NFL PLAYER’S WHYTE GF GOES VIRAL PRO ATHLETES DON’T DATE BLK GIRLS
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- Hey #QueenTeam, in this video I talk about #OluFashanu and his whyt girlfriend going viral after he announced at this year's #NFLDraft. What are your thoughts?
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We should’ve left this conversation in like 2016. Stop caring about black men and their preferences, just go where you’re celebrated and loved black women!
Exactly because thats what they say all the time just to come crying back though, thats the problem
THANK YOU. like why do we care tf
@@FreeSpiritInGodthat’s their problem though. I want you to read this book called Soul on Ice. It’s about this Blk Panther guy who’s writing about his experiences and also his love for yt women and how he hates blk women. A mf blk panther .. that should tell us blk women something
Yeah I’m actually very tired of videos on this topic. Like what’s new? Atp part of me is convinced this bothers the black women UA-camrs who make these videos more than it bothers majority of black women anymore. And if I’m being very honest, none of these football players are anyone you want to mess with anyway. A lot of my friends got r*ped and bruísed up by these ninjas while we were in our D1 college. Basketball players too. Honestly I no longer hold any love or support for black men unless you’re my direct family. These self-hating ninjas hate their blackness so much and only preach self love to have others celebrate and love them. They operate very selfishly and don’t mind destroying others’ self-esteem so they can have a short-lived ego trip. They’re just going to be the demise of our community, we need to date out with any other race.
Amen!!!
I really wish our community would stop making this a topic if they’re not going to celebrate & boost the athletes that are married or dating black women.
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Big facts
It makes blk women look desperate. Most of those men aren’t anything to write home about.
@@brimillien I wish that were true.
@@brimillienwe not either from bw. So 🤷🏾
As a black woman I really don't care, it's their preference.
Thank you
Exactly
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It’s not always about “preference” … that’s why we’re talking about it 🙄
Exactly. Lol @@surfertsunami9355
Glad to see more and more Black women marry non-Black men and go where they're wanted. They tend to have better marriages, better/peaceful living situations, too.
Yea, all 3 of them
Lmfao you just made all that up. Interracial relationships don’t do better than the opposite. You literally made that up or heard it in social media from dummies
It going to be okay. Love yourself
@@spaceghost2473 Too many weddings of Black women marrying Whites, Arabs, Asians, etc, for that to be true. But whatever helps you sleep at night!
Katt Williams was not lying about the “funny looking faces” 😂
Anywho, date who y'all want, just be sure to love yourself and the skin you're in!
😂😂😂Katt Williams was speaking nothing but the truth
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Making fun of anybodys facial features screams insecurity and projection
@@UnseathedDeity Nothing screams projection more than stuffing MID and below MID looking light bright women down people's faces and telling us they are attractive. Kat Williams called truth. Some funny looking women indeed. When you grow up with actually beautiful women like Nia Long, Vanessa Williams, Halle Berry, Tatiana Ali, Mya, Maia Campbell, Stacey Dash, Tracey Edmonds, Iman, Naomi Campbell etc. you can literally see that these women are funny looking af.
He is so right on that 🤣I rarely see white women who are considered high value in their community date a black man.
This comes down to the more successful a blk man is, celebrity or not, he's more likely to date/married non blk women, which is why y'all need to stop holding them down or dating them when they're broke.
Thank you! Let the broke ones figure it out b/c as soon as they get put on, they no longer see BW as a good dating option.
The fact that you're a man and u said this made u to have my respect
Yasssssssssss
@@boitshokomabazagirl and he fione😍
@@shaybaby481 he is
As a black dude i love listening to these types of videos. It gives me more insight through a lens i cant normally see through. Im married to my highschool sweet heart and videos like this help me better prepare my daughter for the world.
What are you saying exactly? 🤔 Make a point.
he literally made a point and said he’s watching these to prepare his daughter for the world.
@juliamae8994 ,
It's "helping" him prepare his daughter for the world; how, though? A relationship is either real, or it's not and superficial. Stick to _REAL_ relationships for the win.
@@shaunw.1173 You literally made no fucking sense!!
@@AlysiaWilliams-oy5ti ,
No. The original post maker to this thread made no fucking sense. I'm still trying to figure-out how he says: "videos like this one will help him 'better prepare his daughter for the world.'" 🤔🤦🏾♂️🤔🤦🏾♂️
YOU HAVE A VERY VALID POINT ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION AND THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR VIEWPOINT
Honestly, these men are doing us favors by not choosing us. I've never met or seen a colorist man who is a stand up man of quality and character, who actually treats their partners in a way you would like to be treated, or anything to write home about!
EXACTLY. Idk why this is still a topic of discussion. Leave them where they are! We want the true kings who know themselves and their purpose!
Agreed! I think it’s because colorist men are self-haters! He won’t be a great partner if he doesn’t even love himself!
I have… a a lot actually. But I’ve seen plenty of black men with black women that treat them well
This
But your setting for broke bm who treat you badly. A group of men who unalive you at astonishing rates.
I work in family law….black men…keep on. 😂😂😂😂😂 keep right on. It always rears its ugly head. I sit back and laugh while they beg the courts for restraining orders to keep these women from bleeding them dry and taking the kids out of state. 😂😂😂😂keep on, dont say nothing, Chioma.😅😅😅ive been waiting for this one. Im screaming 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i literally cant wait to get the docket in the mornings…they be crying and i be like NEXT CASEEEE!
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Savage 😮
My brother tried to argue with me that the white women bring them peace, and this is what the majority of black men believe. I just had to laugh!!!!
I loveeeee when these black successful men date outside they race and get exactly what they deserve after. They swear the grass is greener on the other side lol
@@babygurll7white women are really the reason why they swear marriage benefits only the women and that women are gold diggers. Chile…
You went deeper on this topic and I really respect that!
My husband played football at UT (Knoxville) and went to the NFL. He said it was a lot of whites but also black women too. He said the players who went after the bunnies liked white women from the beginning and also the team throws these women in their faces. He also said a lot of them ended up having regrets after they got into the league. So essentially the bunnies are easy because they want the football player and will put up with their shenanigans.
Sounds about right. Same at Ohio State and I imagine at most big sports programs. The WW were more aggressive and would often pay for meals, entertainment, and clothing. Where most BW still maintained the attitude that a man should pursue them, WW did not. WW would also hang out in the medical and law libraries. They strategized. We can dig deeper as to why this is, but this is the end results on these big college campuses.
When I dated a retired NFL guy he told me that when he goes to events with other guys, all their women are light-skinned black or biracial women.
@@cliftonconnor9389why would a man feel comfortable with this, it's like the woman is basically seeing the man as submissive, he has to be treated and bought things, because of course he cannot take on that role himself. She has to make him feel pretty (and they're usually Not😬) and wanted.
She is demonstrating that she has the man's role, so to speak. She will either get something out of it, eventually, financially beneficial to her and move the heck on, or move the heck on when she's tired of it or bored, and it looks like there's nothing further to gain or decides she wants something more socially acceptable.
@@cliftonconnor9389 Is it possible the Black men dated those non-Black women out of self-hate? Also is it possible, the non-black women agreed to be with those Black men for security reasons? If so, this is a situation where self-hate meets an opportunist.
"He got game" which was actually based on Stephon Malbury's college recruitment boosters
Did the same thing to Ray Allen's character and he had a threesome with two white girls that basically were pimped by the white frat leaders at the college who recruited him
Just because these athletes make a lot of money doesn’t mean they are partners of good character. We all know how horrible they treat their WW girlfriends/wives so BW should want none of that. Let them go!
EXACTLY! that's my first thought! Let the snow drops have them because most of them are FBOYS! Will leave them as glorified baby mothers.
Its about keeping success, resources, knowledge in our community. Its about not being a BW sidechick/baby momma with absent male model for your child. Rich/Poor you will find narcissistic man and absent father. At least the WW will have resources for her child while you will not and will have to struggle.
@@nber1954 A piece of mind is important.
No fr best dog 💩 out of em . I’m good keep em
How can you let them go when you never had them?😂
Please as black woman -- let's not ever make another video like this. Let these black men have their preference. We can't change the male gaze .
It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. bBlck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desires female qualities.
That’s what I was saying they like snow bunnies 🐰 😂😂😂
I mean you have to answer the other question she asked, why yall aren't getting engaged upon graduation
@@playerx2006 That's easy, because most BM don't believe in marriage. Plus being married to a BM is not a badge of honor & mostly a waste of effort.
fit, feminine, friendly, KS told u
Most NFL players have very short careers and end up broke with chronic pain and medical problems.
Thats true sadly
Thank you or most cheat. 😂
And then the WW wives/GFs file for divorce because they did not sign up for that.
My Brother said " When there's a rich black, there goes a white rack!" So true.....
Really? Cuz there are hundreds of Blk football players/athletes that marry Black whether monoracial or mixed and yet yall only seem to fixate on the Blk players w nonBlk partners and it seems like yall just enjoy the constant victimization "bw are undesirable" narratives..... yall enjoy the pain. i don't tho lol. i'll remain in reality.
Black ppl know this. I don’t think there’s a black person who will deny this…unless they are the type this video is about. Lol. Or maybe I notice it more bc I’m a female? Everyone loves a black guy but the same energy isn’t given towards black girls, unless they can make you laugh or are just a whitewashed as Sarah Beth is white.
I’m from the DMV and live in the same county ol boy is from. Charles County is the richest Black county in the US. There are plenty of Black girls out here, his choice was intentional. If him and his family like the transfer of wealth that’s about to happen, I love it for them 🤷🏽♀️✌🏽
Exactly, my friend who I met in college is from a suburb outside Chicago (majority black community).Went to private school all her life. Many of the people in her family & neighborhood are financially successful. They come up with every excuse & atp no one cares.
Thank you! Please don’t cry any tattoos tears when they get treated unfairly or drained for everything they have & expect to come back to black women when they’re good & broke. They can have fun over there.
As a black women you have no idea what u are talking about. Majority of suburban black women who grow up in wealthy neighborhoods DO NOT KIKE BLACK MEN, infact they hate black members and worship white women
It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. bBlck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desires female qualities.
He doesn't come off to me as the type of guy that many of you ladies from Waldorf and Laplata would have been head over heels for. You from the area, you know the type of men here the young girls are attracted to. He isn't that type. I don't agree with mixing but let's keep it real. You know the type of men that gets the attention here. He ain't one of them.
It's not only the athletes. I played D1 football and now I am an Anesthesiologist. My black male friends who were in dental/medical/pharmacy/law school were CONSTANTLY sought after by other races of women and they told me how well they were treated. Not saying no black women do this, but they are very rare.
Agree. Theres so many more perks for me when i ir date, im sure some bm could do the same. Its rare.
In lesser economic segments, it is only white women with low self-esteem who date black men. I'm very familiar with women like this because my mother is one of them. I stopped dating black men many years ago.
In the black community black men into education and have the academic qualifications to attend dental/medical/pharmacy/law school are not desirable to most pretty young black women.They are “Lame , soft, acting white” while women from other ethnic groups find these men to be a good catch. BW will want these guys once they are established in their careers but it is too late. Becky already has the ring
It's not rare!! You are just prejudiced against your own. Most black wmen are ride or die for their black men, it's just recently they are waking up to see they are not appreciated. The greatest weapon in a white mans war is a white woman!! WAKE UP!!!!
Black women feel the same way. White men treat black women better.
Why don't they want to marry women who look and act like their mothers.
As a South African i noticed that our Rugby Team white women stick with their own race always. White South African normally stick to their own kind. Same with Indian South Africans
Yes... I'm South African as well and I agree. This is true
Nope most black South African rugby players marry white women.
It's rare to see a mixed race couple hey. I can only think of Siya Kolisi and Rachel Kolisi. Sonia Booth also with the soccer player Mr Booth?
Blk men in America generally hayt themselves. Most of them believe white is right. They've been well trained under whyt supremacy.
Well apartheid didn't end that long ago so I'm not surprised.
This information is known to us all and we do not care and should not care.
we should ALWAYS go where we are appreciated 🥰‼️
@@loverpackked 💯💯💯
@@loverpackked
Ya'll always say that sh#t.... yet continuously ignore us good brothers!
All ya'll gonna do is try to date interracially.... as your get back solution.
@@invisiblerevolutionYou’re a joke 😂.
@@invisiblerevolutionmost of yall good brothers ain't hardly good and just as bad as Pookie and Ray Ray.
Not all black women wear fake nails 💅 and hair extensions we have our own smh 🤦🏽♀️
Is safe to say that when you look at all these draft selections, these guys make it physically known that they will never date a person who looks like their mother
To be honest I dont even be mad or feel any kind of way when I see these WW and non BW being smart getting a bag/being set for life. 🤷🏾♀️ BW need to have that same type of mindframe also.
But when BW do, we get bashed and called gold diggers and we're told we're not deserving... we're demonized for even wanting what other normal women want.
@@melaninchocolate6552facts 💯 the double standards are real.
So what do the black girls do at college. Stand at the gym, help them with homework? Like what is the actual way to show yourselves to these athletes? Maybe you bw who are mothers can teach their daughters tips. I wish I knew this back then. I was told by strict island parents to focus on books only. Here I am career and no man. And the only men left are the left overs no1 wants. Used up baby daddies, no car, no job, fresh out of prison with no resources. I want the best. Not this tinder game swiping on societies left overs 😂😢
@@kissesbabylovewell ma’am it’s clear as day you clearly only have your dating pool open to black men. Do you not see the problem in what you’re saying? The men in your age bracket are pitiful when they had the same opportunities as you but decided to play around instead. There are plenty men who are eligible bachelors but they’re not abundant in the black community. Expand your options if you want a man, or shut up and pick from the leftovers.
@@kissesbabylovehonestly I will be teaching my daughter balance. But yes I will be telling her to focus on her books. If my parents did she wouldn’t have to ask me 10 times for something before I can get it for her, if I finished school first…
Now Chioma, how did you know I just got home from getting snacks from the corner store? 👀 😂 right on time, sis! ❤
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She’s stalking you girly ,close those windows babe😂
Girl 😂❤❤
I actually agree with Charleston white….African American girls aren’t being taught to be wives
If it AINT SNOWIN, they ain’t goin….🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Here my two cents from this topic: As a black woman like myself, I'm not even hating nor feel no type of way seeing a WW with a BM, it's doesn't bother me. Plus, it's 2024 idk why it's still a topic of why people is obsessed with interracial relationships. Just date who you wanna date, love who you love, just don't bash your own race (especially black women). However, I definitely agree with Chioma on this one though. 💯
I'm indian and have recently been seeing so many hateful words for my own men these days, but I've learned to pay it no dust as I've gotten older. They can go for all the white women they want, as long as it makes them happy. What's funny is, you know that these men aren't truly happy if they're in an interracial relationship, yet can't keep the women of their race out of their mouths
No one is obsessed! Like where are yall getting this from 😭 it’s annoying as hell atp. She just trying to do her job and comment on a topic that has gone viral. I don’t get yall. She’s talked about many of the same things and I don’t see yall asking why she’s still talking about it. She has a man so I’m
Sure she doesn’t care. She’s just speaking in what’s obvious and she’s getting a bag. Black men make money all day everyday talking about black women. Like get outta here.
I mean clearly it’s still a topic because racism and anti blackness still exist….
Because of the challenges biracial children have and how they project on the Black community because they aren’t aware of the underlying reason their parents became one.
That's the point though isn't it! Black men go out of their way to bash black women. Also it came up in everyone's face, so it's being spoken about
This tired ass convo😂 this is expected
That’s what I said 😂😂omfg I thought we as a community was done going through this
Watch this conversation come back up during the NBA draft 🙄
@@keniaflowers0530 it’s mainly black men bringing up their snow bunnies no one says anything about wm unless a black man goes on TikTok and brings up the conversation about wm and bw now bw do embarrassing things to but bm got it bad real bad.
Right, leave them ninjas be. Go where you’re loved that’s it.
Why did you click on the vid?!
It has just always been weird to me when they constantly date black men but don’t have any black female friends
I know what you're talking about my brother is African American and he married his third Asian wife. She's Filipino as she has many many friends and none of them are black! I just always wonder about that and, I think it's suspect how she doesn't interact with any of our black family members either.
@@daisymae3332 The Filipino is likely using your brother as a economic stepping-stone. Your brother likely has anti-Black views and based on his dating history, he certainly has internal issues with Blackness. He's psychologically conquered
@@daisymae3332don’t be offended. That’s a cultural thing with Asian people. And the reason she does not have black female friends is probably do to a culture divide too. Now you might say, WTF. Then why is she with my black brother then? My answer, lust and attraction.
Not true married a Black man and have plenty Black women friends
I'm married to a white woman and I don't have any white male friends. I have white guys that I'm cool with but I wouldn't call them true friends.
Great points in your video. I particularly like what you said about imagery and black women.
Idc who black men date because I don't check for them at all, tbh every black man that I've come across has a white bm or white girlfriend and they stay trying to get with me.. shoo fly don't bother me..
This! They want bw to do the emotional labor for their poor relationship decisions. I got one in my dms now crying because his ww said he wasn’t enough for her.
Or they always chasing after Latinas
The trying to get with Mr, hahaha, yeah right
@@taiuqsab lmao that’s facts. They be with their ww in public but be looking at me 😂 like nah brother you made your choice 💁🏾♀️
@@ChocolateJaii9/10 we all ways ended looking better than the other chick🤣 never fails
We gotta stop blaming black women. Black men just don’t like black women. It’s not about femininity. We actually have a lot of positive imagery as a whole. Sexy red is only 1% of famous black women. But as someone who is mixed and went to a pwi with some of these top athletes, they literally don’t even let brown/dark skin girls around them. When i was invited to their parties they literally told me only Lightskin or white girls could come. It’s that simple. We don’t need think pieces on it.
Facts on facts on facts. They don’t even want to breathe the same air as another bw let alone be within a 10 feet radius of us. I’ve accepted BM don’t like bw YEARS ago. This is why I’ve cut my own brother off. He’s subscribed to all those anti bw podcasts and always talks 💩 about bw, especially dark ones. He texted me asking if he can borrow some money and I told him I wouldn’t even give him pack of ramen noodles then BLOCKED him!
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I agree with you when I watch videos of dating what race would you not date 99% of dark skin men said not dark skin black women and all the light skin or light skin black guys liked dark skin black girls so black women need to date more outside there race
Then we don't let them into our spaces and homes too. Simple as. Which is why I can't stand seeing them trying to get on the Afrobeats train. They need to fall off and stay down
Aye they rock with who they rock with 🤷♂️
As a society, we need to get the idea of said different races, when actually, there is only one race, the human race. We all came from Adam and Eve, so we are of the same race just with different shades and features.
This type of video was long overdue! ✊🏾
Second! Idk why this conversation has to keep being had every few months years.
Victim mentality. Black girls need to go where we are celebrated and not give a shit about shit else!
Because the men of your people love this triangulation drama.
That’s what I said, like didn’t she discuss this topic already. This shouldn’t faze us or have our energy
B/c it’s so noticeable it’s making headlines… is she not a content creator who makes commentary or popular topics. That’s all this is. A popular topic that’s she’s giving her opinion on. I don’t get this comment… in that case she should stop talking about celebrity news cause isn’t that old too? She doesn’t seem to care who they date she’s just making commentary on what’s so obvious to the whole world at this point.
Because it bothers people. As much as they pretend to not care...they care.
I also have a black friend who never seems confident or comfortable talking around my black friends and family members consistently in her phone. But when we are around our white coworkers she is super confident and flirtatious and never understood why. I’ve never seen her date black guys and she’s black and she’s always dating white guys. I never asked her why is that but watching this video listening to the other TikTok’s makes it more clear. She likes who likes her simple !
she playin their game good for her
@@Ca1iGurl31 I think bc none of my black friends or family members ever approached her but white guys she’s just more confident in talking to white guys.
Some people are just like that and I feel like it shouldn't be made into a deep issue forced on them. I've never been raised that way but I can sympathize and mind my business towards someone who has.
This is true but I feel like this is such an American issue. The racial dynamics in America just seem so so complex because here men just live women, dark, light, short, tall etc black women get to choose who THEY want. But in America it seems like certain women are rarely chosen therefore they now have to navigate dating out of their race- and end up being more familiar with that than black men because African American men from what I see in the media seem to be more into Eurocentric beauty (of course not all). And there usually seems to be an inner longing to feel like they belong by being with white or Hispanic women.
@@imanayandaIts in the UK too trust. Black boys and men date white and light skinned over black girls and women. There are plenty of videos on it. Even the African men come here study, then marry a white woman and gets his pappers lol. But they want you as a side piece bc dating white makes them feel safe 😂
Philadelphia PA here. Interesting video. I went to a mixed High School. And I seen this in high school. My father wouldn’t have accepted me bringing home a white guy. And my brother was in sports as well. But my father always told my brother to have a career in mind. My brother is currently a sports director for an HBCU and is married to a sista.
I like the video and it is very informative. I went to college and I saw the same exact situation that you are talking about. I believe that this is all about options and what is available to a person. Today, almost everyone is integrated with going to school with people with different races. What happens is that some women in college have to realize that how things were in high school and only being around a select group of people most of your life are finished in college.
I notice an erasure of bw in media and various other industries and genres by purposeful selection.
Yep. They're pushing tyla and ice for a reason
I took don't care about BM's choices, esp AA. I am not attracted to them anymore, either, not for the last 15-20 yrs. I like foreign BM.
I just finished watching Dateline abt a BM who killed his yte baby momma/ ex wife and buried her in an acid pit. He was in the air force. She should've picked better, sure. But BW were saved from him....
@@Lisette121I was literally thinking about Tyla! She has said multiple times she’s black, yet she keeps getting pushed down black mainstream medias throat. It’s very disrespectful b/c now it’s distorting what an unambiguous black woman actually looks and men are expecting us to look like her…when she’s mixed.
@babyg7796 exactly. This has been going on since the early 2000s. They pushed Rihana, beynce, and now another racially ambiguous 'bw' is being put on. They're sending different messages that being a full bw is not marketble', not beautiful enough, not talented enough. They don't like to show full beautiful bw for the massiz'. That's why you'll see many people say only mxd bw are beautiful etc, because that's what's pushed.
@@babyg7796 true. I'm an afrobeats lover and ayra Starr tems and tiwa have lower numbers and no Grammy. But tyra pops in and poof....accolades. this is blatant. They want a reaction out of us. We just have to make our own spaces and protect each other. Stream only our music.
Another point. I notice when you are black and beautiful ppl stare at the supermarket bc they can't fathom that you can be so much in 1 bc they don't push that in media as often.
when are bw as a collective gunna leave these types of men behind and go where they are loved..? theres nothing wrong with dating non-black men. dont narrow down your options because of what you were taught growing up.
I’ve only dated non black men. I was typically the only black person in my neighborhood, job, or school. And the few Bm were either not my type or only liked WW. So I dated whatever man charmed me and they were mostly white, I moved to Asia and dated 3 Asian men one of which is my husband. I didn’t stop and think I owe BM a chance, I married who I married and called it a day. BM don’t think they owe us a chance and they don’t. Which is fine because I don’t owe them anything and I married a wonderful man. It is what it is. BW need to open their dating pool
@@brittanytakenaka8411heavy on this, it’s like we only want hood black men and then complain about how horrible men are, yet we refuse to look outside the ratchet norm, as a black women, I get attention from literally all races, so I view ALL races as a potential dating choice, not just black men
Y'all need to stop with this black woman loyalty crap. Black women have never been race loyal
@@raqueldixson7644 exactly! I don’t give hood men a chance because I know they are not my type, I’m for the good boys not the bad ones. But when it comes to options we as black women have them. I am not saying for us to not date black men, but I will say just to explore all options
@@brittanytakenaka8411 that’s weird asf to be only dating non black men. It’s basically saying niggas better not come my way and you a black women saying that. You worse than them people on the other side.
Are we ever going to deal with the Why of there choices? Thats the conversation. Guess not.
No matter how they try to mask it, the hate, jealousy, and inferiority shines through every time.
We are making our own monumental moments after college. Black women in college are not checking for college athletes for a bag. We're too busy generating our own bags. WE wish Becky and co the absolute best. This narrative is tiring because we know how it ends. Cue in Jeanie Mai and Jeezy. No thanks! 🙄
Exactly
Face it, Becky is better and more intelligent than you strong 💪🏾 independent BW!!!!
Y’all take y’all asses to work and become lonely single mothers while Becky stays at home and raises her wonderful mixed children with her black husband 😂😂🤣🤣😂🤣
Exactly beautiful! Exactly!!!!
To be fair, college is the BEST time to find a husband. LITERALLY every other race of women does it but BW. And I’m not talking about athletes. The more you get into your career and get older it’s going to be harder to find a husband. Just saying 🤷🏽♂️
@@Leo6933They don’t care about that, respect their choices.
It’s simple. He has a non Blk wife and the majority of his wealth goes right back to the Caucasian community instead of it staying in his Blk family.
Exactly
We live in a capitalistic society. ALL the money eventually goes to a caucasian family.
@@reffa2858 Caucasian is totally not the definition of capitalism. South Korea and Japan are also capitalists.
like tina turner LMFAO. she set up a white family for generations. can’t say i’m mad. she just does what every black guy does. at least he treated her well
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I was at the draft I heard this one girl from a different hue say boldly!!! I’m trying to get with who ever got drafted!
I think we should care more about building ourselves as black women. We are the community and we’re so powerful
💯 you’re so right. We hold most power cuz we are depended on more (mostly by ungrateful people). Soft life me though always 🧖🏾♀️💅🏾
We are not a community. Everything y’all touch y’all destroy ☠️
At this point I’m creating the soft life for myself . My last relationship really showed me I need to focus on my education . And the next man that approaches me -- he better be right ! If not I’ll be childless but highly educated.
Wise words
And there are plenty of Black men who want Black women. Most of ya'll looking for the wrong things in men. If most of these NFL players were not NFL players and plain ole regular Joes a lot of ya'll would not have given them the time of day.
We just need to sit down at the table, put egos aside and get to the bottom of the division in our community and understand both sides, have issues that need to be worked out.
I think some of these men also get surprised and their ego boosted when a ⚪️ women gives them attention.
The same way y'all get an ego boost when yt men show y'all any attention
It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. bBlck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desires female qualities.
BW have 1 million more out of wedlock mixed race children than black men……
men are flattered when any woman approach them, i can say i have sistas approaching me more now at 47 years old. than i did at 16 years old.
When i was 16 it was mostly becky and mexicans, boriquas, and asian chicks cold approaching me, asking for my number and trying to get with me.
If more sistas would give brothas the time of day when they are younger then dont have this issue.
prettyindacity6708..you mean like when avergage lookign YT males give BW attention. Ya'll EGGOS explode. But they still don't marry ya'll..why is that?
Im Mexican and only watch soccer and Ive noticed the same thing. they’re brown,mid size and come from poverty and their wife’s are mostly slim, light skinned and tall sometimes even taller than them lol and foreigners👀
Even an Eastern European professor asked one of her students about why she notices that African men or blk men in general tend to only have lighter women around their arm, even if it’s a lighter bw
It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. bBlck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desires female qualities.
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Truth is, when you become successful you'll see lesser brwns. This could explain why their women have a lighter complexion.
Those women flock to them because of the money if those men were still poor those same women wouldn't want anything to do with them, she would probably call the cops on him if he even tried to flirt with her.
@@tiredoftheworld4834…the answer for the Eastern European is to remind her black people have different skin shades which is similar to their WM adoration and idolization of blondes over brunettes and redheads. 🎉
The Get Out meme!
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😂😂😂 WOW!! That mom was really trying to act like that girl was not there
We don’t care anymore, let them be.
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@Phillysavage You want somebody to care huh..?
Y’all are literal children
@@DashiaaaYou're mad😂
@@NewaccountNumber you’re delusional af😂😂😂
It's America you can date who you wanna date
This is wild because people pretty much know or joke it’s a “requirement/ mandatory” to eventually get a white partner when you’re an athlete/rich and famous, but at the same time in the same breathe, people make fun of Russell and other black men for being a good dad and good husband to another black woman and his black kids. I mean weren’t we just talking about that same topic in the last video?
I’m not black (obviously) but as an indigenous person, the “white partner when you’re successful” is a relatable topic, maybe not as much or effective as it is to the black community, but def relatable.
Nobody is serious when they joke about Russel, and more and more if you pay attention he’s been getting nothing but praise for being a good Husband/Father and stepping up to raise Futures son as his own.
@@mzspargo I agree he gets a lot of good praise and it’s rightfully deserved and some people crack jokes playfully, but there is also an alarming amount of people who mean what they say when they’re degrading Russell and Ciara at that point as well by saying things like “Russell is with Future’s leftovers cause he can’t do better by using someone else’s ©️⛎Ⓜ️ dumpster”.
There’s trolls and there’s also people who really don’t like him~ like a shocking amount and it’s baffling why.
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@@AdamIshak01 Oh wow, that’s awful! Hopefully he takes it in stride.
@@mzspargo that’s what I’m saying! Like how could you possibly be mad at Russell for doing what he’s doing?!
At least he seems to be handling it well and with the grace of God since he’s a religious Christian- regardless of domination, he’s being a good man and a good Christian.
I don't understand. Why are you here in black women's business? Your community is often just as racist to us as well so. Not every convo is for you.
Thank you 🙏🏾 I’m glad someone said it about the black sisterhood
My husband and I are raising our kids to have self confidence and pride in themselves.....I'm raising them to understand they're unique and can't give their DNA to any woman... she gotta be special (intelligent, feminine respectful, smart, talented, UNDERSTAND and Appreciates the man you are. She needs to understand and respect your culture). ......by teaching them this they will end up with a Black person without telling them to only date Black.......verbally telling them to only date Black WILL cause them to go after the opposite.....
.......good luck with that. Adults ultimately determine their own values.
I dated a footballer when I was very young and he was grooming me to be compliant and obedient and would always tell me not to act black 😅. Then I realised that he was also being groomed to be with a white woman or white passing to protect his image and someone that will make his life “easy”. Crazy
It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. bBlck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desires female qualities.
Yikes, that sounded like a pl@ntation scene 😳. It's like bm never collectively got off it.
This because u can act anyhow when you’re an athlete.
Acting white simply means acting less ratchet, be no athlete ones to deal with a scandal that could affect their career.
@@blackups__6554 pc women act ratchet all day bih buh nobody says anything. That's a ws trope they try throwin on bw and it needs to stop.
@@justme2272Most are 😂😂🤣🤣
When we continue to focus on ww, we only seem insecure, ladies be unapologetically a BLK woman, do not play small.
FOCUS on dating out and doing you, just like BLK men. These ww and bm get off on us caring, so don’t. Care enough to leave these men alone and move on. If we focused on ourselves we could really SHOW that we are truly living our best life🙏🏾
had to add, this is why the #BlackWomeinluxury movement was torn down by society including our own. What a lot of black women failed to realize is that we have so much inherent worth, then we can possibly imagine.
The movement was vehemently criticized, because people know that if we really focus on ourselves, we naturally can succeed. But some just continue to play victim, and to focus on what people are doing to them, instead of having true agency, and the courage to go your own way.
By continuing these types of conversations, it only keeps us in victimhood, never asserting our own agency to live the way we want to live🙏🏾
Thank you!!!💯.
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Very true!
FALSE! It is weird that black men date out at such an enormous rate compared to other races of men. There is nothing wrong with discussing why this is happening with black men more than other races of men. So you have a problem with discussing racism too?
@@lachell257 stop caring
This convo is is still relevant if u have black boys...black parents need to instill more awareness , pride, and respect of black women. Bc how are these boys not valuing black and ds bw
Well said
I will say this about the girls graduating with a ring vs those who don’t… if most black women want black men, but black men aren’t marriage minded as a MAJORITY at college age or they are not as present in college (women are out pacing men in presence in college in our community); and white (&adjacent) women are mostly with their counterparts who ARE majority marriage minded AND present in college… THIS is damn near the other half of the reason why black women don’t leave college with rings n fiancés as much as white (and white adjacent) women.
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All raced of women are outpacing their men in college. Look at the stats.
So why don't those black women in college date white men then?
Statistically accurate!
Delushional response. It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. bBlck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desires female qualities.
So I have a personal experience. My brother played for the CFL(Canadian Football League), He graduated from our local high school (small town) played for Kentucky(Now he coaches for them) but literally my whole life Ive NEVER seen NOR HEARD of him being with black women even though our mother is black (darker toned at that). His whole career he was with Nonblack women and he married a woman of North African descent (She not black. Just cause she from North African doesnt make her black) Anywhoo its something about Black Athletes that dont like Black women.
Thank you for sharing.
Respectfully, do you think you brother is ashamed of his original or/and dont like his mother/sisters? Trying to understand what it is
It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of good reering: positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. Blck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desired female qualities. And most men of other races don't marry BW or desire to start a family with BW. it amazes me that Bw can't see that they are the problem. The mental delusion is real.
@@nber1954They most likely hate themselves, and historically men take thwir anger out on the woman opposed to the man. Its the perspective of reality. I noticed other men of color do the same thing.
As someone who tutored Black athletes in undergrad and worked on those NFL concussion cases, I want absolutely no part of this community. I love this for those non-Black women, because it is not cute on the other side. Godspeed. Let's discuss the millionaires and billionaires who date and marry Black women.
Queen Chioma can you do a video on the 20v1 videos they are getting out of hand
Date the owner’s of the teams that sign their checks!! Ultimate Check mate!!
Good luck, lol
@@danec2572you got a nasty energy about you in this comment section. Ewww 🤮
@@danec2572I see the hate don’t worry it’s definitely owners of these workers (players) that date and marry bw!! Stop trying to gaslight because you have to give up ur funds for a ww to look your way. But carry on
@@shanicepilton1096 name those owners, i'll wait
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To be honest … I really do not mind they be dating/ marrying becky/ Maria/ Ling Ling
It becomes a problem to me when they look down on women who look like the their mother/ grandmother/ aunt/ sister/ cousin etc. THAN IT BECOMES A PROBLEM TO ME🙃
It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of good reering: positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. Blck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desired female qualities. And most men of other races don't marry BW or desire to start a family with BW. it amazes me that Bw can't see that they are the problem. The mental delusion is real.
Exactly, I used to hate interracial relationships but now that I tried myself, it really changed my mind
@@lavonnealexander6936 Do you not think self-hate is at play? The Black man attempts to distance himself from Blackness by dating non-Black. The offspring is usually psychologically confused and the self hating Black man is used as an economic stepping-stone by the non-Black woman
Professional athletes contribute practically nothing positive or beneficial to any society
One serious injury and they're back to having to rely on their mind for an income
Exactly, that's because they think their worth is in their money and who is 9n their arm!
Facts
Nigerian mama said you haven't drove to one practice, cooked one nutritious meal, wrapped no sore ankles, nothing...😂😂
WM getting they money back.
Smart asf
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The black men are just taking our gold diggers lol we are not stressing it, trust me
Stop overly analyze black men’s choices and divest yourselves….making pieces and pieces talking about their dating preferences also fills up their fragile ego. Please let them go where they want to
If by divesting you mean date outside your race, well, lately we've been seeing how the grass isn't at all greener on that side.
@@andrewDaMack divest from toxic black male worship culture. Go where you are celebrated not tolerated and vet all man. Getting deleted or not: we are still gonna date out or decenter men in general. But going back to dusties should never be an option anymore. Please do the same🙏🏾 . Leave black women and our spaces alone and concern yourselves with the snowbunnies. They are happily to deal with dust.
Black women have been doing that forever
@@andrewDaMackSo! The grass is not green on the black side either. Bedbucks all.over
@@TiktokBro154 not in mass non bm arent checking for them in large numbers
I like your commentary and I did subscribe to your Channel. 💕👍
Thank you ❤️
Chioma PLEASE do that athlete insider interview 👏🏾
As a Nigerian, I do in fact believe that African parents are more receptive to their sons dating outside their race than their daughters. I feel like Nigerian parents would even go as far as to be picky about ethnicity when it comes to their daughters ( I’m from Edo state and a lot of our people don’t like the idea of marrying Igbo people 😅🥲). I love you btw 😭💕
I disagree. I know a lot of Nigerian parents who have son’s who dated/married non-Nigerians and they did not like it. Most Nigerian parents want you to be with Nigerians.
It’s so crazy how African parents can be so tribalist and even nationalist when it comes to marrying your own race. But their son dates a European and they don’t mind AT ALL. They only shun you when it’s you marrying out. Be it Asian, Arab, and especially Whyte lol
Nigerians needs to stick with other Nigerians to contain the self hatred among themselves.
Edo, what’s that? Lol
It's the name of a state in Nigeria.🤡
let them omg 😩 we gotta leave this convo in 2024 like it’s tired and they clearly don’t care. this is the only time i feel like we should follow their footsteps and find people regardless of race to love. go where ur appreciated ladies
It's not that you lot aren't trying. Most men of other cultures just don't want y'all either. You're just far too combative and just not very useful. You all lack femininity and men can spot it a mile away. You are told what your major problem is but we gotta leave this conversation in 2024. Like, it's tired and y'all just clearly don't care.
Charleston your dinner is readyyyyy 😆😆
Pleaseeeeee Chioma do a video on the expectations african parents put on there daughter n sons n the partners they bring in
The part about our hypersexual imagery in the media stuck out to me. I think one of the best ways to combat that is to stop giving attention to the hypersexual people they want to put out to represent us. Our attention makes them so much money. Our dollars and our attention is so powerful. When we strip that away from the hypersexual narrative, they will be forced to come up with something new. We need more people at higher levels pushing positive imagery of black people to the forefront.
Exactly 💯
At this point its not even shocking or surprising anymore seeing all of these black athletes with non black women and I don't think black women should care as long as thier not disrespecting black women they can be with who they want alot of black men look at non black women as a prize so it's not even shocking anymore.
Exactly
The same way black women look at non black men as the prize
Thinking that there is no prize in your own community is the equivalent of saying your sister, brother, cousins,... are less then you. This is a problem, you should care why you think like that.
As a black mother struggling to provide the best for your son, you should care why your son is going for someone different from you when success knocks at his door.
@@TiktokBro154 i mean....theres so may perks how could i not?
SOME OF US THINK WHITE GIRLS LOOK BETTER
We don’t even care anymore because we know how it ends in most cases for them 🤷🏽♀️
I honestly don't understand why this is still a topic of conversation in 2024... Maybe it's just me, but I personally really dgaf who anyone is romantically involved with. As long as you aren't bashing/undermining members within your own community, you're allowed to date/marry whoever you so choose. A BM being w/ a WW, or a BW being w/ a WM. Who cares??? Idk. But thank you for this video Chioma. ❤
Wholeheartedly agree. Love is love, and some people(not talking about chioma) be sounding like racist white folks when it comes to this topic.
Same same
It's still a topic of conversation because you're commenting on it. If you really didn't care, you would have scrolled by the video after seeing the title & thumbnail. Follow your own advice & ignore the topic next time since you're so unbothered.
@@reesebloom8093 I'm talking about it because she made a public video referencing interracial dating amongst Black Male Athletes. Idk why you're so bothered by my comment though. And I can actually comment on wtf I want to. So.... Yeah. Have a good day.
@@kamrynherring1048 I’m actually not bothered, but it’s annoying when people pretend not to be bothered when clearly they are. If this isn’t a topic you care about, don’t watch. Simple. Obviously she made the video because people are interested in the topic & this type of video typically gets a lot of views. Duh.
My cousins husband is in the NFL and she said her husband told her that there is a lot of pressure on black athletes not to date their race. A lot of these young athletes do want to date black woman but their coaches and fellow teammates tell them they will go further if they date other races of women. It’s sad
If a man genuinely likes a woman he would date her. This is just an excuse
I hate this because it makes me think majority of these men are zesty. Like why do you care about what ppl think about the person you’re dating? It’s so weird
So you’re telling me black men are so weak that they listen to what the white men tell them but also don’t like the white man. Yeah that’s a Catch-22 and then where is their black fathers to check the coach that’s the real question
Cap
don't believe that mess because it is so typical for the black male athlete to date white or other races besides their trust if the athlete dates their own black women, he would get recognition from the blacks even the ones that don't watch football
One point you made at like 8:00 minutes is the only thing I’m arguing lol. I went to two PWIs (one for two years but it was small and private so I dipped and the next one my last two years (just graduated) which I didn’t realize was a pwi until I GOT there) and at my second one which was a public college which had a lot of diversity to me with me being from upstate SC, I will say, it really is hard to connect with other black people UNLESS you’re in those certain spaces. There aren’t a lot of black kids in my major AT ALL. Even my main gen ed classes with 100+ people I’d be 1 of the maybe 3-6 black people (I was in them classes counting😭)? Most of them being men. And me PERSONALLY I’m into the “weird” stuff, anime, kpop, etc besides the fact that I was a media arts major. So most of the events surrounding that were primarily white or not black. They did have this thing called hip hop Wednesday but honestly I could never go (I always had class LOL for two years straight during that time) but also that just was never my crowd to be in. Like you mentioned more than affluent suburban white washed black kids went to my school and I would see them the few times I went to the other side of campus but for that one event it was definitely a stereotypical crowd (the few times I went around), which just wasn’t for me. Now, I also personally didn’t care about making friends that much at all either I genuinely don’t think I made a single friend in college. Acquaintances? Yes. Friends? No. Met cool people though. So there’s that because there are clubs for black people that we have, you just have to find them. And see if they fit what you want. But most of the time it really is “I’m just surrounded by white people”. I had classes with them all, they were in all the clubs, every dining hall was full of them, like literally. I had to go out of my way if I wanted to be in black spaces. And in the spaces I frequented most of the black people were guys not even girls and you can tell they had a type…….i probably met one singular black guy in my spaces that was very BLACK. Not washed anything and very for the culture with that culture being NOT WHITE.
I'm a graphic design major at GSU, anime isn't even weird anymore, there's a lot of good art and other content in anime, me and my friends really enjoy it. At my school there's the trans white people, the black people, and foreign students I have to say "huh" 15 times when talking to, then there's the "GSU" sweatshirt and basketball shorts NPCs that just waddle around with their airpods in, it's all a blur to me tbh.
Don't get too caught up on appearances because for most guys having a type is like having a favorite transformer, it's there but not important. I know plenty of guys with the "He good at smash bros" haircut who like black women. Most guys aren't most women's type so we just take whoever we get, having a type for a guy is like having a favorite color, it's just something to break the ice with the boys and really doesn't mean anything.
I read Teppu once and now that's my type, and I don't even like Asian girls, as long as they can pull off the look lol
Here’s a good question, how many times has her family been to the house before the draft? If u can count the amount of times on 1 ✋🏾, PROBLEM! Because you’ll see her family lingering in the back row reserved for distant cousins, neighbors, and family friends. Hilarious!
😆 It’s like she’s randomly photoshopped to be on the couch, next to a Nigerian family. It’s so outta place for her to be there. Awkward
She should of sat in the back. You want to stand at the finish line with a Nigerian Mom abi? She will see Pepe 🌶️🌶️🌶️
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@@saraivivii😂RIGHT!?!? Not Today Rebecca!!
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The mom was holding her leg and hugged her later. She seems to know the girl well. But they were excited for their son.
Girl don’t trip on how your parents feel about you dating out. Go with whomever treats you the best. They’ll get over it when you’re living your best life and they start benefiting from it. Trust me.
Yeah, I told my kids (now adults)to find a good person who treats them right, regardless of ethnicity. The look of resolve on my wife’s face when she accepted her son in law & daughter in laws won’t share her comb.
Was that your way of telling us your dating a white male 😂😂😂😂women like you who think it’s a flex to date a white man are hilarious because if nobody knows about it you gonna be sure they do but no one cares please date whoever your heart desires I promise you no one is missing you you know that that’s why you here saying look at me and my white man but you not alone it’s plenty of your kind but good luck to you and your man all the best to the brothers do you remember a black women would never respect you when you are broke don’t share your success to the beautiful black women who are humble and feminine god bless you you have no dog in this fight because you’re living your best life with the man you want
Rejection is protection. ❤
I think this topic keeps coming up because interracial relationships or dating out isn’t talked about enough in black homes. I didn’t start dating out until 25 years old, so glad I did, it’s awesome.
You’re not a wife yet so your experiment isn’t successful.
It doesn’t matter the color of the man’s skin if you aren’t a wife you won’t be one.
Yessss, I love wildheart waves. I think this is a topic to consider conversing more openly.
Why do we keep talking about this? Decenter black men in 2024
Decanter ALL races if men.
And forevermore and more
Y’all be saying that for 80 years. BW are the only group of women that openly detest their men, but then get upset when BM dates another race of women, shit makes no sense 🤷🏽♂️
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@@DashiaaaCope😂
I went to a Big 12 school, and yes, the same story. 😂 Many stories that made the news.
@09:34 "its hurtful how people view our image" really?! When I see SexyRed, promoting stereotype, over sexualized, no education, no class no act... I have to work double to distance myself from what some of us are promoting and build credibility for the corporate world.
Honestly, if they really want to be with that type of woman then let them stay over there.
Let’s not be fools. Blk women take advantage of blk men just like white women do.
You need to critically think and take men serious.
It’s about femininity, submission and playing the role of a wife.
I’ve literally never dated a black man in my life, I spend very little of my time thinking about or worried about what they do. When topics like this pop up, I always feel bad for black women who are exclusively attracted to black men. Explore all options ladies! Go where you’re appreciated. If that’s with a black man, fine but don’t be afraid to try something new. ☺ Great video Chioma!
Yet you are not still MARRIED. You get used, yet not wifed. No man of any othe race wants to wife you. Why is that? Let me guess it's Bm fault that other men of other races don't desire for as a wife. They will have fun with you, but not wife.
Just because we're talking about it doesn't mean we're deeply affected by it or not living our lives. Exploring and so forth.
Let's stop the narrative by talking about something - means were butt hurt. It's just a convo on recent events
@@thelovelylucinda Literally not what I said at all, but anyone can twist a narrative to be offended. I meant no harm and never once did I say anyone was butthurt. I shared MY PERSONAL experiences as far as not thinking about black men nor caring what they do and said I feel bad for the women who are exclusively attracted to black men because of the way a lot of them act towards us, that’s all. If it doesn’t apply let it fly.
@@mzspargowith a pfp like that, do you honestly think bm is losing sleep over you? Seriously lol ur a 4 at best
You say explore all options, but you explored everything except a black man. There's nothing wrong with only liking men that look like you. Just like there's nothing wrong with being in an interracial relationship. However, proclaiming to the world that you never dated a black man as a black woman, like its a badge of honor, is weird and quite ridiculous.
I’m Nigerian and my boyfriend is Hispanic. Although he’s not African he, to a certain extent, can understand the immigrant struggle and also the POC struggle that I didn’t really see White or Black American men see. Mainly the immigrant mindset and creating something from the ground up in a sense. My mom does love my bf but my dad isn’t sure that I’m serious about him for whatever reason so it’s a bit hard to navigate
How do you explain telling bm you don't need them to having a problem who they date and marry?
That's an excellent question that they will never answer.
These athletes choose bad mates in general. These yt women are the most infamous ones. They play the long game and take everything at the end. Not just from you but your family and legacy. These dudes are idiots 🙄
Thank you!
Most intelligent analysis I saw so far
I’m happy for em take everything 😂
It's not just black athletes, Bm in general are DIVESTING from BW. Women of othe races, exude qualities of positive energy, femininity, grace, congeniality, peacefulness, loving spirit, nurturing, appreciative, respectful, morally grounded, selfless, chasity, loyalty, cooperation, etc. Any, man of any race, DESIRES those qualities in the woman he chooses to date and or marry. bBlck culture, does not teach or condition BW to EXUDE the aformentioned desires female qualities.
Your bitter asf
My black father paid my white mother alimony for more than 30 years.... after she cheated on and divorced him. He dated many women after that and at one point I asked him why he never dated black women. His response is that they're golddiggers 😂😂😂😂 anyway, I stopped dating black men many years ago.
That mama was like na keep your hands this your self
Word , she lucky she got to even sit on the couch with momma and grandma.
From the looks of it the girlfriend might as well not have been there; no one was paying her any mind. Her boyfriend didn't look like he was even paying attention to her. 🤷♀️😳
@SANDOSMTy’all always bring queen nickis name in everything!! 🤣 y’all are obsessed with nicki minaj !! OBSESSED !!😆
i dont understand the hate for her. The real reason yall dislike her is cuz shes white. She did literally nothing wrong. I wish black women would stop this bitterment and stop asking men to love you....we deserve love but hating on a random woman isnt the way...
@@courtneypalmer53It was quite akward to look at. I wonder if they've even been together long enough or she is just uncomfortable being there...
As a Nigerian American, I think most parents regard their children dating interracially/non-Nigerians the same way, regardless of their child's gender. I think the biggest factor for whether or not they will support the relationship is the age of their child and the earning potential of the person they're dating. When my brother was in college, he was dating a black American girl from his school. She was pretty and polite and my parents actually liked her. However, I remember walking in on my mom having a private conversation with my brother, where she was begging him not to get serious with her. Had my brother been in his 30s and still single, my mom would've been begging him to marry that same girl. I'm 40 and I've chosen to remain single because I'm not a relationship person; I can not have a single conversation with my parents without them begging me to settle down with someone. At this point, they don't care about race or gender, they just want me to settle down.
Black women are raised to be successful because ( with the exception of black migrant families from places like Nigeria, Ghana , etc) black women's mommas have experienced being abandoned by their men, having to provide for their men , being the breadwinners, etc. I remember growing up and starting to pay attentions to what black couples look like , Because I am West African cocoa melenated, I first noticed it in the black TV shows ( The darker girl was the one the guys didn't want ) . Then I payed attention to black couples in REAL LIFE . I mostly only seen the mixed looking lighter skinned black or biracial women in these relationships; However when I did see the black girl was darker, she tend to be the one in the relationship that had more tangible things to offer . She would be the one to own the house , she would be the one with more followers , she would be the one who make more money or a prestigious family, she would be the one who just had more . And till this day I still see that same dynamic in black relationships 98% Of the time when the woman is darker complected, Even in this video when she showed the pics of the athletes and their "black "wives, a lot of those black women Looked biracial( which kinda proves it's a lot less about how black women act and more about how black women LOOK , cause there are more dark and brown skinned black women in the world than mixed looking). . So anyone who is honest with themselves and see this reality will teach their daughters (who won't pass any brown paper bag tests) , to focus on being able tp take care of and provide for herself , and getting that degree and career sorted out before finding that man . Because just look around, how many black women ( that look like they have 2 black parents let alone that have dark skin) are really seen out there being taken care of , provided for and married by any man ESPECIALLY not a black man . There aren't even that many, right now . All we see is the man messing around with black women until he get some better opportunities then his taste in women miraculously become lighter and whiter looking . Knowing this why would anyone teach their black daughter to focus on anything besides them grades and education. Them other women KNOW they're liked and loved by black men . Wherher those men are rich or poor . They're not worried about " when he gets on he'll leave your ass for a white girl" THEY ARE THAT white girl!!! They're not worried about it . ! Black women should worry about " growing with a man " Cause it's more likely that he won't be around when he does get his come up. Black women are taught differently because we are observing the world , and white women are taught differently ALSO because they're observing the world .
They were also raised to have a hatred of men, be raging feminists, and incapable of being in a relationship.
Masculinity is en epidemic in the bulk female community. That’s the reason. Get over it. Y’all need to focus on being a wife as much as getting a degree. You’re over thinking it and blaming everyone except the person in the mirror.