7

      That requires money, and not everyone has the money to spend on that.

    • @allisonlew4508
      @allisonlew4508 Рік тому +1

      ​@@LivingwithXXY A chest binder isn't expensive. And I wonder if insurance or non-profit assistance could help with the operation and it's costs.

    • @michaelhiggins2135
      @michaelhiggins2135 10 місяців тому

      @@allisonlew4508I appreciate your concern but I’m good. I’ll address it when the time is right.

    • @mikeifyouplease
      @mikeifyouplease 9 місяців тому +2

      The issue with binders is that they compress the chest, which in turn compresses the lungs and the ability for them to fully inflate.
      That can result in all sorts of medical issues from low blood oxygen saturation to increased fungal infections in the lungs.
      When I cracked two ribs, the doctors told me that they NO longer used binders, because of all the side effects that they caused.

  • @allisonlew4508
    @allisonlew4508 Рік тому +1

    He's wrong - the easily-fixable man boobs are a problem for him being set apart.

    • @michaelhiggins2135
      @michaelhiggins2135 Рік тому +7

      That is your opinion. Please remember to be empathetic when commenting on people’s videos about their stories/experiences. So many negative comments are unnecessary. I’m living my best life. You should too!

    • @Inflec
      @Inflec Рік тому

      I think Michael is adorable. His voice reminds me of Paul Lynde. Besides, what's wrong with man boobs? C'mon, celebrate diversity!

    • @mikeifyouplease
      @mikeifyouplease 9 місяців тому

      @@michaelhiggins2135 Michael, you come across as a really nice guy, so I don't think anyone is criticizing you. They are simply offering suggestions to (in their minds) help you have an even happier life. Btw, gynecomastia surgery is the number one or two male surgery in many parts of the world.
      If you do ever choose to have the procedure, please research surgeons online. Some of them perform near perfect surgeries, while others...not so much.
      So if you don't want the procedure, fine. But if you ever do...just know that millions of men have gotten it already, and in some clinics, it has become a normal, routine (almost) boring procedure, performed nearly every day.