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A man approached me two weeks ago to date. He said he wants to get married at some point and wants to abstain from sex until marriage. He's an alpha male. He's consistent and truthful. I let him talk the most and take the lead. I'm really enjoying getting to know him.
Red flag!!!!!How long have you known this guy? Usually if you've just met and they are talking soulmate or getting married...RUN...RUN...AND KEEP RUNNING!!!!!!!!!!
Remember this!! It takes a strong woman to walk away from a toxic relationship, and a weak woman to stay in it. Which one are you? When you refuse to lie down and die after a bad relationship.....YOU LIVE!
Eternity With Christ I am so sorry that you went through that! I pray that the strength that God gives you keep you out. God loves you and He did not put you here to be a doormat. You are a survivor!!! Stay strong in Christ Jesus. God bless you!!!!❤️❤️🙏
I walked away from 8 year toxic relationship. I was in it because I had kids with him, I just wanted for my kids tp have a father and full family but when I got pregnant I admit that I cried a lot because I realised that my hesitation and fear of not finding other person for me made me choose a wrong person. In those 8 years I wanted to go out from relationship so many times because he sabotaged my dreams, I had to sacrifice a lot and had 3 kids coz I had problems with pill effectiveness and my sisters and friends said to try to fix things. My sister still says we can make up in the future and I say I never were happier. Better be single, struggle but happy ^^ I will have an audience for a domestic violence too
I have been told that my mouth is a turn off in terms of me speaking recklessly as well as using profanity so I am aware that i HAVE to stop cursing and I need to be more respectful. Thank you Tony
You don't need vulgar language. Your beauty is to powerful for that, it devalues your natural beauty. To acknowledge that is power, that's a great characteristic to have.💛✌🇱🇷
It really does boil down to the 3 B's, being abstinent, having solid standards, knowing your deal breakers and sticking to them 100% of the time while dating. If we do this, we won't be sticking around nagging and being insecure when they start testing us with games. We will just silently exit stage left.... We have to know our worth. We have to know we deserve respect. We have to stop operating in fear and desperation and instead operate in power and positivity. We are worth THE BEST treatment ladies!!! If they can't handle that, we must stop giving them our time and energy and invest in caring for ourselves. Be blessed Tony!!...
What really drives us to cheat?! It's a selfish act, inconsiderate of the heart that has become vulnerable in order to be loved, not broken. There's no excuse....NONE!
Can somebody please tell Uncle Tony that us women do not suck our teeth and go “Ooohhh” every time we’re about to say something!!!!! 😂 I crack up every single time!!!! LOL 😂
Aisha Cansler Every single time! I cannot wait until his live tonight! Always a good vibe!! He’s funny without even trying which makes it all so much funnier, “you hear me” !??! 👈🏾in his voice of course 😂
Dana Sermons If you are asking me do I agree with Tony’s quote, then yes, I agree. I don’t have to judge what God has already condemned. All I have to do is repeat what God says. Are you judging God? Ephesians 4:29 KJV. Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers. James 3:10 KJV. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.
Dana Sermons Yes. It’s the Christian’s place to judge according to God’s word/standards not their own. Jesus tell us clearly how to do this in Matthew 7:5 KJV Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.
I had Toney playing in my car while my son was in here and when Toney mentioned about people getting certificates as continued edu from taking his courses on life love and business, my 7yr old son says, "yeah that's just like when I get a certificate from Lexia and Dream Box at school and that means I completed it!". I mention all this to say that not only am I getting the knowledge and able to apply it to my life but so is my son, and it made me smile lol. Thank you Toney and many blessings to you! 🙏
Be Blessed 🙏✝️🙂 A grown boy is to me an immature grown man that never matured. He didn't have a father around that was mature as a man to teach him. He has no clue what is to be a grown man. He only has false perceptions from the world of what a grown man is. Thanks ♥️🙂 Coach Tony
Every time I suspected something of my ex I was right my intuition was always right. Never was It out of insecurity . I can appreciate another beautiful women and not see her as a competition. I’m my only competition.
Very TRUE Tony MOST women that are with a man ESPECIALLY if they are happy with them DON'T cheat!! How TRUE about the "season"!! IT'S just like fashion!! I LOVE your looks challenge term!! Lol
Judith you are correct! I didnt cheat even when I wasn't happy because a woman cant do what a man does and still be a lady!Also we are the ones that can become pregnant! We have to be very careful!😘
To Eternity with Christ. Get it RIGHT! I NEVER said CHEATING equals happiness!! HONESTY does NOT mean that people won't cheat or commit any other sin!! DON'T TWIST my words!! HONESTY is a character trait!! Remember we ALL fall short of Jesus & are NOT PERFECT NO MATTER HOW MANY GOOD CHARACTER TRAITS WE MAY POSSESS!! I CLEARLY AGREED WITH TONY! THAT MOST WOMEN DO NOT CHEAT IF THEY ARE HAPPY WITH THEIR MATE!! GET IT RIGHT.
@@sharoncobb2547 AMEN sister I couldn't have said it better myself!! I have NEVER CHEATED either. If a relationship wasn't working for me I left it. However I realize there are plenty that DON'T & take the CHEATING route! I have married girlfriends that both they & their spouse CHEAT on each other yet stay together. Makes NO sense to me. But everyone lives their own LIVES!! And LET'S NOT FORGET ABOUT ALL OF THOSE NASTY STDS OUT THERE!! THAT IN ITSELF SCARES THE CRAP OUT OF ME!!
A few of these stepped on my toes but I needed it. Still work to be done but I’m making progress!! And you right just because I’m “nice and country doesn’t mean I’m dumb”, don’t take my kindness for weakness!
Tony got me looking up words. Although I have heard these terms used before, I never truly understood their meanings. So hear in an extension of nuance. What does it mean to be nuanced? adjective. The definition of nuanced is done with extreme care to appreciate fine-point distinctions that you have to be very detail-oriented to notice. An example of nuanced is a nuanced glance, when a person looks at a painting and understands the fine-point details about what makes it great. Another great informational video, you added extra info that went beyond the question. Rich wisdom here
This video 🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That's straight 💯 regarding a woman being Faithful... That's me all the time but I'm learning how to be faithful and devote my time to the right man who wants to commit, Husband Material. Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾🛐
Prime example Kenya Moore & Marc. Her husband was not with all the drama i watched the episode of his event party and she was nagging and being so negative. The next day he filed for a divorce. The way he treated her or talked to her you can tell he wasn't really into her. Over 50 and still nagging & bringing misery to other people. Smh. Great points TG! Be blessed all 💫
@J Designer no, I'm sure he liked her but it's clear he didn't love her. They got married because that's what she wanted to be married and start a family. I agree she does deserve better but she has to do better as well. She's no angel. ijs
'Thank You' Tony. I 'don't' think women like to be alone either. We were created for the comfort of each other. There is 'much' validity shared in this video. Blessings.
man I needed this...my man has constantly told me this....thank you Tony...I really need to take a step back in my relationship and evaluate myself frfr...you are a God send
YES! YOU ARE RIGHT SIR. EVERYONE ESPEICALLY WOMEN WANT ATTENTION. YOUNG LADIES YOU WANT ATTENTION? JUST PLEASE YOURSELF, PAY ATTENTION TO YOU DRESS TO IMPRESS YOURSELF AND DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND WATCH WHAT HAPPENS I DARE YOU TO TRY IT.
Love watching a love coach that I relate to, who is opposite of me in soooo many ways but is more honest and articulate than most the love coaches that my algorithm usually shows to me. Your feedback is solid gold. Thank you, can’t wait to see more.
I loved this. It really did hit home. I know what I’ve been through. That’s why I’m mindful about what other people may be going through. We all have stuff. Thank you again, Tony and be blessed!
A year ago I was not watching these videos, I only discovered Mr. Gaskins by chance maybe in November 2020, but I can say of the great videos that I've listened to so far, this by far spoke to me and made me stop and evaluate myself. That is probably the reason why women wanted you to do a segment/video like this. Thank you for your valuable time. God bless!
The truth only steps on your toes when you walk out of line!!! Awesome Thanks Tony! Love what you are doing and saying and so thankful you and your wife are doing what you are doing. Thanks to her also!!
Brother Tony, I laughed & cried and jotted some notes down too. I was so blessed by the anointing God has given you to give understanding to those like me seeking it. I love it when you talk about the Ebon & flow between you and your beautiful wife. As you described her spirit my heart was touched. I want 2 be more comfortable in letting that side of me be exposed more often and I'm praying for that. Can't wait for my book to arrive ...again I can't thank you enough. Be blessed!
Yes yes Tony G. You’re telling the truth and all areas of the truth. I have been in a relationship and with the lies and betrayal and they got caught. I found out and I put my foot down and they said I was nagging and they getting caught up again I had to leave to respect myself. LOL you really telling us the truth and I’m laughing too because you explaining and acting it out but we know you’re talking the truth and that’s why I can relate to everything that you’re saying cause I’ve been through it. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Be Blessed. Thank you for articulating the mind of a man so well. I look forward to listening to your insight and your point of view on love, relationships and business. You explain your concepts so clearly and with great humor; this combo really helps drive your points home. I'm so grateful that you met Sheri, grateful that the love you two share helped you change your life and also grateful that you submitted to your calling. God bless you and your family.
Thank you for breaking down what a Proverbs 31 woman should be from a male's perspective. This really takes it to another level when you break it down into real-world experiences and behaviors. Thank you!
All good stuff Bro Tony!! Be Blessed! Our God is using you to be a modern day deliverer. And I GREATLY appreciate Him and you for it. Let's continue to pray for one another. AMEN!!
Tony I have been listening to you for months and have read several of your books. Thank you for sharing your Godly wisdom and being obedient to your calling. I pray for you and your family daily. I can only hope that one day God will bless me a Godly man like yourself with your beliefs and values. In the meantime, I will continue to grow in God, self-love, and being single (3Bs) May God bless you and your family always.
Very good points made with this. Some things brought up I had already noticed and started to change. Others have become glaringly obvious. Good work! Thank you for your wisdom.
Lol...you just have me rolling😂😂😂😂😂Appreciate you Tony frfr. You have given me so.much insight on men but really opened up my talks within self. 🙏Thank you
Be Blessed...This video helped me to identify a few insecurities that can be remedied; however I am proud of myself for having self love and not being a pushover - the good outweighed the bad.
Be Blessed 🙏✝️ Your looks is what attracts him but your exquisite good character he sees in you is what captures him. It won't be a Wam Bam thank you ma'am when your character attracts him. You capture his ❤️ and you can't shake him off with a stick. 😂😂😂 U will become the center of his universe ♥️🙂 and can do no wrong in his eyes😂😂😂
@@tabithafaulk6068 Yes our good character is what keeps him. How we respect ourselves, how we love ourselves also how we love, respect and treat others, our confidence in ourselves. If we carry ourselves this way they will see it too and love us for it. We may not be perfect but in their eyes they think we are 🙂😉
Excellent, to the point, accountable, measurable, tactfully communicated and the last few minutes have a punch line summary that softly but powerfully hits it all home. A definite save and re-watch. Thank you, Tony. Be blessed.
We need to accept a person where he/she is and appreciate the good things he/ she brings. A lot of men ARE in some type of personal and spiritual warfare.
Be blessed🙏🏽.. I was tempted to turn this video off thinking these things don’t apply to me, but I felt led to watch until the end. thank you for this information it’s very helpful to reflect upon yourself to become a better woman because we can all continue to grow in some way,there is always room for improvement
Rony this episode was epic! So many gems I can't pick one and I am over 60 years old. What an anointing God has bestowed on you. Keep walking in your purpose! Blessings of God on you and your family!
I’d rather be slapped by the TRUTH, then kissed by a LIE. 😘
100%
'Nice' comment Ms. Mtim
Never a truer word spoken 🙌🏼
Wowww!! Yesss, Aman youu spoke nothing but the TRUTH!!!! 😊🙏🏽
Amen
A man approached me two weeks ago to date. He said he wants to get married at some point and wants to abstain from sex until marriage. He's an alpha male. He's consistent and truthful. I let him talk the most and take the lead. I'm really enjoying getting to know him.
That’s great news! Please post updates! Excited to hear because this gives me hope!
I want to know how this goes. I am in my forties and an empty nester. I want to meet a guy just like you have described.
Congrats sis! Plz keep us updated
awww I hope it works out for you
Red flag!!!!!How long have you known this guy? Usually if you've just met and they are talking soulmate or getting married...RUN...RUN...AND KEEP RUNNING!!!!!!!!!!
1. Nagging
2. Insecurity
3.Yelling and Cursing
4. Excessive Alcohol Consumption and/or Drug Use
5. Negativity and Doubting
Thank you!
Remember this!! It takes a strong woman to walk away from a toxic relationship, and a weak woman to stay in it. Which one are you? When you refuse to lie down and die after a bad relationship.....YOU LIVE!
Eternity With Christ I am so sorry that you went through that! I pray that the strength that God gives you keep you out. God loves you and He did not put you here to be a doormat. You are a survivor!!! Stay strong in Christ Jesus. God bless you!!!!❤️❤️🙏
I walked away from 8 year toxic relationship. I was in it because I had kids with him, I just wanted for my kids tp have a father and full family but when I got pregnant I admit that I cried a lot because I realised that my hesitation and fear of not finding other person for me made me choose a wrong person. In those 8 years I wanted to go out from relationship so many times because he sabotaged my dreams, I had to sacrifice a lot and had 3 kids coz I had problems with pill effectiveness and my sisters and friends said to try to fix things. My sister still says we can make up in the future and I say I never were happier. Better be single, struggle but happy ^^ I will have an audience for a domestic violence too
I have been told that my mouth is a turn off in terms of me speaking recklessly as well as using profanity so I am aware that i HAVE to stop cursing and I need to be more respectful. Thank you Tony
That's very honest. Thank you
Good to know that you can acknowledge this not many would very proud of you 😊
You don't need vulgar language. Your beauty is to powerful for that, it devalues your natural beauty. To acknowledge that is power, that's a great characteristic to have.💛✌🇱🇷
See: Meditation on Google. It really helped me become a better person.
At least u recognize your faults tho shawty. .
"A good man wants a woman who has self love and not self hate!!" 🙌🏽☑
It really does boil down to the 3 B's, being abstinent, having solid standards, knowing your deal breakers and sticking to them 100% of the time while dating. If we do this, we won't be sticking around nagging and being insecure when they start testing us with games. We will just silently exit stage left.... We have to know our worth. We have to know we deserve respect. We have to stop operating in fear and desperation and instead operate in power and positivity. We are worth THE BEST treatment ladies!!! If they can't handle that, we must stop giving them our time and energy and invest in caring for ourselves. Be blessed Tony!!...
Ms. Celeste loving your words, it’s all about self love.
L. Celeste Well Said 💜
L. Celeste close Yo legs absolutely!
U8
L. Celeste Yes, say that!
What really drives us to cheat?! It's a selfish act, inconsiderate of the heart that has become vulnerable in order to be loved, not broken. There's no excuse....NONE!
Chris Parker is it true that all men cheat? Is Tony right? So discouraging
@@irepchrist1763 No, not all men cheat, though we ALL are never above falling short of glory.
Be blessed
I agree. If it's that serious and you are that unhappy go to therapy or leave.
@@tdeniseechols7434 Those are better choices, but so many choose selfishly.
It's a complete turn off for a man that curses & smokes weed.
I agree 100%💛✌🇱🇷
Also, smoking cigarettes, yuck 😝
@@jeannetteurena1223 yes I agree, nasty and stinky breath.💛✌🇱🇷
Women too. I have heard women curse like sailors. I was like no ma'am. Lol.
YESS ABSOLUTELY!! And it’s really hard to find someone that doesn’t do that because that’s all they do nowadays.
I’m working on eliminating my negative mind set and cursing like a sailor.
Me too🙌🏽❤️ I have a more positive mindset but I still curse when I’m frustrated it’s so hard not too.
❤❤yessss
Can somebody please tell Uncle Tony that us women do not suck our teeth and go “Ooohhh” every time we’re about to say something!!!!! 😂 I crack up every single time!!!! LOL 😂
He is waaaaay hilarious. I laugh hard every single time.
Aisha Cansler Every single time! I cannot wait until his live tonight! Always a good vibe!! He’s funny without even trying which makes it all so much funnier, “you hear me” !??! 👈🏾in his voice of course 😂
My cousin from the South would speak that way....a woman
Ky lmao yes in dying laughing every time he suck his teeth and go ooooooh lmao
Me too 😂😂😂😂
Oh man, you said it Tony! “Don’t let a man make you think your intuition is an insecurity!” This is exactly what I needed to hear!!! Wow.
Idk who God has for me, I been single a long time now but I still have faith & I know he’ll show up...
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8 hours of talking to a goat 😂 "Lust and hip hop and Atlanta house girlfriends" 😂 Your points landed with me today. Thank you, be blessed
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Coolhand Q 😂😂
I noticed all these things after many mistakes I’ve made in my 20s... now I’ll be 30 this year and ready to be a better woman going fwd
Me too sis
The fact that you recognize that speaks volume about your growth! Go ahead Sis 💜
Me too
Same here.
So a good man wasnt good enough in your 20s?
I love how he talks about his wife. This is the way I want my man to speak highly of me and vice versa.
I can not stop laughing; I love to hear him give an example on how some women and men talk!
I've learned, you have to be able to discern your intuition from your insecurities.
VERY TRUE!!! Had to learn this the hard way.
Well Alright Nah,Yes Mam💯✔!!A+ on ya comment baby.Spoke volumes
Tony is hilarious! When he was writing down on his notepad I was dying LOL this made my day as usual. Be blessed!
Sis, if you found that funny, you just have a good spirit. You find the good in everything, then. God bless you! Thank you for the support!
Me too 🤣
“A real man of God doesn’t curse.” TG. Be blessed.
Haha you people are so stupid.
Blessed you and your family.
Really ? Is it your place to judge ? Is Jesus hiring ?
Dana Sermons
If you are asking me do I agree with Tony’s quote, then yes, I agree. I don’t have to judge what God has already condemned. All I have to do is repeat what God says. Are you judging God?
Ephesians 4:29 KJV. Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
James 3:10 KJV. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.
Dana Sermons
Yes. It’s the Christian’s place to judge according to God’s word/standards not their own. Jesus tell us clearly how to do this in Matthew 7:5 KJV
Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.
I had Toney playing in my car while my son was in here and when Toney mentioned about people getting certificates as continued edu from taking his courses on life love and business, my 7yr old son says, "yeah that's just like when I get a certificate from Lexia and Dream Box at school and that means I completed it!". I mention all this to say that not only am I getting the knowledge and able to apply it to my life but so is my son, and it made me smile lol. Thank you Toney and many blessings to you! 🙏
Be Blessed 🙏✝️🙂 A grown boy is to me an immature grown man that never matured. He didn't have a father around that was mature as a man to teach him. He has no clue what is to be a grown man. He only has false perceptions from the world of what a grown man is. Thanks ♥️🙂 Coach Tony
"Just let him struggle through that" lol .... Talking bout making a peanut & jelly sandwich ... That was so funny to me!! 😂🤣
Lisha Parish it was funny as heck
Yes
We should always self reflect and improve. Self love is everything!! This is a really nice video Tony! Be blessed
Every time I suspected something of my ex I was right my intuition was always right. Never was It out of insecurity . I can appreciate another beautiful women and not see her as a competition. I’m my only competition.
“He has been talking to that goat for 8 hours” 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he's a trip!!!
Girl I hollered so loud lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had to rewind that thing at least 3x. Omg! 😂😂😂😂
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“OHHHHHHH Well” Takes me out every time 🤣🤣🤣
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Lol me too
THE LESS A WOMAN TALKS IT SEEMS TO WORK AT HER ADVANTAGE. HAVE SOME STANDARDS
ABOUT YOURSELF.
Very TRUE Tony MOST women that are with a man ESPECIALLY if they are happy with them DON'T cheat!! How TRUE about the "season"!! IT'S just like fashion!! I LOVE your looks challenge term!! Lol
Judith you are correct! I didnt cheat even when I wasn't happy because a woman cant do what a man does and still be a lady!Also we are the ones that can become pregnant! We have to be very careful!😘
To Eternity with Christ. Get it RIGHT! I NEVER said CHEATING equals happiness!! HONESTY does NOT mean that people won't cheat or commit any other sin!! DON'T TWIST my words!! HONESTY is a character trait!! Remember we ALL fall short of Jesus & are NOT PERFECT NO MATTER HOW MANY GOOD CHARACTER TRAITS WE MAY POSSESS!! I CLEARLY AGREED WITH TONY! THAT MOST WOMEN DO NOT CHEAT IF THEY ARE HAPPY WITH THEIR MATE!! GET IT RIGHT.
@@sharoncobb2547 AMEN sister I couldn't have said it better myself!! I have NEVER CHEATED either. If a relationship wasn't working for me I left it. However I realize there are plenty that DON'T & take the CHEATING route! I have married girlfriends that both they & their spouse CHEAT on each other yet stay together. Makes NO sense to me. But everyone lives their own LIVES!! And LET'S NOT FORGET ABOUT ALL OF THOSE NASTY STDS OUT THERE!! THAT IN ITSELF SCARES THE CRAP OUT OF ME!!
@@judithstevens4323 that's right judith it's just not worth it!be blessed!😘😘😘😘
@@sharoncobb2547 same to you dear! And may YOU have a blessed Easter!
They gone be real mad about that "women cheat less" statement!😂🤣😂😂💯💯💯
On my mama lol 👀
This young man speaks nothing but TRUTH. BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏
You bin flippin and tossin and suckin and duckin” 😂😂😂 help me Jesus. Too funny
I can't stop laughing.. He said you plucked her off the pole--what do you expect. LOL
Wow wow right tony is telling real truth.
😂😂😂😂 that took me out!!
That statement made me scream lmao
Mr Gaskins, Would your wife ever agree to do a Q&A with you live one day?
I agree Tony...I hope she.agrees.
Omg.....Sheri and Tony doing a Q and A Live, they will shut the internet dowwwwwwn💯
OMG yessss that would be off the hook!
Yes
A few of these stepped on my toes but I needed it. Still work to be done but I’m making progress!! And you right just because I’m “nice and country doesn’t mean I’m dumb”, don’t take my kindness for weakness!
Tony got me looking up words. Although I have heard these terms used before, I never truly understood their meanings. So hear in an extension of nuance.
What does it mean to be nuanced?
adjective. The definition of nuanced is done with extreme care to appreciate fine-point distinctions that you have to be very detail-oriented to notice. An example of nuanced is a nuanced glance, when a person looks at a painting and understands the fine-point details about what makes it great.
Another great informational video, you added extra info that went beyond the question. Rich wisdom here
Keep these videos coming. I get educated and get a good laugh at the same time. Be blessed.
This video 🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That's straight 💯 regarding a woman being Faithful... That's me all the time but I'm learning how to be faithful and devote my time to the right man who wants to commit, Husband Material. Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾🛐
Prime example Kenya Moore & Marc. Her husband was not with all the drama i watched the episode of his event party and she was nagging and being so negative. The next day he filed for a divorce. The way he treated her or talked to her you can tell he wasn't really into her. Over 50 and still nagging & bringing misery to other people. Smh. Great points TG! Be blessed all 💫
Um it was destined to fail....she was in her back the 1st 3mths...plus they hadn't dated 12mths....
@@tanitrarobinson7477 probably...but her ways were messy
So quick to judge ladies, she filed for divorce and he ain’t a perfect man either. Otherwise his first marriage would have worked.
@J Designer true, but a man will do anything in his case for exposure. Being married to her got his name & business name to be known.
@J Designer no, I'm sure he liked her but it's clear he didn't love her. They got married because that's what she wanted to be married and start a family. I agree she does deserve better but she has to do better as well. She's no angel. ijs
Be blessed!!! I can’t stop watching your videos you popped out and god led me too these to learn and become better in his way!!!
I thought I was tripping at how much attention I was getting now but yes I feel people have their seasons for sure!
I need that T-shirt in my life.....To respond to this video, your words are meaningful and you are appreciated.
'Thank You' Tony. I 'don't' think women like to be alone either. We were created for the comfort of each other. There is 'much' validity shared in this video. Blessings.
I do 🙄I love my space I love being alone, I used to be like ooh I can’t go to the movies or eat by myself. I have peace , good sleep.
@@chynadoll77cyn59 Ms. Chynadoll, 'Amen' too 'you'.
man I needed this...my man has constantly told me this....thank you Tony...I really need to take a step back in my relationship and evaluate myself frfr...you are a God send
YES! YOU ARE RIGHT SIR. EVERYONE ESPEICALLY WOMEN WANT ATTENTION. YOUNG LADIES
YOU WANT ATTENTION? JUST PLEASE YOURSELF, PAY ATTENTION TO YOU DRESS TO IMPRESS
YOURSELF AND DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND WATCH WHAT HAPPENS
I DARE YOU TO TRY IT.
watergate1965 please yourself?? We aren’t supposed to use handgelia
I come to watch Tony Gaskins videos just to hear his girl impersonation "Ohhhh why everything got to be about looks" 😂😂😂 He's so naturally funny!!
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I love Tony videos so much.. I listen to them, as I walk 4 miles every morning..
Tony, you crack me up every time you do your women's impersonation... sooo funny!!!
Love watching a love coach that I relate to, who is opposite of me in soooo many ways but is more honest and articulate than most the love coaches that my algorithm usually shows to me. Your feedback is solid gold. Thank you, can’t wait to see more.
Let me guess the men want all these rules but still.its hard for him to cheat then why not stay single ladies
I loved this. It really did hit home. I know what I’ve been through. That’s why I’m mindful about what other people may be going through. We all have stuff. Thank you again, Tony and be blessed!
A year ago I was not watching these videos, I only discovered Mr. Gaskins by chance maybe in November 2020, but I can say of the great videos that I've listened to so far, this by far spoke to me and made me stop and evaluate myself. That is probably the reason why women wanted you to do a segment/video like this. Thank you for your valuable time. God bless!
Tony Gaskins, I love your video's. Keep them coming. Have a bless day.
The truth only steps on your toes when you walk out of line!!! Awesome Thanks Tony! Love what you are doing and saying and so thankful you and your wife are doing what you are doing. Thanks to her also!!
Brother Tony, I laughed & cried and jotted some notes down too. I was so blessed by the anointing God has given you to give understanding to those like me seeking it. I love it when you talk about the Ebon & flow between you and your beautiful wife. As you described her spirit my heart was touched. I want 2 be more comfortable in letting that side of me be exposed more often and I'm praying for that. Can't wait for my book to arrive ...again I can't thank you enough.
Be blessed!
It’s the Caveats and Nuances shirt that has me 😭🤣🤞🏾 Tony us currently my favourite guys🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️
Yes yes Tony G. You’re telling the truth and all areas of the truth. I have been in a relationship and with the lies and betrayal and they got caught. I found out and I put my foot down and they said I was nagging and they getting caught up again I had to leave to respect myself. LOL you really telling us the truth and I’m laughing too because you explaining and acting it out but we know you’re talking the truth and that’s why I can relate to everything that you’re saying cause I’ve been through it. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Be blessed. This is in my faves. A lightbulb went off. I've missed out on good relationships due to my pain points. Thank you, Tony👏👏👏
Be Blessed. Thank you for articulating the mind of a man so well. I look forward to listening to your insight and your point of view on love, relationships and business. You explain your concepts so clearly and with great humor; this combo really helps drive your points home. I'm so grateful that you met Sheri, grateful that the love you two share helped you change your life and also grateful that you submitted to your calling. God bless you and your family.
Hear 👂 again now I see a lot of things that went wrong thanks for the knowledge
“Caveats and nuances”
BE BLESSED!! KNOWLEDGE IS POWER!! THANK YOU TONY GASKINS!!🙏
*let me write these down, hmmmm, hmmm" I am dying! 😂😂😂😂
I'M NICE HOWEVER I'M NOT NICE. PREACH!!!
You have to heal before you get into a new relationship you can't make a new man pay for what your last man did you will lose the new one
Im loving your Messages Tony. Thank for coming with the truth. 💙🙏🏼💙🙏🏼
Great video. Us women that seek marriage and a long lasting one, are taking this advice. We need to become what we want.
Thank you for breaking down what a Proverbs 31 woman should be from a male's perspective. This really takes it to another level when you break it down into real-world experiences and behaviors. Thank you!
Thanks Tony. We as women have to become the person that we want to attract and marry.
IF THERE WERE CLONES OF YOU, I WOULD BE FIRST IN LINE. ! YOU GUYS ARE AN AMAZIIIIING COUPLE AND I WISH THE BEST FOR YOU. GOD BLESS
If I didn’t laugh out loud at the beginning of this video. Great way to bring some laughter to very true statements. Thanks Tony
All good stuff Bro Tony!! Be Blessed! Our God is using you to be a modern day deliverer. And I GREATLY appreciate Him and you for it. Let's continue to pray for one another. AMEN!!
Thank you for the support!!
Be blessed watched the entire video... Thank you Mr. Gaskins.
Be Blessed.
Thanks 4 ur time Tony
Tony I have been listening to you for months and have read several of your books. Thank you for sharing your Godly wisdom and being obedient to your calling. I pray for you and your family daily. I can only hope that one day God will bless me a Godly man like yourself with your beliefs and values. In the meantime, I will continue to grow in God, self-love, and being single (3Bs) May God bless you and your family always.
Very good points made with this. Some things brought up I had already noticed and started to change. Others have become glaringly obvious. Good work! Thank you for your wisdom.
TELL THE UGLY TRUTH TONY!! WE NEED TO HEAR THE TRUTH!!
Lol...you just have me rolling😂😂😂😂😂Appreciate you Tony frfr. You have given me so.much insight on men but really opened up my talks within self. 🙏Thank you
TG... I never use foul Language... You curse when you use foul Language !!! Be Blessed y'all 💚💜💙 quit drinking 20+ yrs ago... No smoking either...
Be Blessed...This video helped me to identify a few insecurities that can be remedied; however I am proud of myself for having self love and not being a pushover - the good outweighed the bad.
Life changing messages! You have a gift from the Lord :)
Tony your a great 👍 advisor I’m well over 50 and you just gave me conformation on so many things thank you I’m appreciative of you
“not sucking in ducking” that took me out! 😂
Thanks Tony , love your wisdom ! You're my 2020 person of the year !!
"You done plucked her off the pole" Come on Bro...lol!
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Amen! Amen! And Amen!!! Tony be giving us the GAME💯💯💯
Be Blessed 🙏✝️ Your looks is what attracts him but your exquisite good character he sees in you is what captures him. It won't be a Wam Bam thank you ma'am when your character attracts him. You capture his ❤️ and you can't shake him off with a stick. 😂😂😂 U will become the center of his universe ♥️🙂 and can do no wrong in his eyes😂😂😂
Yes Ma’am that’s how it works every time!
@@tabithafaulk6068 Yes our good character is what keeps him. How we respect ourselves, how we love ourselves also how we love, respect and treat others, our confidence in ourselves. If we carry ourselves this way they will see it too and love us for it. We may not be perfect but in their eyes they think we are 🙂😉
@@doriscrumpton2980 You couldn’t of responded more perfectly. Thank you for your thoughts🙏🏼
Hollering, “ have someone told you, you are beautiful? “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OMG Mr. Gaskins
Whatz up blessed tribe👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼 I'm here listening. Be blessed
Blessed with no stress! Hey blessed tribe!
@@mscassama ok now! Blessed and not stressed! God is in control. Mind over matter 24. 🤗❤
@Geniesha Griffin Whatz good ❤
caramel kissez Hey boo
Am well sis.
Be blessed! These videos are so insightful like this is way better than anything I could be watching on Netflix lol
I used to curse a little bit in the past, but now I cringe when my friends curse so I stopped.
That last 5 minutes! Whew said EVERYTHING!😂👍🏽 Be Blessed!
"You done plucked her of the pole"
You're something else and you gave us that visual at the same time!!
LMFAO❤
Excellent, to the point, accountable, measurable, tactfully communicated and the last few minutes have a punch line summary that softly but powerfully hits it all home.
A definite save and re-watch.
Thank you, Tony.
Be blessed.
We need to accept a person where he/she is and appreciate the good things he/ she brings.
A lot of men ARE in some type of personal and spiritual warfare.
Thank you for this and TBH I think that if the person is not for you, it's GOING to crumble or they will come back when the both of you are ready.
Be blessed🙏🏽.. I was tempted to turn this video off thinking these things don’t apply to me, but I felt led to watch until the end. thank you for this information it’s very helpful to reflect upon yourself to become a better woman because we can all continue to grow in some way,there is always room for improvement
I gotta watch this again!
Rony this episode was epic! So many gems I can't pick one and I am over 60 years old. What an anointing God has bestowed on you. Keep walking in your purpose! Blessings of God on you and your family!
He said Adam was talking to a goat for 8 hours. 😊 Poor Adam 😊
I binge watch these videos while I’m at work 💯💯Thank you Tony I needed this
I love the shirt. Lol be blessed
Mr. Gaskins, you’re a gift from God truly.