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🔥Stop This "Men vs. Women": Let us not let our personal experiences with women or men, or ideologies like feminism or redpill, which instill hatred in our hearts deliberately or indirectly against the opposite gender, lead us to unjustly judge or decide by anything other than what Allah has revealed because "...whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those, it is they who are the disbelievers." Quran Chapter 5 verse 44 One type of person is obvious: those who don't judge by what Allah has revealed. But another type also does that but then claims it's what Islam says or wants. They are the bigger criminals because they are lying about Allah. That's why we should be cautious of Allah while speaking. This is a general message and has nothing to do with anyone.
Money man . Dawa it’s good business. Good money man. You can get some niqabi as well. Average عبدالله would watch these stuffs . And they earn money. Wish I was smart enough to join these nonsense. Get money and niqabi as well lol
*If a husband is less educated than his wife plus if he is lazy, doesn't wanna work hard, and he is only good enough to provide three times meal to his wife, and to cover utilities bills, and to buy clothes, to buy jewelry, to buy a house or condominium(flat), to buy medicine and to pay hospital bills her brothers have to give her money, and to go on vacation his wife has to work full time plus she has to cook food but if he is not thankful to her and to her brothers and father because she is unable to become a mother and to produce children then what exactly she is supposed to do in that case?*
@@safwanshahriar9579The wife school is a separate topic/irrelevant. The OP is just giving advice for future reference regardless if he agreed or not, that's all. May Allah help us grow everyday.
*Timestamps:* 0:00 - Coming Up 1:38 - Introduction 2:06 - Analysis of modern issues w.r.t gender roles 10:25 - Marital responsibilities & faults in marriages 15:13 - Responsibilities of Men & Women in Islam 16:30 - Countering the modern feminist indoctrination 22:35 - Roles & Duties of a Muslim Man 25:05 - Men's rights in maintaining hierarchy in family 27:28 - Advice about communication in marriage 31:42 - Softer & Romantic side of Daniel 34:48 - Setting a baseline in marriage based on Quran & Sunnah 36:42 - Taking on leadership to maintain a healthy relationship 38:43 - Educating parents on biological clock & marriage market 42:08 - Dealing with the influence of in-laws 45:57 - Prioritizing early marriage & parenthood 48:07 - Educating Muslim Women on Marriage 54:04 - Importance of Traditional Values for Women 57:39 - Managing expenses as a Muslim Man 59:23 - Impact of career competition on relationships 1:00:48 - Advice for financial stability in marriage 1:06:09 - Discourse on Women working from home 1:12:36 - Biased legal system towards women 1:14:54 - Value of dependence & providing in marriages 1:19:01 - Societal views on women's chastity & men's promiscuity 1:24:08 - Advice for Muslim Women 1:27:24 - Importance of personal accountability in relationships 1:31:12 - Crisis of Masculinity & its solution 1:34:18 - Nuances of consulting with wife for decisions 1:38:28 - Value of Femininity & Deen in marriage 1:42:55 - Following Islamic guidelines on divorce 1:45:26 - Advice to Muslim Men on Polygyny 1:51:09 - Caution against risking too much in pursuing 2nd wife 1:53:27 - Legal Implications of Polygyny in the West 1:56:52 - Refuting the Western narrative against Polygyny 1:59:57 - Advice to Men about Fatherhood 2:03:59 - Importance of parental discipline & boundaries 2:05:56 - Value of mom respecting the dad's authority 2:10:05 - Parenting Sons vs Daughters 2:12:16 - Mentoring approaches for men vs women 2:15:59 - Advocating for natural birth with a qualified midwife 2:17:27 - Effects of painkillers during childbirth 2:19:46 - Advice to Men on experiencing the birth of their baby 2:23:32 - Balancing medical intervention & natural birth in Islam 2:26:06 - Daniel's Iranian Background 2:28:09 - Teaching parents' native languages to the kids 2:29:07 - Influence of Islam on Persian culture 2:29:46 - Daniel's family dynamics & favourite food 2:31:26 - Discussion on Life in Iran & its culture 2:33:26 - Contributions of Persian scholars to Islam 2:37:36 - Overview of Iranian food & Iranians in the US 2:39:31 - Discussion on Iranian Cuisine 2:52:02 - Banter 2:54:45 - Daniel's Goals for Dawah 2:55:10 - Establishing an Islamic think tank lacks resources 2:59:10 - Growing & living as a Muslim in Texas 3:00:51 - AMuslimMatchmaker 3:01:57 - Importance of sincerity towards Allah ﷻ 3:03:55 - Message for Muslim Men & Women 3:06:07 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up SubhanAllah ❤️💛💙 Fabulous Podcast 👍🏻👌🏻 _May Allah ﷻ bless you all and reward you for your efforts._ 🤲🏻
Bro shut up and go read the Quran….😂😂😂😂😂there are many more wise statements there then u can find in the red pill podcast even one statement in the Quran can’t be compared to their bs😊
@@theanna8472 a Canadian guy told me about how he went to College with an Indian guy who basically paid his way in, like the dude didn't speak English at all. He had a friend follow him around translating for him, and if his friend wasn't present he'd mumble words.
I'm a woman and have always liked DH's content.. I completely agree with him that women are at fault ... I can never understand why women issues with his content.. he's just preaching islamic ideas
Same 😂. Maybe we can see the core issues? Honestly Daniel made me a better woman. He made me strong muslim minded alhamdulliah. Other men just wants to be in our pants while acting like a simp and women fall for.
As a man I think men are the root cause of the problem, and the only reason women are acting up today is because men failed their roles. It's completely true that women are at fault, but that's only because men started being simps and letting things slide.
🔥Stop This "Men vs. Women": Let us not let our personal experiences with women or men, or ideologies like feminism or redpill, which instill hatred in our hearts deliberately or indirectly against the opposite gender, lead us to unjustly judge or decide by anything other than what Allah has revealed because "...whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those, it is they who are the disbelievers." Quran Chapter 5 verse 44 One type of person is obvious: those who don't judge by what Allah has revealed. But another type also does that but then claims it's what Islam says or wants. They are the bigger criminals because they are lying about Allah. That's why we should be cautious of Allah while speaking. This is a general message and has nothing to do with anyone.
@@DontOpenThisChannel I can tell you didn't watch the video. It isn't about men vs women rather the opposite. It's about curing social harms in the ummah and going back to the sunnah regarding family values.
Wrong, most women seek out a man who is rich and will provide for her. Anything else is a bonus, but they are more than ready to compromise if he has wealth.
And here I am, fully housewife minded, to the point when girls ask me about my goal i say them ''housewife" but not married yet 🤣 the irony is...girls around my age, who were in many relationships are happily married with kids. 😂
Many relationships?! Seriously, have read any stats on this subject and the impact many partners can have on people especially women? You're implying something completely forbidden here. Also, what are the stats on unwed motherless 40 year old women and their happiness? Your argument is shallow and there are anomalies for sure just functioning drug or alcohol abusers. Looking at the more broader long-term outcome is vital to understand the effects on our families and societies. How do you know a woman that has had multiple partners in your circle is actually content with her husband today? She has children and maybe feels obliged and committed that doesn't mean content or happiness with intimacy. She could be thinking about the previous ten guys she's been with. Astaghfirullah.
How do you know they are happily married? Social media?did you try to get married? Is it religion that you aspired in your husband? Or some worldly bs like others.?..it's not possible that you are innocent but can't get married at all...try properly...look in the right place.....feminism has affected muslim women more, that doesn’t mean it didn’t affect muslim men...after all,they live in the same system,consume the same media and take the same education....
This is something these guys don't understand. Most women who go to universities and have an active social life usually do get married and many do actually, contrary to what they are saying, get it all. Additionally, women are valued mostly for their beauty and women who are outgoing, are more likely to take care of their appearance than women who stay indoors because they don't have the incentive nor the knowledge for it.
@@md.shahadathossain8880no you idiот marriage has more than just being innocent. An ugly girl finds it harder to get married than a beautiful girl who isn't so innocent. Even in your sнiтноle of Bangladesh, ugly women, no matter how conservative, find it difficult to get married whereas the wноres who look beautiful, no matter how educated and into their career they are- do find husbands
Ah yes, promoting women to go to university and commit zinna, then earn degrees that make them out earn men around them, which then limits their marriage prospects if they aren’t happy with sharing the top percent men. Yes, let’s continue the cycle to continue to make women even unhappier.
Working doesn’t mean acting like a man. You say that until the person’s marriage doesn’t work out and the woman is broke with no way to provide for her kids. A lot of women would starve and live in poverty if they didn’t have the opportunity to work and provide for themselves and kids. Women still need skills, education, and worldly knowledge. I see too many women begging for sadaqah bc they don’t have a provider and they have no way to take care of themselves. That’s just what it is.
I rarely disagree with Daniel. but in the most important topic of this episode, I have to say he is wrong. the brother made a good point. Men are indeed leaders, and our job is to enforce the shariah. if we don't, men are to blame, not women. Muslims in the west, however, have been forced to live in a society where people are allergic to the shariah. so they cant do much except tell women: "sister, stop posting your pictures online". Daniel is right in women having to share the blame, because they have been told not to do certain things, they keep doing it. however, women will only see the result of their bad actions mostly in the akhirah (and I guess this is one of the main reasons why women comprise of the majority of the dwellers of jahannam), because men will keep simping, or the gov will keep financing them. so they are to blame but it is understandable why they rebel - because they can, and no one but men gave them this power/right. men however, are primarily and mostly to blame if we are talking about the predicament in this world. they brought their wives and daughters to the west. and if they live in muslim lands, they brought in shaytan (western culture via technology) in their house themselves.
DH advocating for natural birth ‘pregnancy is not a medical condition’ is the NB tag line 🤣👌🏾👌🏾 I’m a massive NB advocate so that was nice to hear! And this is why we need more education for women around issues that pertain to us and only us.
We take for granted the medical field. What we call small problems in child birth used to be to funeral 100 years ago. Stop just saying things because it fits your narrative. How about a talk about how Allah has allowed humans to gain so much knowledge that we are now capable of give so much care to fellow humans. And that knowledge has allowed so many women and babies to survive.
@@generalali7609 it’s about a balanced view. For the most part you do not need medical intervention during birth but if you should need it Alhumdililah it’s there. The US has the highest rates of medicalised birth and the highest mortality rates for women during childbirth in the Western world. Coincidence? Black women are 5x more likely to die during childbirth than their peers, coincidence? Improvements in hygiene and aftercare have made the statistics for women and children better but we don’t talk about that. Opioids given during labour cross the placenta and enter the babies bloodstream making them drowsy and increasing the chances of having to have further interventions such as forceps. Epidurals have been known to cause lifelong issues with women’s backs. The more interventions the higher chance of birth trauma, with birth trauma comes a much higher chance of post natural depression. The gross medicalisation of pregnancy and labour especially in the states is nothing to do with the care of women and children and more to do with making money- the more drugs and interventions the more money made. There is plenty of research and there are doctors and midwives who advise are strongly for NB in low risk cases. Do you know anything about pregnancy and labour?
This is the dumbest thing he's ever said. He should really stick to his lane. Complications we're avoiding with C section and other medical intervention used to end in guaranteed child or mother death 100 or 200 years ago.
@@shi117 what complications are we avoiding in selective/non medical emergency c sections? The increases in the knowledge of bacteria and germs are a cause of more positive birth outcomes, 200 years ago doctors wouldn’t even wash their hands in between attending to labours.
@@shi117 you're totally wrong. I can assure you that very few c-sections are performed because of medical indication. Apart from that, you can easily research significant correlations between c-section-born children and certain conditions such as ADHD, autism or asthma, let alone pyschological issues related to mother-child bonding. C-sections are mainly performed because women are afraid of giving birth naturally and this puts the child at risk.
I’m confused is he saying the reason why women got swayed towards feminism is because ‘men have been infinitely kind and simps ’ ? Absolute the opposite! The reason why women want to go out and get degrees like he said is ofcourse God forbid there’s a divorce or man ends up being abusive. Where is this notion coming from ?? Why are woman starting to think like that ? Some thing to think about !! Also I was hoping the hosts would correct him because honestly they think from both sides.
Youre not focused, you're right in your stance and Daniel is wrong. Trauma, abusive fathers, fathers who abandon their children (daughters in this context) turn to feminism. They end up resenting islamic marriages, gender roles, femininity etc.
One thing Daniel needs to be informed on is that common law marriage is only in a few states in the US. Majority of the states Do NOT participate in common law marriage. However since Daniel lives in Texas and Texas DOES recognise common law marriage then you’re screwed if you want to have a second wife.
@@MuammarQadaffi it’s because it is illegal. I think they can punish you with jail time or fines. The best way to avoid it is really simple. Just marry a second wife or 3rd or 4th and live in a state without common law marriage. Very simple and easy.
@@MuammarQadaffi Having just a religious marriage in the west has a whole lot of legal complications, especially if the marriage is polygamous. That could cause a whole lot of headache for all the parties involved.
Have tawakkul in Allah, it’s not all doom and gloom. Give the rights of others and InshaAllah Allah will ensure you have your rights. If not here in the hereafter
Props to the brother that was giving Daniel Pushback, a lot of what Daniel says is problematic, not because it’s necessarily wrong but he comes at things from a wrong angle. Instead assigning blame to men or women, the root of issues is the society we live in. Feminism and Red Pill are both flawed ideologies, but they were both seeking to ease a concern of either. Of course Muslim men don’t hate Muslim women but what many women are speaking from is a place of being victimized by men who weaponized the deen. The gravity of this issue is not a simple as a wife not wanting to cook and a husband not allowing her to leave the house. There are situations of male Quran teachers raping their female students and the result is a young women who experiences PTSD at the sound of the Quran. Can you understand what an awful thing that is??!!!!!
The irony, he does not believe in women education but married to a women from Harvard.,He is misunderstanding the two different concepts of getting education and developing a career.May be you talking about west where looted colonialism wealth grabbing is still being practised but your law is not universal';Islam states that you like for your brother same thing as for your ownself.if a women wants to work provided her obligations are being fullfilled you can allow after implementing shariya.islam preaches balance of life not strictness otherwise people will run away from righteous path being so strict.women education is necessary for child upbringing
🔥Stop This "Men vs. Women": Let us not let our personal experiences with women or men, or ideologies like feminism or redpill, which instill hatred in our hearts deliberately or indirectly against the opposite gender, lead us to unjustly judge or decide by anything other than what Allah has revealed because "...whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those, it is they who are the disbelievers." Quran Chapter 5 verse 44 One type of person is obvious: those who don't judge by what Allah has revealed. But another type also does that but then claims it's what Islam says or wants. They are the bigger criminals because they are lying about Allah. That's why we should be cautious of Allah while speaking. This is a general message and has nothing to do with anyone.
You must understand working is so hard for women. Not every woman can handle work even from home. religious sisters encouraging working from home but it is not easy you still need abandon your children or attention for them. Now i don't want make any kind of businesses even from work. So much stress i love being JUST wife and mom. Before Islam i was working so hard and even my mother was worked whole her life because we didn't' have provider, now i don't want work. Raising chidren and homemaking is so big project for the muslima. Even my husband noticed i'm losing my stability when i work from home. What will happen if i work outside i don't know. So no work for me yaaay Alhamdulillah
🔥Stop This "Men vs. Women": Let us not let our personal experiences with women or men, or ideologies like feminism or redpill, which instill hatred in our hearts deliberately or indirectly against the opposite gender, lead us to unjustly judge or decide by anything other than what Allah has revealed because "...whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those, it is they who are the disbelievers." Quran Chapter 5 verse 44 One type of person is obvious: those who don't judge by what Allah has revealed. But another type also does that but then claims it's what Islam says or wants. They are the bigger criminals because they are lying about Allah. That's why we should be cautious of Allah while speaking. This is a general message and has nothing to do with anyone.
T3M channel is dead ?? Akhi don't keep us in the dark. There's obviously some issues you're keeping private. No problem. But atleast tell us if the channel is done or not and if u guys intend continuing at some point.
feminists think that being dependent is an insult, and critique Islam for this hierarchy. But this is how healthy relationships are incentivized. If your husband dies or divorces you, yes you aren’t entitled to huge sums, because you are not meant to remain single for the rest of your lives. Find a man who knows his responsibilities and move on! grateful to you guys for discussing these important topics
And not every woman wants to keep remarrying just to have her basic needs met. People want to be able to take care of themselves. You’re putting her at a disadvantage if you’re telling her to just wait around for marriage. Especially if there’s kids involved. You need to help yourself and tie your camel. Get some income.
I really did enjoy this video until the quote from Mahdi and sheikh asim without discussing the context, Mahdi is toxic and sheikh asim is forgiving. we always need to always understand the background of the Hadith, the Hadith was for a virgin man who married a non virgin and our prohet said he should of married a virgin like the groom, but the man said he didn’t not want a virgin who would naturally be clingy to come inbetween him and his sisters and our prohet said in this case you have made the correct choice. Also virgins are not necessarily fertile, divorced and widows can be fertile too. Also just cause a man can marry multiple does not mean he has a number of kids, some men marry multiple and not have kids just this is just for lust which is also ok in Islam. When brother Daniel said women make poor choices how can we make choice if it’s the wali who will hand over the marriage, so is it the women fault or wali, bro Daniel will alway make it out it’s the women fault. I think this podcast was brilliant but again the underlying tone is it’s always the women’s fault from brother Daniel. The two hosts was brilliant highlight topics such as secret marriages etc but brother Daniel didn’t answer it properly, personally I do not like bro Daniel not cause I’m a feminist but he blames women in all cases but when pushed by host he did then reluctantly pin something on men. Also the point the bros brought up in how is it women fault when men have failed over years creating masculinity in n women’s, we don’t just wake up masculine over night piint was really good. Really good chats.
In this day and age your advice only covers couples where there's only one bread winner, which is what percentage of modern couples? I agree with the general sentiment fellas but - with property prices and general cost of living - there's numerous reasons why it doesn't hit right when it comes to practical division of labor in the modern economy in which you plan to have kids and raise a family. While maintaining the right masculine and feminine dynamics. I'm 34, been married since 21 with 2 kids in a healthy marriage alhamdulillah. I'm still yet to see Muslim "influencers" actually give practical applicable advice in the reality of our world, specifically around the division of labor while maintaining masculine-feminine dynamics in a household raising kids and paying the mortgage.
Um why are you dealing with riba in the first place aka (mortgage). And if you live within your means, you can definitely make a traditional Islamic marriage work. I came from one and know many others who are in one.
@nxronite9994 I meant mortgage as interchangeably with rent. My wife works and I know perfectly well how to have a healthy masculine-feminine dynamic in marriage but i'm not the one offering advice here. Whether you know people who live like that is irrelevant (everyone has different circumstances and requirements), my point is that the influencers should think about covering the broader community rather than a limited section of it. As to your question; with the uncertainty that comes with renting (spiking rents, having to move your family at landlord's whims, eventually being able to own something you can leave for your kids to avoid these very issues) among other things many people have to engage with the financial apparatus available to them. Judging people for that is stupid and quite frankly none of your business.
Make the dua from the Quran oh unmarried brothers and sisters for good husbands and wives who fear and love Allah Subhana Wa Tala Insha Allah: Surah Furqan verse 74!!
I totally agree with the brothers, the wife should not worry about where their kids is getting their meal from. However I know many genuine women with kids, doesnt have degree, never worked. And their husbnads doesnt even give them the basics, the men in the husbands family doesn't care about the wife, because somehow in my culture women are always on fault. Idk if i need therapy but I really dont think i will ever just depend on my husband even tho i know its healthier for me to stay home and not worry about the finances.
May Allah makes things easier for you. My culture is the same. The brides family is just happy that they found a man from their country/ethnicity, they don’t check if he knows his responsibility as a Husband
@@shakur8918 I’m afraid of carrying on the trauma I have been witnessing since I can remember. Thank you, Allah is all-just as long as I follow his laws I know it’s gonna get better.
I believe that most of your discussions are centered around born Muslims and their conduct, without considering the perspective of reverts. Although I agree with many of your viewpoints and also do not support the feminist mindset, it seems like there is a tendency to disproportionately blame women for certain issues, without addressing the actions of men with the same level of focus and energy.
@@Abz637 women don't majorly work to support their husbands, although there are some extremely few instances of this happening. The main reason muslim women give for having to work is so that they are financially independent incase they either wish to leave their husband or if their husband restricts his finances. So its mainly for their own benefit, not the benefit of the husband. Do you believe most of them work and give 90% of their income to the husband?
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot yes I do believe majorly of women who work give there funds to the home, I know many women who work and put in 50/50 and the ones who don’t are on the benefit system claiming from gov. I’m honestly not trying to bash, I am 41 with teens kids exhausted I wish we could just be at home, I’m tired of work but we also need to plan ahead, not sure where u live but I am in the uk, do we want to stay here ? So we need to earn more to be able to eventually move to a Muslim country In’shaa’allah. We need to be real, my mum never woke and I beleive this is the best way. Listen to saajay lipmen red pill. He is good all this talk in social media is making women more masculine doing the opposite effect
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot An example is committing Zina! Zina is forbidden for both genders Period…. There shouldn't be any attempt to justify one gender over the other.
The Quran mention the losers S-103- By time, 2-Indeed,mankink is loss. 3-Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advise each other to patience
hes saying he gets accused of being redpill when in reality hes not on the extreme but his patriarchal teachings are from islam because islam is patriarchal
In relation to the kindness comment- kindness is not giving a person everything. Is not enforcing Islam on your children kindness? No it’s the opposite. Is kindness allowing your child to go out and comment zina and shirk? No it’s not it’s the opposite, kindness doesn’t mean to give everything. Allah is most merciful and most compassionate and he gives us trials, sometimes illness and loss of children as a mercy to us. He sometimes puts us through hardship as a means of bringing us closer to him- is this not kindness when the alternative is going further from him and closer to hellfire. What Daniel said is not kindness it’s spoiling someone and spoiling to the level of what he spoke about is not a kindness. Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Shall I not tell you upon whom the Hellfire is forbidden tomorrow? It is everyone gentle, lenient, accessible, and easy-going.” Source: Musnad Abī Ya’lá 1853 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
@@72-bit men became passive, there is a difference in being passive and being kind. Language it’s important. I’m kind parent to my children but I’m not a passive parent. You get what I mean
@TeeG-ye7ic this is the most true thing. You can be kind, but firm. Gentle, but hold your ground. Pleasant, but not tolerate disrespect. May Allah guide us all and bestow upon us Mercy ameen
2:24:49 do they not realize how many women didn’t make it through childbirth back then? Stop using this shortsighted logic and calling it Islam. Allah has given us brains to figure out ways to help and find solutions for issues we have in life.
@@abahas9371 yet you use ever new medical technology since then whenever it benefits you. If you break your leg, don’t take pain medicine. If your prostrate get larger when you get old, make sure you don’t do anything what didn’t happen 1000 years ago the same way you want women to do the same.
Completely irresponsible to comment on a medical matter that he will never experience. He never stated what complications an epidural could cause the baby. Each birth has its challenges and the doctor/midwife and parents should make a collaborative decision. Such a weird conversation to have.
So he was going on talking about how he did research and turned sunni after being Shia and told you I can go into details about that if you want, then suddenly that bald unbearded man ignores that and asks.. So what is your favorite Iranian food?!!! Like seriously bro?!!!
I’m honestly tired man. So so so tired. As a man all I want in this dunya is a good Muslim wife who will help me raise a better generation than I grew up in. This means living through a traditional Islamic marriage. But by the will of Allah I was chosen to live through an era where such is demonized or labeled as “unrealistic” or “Stone Age.” I’m tired man and have almost given up not wanting to go through this crap. I ask Allah sincerely to make it easy for us.
Him and his wife are the opposite of what he is telling everyone else to do. Both are educated and got married when they were established and alhumdulillah they have a good marriage and their kids are raised properly. Now he is telling everyone else don’t go down that route🤦🏾. I’m I the only one that see this?
1:14:47 they are saying how wrong it is for a women to take half the wealth in a divorce at the same time tell a women to dedicate her entire life to her marriage which allows the husband to make the money, and tell the women not to be educated. What will happen to her after a divorce? She has no money and no ability to make money because she is uneducated, they believe this is fair? How?
may Allah bless all of u, just one mistake i wanna highlight when you talked about fathers having an issue with their daughters husbands taking a second wife as if it's something bad to feel bad for your daughter, the prophet actually did with Ali radia allaho anh, he told him that anything hurts my daughter hurts me, so he explicitly indirectly tell him to not take a second wife and he didn't until fatima radia allaho anha died, polygeny is something permissible not obligatory and Allah subahanah actually recommended to take just one. I'm not against it, I totally understand and agree but it's not for all men and it's really a big deal if they don't actually take it seriously even if they have high status ":فَانْكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُمْ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَى وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً" "وَلَنْ تَسْتَطِيعُوا أَنْ تَعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ النِّسَاءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ
I like the mention of the biological clock, which is good, but let’s not forget it goes both ways for both men and women. We both have biological clocks and should base teaching our religion and instil values of good marriage with this in mind. It’s not just women who are on this clock, it’s men too.
@@josephn7967it’s medically high risk in the west! Yet they also Don’t want you to get pregnant on your 20’s that you are still too young! Many in the third world have kids late with no issues. So go figure!
I get your point, but the clock for men is so much different than for women, the word menopous only use for woman that already hit the clock but not for men
You can not base your ideas on how to build society on women not getting education. A university degree is something to be pursued. There is no conflict with religion or sin in that.
I don’t want freedom I want to raise my kids in a way that gets them to Jannah, when I say that’s my ultimate goal most people around me just laugh and say they should also succeed in this life as if living to please Allah means you can’t have a good fulfilling life!!
1:17:15 a beta male - is someone who doesn’t have spine and wifes up a used up 304 after she done riding the Chads. and takes care of her and her multiple kids from multiple Men, And treats her like traditional wife despite she not being and doing traditional chores. The RP never calls a provider a beta male , it calls a beta male who simps for used up 304s. Traditional treatment for traditional women.
It would have been most interesting to ask Daniel about the Mother and the immediate women he's had in his life. Because, he clearly exerts a range of negative behaviors towards women. We've observed: he speaks of women and provided content in a pattern that put skepticism, caution, avoidant attachment, authority conflicts, devaluation of and on women, etc. It is very clear how he uses Islam and its teachings to twist everything against women and to overcompensate for his low self-esteem in regards to women. As to education of women: he contradicts the Quran and the teachings of Prophet Mohammed (asws) / the Sunna. For example: The Quran encourages all believers, regardless of gender, to seek knowledge. This is supported by various verses and hadiths emphasizing the value of learning. Quran 39:9: “Say, ‘Are those who know equal to those who do not know?’ Only they will remember [who are] people of understanding.” Prophet Mohammad’s (asws) Teachings: Prophet Mohammed emphasized the importance of education for all Muslims. He said, “Seeking knowledge is an obligation upon every Muslim” (Sunan Ibn Majah). He also encouraged women to learn and be educated. His own wife, Aisha (ra) was known for her profound knowledge and served as a teacher to many. Daniel Haqiqatjou is afraid of the potential and strength of a woman and he can't stand that because he sees it as a challenge and he doesn't care because his chauvinism is more important to him than what the Quran says and the powerful presence of women in reality. Unfortunately, he's giving other men that negative manipulation over women. I hope he will grow up one day. Especially, if he has a daughter.
Stop your BS, if men didn't abuse women in the past we wouldn't end up in this situation! You know how many women I know have been treated badly because she was dependent on man! Correct yourself, be what a man should be then you will gain the woman trust!!
Was interested in listening to this for Daniel but the "guy" sitting cross legged behavior and voice and just all round demeanor is very ugh... Feminine and just cringe.
DH doesn't know women at all. I don't know which kind of statistical studies he's done on women to know so much about them. I would like to see those research papers or surveys. The crazy thing about him is that he would negate women saying something about women and be like he as a man knows more about women than women know about themselves. Seriously?! Allah SWT created women with brains. If He wanted them not to think then He would have given them capabilities accordingly. when women complained to the prophet about Allah SWT not adressing them in the Quran, Allah SWT did not discount that. Instead He addressed it by giving a revelation about both men and women. I have seen women whose sense of morality was much stronger than the men in their lives including blood relations but should they not check those men? It is wrong to assume that only men have a right and capability of judging and putting women in check. and you know how they got that morality? By educating themselves.
I can imagine a whole cohort of podcast bros now saying they won’t allow their wife to get an epidural- let the women decide for themselves, no one would say too many chemicals in anesthetisics should don’t get it if you’re chopping your arm off I’ve had 4 kids and alhmd didn’t get it but won’t judge another mum for it
This was an interesting listen and I appreciate many of the points Daniel makes. However, the part about natural birth is not accurate. It is true that Allah SWT created us to be able to handle the pains of labor. But it is not true that babies receive a debilitating amount of pain killer from the epidural and that it affects their function at birth. There has been lots of research to debunk that myth. I chose to take the epidural during my labor because the pain was so intense.. I’m, and I had a very swift and easy delivery alhamdulillah. I felt each contraction as lots of pressure but without pain. I still knew when and how to push and I am so grateful I opted for the epidural. I know many women also have bad experiences with the epidural and it depends on the anaesthesiologist you get, and I do believe every woman should still be educated on natural labor and how to get through it. But choosing to go with an epidural is not a bad thing whatsoever and should not be looked at as horrible. My daughter was born very aware of her surroundings and was not impacted by the epidural whatsoever. Also I still felt the contractions- it is a myth that you can’t feel any contractions with an epidural. Rather, you feel a lot of pressure when you need to push. You just don’t feel the pain as much, which is very nice because you’re able to be fully present and calm when the baby arrives. To any woman who chooses to take the epidural or doesn’t choose to- in most cases it does not negatively impact your baby or you. Yes there may be risks, but they are very rare. It’s good to do research and be informed about it. I wouldn’t just take Daniel at his word when it comes to research on the epidural. Allah knows best.
salam, do you have stats on how many couples got married through a muslim matchmaker? another question, are you able to limit the potential spouses you are interested in to a location? like a specific city?
1:53:20 This is something I completely agree with him on. Know the country and society you live in. Understand the culture before you just go get a second wife. Just because it is halal doesn’t mean it can’t have a negative impact on your life.
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🔥Stop This "Men vs. Women":
Let us not let our personal experiences with women or men, or ideologies like feminism or redpill, which instill hatred in our hearts deliberately or indirectly against the opposite gender, lead us to unjustly judge or decide by anything other than what Allah has revealed because
"...whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those, it is they who are the disbelievers."
Quran Chapter 5 verse 44
One type of person is obvious: those who don't judge by what Allah has revealed. But another type also does that but then claims it's what Islam says or wants. They are the bigger criminals because they are lying about Allah. That's why we should be cautious of Allah while speaking.
This is a general message and has nothing to do with anyone.
Money man . Dawa it’s good business. Good money man. You can get some niqabi as well. Average عبدالله would watch these stuffs . And they earn money. Wish I was smart enough to join these nonsense. Get money and niqabi as well lol
*If a husband is less educated than his wife plus if he is lazy, doesn't wanna work hard, and he is only good enough to provide three times meal to his wife, and to cover utilities bills, and to buy clothes, to buy jewelry, to buy a house or condominium(flat), to buy medicine and to pay hospital bills her brothers have to give her money, and to go on vacation his wife has to work full time plus she has to cook food but if he is not thankful to her and to her brothers and father because she is unable to become a mother and to produce children then what exactly she is supposed to do in that case?*
@@taasmr4203 whatever you want your mother to do or a man is he were in her case.
Try not to dig too much into the guest's private life. That's kind of inappropriate.
Agree 100%
I mean we wouldn't get an ad for wife school if it wasn't for the personal questions. And Faiyad did say "If you're comfortable with it."
@@safwanshahriar9579The wife school is a separate topic/irrelevant. The OP is just giving advice for future reference regardless if he agreed or not, that's all. May Allah help us grow everyday.
I was also uncomfortable on behalf of Daniel to be honest.. We should know better especially when this will go on the internett..
*Timestamps:*
0:00 - Coming Up
1:38 - Introduction
2:06 - Analysis of modern issues w.r.t gender roles
10:25 - Marital responsibilities & faults in marriages
15:13 - Responsibilities of Men & Women in Islam
16:30 - Countering the modern feminist indoctrination
22:35 - Roles & Duties of a Muslim Man
25:05 - Men's rights in maintaining hierarchy in family
27:28 - Advice about communication in marriage
31:42 - Softer & Romantic side of Daniel
34:48 - Setting a baseline in marriage based on Quran & Sunnah
36:42 - Taking on leadership to maintain a healthy relationship
38:43 - Educating parents on biological clock & marriage market
42:08 - Dealing with the influence of in-laws
45:57 - Prioritizing early marriage & parenthood
48:07 - Educating Muslim Women on Marriage
54:04 - Importance of Traditional Values for Women
57:39 - Managing expenses as a Muslim Man
59:23 - Impact of career competition on relationships
1:00:48 - Advice for financial stability in marriage
1:06:09 - Discourse on Women working from home
1:12:36 - Biased legal system towards women
1:14:54 - Value of dependence & providing in marriages
1:19:01 - Societal views on women's chastity & men's promiscuity
1:24:08 - Advice for Muslim Women
1:27:24 - Importance of personal accountability in relationships
1:31:12 - Crisis of Masculinity & its solution
1:34:18 - Nuances of consulting with wife for decisions
1:38:28 - Value of Femininity & Deen in marriage
1:42:55 - Following Islamic guidelines on divorce
1:45:26 - Advice to Muslim Men on Polygyny
1:51:09 - Caution against risking too much in pursuing 2nd wife
1:53:27 - Legal Implications of Polygyny in the West
1:56:52 - Refuting the Western narrative against Polygyny
1:59:57 - Advice to Men about Fatherhood
2:03:59 - Importance of parental discipline & boundaries
2:05:56 - Value of mom respecting the dad's authority
2:10:05 - Parenting Sons vs Daughters
2:12:16 - Mentoring approaches for men vs women
2:15:59 - Advocating for natural birth with a qualified midwife
2:17:27 - Effects of painkillers during childbirth
2:19:46 - Advice to Men on experiencing the birth of their baby
2:23:32 - Balancing medical intervention & natural birth in Islam
2:26:06 - Daniel's Iranian Background
2:28:09 - Teaching parents' native languages to the kids
2:29:07 - Influence of Islam on Persian culture
2:29:46 - Daniel's family dynamics & favourite food
2:31:26 - Discussion on Life in Iran & its culture
2:33:26 - Contributions of Persian scholars to Islam
2:37:36 - Overview of Iranian food & Iranians in the US
2:39:31 - Discussion on Iranian Cuisine
2:52:02 - Banter
2:54:45 - Daniel's Goals for Dawah
2:55:10 - Establishing an Islamic think tank lacks resources
2:59:10 - Growing & living as a Muslim in Texas
3:00:51 - AMuslimMatchmaker
3:01:57 - Importance of sincerity towards Allah ﷻ
3:03:55 - Message for Muslim Men & Women
3:06:07 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up
SubhanAllah ❤️💛💙
Fabulous Podcast 👍🏻👌🏻
_May Allah ﷻ bless you all and reward you for your efforts._ 🤲🏻
Should probably be pinned. Maşaallah brother. May Allah reward you.
Fastest timestamper, MashaAllah 😊 are you a real person or an AI? 😂
Hope the account holder thanks you if not pay you for the administrative task.
Jazakallahu khoir. It is very helpful. Sometimes I want to listen to certain topic but can't find without timestamp.
@@a4482921AsadullAllah is a talented brother mashaAllah tabarakAllah
"people dont become intelligent by going to harvard, intelligent people go to the harvard..." wow profound statement
@@fareezaizat8684 unless you’re rich, then you can just pay someone a bribe 🙄🙄🙄
Bro shut up and go read the Quran….😂😂😂😂😂there are many more wise statements there then u can find in the red pill podcast even one statement in the Quran can’t be compared to their bs😊
@@hijabiclothing2902 are you a simp imam lol
Harvard graduates like daniel haqiqatou and ben shapiro are all idiots
@@theanna8472 a Canadian guy told me about how he went to College with an Indian guy who basically paid his way in, like the dude didn't speak English at all. He had a friend follow him around translating for him, and if his friend wasn't present he'd mumble words.
I'm a woman and have always liked DH's content.. I completely agree with him that women are at fault ... I can never understand why women issues with his content.. he's just preaching islamic ideas
Same 😂. Maybe we can see the core issues? Honestly Daniel made me a better woman. He made me strong muslim minded alhamdulliah. Other men just wants to be in our pants while acting like a simp and women fall for.
@@jojos9788 exactly 💯
Maybe his tone is the problem
As a man I think men are the root cause of the problem, and the only reason women are acting up today is because men failed their roles. It's completely true that women are at fault, but that's only because men started being simps and letting things slide.
Women not having education is NOT Islamic.
Get the plates ready brothers, DH gonna be cookin 🔥
🔥Stop This "Men vs. Women":
Let us not let our personal experiences with women or men, or ideologies like feminism or redpill, which instill hatred in our hearts deliberately or indirectly against the opposite gender, lead us to unjustly judge or decide by anything other than what Allah has revealed because
"...whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those, it is they who are the disbelievers."
Quran Chapter 5 verse 44
One type of person is obvious: those who don't judge by what Allah has revealed. But another type also does that but then claims it's what Islam says or wants. They are the bigger criminals because they are lying about Allah. That's why we should be cautious of Allah while speaking.
This is a general message and has nothing to do with anyone.
DH wears the apron at home, nothing wrong with that
@@hemisphere903 brother no
@@DontOpenThisChannel I can tell you didn't watch the video. It isn't about men vs women rather the opposite. It's about curing social harms in the ummah and going back to the sunnah regarding family values.
Women Seek Out Genuinely Strong Men for marriage and not simps
Wrong, most women seek out a man who is rich and will provide for her. Anything else is a bonus, but they are more than ready to compromise if he has wealth.
@@hemisphere903isn't that strong i.e financially, mentally, etc.?
@@wotizit women hate mentally weak men
@@wotizit Alot of them are simps tho.
@@hemisphere903 Physical appearance (including strength), status, family background, race etc all plays a role.
Where would we be without Daniel lol
Here
And here I am, fully housewife minded, to the point when girls ask me about my goal i say them ''housewife" but not married yet 🤣 the irony is...girls around my age, who were in many relationships are happily married with kids. 😂
Many relationships?! Seriously, have read any stats on this subject and the impact many partners can have on people especially women? You're implying something completely forbidden here. Also, what are the stats on unwed motherless 40 year old women and their happiness? Your argument is shallow and there are anomalies for sure just functioning drug or alcohol abusers. Looking at the more broader long-term outcome is vital to understand the effects on our families and societies. How do you know a woman that has had multiple partners in your circle is actually content with her husband today? She has children and maybe feels obliged and committed that doesn't mean content or happiness with intimacy. She could be thinking about the previous ten guys she's been with. Astaghfirullah.
How do you know they are happily married? Social media?did you try to get married? Is it religion that you aspired in your husband? Or some worldly bs like others.?..it's not possible that you are innocent but can't get married at all...try properly...look in the right place.....feminism has affected muslim women more, that doesn’t mean it didn’t affect muslim men...after all,they live in the same system,consume the same media and take the same education....
This is something these guys don't understand.
Most women who go to universities and have an active social life usually do get married and many do actually, contrary to what they are saying, get it all.
Additionally, women are valued mostly for their beauty and women who are outgoing, are more likely to take care of their appearance than women who stay indoors because they don't have the incentive nor the knowledge for it.
@@md.shahadathossain8880no you idiот marriage has more than just being innocent. An ugly girl finds it harder to get married than a beautiful girl who isn't so innocent. Even in your sнiтноle of Bangladesh, ugly women, no matter how conservative, find it difficult to get married whereas the wноres who look beautiful, no matter how educated and into their career they are- do find husbands
@@EV-EV-EVwhat's the significance of understanding this?what's haram is haram....believer men are for Believer women,kuffar is for kuffar
Promoting women to not get an education is so problematic!
This is the foolishness that misleads people about Islam. Do these people not know Aisha or Hafsa or Mother Khadijah?
What is education for?
@@naychagirl2389They went to universities!
Ah yes, promoting women to go to university and commit zinna, then earn degrees that make them out earn men around them, which then limits their marriage prospects if they aren’t happy with sharing the top percent men. Yes, let’s continue the cycle to continue to make women even unhappier.
Yes Allah didn’t make women to provide n protect and act like Men . This is why is so many problems today . The home is best for women
Working doesn’t mean acting like a man. You say that until the person’s marriage doesn’t work out and the woman is broke with no way to provide for her kids. A lot of women would starve and live in poverty if they didn’t have the opportunity to work and provide for themselves and kids. Women still need skills, education, and worldly knowledge. I see too many women begging for sadaqah bc they don’t have a provider and they have no way to take care of themselves. That’s just what it is.
If you have a mother a sister, a daughter, father, brother, son you should have liked this video
I rarely disagree with Daniel. but in the most important topic of this episode, I have to say he is wrong.
the brother made a good point. Men are indeed leaders, and our job is to enforce the shariah. if we don't, men are to blame, not women.
Muslims in the west, however, have been forced to live in a society where people are allergic to the shariah. so they cant do much except tell women: "sister, stop posting your pictures online".
Daniel is right in women having to share the blame, because they have been told not to do certain things, they keep doing it.
however, women will only see the result of their bad actions mostly in the akhirah (and I guess this is one of the main reasons why women comprise of the majority of the dwellers of jahannam), because men will keep simping, or the gov will keep financing them. so they are to blame but it is understandable why they rebel - because they can, and no one but men gave them this power/right.
men however, are primarily and mostly to blame if we are talking about the predicament in this world. they brought their wives and daughters to the west. and if they live in muslim lands, they brought in shaytan (western culture via technology) in their house themselves.
DH advocating for natural birth ‘pregnancy is not a medical condition’ is the NB tag line 🤣👌🏾👌🏾
I’m a massive NB advocate so that was nice to hear! And this is why we need more education for women around issues that pertain to us and only us.
We take for granted the medical field. What we call small problems in child birth used to be to funeral 100 years ago. Stop just saying things because it fits your narrative. How about a talk about how Allah has allowed humans to gain so much knowledge that we are now capable of give so much care to fellow humans. And that knowledge has allowed so many women and babies to survive.
@@generalali7609 it’s about a balanced view. For the most part you do not need medical intervention during birth but if you should need it Alhumdililah it’s there. The US has the highest rates of medicalised birth and the highest mortality rates for women during childbirth in the Western world. Coincidence? Black women are 5x more likely to die during childbirth than their peers, coincidence? Improvements in hygiene and aftercare have made the statistics for women and children better but we don’t talk about that. Opioids given during labour cross the placenta and enter the babies bloodstream making them drowsy and increasing the chances of having to have further interventions such as forceps. Epidurals have been known to cause lifelong issues with women’s backs. The more interventions the higher chance of birth trauma, with birth trauma comes a much higher chance of post natural depression. The gross medicalisation of pregnancy and labour especially in the states is nothing to do with the care of women and children and more to do with making money- the more drugs and interventions the more money made. There is plenty of research and there are doctors and midwives who advise are strongly for NB in low risk cases. Do you know anything about pregnancy and labour?
This is the dumbest thing he's ever said. He should really stick to his lane. Complications we're avoiding with C section and other medical intervention used to end in guaranteed child or mother death 100 or 200 years ago.
@@shi117 what complications are we avoiding in selective/non medical emergency c sections? The increases in the knowledge of bacteria and germs are a cause of more positive birth outcomes, 200 years ago doctors wouldn’t even wash their hands in between attending to labours.
@@shi117 you're totally wrong. I can assure you that very few c-sections are performed because of medical indication. Apart from that, you can easily research significant correlations between c-section-born children and certain conditions such as ADHD, autism or asthma, let alone pyschological issues related to mother-child bonding. C-sections are mainly performed because women are afraid of giving birth naturally and this puts the child at risk.
I’m confused is he saying the reason why women got swayed towards feminism is because ‘men have been infinitely kind and simps ’ ? Absolute the opposite! The reason why women want to go out and get degrees like he said is ofcourse God forbid there’s a divorce or man ends up being abusive. Where is this notion coming from ?? Why are woman starting to think like that ? Some thing to think about !! Also I was hoping the hosts would correct him because honestly they think from both sides.
Youre not focused, you're right in your stance and Daniel is wrong. Trauma, abusive fathers, fathers who abandon their children (daughters in this context) turn to feminism. They end up resenting islamic marriages, gender roles, femininity etc.
One thing Daniel needs to be informed on is that common law marriage is only in a few states in the US. Majority of the states Do NOT participate in common law marriage. However since Daniel lives in Texas and Texas DOES recognise common law marriage then you’re screwed if you want to have a second wife.
Can't you just do a religious marriage only? Who cares if the secular state doesn't recognize it...
@@MuammarQadaffi it’s because it is illegal. I think they can punish you with jail time or fines. The best way to avoid it is really simple. Just marry a second wife or 3rd or 4th and live in a state without common law marriage. Very simple and easy.
@@maktabati_ I’m sorry but you are wrong. This only applies to a few states in he US. Anywhere else you’re safe.
@@MuammarQadaffi Having just a religious marriage in the west has a whole lot of legal complications, especially if the marriage is polygamous. That could cause a whole lot of headache for all the parties involved.
@@LateefahTheMuslimah Ah yes, the land of "freedom"... Freedom to do anything except what Allah made permissible.
Don’t even want to get married. Don’t want to go through all this BS.
Have tawakkul in Allah, it’s not all doom and gloom. Give the rights of others and InshaAllah Allah will ensure you have your rights. If not here in the hereafter
@@Manalftma I just don’t want to deal with it. I have enough problems as is.
@@SaltyCaptain May Allah resolve your difficulties ameen
@@SaltyCaptainhonestly i feel u bro 😂 i have too many responsibilities and im not even married
Props to the brother that was giving Daniel Pushback, a lot of what Daniel says is problematic, not because it’s necessarily wrong but he comes at things from a wrong angle. Instead assigning blame to men or women, the root of issues is the society we live in. Feminism and Red Pill are both flawed ideologies, but they were both seeking to ease a concern of either. Of course Muslim men don’t hate Muslim women but what many women are speaking from is a place of being victimized by men who weaponized the deen. The gravity of this issue is not a simple as a wife not wanting to cook and a husband not allowing her to leave the house. There are situations of male Quran teachers raping their female students and the result is a young women who experiences PTSD at the sound of the Quran. Can you understand what an awful thing that is??!!!!!
The irony, he does not believe in women education but married to a women from Harvard.,He is misunderstanding the two different concepts of getting education and developing a career.May be you talking about west where looted colonialism wealth grabbing is still being practised but your law is not universal';Islam states that you like for your brother same thing as for your ownself.if a women wants to work provided her obligations are being fullfilled you can allow after implementing shariya.islam preaches balance of life not strictness otherwise people will run away from righteous path being so strict.women education is necessary for child upbringing
Daniel rocking that shalwar kameez😊
🔥Stop This "Men vs. Women":
Let us not let our personal experiences with women or men, or ideologies like feminism or redpill, which instill hatred in our hearts deliberately or indirectly against the opposite gender, lead us to unjustly judge or decide by anything other than what Allah has revealed because
"...whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those, it is they who are the disbelievers."
Quran Chapter 5 verse 44
One type of person is obvious: those who don't judge by what Allah has revealed. But another type also does that but then claims it's what Islam says or wants. They are the bigger criminals because they are lying about Allah. That's why we should be cautious of Allah while speaking.
This is a general message and has nothing to do with anyone.
He looks very comfortable in it
Assalaamu Alaikum, nice discussion . What is hard is to learn their deen and put it into practice that is the problem.
Best podcast as a iranian. Allahu Akbar ❤️
You must understand working is so hard for women. Not every woman can handle work even from home. religious sisters encouraging working from home but it is not easy you still need abandon your children or attention for them. Now i don't want make any kind of businesses even from work. So much stress i love being JUST wife and mom.
Before Islam i was working so hard and even my mother was worked whole her life because we didn't' have provider, now i don't want work. Raising chidren and homemaking is so big project for the muslima.
Even my husband noticed i'm losing my stability when i work from home. What will happen if i work outside i don't know. So no work for me yaaay Alhamdulillah
One of the best podcasts I've seen in a long time.
Favourite guest so far
Maashaa allaaaahhhh i want a husband like brother Daniel Haqiqatjou🎉❤
🔥Stop This "Men vs. Women":
Let us not let our personal experiences with women or men, or ideologies like feminism or redpill, which instill hatred in our hearts deliberately or indirectly against the opposite gender, lead us to unjustly judge or decide by anything other than what Allah has revealed because
"...whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those, it is they who are the disbelievers."
Quran Chapter 5 verse 44
One type of person is obvious: those who don't judge by what Allah has revealed. But another type also does that but then claims it's what Islam says or wants. They are the bigger criminals because they are lying about Allah. That's why we should be cautious of Allah while speaking.
This is a general message and has nothing to do with anyone.
@@DontOpenThisChannel West sucessfully gave us the men vs women ideology and we got trapped too!
Nice to see them together.
Favorite guest!! This episode is the best one so far
Alhamdulilah new video I was waiting 😂for
Allahumma barik family
I’m glad I’m not only one watch Danial
T3M channel is dead ??
Akhi don't keep us in the dark. There's obviously some issues you're keeping private. No problem. But atleast tell us if the channel is done or not and if u guys intend continuing at some point.
Yeah I was also wondering
yea i agree been wondering whats going on
It’s dead because Ramee Al Khalilee gone full simp mode and Arab supremacy mindset.
exactly
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May Allah bless you all. Good content 👍
Assalamu alaikum I always look forward to watching
Walaikum Assalam hope you enjoy sis
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@@mohamedkassim8670 onga bonga
feminists think that being dependent is an insult, and critique Islam for this hierarchy. But this is how healthy relationships are incentivized. If your husband dies or divorces you, yes you aren’t entitled to huge sums, because you are not meant to remain single for the rest of your lives. Find a man who knows his responsibilities and move on!
grateful to you guys for discussing these important topics
And not every woman wants to keep remarrying just to have her basic needs met. People want to be able to take care of themselves. You’re putting her at a disadvantage if you’re telling her to just wait around for marriage. Especially if there’s kids involved. You need to help yourself and tie your camel. Get some income.
Surprised there's not more men viewing this, or women for that matter. Oh well the outcome is always with Allah
I really did enjoy this video until the quote from Mahdi and sheikh asim without discussing the context, Mahdi is toxic and sheikh asim is forgiving. we always need to always understand the background of the Hadith, the Hadith was for a virgin man who married a non virgin and our prohet said he should of married a virgin like the groom, but the man said he didn’t not want a virgin who would naturally be clingy to come inbetween him and his sisters and our prohet said in this case you have made the correct choice. Also virgins are not necessarily fertile, divorced and widows can be fertile too. Also just cause a man can marry multiple does not mean he has a number of kids, some men marry multiple and not have kids just this is just for lust which is also ok in Islam. When brother Daniel said women make poor choices how can we make choice if it’s the wali who will hand over the marriage, so is it the women fault or wali, bro Daniel will alway make it out it’s the women fault. I think this podcast was brilliant but again the underlying tone is it’s always the women’s fault from brother Daniel. The two hosts was brilliant highlight topics such as secret marriages etc but brother Daniel didn’t answer it properly, personally I do not like bro Daniel not cause I’m a feminist but he blames women in all cases but when pushed by host he did then reluctantly pin something on men. Also the point the bros brought up in how is it women fault when men have failed over years creating masculinity in n women’s, we don’t just wake up masculine over night piint was really good. Really good chats.
Can someone please put timestamps?
😂😂😂 why , you better watch the full video 😂
@@SNKRIZE_180 minutes
Sure! You can 😂
Check out down the comment, timestamps was put by brother AsadullahSaaid, may Allah bless him.
In this day and age your advice only covers couples where there's only one bread winner, which is what percentage of modern couples? I agree with the general sentiment fellas but - with property prices and general cost of living - there's numerous reasons why it doesn't hit right when it comes to practical division of labor in the modern economy in which you plan to have kids and raise a family. While maintaining the right masculine and feminine dynamics.
I'm 34, been married since 21 with 2 kids in a healthy marriage alhamdulillah. I'm still yet to see Muslim "influencers" actually give practical applicable advice in the reality of our world, specifically around the division of labor while maintaining masculine-feminine dynamics in a household raising kids and paying the mortgage.
Um why are you dealing with riba in the first place aka (mortgage). And if you live within your means, you can definitely make a traditional Islamic marriage work. I came from one and know many others who are in one.
@nxronite9994 I meant mortgage as interchangeably with rent. My wife works and I know perfectly well how to have a healthy masculine-feminine dynamic in marriage but i'm not the one offering advice here. Whether you know people who live like that is irrelevant (everyone has different circumstances and requirements), my point is that the influencers should think about covering the broader community rather than a limited section of it.
As to your question; with the uncertainty that comes with renting (spiking rents, having to move your family at landlord's whims, eventually being able to own something you can leave for your kids to avoid these very issues) among other things many people have to engage with the financial apparatus available to them. Judging people for that is stupid and quite frankly none of your business.
Make the dua from the Quran oh unmarried brothers and sisters for good husbands and wives who fear and love Allah Subhana Wa Tala Insha Allah: Surah Furqan verse 74!!
I totally agree with the brothers, the wife should not worry about where their kids is getting their meal from. However I know many genuine women with kids, doesnt have degree, never worked. And their husbnads doesnt even give them the basics, the men in the husbands family doesn't care about the wife, because somehow in my culture women are always on fault.
Idk if i need therapy but I really dont think i will ever just depend on my husband even tho i know its healthier for me to stay home and not worry about the finances.
May Allah makes things easier for you. My culture is the same. The brides family is just happy that they found a man from their country/ethnicity, they don’t check if he knows his responsibility as a Husband
@@shakur8918 I’m afraid of carrying on the trauma I have been witnessing since I can remember. Thank you, Allah is all-just as long as I follow his laws I know it’s gonna get better.
And women like me who really don’t want to work but my husband needs me to because he is struggling financially. ):
@@DSJWIX May Allah make easy for both of you
you should ask the right questions before marrying and look at the persons taqwa
Thank you denial 🔥🔥🔥
I believe that most of your discussions are centered around born Muslims and their conduct, without considering the perspective of reverts. Although I agree with many of your viewpoints and also do not support the feminist mindset, it seems like there is a tendency to disproportionately blame women for certain issues, without addressing the actions of men with the same level of focus and energy.
which actions of men for example?
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNotwhere women are working to support their husbands, that’s a major factor
@@Abz637 women don't majorly work to support their husbands, although there are some extremely few instances of this happening. The main reason muslim women give for having to work is so that they are financially independent incase they either wish to leave their husband or if their husband restricts his finances. So its mainly for their own benefit, not the benefit of the husband. Do you believe most of them work and give 90% of their income to the husband?
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot yes I do believe majorly of women who work give there funds to the home, I know many women who work and put in 50/50 and the ones who don’t are on the benefit system claiming from gov. I’m honestly not trying to bash, I am 41 with teens kids exhausted I wish we could just be at home, I’m tired of work but we also need to plan ahead, not sure where u live but I am in the uk, do we want to stay here ? So we need to earn more to be able to eventually move to a Muslim country In’shaa’allah. We need to be real, my mum never woke and I beleive this is the best way. Listen to saajay lipmen red pill. He is good all this talk in social media is making women more masculine doing the opposite effect
@@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot An example is committing Zina! Zina is forbidden for both genders Period…. There shouldn't be any attempt to justify one gender over the other.
may Allah help this ummah and grant us good men
Alhumdullilah for brother Daniel
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Mashallah brother Daniel
Three Muslims split up why?
Qadr
Please add timestamps to your podcasts, jazakAllah!
It was a good episode allahuma barik, May allah bless you
Already exited see it
The Quran mention the losers S-103- By time, 2-Indeed,mankink is loss. 3-Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advise each other to patience
Really like the discussion on food 😂
Hols on a sec ,what happened to the 3 muslims podcast
@HalalBrosOfficial_ You need to pin the time stamps done by brother AsadullahSaaid, it is more important than any other comment
Did he just say red pill is Islamic teaching?? I’m so confused😭
@@NUHGG1000no he means when muslim men talk about islamic gender roles they just label the muslim speaker as red pill
@@alFarsi570 ohh, that makes sense because I was really trying to wrap my head around that. Jazakallah Kayrr brother/sister.
@@NUHGG1000 thank you
@@LateefahTheMuslimah thank you
hes saying he gets accused of being redpill when in reality hes not on the extreme but his patriarchal teachings are from islam because islam is patriarchal
Best video
😂😂😂😂😂 great response Daniel, "it takes two to tango"
Jazakallahu khayr wa barakallahu feekum.
In relation to the kindness comment- kindness is not giving a person everything. Is not enforcing Islam on your children kindness? No it’s the opposite. Is kindness allowing your child to go out and comment zina and shirk? No it’s not it’s the opposite, kindness doesn’t mean to give everything. Allah is most merciful and most compassionate and he gives us trials, sometimes illness and loss of children as a mercy to us. He sometimes puts us through hardship as a means of bringing us closer to him- is this not kindness when the alternative is going further from him and closer to hellfire.
What Daniel said is not kindness it’s spoiling someone and spoiling to the level of what he spoke about is not a kindness.
Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Shall I not tell you upon whom the Hellfire is forbidden tomorrow? It is everyone gentle, lenient, accessible, and easy-going.”
Source: Musnad Abī Ya’lá 1853
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
Yeah it depends on what you define kindness as. The ultimate takeaway however, is that men started letting too many things slide.
@@72-bit men became passive, there is a difference in being passive and being kind. Language it’s important. I’m kind parent to my children but I’m not a passive parent. You get what I mean
@TeeG-ye7ic this is the most true thing. You can be kind, but firm. Gentle, but hold your ground. Pleasant, but not tolerate disrespect. May Allah guide us all and bestow upon us Mercy ameen
2:24:49 do they not realize how many women didn’t make it through childbirth back then? Stop using this shortsighted logic and calling it Islam. Allah has given us brains to figure out ways to help and find solutions for issues we have in life.
Allah already gave us the solution and it's the sunnah of the prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) and the Holy Quran.
@@abahas9371 yet you use ever new medical technology since then whenever it benefits you. If you break your leg, don’t take pain medicine. If your prostrate get larger when you get old, make sure you don’t do anything what didn’t happen 1000 years ago the same way you want women to do the same.
Completely irresponsible to comment on a medical matter that he will never experience. He never stated what complications an epidural could cause the baby. Each birth has its challenges and the doctor/midwife and parents should make a collaborative decision. Such a weird conversation to have.
MashAllah I have to rewatch this 👍
So he was going on talking about how he did research and turned sunni after being Shia and told you I can go into details about that if you want, then suddenly that bald unbearded man ignores that and asks.. So what is your favorite Iranian food?!!! Like seriously bro?!!!
Watch his podcast with Sunnah discourse channel a few years back. He explains his conversion in detail there
It got a bit too personal at the end, but beautiful podcast Mashallah
For those who reject Islam
I soon as Daniel said Hyderabad I was like bro is talking about me lol. FYI Hyderabadi biryani is the best.
MashaAllah 💪🏽
😂Mashallah definitely do the food channel
جزاكم الله خيرا ❤
I’m honestly tired man. So so so tired. As a man all I want in this dunya is a good Muslim wife who will help me raise a better generation than I grew up in. This means living through a traditional Islamic marriage. But by the will of Allah I was chosen to live through an era where such is demonized or labeled as “unrealistic” or “Stone Age.” I’m tired man and have almost given up not wanting to go through this crap. I ask Allah sincerely to make it easy for us.
Keep it up Akhi
Him and his wife are the opposite of what he is telling everyone else to do. Both are educated and got married when they were established and alhumdulillah they have a good marriage and their kids are raised properly. Now he is telling everyone else don’t go down that route🤦🏾. I’m I the only one that see this?
so he's speaking from experience...
@@3mar00ss6 so that makes them an example of what to do.
1:14:47 they are saying how wrong it is for a women to take half the wealth in a divorce at the same time tell a women to dedicate her entire life to her marriage which allows the husband to make the money, and tell the women not to be educated. What will happen to her after a divorce? She has no money and no ability to make money because she is uneducated, they believe this is fair? How?
1:16:10 did he just say another man will marry a divorce sister 😂 is this a joke?
@generalali7609 This isn't what Allah has prescribed. I don't think I need to say anything else.
3h episode and no timeline. Put timeline in.
Absolutely loved this podcast! All women should watch it! Especially Daniel haters!
im so early !!!
Early family
Put timestamp, because we don't want necesserly to watch the whole podcast
speak for yourself, the comments say otherwise
@@OTGREECE there is a lot of people asking for it in the comment
3 hours is a long podcast lol they should’ve put stamps
Wife school is the whole Quran duty of all women of humanity
may Allah bless all of u, just one mistake i wanna highlight when you talked about fathers having an issue with their daughters husbands taking a second wife as if it's something bad to feel bad for your daughter, the prophet actually did with Ali radia allaho anh, he told him that anything hurts my daughter hurts me, so he explicitly indirectly tell him to not take a second wife and he didn't until fatima radia allaho anha died, polygeny is something permissible not obligatory and Allah subahanah actually recommended to take just one. I'm not against it, I totally understand and agree but it's not for all men and it's really a big deal if they don't actually take it seriously even if they have high status
":فَانْكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُمْ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَى وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً" "وَلَنْ تَسْتَطِيعُوا أَنْ تَعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ النِّسَاءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ
I like the mention of the biological clock, which is good, but let’s not forget it goes both ways for both men and women. We both have biological clocks and should base teaching our religion and instil values of good marriage with this in mind. It’s not just women who are on this clock, it’s men too.
I’m not a doctor, but a man can impregnate a woman at 70 years old. A pregnancy becomes medically high risk at 35 for a woman. So it’s a bit different
@@josephn7967you think the quality of a man’s sperm is not different at 70 lol?
@@josephn7967it’s medically high risk in the west! Yet they also
Don’t want you to get pregnant on your 20’s that you are still too young! Many in the third world have kids late with no issues. So go figure!
You are right. Majority of thee men are even unattractive compared to the women. It’s not just about impregnating a woman!
I get your point, but the clock for men is so much different than for women, the word menopous only use for woman that already hit the clock but not for men
You can not base your ideas on how to build society on women not getting education. A university degree is something to be pursued. There is no conflict with religion or sin in that.
That's so bad you shouldn't ask guest about his private life ustad Daniel is quite a private man every one knows
Open the Book Children of Adam what does it say this is guidance for those who fear the Creator
I don’t want freedom I want to raise my kids in a way that gets them to Jannah, when I say that’s my ultimate goal most people around me just laugh and say they should also succeed in this life as if living to please Allah means you can’t have a good fulfilling life!!
1:17:15 a beta male - is someone who doesn’t have spine and wifes up a used up 304 after she done riding the Chads. and takes care of her and her multiple kids from multiple Men, And treats her like traditional wife despite she not being and doing traditional chores.
The RP never calls a provider a beta male , it calls a beta male who simps for used up 304s.
Traditional treatment for traditional women.
Salamaleikom, great show. Are the hosts related?
2:46:30 Daniel is right on this one, ice cream is actually from Persia
It would have been most interesting to ask Daniel about the Mother and the immediate women he's had in his life. Because, he clearly exerts a range of negative behaviors towards women. We've observed: he speaks of women and provided content in a pattern that put skepticism, caution, avoidant attachment, authority conflicts, devaluation of and on women, etc. It is very clear how he uses Islam and its teachings to twist everything against women and to overcompensate for his low self-esteem in regards to women.
As to education of women: he contradicts the Quran and the teachings of Prophet Mohammed (asws) / the Sunna. For example:
The Quran encourages all believers, regardless of gender, to seek knowledge. This is supported by various verses and hadiths emphasizing the value of learning.
Quran 39:9: “Say, ‘Are those who know equal to those who do not know?’ Only they will remember [who are] people of understanding.”
Prophet Mohammad’s (asws) Teachings: Prophet Mohammed emphasized the importance of education for all Muslims. He said, “Seeking knowledge is an obligation upon every Muslim” (Sunan Ibn Majah). He also encouraged women to learn and be educated. His own wife, Aisha (ra) was known for her profound knowledge and served as a teacher to many.
Daniel Haqiqatjou is afraid of the potential and strength of a woman and he can't stand that because he sees it as a challenge and he doesn't care because his chauvinism is more important to him than what the Quran says and the powerful presence of women in reality. Unfortunately, he's giving other men that negative manipulation over women. I hope he will grow up one day. Especially, if he has a daughter.
What happened to The 3 Muslims?
I'm also curious
iv been asking but no one answers, not on the other guys podcast either
Maybe a falling out or irreconcilable differences
Stop your BS, if men didn't abuse women in the past we wouldn't end up in this situation! You know how many women I know have been treated badly because she was dependent on man! Correct yourself, be what a man should be then you will gain the woman trust!!
I agree!
Women and men both sins.
There is nothing like original sin of man.
love your channel bro🍉🍉
Allahumma barik
Was interested in listening to this for Daniel but the "guy" sitting cross legged behavior and voice and just all round demeanor is very ugh... Feminine and just cringe.
DH doesn't know women at all. I don't know which kind of statistical studies he's done on women to know so much about them. I would like to see those research papers or surveys. The crazy thing about him is that he would negate women saying something about women and be like he as a man knows more about women than women know about themselves. Seriously?! Allah SWT created women with brains. If He wanted them not to think then He would have given them capabilities accordingly. when women complained to the prophet about Allah SWT not adressing them in the Quran, Allah SWT did not discount that. Instead He addressed it by giving a revelation about both men and women. I have seen women whose sense of morality was much stronger than the men in their lives including blood relations but should they not check those men? It is wrong to assume that only men have a right and capability of judging and putting women in check. and you know how they got that morality? By educating themselves.
I can imagine a whole cohort of podcast bros now saying they won’t allow their wife to get an epidural- let the women decide for themselves, no one would say too many chemicals in anesthetisics should don’t get it if you’re chopping your arm off
I’ve had 4 kids and alhmd didn’t get it but won’t judge another mum for it
In Madina on land striving a Community perhaps coming into a place to benefit the Ummah yes
Danial is the best
حفظكم الله ورعاكم
Jazakom Allah khayram
How did Daniel accept Islam. His upbringing was different.
He was always a Muslim just not practicing
This was an interesting listen and I appreciate many of the points Daniel makes. However, the part about natural birth is not accurate. It is true that Allah SWT created us to be able to handle the pains of labor. But it is not true that babies receive a debilitating amount of pain killer from the epidural and that it affects their function at birth. There has been lots of research to debunk that myth. I chose to take the epidural during my labor because the pain was so intense.. I’m, and I had a very swift and easy delivery alhamdulillah. I felt each contraction as lots of pressure but without pain. I still knew when and how to push and I am so grateful I opted for the epidural. I know many women also have bad experiences with the epidural and it depends on the anaesthesiologist you get, and I do believe every woman should still be educated on natural labor and how to get through it. But choosing to go with an epidural is not a bad thing whatsoever and should not be looked at as horrible. My daughter was born very aware of her surroundings and was not impacted by the epidural whatsoever. Also I still felt the contractions- it is a myth that you can’t feel any contractions with an epidural. Rather, you feel a lot of pressure when you need to push. You just don’t feel the pain as much, which is very nice because you’re able to be fully present and calm when the baby arrives. To any woman who chooses to take the epidural or doesn’t choose to- in most cases it does not negatively impact your baby or you. Yes there may be risks, but they are very rare. It’s good to do research and be informed about it. I wouldn’t just take Daniel at his word when it comes to research on the epidural. Allah knows best.
salam, do you have stats on how many couples got married through a muslim matchmaker? another question, are you able to limit the potential spouses you are interested in to a location? like a specific city?
this apps doesn't work and are not made for halal purpose
1:53:20 This is something I completely agree with him on. Know the country and society you live in. Understand the culture before you just go get a second wife. Just because it is halal doesn’t mean it can’t have a negative impact on your life.