It sure is reassuring that as one idigo/highly sensitive person, I'm not alone in this world. It seems like more and more that we are coming out of hiding simply by using you-tube!
I read about 40 books in the past 8 years all geared towards psychology to "FIX MYSELF" this one video could have saved 4 years worth of time. But hey, I managed to figure it out....eventually. And you are spot on with your understanding. In a creepily perfect way, which makes your videos a little daunting to watch.
My mother is polish born and my father was an old man, who hustled for money (both divorced). I was brought up with two different religious backgrounds and therefore I challenged and questioned things. At age 11 my father died, my mother remarried to a lovely man however he continues to challenge my perspectives. All of this has resulted in conflict, as a consequence I don't feel understood by my parental environment. For a very long time I have felt like I am something, but I didn't know what this concept was. Recently, I have come across the term "indigo" which has resonated with my true self. This video has certainly validated some of my life long emotions♥ thank you for this, keep it up!
Your framework on loving others because of the things we struggle to own inside of ourselves resonated so much with my journey. Thank you for sharing that. It's a difficult experience to put words to and it's comforting to know it's a response that other people have had with similar background experiences.
I feel like you have read my last journal entry. I can't believe it...you are speaking my inner soul. Feel so depleted and alone. Trying to get back to myself. Thank you so much.
I adore your videos as they help me to understand my husband. It is very hard sometimes to find the right words when he is feeling down. I love him unconditionally and want to be able to connect with him whenever he feels he cannot breathe anymore. Do you think you could make a video for people with Indigo partners? Any tips of how to find the right words and support for them? Thank you!!
Hi Nicole! What a great idea! I will definitely do a video for the partners of an Indigo. It can be challenging for sure and with some helpful tools it can bring more harmony into the relationship and more connection between him and himself and between you and him. Big Hugs Xx
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I'm only nineteen,(stlll so young) and partly because of you sharing all these wonderful things, I woke up. For my whole childhood (I'm saying 8 till 18) I was wondering what was wrong with me. I became sick when I was just 13 and I needed to recover from an infection in my bowels. When I was 'recovered' I had such a hard time getting back into school and I felt so alone. I just couldn't do it. I always thought of it as something that had to do with me not having enough stamina and willpower. But I was unaware of stress and the fact that I unintentionally avoided going into situations that were giving me anxiety and the feeling like I needed to do something that I really didn't feel good about. in 6 years I had seen 4 psychologist and many many doctors. I really wanted them to 'fix' what was wrong with me and why I couldn't fit into the normal system. The thought of working for 40 hours a week just to make money scared the hell out of me. I became so anxious that a psychologist diagnosed me with GAD (Generalised Anxiety Disorder). I learned to ignore my intuition, because if I listened to it (I don't want to do al these 'exercises' my psychologist told me to do) my psychologist said that I was 'avoiding'. Now I know, partly because of you, that I need to stop valueing other people's opinions, especially the one's with 'autority', and that I really need to listen to my inner voice. It will tell me what I really need, instead of what other people think is best for me. Thankyou so much. Keep on going with what you do. It's wonderful and it inspired me to think about my future and what I want to do in this world. Muchos love
Wow! I read your reply & it took me back to the age of 18. I'm 44 now. I can't tell you what I've done with that time. I too was in the hospital at age 18. I was taken in for severe abdominal pain. I couldn't walk, talk the pain was so bad. I had every test imagineable. I grew up in a narcisstic household. I could never live up to my mother & fathers expectations. I too was forced to see a psych at an early age. That did more harm than good. I started cutting at 8? 10? At 18 after getting 100mg of Demerol every 3hrs I found a new friend. All the docs said I was bipolar & had an anxiety disorder. They started me on klonopin. My body is now addicted to that & cant function without it. Don't take it! Read about what it does to you. That's what I would tell my 18 yo self. Take Care. We're not the problem. We were just acting our age. Your so lucky you've had that ah ha moment so young. My intuition saved my life. Saved me from beatings, you name it. Growing up in constant double binds does one complete mind F to your brain!! I still ? Everything. I've had to go no contact just to try to get better & stay on track. Keep searching & never deny that intuition inside!!
Your intuition is so underestimated in the western world nowadays. I'm really glad that you also became aware of the power it has to guide you where you need to be. Take care and thanks for the advise 💕✌
I am SO happy to hear this sweetheart!!! I am so glad I get to be a support for you on your journey. It is truly about us realizing there is nothing wrong with us, we are just here to do a different mission then the generations before us. We are here to listen to our "wise guide inside" and bring in a new way of being. Keep in touch! I would love to hear more about your experiences Xx
Lisanne Zinger It is isn't it? Some don't have any at all. Your so lucky!! Keep up the amazing work. I'm always here if you need anything. Take care of you xxx
Hi Candace. Thank you for this great message, you made some brilliant points for thought. I have a message I would like to share with you and everyone too. This may sound a bit 'out there' but I believe, very important. If you sing to the Sun of love and thanks, the Sun will answer you with stronger healing rays. It is truly miraculous, divine. The more you do, the more you will see, our life giving, living light. Thank you again. With light and love always🎵🌞💖
I need to watch this video at least once a week. Very well done Candace and thank you for your work! I'm definitely going to get your workbook as soon as I can (I'm in the middle of trying to get two new businesses off the ground and I'm about at the point of eating cat food right now). ;-)
I came to the same conclusion about me picking my parents for they same reason you said! Hearing you say it teared me up. Thank you for making this video 😘❤️✌🏽️🌎
You are awesome! I am so glad I found your channel. Deep truth, hope, wisdom, enlightenment. Please keep the videos coming. As an indigo trying to navigate through this life, these videos are immensely enriching. Much love, truth, and light to us all!
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This is what my psychologist and I have mapped out over the last year and you just summed it up in ten minutes. Thank you for showing me that there are others just like me! xxx
Hit the nail on the head! It explained a lot about contrasts even with other Indigos, parents, relatives, and society at large. It also made me see, what decisions to make as to whether I stay awake or not. I have lived long enough to see the abuse of Indigos and blame by the society at large, as well as, the destructive nature of not fitting in or searching for what one is here to do in life. The term tribe is an interesting one, a Native American term, with many definitions and usages, not some for the highest good. I would like to hear your expanded view on this term. I like your videos, I will refer them to other. and purchase your workbook. May it not just sit on the shelf like the others. Namaste. Matthias.
I don't know whether I am indigo, or not but I am positively sure that your videos are so inspirational and helpful. I support you in every way. Thank you for your work. Many love
Hi So nice to meet you. I like what you put up-it opens up to a more inner awareness about life. I commented on another video, but that add/hd you like to talk about interfered and I forgot which video it was haha. The distractions of the superior mind is something I am used to. I want to also point out how since I am an HSP and a twin, I have that extra esp thing going on with a more sensitive central nervous system-so I am more aware of sensory perceptions much more easily in my environments. The more negative, the more of an emotional sponge I can become picking up on others shit-NOT mine even though those Narcs would like to blame shit on me. The contrast issue you bring up is so spot on-especially in family situations. I am not my parents or anyone else really in my family (except the similarity with my twin) and I have been shown what I am not and who I truly am at my core.
Yes I love this! It is SO IMPORTANT for highly sensitive people to practice strong boundaries on a regular basis for this reason. We can often times get enmeshed with the issues and feelings of others. I will be posting a video later today about empaths and codependency (sponge) and how the two can get intertwined if we are not careful. It sounds like you are doing a great job and you are very aware of the narc stuff. The stronger our boundaries are the more our sense of self is solidified and the less we are affected by others stuff ;-) Xx
Thank you for your wonderful insite. I have just recently focused on eating healthy foods. One thing I say to myself and also to others as well is that I Am Love. I feel it deep within. It has become part of my universe. I am an Indigo. I have always had a warrior soul. May God bless you
I love your videos Candace! So insightful and very real. I feel like you're talking directly and specifically to me- even though you have no clue who I am ;) Thank you for allowing HSPs to have an integrated space and purpose in this world. Wish I could have known about this when I was a child or teen- or even in my 20s as it could have helped me make decisions for myself... But I'm enjoying learning and making nurturing choices moving forward thanks to your work.
I hear you and I wish I could have had it as a teen as well! That is exactly why I do what I do, to empower the healers of this world so that we can be the change. Thank you for appreciating my work, it means a lot! You are doing great ;-) keep in touch Xx
Ooooooh my god, who are you? Everything you say resonates with me! You help me put words where i have been lost! Thank you! I was lead to you! I really was!! This is crazyyyyyyy!!!! I send you lots of love and prosperity!
Hello Candace :) Thank you for this lovely video. I truly long to rediscover my inner voice and the guidance from within. Your videos are so inspiring and my watch list contains over 50 of them which I have watched and will rewatch. What I enjoy about your message the most is the authentic way in which you bring it across and the calm and humble energy you give off. Get well soon and lots of warm love from Germany.
Keep this going! I'm glad I found someone like you I can finally relate with. - Camille from the Philippines :) Thinking of buying your book and joining your lab and course. Take care!
Discovered you recently and I'm loving your videos . I absolutely relate and I just purchased the work book . I'm looking for my tribe as well, I'm going through this process of daily mediation and getting rid of old beliefs and trying to heal old wounds. I I feel like I am evolving and I am in a relationship with a man who is a little narcissistic and I am sometimes , as well , both our parents relationships resemble each other so we somehow are similar accept that I want to better myself and he is too stubborn and I question if he will catch up to me as I continue raising my vibration. Do you have any advice ? Much love ❤🙏😊🌟
Not So Fancy Nancy Sorry didn't mean to imply that there wasn't and still there isn't between me and my ex, but I started to learn that I wasn't expanding myself and I was holding him back to his own lessons. And in my case once I did separate lots of things started to change that couldn't change while we were together. Lots of Love.
Zalindalor EyesOpen no don't worry , but the thought has crossed my mind many times in the 10 years of our relationship. Every time I consider the possibility that we may be better apart , we end up having such deep loving quality time together . It's like I have 1 toe out the door if he gets out of line, lol but at the same time I see a full life with him . Anyway time will tell . 😉
Yes, I was with him for almost half my life and they last toe in the door was in someways the most heartfelt and I think I fell harder than the first time. Than that next toe out was a full get out of my life and I'm not looking back. But him being the only soul connection in most of my life that wasn't possiable ether. Now when his energy pops back into my life and I do mean pops.... I try to take those feelings and say I know how I want that next soul connection to feel and yet I now know what isn't healthly and I use it as a template. He has recently tried to return back into our lifes. My daughter and mines but not the way loving person should or would, more so at the end of his ropes. I think it's the universe saying what I once thought I needed so deeply was only there as much as I needed it. If that makes any sense. ;)
Hi Candace! I discovered your channel a week or so ago and I love your videos! I do feel some of a connection between all this and I am a high sensitive person, but I don't know if I'm an Indigo? I do feel the power en the urge to change the world and I've always felt like I didn't fit in. Also I can see auras and everytime I look at my own aura, I do see a litte indigo/purplish colour, could this indicate something as well? I have an issue that I just can't deal with, and that is that I really take over problems of other people and it really feels like they're mine. Do you have any tips for that? Thank you so much for your videos, lots of love xx ♥ (:
I am super new to all of this...I have gotten rid of the toxic people in my life. Currently I do not have anyone who is supportive of me yet. How do I connect with the right people?
Thanks Canadace. Yea I'm blocked. I'm stuck. I don't want to eat. Why? I was my moms patient. She was the hero. I received love as a child only when I was sick. My brain learned to get love I needed to be sick. The fear is if I do get better will my hb still be here? Who else will abandon me? I'm bod.. an indigo & highly sensitive. I have yoirnworkbook. I'll need to start that.
Candace van Dell Yes Candace your right. I've been working for two years now. I'll e mail you. Thank you for your reply. My trauma therapist & I speak about your channel a lot in our sessions. What has NOT killed me will only make me stronger soon. Blessings to you.
i'm really indigo person...people not understand me but i know they are i can read mind from them from reactive from their body,even from their text,their lie or they just come and go i also know,i'm really sensitive person....once time if i listen any video about indigo,just 75% i feel understand...i stupid in high school but i can live how to survive,25 years now i alone,fall in love always failed,i to much care my past friend..i'm professional about to know background person,i ever dream about my future...
I feel lile I have all the characteristics to be an indigo, but i dont think im special or I feel like is my narcissism telling me that actually i am special but im not lol im confused.
OMG yes my husband and kid's are so dominant my doctor told me I had a body of a 8 year old woman cuz all I did was give for the past twenty-seven years to my husband and children and I'm only 47 💕 🧘❤️
Although I'd like to say that's all my highly sensitivity, you definitely sound congested lol but thank you so much for your eye opening videos! I'm finally open to the idea of my instincts not meaning I'm just crazy and I've been discovering myself through the help of you!
Sorry, I’m not accepting this story line anymore. Not accepting, “ I chose “ to come into a family full of pain/suffering & chaos so that “ I could be a beacon of light in the world., “ and meanwhile I’m so deluded that I don’t know when to eat, drink, pee, rest, trust, sleep, basically function in ways that allow me to particulate in a competitive market. How long will this fairytale be peddled out ? It is NOT a gift to be born into these situations where we are not allowed to express ourselves, not allowed to form our own boundaries, and learn how to live with adult fears at the age of 2 & going forward. ~ It is an unholy nightmare. STOP TELLING PEOPLE “ITS A GIFT “... If anything it’s a CURSE. This early childhood patterning sets the life path to continue on indefinitely in terrible heartache & unimaginable pain & suffering. ~ The best way “ to wake up “, or actually to grow & develop is to live in a comfortable, safe , loving & nourishing environment. Those children, 99% go on to have lovely, beautiful, successful lives. They marry well. And have lovely children. The success is passed down through generations. ~ The opposite is also true.Pain & suffering get passed down through generations. ~ There is nothing noble or gifted about it. It is a tragedy of incredible proportions . Stop trying to decorate it like a fun theme park that we all should be laughing & cheering about. It’s like making fun of people who are born crippled or handicapped, and calling them “ gifted”.. Don’t do that. It’s inconsiderate.. 😕
"You are not broken and there s nothing to fix,
You are hurting and there is something to heal"
(7min 30sec mark)
💗💖💕🌹🌷
You're doing a beautiful thing here. Thank you
"You are not broken, and there's nothing to fix. You are hurting and there's something to heal" wow.
Probably one of the most important videos on youtube. If everyone understood this, this world would be a paradise.
Ryan Fowler completely agree.
Ryan Fowler thank you so much!!! I'm trying to spread the word :-))
It sure is reassuring that as one idigo/highly sensitive person, I'm not alone in this world. It seems like more and more that we are coming out of hiding simply by using you-tube!
YES!!
Candace van Dell I'm real glad that people like yourself are doing videos to connect with other old souls. It encourages me to do the same!
yes yes!!
indeed, we are not close but you are not alone
No one can complete you only self love will . I feel very empowered 💜 thank YOU
I read about 40 books in the past 8 years all geared towards psychology to "FIX MYSELF" this one video could have saved 4 years worth of time.
But hey, I managed to figure it out....eventually.
And you are spot on with your understanding. In a creepily perfect way, which makes your videos a little daunting to watch.
My mother is polish born and my father was an old man, who hustled for money (both divorced). I was brought up with two different religious backgrounds and therefore I challenged and questioned things. At age 11 my father died, my mother remarried to a lovely man however he continues to challenge my perspectives. All of this has resulted in conflict, as a consequence I don't feel understood by my parental environment. For a very long time I have felt like I am something, but I didn't know what this concept was. Recently, I have come across the term "indigo" which has resonated with my true self. This video has certainly validated some of my life long emotions♥ thank you for this, keep it up!
Your framework on loving others because of the things we struggle to own inside of ourselves resonated so much with my journey. Thank you for sharing that. It's a difficult experience to put words to and it's comforting to know it's a response that other people have had with similar background experiences.
We are all in this together ;-))
Yes, Candace your so right on everything you talked about in this video.
I’ll share this one with any other empath who will benefit from it.
I feel like you have read my last journal entry. I can't believe it...you are speaking my inner soul. Feel so depleted and alone. Trying to get back to myself. Thank you so much.
Awesomeness, make sense. I'll save a watch again
Mahalo sister 💞🥰🙏💞👏💞
Wow, this video and the message is so beautiful.Thank you so much for making this video.
I adore your videos as they help me to understand my husband. It is very hard sometimes to find the right words when he is feeling down. I love him unconditionally and want to be able to connect with him whenever he feels he cannot breathe anymore. Do you think you could make a video for people with Indigo partners? Any tips of how to find the right words and support for them? Thank you!!
Hi Nicole! What a great idea! I will definitely do a video for the partners of an Indigo. It can be challenging for sure and with some helpful tools it can bring more harmony into the relationship and more connection between him and himself and between you and him. Big Hugs Xx
just tell him you are with him no matter what and he will outmatically feel better trust me
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I'm only nineteen,(stlll so young) and partly because of you sharing all these wonderful things, I woke up. For my whole childhood (I'm saying 8 till 18) I was wondering what was wrong with me. I became sick when I was just 13 and I needed to recover from an infection in my bowels. When I was 'recovered' I had such a hard time getting back into school and I felt so alone. I just couldn't do it. I always thought of it as something that had to do with me not having enough stamina and willpower. But I was unaware of stress and the fact that I unintentionally avoided going into situations that were giving me anxiety and the feeling like I needed to do something that I really didn't feel good about. in 6 years I had seen 4 psychologist and many many doctors. I really wanted them to 'fix' what was wrong with me and why I couldn't fit into the normal system. The thought of working for 40 hours a week just to make money scared the hell out of me. I became so anxious that a psychologist diagnosed me with GAD (Generalised Anxiety Disorder). I learned to ignore my intuition, because if I listened to it (I don't want to do al these 'exercises' my psychologist told me to do) my psychologist said that I was 'avoiding'. Now I know, partly because of you, that I need to stop valueing other people's opinions, especially the one's with 'autority', and that I really need to listen to my inner voice. It will tell me what I really need, instead of what other people think is best for me.
Thankyou so much. Keep on going with what you do. It's wonderful and it inspired me to think about my future and what I want to do in this world.
Muchos love
Wow! I read your reply & it took me back to the age of 18. I'm 44 now. I can't tell you what I've done with that time. I too was in the hospital at age 18. I was taken in for severe abdominal pain. I couldn't walk, talk the pain was so bad. I had every test imagineable. I grew up in a narcisstic household. I could never live up to my mother & fathers expectations. I too was forced to see a psych at an early age. That did more harm than good. I started cutting at 8? 10? At 18 after getting 100mg of Demerol every 3hrs I found a new friend. All the docs said I was bipolar & had an anxiety disorder. They started me on klonopin. My body is now addicted to that & cant function without it. Don't take it! Read about what it does to you. That's what I would tell my 18 yo self. Take Care. We're not the problem. We were just acting our age. Your so lucky you've had that ah ha moment so young. My intuition saved my life. Saved me from beatings, you name it. Growing up in constant double binds does one complete mind F to your brain!! I still ? Everything. I've had to go no contact just to try to get better & stay on track. Keep searching & never deny that intuition inside!!
Your intuition is so underestimated in the western world nowadays. I'm really glad that you also became aware of the power it has to guide you where you need to be. Take care and thanks for the advise 💕✌
I am SO happy to hear this sweetheart!!! I am so glad I get to be a support for you on your journey. It is truly about us realizing there is nothing wrong with us, we are just here to do a different mission then the generations before us. We are here to listen to our "wise guide inside" and bring in a new way of being. Keep in touch! I would love to hear more about your experiences Xx
Candace van Dell it's ok Candace. Exactly.. Thank you so much & I will keep in touch. Take Care & Thank you for continuing to inspire us!
Lisanne Zinger It is isn't it? Some don't have any at all. Your so lucky!! Keep up the amazing work. I'm always here if you need anything. Take care of you xxx
Hi Candace. Thank you for this great message, you made some brilliant points for thought. I have a message I would like to share with you and everyone too. This may sound a bit 'out there' but I believe, very important. If you sing to the Sun of love and thanks, the Sun will answer you with stronger healing rays. It is truly miraculous, divine. The more you do, the more you will see, our life giving, living light. Thank you again. With light and love always🎵🌞💖
I need to watch this video at least once a week. Very well done Candace and thank you for your work! I'm definitely going to get your workbook as soon as I can (I'm in the middle of trying to get two new businesses off the ground and I'm about at the point of eating cat food right now). ;-)
I came to the same conclusion about me picking my parents for they same reason you said! Hearing you say it teared me up. Thank you for making this video 😘❤️✌🏽️🌎
You are awesome! I am so glad I found your channel. Deep truth, hope, wisdom, enlightenment. Please keep the videos coming. As an indigo trying to navigate through this life, these videos are immensely enriching. Much love, truth, and light to us all!
Thank you for that! I am so happy you found me! We need to come together and empower ourselves and this planet Xx
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! This is what my psychologist and I have mapped out over the last year and you just summed it up in ten minutes. Thank you for showing me that there are others just like me! xxx
Amazing!!! Thank you for letting me know ;-). You are not alone my friend!!
"That lonliness os a call to wholeness" 💕
Hit the nail on the head! It explained a lot about contrasts even with other Indigos, parents, relatives, and society at large. It also made me see, what decisions to make as to whether I stay awake or not. I have lived long enough to see the abuse of Indigos and blame by the society at large, as well as, the destructive nature of not fitting in or searching for what one is here to do in life. The term tribe is an interesting one, a Native American term, with many definitions and usages, not some for the highest good. I would like to hear your expanded view on this term. I like your videos, I will refer them to other. and purchase your workbook. May it not just sit on the shelf like the others. Namaste. Matthias.
I don't know whether I am indigo, or not but I am positively sure that your videos are so inspirational and helpful. I support you in every way. Thank you for your work. Many love
Hi So nice to meet you. I like what you put up-it opens up to a more inner awareness about life. I commented on another video, but that add/hd you like to talk about interfered and I forgot which video it was haha. The distractions of the superior mind is something I am used to. I want to also point out how since I am an HSP and a twin, I have that extra esp thing going on with a more sensitive central nervous system-so I am more aware of sensory perceptions much more easily in my environments. The more negative, the more of an emotional sponge I can become picking up on others shit-NOT mine even though those Narcs would like to blame shit on me. The contrast issue you bring up is so spot on-especially in family situations. I am not my parents or anyone else really in my family (except the similarity with my twin) and I have been shown what I am not and who I truly am at my core.
Yes I love this! It is SO IMPORTANT for highly sensitive people to practice strong boundaries on a regular basis for this reason. We can often times get enmeshed with the issues and feelings of others. I will be posting a video later today about empaths and codependency (sponge) and how the two can get intertwined if we are not careful. It sounds like you are doing a great job and you are very aware of the narc stuff. The stronger our boundaries are the more our sense of self is solidified and the less we are affected by others stuff ;-) Xx
Thank you for your wonderful insite. I have just recently focused on eating healthy foods. One thing I say to myself and also to others as well is that I Am Love. I feel it deep within. It has become part of my universe. I am an Indigo. I have always had a warrior soul. May God bless you
Much love! Thank you!
Thank you so much Candace! xo
YOU UNDERSTAND.
ALL OF IT.
EVERY SINGLE DETAIL.
YOU TRULY KNOW.
Thank You ❣️
I love your videos Candace! So insightful and very real. I feel like you're talking directly and specifically to me- even though you have no clue who I am ;) Thank you for allowing HSPs to have an integrated space and purpose in this world. Wish I could have known about this when I was a child or teen- or even in my 20s as it could have helped me make decisions for myself... But I'm enjoying learning and making nurturing choices moving forward thanks to your work.
I hear you and I wish I could have had it as a teen as well! That is exactly why I do what I do, to empower the healers of this world so that we can be the change. Thank you for appreciating my work, it means a lot! You are doing great ;-) keep in touch Xx
Ooooooh my god, who are you? Everything you say resonates with me! You help me put words where i have been lost! Thank you! I was lead to you! I really was!! This is crazyyyyyyy!!!! I send you lots of love and prosperity!
Thank you so much! This was perfect timing. Much love ❤
Im so glad ;-)
You are amazing, Candace!!! Thank you!! :)
Love these videos Candace, they really help! x
Thank you so much!!! Xx
Hello Candace :) Thank you for this lovely video. I truly long to rediscover my inner voice and the guidance from within. Your videos are so inspiring and my watch list contains over 50 of them which I have watched and will rewatch. What I enjoy about your message the most is the authentic way in which you bring it across and the calm and humble energy you give off. Get well soon and lots of warm love from Germany.
Thank you so much!!! I am so glad you found me and that I can be a support for you. Keep in touch Xx
So beautiful!! thank you!
Love your videos and voice! ❤️
Keep this going! I'm glad I found someone like you I can finally relate with. - Camille from the Philippines :) Thinking of buying your book and joining your lab and course. Take care!
true about parents and contrast... and btw ..looks like pretty house...
You are wonderful 💙
This is a really good video and you have sucha friendly vibe
When i was watching i just had the urge to hug you haha :D
I wish you the best in life
Discovered you recently and I'm loving your videos . I absolutely relate and I just purchased the work book . I'm looking for my tribe as well, I'm going through this process of daily mediation and getting rid of old beliefs and trying to heal old wounds. I I feel like I am evolving and I am in a relationship with a man who is a little narcissistic and I am sometimes , as well , both our parents relationships resemble each other so we somehow are similar accept that I want to better myself and he is too stubborn and I question if he will catch up to me as I continue raising my vibration. Do you have any advice ? Much love ❤🙏😊🌟
Not So Fancy Nancy I struggled with that for many years. We finally split over a year ago and I can't and won't go back. Thank you.
Zalindalor EyesOpen my goodness ! Not sure we're quite there yet, there is a lot of love between us !
Not So Fancy Nancy Sorry didn't mean to imply that there wasn't and still there isn't between me and my ex, but I started to learn that I wasn't expanding myself and I was holding him back to his own lessons. And in my case once I did separate lots of things started to change that couldn't change while we were together. Lots of Love.
Zalindalor EyesOpen no don't worry , but the thought has crossed my mind many times in the 10 years of our relationship. Every time I consider the possibility that we may be better apart , we end up having such deep loving quality time together . It's like I have 1 toe out the door if he gets out of line, lol but at the same time I see a full life with him . Anyway time will tell . 😉
Yes, I was with him for almost half my life and they last toe in the door was in someways the most heartfelt and I think I fell harder than the first time. Than that next toe out was a full get out of my life and I'm not looking back. But him being the only soul connection in most of my life that wasn't possiable ether. Now when his energy pops back into my life and I do mean pops.... I try to take those feelings and say I know how I want that next soul connection to feel and yet I now know what isn't healthly and I use it as a template. He has recently tried to return back into our lifes. My daughter and mines but not the way loving person should or would, more so at the end of his ropes. I think it's the universe saying what I once thought I needed so deeply was only there as much as I needed it. If that makes any sense. ;)
there's 2 things people do, lean into desire or run away from fear.... and the majority of us run from fear (guilty myself)
great video
Hi Candace! I discovered your channel a week or so ago and I love your videos! I do feel some of a connection between all this and I am a high sensitive person, but I don't know if I'm an Indigo? I do feel the power en the urge to change the world and I've always felt like I didn't fit in. Also I can see auras and everytime I look at my own aura, I do see a litte indigo/purplish colour, could this indicate something as well? I have an issue that I just can't deal with, and that is that I really take over problems of other people and it really feels like they're mine. Do you have any tips for that? Thank you so much for your videos, lots of love xx ♥ (:
thank you ❤
You are welcome! xx
I am super new to all of this...I have gotten rid of the toxic people in my life. Currently I do not have anyone who is supportive of me yet. How do I connect with the right people?
❤️your videos.
Amazing!
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I love you so much thank you for helping me love me
indigo's rise up
YES!
Candace van Dell You're Doing a great job , eye see you
Thanks Canadace. Yea I'm blocked. I'm stuck. I don't want to eat. Why? I was my moms patient. She was the hero. I received love as a child only when I was sick. My brain learned to get love I needed to be sick. The fear is if I do get better will my hb still be here? Who else will abandon me? I'm bod.. an indigo & highly sensitive. I have yoirnworkbook. I'll need to start that.
Kris01 1118 this sounds like narcissistic abuse. Here is my email candacevandell@gmail.com I would love to share more with you!! Xx
Candace van Dell Yes Candace your right. I've been working for two years now. I'll e mail you. Thank you for your reply. My trauma therapist & I speak about your channel a lot in our sessions. What has NOT killed me will only make me stronger soon. Blessings to you.
Wonderful! xx
you are so beautiful...i love everything about you..😊😙
i'm really indigo person...people not understand me but i know they are i can read mind from them from reactive from their body,even from their text,their lie or they just come and go i also know,i'm really sensitive person....once time if i listen any video about indigo,just 75% i feel understand...i stupid in high school but i can live how to survive,25 years now i alone,fall in love always failed,i to much care my past friend..i'm professional about to know background person,i ever dream about my future...
Perhaps a strange question. Do you think there are false indigo's? I think there are false indigo's and i don't know why. Thank you for your videos!
Definetely is true or whatever you know? This is it.
How do I know if I am an indigo child and how do I act I always feel different but I don't know why
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Thank you quantum mechanics.
I feel lile I have all the characteristics to be an indigo, but i dont think im special or I feel like is my narcissism telling me that actually i am special but im not lol im confused.
Omfg. Ur so Legit.. ur correct.
OMG yes my husband and kid's are so dominant my doctor told me I had a body of a 8 year old woman cuz all I did was give for the past twenty-seven years to my husband and children and I'm only 47 💕 🧘❤️
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not concretely in one way integrating into the need for intertainment vs still the skills protected and projected
Does the word Indigo in this context refer to ADHD? If so i'm not. Hug
Are you sick? lol I could sense it within the first 5 seconds ;)
chloe quiros haha yes I have had a cold for 5 days!
Although I'd like to say that's all my highly sensitivity, you definitely sound congested lol but thank you so much for your eye opening videos! I'm finally open to the idea of my instincts not meaning I'm just crazy and I've been discovering myself through the help of you!
So awesome!!
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You are beautiful
Hit the nail on the head and I am a narcissist. And in part an Indigo, I have dealt with Narcissistic people
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Sorry, I’m not accepting this story line anymore. Not accepting, “ I chose “ to come into a family full of pain/suffering & chaos so that “ I could be a beacon of light in the world., “ and meanwhile I’m so deluded that I don’t know when to eat, drink, pee, rest, trust, sleep, basically function in ways that allow me to particulate in a competitive market. How long will this fairytale be peddled out ? It is NOT a gift to be born into these situations where we are not allowed to express ourselves, not allowed to form our own boundaries, and learn how to live with adult fears at the age of 2 & going forward. ~ It is an unholy nightmare. STOP TELLING PEOPLE “ITS A GIFT “... If anything it’s a CURSE. This early childhood patterning sets the life path to continue on indefinitely in terrible heartache & unimaginable pain & suffering. ~ The best way “ to wake up “, or actually to grow & develop is to live in a comfortable, safe , loving & nourishing environment. Those children, 99% go on to have lovely, beautiful, successful lives. They marry well. And have lovely children. The success is passed down through generations. ~ The opposite is also true.Pain & suffering get passed down through generations. ~ There is nothing noble or gifted about it. It is a tragedy of incredible proportions . Stop trying to decorate it like a fun theme park that we all should be laughing & cheering about. It’s like making fun of people who are born crippled or handicapped, and calling them “ gifted”.. Don’t do that. It’s inconsiderate.. 😕
Raplingn over vivaldi like a bossstar
I am no indigo.....
shows up as nerve disease?
sry carpultunnel
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Should Indigos be looking for other Indigos in dating ?
why you are so beautiful,unnie?
HELP ME PLEASE
Narc rule.
e r hr to tch harmony an self love
can we make an indigo baby
together?
Im thinking this channel might blow up very soon. You might be the most beautiful lovely girl in the solar system
Thank you❤❤