@Ebony Flowers - your response is my exact reaction when I read some of these comments and Tony's responses are so patient and kind. Then I remember the constant messages bombarding my mind and spirit; I take a timeout and recall the necessity to renew my mind EVERY morning. No day off! It helps me help myself dealing with business partners, family, and mainly my personal self-talk messages.
I believe the woman’s actions should show that man that she is waiting until marriage. Ladies remember tony said we talk too much 😂 let your actions show that man how you moving, not your mouth.
Exactly but unfortunately a lot of men do believe they will get it eventually, even without having to be in a relationship with a woman. We’ve gotta do better.
If you been doing it the WRONG way this long and your still single. What do you have to lose doing it God's way🤷. I'm willing to take my chances with God's way he's the one man that has never failed me.
I did that once a learned a lesson. When it didn't work between me and him, he went back to his ex...where his bs is acceptable. Only a dog goes back to his vomit...when it's over it's over especially when deal-breakers are involved.
I know a male virgin, he is in his 30's, handsome, educated, very respectful, and he is a preacher who is completely dedicated to God and is a holy man. He never been inside a club, never drank, never smoked. He says all the time that God can keep a man if they want to be kept. It can be done but the mind must be renewed by God first🙏
He's right if they want but he never been touched so je can't say that to a sexual person. This is where Heaven comes down to earth. Holy people can be a pest and I mean that in the most honest and respectful way
Be blessed I made it! One of my besties did this. she got married as a virgin. didn't tell her husband that she was waiting till marriage throughout dating/courtship. he only found out that she had never been with anyone on their wedding night; imagine his surprise? she has an amazing husband and family.
So basically: 1. DON'T TELL HIM that you're waiting until marriage (or about things in your past that he is not entitled to know). Don't SAY what your standards are, just LIVE them. He'll figure it out without your saying it. 2. When he tries anything, say nicely "I'M NOT READY FOR THAT." 3. MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT. In the process, he will get to know your heart and spirit and possibly fall in love with you. 4. A man has done NOTHING for you and doesn't deserve you until he has walked you down that aisle and continues to treat you like a queen after the wedding. A real man knows this. Thank you, Tony.
At 58yrs old, I’ve been truly amazed at the “Christian” men and PASTORS that have tried to get with me for under false pretense just to get in the drawls. SAD...😒🤨
@Keely Crawford - You 👏🏾 ain't 👏🏾 NEVA 👏🏾 LIED! 😒😠 THANK GOD for ACTUAL CHRISTIAN MEN like Tony Gaskins who truly live their life in a way that reflects that they desire to be men after God's own Heart.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Interacting with fake "Christians" (wolves in sheep's clothing) can be disheartening. 😕😟😩 THANK YOU LORD for GODLY DISCERNMENT to be able to spot the real men of God from the fake QUICKLY so the fake do NOT waste our time!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Many women brain washe by men with unclean minds. Women should know better than to get in an relationship with church men/pastors ect note many time they are married. Remember Tony said think and how to date correctly. Show and tell is awesome if women tell this type of men you expected more he would run. "Please note dont do this only examples to stop the games; I believe1wife 1 husband its the law🤔. Propose a contract trying to set up with a second wife or side toy 1protect and support you like he do her. 2financial you expect drive& live in nice home. 3travel not girl trips but with him. 4Contract insurance should you become pregnant how he would take child private school and college ect. 5 If he's married the wife and only she has to know about you and you will stay in your place. Values are important solutions stop men with games. Tony Thank you so much for allowing God to use you when your show pops in my cousin say m hey there's your son because you remind me of me when I was younger this has been long overdue the Earth needs more men like you and women like your wife. Continual blessings
I celebrated a year in March..talk about the clarity, peace and not even have the desire....my focus is on crushing my goals unapologetically and relentlessly! Thanks Tony for Godly and wise counsel!
It'll be a year for me next month. Dated a Pastor couple months ago. Kept turning him down and by the third turn down, he was gone. I know mentally, my mind is made up about abstaining but I know it's not by might, the Spirit of God also strengthens us to keep us going or we'll fail. I always pray to be strengthened by God on this journey
@@durbansaladyinaccra2173 yup! A whole Pastor! Came back after 2 months wanting us to get back together. I said nope! But that's how I know he dated me with the hopes of getting some instead of to get married. Not being on your back has a whole of benefits. It's the holy grail of dating smart
Tony preach'n. I was dating a self proclaimed pastor, I was abstinent, didn't announce it...he announced that he was. I prayed for discernment when we became "exclusive", and he said he wanted to marry me. Everything went great but I watched and prayed. I made note of numbers that weren't assigned names, how many times they called...when he answered known calls and didn't answer unknown calls. He even had his mother lie for him. I prayed for a sign and it finally came. I busted him with 2 other women, he was sleeping with both of them. I confronted him over one of their houses and walked out of his life, never looked back. I said all of that to say....never let a man make you compromise your values. It wasn't me, that I was holding out, if that was the case only one other woman would've been enough. There is nothing that I could've done to break a stray dog, that was between him and God. Tony is on point with his videos, that is why I follow and support him. God will eventually place someone in my life when the both of us are ready. In the meantime I'll continue to refine the 3 Bs...brain, brand and body, that way when the right man comes along he'll recognize his wife❤🙌🏽🤗
A man doesn’t know what’s best for him. A man don’t know what’s good for him. A man just simply does not know. A woman has to show him what’s best for him-Tony Gaskins
I just had to pause the video at Dont walk around introducing yourself as "Hi, Im a reformed loose booty, Screenname loosebooty 901!"😂🤣😂 Don't revisit your past with a renewed mind and spirit!!
I don’t think Tony knows he’s low key hilarious in his videos 😭😭😭but he’s not even trying to be .... every time he says that 19 😭😭 or when he does woman’s voices I’m weak.....
Father God, I pray for young Tony and his family ‼️Father, I pray that NO SICKNESS shall touch him or his family. Cover him and family Lord from the top of his head to soles of his feet. He is yours Father God‼️💯🙏🏾 In Jesus name, Amen and Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯 Love you and your family in the Lord young Tony. Be blessed❤️
"How ya doin, I'm waiting till marriage...loose booty 901, I'm waiting till marriage." 🤣🤣🤣 I'm here at work, and at my job coronavirus gets collected and tested. About 500 tests a day are done and it just hits hard, you know? So I'm walking around with my headphones on listening to you, and I'm rollin'.🤣 My co-workers don't know what's my problem is, but laughter feels good during this stressful time. Thanks, Tony ☺️
@@clarkclarke thank you guys ❤️ I really appreciate you ☺️ two of my coworkers left work earlier today because they weren't feeling well and they are getting tested for the virus. Hopefully neither have it and it's just something mild. One person has 5 kids and the other has a child with a compromised immune system. May the Lord cover them both in protection 🥺
When you know better you Move Better...All they need to see is the way that you move to get the answer they need. Your character should speak for itself...Be BLESSED I made it❤
You know I used to wonder what I was doing wrong and why the men were acting like they did not want a good woman turns out that I just had a big mouth!!! Thanks for this
Just because you wait till marriage to have sex with a man doesn't mean it's a guarentee that you are going to have a perfect marriage or a man will never step out with another woman while y'all married. The only way you know your marriage will be sexualy pure is if you are both practicing celibacy before y'all marry. He needs to be practicing celibacy on his own while y'all are dating before marriage.
Such real talk. I went on a date with a guy a few months ago and thought I should be transparent about some of my vaules. He ghosted me and I haven't heard from him since. I recognize now that, even though I'm living by what I believe, I was trying to impress and appear special to him. Man if I could turn back time and know what I know now. It's hurts to have been a fool and to know that I'll be remembered that way to that man and every other that I've made mistakes with. But, I will never be that woman again!!
The thing is that even if you dont tell them, they can sense it and wont get to know you. When they hear you aren't afraid to speak your mind and say no. They wont go out with you. They may meet you once and even before meeting you, wouldnt want to meet!
Sex shouldn’t even be a topic on a first date, me personally I make that clear when my date brings it up. At the end of the date I had his respect and he got to know me better.
I was talking to a guy and I never told him I was waiting, but he figured it out he wasn't gonna get it so soon. He was like, you not sexual. Im thinking, neeguh you don't even know me. Then he went on his way....
@@ayessacamara3995 Yep. My friend was like, girlllllll he's acting like that because he wants to have sex with YOUUUUU. Like I should be honored. Girl, I dont care nothing about that!
Ive learned so much about dating and being able to now look at things from a mans perspective..i truly appreciate how you have turned your mess into your message!!
Thank you so much Tony,I totally agree with you. We women usually arm these men with a lot of information that they use to destroy us,if only we just shut our mouths and listen more.I have learnt the hard way but I know with all your help I will definitely get it right this time and I will let you know that.Stay safe
"That breezy hit your scalp the right way" 😂😂😂 the accuracy!!! 😩 babyyy! I was almost ✌🏾*turn that peace sign upside down* spread eagle!!! Help Lordt ✋🏾😩
This was the mid week word much need , replayed the video and saw all the things that I didn't realize was red flags now I know ... I will be dating correct lesson learned this was the realest and rawest today! BE BLESSED I MADE IT !
Lord I know that this man is one of your Warriors that tells the truth. When he talks and I am listening I can feel your presents. Thank you Lord for Bro. Tony and all his experiences in his life that he uses his mistakes to tell us what we should be doing. Bless his wife and his children and all that he plans to do in the future my if be successful because I know it will be for your Glory. Be Blessed
Thank you for sharing this, im 22 and still a virgin and be thinking about how im gonna tell someone I'm interested in that im waiting till marriage💯 now I know not to love watching your videos they're very informative and funny
Hey… it’s been 2 years, i’m curious, are you still waiting? We are the same age so i’d like to know your thoughts and how things are going for you. If they’ve changed even 🤷♀️
Thank you Tony, I now have my daughter that is home from college (19yrs) listening to u. She’s amazed at ur insight. U and ur family have a blessed day! Be safe! ❤️🙏🏽
Praise God for you!! I LITERALLY was just praying about everything you talked about in this message. Thanks God for CONFIRMATION 🙌🏾. BE BLESSED I MADE IT!!!!
Be blessed I made it! I encourage everyone to watch Tony’s videos at least twice or more if you have time. Tony will say something and it’ll tigger a past, present or general thought and my mind will go off reevaluating EVERYTHING.
I appreciate your thoughts from a male perspective. Your advice has helped me end a toxic relationship that was destroying me in the inside, at times I thought I was not going to be able to make it. . Thank you for allowing God to use you and am thankful to god for giving me a mind to realize this was not healthy and I needed to make a choice between life and death. Your videos helped me come out of a very dark place and I believe God allowed me to go through this because there were some things I needed to learn about myself and learn how to resist my flesh. My hope is that maybe my testimony of being set free will help someone else one day.
Be Blessed I made it ..I always love listening from what God has imparted in you to share THIS WORD though WOMEN really need to hear this with there whole brain if we ever expect to get the best of a Husband this is immeasurable advice I thank God everyday I came across Brother Tony may God continue to speak to all of us through your ministry thank you for being a willing vessel to speak to us on this level Bless your family 🙏
I wish I'd seen this video last week. I just told a potential that I was celibate and waiting for the right time. Love when brothers peep us on game. Thank you Mr. Gaskins.
Tony has been reading me for filth since I first found his channel . This man provided more clarity than my own mother & I’m 30 !?! Point blank Periooddtt 🎯👌🏾
Enjoyed this video big time! Thank God for a christian male relationship coach that tells us women the truth with wisdom and love. Praise God! God bless you.
This is great advice! We women been doing it backwards! We can set ourselves up as A BIG FISH to conquer by telling too much too soon! Thanks again Tony!
I hate that phrase “what you won’t do another woman will do”. How many women bend over backwards for their man and are pleasing them sexually and that man still cheats or leaves you for another woman. I think the key is knowing your value..period. If I’m good enough to lay down with then I’m good enough to be your wife.
There it go.. Too heavenly minded to be no earthly good!! That’s ur quote that came up on my FB page from 5yrs ago!! Love that quote!! Now I’m really going... have a blessed day 😊❤️🙏🏽
I don’t understand this obsession with telling men your business....smh I know one thing men sure ain’t gonna tell you theirs.
@Ebony Flowers - your response is my exact reaction when I read some of these comments and Tony's responses are so patient and kind. Then I remember the constant messages bombarding my mind and spirit; I take a timeout and recall the necessity to renew my mind EVERY morning. No day off! It helps me help myself dealing with business partners, family, and mainly my personal self-talk messages.
Girl! You understand, sits next to you lol!
Yes Ma'am!! 🙌🏽
A lot of them hide so much in the beginning, I just let them talk and talk about themselves and govern myself according to the info they've given..
🗣Facts
I believe the woman’s actions should show that man that she is waiting until marriage. Ladies remember tony said we talk too much 😂 let your actions show that man how you moving, not your mouth.
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Yes lol
Yes
Amen sis
When a man is doing more, more & more and you don’t get on your back, he’s falling in love-Tony Gaskins
"He is falling in love because he is working." Make him work ladies.
It's none of his business. He shouldn't even assume that he was getting it in the first place.
TaNitra Robinson exactly! That’s personal business
Exactly but unfortunately a lot of men do believe they will get it eventually, even without having to be in a relationship with a woman. We’ve gotta do better.
Exactly
In the words of TG Point blank period🤣
PERIOD!!!!!!!
If you been doing it the WRONG way this long and your still single. What do you have to lose doing it God's way🤷. I'm willing to take my chances with God's way he's the one man that has never failed me.
Exactly!
Good point!
Amen
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽RIGHT, FACTS!! THX YA LORD!!
Tatum Swift exactly!
And ladies, don't let the dudes you have history with come back and trick you. Been there done that.
@@_theerealnono_7694 Absolutely
I did that once a learned a lesson. When it didn't work between me and him, he went back to his ex...where his bs is acceptable. Only a dog goes back to his vomit...when it's over it's over especially when deal-breakers are involved.
@@durbansaladyinaccra2173 Facts!
@Maria Khaled Ok. I'll check her out! Thank you.
@Maria Khaled why are you in Tony's channel telling his subs to go somewhere else ???? Why are you HERE???
I know a male virgin, he is in his 30's, handsome, educated, very respectful, and he is a preacher who is completely dedicated to God and is a holy man. He never been inside a club, never drank, never smoked. He says all the time that God can keep a man if they want to be kept. It can be done but the mind must be renewed by God first🙏
He's right if they want but he never been touched so je can't say that to a sexual person. This is where Heaven comes down to earth. Holy people can be a pest and I mean that in the most honest and respectful way
Good for him👍
Send him my way 😆
Ok sis so where he at 🧐☺️
@@stilljocelyn4166 lol not telling sis😉
Be blessed I made it! One of my besties did this. she got married as a virgin. didn't tell her husband that she was waiting till marriage throughout dating/courtship. he only found out that she had never been with anyone on their wedding night; imagine his surprise? she has an amazing husband and family.
wow I’m in a similar situation, how long were they dating
“He is a distraction that looks like destiny”🔥👈🏾✍🏾
Elle Jaye that’s good!
So basically:
1. DON'T TELL HIM that you're waiting until marriage (or about things in your past that he is not entitled to know). Don't SAY what your standards are, just LIVE them. He'll figure it out without your saying it.
2. When he tries anything, say nicely "I'M NOT READY FOR THAT."
3. MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT. In the process, he will get to know your heart and spirit and possibly fall in love with you.
4. A man has done NOTHING for you and doesn't deserve you until he has walked you down that aisle and continues to treat you like a queen after the wedding. A real man knows this.
Thank you, Tony.
At 58yrs old, I’ve been truly amazed at the “Christian” men and PASTORS that have tried to get with me for under false pretense just to get in the drawls. SAD...😒🤨
I know! When it comes to that! Its obsolete! Lol
You look good for 58! God bless you💜
Very sad
@Keely Crawford - You 👏🏾 ain't 👏🏾 NEVA 👏🏾 LIED! 😒😠
THANK GOD for ACTUAL CHRISTIAN MEN like Tony Gaskins who truly live their life in a way that reflects that they desire to be men after God's own Heart.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Interacting with fake "Christians" (wolves in sheep's clothing) can be disheartening. 😕😟😩
THANK YOU LORD for GODLY DISCERNMENT to be able to spot the real men of God from the fake QUICKLY so the fake do NOT waste our time!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Many women brain washe by men with unclean minds.
Women should know better than to get in an relationship with church men/pastors ect note many time they are married. Remember Tony said think and how to date correctly.
Show and tell is awesome if women tell this type of men you expected more he would run.
"Please note dont do this only examples to stop the games; I believe1wife 1 husband its the law🤔.
Propose a contract trying to set up with a second wife or side toy
1protect and support you like he do her.
2financial you expect drive& live in nice home.
3travel not girl trips but with him.
4Contract insurance should you become pregnant how he would take child private school and college ect.
5 If he's married the wife and only she has to know about you and you will stay in your place.
Values are important solutions stop men with games.
Tony Thank you so much for allowing God to use you when your show pops in my cousin say m hey there's your son because you remind me of me when I was younger this has been long overdue the Earth needs more men like you and women like your wife. Continual blessings
I celebrated a year in March..talk about the clarity, peace and not even have the desire....my focus is on crushing my goals unapologetically and relentlessly! Thanks Tony for Godly and wise counsel!
It'll be a year for me next month. Dated a Pastor couple months ago. Kept turning him down and by the third turn down, he was gone. I know mentally, my mind is made up about abstaining but I know it's not by might, the Spirit of God also strengthens us to keep us going or we'll fail. I always pray to be strengthened by God on this journey
@@agnespoku4993 A Pastor tried u, and when u said no 3 times he left.. 🤔 What kinda pastor was that? He shoulda married u.. !
@@durbansaladyinaccra2173 yup! A whole Pastor! Came back after 2 months wanting us to get back together. I said nope! But that's how I know he dated me with the hopes of getting some instead of to get married. Not being on your back has a whole of benefits. It's the holy grail of dating smart
@Maria Khaled will do, thanks Queen...
@@agnespoku4993 Absolutely!
"Love is a job you can't retire from..." "A man has done nothing for you until he walks you down the isle." Be Blessed!
“Lust can’t be quenched” 🎯 🎯 💯 💯
✔❗
Only gets stronger
Tony preach'n. I was dating a self proclaimed pastor, I was abstinent, didn't announce it...he announced that he was. I prayed for discernment when we became "exclusive", and he said he wanted to marry me.
Everything went great but I watched and prayed. I made note of numbers that weren't assigned names, how many times they called...when he answered known calls and didn't answer unknown calls. He even had his mother lie for him. I prayed for a sign and it finally came. I busted him with 2 other women, he was sleeping with both of them. I confronted him over one of their houses and walked out of his life, never looked back.
I said all of that to say....never let a man make you compromise your values. It wasn't me, that I was holding out, if that was the case only one other woman would've been enough. There is nothing that I could've done to break a stray dog, that was between him and God.
Tony is on point with his videos, that is why I follow and support him. God will eventually place someone in my life when the both of us are ready. In the meantime I'll continue to refine the 3 Bs...brain, brand and body, that way when the right man comes along he'll recognize his wife❤🙌🏽🤗
Thanks
A man doesn’t know what’s best for him. A man don’t know what’s good for him. A man just simply does not know. A woman has to show him what’s best for him-Tony Gaskins
I just had to pause the video at Dont walk around introducing yourself as "Hi, Im a reformed loose booty, Screenname loosebooty 901!"😂🤣😂 Don't revisit your past with a renewed mind and spirit!!
Demetria Calvin 😂😂😂😂
Demetria Calvin 😩🤣😂😆
😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭☠☠
when i say i was weak at that part
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don’t think Tony knows he’s low key hilarious in his videos 😭😭😭but he’s not even trying to be .... every time he says that 19 😭😭 or when he does woman’s voices I’m weak.....
Right 😂😂 he get me everytime
Yes, he is hilarious 😆
Ok the Bible says in spread eagle 69:99. 🤣🤣🤣
Mrz Sanders I’m weakkk ...
@@Uniqu3neverway lol ok loose booty 901 im better than you. Lmbo
Father God, I pray for young Tony and his family ‼️Father, I pray that NO SICKNESS shall touch him or his family. Cover him and family Lord from the top of his head to soles of his feet. He is yours Father God‼️💯🙏🏾 In Jesus name, Amen and Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯 Love you and your family in the Lord young Tony. Be blessed❤️
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Amen,amen&amen
HALLELUJAH AMEN
Take some vitamin C, drink your water, get some rest and refrain from alcohol. Watch your temperature. Prayers up!
"How ya doin, I'm waiting till marriage...loose booty 901, I'm waiting till marriage." 🤣🤣🤣 I'm here at work, and at my job coronavirus gets collected and tested. About 500 tests a day are done and it just hits hard, you know? So I'm walking around with my headphones on listening to you, and I'm rollin'.🤣 My co-workers don't know what's my problem is, but laughter feels good during this stressful time. Thanks, Tony ☺️
Thank you ...be safe ...
Lord cover them in the blood of Jesus let no sickness nor virus form against them🙏❤️
@@clarkclarke thank you guys ❤️ I really appreciate you ☺️ two of my coworkers left work earlier today because they weren't feeling well and they are getting tested for the virus. Hopefully neither have it and it's just something mild. One person has 5 kids and the other has a child with a compromised immune system. May the Lord cover them both in protection 🥺
Don't tell a man that u r waiting that way u will get to see what he is all about. Good one Tony👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. I agree totally..
@42:18 "If you feelin' froggy, then jump"
🐸💃🏽🔋➡️🦸♂️💥
“Love is a job you can’t retire from.” ❤️
Best 1 right?
Sharhonda Smith yes!
Sad AND true 😔😔💔💔
When you know better you Move Better...All they need to see is the way that you move to get the answer they need. Your character should speak for itself...Be BLESSED I made it❤
Who else repeats "A-A its me Tony Gaskins "along with Tony at the beginning of every intro 😂😂
popping in ...😅
😂😂😂
It’s older women who give bad advice!!!💯 I felt that!🙌🏾
A man is testing you to know if you really know you 🙏🏽🙌🏽
😂😂😂😂Those hand signals though!
Lesson of today : DON'T TELL THEM NOTHING!!! Just play along n keep declining sexual advances
The HAND SIGNALS!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
You know I used to wonder what I was doing wrong and why the men were acting like they did not want a good woman turns out that I just had a big mouth!!! Thanks for this
I must have had a big mouth too, thank god I watched this video. Lol
Wish I had this knowledge in my teenage years, but better late than never. Thanks Tony. Be Blessed I made it.❤
🗣️"He is a distraction that looks like destiny" 🗣️ That's a word tight there!!! 🙆🏾🙆🏾🙆🏾
Ms. Perfectly Imperfect Yes it is!
Indeed! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
I'm here and about to learn!
OH MY GOD I felt this ...he’s a decoy, don’t let you right hand know what your left hand is doing🙌🏽.
Maria Khaled yes she’s really good too
@Maria Khaled here YOU are again ...so should we go the her channel and put Tony Gaskins in her comments....ALL her comments ....????
Just because you wait till marriage to have sex with a man doesn't mean it's a guarentee that you are going to have a perfect marriage or a man will never step out with another woman while y'all married. The only way you know your marriage will be sexualy pure is if you are both practicing celibacy before y'all marry. He needs to be practicing celibacy on his own while y'all are dating before marriage.
Such real talk. I went on a date with a guy a few months ago and thought I should be transparent about some of my vaules. He ghosted me and I haven't heard from him since. I recognize now that, even though I'm living by what I believe, I was trying to impress and appear special to him. Man if I could turn back time and know what I know now. It's hurts to have been a fool and to know that I'll be remembered that way to that man and every other that I've made mistakes with. But, I will never be that woman again!!
We live ad we learn. It's ok, those in the past were not for you. He will come.
@@blackcocoabrown8726 Thank you very much for that encouragement and confirmation
The thing is that even if you dont tell them, they can sense it and wont get to know you. When they hear you aren't afraid to speak your mind and say no. They wont go out with you. They may meet you once and even before meeting you, wouldnt want to meet!
You make the hard facts easy to hear..... super glue on top, lol
Sex shouldn’t even be a topic on a first date, me personally I make that clear when my date brings it up. At the end of the date I had his respect and he got to know me better.
I'm the same way. I dont even discuss that topic for a while with any man. Call me what you want but that's the quickest turn off for me
I was talking to a guy and I never told him I was waiting, but he figured it out he wasn't gonna get it so soon. He was like, you not sexual. Im thinking, neeguh you don't even know me. Then he went on his way....
Good riddance. He was a time waster!
@@ayessacamara3995 Yep. My friend was like, girlllllll he's acting like that because he wants to have sex with YOUUUUU. Like I should be honored.
Girl, I dont care nothing about that!
Don't you love when the trash takes itself out?? 👍🏾
@@PeaceBeStill- Yes ma'am!
I'm glad he did, cos he didnt deserve u.. any man who leaves has not discerned the value he has in you and if he hasn't he also wont appreciate it.
“Puerta Rica”.....I am done witchu Tony!!!!🤣 BE BLESSED
Truth Tony....but u still got me cracking up 😂 😂
Young Tony you are a straight silly person 🤣🤣🤣” yes, my name is loose booty” 🤣🤣🤣Be blessed ‼️💯❤️🙏🏾
Iris Wilson 😆😂
😂😂🤣🤣😭😭😭☠☠
It's none of his business! That's between you and god! Preach Tony!
20:21 the hand gestures for "on yo' BYKE & spread eagle". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know it's so funny when he does that
24:25 “the Bible say in Spread Eagle 69:9” I fell OUT!!!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony!!!!!! You’re a trip!!
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R B 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😩💀💀💀💀💀😩💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😩💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😩💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😩💀💀💀💀😩💀💀💀💀💀😩💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😩
He is too much 🤣🤣🤣
Yes indeed Tony.... age don’t make u wise🧐
So true.
Tony get some allergy medicine. This pollen been getting me too. Claritin is good, benadryl will knock you out. BE BLESSED I MADE IT
🤣🤣 you are SO funny Tony. I know you are only telling the truth but the rawness of the truth is the best! Keep doing what you doing 👊🏽
Lust can't be quenched!... Wow - thank you for this truth.
Spread Eagle 69:9......TONY IM THRU🤣🤣🤣🤣
Keely Crawford I fell out!!!!!!!!! He’s a trip!!!!
Keely Crawford 😂😂
He got me wit that one too 🤣🤣 he funny without even trying to be
😂😂😂
@Maria Khaled love her
Ive learned so much about dating and being able to now look at things from a mans perspective..i truly appreciate how you have turned your mess into your message!!
Tony is cracking me up right now can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣!!!!!!
Yesssss!!!
Thank you so much Tony,I totally agree with you. We women usually arm these men with a lot of information that they use to destroy us,if only we just shut our mouths and listen more.I have learnt the hard way but I know with all your help I will definitely get it right this time and I will let you know that.Stay safe
Dawgggg Tony’s videos are so informative and be funny af at the same time.
"That breezy hit your scalp the right way" 😂😂😂 the accuracy!!! 😩 babyyy! I was almost ✌🏾*turn that peace sign upside down* spread eagle!!!
Help Lordt ✋🏾😩
Cher H He took me out with that one 💀💀💀
@@marishalewis484 too funny! He think we crazy cause we think he's funny. It's his delivery & expressions lol
Cher H his delivery is everything! And now he doin sign language 🤦🏾♀️💀😭
Sis.. this here Tony is something else YOU HEAR MEEEEE ! I'm about to start talking just like dat. Point blank PERIOOOOD ! LOL
@@marishalewis484 😂 @ sign language too funny!
To sum up this video sisters....."Dont talk about it...be about it". If you not giving up the cookie keep the cookie dont talk about the cookie.
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Tony, you are RIGHT . I had my past thrown in my face every time when I was in a very toxic relationship.
This was the mid week word much need , replayed the video and saw all the things that I didn't realize was red flags now I know ... I will be dating correct lesson learned this was the realest and rawest today! BE BLESSED I MADE IT !
I literally wait for you to post !!!! I get very excited 😆
Be bless
Lord I know that this man is one of your Warriors that tells the truth. When he talks and I am listening I can feel your presents. Thank you Lord for Bro. Tony and all his experiences in his life that he uses his mistakes to tell us what we should be doing. Bless his wife and his children and all that he plans to do in the future my if be successful because I know it will be for your Glory. Be Blessed
Heyyy Blessed Tribe!! Ready for this good information.
Thank you for sharing this, im 22 and still a virgin and be thinking about how im gonna tell someone I'm interested in that im waiting till marriage💯 now I know not to love watching your videos they're very informative and funny
tivia joseph keep it up girl you got this 💯 and yes he is very right. You beautiful by the way.
Same! Im 19 though but this really get rid of the bad apples
Hey… it’s been 2 years, i’m curious, are you still waiting?
We are the same age so i’d like to know your thoughts and how things are going for you. If they’ve changed even 🤷♀️
This is truly great info. Praying this helps women young and seasoned like myself❤️🙏🏽
I just experienced this and my God...so happy for revelation. You love learn and grow. Thank you
TONY I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS. MAN LET ME TELL YOU THIS IS STRAIGHT FACTS GOD BLESS YOU MAN KEEP THE LESSONS COMING
Thank you Tony, I now have my daughter that is home from college (19yrs) listening to u. She’s amazed at ur insight. U and ur family have a blessed day! Be safe! ❤️🙏🏽
Praise God for you!!
I LITERALLY was just praying about everything you talked about in this message. Thanks God for CONFIRMATION 🙌🏾. BE BLESSED I MADE IT!!!!
A curse wrapped as a gift!! A very accurate description! TG
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. I’m finally learning the lessons that my dad didn’t teach 🙌🏾
Blessed tribe! 🙌🏿🙌🏿
Be blessed I made it! I encourage everyone to watch Tony’s videos at least twice or more if you have time. Tony will say something and it’ll tigger a past, present or general thought and my mind will go off reevaluating EVERYTHING.
I appreciate your thoughts from a male perspective. Your advice has helped me end a toxic relationship that was destroying me in the inside, at times I thought I was not going to be able to make it. . Thank you for allowing God to use you and am thankful to god for giving me a mind to realize this was not healthy and I needed to make a choice between life and death. Your videos helped me come out of a very dark place and I believe God allowed me to go through this because there were some things I needed to learn about myself and learn how to resist my flesh. My hope is that maybe my testimony of being set free will help someone else one day.
When he does that upside down flipped peace sign ✌ I just _______
Tony you crack me up the way you say things in a humerous way. Thank you for your ministry.
I love the fact that Tony is giving us great info but this video is such comedy I’m dying real tears 😂
Listen to Tony. I told a man I'm saving myself and the next day he went and told his friends.. ladies just keep your business to yourself
I JUST LOVE how Tony gives the Game away this just BLESS my Soul everytime⚫
Your next shirt should say POINT BLINK PERRIOODD. That will be the winner for me. That's you slogan, lol. Say it like it is.
Be Blessed I made it ..I always love listening from what God has imparted in you to share THIS WORD though WOMEN really need to hear this with there whole brain if we ever expect to get the best of a Husband this is immeasurable advice I thank God everyday I came across Brother Tony may God continue to speak to all of us through your ministry thank you for being a willing vessel to speak to us on this level Bless your family 🙏
Be blessed. I made it! Those last few minutes were golden. Thank you Mr. Gaskins
Keep it real Mr Gaskins, God has truly given you Wisdom at a young age 🙏🏽 be Blessed I made it ❤
I wish I'd seen this video last week. I just told a potential that I was celibate and waiting for the right time. Love when brothers peep us on game. Thank you Mr. Gaskins.
This is the absolute truth I witnessed it and I’m so glad to know what I need to do next time around.
Tony has been reading me for filth since I first found his channel . This man provided more clarity than my own mother & I’m 30 !?! Point blank Periooddtt 🎯👌🏾
Thank you Mr. Gaskins. I was approaching this topic all wrong. You are a true blessing.
Enjoyed this video big time! Thank God for a christian male relationship coach that tells us women the truth with wisdom and love. Praise God! God bless you.
My brother Tony on point and out here saving lives 😂❤️💯!
This is great advice! We women been doing it backwards! We can set ourselves up as A BIG FISH to conquer by telling too much too
soon! Thanks again Tony!
I hate that phrase “what you won’t do another woman will do”. How many women bend over backwards for their man and are pleasing them sexually and that man still cheats or leaves you for another woman. I think the key is knowing your value..period. If I’m good enough to lay down with then I’m good enough to be your wife.
Man!!! Be Blessed! You’re the most amazing UA-cam person out here. This content has blessed my socks off 😊
There it go.. Too heavenly minded to be no earthly good!! That’s ur quote that came up on my FB page from 5yrs ago!! Love that quote!! Now I’m really going... have a blessed day 😊❤️🙏🏽
Praying u covered in the blood Tony!! No Covid-19!!❤️🙏🏽
I love your realness. Much appreciated 🙏🏽
WHEWW...U PREACHING...BE BLESSED I MADE IT‼️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
be blessed i made it! 🙌🏽 thanks tony
Thank you Tony, Blessings. Great topic.
Be blessed, I made it! This was all facts!
Be blessed, I made it. Thank you for sharing your wisdom & always keeping it 💯 with us! 🙏🏾
One of the best videos I’ve ever seen advising on how to date while being abstinent! Everything was 💯% 🎯on point.