LIVING FOR YOUR MENTAL HEALTH by Bishop RC Blakes

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  • Опубліковано 25 жов 2024

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  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +12

    “Don’t always be the “Go To” person for people you can’t go to.💥💥💥

  • @angelajg
    @angelajg Рік тому +19

    1. 10:30 - Stop masking the chaos that is within with smiles and overactivity.
    2. 17:17 - Go where you can talk your truth.
    3. 20:02 - Don't allow yourself to always be the go to person for people you can't go to.
    4. 22:44 - Stop playing with triggers.
    5. 26:20 - Nurture your necessary relationships.
    6. 30:58 - Learn to live from your spirit.

  • @VanessaBodie-on2cf
    @VanessaBodie-on2cf 7 місяців тому +2

    Praise God!!!

  • @OliviaMoonGuildTarot
    @OliviaMoonGuildTarot 5 місяців тому +2

    “Your spirit has a way of healing your soul”
    I love this Sir. Thank you!

  • @simoneingleton483
    @simoneingleton483 9 місяців тому +2

    Youre reading my life. People take disadvantage of me because Im always helping

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +2

    “Nurture NECESSARY relationships”

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +9

    “If you’re always the giver, it is an unequal yoke.” 💥

  • @mr.beatthamorning
    @mr.beatthamorning Рік тому +59

    This spoke to me in so many ways. As men, we tend to suffer in silence. The laughing to cover up part is so true. I can attest to everything he is saying. What I learned is that you really have to go within self. Once I quit going to the wrong people for guidance and quit trying to run from myself, I began to focus on my prayers and reading my grandmas bible. Then things began to change. It's constant work but for the better. Everyone has a story.

    • @littleclay1838
      @littleclay1838 Рік тому +1

      God bless you, stand strong.......and be careful. If you truly know you, and what you want, and that is "better than what is being laid before" then simply get busy doing anything but what they are doing. I don't know you, and I am not here to judge you. God bless you, and I wish the best for you....especially in a world of nonsense.

  • @VanessaBodie-on2cf
    @VanessaBodie-on2cf 7 місяців тому +1

    Wow! Wow!

  • @TamiBri
    @TamiBri Рік тому +30

    Facts: People don’t pay attention to people they think are strong.

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +5

    “You can’t give the world a vote 🗳 on your mental health.”
    Wow! That is such a powerful statement 💥

  • @ladiizilein8228
    @ladiizilein8228 Рік тому +94

    I’m going through the roughest time of my life. I hope to be back to be a testimony. Thank you Bishop for being there for me when I felt so alone. God bless you and us

    • @coz7891
      @coz7891 Рік тому +2

      You'll be ok. I pray that soon you'll come out on the other side of the struggle-the victorious side.

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Рік тому +2

      Me too. Hang in there

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Рік тому

      @Quinta amen!!

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 Рік тому +2

      I understand. Me too. It's like I'm starting my walk with God all over again and I been forever faithful to him. More faithful than most I know to him🤨☹️. I have had my Mental Health tested for 7 Mos straight. I'm in church, I glorify, praise, worship God, tithe in my church, Give, community oriented and Action living, Servant and all. I'm not sure why my life has never truly produced anything much I feel caused me to see God really by my side. It's so discouraging I'm like Job. I've lost alot this past 7mos. I'm Hopeful God going to Restore everything Satan has stolen or he took away to make my Walk in him, with him is Rooted correctly. I'm wondering is people intentionally inflicting pain and hurt unto me and not Real Sources of Help. I got Suppose to be Christians helping me but it feels nothing like God ordained Help from these people. Makes me truly wonder.🤔

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Рік тому

      @@ladyzinada5341 we go through these times to build character sister. Don't give up. You are never forsaken. God loves you. 🙏

  • @VanessaBodie-on2cf
    @VanessaBodie-on2cf 7 місяців тому +1

    That's good!

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +5

    “You have to close your eyes to see” It is in your Spirit that you find the peace and clarity you need from God.

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +3

    “Stop 🛑 playing with triggers and people who bring you to a bad place.”

  • @DioniWise87
    @DioniWise87 Рік тому +15

    Do NOT skip the powerful introduction. Bishop Blakes, I knew this message was extremely personal to you. You had a different undertone than in other videos. Thanks for sharing how you got out of a dark place and took time to pause. I loved hearing the nuggets from your late father, Bishop R.C. Blakes Sr., and how you've made mistakes as a pastor. It takes a good man to do that.
    6 Tips for Living for your Mental Health
    1. Stop masking the chaos that is within with smiles and overactivity. Examples: Depressed celebrities such as actor Robin Williams and chef Anthony Bourdain.
    2. Go where you can talk your truth.
    3. Don’t allow yourself to always be the go-to person for people you can’t go to.
    4. Stop playing with triggers.
    5. Nurture your necessary relationships.
    6. WATCH THE VIDEO TO FIND OUT. POWERFUL ENDING!

  • @marlaohara6236
    @marlaohara6236 Рік тому +35

    I can relate to this message because 3 months ago my 17 year old daughter died by suicide 😞. I am so shattered. When you said don’t entertain triggers. Well that’s what she did. Relationship with boys was her trigger. Her boyfriend broke up with her and told her that her depression was exhausting him and that she was being lazy with school ( Her grades had slipped due to kissing school because of her depression) and he just broke up with her out of nowhere. She took her life later that night. I found her and I am forever changed from that moment on 😞💔

    • @ahzhane10
      @ahzhane10 Рік тому +6

      Sorry to read this. May GOD bless you and your strength. I can only imagine. My condolences go out to you and family ❤️‍🩹

    • @marlaohara6236
      @marlaohara6236 Рік тому +4

      @@ahzhane10 thank you so much. She ended her pain but now all of us are in pain 💔

    • @Iseethings22
      @Iseethings22 Рік тому +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss 😔 I wish baby girl would have pulled through!!! We have to pray for this generation, I'm 27 and it's different from when I grew up !!! I'm praying for your strength, may God be with you

    • @christineporter9914
      @christineporter9914 Рік тому +4

      Am so sorry to hear about your lose of your daughter 😥🙏🏾 praying God continue to heal and strength you through this. I truly understand to loose someone by suicide because just a week ago made three years my boyfriend of 12 years committed suicide . Please know God is able to see you through this. Stay strong Sister.

    • @yamileytimothee9667
      @yamileytimothee9667 Рік тому +2

      I am so sorry to hear that,😢 my sincere condolences.May God extend his hand on you and your family and guide you through this difficult time. 🤍

  • @QIKWIA
    @QIKWIA Рік тому +43

    Yes!
    Protecting my peace is my priority!👊🏿

  • @crystabellight2414
    @crystabellight2414 7 місяців тому +1

    THANK YOU SWEET AND KIND GOD! THANK YOU HOLY SPIRIT! HMMMMM!!!! FOR YOUR LOVE, YOUR COMPASSION, YOUR ALL OF YOU! I LOVE YOU YAHWEH!!!😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @eulaliabradley4991
    @eulaliabradley4991 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for taking care of your Mental health Pastor. This Pandemic has done a number on us. 💜💯🙏🏽

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose 3 місяці тому

    Yes, we MUST be intentional about taking care of our own mental health. That is each person’s own responsibility.

  • @diana5253
    @diana5253 Рік тому +6

    The timing of this message is amazing. Going through some hard realizations this week. I was in a 7yr relationship with a narcissist. After being discarded, I decided to allow my family (brother, mother, neice and nephew) to temporarily move in as they couldn't afford housing of their own. Its now been over 2 yrs and I'm realizing that I'm once again being used and abused. I feel like an outsider in my own home. My property is being destroyed as the months go by.. I have decided that it's necessary for me to take action this year. Otherwise, I will remain unhappy, depressed, and depleted. I need to be alone and heal from all abusers I allowed into my life.

    • @Mel-os3ld
      @Mel-os3ld Рік тому

      Hope you get it sorted darling girl ❤️

  • @kicksmine5620
    @kicksmine5620 Рік тому +17

    “People don’t really pay attention to people who they think are strong .!”
    I FELT THAT IT GAVE ME CHILLS

  • @anicialugo8997
    @anicialugo8997 Рік тому

    May the Lord the Lamb of God bless you RC Blake's Lisa breaks in your whole blessed family about Mental Health you are truly anointed by the Lamb of Jesus may God always protect you and always be with you and be with me and all of the people that I love and that I count

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +1

    “There’s NO SUBSTITUTE for YOU!” 💥

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist Рік тому

    Powerful teaching and clarity! Amen.

  • @clove8763
    @clove8763 Рік тому +8

    "Sometimes you have to close your eyes to really see"-RC Blakes Sr. Now I AM only speaking for myself--Having my alone time really clears my mind. Being in THE LORD'S PRESENCE makes me realize that I rather be in alone company than be in the wrong company! Thank you Bishop for addressing this sensitive, yet MUCH NEEDED discussion --I have lost TOO MANY precious people to suicide alone! 😓 Please make this conversation into an enlightening series. GOD Bless you and keep you mind, body, & soul!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @kenyattalee4844
      @kenyattalee4844 Рік тому +1

      Good Morning! I agree with you- I need my alone time to refill, think, and sit in God's presence!
      Number 3 and 4 drains me so much where I sometimes feel discombobulated and anxious.
      And then some think something is wrong with me..... I get drained again by attempting to explain... This message was right on time! Thank you Bishop.

  • @Jesusandme100
    @Jesusandme100 Рік тому +1

    That is soo true!!! Many times u think people that look strong don't need help or that they are fine, but they do. I think they also need to be able to say the truth when they are not feeling good or something bad is happening in their life, but also we shouldn't assume that they are always fine. We all need help sometimes

  • @iamcrystal8776
    @iamcrystal8776 Рік тому +13

    Before I opened my eyes today I prayed on this. Thank you. I took they day off of work for a MH day. ❤

    • @lynellb
      @lynellb Рік тому

      Yes, a MH day is very necessary 💖🙏🏾

  • @felicitygrace5113
    @felicitygrace5113 Рік тому +4

    The problem and difficulty is finding that special inner circle.

  • @Chigirl2
    @Chigirl2 Рік тому +1

    The gifts of the Spirit are within you, everything you need is waiting for you through the power of God. Thank you Jesus!

  • @weireffie29
    @weireffie29 11 місяців тому

    Another message of Hope and Thank You.

  • @latonyasmith6108
    @latonyasmith6108 Рік тому

    🗣️🗣️🗣️Bishop

  • @diamondunicorn2421
    @diamondunicorn2421 Рік тому +4

    Great topic, perfect timing. I personally think after this plandemic. Everyone mentally have and are suffering way more than times before. A thick negative airy substance lingers in our earth plain, that sits over us. We can fight through this thickness. And not allow the devil / evil forces to have us harm ourselves. My condolences sincerely to those we have lost due to them deciding to transition to another spiritual realm willingly. 🙏🏽

  • @charity7773
    @charity7773 Рік тому +4

    Your daddy did a good job of infusing you with wisdom as a child and with age the Lord has watered those seeds improving your insights like fine wine.. God Bless you znd your family in the name of Jesus.

  • @casperinsight3524
    @casperinsight3524 Рік тому +1

    So grateful for Pastor Blake's expression of valuable wisdom 💙 TY

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +1

    “Live for the Future.” 💥

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 Рік тому +6

    I'm so tested at this Time. It's unreal. I can't believe God has brought me to this season. I'm still trusting him though. I'm staying hopeful no matter what. It's uneasy and I'm feeling assured altogether. Really weird. I know who creates possibilities tho. Jehovah jirah.

  • @tinak4067
    @tinak4067 Рік тому

    ❤🙏🏽 thank you for your message. This is 💯 gold.

  • @wisewomanwallet2012
    @wisewomanwallet2012 Рік тому +2

    Hey, Bishop Blakes. The depressed celebrities you were talking about at around 11:00 included actor Robin Williams (Jumanji, Mrs. Doutbfire, etc.) and Chef Anthony Bourdain. “People don’t really pay attention to people who they think are strong." That's an eye-opening statement. I'm glad you slowed down to improve your mental health.

  • @ninaparham2516
    @ninaparham2516 5 місяців тому

    Thank you. Awesome message.

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +1

    You’re absolutely right Bishop RC! Thank you for this 🙏🏾

  • @dawnjohnson1928
    @dawnjohnson1928 6 місяців тому

    I feel you Bishop I pray that you are OK you are your wife and family… it’s a true statement that nobody asked how we are at times.

  • @latonyasmith6108
    @latonyasmith6108 Рік тому

    Love your transparency!!

  • @latonyasmith6108
    @latonyasmith6108 Рік тому

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @desirairjones8954
    @desirairjones8954 Рік тому +1

    Love your videos. So inspiring, I needed to hear this tonight!

  • @ranaehawkins4536
    @ranaehawkins4536 Рік тому

    Thank you Bishop. I have had too many coming to me, but only one that I could go to. Why did I need to have permission to do what is best for me. God Bless you. Christ is what I need right now. . I need him every moment. I have to let go of the relationshios that I have tried to work on nurturing, but they do not want me in their life. I will ask God for the true necessary relationships and ask for the strength to let go of the non necessary ones.

  • @ahzhane10
    @ahzhane10 Рік тому +9

    Thank you. This is soooooo true. I heard no lies. I just removed myself from a situation because it wasn’t conducive for me. I love myself more. This to shall pass. Thank you always pastor for the confirmation ❤

  • @daniellecushman1024
    @daniellecushman1024 Рік тому +9

    This is me taking care of everything I am strong 💪🏽 but I can’t really open up to my family. They think I’m the strong one all the time. Out of my siblings I’m the one working and taking care of my sick mom. My family tells me how they’re so proud of me. I’m like because y’all see me not giving up and always got a smile 😊 on my face y’all just don’t know my bad days when I’m alone. 😢 when it’s time for me to vent I only can vent to strangers or the pastor I work with he has been my outlet.

    • @sunnydelight1127
      @sunnydelight1127 Рік тому +4

      I can relate. I finally listened to God after going on a short sabbatical. He reminded me that I'm human and not a robot, meaning we have feelings and need to embrace them. I had conditioned myself to not feel and to ignore MYSELF.

    • @daniellecushman1024
      @daniellecushman1024 Рік тому +3

      @@sunnydelight1127 yes! I now take much time out for me . I now speak up and say I need some me time and I don’t care how anybody take it. If I don’t take care of me then who will .I’m responsible for me and my peace and happiness. 🫶🏾

    • @pheneriagonzalez1650
      @pheneriagonzalez1650 Рік тому +1

      @@sunnydelight1127 Amen ❤️💞 Facts

    • @pheneriagonzalez1650
      @pheneriagonzalez1650 Рік тому +3

      @@daniellecushman1024 yes I was helping with my elderly mother but I would not get a break even on my off days others sister had homes but never came to give me a break it started messing with sleep and mental I understand what you are saying

    • @jenniferjones3657
      @jenniferjones3657 Рік тому +2

      Unless I am doing for OUR Mother, I am invisible. Assuming I have no personal interests or her health and well being should be my sole concern. Its really draining.

  • @DMVNotaryTeam
    @DMVNotaryTeam Рік тому

    Thank you for this message. I received it in it's entirely.

  • @cindersmolloy6584
    @cindersmolloy6584 Рік тому

    I am so sorry for the loss of that young man. This has come to me at a time when I most need it. I have just lost my dear mother and feel there is no point to life. I am questioning the point of eveything. With intent in my mental health I hope to get through. Thank you Pastor.

  • @dianedorney5147
    @dianedorney5147 10 місяців тому

    I hope your hard time comes to a quick end, praying

  • @kayrahmaansheppard8377
    @kayrahmaansheppard8377 Рік тому

    ❤❤ thank you 🙏🏽 so needed 😢

  • @mjt5581
    @mjt5581 Рік тому

    It’s the side notes for me
    Wow 😮 ❤it

  • @Masterbait38
    @Masterbait38 Рік тому +3

    This the one! Because these pretenders are something else Yah!

  • @michaellewells6932
    @michaellewells6932 Рік тому +3

    I am letting the Holly Spirit keep me content.

  • @bori80
    @bori80 Рік тому

    Thank you, I really needed to hear this. God bless❤🙏

  • @NostalgiaVibes420
    @NostalgiaVibes420 Рік тому +6

    I really needed to hear this. I’m going through such a challenging time right now. But I truly believe I will do what’s best for my mental health. Thank you ❤

  • @sherriford5397
    @sherriford5397 Рік тому +8

    This is soo good! God knew I needed to hear this! Thank you Bishop Blakes for this word!!

  • @Mel-os3ld
    @Mel-os3ld Рік тому

    Pastor you really do have a gift, you got through to me.. Thank you ❤️ 🙏

  • @ruthkaunda3343
    @ruthkaunda3343 Рік тому

    Amen 🙌🏿

  • @ruthkaunda3343
    @ruthkaunda3343 4 місяці тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @deenao2351
    @deenao2351 Рік тому

    This message was for me

  • @adulting4116
    @adulting4116 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for your honesty about your own emotions Pastor 🙏 As much as it hurts you, I’m sorry. I also realize that is why you can so relate to the rest of us …I always wondered how does he just understand?!…turns out because you have your own deep struggles. That makes sense. I guess your own deepest struggles can be a gift to others in a sense. Thank you so much.

  • @louisianaqueen
    @louisianaqueen Рік тому +1

    Hallelujah 👐🏽bless Your Holy name my Father.
    Great message Bishop , thank you

  • @tanishapetertv2298
    @tanishapetertv2298 Рік тому +3

    I am not ok be I will be ok, thank you for sharing Doctor, Mentor and my Pastor RC Blakes

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 Рік тому

    What a good word in due season 🙏🏾 Bishop Blake's Thank you, May God continue to Bless you in Jesus Name Amen

  • @lyndacreeley9536
    @lyndacreeley9536 Рік тому +2

    Everything you have brought to light
    in this is right on time and is Exactly what I am going through right now, Speaking through God to me. Thank you, Amen to your timely message and God bless you and Lisa, Bishop Blakes 🙏🏽🙌🏽🫂

  • @thementorone8332
    @thementorone8332 Рік тому +2

    Yes Bishop NUTURE your TRIBE🔥🔥💜💜

  • @discountplumbing7855
    @discountplumbing7855 Рік тому +2

    Appreciate it 46 years old so true it's hard divorcing after 26 years reprogram always helping other and no time for one self learning from the start again lost at times

  • @JoanBarrington-e9s
    @JoanBarrington-e9s 6 місяців тому

    Pastor I am looking forward to your next video on your take on boots calls. Thanks.

  • @discountplumbing7855
    @discountplumbing7855 Рік тому +1

    Comedian legend Robin Williams

  • @jean_6524
    @jean_6524 Рік тому +1

    I love your wisdom. Thank you🙏🏽

  • @rosalynjolly2565
    @rosalynjolly2565 Рік тому +1

    Amen

  • @cristalroberts9962
    @cristalroberts9962 Рік тому

    Thank you bishop deepppp as usual blessings to you and lady lisa🙏💓

  • @chikFromMTL
    @chikFromMTL Рік тому +2

    Thank you Bishop for being real, God bless! 🙌🏾

  • @ΜαριαΤσακανικα-π3ω

    Thank God your are opening our eyes

  • @vesnab.1553
    @vesnab.1553 11 місяців тому

    🧡

  • @iyannai09
    @iyannai09 Рік тому +1

    What an amazing word! I listen to it over and over. Some I’ve already implemented but it’s nice to hear biblical references

  • @jadacruz5284
    @jadacruz5284 Рік тому +1

    @RCBlakes thank you so much for this powerful message. So many people need this vital information. Today is my birthday and this message was truly a gift. ❤

  • @slm2021
    @slm2021 Рік тому +2

    Wow. The way & the truth that God has put in you to share with all of us! It is amazing. I can't say enough about how You have made me feel heard . I am on the road to healing because of you & other men who are trying their best to raise up all of us. God is so good. Please make sure you take care of yourself as you have a heavy burden to carry. Praying for you and your family. Amen

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this word of Truth and your transparency Bishop RC Blakes🙏🏾❤️

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 Рік тому

    Thank you for being so transparent because people do think that strong people can't have a breakdown. Life happens to EVERYBODY !! When I start getting too heavy hearted I start to say things like , " I'd love to be like Enoch when I'm out on my walk that the Lord would just take me up to be with Him so my mind can just let go of this world and rest in God's peace " 💙

  • @Blessed0480
    @Blessed0480 Рік тому

    Thank you God for this teaching 🙌 Amen 🙌 Hallelujah

  • @GiuliaG
    @GiuliaG Рік тому +2

    You are spot on!

  • @jennifersesley1998
    @jennifersesley1998 Рік тому +1

    This was a Great and much needed Message Bishop❤

  • @trulycay5714
    @trulycay5714 Рік тому

    pastor I think alot of gods people were off the edge and the pandemic saved our lives :) but after 6 months I was ready to go back to work

  • @gingers6219
    @gingers6219 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom and sharing your story. Some of us have had this mask on far too long.

  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c1999 Рік тому

    That was me, at 18...19...20...21, then 22 came and it's been 31 years of renewing, daily. You have to nurture the relationships that matter which are those who pour into you.

  • @discountplumbing7855
    @discountplumbing7855 Рік тому +4

    Concur we become invisible 🫥 to the ones we love and support they take us for granted

  • @ruthkaunda3343
    @ruthkaunda3343 4 місяці тому

    4 june 2024❤

  • @nataliep6873
    @nataliep6873 Рік тому

    “Authentically you!” Say that Bishop!!

  • @essiegilliam1857
    @essiegilliam1857 Рік тому

    This Sermon is 🔥🔥🔥🔥. I will live my life through the spirit. Praying 🙏

  • @daniellemason8481
    @daniellemason8481 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this word!!!

  • @anabella4296
    @anabella4296 Рік тому

    # WORD ‼️👑 💯 💜 🙌🙏

  • @heathermixson1265
    @heathermixson1265 Рік тому

    This.
    And yes, I felt your true heart speaking when you spoke of closing your eyes to see....It was overwhelmingly heartfelt, to say the least.
    Thank you Pastor and Miss Lisa😌

  • @ginitgeorge87
    @ginitgeorge87 Рік тому +1

    Soon good.. Thank you Bishop .You are a blessing to me in every way.God bless you 🙏

  • @GoldFeather123
    @GoldFeather123 Рік тому

    I needed to hear this at this time. Thank you so much for Pure Truth Pastor ❤ I have been feeling the need for change in this area.

  • @sunflowersoul821
    @sunflowersoul821 Рік тому

    Good evening! Your mind is your greatest asset.

  • @angelacole7852
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    Thank you God Blessed