The Pain Of Losing My Son - Monde Shange

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  • @ThulisileSibeko-vn4ky
    @ThulisileSibeko-vn4ky Місяць тому +33

    "I'll do anything to get back my family" thats wat i liked abt him
    Fight for it man

  • @KananeloMabelane
    @KananeloMabelane Місяць тому +86

    An ex not badmouthing an ex its rare

  • @Raekonzapi
    @Raekonzapi Місяць тому +44

    Big ups to Justice for such an authentic interview ,a lot of people may not realize this but this is actually therapy ,allowing your guest to speak out freely without judgment is an amazing skill ,i pray for Monde and Tumi's healing

  • @SheronLunga
    @SheronLunga Місяць тому +42

    Guys a petition for justice to mediate between these two to get back together, please

  • @Kgaogelobaby
    @Kgaogelobaby Місяць тому +26

    Monde still in Pain😢For the Fact yaorr he's praising Ugogo For being strong ❤

  • @DonkeyKhong99
    @DonkeyKhong99 Місяць тому +19

    Monde King, you don't know me but thank you for coming here and talking. We needed this. I know I speak for a lot of men out there whether they admit it or not, but we needed this. We salute you king. Stay strong my brother. Big up.

  • @Sbosh_mokoma
    @Sbosh_mokoma Місяць тому +16

    I'm just so emotional when I look at you Monde Shange 😢my God grant back ur marriage n n interven between u n Tumi❤

  • @sibongilemthunzi3857
    @sibongilemthunzi3857 Місяць тому +16

    you can even hear the pain in his voice hey, I pray they receive healing

  • @phumzilemkhatshwa1943
    @phumzilemkhatshwa1943 Місяць тому +90

    I wish Tumi and Monde would just make up, this guy loves Tumi. I still think Tumi is your soulmate.

    • @SindiNdlovu-k5z
      @SindiNdlovu-k5z Місяць тому +6

      But he was kinda playing with her when they were together.
      I guess you never know what you have until it's lost.

    • @ThulisileSibeko-vn4ky
      @ThulisileSibeko-vn4ky Місяць тому

      I wish so too

    • @malebs8332
      @malebs8332 Місяць тому +1

      And your wish came true🎉

    • @SindiNdlovu-k5z
      @SindiNdlovu-k5z Місяць тому

      @@malebs8332 yeah. Hope they've learned from they mistakes. wishing them light 🕯️

  • @olgamaluluke8240
    @olgamaluluke8240 Місяць тому +21

    Imagine dating monde now and you see and hear him talking about Tumi with so much love...

  • @OlothandoMbungu
    @OlothandoMbungu Місяць тому +42

    Ahhh 😢tumi posted on her ig story "has anyone ever divorced and regretted it?"I hope that was a sign

    • @NtombiKalimashe
      @NtombiKalimashe Місяць тому +10

      lets get petition for them to get back together man!!!

    • @aronmathebula8889
      @aronmathebula8889 Місяць тому +5

      ​@@NtombiKalimasheI agree with you I would also love to see them get back together hle

  • @teyamkhonza7439
    @teyamkhonza7439 Місяць тому +21

    Men opening spaces for each other to be vulnerable. Absolutely needed and beautiful to witness.

  • @LERATOa7215
    @LERATOa7215 Місяць тому +26

    You a drained man , even your actions shows it😢 sending love and light to you and sis Tumi❤

  • @filoelekhuane
    @filoelekhuane Місяць тому +7

    I can feel the pain in monde's voice 😢😢, m sending love and healing to you and tumi ❤️🌹

  • @nokuthulabooi1930
    @nokuthulabooi1930 Місяць тому +7

    Thank you brother Justice for being authentic and humble soul

  • @makopamadia4091
    @makopamadia4091 Місяць тому +8

    I will be praying for this couple. God will restore their family.

  • @masentlejiyane6021
    @masentlejiyane6021 Місяць тому +7

    U guys wena no Tumie u were made for each other, and u make a good couple 💓💓

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 Місяць тому +5

    i’m very sorry for your loss. Praying for you. Holy Spirit, direct me in my career, and finances. As a single mother with two children with special needs life is an overwhelming journey, especially because I’m constantly faced with financial difficulties. Lord I struggle to provide the basic necessities for my sons, like groceries and rent. I pray for your divine intervention in my life, that you would provide for my children’s needs and guide me towards financial stability in Jesus name I pray.🙏🏾

  • @justinewitbeen6186
    @justinewitbeen6186 Місяць тому +11

    LOVE AND LIGHT Monde and Gogo
    No relationship/marriage is perfect even those making noise on the socials they are not in perfect marriages. Focus on mending things between you two and make your marriage work because you two still love each other. Misunderstandings will be there but you gotta fight for your love no matter what we are not perfect beings that why we serve God and ask for His guidance on this journey of life. TUMI GIRL MONDE LOVES YOU ❤️ GOD WILL HEAL YOU GUY'S

  • @tumiedyakopu8370
    @tumiedyakopu8370 Місяць тому +4

    I pray you guys get back and you guys still in love with each other. .” I would do anything to get my family back” ahhhhh that touched me😢

  • @paulinahmatlala9369
    @paulinahmatlala9369 Місяць тому +8

    Am i the only one chopping onions on behalf of Monde because he is holding himself 😢💔 yhooo this guy is hurting so much, loosing boy and his wife 😭😭
    #May God heal your heart, Monde😢
    #May you and Tumi fix things and marry again ☺️🕯

  • @SetlogolosaDitshwene
    @SetlogolosaDitshwene Місяць тому +6

    Thanks brother for this episode
    And thank you Monde to speak the truth from your heart...u an Tumi deserves each other...keep on praying and fight for what belongs to you which is your family.

  • @KananeloMabelane
    @KananeloMabelane Місяць тому +17

    Good luck on getting ur family back... don't give up😢❤❤❤

  • @edithhartland8326
    @edithhartland8326 Місяць тому +3

    Monde u guys love each other and u can give it a second shot and make it work u are a perfect match. I will keep u in my prayers 🙏🙏

  • @littlemissbliss.
    @littlemissbliss. 13 днів тому +1

    It's coming, it's hunting him and he said it himself that he's running away, ducking and diving but the time is gonna come. There is going to be something that's going to shake and break the silence up that he cracks and he's not going to forget that moment. But it's going to free him, it's going to feel so much better that he has released.. It's coming, he just mustn't rush it..❤He is going to be okay.

  • @chabat-xz6bf
    @chabat-xz6bf Місяць тому +4

    U will get yo family back bro.....u r in our prayers

  • @thapikekana195
    @thapikekana195 5 днів тому

    Monde is such a humble guy❤❤❤❤❤ very humble..may he heals from all heartbreak nd loosing boy😢😢😢

  • @SamMalefahlo
    @SamMalefahlo Місяць тому +9

    This is deep and painful
    Was on tears watching this. People are going through a lot and that moment you feel like you going through the most and there’s someone who’s going through the worst
    Big ups bro for speaking your heart and I hope u sister can find a way to meet you half way and sort out things
    Be strong infect you’re strong so just get stronger and maintain that. Most people takes their life in such situations but nina nicinile and it’s motivational to people like us
    Justice my guy please look out for u Monde and thanks a lot for being there for him. Just know that this isn’t just about him but about most of us going through stuff
    Big ups gents 🙏🏾

  • @joaquinadomingos5656
    @joaquinadomingos5656 Місяць тому +2

    May you find the peace 🕊️ and believe Uboy is in place where there's no pain, no more suffering and he loves you so much, he's so proud of his dad and you guys will always be connected.
    This is so therapeutic, thank you for being vulnerable and allowing other man to understand that this is not a one person journey and there are stagesthat you don't have to do or be alone.
    Tumi you've got it all here...
    Monde you've got this, your family will heal and they need you as much as you need them. ❤

  • @thatochiloane2268
    @thatochiloane2268 Місяць тому +3

    Yoh man I pray God doubles EVERYTHING you guys lost 🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pumlakoltana936
    @pumlakoltana936 Місяць тому +5

    Monde I salute u, u are a man .I respect u and never payed attention on u but yhaaa .

  • @masentlejiyane6021
    @masentlejiyane6021 Місяць тому +10

    Monde fight for ur family, God hate divorce

  • @Mnm403
    @Mnm403 Місяць тому +6

    U are way better than gogo maweni u were bind by love more than anything, she s a good woman and u are a good man , initiate the love back dude siyacela as a country

  • @andilengubane5178
    @andilengubane5178 Місяць тому +1

    What an emotional interview! May the people close to Monde support and love him genuinely. He needs it! Love and light to you Monde and Skhotheni, may God shine His light 💡 on you.

  • @gofaonembojane3050
    @gofaonembojane3050 Місяць тому +2

    You love Tumi so so much Monde, will keep you on my prayers 🙏🏽

  • @mamakamwelase6776
    @mamakamwelase6776 Місяць тому +4

    😢😢Monde s voice yoh,sorry bhuti for wat u going thru may the good Lord comfort you both

  • @SekelaKomani
    @SekelaKomani Місяць тому +1

    Bhuti Justice Shabalala I love watching your podcasts, Positivity,clear and collected, big up Grootman. Watching from Cape Town 👏🏾
    I'm sorry for your loss Bhuti Monde😢

  • @LucretiaManda
    @LucretiaManda Місяць тому +2

    May the good Lord give you both strength and keep you guys together and reunite you guys your love is stronger work it out please❤❤sending love to both Monde n Tumi

  • @emelinakhorola7227
    @emelinakhorola7227 27 днів тому

    Oooooooooh wow Shange u just made me blush😊 may God bless that man in u bro maan❤

  • @nelisiwesimelane7610
    @nelisiwesimelane7610 Місяць тому +2

    Healing and strength to you and mama Liyana❤️

  • @moore_Jade
    @moore_Jade Місяць тому +3

    monde ur a man amongsts men😍🙏.. praying for u nd tumi🥹🙏

  • @siphokazimbali
    @siphokazimbali Місяць тому +2

    😢Loved them as an item n hope God brings thm back together love and light Monde n Tumi strongs guys❤

  • @LikeleliMotseki
    @LikeleliMotseki Місяць тому +2

    the pain in his voice yho Lord...comfort this man

  • @Sompisi-w9v
    @Sompisi-w9v Місяць тому +2

    Ohhh man This was so painful to watch😢sorry to Monde and Tumi hope things get better and their marriage to be restored

  • @NomfundoTsabedze-e4o
    @NomfundoTsabedze-e4o Місяць тому +2

    Love and lights Tumi and Monde im praying that God gives u strength in everything u going through ❤

  • @wawa2.2
    @wawa2.2 Місяць тому +2

    We definitely need to intercede for them ❤

  • @portiatshabane8056
    @portiatshabane8056 Місяць тому +4

    Oh umntwana wabantu nkosiyam ubuhlungu ngomtanakhe ey 😢😢😢

  • @NtombifuthiMbele-ps7de
    @NtombifuthiMbele-ps7de Місяць тому +2

    I wish you the best of luck Monde and please work on getting your family back u were a responsible family Man Liyana needs you,and you and your wife also need each other you are a match made in heaven

  • @PhumelelaMhle-s9b
    @PhumelelaMhle-s9b Місяць тому +2

    Love and light Baba Liyana🥺

  • @nomsangema8162
    @nomsangema8162 Місяць тому +1

    It's okay to feel that way ❤ I lost my 1st 9 months in 2010 ne ke gowisha shame I grew to accept and move on 😢

  • @missTee708
    @missTee708 Місяць тому

    Go back home Monde, the streets are cold😢 your wife and daughter needs you.
    Big ups to Justice for such a phenomenal interview... 🙌 🎉❤ i really loved and enjoyed watching.

  • @nonkululekosibiya9933
    @nonkululekosibiya9933 Місяць тому +1

    Beautiful to watch

  • @pinkyradebe9037
    @pinkyradebe9037 Місяць тому +3

    I pray that God restores your marriage with Tumi 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @PhumeleleNdarana
    @PhumeleleNdarana Місяць тому

    Monde good luck to get your family back..Monde and Tumi May God give both of u strength ❤❤

  • @GloriaSijila
    @GloriaSijila Місяць тому

    I pray that You and your Wife rekindle your love you both went through a lot More Blessings ❤🙌🏼🙇🏼‍♀️

  • @gomolemojaele8595
    @gomolemojaele8595 Місяць тому

    Boy really went through a lot.....may the good Lord heal you, I know the pain of losing a child. Lost mine at 1 year 3 months, its been 14 years but still feels like yesterday 😢

  • @drkhanyarajuili4753
    @drkhanyarajuili4753 Місяць тому +4

    A great interview to allow Monde to exhale. He has not healed, even his seating position says a lot

  • @thandolwenkosimahlangu2772
    @thandolwenkosimahlangu2772 Місяць тому +1

    ❤ ❤ May you heal Mondeo in all the aspects of life ❤ ❤phola Monde.

  • @fridahlunga3410
    @fridahlunga3410 Місяць тому

    It is well my brother Monde , may the Good Lord continue to strengthen you and sis Tumi . Please do allow yourself to cry , also the pain will get better with time. I am one person who has been in your shoes, a sick child, a break up and loosing the child.

  • @hymnistmapulaphaho7848
    @hymnistmapulaphaho7848 Місяць тому

    I'm glad that they are back together 🎉🎉🎉❤❤

  • @masentlejiyane6021
    @masentlejiyane6021 Місяць тому +1

    M sending love to u both of u Monde plus Tumie❤❤❤

  • @yoneladumezweni6335
    @yoneladumezweni6335 Місяць тому +5

    Aw Monde 🥺. I salute you man for accounting for your actions, that's very rare

  • @KhazmlaFunekaYiliwe
    @KhazmlaFunekaYiliwe Місяць тому +1

    Try bhut to get you family back don't give up❤

  • @MatshedisoPelo
    @MatshedisoPelo Місяць тому +1

    Monde you really need Tumi on your side to heal. Get healing with her and make time for you guys to sit and talk. You two belong together.

  • @phindilekhosa3757
    @phindilekhosa3757 Місяць тому

    One thing i loved about this monde never bad mouth tumi it shows maturity amd taking accountability for hos part

  • @xolelwayamiso5759
    @xolelwayamiso5759 Місяць тому

    ❤❤Monde and Tumi please guys fix yourselves then you fix your relationship ❤

  • @queeniekhosifulafula3198
    @queeniekhosifulafula3198 Місяць тому

    Awuuuu bhuti wami🙏🙏🙏🙏 lungisani mntase ilwa bhuti nilingise izinto no mama Liyana ❤❤ Thixo unibusisile kuzo zonke izindlu akhona amahla ndenyuka ndathanda noba understand ubizo luka maka Liyana🙏🙏🙏🧎🧎💐💐🤍🤍utata nguye intloko ekhaya so buyela kwi family yakho tata nibahle nibancinci nifanelene nikhulise Liyana together futhi nkulunkulu sezonipha third Monde junior ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🧎💐💐

  • @zumbapilane
    @zumbapilane Місяць тому +1

    Sorry Monde. Wish so much that you can work things out.

  • @yonelapokwana
    @yonelapokwana Місяць тому +1

    😢😢😢oh maan Monde im so emotionally yhooo

  • @LeleMalie-bk4uc
    @LeleMalie-bk4uc Місяць тому +5

    Babaka Liyana remarry Mamaka Liyana.

  • @MahlogonoloSebola
    @MahlogonoloSebola Місяць тому +5

    Tumi Mama you are a strong woman a real imbokoto🥺🥺🥺🤌 and Monde sorry baba, allow yourself to grieve the loss of the only son you had.❤️
    You guys really did and still are doing this parenting so well
    You 2 are stronger together trust me!!❤️

  • @thulisilemahlobo6389
    @thulisilemahlobo6389 Місяць тому

    God won't give you what you can't handle ❤❤❤

  • @SimpleWithMarygold
    @SimpleWithMarygold Місяць тому +1

    I pray you mend your marriage ❤

  • @lintlemosola7129
    @lintlemosola7129 Місяць тому

    Love and light to your family bro

  • @athienkosimakara5500
    @athienkosimakara5500 Місяць тому +7

    Jesus Christ love you Monde, and He want to heal your heart from that pain of losing your child. I am a father, and I know how you feel, I went through what you are going through.
    And Jesus says He is not responsible for the death of your child. satan is responsible, he only comes to steal, kill and destroy, and Jesus came in order to restore and give us life in abundance.
    Let Him in brother, open up to Him, just go to your private room and ask Him to reveal Himself to you, say this to Him 'Jesus, if you are really, reveal yourself, give me answers why I lost my child, and heal me from this deep hurt',
    If you are sincere He will show up, and He will heal you. He is your father, He Loves you so much, and He can restore your home.

  • @masesimaswanganyi2460
    @masesimaswanganyi2460 Місяць тому

    I wish you guys can mend things and be a family again

  • @hapilwephatela4510
    @hapilwephatela4510 Місяць тому

    Ohhh how I luv this couple

  • @NthabisengMotseki-o1q
    @NthabisengMotseki-o1q Місяць тому

    I pray that you get back together ❤️

  • @SdimezaneNyumba
    @SdimezaneNyumba Місяць тому

    Monday buyela kumkakho plz 🙏 zama gamadla wakho woke ❤

  • @malebosekai1971
    @malebosekai1971 21 день тому

    Iyoo guys story Sa Monde is so hurt 😢😢😢

  • @MatshelisoJeff-z7n
    @MatshelisoJeff-z7n Місяць тому

    🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 You guys went through the most

  • @noluvuyomdingi3272
    @noluvuyomdingi3272 Місяць тому +1

    Monde's voice yhoooo 😭😭😭

  • @SiphumeleleNdlovu-t7l
    @SiphumeleleNdlovu-t7l Місяць тому

    May god heal Monde and Tumi❤️‍🩹

  • @thembelihlemoyo8
    @thembelihlemoyo8 Місяць тому +2

    I think Monde is hurt about loosing the baby , to make things worse he lost marriage
    so to try and heal from the baby ngapha at the same time he try and heal the marriage its too much , l think if y are used to come home and have a family its hard to come to and be alone home so he is hurting but l think they can sort out their things even from interviews u can tell there is hope there

  • @HessiePhala
    @HessiePhala Місяць тому

    Tumi n monde pls get back together pls,u belong together ❤

  • @ladye1253
    @ladye1253 Місяць тому +1

    Praying for them yhaz

  • @SAmusicsupporter
    @SAmusicsupporter Місяць тому +1

    may Jesus heal u guys askies

  • @MyOpinion_MyReality
    @MyOpinion_MyReality Місяць тому

    "We don't afford grief " 😢 yoooooo

  • @busisiwempekula4260
    @busisiwempekula4260 Місяць тому +1

    Love and light Monde💕. I also pray for your failed marriage to work out again so you can be there fully for each other 🫂🫂🙏❤️

  • @litebohomotaung671
    @litebohomotaung671 Місяць тому +2

    🙏🙏Monde

  • @SinoxoloJeeno
    @SinoxoloJeeno Місяць тому +2

    Sengikhona ❤❤

  • @queeniekhosifulafula3198
    @queeniekhosifulafula3198 Місяць тому

    Kuzolunga bhuti wam 🙏🙏🙏🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍💐💐

  • @zanelenyembe6577
    @zanelenyembe6577 Місяць тому

    42:40 i was chopping onion praying you guys get back together

  • @Mnm403
    @Mnm403 Місяць тому +1

    Tumi please get back together for us please please u monde uyakthanda kakhulu

  • @phumzaentle3792
    @phumzaentle3792 Місяць тому +1

    Nizobuyelana nina because niyathandana. It's just a life lesson yonke lento yenzekayo.

  • @xolelwayamiso5759
    @xolelwayamiso5759 Місяць тому

    ❤❤ Sorry Monde, aargh man

  • @gomolemojaele8595
    @gomolemojaele8595 Місяць тому

    Wow......when he said I met my wife not my ex-wife

  • @cherylherbert1180
    @cherylherbert1180 Місяць тому

    Kgutlelanang,side chicks and pride aside...ke qetile

  • @BoitumeloOtse
    @BoitumeloOtse Місяць тому +1

    You too are lucky to have each other #montumi

  • @thanzielakhalishi7731
    @thanzielakhalishi7731 28 днів тому

    Monde and tumi please guys fix ur marriage for de sake of liana ,boy and de girls .u r de best couple i have ever seen and u inspire me a lot.just go for counsellling or something u guys still love each other just dat u were goiwishing