and because of your 'i have NO friends" video a bunch of people quietly subscribed to you and are still around, cause you're sweet, cool, and thoughtful. you deserve to find someone special.
Basically a lot of Myra *does* resonate within all of us. We're all her and not her-yet we can relate. Mustering one's courage, being addressed by amazing folks out of the blue; that's like an earthquake in one's life. A good one but a "shattering" experience nevertheless.
Girl ur super cute and have a sweet smile... there's alot of people like you including myself u deserve beautifull things in life dont ever give up i saw you last night first time and I totally understand you been a looner. I AM A LOONER dont know why because im not shy at all but its weird that i make more friends from anywhere else than my country.... God Bless 🙃😉u got another friend that subscribe to ur channel.... Im a open mined in a a couple of days..
I love how honest and candid you are with your struggles/inner dialogue. I don't think I've ever come across a youtuber who is so unscripted. I can definitely see why your video went viral. People resonate with authenticity. :)
Before I started my channel I always hated so much how scripted and fake most UA-camrs are. So I set out to be the most real and raw I could be. Because I know when others are authentic it helps me.
You really inspire me Myra! I too always think that people just aren't attracted to me so I give up before I even try. Next time I see someone I'm attracted to I'm going to try and channel my inner Myra and make eye contact with him and smile more lol 😂
Trust me, looks are not important. I was crazy madly in love with my colleague, I first thought she was ugly. lol, but I always love chatting with Her personality is the key. You end up liking them. Because once you get to know them, you realize there is so much more to them, than just looks.
@@PrinzMidas Well many people focus so intently on looks because of what I call “reunion syndrome” the idea that while you were never good enough in high school, and others made you feel you didn’t measure up, the perfect revenge is to flaunt the undeniably handsome boyfriend/girlfriend in the face of all those doubters. This takes many forms, from friends, to co-workers, to members of one’s family. People will even suffer through the most vile and horrific abuse just to maintain the illusion that they are somehow suddenly worthy based on the aesthetics of their partner. It’s a ubiquitous facade lived out in the warped minds of many many people on the rock. Commonality, respect and empathy is the true road to fulfillment, that many have no interest to travel on.
I said attracted too. I didn't mean just looks. "Attracted to" can mean personality too. In fact that is usually what I am more attracted to. I was just emphasizing the fact that I need to have more confidence when speaking to/acting around guys.
You’re so pure, your growth is endearing. I’ve only just watched your first video and the last few and the way you question yourself and life is a perfect progression of healing. I have high hopes for you. X
this was amazing to watch & listen, such openness & honesty, i’ve never seen this before “emotionally high” just after an act. that guy was totally asking you out, but its ok, ur learning & next time ull know what to do , maybe you will see him again (if its meant to be).
The type of guy to do acts of kindness for others as well - yes so important!! I feel like now we’ll all be waiting for a follow up video when you go back to the coffeeshop and run into him again!
Congratulations on having the courage to tell him how handsome you found him. You've definitely come a long way since I subscribed when you had under 50 subs at the time. Now there's 120k subscribed very happy for you! Stay on that high for as long as you can, you deserve it.
Myra, i consider you an older sister, and I really love listening to your stories and seeing you growing. About this topic, I don't know why but I always was feeling ashamed if I had a 'fast' crush on someone who has done a cute thing for me, but listening to people's fast-crush stories I started to normalize it, and stopped being judgemental. BTW I love your style in this video!
Myra, thank you for sharing little parts of your life & views with us, even at harder times. Your honesty and openness makes you a beautiful person! I can relate to many of the things you share, and I'm sure others do too. Watching your video's makes a bad day a bit better! Thanks so much. Sending you lots of support!
Thank you so much. That means the world to me to hear. Really. I never fully realize that my videos make any kind of impact, but it means a lot to read comments like this. I hope in the future I can meet subscribers, that's when it would feel real
yes im noticed that you changed in a positive way since the first video ive seen of you months or year ago. ur aura and energy must be stronger and clearer . wishing you the best ❤️
I remember seeing your first video about being alone. I am so glad you are having more success now! A lot of women don't realize that smiling, grabbing/touching their arm, or just displaying some interest in the guy goes a long way in getting a guy to approach you. Also it is cute when a girl is a little nervous when your talking to her as long as its not the point she can't engage in a conversation. When they get so nervous the point that us guys have to carry the convo it becomes unenjoyable for us. And personally it makes me feel weird and awkward and throws me off as well. For a long time when situations like that happened I thought there was something wrong with myself. For a long time I had no clue I was consider a attractive guy because we don't get compliments like that from woman only from gay guys so I didn't realize it was just the girl being nervous so I would disengage and stop talking to her. So having some confidence is a good thing and even being a little nervous is cute. Just keep putting out good happy vibes and you will do great! Hope everything keeps going well for you.
YES! YOU GO MYRA! JUST KEEP BEING YOU! AND THEY WILL COME! You're energetically shining into your authentic self. And I'm telling you, it's going to happen! The day really is going to come when that perfect guy is going to catch your eye, and then naturally and organically, everything is going to click and go the way it is supposed to. Although I'm just a stranger, and i don't know you personally, I do want to encourage you to try not to beat yourself up too much over being so overwhelmed and not being able to get your words out to that guy. This is just another step in that pattern towards success (in my opinion) You've got this Myra! Keep going!
@@myrawest You're very welcome Myra! I'm really glad to hear that it meant a lot to you! I love and appreciate how REAL you are. This world desperately needs more of that.
Thanks for being authentic, honest, conscious about your mental, the struggle of female and not caught up with the crazy dating culture of endless chasing. It's such an experience that I felt its like watching a romance. Thanks for showing there's still someone with a proper mindset in human connection.
Wonderful, Myra, absolutely charming. Something is happening to you. I like to see you so exited and so very much alive. And you describe these situations so well we can actually take part in them. Listening to you is like listening to our very best friend. I think your life has already changed for the better. Do you think a major change will be coming to your life soon? Best wishes and all the luck in the world from Wolfgang in Germany. 🍀🌞👍❤️🙋🏻♂️
This is very inspiring video! I think you handled yourself very well. Due to the fact that you did not know places to eat, you recommended places to visit, beaches and parks. Its also wonderful to hear about these two positive interactions. We can all refer back to your video about "how to cold approach women without being creepy". Maybe he was nervous around you? Thank you for posting this video, it made my day to see it. Be proud of yourself for talking to this gentlemen
About 6 years ago, when I was doing my routine walking on a trail, I actually smiled and said hi to two men on bikes who were fairly “ attractive “ and they got off their bikes and wanted to start taking!!!! Yikes!!!! I wasn’t expecting them to do that! I’m very social phobic and just terrified, so I kept walking away ! 😞 I’m just terrified to talk to guys ( especially attractive ones). Good for you though! You are coming out of your shell and is so inspiring to see! Thank you!
Go back on that trail everyday the same time you did and if you see one of the 2 guys you saw, talk with them . You never know where it will take you in your journey of friendship 🌻
You have to start to realise that you are a hot woman ! Especially now with your increased confidence. The difference in you in this video from your initial video is amazing. I am so happy for you.
I am proud of you~ i am glad that you're being self aware and observing your changes. Talking to someone else is definitely a big challenge for me as well. I don't find myself to be a "textbook" handsome but I have gotten away from caring about that long ago. I will be honest and say that if I saw you somewhere I would be super nervous to talk to you. Anyway! Great progress. I hope you continue to learn more about yourself and stay on a emotional high longer.🙂🙂
Wish you the best. You seem to be a kind person, a very feminine woman who is getting out of that hole you were in when I saw your "i have no friends" video. Nice to see your vids again too. When you went silent for awhile figured that phase of your life was over and you were exploring the world. Be safe, take care and follow your initial gut feeling. That can save you from misery. I know I have wished I had gone with that feeling many times and didn't only to pay for it.
I found your channel almost accidentally, and now i can say that i could listen to you talking for hours about almost anything. You come across as really genuine and authentical, thoughtful, and and this is such a rare trait to find, especially among youtubers or twitchers or similar. Wish you all the best!
Hi Myra, good for you!!! Consider that a ball instead of a strike lol. Smiling, saying hi is the best way to break the ice. Usually a guy is shy or he doesn't have the courage to come up and talk. But if he does, than the conversation develops. I usually ask if their single lol. That's just me. Stay confident.
I know I’m just a dude in the comments but you are pretty beautiful, and your honesty and openness is beautiful too. In my opinion, women that are beautiful ruin that with the vanity, the pouting and the way they look down on people. You are a rare gem in this day and age. Stay humble. You’re doing great.
You should definitely approach each person you find attractive each day and just ask them for a good place for a coffee (rather than tell them you find them attractive). They might then take you there and sit with you. Wayyyyyy better than dating apps. Love your growth x
I had an actual fashion model make eye contact with me, and then come and sit down right next to me. There was no one else around so I pretty much figured out her motive. However, I froze up and blew the opportunity of a lifetime.
wow what a wholesome interaction! I bet that made their day! you're a very wise person myra, and for whatever it's worth from a stranger on the internet, you should be really proud of how far you've come!
This is very cool Myra your literally learning and almost reaching the point people who understand normal life are at! Your awesome realization that maybe if you like a guy! YOU should approach them, regardless of what you may pre or r about there personal life or if they have a girlfriend! It’s important to throw your feelings out there and see if the person will reel them in! It’s a process and it may take a couple times but they WILL get caught one day! This is another big step you’ve taken today! Proud of you! Totally wish we could hang cause you seem like me on the journey of life! Hope to see you happy 😊
The reason it is so pleasurable to compliment someone on his attractiveness is that it gratifies your own sense of the ideal. What you find handsome or noble or kind comes from within and reflects your spiritual self. When you're able to tell someone what you see in him, there is a connection between that and something within yourself that you love. Such an expression, however, requires the courage to reveal yourself, for it is your heart in its openness.
❤❤❤ I'm really sorry to hear this. I can feel your pain. You have a really nice vibe and definitely are a good person. You might benefit from some counselling due to your deep seated issues caused by emotional neglect and abuse you've experienced as a child. ❤❤❤ I wish you all the best ❤❤❤
Love this. You're obviously appearing or acting more approachable and you're seeing the positive results! Yayyy! Now to start exchanging info so you don't forever wonder what could have been!
I'm 29 and I've dated 3 girls so far and Im not even kidding, they all made the first move on me (ex: we hung out with friends and then by the time I got home, they were messaging me on social media saying they found me attractive.) It's fucking awesome. You should try it. They'll be FLOORED, even if they decline they'll remember it.
I think I've left a comment similar to this on one of your other videos, but repeating it anyway because I love to ramble about this stuff lol. First of all, yeah, it's bullshit that people automatically come up to you and start flirting with you if you are attractive. Even if you perfectly fit society's definition of beauty, if you give up a closed off "I don't want to talk to anyone" vibe, then it's not gonna happen very often. Everyone fears rejection, and the less confident you are that talking to a stranger is gonna work out in your favor, the less likely it is you will want to talk to them. Extroverts have an easier time attracting people because you can pretty easily tell (even when watching from afar) who they are, what they're like, and how likely they would be to converse with you if you walked up to them and struck up a conversation. Introverts don't NECESSARILY have this disadvantage (I consider myself an introvert, but it's not uncommon for people to come up to me to talk), but a lot of introverts have social anxiety and tend to be a bit closed off, which dissuades people from talking to them. It's most likely why you felt like no one wanted to be your friend, much less date you in real life, yet you have a youtube channel full of guys who'd date you in a heartbeat. Your videos are personal, it shows off a lot of your personality, and it's an inside look at who you are that most people don't get in real life. But now that you've been getting the hang of being more social, it's probably made you seem more open and forthcoming that you find someone attractive. That gives people confidence that walking up to you and talking to you won't cause you to get annoyed and want them gone. Basically, if you want to walk up to attractive guys and tell them "hey! I find you attractive, want coffee?", then go for it! There are so many guys out there (attractive or otherwise) who would LOVE to find a woman willing to make the first move, and you may be shocked how many of them find you attractive as well and will say yes.
I think he was putting feelers out to see if you were interested in going somewhere with him. But if you showed were uncomfortable, he probably backed off.
I think numbers or e mail should have been exchanged before the thought of leaving with a stranger to go to a restaurant. Can't be too safe these days, and getting to know someone better by texting/ talking first sounds even better.
Mr. Hot Guy is going to forever remember the ginger-hair colored girl who told him he’s handsome. Men don’t often get compliments, so when they get them, they remember them for a while. I still remember the girl who complimented me all the way back in 2015 on a bright yellow, swirly rainbow-colored, shirt. Haha.
Good-looking guys get compliments all the time. Regular guys are invisible to women. When a random woman compliments my looks, my guard goes up. I expect to be scammed.
You look so sure of yourself which really makes me happy because you have reached a state of awareness of how important you are, how special you are and that you projected so much for so many people like me in this media!! You attract men because not only you are a very beautiful woman and also the law of attraction, your secure vibration is high!!! I think I have had the same problem in relationships with women since I was 16 years old and I see many who comment on the same in this video and others!! A hug in the distance beautiful young lady
Well Myra, you never know. You might see him again when you least expect it. But this time you will have the words. Take care young lady. Btw, love hearing the excitement in your voice.
Let me tell you something- guys really want someone to be interested in them, like in their hobbies, and just someone to be a partner in their routine, someone who can see when they feel down and come over and console them, that kind of stuff. Now I'm just guessing or making a story based on my past experience in relashionships- but maybe this handsome guy had some bad relationship with someone cold who didn't care about him, and then a nice girl like you gave him attention and he found that really attractive. Just keep it in your mind if this kind of thing happens again. You shouldn't doubt you being someone's crash, cause they probably see you are a sensitive girl and its what a lot of good guys want.
Hahaha this is sooooooooo funny. 🤣 Please never grow up.... I love it when girls blush and stutter when they see me. I used to do it other way round when i was young.
Kind Myra! I am soooooo PROUD of you for telling that HOT guy that you thought that he was very attractive and handsome. WoW! Listening to your story, I was HOPING that you would have the courage to be honest and tell him your true feelings, but I thought ... no ways will she be able to do that .... BUT you DID! Yes! Yes! Yes! Much love xxx
Wow, It's amazing to see how far you have grown in confidence Myra, I remember in your "I have NO Friends" video, you thought "I don't think anybody will click" and now everyone hear wants to support you 👍
I had a great time watching this! You've started to get out of your shell and live the beginnings of a socially successful young life. I hope I can be this happy and socially active/available, first I need to find ways to do social activities and not spend my time at home watching youtube! My friend said that pools are opening up, that's a scary idea since I'm mostly a house-bound hermit! BTW, there's always another Alex. My friend group, all of my college classes, there's 5 of us just at my work! Ty for the compliment, I think Myra's are pretty too!
That was awesome! I loved hearing your story and your positive energy was wonderful. I would have to think that you're just going to have to get used to being approached by "HOT" guys cuz you, my friend, are a very beautiful woman....and I don't mean just physically! There's so much more to you than your looks. For one thing, you're gaining confidence and it shows... and THAT is very attractive. Keep putting yourself out there, be approachable, and if you see someone you think you'd like to know, GO FOR IT! It's refreshing when an attractive lady takes the initiative and starts a conversation letting me know she's interested. It hasn't happened often, but it's nice when it does. I'm happy for you even if you never see that guy again, you stretched your boundaries a little and took a chance. Good job! As they say, there are plenty of fish in the ocean and you'll have plenty of other opportunities. As always..... Love ya, Myra! :)
You are so cute and naturally funny 😄. And courageous because you wouldn’t have locked eyes with him or told him he was handsome if you were scared. Introverts have their own version of courage. Eye contact is huge! In attracting anyone, men or women. Eye contact and a friendly face is a signal that you are open. People are attracted to peace and happiness. I am very happy right now and men are approaching me a lot also!
Myra, just like you have a type, maybe the handsome guys have a type. Maybe you are their type. You never know. But you cannot always freak out and run away. Also meeting someone in a coffee shop is much safer than these dating apps which are filled with abusers, human traffickers and killers. 🍵🍵💛💙💚
I'd bet $100 if you walk back into that coffee shop tomorrow around the same time, you're gonna see him again. You made that guys day. On Alex's youtube channel right now he's posting about how a hot woman was talking to him. Also the most attractive people I know are some of the most lonely. Everyone just assumes they are already hooked up or they are unapproachable by anyone that isn't as attractive as them. Did you ever stop and think that *maybe* you don't get approached all that often because your very attractive?
Yeah, that's all you need to do. At the same time, in a previous video you mentioned how you didn't want guys to think you're romantically interested, and just want to talk in a friendly manner without them hitting on you. The same actions used to attract the hot people also attracts people you aren't interested in. Guys are kinda trained to see a glance and a smile as an opportunity to see if you're available and potentially interested in them. Hence the flirting from guys I bet. You're beautiful. The awkwardness and the vulnerability you share here only enhances it. It's been interesting getting to learn about you and watching your growth.
"can i tell you something since im never gonna see you again" brooooooo im telling u right now as a dude hes 100% thinking the same thing you are. which is "damn i completely screwed that up". because first of all, again as a dude, im telling u guys dont just strike up random conversations with girls they dont find attractive. he was into you 100%. but the fact that home boy didnt hit you with a smoothe "well would you like to see me again? we could find a restaurant somewhere near that beach you were telling me about" is crazy. i promise you hes replaying that whole encounter again in his head trying to figure out at what point he coulda got your number. just because a guy is handsome doesnt mean hes got game lmao. no bs sometimes we really do need the girl to save us in these situations and help us push the conversation along. also yes that "you know any good places to eat?" was 100% a line. and thats ok lines are cheesey but look at it from our perspective its really hard to just strike up a random conversation with a girl especially if you arent like someone who he works with or goes to church with or otherwise sees everyday. you are just 2 random people getting coffee and its like "oh shit shes so cute and shes gonna leave in like 5 minutes i gotta work fast" so boom cheesey conversation starter line. so yea that was an ice breaker. hes not stupid he has google he doesnt need your help to figure out where to find food lmao.
Awww I really love this. It helped me a lot. I have a very weird past and it's still hard for me to believe that men could be interested in me. I'm learning and growing in that! Thank you for the insight!
haha i'm sure if u go back to that coffee shop again pretty regularly you'll run into him again. :P and maybe what's attracting people to you more often is an increased self-confidence, which others can definitely pick up on, even by just seeing you through body language n stuff, or so i've found. anyway, all the best with everything!
You are very attractive, intelligent and nice. You are like in the 2% of the population. Do not accept anything less than what you are looking for. The key to success for anyone in any situation is to display confidence. 👌
"[As] you learn to build a deeper connection to Knowledge within yourself, your deeper nature. And as you begin to experience this deeper nature, perhaps incrementally at first, you begin to look for deeper qualities in other people. As you progress, you are no longer so impressed by beauty, wealth and charm. You are looking for something deeper in other people, and this is the result of looking for something deeper within yourself. As your experience of your deeper nature grows, as you have a greater sense that there is a deeper current in your life, then you will want to build your relationships based upon this deeper current. Here you will not seek stimulation as much as you will a deeper resonance with other people. You will value honesty; you will value sincerity; you will value commitment over all other forms of stimulation. Instead of just trying to have fun with someone, you want to really feel a connection, and you look for this connection in other people. Though you will not have this deeper resonance with everyone, certain people will stand out. Among them there will be a few with whom you are destined to be united for a greater purpose, a greater work in the world. You will look for this. And your mind will become ever more free of being seduced by beauty, wealth or charm. You may encounter the most beautiful person you have ever seen, and your mind may be impressed, but deeper down there is no response. Deeper down there is no recognition." A quote from "A Deeper Recognition in Relationships" - a teaching from 'The New Message' as revealed to Marshall Vian Summers.
I have seen your " I'm single " video long back and it got recommended back. I came to check how you are doing. I see you are better than ever. If you have mercury/Venus or both with sun in the same sign of your zodiac chart or adjacent signs you will find your life's partner in the workplace. If you look for it in the wrong place you won't find it. Also the bright chances of meeting a life partner is after25 and getting married is by around 29-32. I hope to see you making a video in the near future with your man. Good luck
What's happening is you have changed your confidence is higher and honestly hell yeah if you see someone you like go talk to them and always keep eye contact. It works 🙂 And don't give them all your information you know what I mean work place, email, phone etc. Until you get to know them.
I loved this video!! Your kind of raw emotions you share are actually inspiring to me. As I was watching you, I felt that you look very kind and approachable. I think it would be very cool if you were able to approach a guy. I promise the guy would be flattered! Take good care of yourself!
You're buzzing in this video & I'm so happy to see you this way! :-) I hope you continue to have similar encounters with nice men, (or perhaps even cross paths with that same one again)! I'd keep away from dating apps if I were you though. They're addictive, a waste of time & only good for window shopping. Not to mention the large number of fake profiles you see on them. Also, real people lying about certain things to come across as more attractive. Right, I'll stop there!
Congratulations. I am introverted too, so dating was hell for me as well. Glad I've been married for the last 27 years. Keep smiling at the guys you want to meet. Next time, you can be the one to ask about a good restaurant.
To be fair, it almost always hurts to be openly/pre-emptively rejected. Whether they don't smile back, ___ isn't their type, or the person just won't talk to you, the same emptiness just is. I don't have reasons to speak or to try anymore, therefore I don't, and probably won't. That said, you should probably know your content was helping me recover from a near death experience. Just hearing the similarities in your vocal inflections and speech patterns was cathartic and healing enough to help me start a path towards closure. I don't ever expect to achieve such a thing as closure but it has been nice to fantasize about having goals while I actively lie to myself about how and that life will improve. A lot of the comments I read on this video give me the impression that you're teaching people how to live well. I'm glad to know that you're literally helping to solve some of the social problems and stigma that interfere with my basic life and everyday living, kind of feels like help from afar. I realize I won't benefit just because people learned to treat each other better but it's nice to see someone that is actually trying. Anyways, I'll assume I'm just not that welcome and see myself out before the maelstrom of predictable lecturing and non-helpful comments about the tragic state of my mental health yet again surface.
Research your personality type. That will answer a lot of your questions about who you are and it will help you have a better understanding about your weaknesses and strengths so you can work on your weaknesses.
Myra, you’re way above average looking so any single or not single for that matter guy would be highly flattered if you were looking at them. If he’s single, and you’re going to keep returning his look with a smile, your going to get near 100% approach.
Hi Myra, your video reminded me of when I was young and would meet a handsome man, I'd get suddenly shy or tongue tied. As for these days, I'm glad I'm older because I wouldn't want to try dating in these times. It's got to be really hard to meet people now, what with all the trans/gender/etc.. stuff going on. I'd never make it. Anyway, it might be because of that that men these days are a bit more careful when meeting women and if you got the sense that he was asking you about places was his really trying to hit on you, you're probably right. You could have suggested a place and offered to walk him there, or something like that. Anyway, just an idea. GL with this dating stuff. Have a great day.
I think guys tend to check the hands, because that is often one thing those freaks can not change easily. Also the trying too hard to be the opposite gender vibe. However there are some rare exceptions that can fool people.
Congratulations. One way to extend things is to keep the door open. Asking about dining places and such is a door opener for you to ask if he's here for a short time/where are you from. When it got to walks, find out when he's going and say you were planning to go later. Or say I was going for a walk myself and leave it in his court. He might then suggest going together. Nice you broke the ice.
and because of your 'i have NO friends" video a bunch of people quietly subscribed to you and are still around, cause you're sweet, cool, and thoughtful. you deserve to find someone special.
The same with me.
I started watching her since that time as a girl with the same situation
thank you so much ❤️
Basically a lot of Myra *does* resonate within all of us. We're all her and not her-yet we can relate. Mustering one's courage, being addressed by amazing folks out of the blue; that's like an earthquake in one's life. A good one but a "shattering" experience nevertheless.
Well said. ❤
Girl ur super cute and have a sweet smile... there's alot of people like you including myself u deserve beautifull things in life dont ever give up i saw you last night first time and I totally understand you been a looner. I AM A LOONER dont know why because im not shy at all but its weird that i make more friends from anywhere else than my country.... God Bless 🙃😉u got another friend that subscribe to ur channel.... Im a open mined in a a couple of days..
I love how honest and candid you are with your struggles/inner dialogue. I don't think I've ever come across a youtuber who is so unscripted. I can definitely see why your video went viral. People resonate with authenticity. :)
Before I started my channel I always hated so much how scripted and fake most UA-camrs are. So I set out to be the most real and raw I could be. Because I know when others are authentic it helps me.
Let me be clear, Myra: You're cute and a lovely person so try to accept what's coming your way ☺️
You really inspire me Myra! I too always think that people just aren't attracted to me so I give up before I even try. Next time I see someone I'm attracted to I'm going to try and channel my inner Myra and make eye contact with him and smile more lol 😂
Do you think this applies to guys to? We should just stare at girls?
Trust me, looks are not important. I was crazy madly in love with my colleague, I first thought she was ugly. lol, but I always love chatting with Her personality is the key. You end up liking them. Because once you get to know them, you realize there is so much more to them, than just looks.
@@PrinzMidas Well many people focus so intently on looks because of what I call “reunion syndrome” the idea that while you were never good enough in high school, and others made you feel you didn’t measure up, the perfect revenge is to flaunt the undeniably handsome boyfriend/girlfriend in the face of all those doubters. This takes many forms, from friends, to co-workers, to members of one’s family. People will even suffer through the most vile and horrific abuse just to maintain the illusion that they are somehow suddenly worthy based on the aesthetics of their partner. It’s a ubiquitous facade lived out in the warped minds of many many people on the rock. Commonality, respect and empathy is the true road to fulfillment, that many have no interest to travel on.
I said attracted too. I didn't mean just looks. "Attracted to" can mean personality too. In fact that is usually what I am more attracted to. I was just emphasizing the fact that I need to have more confidence when speaking to/acting around guys.
@@electabuzz5227 did you date her?
As an introvert i find your videos so relatable. Feels like i'm chatting with a friend. Btw, make sure not to run away next time haha.
You’re so pure, your growth is endearing.
I’ve only just watched your first video and the last few and the way you question yourself and life is a perfect progression of healing.
I have high hopes for you. X
So much progress. Remember, men are just people too! I'm sure it'll happen again & each time it'll be a little easier. Really happy for you!😊
thank you so much ❤️
I'm 26, a man, and still prone to freaking out about things. Don't beat yourself up about it - you did good.
this was amazing to watch & listen, such openness & honesty, i’ve never seen this before “emotionally high” just after an act. that guy was totally asking you out, but its ok, ur learning & next time ull know what to do , maybe you will see him again (if its meant to be).
The type of guy to do acts of kindness for others as well - yes so important!! I feel like now we’ll all be waiting for a follow up video when you go back to the coffeeshop and run into him again!
As in literally run into him, fall in a heap on the floor on top of him lol. I feel a movie plotline coming on.... 🤣
Congratulations on having the courage to tell him how handsome you found him. You've definitely come a long way since I subscribed when you had under 50 subs at the time. Now there's 120k subscribed very happy for you! Stay on that high for as long as you can, you deserve it.
that's so cool! thanks for being one of the OGs and sticking around!!
Myra, i consider you an older sister, and I really love listening to your stories and seeing you growing.
About this topic, I don't know why but I always was feeling ashamed if I had a 'fast' crush on someone who has done a cute thing for me, but listening to people's fast-crush stories I started to normalize it, and stopped being judgemental.
BTW I love your style in this video!
Myra, thank you for sharing little parts of your life & views with us, even at harder times. Your honesty and openness makes you a beautiful person! I can relate to many of the things you share, and I'm sure others do too. Watching your video's makes a bad day a bit better! Thanks so much. Sending you lots of support!
Thank you so much. That means the world to me to hear. Really. I never fully realize that my videos make any kind of impact, but it means a lot to read comments like this. I hope in the future I can meet subscribers, that's when it would feel real
Oh yeah I can definitely see that. Having a community online can be super nice, but its still different in ways.
yes im noticed that you changed in a positive way since the first video ive seen of you months or year ago. ur aura and energy must be stronger and clearer . wishing you the best ❤️
I remember seeing your first video about being alone. I am so glad you are having more success now! A lot of women don't realize that smiling, grabbing/touching their arm, or just displaying some interest in the guy goes a long way in getting a guy to approach you.
Also it is cute when a girl is a little nervous when your talking to her as long as its not the point she can't engage in a conversation. When they get so nervous the point that us guys have to carry the convo it becomes unenjoyable for us. And personally it makes me feel weird and awkward and throws me off as well. For a long time when situations like that happened I thought there was something wrong with myself. For a long time I had no clue I was consider a attractive guy because we don't get compliments like that from woman only from gay guys so I didn't realize it was just the girl being nervous so I would disengage and stop talking to her. So having some confidence is a good thing and even being a little nervous is cute.
Just keep putting out good happy vibes and you will do great! Hope everything keeps going well for you.
Like in Sixteen Candles when Sam clams up trying to talk to Jake Ryan for the first time? God I felt so bad for her ☹️
Absolutely agreed with everything you did there. You should never 'overthink' things. Just do what you feel is right in the moment and enjoy it!
YES! YOU GO MYRA! JUST KEEP BEING YOU! AND THEY WILL COME!
You're energetically shining into your authentic self. And I'm telling you, it's going to happen! The day really is going to come when that perfect guy is going to catch your eye, and then naturally and organically, everything is going to click and go the way it is supposed to. Although I'm just a stranger, and i don't know you personally, I do want to encourage you to try not to beat yourself up too much over being so overwhelmed and not being able to get your words out to that guy. This is just another step in that pattern towards success (in my opinion) You've got this Myra! Keep going!
thank you so much!! this comment means so much to me. yes, I veiw it that way too. I veiw this as practice and progress
@@myrawest You're very welcome Myra! I'm really glad to hear that it meant a lot to you! I love and appreciate how REAL you are. This world desperately needs more of that.
Thanks for being authentic, honest, conscious about your mental, the struggle of female and not caught up with the crazy dating culture of endless chasing. It's such an experience that I felt its like watching a romance.
Thanks for showing there's still someone with a proper mindset in human connection.
Wonderful, Myra, absolutely charming. Something is happening to you. I like to see you so exited and so very much alive. And you describe these situations so well we can actually take part in them. Listening to you is like listening to our very best friend. I think your life has already changed for the better. Do you think a major change will be coming to your life soon? Best wishes and all the luck in the world from Wolfgang in Germany. 🍀🌞👍❤️🙋🏻♂️
This is very inspiring video! I think you handled yourself very well. Due to the fact that you did not know places to eat, you recommended places to visit, beaches and parks. Its also wonderful to hear about these two positive interactions. We can all refer back to your video about "how to cold approach women without being creepy". Maybe he was nervous around you? Thank you for posting this video, it made my day to see it. Be proud of yourself for talking to this gentlemen
Myra you’re the most innocent sweet person I’ve ever met. You’re incredibly beautiful and smart. You’ll find the perfect person for you one day.
She is! I am glad she is sharing her light with the world
thank you, this means a lot. ❤️
About 6 years ago, when I was doing my routine walking on a trail, I actually smiled and said hi to two men on bikes who were fairly “ attractive “ and they got off their bikes and wanted to start taking!!!! Yikes!!!! I wasn’t expecting them to do that! I’m very social phobic and just terrified, so I kept walking away ! 😞 I’m just terrified to talk to guys ( especially attractive ones). Good for you though! You are coming out of your shell and is so inspiring to see! Thank you!
What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger
Go back on that trail everyday the same time you did and if you see one of the 2 guys you saw, talk with them . You never know where it will take you in your journey of friendship 🌻
Congrats from the bottom of my heart! You can be so proud of you, Myra!!!👍🙏🙌🦋🦋🦋💗💗💗
You have to start to realise that you are a hot woman ! Especially now with your increased confidence. The difference in you in this video from your initial video is amazing. I am so happy for you.
I haven't watched one of your videos in a while. Congratulations on this breakthrough moment. To say you deserve it is an understatement.
I love this video. Love the energy. I’m so happy for you and seeing all the progress you been making ♥️😊
It's nice hearing an honest perspective from your pov. Your journey of discovery is facinating.
I am proud of you~ i am glad that you're being self aware and observing your changes. Talking to someone else is definitely a big challenge for me as well. I don't find myself to be a "textbook" handsome but I have gotten away from caring about that long ago. I will be honest and say that if I saw you somewhere I would be super nervous to talk to you. Anyway! Great progress. I hope you continue to learn more about yourself and stay on a emotional high longer.🙂🙂
Wish you the best. You seem to be a kind person, a very feminine woman who is getting out of that hole you were in when I saw your "i have no friends" video. Nice to see your vids again too. When you went silent for awhile figured that phase of your life was over and you were exploring the world. Be safe, take care and follow your initial gut feeling. That can save you from misery. I know I have wished I had gone with that feeling many times and didn't only to pay for it.
A lot of it is mentality and the vibe you give off as much as it is the way you look. You seem a lot different and a lot more animated than usual.
I found your channel almost accidentally, and now i can say that i could listen to you talking for hours about almost anything. You come across as really genuine and authentical, thoughtful, and and this is such a rare trait to find, especially among youtubers or twitchers or similar. Wish you all the best!
Hi Myra, good for you!!! Consider that a ball instead of a strike lol. Smiling, saying hi is the best way to break the ice. Usually a guy is shy or he doesn't have the courage to come up and talk. But if he does, than the conversation develops. I usually ask if their single lol. That's just me. Stay confident.
I know I’m just a dude in the comments but you are pretty beautiful, and your honesty and openness is beautiful too.
In my opinion, women that are beautiful ruin that with the vanity, the pouting and the way they look down on people.
You are a rare gem in this day and age.
Stay humble. You’re doing great.
It's your vibe, babe! Hopefully, any guy you actually get with will be good to you in just the right ways so you find it easy to be in that vibe.
You should definitely approach each person you find attractive each day and just ask them for a good place for a coffee (rather than tell them you find them attractive). They might then take you there and sit with you. Wayyyyyy better than dating apps. Love your growth x
I had an actual fashion model make eye contact with me, and then come and sit down right next to me. There was no one else around so I pretty much figured out her motive. However, I froze up and blew the opportunity of a lifetime.
Man 😢
Maybe you didn’t want it
wow what a wholesome interaction! I bet that made their day! you're a very wise person myra, and for whatever it's worth from a stranger on the internet, you should be really proud of how far you've come!
aww thank you ❤️
This is very cool Myra your literally learning and almost reaching the point people who understand normal life are at! Your awesome realization that maybe if you like a guy! YOU should approach them, regardless of what you may pre or r about there personal life or if they have a girlfriend! It’s important to throw your feelings out there and see if the person will reel them in! It’s a process and it may take a couple times but they WILL get caught one day! This is another big step you’ve taken today! Proud of you! Totally wish we could hang cause you seem like me on the journey of life! Hope to see you happy 😊
The reason it is so pleasurable to compliment someone on his attractiveness is that it gratifies your own sense of the ideal. What you find handsome or noble or kind comes from within and reflects your spiritual self. When you're able to tell someone what you see in him, there is a connection between that and something within yourself that you love. Such an expression, however, requires the courage to reveal yourself, for it is your heart in its openness.
This is really deep and beautiful. I hope you comment more. I love this insight.
❤❤❤ I'm really sorry to hear this. I can feel your pain. You have a really nice vibe and definitely are a good person. You might benefit from some counselling due to your deep seated issues caused by emotional neglect and abuse you've experienced as a child. ❤❤❤ I wish you all the best ❤❤❤
Love this. You're obviously appearing or acting more approachable and you're seeing the positive results! Yayyy! Now to start exchanging info so you don't forever wonder what could have been!
ahaha… you’re so pure & adorable, myra. i love your personality
I'm 29 and I've dated 3 girls so far and Im not even kidding, they all made the first move on me (ex: we hung out with friends and then by the time I got home, they were messaging me on social media saying they found me attractive.) It's fucking awesome. You should try it. They'll be FLOORED, even if they decline they'll remember it.
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3 women and you're 30? How is that something to be excited?
@@alikurubally9067 SIlence, incel.
I think I've left a comment similar to this on one of your other videos, but repeating it anyway because I love to ramble about this stuff lol.
First of all, yeah, it's bullshit that people automatically come up to you and start flirting with you if you are attractive. Even if you perfectly fit society's definition of beauty, if you give up a closed off "I don't want to talk to anyone" vibe, then it's not gonna happen very often. Everyone fears rejection, and the less confident you are that talking to a stranger is gonna work out in your favor, the less likely it is you will want to talk to them.
Extroverts have an easier time attracting people because you can pretty easily tell (even when watching from afar) who they are, what they're like, and how likely they would be to converse with you if you walked up to them and struck up a conversation. Introverts don't NECESSARILY have this disadvantage (I consider myself an introvert, but it's not uncommon for people to come up to me to talk), but a lot of introverts have social anxiety and tend to be a bit closed off, which dissuades people from talking to them.
It's most likely why you felt like no one wanted to be your friend, much less date you in real life, yet you have a youtube channel full of guys who'd date you in a heartbeat. Your videos are personal, it shows off a lot of your personality, and it's an inside look at who you are that most people don't get in real life. But now that you've been getting the hang of being more social, it's probably made you seem more open and forthcoming that you find someone attractive. That gives people confidence that walking up to you and talking to you won't cause you to get annoyed and want them gone.
Basically, if you want to walk up to attractive guys and tell them "hey! I find you attractive, want coffee?", then go for it! There are so many guys out there (attractive or otherwise) who would LOVE to find a woman willing to make the first move, and you may be shocked how many of them find you attractive as well and will say yes.
Whatever it is, good for you! Seems like you’re opening up.
I think he was putting feelers out to see if you were interested in going somewhere with him. But if you showed were uncomfortable, he probably backed off.
I'm sure that's exactly what happened
I think numbers or e mail should have been exchanged before the thought of leaving with a stranger to go to a restaurant. Can't be too safe these days, and getting to know someone better by texting/ talking first sounds even better.
Mr. Hot Guy is going to forever remember the ginger-hair colored girl who told him he’s handsome. Men don’t often get compliments, so when they get them, they remember them for a while. I still remember the girl who complimented me all the way back in 2015 on a bright yellow, swirly rainbow-colored, shirt. Haha.
awwww
Good-looking guys get compliments all the time. Regular guys are invisible to women.
When a random woman compliments my looks, my guard goes up. I expect to be scammed.
You look so sure of yourself which really makes me happy because you have reached a state of awareness of how important you are, how special you are and that you projected so much for so many people like me in this media!! You attract men because not only you are a very beautiful woman and also the law of attraction, your secure vibration is high!!! I think I have had the same problem in relationships with women since I was 16 years old and I see many who comment on the same in this video and others!! A hug in the distance beautiful young lady
Most of the time when I see attractive women in public, I normally just assume that they're in a relationship and start feeling bad for some reason.
it’s really nice to hear someone going through the same things. I felt like i was listening to a friend. love u ❤️ keep recording
Well Myra, you never know. You might see him again when you least expect it. But this time you will have the words. Take care young lady. Btw, love hearing the excitement in your voice.
Don't rush anything. When the time is right, it'll happen.
"I'm probably going to have to Rollerblade now to Rollerblade my feelings away" 🙂👍👊
Let me tell you something- guys really want someone to be interested in them, like in their hobbies, and just someone to be a partner in their routine, someone who can see when they feel down and come over and console them, that kind of stuff.
Now I'm just guessing or making a story based on my past experience in relashionships- but maybe this handsome guy had some bad relationship with someone cold who didn't care about him, and then a nice girl like you gave him attention and he found that really attractive. Just keep it in your mind if this kind of thing happens again. You shouldn't doubt you being someone's crash, cause they probably see you are a sensitive girl and its what a lot of good guys want.
Cooking great helps too!
I mean tbh you’re gorgeous and seem like a genuine person so I can see that happening
Yeah in a roundabout way he was trying to ask you out!
A beautiful, young, brunette that is just realizing the power her physical presence can wield.
Somebody, please queue the Darth Sidious cackle! 😁
Power !!!! Unlimited Power !!!!!!!!
the only thing is I hope I can fully realize this before I lose all of my youth
Isn't she a red head?
This was great! Your genuineness is so refreshing
Seeing your transformation has been incredible. It's like night and day! And the journey is still continuing.
haha I'm still at the very very beginning. I have so far to go. thank you for being here and supporting
Now you just have to go back in the next few days. Odds are good he'll be there, hoping you'll come back. :)
Hahaha this is sooooooooo funny. 🤣 Please never grow up.... I love it when girls blush and stutter when they see me. I used to do it other way round when i was young.
Kind Myra! I am soooooo PROUD of you for telling that HOT guy that you thought that he was very attractive and handsome. WoW! Listening to your story, I was HOPING that you would have the courage to be honest and tell him your true feelings, but I thought ... no ways will she be able to do that .... BUT you DID! Yes! Yes! Yes! Much love xxx
Aww this is the sweetest thing 😊
Wow, It's amazing to see how far you have grown in confidence Myra, I remember in your "I have NO Friends" video, you thought "I don't think anybody will click" and now everyone hear wants to support you 👍
I had a great time watching this! You've started to get out of your shell and live the beginnings of a socially successful young life. I hope I can be this happy and socially active/available, first I need to find ways to do social activities and not spend my time at home watching youtube! My friend said that pools are opening up, that's a scary idea since I'm mostly a house-bound hermit!
BTW, there's always another Alex. My friend group, all of my college classes, there's 5 of us just at my work!
Ty for the compliment, I think Myra's are pretty too!
That was awesome! I loved hearing your story and your positive energy was wonderful. I would have to think that you're just going to have to get used to being approached by "HOT" guys cuz you, my friend, are a very beautiful woman....and I don't mean just physically! There's so much more to you than your looks. For one thing, you're gaining confidence and it shows... and THAT is very attractive. Keep putting yourself out there, be approachable, and if you see someone you think you'd like to know, GO FOR IT! It's refreshing when an attractive lady takes the initiative and starts a conversation letting me know she's interested. It hasn't happened often, but it's nice when it does. I'm happy for you even if you never see that guy again, you stretched your boundaries a little and took a chance. Good job! As they say, there are plenty of fish in the ocean and you'll have plenty of other opportunities. As always..... Love ya, Myra! :)
I would recommend a less-than-hot guy who is a true friend to you. Genuine, authentic.
You are so cute and naturally funny 😄. And courageous because you wouldn’t have locked eyes with him or told him he was handsome if you were scared. Introverts have their own version of courage. Eye contact is huge! In attracting anyone, men or women. Eye contact and a friendly face is a signal that you are open.
People are attracted to peace and happiness. I am very happy right now and men are approaching me a lot also!
Myra, just like you have a type, maybe the handsome guys have a type. Maybe you are their type. You never know. But you cannot always freak out and run away. Also meeting someone in a coffee shop is much safer than these dating apps which are filled with abusers, human traffickers and killers. 🍵🍵💛💙💚
hahaha baby steps!! I'm actually proud of myself for just being able to look at him and talk to him. for me that is a HUGE positive step
Unfortunately, we cannot predict where and when these predators show up. It's very much a 50/50 situation anywhere we go....
I'd bet $100 if you walk back into that coffee shop tomorrow around the same time, you're gonna see him again. You made that guys day.
On Alex's youtube channel right now he's posting about how a hot woman was talking to him.
Also the most attractive people I know are some of the most lonely. Everyone just assumes they are already hooked up or they are unapproachable by anyone that isn't as attractive as them. Did you ever stop and think that *maybe* you don't get approached all that often because your very attractive?
I agree with everything you just said!
Yeah, that's all you need to do. At the same time, in a previous video you mentioned how you didn't want guys to think you're romantically interested, and just want to talk in a friendly manner without them hitting on you. The same actions used to attract the hot people also attracts people you aren't interested in. Guys are kinda trained to see a glance and a smile as an opportunity to see if you're available and potentially interested in them. Hence the flirting from guys I bet.
You're beautiful. The awkwardness and the vulnerability you share here only enhances it. It's been interesting getting to learn about you and watching your growth.
For me, the first thing that I like about guys is their smile, and the way they talk to a girl.
I love your videos Myra!!
"can i tell you something since im never gonna see you again"
brooooooo im telling u right now as a dude hes 100% thinking the same thing you are. which is "damn i completely screwed that up".
because first of all, again as a dude, im telling u guys dont just strike up random conversations with girls they dont find attractive. he was into you 100%. but the fact that home boy didnt hit you with a smoothe "well would you like to see me again? we could find a restaurant somewhere near that beach you were telling me about" is crazy. i promise you hes replaying that whole encounter again in his head trying to figure out at what point he coulda got your number.
just because a guy is handsome doesnt mean hes got game lmao. no bs sometimes we really do need the girl to save us in these situations and help us push the conversation along.
also yes that "you know any good places to eat?" was 100% a line. and thats ok lines are cheesey but look at it from our perspective its really hard to just strike up a random conversation with a girl especially if you arent like someone who he works with or goes to church with or otherwise sees everyday. you are just 2 random people getting coffee and its like "oh shit shes so cute and shes gonna leave in like 5 minutes i gotta work fast" so boom cheesey conversation starter line. so yea that was an ice breaker. hes not stupid he has google he doesnt need your help to figure out where to find food lmao.
Awww I really love this. It helped me a lot. I have a very weird past and it's still hard for me to believe that men could be interested in me. I'm learning and growing in that! Thank you for the insight!
Also, you’re probably going to run into him again 😂 Behold the familiarity when you do 👀 ✨
haha i'm sure if u go back to that coffee shop again pretty regularly you'll run into him again. :P
and maybe what's attracting people to you more often is an increased self-confidence, which others can definitely pick up on, even by just seeing you through body language n stuff, or so i've found. anyway, all the best with everything!
bruh i been here watching your videos for an hour, i like the way you speak, i like your personality , i love your videos :)
You are very attractive, intelligent and nice. You are like in the 2% of the population. Do not accept anything less than what you are looking for. The key to success for anyone in any situation is to display confidence. 👌
The ‘just go right up to them’ idea made me think of George on Seinfeld. “Hi, I’m George. I’m unemployed and I live with my parents” 😆
🙈🙈🙈
Absolutely beautiful story.
"[As] you learn to build a deeper connection to Knowledge within yourself, your deeper nature. And as you begin to experience this deeper nature, perhaps incrementally at first, you begin to look for deeper qualities in other people. As you progress, you are no longer so impressed by beauty, wealth and charm. You are looking for something deeper in other people, and this is the result of looking for something deeper within yourself. As your experience of your deeper nature grows, as you have a greater sense that there is a deeper current in your life, then you will want to build your relationships based upon this deeper current.
Here you will not seek stimulation as much as you will a deeper resonance with other people. You will value honesty; you will value sincerity; you will value commitment over all other forms of stimulation. Instead of just trying to have fun with someone, you want to really feel a connection, and you look for this connection in other people. Though you will not have this deeper resonance with everyone, certain people will stand out. Among them there will be a few with whom you are destined to be united for a greater purpose, a greater work in the world.
You will look for this. And your mind will become ever more free of being seduced by beauty, wealth or charm. You may encounter the most beautiful person you have ever seen, and your mind may be impressed, but deeper down there is no response. Deeper down there is no recognition."
A quote from "A Deeper Recognition in Relationships" - a teaching from 'The New Message' as revealed to Marshall Vian Summers.
Thank you, Ivan.
Why did this make me laugh out loud 😂😂😂😂 it's so cute. I have these instances as well in life
Go to the coffee shop again ! You might run into him again 💞
He might be hoping the same thing 🥰
Just noticed your video is 15:55 long ! Angel number 555 !! Big change is in store for you 💖
Great idea.
I have seen your " I'm single " video long back and it got recommended back. I came to check how you are doing. I see you are better than ever.
If you have mercury/Venus or both with sun in the same sign of your zodiac chart or adjacent signs you will find your life's partner in the workplace. If you look for it in the wrong place you won't find it. Also the bright chances of meeting a life partner is after25 and getting married is by around 29-32.
I hope to see you making a video in the near future with your man.
Good luck
That is a very nice story. I am glad you had a good experience. Keep finding some good stuff in life.
GO BACK TO THE COFFEE SHOP!
Best advice I can give as that's the only way you will see him again.
What's happening is you have changed your confidence is higher and honestly hell yeah if you see someone you like go talk to them and always keep eye contact. It works 🙂 And don't give them all your information you know what I mean work place, email, phone etc. Until you get to know them.
congratz Myra, that's one of the biggest steps, voicing your thought to people :3
I loved this video!! Your kind of raw emotions you share are actually inspiring to me. As I was watching you, I felt that you look very kind and approachable. I think it would be very cool if you were able to approach a guy. I promise the guy would be flattered! Take good care of yourself!
You're buzzing in this video & I'm so happy to see you this way! :-) I hope you continue to have similar encounters with nice men, (or perhaps even cross paths with that same one again)!
I'd keep away from dating apps if I were you though. They're addictive, a waste of time & only good for window shopping. Not to mention the large number of fake profiles you see on them. Also, real people lying about certain things to come across as more attractive. Right, I'll stop there!
Congratulations. I am introverted too, so dating was hell for me as well. Glad I've been married for the last 27 years. Keep smiling at the guys you want to meet. Next time, you can be the one to ask about a good restaurant.
And get their number or e mail!!!
I like to hear your thoughts come out like this! It's very much self-reassuring in a way.
Keep up the self-confidence btw, it's 100% deserved!
Visualisations and affirmations can really help with social anxiety
dude, you could probably get any guy you want.. you just need practice to get over your fight/flight feelings- good luck
To be fair, it almost always hurts to be openly/pre-emptively rejected. Whether they don't smile back, ___ isn't their type, or the person just won't talk to you, the same emptiness just is. I don't have reasons to speak or to try anymore, therefore I don't, and probably won't.
That said, you should probably know your content was helping me recover from a near death experience. Just hearing the similarities in your vocal inflections and speech patterns was cathartic and healing enough to help me start a path towards closure. I don't ever expect to achieve such a thing as closure but it has been nice to fantasize about having goals while I actively lie to myself about how and that life will improve.
A lot of the comments I read on this video give me the impression that you're teaching people how to live well. I'm glad to know that you're literally helping to solve some of the social problems and stigma that interfere with my basic life and everyday living, kind of feels like help from afar. I realize I won't benefit just because people learned to treat each other better but it's nice to see someone that is actually trying.
Anyways, I'll assume I'm just not that welcome and see myself out before the maelstrom of predictable lecturing and non-helpful comments about the tragic state of my mental health yet again surface.
Please talk to a friend or therapist. You deserve to be happy and healed ❤️
@@ElleS572 Thanks, sounds nice! I would if I could.
I agree with Elle and I'm happy to hear my videos helped in some way.
Damn girl, I feel like I'm getting second hand nervousness from your description of this 'handsome guy' 😅
sus bro 🤨
Haha your video makes us social anxious people gather together
Research your personality type. That will answer a lot of your questions about who you are and it will help you have a better understanding about your weaknesses and strengths so you can work on your weaknesses.
Myra, you’re way above average looking so any single or not single for that matter guy would be highly flattered if you were looking at them. If he’s single, and you’re going to keep returning his look with a smile, your going to get near 100% approach.
Hi Myra, your video reminded me of when I was young and would meet a handsome man, I'd get suddenly shy or tongue tied.
As for these days, I'm glad I'm older because I wouldn't want to try dating in these times. It's got to be really hard to meet people now, what with all the trans/gender/etc.. stuff going on. I'd never make it. Anyway, it might be because of that that men these days are a bit more careful when meeting women and if you got the sense that he was asking you about places was his really trying to hit on you, you're probably right. You could have suggested a place and offered to walk him there, or something like that. Anyway, just an idea. GL with this dating stuff. Have a great day.
I think guys tend to check the hands, because that is often one thing those freaks can not change easily. Also the trying too hard to be the opposite gender vibe. However there are some rare exceptions that can fool people.
Hi Myra ! That's a very nice post. Thanks for your time.
Congratulations. One way to extend things is to keep the door open. Asking about dining places and such is a door opener for you to ask if he's here for a short time/where are you from. When it got to walks, find out when he's going and say you were planning to go later. Or say I was going for a walk myself and leave it in his court. He might then suggest going together. Nice you broke the ice.
Alex is a very common name. And we do carry a charm. Lol