what to do when you don’t know what to do

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  • Sharing with yall some stuff I do when I don’t know what to do with my life. This video is for me as it is for anyone who needs it :)
    Thank you all for 2k🩵

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  • @JayPlayToonZ
    @JayPlayToonZ 5 днів тому +18

    Honestly, I feel like being an adult you get so many existential crisises because it is like ever since I graduated hs I feel like I am constantly questioning my life choices and existences that its like damn, it scares me how this change as we are not in school anymore.
    Edit: One thing I learned as an adult is that nothing makes sense and that we should go with the flow, its crazy how one moment I was in school the next I am an adult with a job its crazy. I have been doing things that make me happy and also trying to better myself as I get older.

    • @mattcbo
      @mattcbo 2 дні тому +2

      Definitely not your fault, try looking at the bigger picture. Only dead fish go with the flow, things do make sense. You're just not taught about it. Learn about the systems we all live under. Learn about different social classes 😅. It doesn't have to be this way. Some are definitely benefiting, do we matter? What about everyone else? Don't they matter? Learning sociology / philosophy can really help you understand better. You're not alone, I see my younger self in your comment. Best wishes fellow human

  • @wes_rj225
    @wes_rj225 4 дні тому +6

    Your rants genuinely make me feel a sense of happiness and bring me back to myself. I really appreciate your videos, thank you for being so genuine and putting out your positive energy 🫶

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  4 дні тому

      @@wes_rj225 Wes!!! thank you for being here and watching my rants!!! What a sweet comment :) I’m so grateful 🩵

  • @joelharris4399
    @joelharris4399 5 днів тому +7

    Alex, teeming with existential angst, yet again. Buddhists have an understanding of balance rooted in detachment, letting go of material things, letting go of labels past and present, letting go of identifiers we cling to, including the noise of thoughts as a preliminary step to "enlightenment."

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  5 днів тому

      @@joelharris4399 Also letting go for the desire of enlightenment too, as that is also a sort of attachment. It is an unnerving and never ending journey to figuring out just how one does that.

    • @joelharris4399
      @joelharris4399 5 днів тому

      @@AnLittleAlex Try not to think of it as a final answer but as an opening🙏

    • @joelharris4399
      @joelharris4399 5 днів тому

      Think of yourself by the poolside🧘‍♀️

  • @rex_8618
    @rex_8618 3 дні тому +1

    What an interesting perspective! Do the thing that you hate and you know you won't do it again. Life is indeed a process of elimination!

  • @mattcbo
    @mattcbo 2 дні тому +1

    Society definitely does program us. Societal forces shape us all.

  • @yikesreviews
    @yikesreviews 2 дні тому

    "I'm just trying to figure it out!" Thank you Alex for making this video.

  • @Lunanaranja96
    @Lunanaranja96 4 дні тому +1

    Great topic! I always feel more introspective this time of year. Trying to find that balance of slowing down while not letting myself ruminate too much

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  4 дні тому

      @@Lunanaranja96 I get the same way, it’s a hard balancing act for sure. I often find myself feeling guilty for it.

  • @joelyons3713
    @joelyons3713 4 дні тому +3

    Those garden bricks are quite nice!

  • @tennotsukai87
    @tennotsukai87 5 днів тому +3

    Thank you for making these videos. Your authenticity brings a valuable and unique perspective.

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  4 дні тому

      @@tennotsukai87 that is so kind, thank you 🙏

  • @Ale0500053D
    @Ale0500053D 3 дні тому

    this is one of the best videos i've ever saw, not just saying it for the sake of saying it, i just really liked it and it meant something to me, which doesn't happen very often. thank you for that

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  3 дні тому

      @@Ale0500053D that is so kind wow, thank you so much💕🙏

  • @TheWeekendYogurt
    @TheWeekendYogurt 5 днів тому +5

    I ask my ancestors for help and hope they’re listening

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  5 днів тому +2

      @@TheWeekendYogurt I do the same. :) I like to say that I talk to the skies and hope for a sign.

    • @TheWeekendYogurt
      @TheWeekendYogurt 4 дні тому

      You ever get any answers?

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  4 дні тому +1

      @@TheWeekendYogurt Yeah, sometimes :)

    • @te9591
      @te9591 2 дні тому

      ​@AnLittleAlex what about talking to the earth.

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  2 дні тому

      @@te9591 done that, not as effective

  • @timepass-sc6jp
    @timepass-sc6jp 4 дні тому +3

    How to Master the Ancient Art of Doing Absolutely Nothing - Now in 4K!

  • @Vse_yob
    @Vse_yob 5 днів тому +2

    We are all fulfilling our meaning. Some people may look like they’re succeeding more than others but we are all succeeding. Bottom line is we will all be dead and nobody will remember anything.

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  4 дні тому

      @@Vse_yob what a scary yet freeing thought that we will all die and no one will remember anything

  • @nurodijak
    @nurodijak 4 дні тому

    Calm, bright, witty and f-word respectful. That's you. I'm grateful for your lines of reminding thoughts. It's good sometimes to hear it from afar. Makes the one's resembling here fresh and new. Many times we block our own thoughts due to life 's noise. You break the noise. I can hear the music. Hope you have a great day too!🙂

  • @JonCarlo_
    @JonCarlo_ 4 дні тому

    Just keep it moving. That’s how I go through life, with ups or downs. I just ‘Keep it moving’. Nothing more to be done, do what you can and enjoy what you got.
    Hope you guys all find peace and live a great life.

  • @indigosun6561
    @indigosun6561 5 днів тому +1

    Uggh i feel the same way sometimes,like im trying to start my own clothing brand,sometimes i just stare at the wall like why am i really doing this,and do i really want to do it.

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  5 днів тому +1

      @@indigosun6561 That sounds sick!!! I feel like hitting that wall is part of the creative process. You got this.

    • @indigosun6561
      @indigosun6561 5 днів тому

      @@AnLittleAlex thanks

  • @grungyrogue
    @grungyrogue 3 дні тому

    The world is currently burning down around me and I don't know if I'll have a job to go to come Monday, but I am getting closer to my next video being done. So I got that going for me, which is nice.

  • @KristopherStidd
    @KristopherStidd 5 днів тому +1

    Thank you for the video Alex. You are the best. So elegant. ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊

  • @davefengler4266
    @davefengler4266 4 дні тому

    As an INTP, I too am always asking WHY! But, the difference is, I'm asking the WHY about how things work, how to improve things. More mechanical, than emotional, since I'm fairly emotionally clueless. I know some INTP's can be very philosophical, but I'm more concerned with things that can possibly have some control over. I also have a fairly nihilistic view of the universe, so why worry about stuff that is beyond my control?
    It's very interesting how everyone has a difference view of themselves, others, and the world around us. But some of us try to keep that sphere of influence small enough to not lose ourselves with things that cannot be controlled.
    My view is probably a result of being married for 32 years to a narcissitic woman who thinks she should control everything and everyone. I do what I can to stay outside of her sphere, and keep control of myself and my sanity, as simple as I might be.

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  4 дні тому +1

      Interesting to know you’re an INTP, as I am an INFJ. My Introverted Intuition takes me to places I can’t quite grasp. There’s a world of patterns that exist and my job is to make sense of them all. Will I succeed? I’m not entirely too sure.
      You’re right how it’s interesting that people are so vastly different. And we’re all trying our best to

    • @davefengler4266
      @davefengler4266 4 дні тому

      @@AnLittleAlex Look up Personality Junkie. He's an INTP. He's written a couple of great books on Typing and the INTP. But, his wife in an INFJ. They've also written a book on the INFJ, which I haven't read, but I assume is also great. And the website is a Highly Recommended resource on all things MBTI!
      From what I've read, the INFJ is a very puzzling type, both to others and themselves. Which would explain all of your confusion of what you're doing, or where you're going.

    • @davefengler4266
      @davefengler4266 3 дні тому

      @@AnLittleAlex Hmmm... My reply got deleted?? I'll try again. Check out Personality Junkie. He's an INTP. He's written a couple of great books on Typing and the INTP. But, his wife in an INFJ. They've also written a book on the INFJ, which I haven't read, but I assume is also great. And the website is a Highly Recommended resource on all things MBTI!
      From what I've read, the INFJ is a very puzzling type, both to others and themselves. Which would explain all of your confusion of what you're doing, or where you're going.

  • @zowillibrord
    @zowillibrord 4 дні тому

    Thanks Alex.

  • @badnewsburt9675
    @badnewsburt9675 3 дні тому

    First the body, then the mind

  • @fadedtheCJ
    @fadedtheCJ 5 днів тому +1

    this a damn good title, i usually try to shrug these off with "well why not?"

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  5 днів тому

      @@fadedtheCJ Ty!!! And so true actually, why the hell not??

  • @LiamODonovan-l6e
    @LiamODonovan-l6e 5 днів тому +1

    You are an awesome genuine person you are always interesting love your videos life never really makes sense. Weas human beings just try to make whatever sense of life

  • @seanotoole9840
    @seanotoole9840 4 дні тому

    Great video, Miss Alex! You nailed it on the head.

  • @GregMacDougall-m3n
    @GregMacDougall-m3n 4 дні тому

    Follow your heart/intuition/ human instinct.
    ''The ultimate goal in life is to love yourself unconditionally''.
    Said by Lucinda Bassett.

  • @wes_rj225
    @wes_rj225 4 дні тому

    I'm just a creature doing my best

  • @yugimuto4612
    @yugimuto4612 5 днів тому +1

    its a blessing to see a girl with short cut fingernails in this generation.

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  4 дні тому +2

      @@yugimuto4612 brb going to go get my nails done 💅

    • @BethyOsSpongebob
      @BethyOsSpongebob 3 дні тому

      🤙💗 best response​@@AnLittleAlex

  • @DynamicVlogs69
    @DynamicVlogs69 4 дні тому

    Love you Alex and your philosophy videos ❤

  • @youtuber-cc8sx
    @youtuber-cc8sx 4 дні тому

    OMG everything you say is too fkn real

  • @timepass-sc6jp
    @timepass-sc6jp 4 дні тому

    Maybe it's time to start a podcast! You can share all the moments where you still don’t know what to do-but now with a cool intro jingle

  • @TheWeekendYogurt
    @TheWeekendYogurt 4 дні тому +1

    Did you ever read The Alchemist by Paul Coelho?

    • @te9591
      @te9591 2 дні тому

      That book title gets mentioned a lot.

  • @andresdelcampo6733
    @andresdelcampo6733 4 дні тому

    I'm just gonna have fun with what is left of my life. Beer every evening 🌖

  • @FixItOnTheWay
    @FixItOnTheWay День тому

    6:58 Action is the answer to overthinking.

  • @livelife6214
    @livelife6214 3 дні тому

    Shit I have Covid I can’t do what I want to do I miss the gym rn

  • @youtuber-cc8sx
    @youtuber-cc8sx 4 дні тому

    You are way too real for us mfrs

  • @Darkendlezzz
    @Darkendlezzz 4 дні тому

    You can’t make sense of it all because it’s all unintelligent design. Humans have optimism bias and are constantly running away from the reality which is, your parents sentenced you to death. That why you’re here. This is not a Disney movie, this is a nightmare

  • @youtuber-cc8sx
    @youtuber-cc8sx 4 дні тому

    Im drunk and I can say 100% certain you are for real

  • @youtuber-cc8sx
    @youtuber-cc8sx 4 дні тому

    kanye west - fried

  • @Gataroes
    @Gataroes 5 днів тому

    inspirational alex

  • @Sierra-Whiskey22
    @Sierra-Whiskey22 4 дні тому

    Had to drop a vid to get back over 2k, I see you lol

  • @youtuber-cc8sx
    @youtuber-cc8sx 2 дні тому

    Test

  • @Samir1777R
    @Samir1777R 3 дні тому

    shotgun ?

  • @juicedope2669
    @juicedope2669 5 днів тому +5

    i deserve credit for this video idea but instead you just ban me off your streams? i see how it is

    • @Sierra-Whiskey22
      @Sierra-Whiskey22 5 днів тому

      Wasn't me

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  5 днів тому +8

      @@juicedope2669 nope. 1. I didn’t ban u, 2. you deserve no credit because I didn’t steal anything you said and this topic wasn’t inspired by you. 3. You’ve been disrespectful in streams so I might keep you banned.

    • @seanotoole9840
      @seanotoole9840 4 дні тому

      ​@@AnLittleAlex Doesn't take any shit lol

    • @matthewdouglas2373
      @matthewdouglas2373 4 дні тому

      If you have so many ideas why didn’t you make your own video?

  • @mattcbo
    @mattcbo 2 дні тому

    Can we really do anything we want? Some people have different starting points. This video isn't very deep. More of just a positive influence. I would look forwards traditional education. Once you understand better you can then help us change the world.

    • @AnLittleAlex
      @AnLittleAlex  2 дні тому

      @@mattcbo You’re right, many have different starting points. We can discuss the notion of free-will all we want, and whether that exists or not. We can discuss how the circumstances that we are born under affects us in a variety of different ways. Or how it doesn’t matter at all.
      My intention isn’t to be “deep” as deep to each person means and looks like different things. There is no point in ruminating on how the world has affected us, when all we have control over is what we can do in the moment. Whether you believe in that or not is a different story.
      My hope was just to provide a different perspective or a more approachable and hands on approach to dealing with anguish. I’m not here to act like I know more than anyone else, nor to look down on them. Seems like that’s a common thing amongst those who believe they know better.
      What is there to understand from traditional education that can help us change the world? I’m not sure what you mean.

  • @youtuber-cc8sx
    @youtuber-cc8sx 4 дні тому

    Everyone fake AF b