BLKFISHING IN 2022

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  • @liljay3006
    @liljay3006 2 роки тому +1540

    They want our rhythm but not our blues

  • @xpnn
    @xpnn 2 роки тому +859

    Black women are the blueprint

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +16

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black

    • @leticiamalezo6766
      @leticiamalezo6766 2 роки тому +58

      Nah sorry everyone wants to be black PERIODTTTT

    • @sheadreadhead
      @sheadreadhead 2 роки тому +72

      @@thrillerkid7965 nah she def tryna look black

    • @aliciahs.397
      @aliciahs.397 2 роки тому +55

      @@thrillerkid7965 can you stop commenting that she obviously trying to look black

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому +3

      if you said this but replaced black with white its racist?

  • @bist22p
    @bist22p 2 роки тому +776

    Someone needs to make a horror film about this. Honestly, I feel like this is a mental health issue. It's so creepy. Or maybe it's an ultimate sign of insecurity. Shit is wired

    • @dynastyandrews2416
      @dynastyandrews2416 2 роки тому +105

      I’m getting Jordan Peele otp rn

    • @therealsbh
      @therealsbh 2 роки тому

      Omg I been saying this. Like these bixtces are sick in the head...

    • @chidiogoikeh4550
      @chidiogoikeh4550 2 роки тому +62

      It’s giving get out 😭😭

    • @karl2624
      @karl2624 2 роки тому +28

      LMAO, that would no cap be scary asf

    • @trishonya
      @trishonya 2 роки тому +21

      Definitely Get Out vibes!

  • @ItsRrielle
    @ItsRrielle 2 роки тому +257

    There’s NO EXCUSE for blackfishing. PERIOD. Just be yourself and date who makes you happy, regardless of these obvious fetishes. Y’all disgust me

  • @goldn_k
    @goldn_k 2 роки тому +542

    People know what they are doing when they are doing it. These women know what they appear as, & meant to appear that way ♠️

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +10

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black

    • @immadaddyyourpig8878
      @immadaddyyourpig8878 2 роки тому +35

      @@thrillerkid7965 no their trying to look black don’t try and make it a latina thing😂

    • @almondkissed3794
      @almondkissed3794 2 роки тому +16

      @@thrillerkid7965 Does it matter ? Either way she’s presenting herself as something she’s not

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +2

      @@almondkissed3794 they just want a bit of tan... what is wrong with that

    • @cakebytheocean8056
      @cakebytheocean8056 2 роки тому +19

      Thriller Kid that is pure ignorance. You can not look Latina as Latinas all look different! You can also be black and Latina…we need to educate ourselves more.

  • @krystalmbamalu
    @krystalmbamalu 2 роки тому +575

    👏🏽 Thank you for bringing to the forefront that black women and mixed race women are NOT THE SAME. IMO this is a mixed race women’s fight, not black. Nobody’s sewing Afro hair into their head and using the darkest foundation shade from Fenty on their skin. Then we’d have a problem.

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +33

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black

    • @TinyyTinkerbell
      @TinyyTinkerbell 2 роки тому +71

      @@thrillerkid7965 stop sayin that over and over

    • @TinyyTinkerbell
      @TinyyTinkerbell 2 роки тому +80

      @Lynn Xo its called black fishing because they have to use a black feature

    • @nicki1197
      @nicki1197 2 роки тому +71

      @Lynn Xo if she’s ⚪️ & trying to look mixed, what other race would she have to appropriate????

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому +3

      changing biology I see??? biologically mixed race makes you black you can't pick and chose

  • @krisandrastone7904
    @krisandrastone7904 2 роки тому +188

    My issue is with them getting paid for cos playing a black woman. That what ticks me off.

    • @HALOSnHORNS
      @HALOSnHORNS 2 роки тому +20

      Right what about the ACTUAL BLACK WOMEN

    • @natashabrooks4188
      @natashabrooks4188 2 роки тому +17

      This! And then to gaslight and act like they aren't doing it is infuriating

    • @jadabyrd4529
      @jadabyrd4529 2 роки тому +17

      One of the posts said “partnership with Fenty X Savage” like Rihanna why 😭

  • @empressmanifest
    @empressmanifest 2 роки тому +335

    I’ve been saying this. Black people really need to differentiate between MIXED and BLACK. They are different. Every other race differentiates. (Mexican and Italian | Vietnamese and Irish | etc. etc.) Yet for black people…black is black and all is one. The sentiments are understandable but it’s detrimental to us. It needs to stop. But that can only be done by us appreciating and loving our blackness on a soul level not just the pop culture version of it.

    • @DreamingEdmond
      @DreamingEdmond 2 роки тому +49

      Babe… LOVE the message. Just a few things.
      Mexican
      Irish
      Italian
      Vietnamese
      Are not races just ethnicities❤️

    • @mbalindhlovu9092
      @mbalindhlovu9092 2 роки тому +27

      @@DreamingEdmond that's actually nationalities

    • @DreamingEdmond
      @DreamingEdmond 2 роки тому +34

      @@mbalindhlovu9092 They can be both depending whether or not the specific people she’s talking about were actually born there (Nationality) or simply have ancestry there. You can subset it more specifically like for Mexico you could be mestizo. However many Mexican people in America do not break down the ethnic specifics any further than Mexican and that’s also how America recognizes it. Vietnam’s ethnicity is Vietnamese. They don’t split up their subgroups. So yeah, depending on the culture the ethnicity can be the same name for the nationality. However, Nationality is the country from which you are born in. Ethnicity is all about the specifics of your DNA, while race is simply your phenotype.❤️

    • @necolesmith6221
      @necolesmith6221 2 роки тому +23

      Fr mixed is not black

    • @sbostic08
      @sbostic08 2 роки тому

      There's only 3 races Negroid, Caucasoid and Mongoloid. Everything In between is hybrids. People really need to understand the difference between race, ethnicity and nationality. Plenty of ill informed mofo's spouting nonsense.

  • @DreamingEdmond
    @DreamingEdmond 2 роки тому +303

    The community is so split about this. Some are indifferent. Some are insulted. Some actively call it out. Some tell one another to stop complaining about it.
    We MUST get on ONE accord.
    These Non-Black women/men (including Non-Black Latino’s & Hispanics) will continue trying to be us and get praised for it. We can’t keep co-signing this! Our dialect, our styles, our essence. Stop giving “passes”!
    And I’m glad you said biracial people that are half Black aren’t Black. They are Biracial. There’s nothing wrong with it! That’s not the group to represent our race. It’s so dismissive.
    Thank you for this❤️

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому

      Nah yall just can't be hypocrites and where cool... there comments like black people are the ideal specimen... you know damn well if it was any other race they would get canceled

    • @viiviibrown6
      @viiviibrown6 2 роки тому +30

      I can say for the black women's community need to be the gatekeeper and get on one accord! But the knowing reality that may never happen due to self-hate and bm worshippers 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @DreamingEdmond
      @DreamingEdmond 2 роки тому +13

      @@viiviibrown6 This is very true! There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to date Black men, however we must make sure neither party has a self-loathing issue.
      We have to raise our babies to respect their culture and race as well as others. No matter what that looks like for you. My kids will love their skin, culture, and will be able to connect and appreciate others❤️

    • @misoka8020
      @misoka8020 2 роки тому

      MLK lied Trying to assimilate and be represented in a white mans country only gets you idolized or demonized. I don’t give care about non black woman trying to “appear” black. That’s obviously a compliment to the chief upstairs. We have to move past race🙄🙆🏾‍♀️It only keeps you stuck in the past. Unity amongst ALL people is what we should fight for, Your argument is an example of the exact division you speak about. Soo Why should black people unify to agree with you on a topic THAT CHANGES NOTHING And why don’t we see many blackfishing men? And when we do meet a white Demarcus, what do black women do? We date them! Because it is attractive Black people and anything close to it is attractive soo If you are a black woman who is bothered by “blackfishing” (whatever tf that is) then you are insecure

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому +2

      @@misoka8020 well said

  • @anne-lotte
    @anne-lotte 2 роки тому +131

    As a white woman from the Netherlands I always watch your videos to educate myself. So i all want to say is thank you for helping me understand this world better. Also I love your confidence, you are a true inspiration❤❤ thankyou Queen Chioma

  • @Therell98
    @Therell98 2 роки тому +131

    9:26 she went from looking Russian to looking ethiopian lmao these girls are off the hook

    • @mdj7096
      @mdj7096 Рік тому

      So much insecure 😈👀

  • @sussicole2458
    @sussicole2458 2 роки тому +112

    Take it from a girl who lives in Europe: Everybody blackfishing over here! the arab girls, the polish girls, the spanish girls, the german girls, the swedish girls, the neatherland girls, all the girls !!! The white guys dress like black guys too. How many arab guys with durag on, y‘all think i see?? it‘s everybody at this point

    • @sexyblackjag
      @sexyblackjag Рік тому +1

      Is it just the clothes or is it the hair, the make up the skin and all that too?

    • @sussicole2458
      @sussicole2458 Рік тому

      @@sexyblackjag if i tell you it’s all of that you won’t believe me. Girls gettin lip fillers, using darker foundations, wearing ponytails, wigs etc the list is long fr. Seeing white guys (especially arab guys) wearing durags with their straight hair just gets me upset

    • @a.bquiroz914
      @a.bquiroz914 Рік тому

      Seriously?

    • @sussicole2458
      @sussicole2458 Рік тому +1

      @@a.bquiroz914 unfortunately yes, I'm very serious lol

    • @Chillikilli
      @Chillikilli Рік тому

      Dressing “black” is no such thing. Like they all wearing blackface in Europe?

  • @sayetazonen6607
    @sayetazonen6607 2 роки тому +36

    “I’m polish but I’m not white white.” Now what the hell does that mean? 😑

  • @jadawallace7329
    @jadawallace7329 2 роки тому +96

    And her response to the recent backlash was her posting her DNA results, showing that she’s 5% black😂🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @mdj7096
      @mdj7096 Рік тому +1

      She's hilarious 🤡

    • @Zitha111
      @Zitha111 Рік тому

      😭😭😂😂

  • @thatssoolexx
    @thatssoolexx 2 роки тому +84

    heavy on the black beauty is a STANDARD ! love your content

    • @maiamiimaiam4343
      @maiamiimaiam4343 2 роки тому

      It's not. In between is the standard that steams from black

    • @leena5875
      @leena5875 2 роки тому

      only certain aspects of blackness

  • @roylesamiles3907
    @roylesamiles3907 2 роки тому +109

    of course they wanna look like a black women , black women are😍😍😍😍

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +3

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black

    • @Hotpinkcheetah
      @Hotpinkcheetah 2 роки тому +20

      @@thrillerkid7965 you missed the whole point of the the video

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +2

      @@Hotpinkcheetah I understand the video .. but why do black women make this an issue? and how come hispanic women are not going crazy and getting mad accusing white girls of "hispanic-fishing".... if anything they would be flattered, not angry

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому

      if you say this about any other race your ass is canceled

    • @aliciahs.397
      @aliciahs.397 2 роки тому +29

      @@thrillerkid7965 there’s no such thing as “Hispanic fishing” wtf

  • @KalikasKorner
    @KalikasKorner 2 роки тому +93

    Having a certain body shape is one thing but the super diff skin change and hair styles etc isn’t right. I saw someone say they want the rhythm and not the blues. Perfectly said. Great video as per usual. Love the music too ❤❤

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +3

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black

    • @TinyyTinkerbell
      @TinyyTinkerbell 2 роки тому +23

      @@thrillerkid7965 latina is not a race and if she look latin she look like an afro latina…which is still a bw.

    • @nightxlynxs
      @nightxlynxs 2 роки тому +2

      @@thrillerkid7965 💯

  • @lauraaniakor9815
    @lauraaniakor9815 2 роки тому +24

    Health science student here! Melanotan explanation: basically, humans have around the same number of melanocytes with some variation(cells that produce melanin-our skin color) in our bodies. What differentiates one person from the other is the amount of melanin and the type of melanin we produce(determined by genetics). melanotan binds to our melanin cells(melanocytes) and stimulates the production of melanin, making the skin look darker. I’m not sure if it’s very safe to use because doctors don’t really know the long lasting effects on the skin yet

  • @missmack2328
    @missmack2328 2 роки тому +113

    What i noticed is when bm date out they date ww who try to look black. When bw date out we look natural and the wm are white as hell. Bw and wm have true love for each other. Thats why ww are jealous because they have to look like us to get a bm

    • @missmack2328
      @missmack2328 2 роки тому +2

      But we dont have to look white to get a white man

    • @heavengreen320
      @heavengreen320 2 роки тому +22

      I mean I have seen that a lot

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +2

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black

    • @aliciahs.397
      @aliciahs.397 2 роки тому +53

      @@thrillerkid7965 with the heavy tan and the braids she definitely wants to be black

    • @faythshorter5514
      @faythshorter5514 2 роки тому +24

      I'm glad someone brought that up it's a little weird that when we see a bm dating outside their race they look black lol just light skinned......

  • @BrittanyLashell
    @BrittanyLashell 2 роки тому +80

    We are the BLUE PRINT ! Always have been, always will be !

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому +2

      but if any other race says that???????

    • @aliciahs.397
      @aliciahs.397 2 роки тому

      @@thegrandmabrit3577 it wouldn’t be true bc black women are the blueprint

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому

      @@aliciahs.397actually I'm the blueprint so your 100% Wrong

    • @aliciahs.397
      @aliciahs.397 2 роки тому +6

      @@thegrandmabrit3577 no you not you wish you were but no you not

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому

      @@aliciahs.397 You can't talk... you pushin yo 60's 🤣

  • @AllThingsShaunda
    @AllThingsShaunda 2 роки тому +25

    I’m glad you also included the Ariana Grande picture because she has excelled on Black culture when most of her songs are/were written *or co-written by Black people. Specifically Victoria Monet. Victoria releases music *of her own and receives a fraction of the support that Ariana had. It’s the all about antiBlackness. Even attorney Ben crump is following her this Alicijab. That says it all

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 роки тому +1

      What???

    • @ryannecuthbert7460
      @ryannecuthbert7460 Рік тому

      That’s what she gets for selling out. Now she’ll realize that she should’ve kept those songs for herself

  • @dreamweaverkhronikles9206
    @dreamweaverkhronikles9206 2 роки тому +59

    😳Females like this are very sick in the head. I am disgusted.

  • @sonnied839
    @sonnied839 2 роки тому +78

    This video was so needed Chioma!!!! It’s so frustrating that it’s right in our faces and so many of us choose to not wake up & acknowledge that we are something special and we need to ban together. Tbh I’m not sure if we’ll all be able to stick together, naturally I do believe some just go against the grain; with that being said if we really put effort into healing I do believe we’d be a force to be reckoned with & I think that’s known worldwide! Hence them pushing the agenda for us to fight/hate each other regardless of where we are from America, African, Latin America etc. We are bonded that’s a fact, I don’t think we need to be besties with every person that looks like us but if we stuck together and gatekept *if that’s a word lol* the way other communities do when something disrespectful or harmful happens to us a huge shift would happen. I definitely see it happening to a certain extent a lot of us are waking up but it won’t happen overnight either. Just remember blacks worldwide are the blueprint period. 💕

  • @teerickawhite3363
    @teerickawhite3363 2 роки тому +25

    It’s not even just white women anymore. These white men been black fishing too! I can’t be the only one who notices

  • @leena5875
    @leena5875 2 роки тому +28

    blackfishing changes what it means to be black for mixed people. Sometimes I can’t even tell the difference between white people and mixed people when it didn’t use to be like this. Back then before it was cool to be black, in a lot of cases you could definitively tell if a mixed person was in fact mixed

  • @sagitterroist1287
    @sagitterroist1287 2 роки тому +64

    Another 🔥 video... You make me proud! We need more young women like you! Keep bringing awareness to the fuckery that is our society and it's standards or lack there of!

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому

      they are trying to look Latina... not black

    • @sculpture6878
      @sculpture6878 2 роки тому

      Man I am so tired of Blackfishing, brownfishing yellowfishing
      Men pretending to be women, by womenfishing. Women pretending to be men, by menfishing.
      Gender appropriation and culture appropriation.
      The mental illness is at an all time high.

  • @uniquelybeautified9833
    @uniquelybeautified9833 2 роки тому +64

    To be honest I really think black people should learn how to love and wear our Afros ! Thats the only thing that can’t be replicated is our natural hair and it drags attention automatically… the day that we can walk around in our Afros together is the day that we will dominate ❤!!

    • @mariapaulamandombemoniamam4167
      @mariapaulamandombemoniamam4167 2 роки тому +8

      There was a time that Gigi Hadid did a photoshoot blackfishing with an afro wig, tan and fuller lips.

    • @BelleLeilaNoir
      @BelleLeilaNoir 2 роки тому +21

      It absolutely can and has been replicated lol. Look back at the 70s through now. Even in some Asian countries, there is a genre of people who will dress like us mimicking the afro hair texture

    • @dongysakura418
      @dongysakura418 2 роки тому +1

      @@BelleLeilaNoir Japanese boys with the waves 😂 so true

    • @BelleLeilaNoir
      @BelleLeilaNoir 2 роки тому +8

      @@dongysakura418 some of them braiding hair better than I ever could. It's a shame.

    • @TATINA.
      @TATINA. 2 роки тому +2

      But notice how all these women who are “blackfishing” all have the options to go buy type 4 Afro hair, but they never do 🤔 they technically could copy that too, but they don’t. And I feel the reason for that is because looking unambiguously black isn’t the goal for these women. It’s mixed fishing. And a lot of black people don’t consider mixed people to be black.....I find that interesting

  • @reginahamilton1988
    @reginahamilton1988 2 роки тому +34

    They want to be us so bad. But can't go through what we go through. It's funny too because they still will get away with it.

    • @noproblems3192
      @noproblems3192 2 роки тому

      No one can be us likewise each other. We all different.

  • @lebeautyprenuer3679
    @lebeautyprenuer3679 2 роки тому +70

    Bringing attention to her is only giving her more notoriety when we need to be ignoring this foolishness they do

    • @stasiagoro8720
      @stasiagoro8720 2 роки тому +29

      Tell that to Danielle Bregoli and the Period Ahh girl

    • @HALOSnHORNS
      @HALOSnHORNS 2 роки тому

      It would be on thing if this was Felicia from Philly but these dipped in chocolate women are getting paid for it. She gets paid to pretend to look like us.

    • @KandyGTV
      @KandyGTV 2 роки тому +7

      She already has the attention. Nothing about this video will change that.

  • @itsonlyfair
    @itsonlyfair 2 роки тому +23

    Yep black women are the most beautiful women in the world. I gate keep I call them out. Sorry but I'm a real black woman, black parents and black grandparents. Don't try to mimic me without my permission. "How rude"

  • @kilimanjaro5537
    @kilimanjaro5537 2 роки тому +18

    I’ve noticed that a lot of the women who are black fishing are not white Americans. They often seem to be from Europe.

  • @reesebloom8093
    @reesebloom8093 2 роки тому +8

    Great video, Chioma! You broke it all down really well and I'm so glad we're on the same page. Like you stated, the blackfishers are able to get away with this because self-hate if the root of the problem in the blk community. And when you add a lack of unity to that issue, outsiders will infiltrate and run amok. Applause to you for continuing to bring this obsessive behavior to the forefront.

  • @RizzaM4
    @RizzaM4 2 роки тому +6

    ACTUAL BLACK WOMEN AND OUR SUPPORTERS NEED TO SHARE THIS VIDEO!!!

  • @5.10brwnskin
    @5.10brwnskin 2 роки тому +20

    But Y’all be quick to come to these women’s rescue when they are with men like da baby. I don’t wanna hear it

  • @contourbae
    @contourbae 2 роки тому +26

    martina big has to be the biggest blackfisher ever. miona from 90s day fiancé is not too far along . JESY NELSON too

    • @thegrandmabrit3577
      @thegrandmabrit3577 2 роки тому +1

      you trippin both them look more latin then black

    • @contourbae
      @contourbae 2 роки тому +1

      @@thegrandmabrit3577 latinos can be any race or a mix of races. and they profit off black culture not latino culturr

  • @blaquepearlzchocolatediamndz77
    @blaquepearlzchocolatediamndz77 2 роки тому +3

    But the BEAUTIFUL thing about it is, this is something they will NEVER have 😊!! This is us, will ALWAYS be us & our babies 😊

  • @crishagarcia246
    @crishagarcia246 2 роки тому +49

    OK I'm mixed and I am 48 and am so tiered of people pretending to mixed or multiracial. We all don't look a certain way. I have dealt with colorism my whole life. Being born with yellow undertone skin and red blonde thin curly hair. Even though I carry certain traits from my dad my complexion isn't. I have cousins that mixed who are lighter then me as well as some who look like they are either full black or Spanish. It's hard enough for people like me that don't "Look mixed enough" and people that pretend to be make it ten times harder for us. I use to hate the way I looked because I always had to fight to prove what I was instead of people just wanting to get to know me for the person I am. I don't know how many times my dad had to go off on a teacher or someone for trying to tell me I wasn't mixed. Even in my later years I got so tiered of people in my own family that came at me after my father died. I don't wish what I went through on anyone. I got a DNA test done after my dad had passed away because of a family member that was supposed to love me turn on me. Alot of people don't realize what there doing and how much harder it makes it for mixed people that don't look mixed like I do. Sorry for the rant but this hits close to home for me. I just wish people could love themselves instead of trying to be something there not. I haven't been a member of your channel for a very long time but I like your content and so do my daughters 😊

    • @melaninmonroeeee
      @melaninmonroeeee 2 роки тому +3

      You’re 48 in your profile pic ????

    • @crishagarcia246
      @crishagarcia246 2 роки тому +5

      @@melaninmonroeeee Lol...Yes that's me. That picture is a few years back but I still look the same. I'm also a grandma to two beautiful grand babies by my oldest who just turned 29 😊

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +3

      mixed/ hispanic look is beautiful ... it is what most white girls want to be🥰

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +3

      @Lynn Xo sounds like a beautiful mix.. and that is what I meant by Latina looking.. the white girls actually want to look mixed looking because it is in between

    • @crishagarcia246
      @crishagarcia246 2 роки тому +1

      @Lynn Xo it is crazy in so many ways. As soon as people would see my father they would assume he was my step father. Then when I tell them everything I am I get the side look and the "Well you don't look it" If you go by appearance my father is a black man and my mother is a white women. Yet my Ethnicities are Capeverd which is a mix of Black and Portuguese, Italian, Native American and Black separate from what's in the Capeverd. Life wasn't easy but I grew up around my Capeverd family and my Italian family. Yet it was my Capeverd side that I was surrounded by daily. I'm whole mixed mess 😂 Yet I'm OK with that. But for a long time I didn't like myself. I always wished I looked more mixed then what I was because I was tiered of people always trying to tell me I wasn't mixed. I felt bad for my cousins and my dad who always had to set someone straight that was older then me. It was my dad that taught me that I could never love what I was if I didn't love who I was. Although I had mixed cousins they seemed to find there way through but I had a hard time. All because of a Cop that tried to arrest my dad when I was five because he was holding my hand as we were walking to the store to go get me some candy. That before that I didn't see people as different. Yet that day I found out what racism and a colorism was. That's when everything changed for me. Although my mother wasn't the best mother to me I was blessed to have an amazing father who raised me whole life even when my mother and dad separated because she did him wrong and went on her way. It was my father who was both my mom, dad and my very best friend. It's funny that the same things as dealt with as a child are still the same things I'm dealing with today. People are still amazed when one of my family members calls me there cousin to there friends or when one of my uncles or aunts say I'm there niece. The expressions on there faces are always priceless. Some people can tell I'm mixed when they see me and some aren't sure what to make of me while others just go by my complexion. People usually judge a book by the cover until they open the book.

  • @Docmatema
    @Docmatema 2 роки тому +17

    When I was younger, I always believed that female Black Americans (now known as African Americans) were all like Halle Berry and Thandi Newton because that was what was shown in movies and Tv shows as the black woman representation
    It was literally only around 2010 when social media became a thing that I realized that there actually were black women from America who looked like me and in fact, they were the majority. Representation matters
    Black people don't hate each other - ok, there are a couple of rotten potatoes but for the most part..we love ourselves and our features (ok..in Africa where I'm based) and we gatekeep our blackness. In South Africa, the moment you're mixed with any other race i.e. if your great-grandfather is non-black then you are "coloured" until your phenotype is black (including the hair)
    It's unfortunate that Americans still have to fight to be seen

    • @stardime2706
      @stardime2706 2 роки тому

      Girrlll, as a fellow mzanzian, I beeeeeen saying this. Americans are crraayzee, I wouldn't consider Meghan Markle as black. If she was South African she'd be straight up coloured😂 Since they love categorizing things so much, they should have better classification systems for black people because wow. Their media be confusing their people too much

  • @Ana2U
    @Ana2U 2 роки тому +21

    I’m in one of those blk women’s only groups on Facebook, there was a post about non blk women being in the group. I mentioned that this group openly allows non black women ( the biracials, yts, Indians etc) when they could make their own spaces without invading ours. I also mentioned that I define blackness by having two black parents or 1 half black parent + 1 black parent to be considered black. I was called being anti black, insecure and racist 🤷🏽‍♀️ by blk women. And then was called Ms. light skin, when I’m indeed a brown skinned woman. The blk women that attacked me pulled the whole “all black people are mixed because of slavery) bs. One mixed woman reacted with an emotional comment about not being accepted by her Jewish counterparts and so that’s why she claim only one side.
    Honestly, I think it should be considered a mental illness for people to deny themselves of their entire identity and to portray as another. There’s nothing wrong with being mixed. As big as a deal as the blk community hyped up the mixed kids growing up, you’ll think they’ll be excited to claim being mixed…after all, that’s what society fetishizes.
    Question, if mixed people can say they’re black without push back, then why can’t black women say we’re white (when there’s a percentage of European in our dna due to our raped enslaved ancestors) ? We would be called deranged and delusional…. and that’s how I see mixed women claiming to be a black woman.

  • @Tashone26
    @Tashone26 2 роки тому +30

    Thats identity theft.

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black

    • @Tashone26
      @Tashone26 2 роки тому

      @@thrillerkid7965 Still identity theft.

    • @ladinai90
      @ladinai90 2 роки тому +16

      @@thrillerkid7965 🤦🏽‍♀️ so you just copied and pasted this same comment every where

    • @melaninmonroeeee
      @melaninmonroeeee 2 роки тому

      @@thrillerkid7965 you’re a freakin weirdo lmaao

    • @Odumase
      @Odumase 2 роки тому +2

      @@thrillerkid7965 if that helps you sleep at night

  • @SharayaMW
    @SharayaMW 2 роки тому +7

    I've just started taking photos and sharing them again, after years of not wanting to, because I decided to "go natural" in 2011. When I made the decision, for one thing, I didn't know that things like BBLs and glowups were going to be taking off at that same time. Two, I thought that my decision would transform me from a previously frustrated weave wearer to a beautiful, flourishing natural. I quickly found out that as a deep brown-skinned, tight 4C with a slim body that I still ended up with hair and body envy. My community has done a great job of calling out my natural beauty. Unfortunately, however, I rarely see it reflected back to me - if ever. I know my lack of baby hairs and regular body ain't it. It never was. I think this mixed fishing will only get worse, because on the other hand black women are consistently moving further away from looks that are associated with being black.

  • @tajrobinson9438
    @tajrobinson9438 2 роки тому +14

    As someone who has struggled with mental Illness for over 20 years…what these women are doing is a mental illness and they need serious help.

  • @Desiree12342
    @Desiree12342 2 роки тому +4

    I’m astonished at her transformation wow shocking. From her body to her skin color 😮

  • @sglant
    @sglant 2 роки тому +3

    Very well put together Queen Chioma! It is absolutely amazing how beautiful our Black Women are, how white society tried to downplay this natural beauty and NOW they are appreciating it because it trendy. Black Women's beauty is enduring and natural. They will either hate you or envy you for it. As a Black Man, I appreciate ALL beauty in women, but a Black Woman's beauty is deeper, richer and enduring. My mother-in-law is 78 years old and barely has a wrinkle. All of the women in my family look on average, 7-10 years younger than they really are.

  • @yahainHotPink
    @yahainHotPink 2 роки тому +15

    Interesting take on this subject matter. Blackfishing is definitely wrong, messed up and weird, but I don't keep up to date with the women who do it. And I don't have the energy for it. But I also have long believed in the beauty of Black people, people of African descent and of the African diaspora. Beauty among us is diverse and lovely to behold in God's creation. All the entire human race is physically beautiful, yes, that is true, and it is so good to appreciate the beauty of others and within our own ethnic groups without stealing identities.

  • @itzbunny4649
    @itzbunny4649 2 роки тому +7

    “I don’t do it to look black”….
    -Gets box braids🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @gloriasmom2045
    @gloriasmom2045 2 роки тому +3

    Chioma, thank you! Because the media seems to accept one droppers or biracial people as black. And especially for women we have never had the same experience.

  • @becky15707
    @becky15707 2 роки тому +5

    I recently ran into her page few days ago and was wondering her ethnicity. She is definitely appealing to the black community

  • @BarbieDawl.__
    @BarbieDawl.__ 2 роки тому +22

    THIS IS A SICKNESSS 😂😂😂

  • @chocty03
    @chocty03 2 роки тому +3

    Great commentary..keep up the good work. Thank you for calling out the elephant in the room.

  • @Iam_alicialove
    @Iam_alicialove 2 роки тому +15

    rachel dolezal really set the bar for all these girls to do the same it’s pathetic 😓

  • @virgobleu27
    @virgobleu27 2 роки тому +25

    This is literally black face

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black

  • @carriestandberry408
    @carriestandberry408 2 роки тому +5

    I'm happy someone talked about this.

  • @vanessamack3968
    @vanessamack3968 Рік тому +1

    Don't let them say we mimic them by wearing wigs, because the hair we buy is not Caucasian. And wigs go back to our ancestors in Egypt.

  • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
    @mstwelvedeadlycyns 2 роки тому +5

    They hate you but want to be you so badly!!! It's like accepting Angelina Jolie more than Glorilla or any Black women with natural Black features.

  • @misskerrik
    @misskerrik 2 роки тому +10

    Miona from 90 day fiancé does the same thing too. It’s honestly laughable.

  • @lambertoandayrielcisneros4397
    @lambertoandayrielcisneros4397 2 роки тому +11

    Fantastic analysis!

  • @dreamweaverkhronikles9206
    @dreamweaverkhronikles9206 2 роки тому +12

    And just in case no one noticed she also got work done to complete the look

  • @blackwomenpowerbyalainaray4047
    @blackwomenpowerbyalainaray4047 2 роки тому +11

    I agree, biracial isn’t black.

  • @Mizanthrobe
    @Mizanthrobe 2 роки тому +2

    I’ve seen a lot of people say that white women that blackfish want to actually look mixed. This girl does not look mixed, she looks like a black woman with two black parents.

  • @BrittaneyBoss
    @BrittaneyBoss 2 роки тому +62

    No one thinks she's Black. She is mixed-fishing.

    • @mrssuchafknladyy2078
      @mrssuchafknladyy2078 2 роки тому

      😭🤣😭🤣 I can always tell a European woman who is playing dress up, googling BLK women bodies and hair, with those awful wisdom tooth BBLs and practiced slang from a gotdam mile away🤌🏾🤣🤣🤣

    • @adrianna5378
      @adrianna5378 2 роки тому +33

      Not in the most recent video with the Halloween costume. She looks Black.

    • @YunikuYosefMomoka
      @YunikuYosefMomoka 2 роки тому +9

      Some people would.
      She already painted her skin brown so some people will assume she is black when she is white. How do go from a white girl to looking like a mixed chick..??

    • @thrillerkid7965
      @thrillerkid7965 2 роки тому +3

      I think they are trying to look Latina... not black... so true

    • @nicki1197
      @nicki1197 2 роки тому +33

      But aren’t y’all the ones who say society sees biracial BW as BW?🙄

  • @ChassityNOubre_88
    @ChassityNOubre_88 Рік тому +2

    I know a lot of White People who doesn't love themselves. It's sad 😢
    OAN: This by far is the best, informative UA-cam segment I've ever watched about this topic. Keep it up Queen Choima 👑

  • @rachellegolding9435
    @rachellegolding9435 2 роки тому +8

    I think blackfishing is weird, in a sense, because people are going to lengths to be someone they are not. I also get the issues of blackfishing and mixed fishing. With that being said, I'm not going to lie and say I'm bothered by it or I'm outraged. Throughout my life, I've had multiple non-black women point out certain features of mine, they wish they had, my curls, lips, etc. I just take it as a compliment, but that's just me. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.

  • @fatima_land
    @fatima_land 2 роки тому +2

    This was very important… thank you sis

  • @chieftrice
    @chieftrice 2 роки тому +4

    We have to go after the companies who promote them and pay them.

  • @briolivia
    @briolivia 2 роки тому +10

    she's not malicious but intentionally made sure she was less tan and just looks to be an ethnic white person for that interview? because she's my skin tone in those recent photos and I'm not mixed at all. She knows what she's doing.

  • @Fatou._
    @Fatou._ 2 роки тому +9

    That Emma girl is STILL blackfishing and black people STILL are in her comment calling her a queen…

    • @pinnywizard
      @pinnywizard 2 роки тому

      Ppl are truly dumb as a box of rocks 🤣

  • @LadyRosze
    @LadyRosze 2 роки тому +7

    “I’m not white, white” Girl if you’re white, you are white! You just a spicy white lol

  • @flyleelee5351
    @flyleelee5351 2 роки тому +11

    Yup, black has always been the standard of beauty...even in the victorian days when women would corset their waists and stick that hump under their dresses to make it seem like that had a big backside

  • @latoyawashington2472
    @latoyawashington2472 Рік тому

    I love your beautiful mind! You are a joy to watch and listen to. You are well spoken , always present issues in a very classy manner. Keep it up 👸

  • @HALOSnHORNS
    @HALOSnHORNS 2 роки тому +3

    They love to talk down to us but wanna look like us.
    They say all this negative stuff about us damn can't stop thinking bout us. Can't cut it in their community, so they slide in ours.
    When it's time to go down, she'll wash it off and remind authority it's not like that. 🥴 I could never hate blackness cause it's the domestic thing. 🖤🤎💛🤍 from the blackest to albino black is beautiful.

  • @loveavable
    @loveavable 2 роки тому +1

    So I hope you also post about black women whitening themselves to look white As well.....what counts for one should count for all

  • @dreamie3742
    @dreamie3742 2 роки тому +4

    The case of glorilla is especially sad to me since she’s actually quite pretty imo, but the classic female rapper uniform doesn’t suit her at all. She has ethereal essence (wide set eyes, high cheekbones, rounder features) which can make her look like an angel in some styles, and straight up uncanny in others.

  • @ellisahector
    @ellisahector 2 роки тому +2

    That side by side of Kylie and Beyoncé is crazyyyyy.. also I follow that girl on social media and thought she was mixed the entire time

  • @NotReallyAya.
    @NotReallyAya. 2 роки тому +25

    Honestly to me it’s not just the non-blacks, the mix women do the same, they be mixed with white and Mexican, big black fishing, even Black/White mixed, grew up with they white mom no daddy. How are yu acting like that all of a sudden? Everybody be black fission because black men are the goal for them, and they know black men love non-black women with our aesthetic.

    • @noirefit5954
      @noirefit5954 2 роки тому +11

      Let them take those black men off our hands. They deserve each other

    • @NotReallyAya.
      @NotReallyAya. 2 роки тому +4

      @@noirefit5954 they can have them, it’s the aesthetic I’m annoyed about

    • @Saidwhtisaid
      @Saidwhtisaid 2 роки тому

      Girl let them wear them aesthetics and talk that blaccent right down to the WIC office and the food stamp office once those bm leave them with kids cuz those the kinda bm they normally get especially if that bm hates his own women 🤣 he a pookie trust that 😁

  • @lemonaidebey6190
    @lemonaidebey6190 2 роки тому +2

    I'm shocked they still are doing it... the thick girl got me tricked again recently. I saw her pic on my Twitter tl n thought she was black. It wasn't until I read the comments pointing out who she was.. these women are despicable tbh

  • @KAMROXX2K11
    @KAMROXX2K11 2 роки тому +6

    I'm confused. She didn't even have to do that. She's already the PREFERENCE! 😑

  • @booklover466
    @booklover466 Рік тому +2

    They want to look like us but would quickly switch back the minute life gets real! It’s so disrespectful

  • @itsdekontee7950
    @itsdekontee7950 2 роки тому +6

    Glad I’m gang and don’t have to do all that 🤣

  • @iThiink
    @iThiink 2 роки тому +2

    The whole liking black features on non-black women is so true, My boyfriends mum is always criticising my looks, and praising her other sons ex. In terms of fakery the ex and I are very similar. I have dyed jet black hair (I wear weaves for protection and thickness) A medium brown skintone, naturally full lips, and I wear fake eyelashes. The ex has obviously dyed jet black hair (No extensions i'm assuming) wears fake eyelashes, has lip injections and obvious fake tan, she's white, but 2 shades lighter than me. She isn't "black or mixed fishing" However It's funny how we both have a similar aesthetic, yet I get called out for "artificialness" (my hair and lashes) when this girls hair, skintone, lips and eyelashes aren't natural.

  • @Darline_ox
    @Darline_ox 2 роки тому +5

    i mean you can clearly see that she's white...she looks orange not brown...and she doesn't look black to me

  • @evelynwalton3343
    @evelynwalton3343 2 роки тому +2

    Well from what I've seen it started a long time ago when the white girls and women would get braids and gold teeth and you know talk with slang Nana just adding the skin color so with that being said it's been a problem you could just now see it on a lot of platform I might say cuz in my 39 years I've always seen the quote on quote black fishing now they're starting to tan their skin 🤣🤣

  • @fhxs
    @fhxs 2 роки тому +3

    “I’m not white white I’m Polish” WHAT? 😭

  • @danajamanley9451
    @danajamanley9451 2 роки тому +2

    Thank god I’m black, idc🤷🏾‍♀️. I’ve been hating my skin complexion and features for YEARS because of how society deems us. African Americans are most definitely starting to rise in culture; even the darker complexioned black men and women.

  • @queenholland1227
    @queenholland1227 2 роки тому +4

    people are still blackfishing in 2022?

  • @anettniederkirchner8473
    @anettniederkirchner8473 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing video! One comment to the Polish girls: when they say they aren’t 100% white (allegedly…) I’m thinking that they very well could have Gypsy roots. There are a lots of gypsies in Poland. (Im from Hungary)
    Anyway, still doesnt justify for any bullshit and racial inappropriation! Just wanted to share

  • @SelenaBESTT
    @SelenaBESTT 2 роки тому +3

    We were really the beauty standard the whole time 😅

  • @daisamay
    @daisamay 2 роки тому +1

    The fact that I’m mixed ,my mother is black and farther is white and ppl tried to tell me I was black fishing but I’m actually half black but we have fully white woman trying to look mixed “ and get praised for it makes me sick to my stomach. Just be yourself ppl.

    • @ebonyrouse142
      @ebonyrouse142 Рік тому

      Yep. That's how people are having a hard time telling the difference between white and biracial, even me, trying so hard to look everything like what they are not.

  • @ipod3369
    @ipod3369 2 роки тому +3

    As someone from Michigan im kinda mad you said mostly yt woman your fro Michigan I believe and the amount of yt male black-fishing is crazy also look at the bay area of California

  • @anthonymason3854
    @anthonymason3854 2 роки тому +1

    Her skin looked golden phooney. 💯💯💯

  • @Jaliseemo
    @Jaliseemo 2 роки тому +3

    It’s obvious that black is beauty they just didn’t want us to truly believe it.

  • @Nineto_5
    @Nineto_5 2 роки тому +1

    We can’t control what ppl do with their bodies so. To me. It’s insecurity on BOTH sides. The ones being blackfished and the ones black fishing

  • @erikamccraw9864
    @erikamccraw9864 2 роки тому +15

    I would never want to insult anyone with my spray tan or lip filler as a naturally pail white woman with natural thin lips Iv always hated those two discriptions about myself I’m 27 but as far as I could remember as a little girl I never found other white woman as beautiful as black woman I grew up idolizing Megan good I always thought she was absolutely gorgeous an I never thought in a million years I could ever come anywhere close to her appearance wise an I never will but I will say that the only time I genuinely feel pretty is with a spray tan the fresh swoleness in my lips from a new syringe of lip filler But anything Iv ever done to alter my appearance has been honestly out of admiration and Iv never tried to intentionally insult any women in the black community

    • @Angi3maname
      @Angi3maname 2 роки тому +7

      There’s nothing wrong with having pale skin either though… but I agree I like fuller lips too.

    • @chidiogoikeh4550
      @chidiogoikeh4550 2 роки тому

      Lip fillers 9 times out of ten look awful irl. You’re white so having thinner lips and being pale shouldn’t even be an issue- it’s how you guys usually look anyway. I sorry you feel like there’s something wrong with you tho. I’m sure you look fine

    • @rockyayyy8978
      @rockyayyy8978 2 роки тому +3

      You gotta love yourself and who you are. Beautiful women come in all shades and colors. Big lips are the trend right now. But trends come and go.

  • @jahodwatts
    @jahodwatts 2 роки тому +1

    @16:23 Bebe is a beautiful woman regardless but girlllll she looked so much better on the left!! She looks like herself & she’s gorgeous, I think the add on’s dimes her natural beauty!

  • @miram2053
    @miram2053 2 роки тому +4

    They'll never be the real thing. I don't care how hard they try.

  • @princessroxy
    @princessroxy Рік тому +1

    Thank you for putting ariana grande. She’s a big time black fisher. Her crazy fans always try to make excuses for her and make it seem like shes not wrong for doing that, when it is wrong that she did that.

  • @nicolebaii8447
    @nicolebaii8447 2 роки тому +4

    They could never be black, beautiful, and powerful... They aint never been in the struggle, they dont want the struggle but they want makes us uniquely beautiful.. All these wantabees can suck rocks... Im black and proud✊✊👐

  • @Tajmaj
    @Tajmaj Рік тому +2

    Honestly I think ppl consider “mixed” look black bc most popular black celebrities are actually mixed…..

  • @flowerblossom2974
    @flowerblossom2974 2 роки тому +6

    Whats crazy about this is that Elasta-Girl is a white character. Like bro, what reason did you have?!

    • @QueenChioma
      @QueenChioma  2 роки тому +5

      Nah forreal 😭 what was the reason !? Mrs. Incredible is a white woman 🤔

  • @BG-vd3in
    @BG-vd3in Рік тому +1

    They don’t want to be black but the more mixed black look