If you're a lady and want to keep Nigeria man just one thing he needs from you is respect Nigeria men love to be respected bu their women so if you're a lady you don't respect him just know that one beautiful day he will walk away from you and never look back
Respect is repriocal in any relationship. I’m not sure why in Nigerian culture respect is only subjected to the man. If you are disrespecting me and I’m in a relationship with you why do you think you deserve respect? It is earned not given. A lot of Nigerian men fail to understand
@kind2423 I think this is the mindset that put a lot of modern women in very messy situations....?. Would I be wrong if i said that a woman must earn her love from her man before he loves her... Must a woman earn the care of her man before he cares for her...?I would like to believe you know that the first thing a woman desires in a relationship is love and a man's desire to be respected.....
@@LuckyOsain it’s 2024 everything is “modern”. Are we suppost be stuck in the 1950s? Societies have to progress. Like I said no relationship will thrive if there is no mutual respect or love. No justifications
@kind2423 You said that society has progressed.... That is very true scientifically...... But morally, has society progressed or retrogressed.... You still did not answer my initial questions..... I'm not against respecting anybody...... But the idea of it must be earned before it can be given, just destroys everything......Another question to add to the others.. Can you go into any relationship without feeling loved ....? If your answer is no, would it be wise to say that you did not earn the love first before it can be given to you...... Food for thought here: The belief that respect should be earned is one of the highest levels of self degradation if you think that way.....When you say it must be earned, if a man shouts at you, and he's doing it often, are you going to shout back at him, or try and get a good solution that would favour you and him...... If you shout back, are you better ,or you're just another him..... This also goes for women...
@@Dotmanmedia And that is why we are the smartest people on earth. No matter what is going on in Nigeria 🇳🇬 we are the best people on earth and our men are the best 🧡
Two cars, houses, phones are fruits of hard work. An average Nigerian is hard working and deserves everything that goes with it. It is not showing off. It is only lazy people who sees it that way.
True Facts...I. disappear with people that sets me back especially when in MED SCHOOL, many opportunities here in USA. As a Nigerian I add values in anyone I dealt with.
My ex girl friend went clubbing and came back at 3am.She can't even get into my estate without my consent.I was surprised when I was called at the gate if they can allow her get in.Story short,after getting in,I told her this is not right for a lady to go around at this time of the day,she just got angry called uber and left.I didn't call her nor check on her.After about 3weeks,she started calling and wanted to come back but I said no.Nigeria men in many ways are very protective of their partners but bcs of cultural difference they won't agree
Most nigerian men are transitional and cultured, man! Someone who embodies: • Adaptability • Resilience • Open-mindedness • Emotional intelligence • Empathy • Curiosity He navigates life's changes with grace, embracing new experiences and perspectives. This individual: • Values diversity • Learns from others • Shares his own culture • Fosters understanding • Grows through challenges Remember that a transitional and cultured man is a bridge builder, connecting people and ideas across boundaries. He enriches his community with his inclusive spirit, creativity, and wisdom. The above are what most makes nigerian people particularly particularly the men different different from other men.
A Nigerian man will disappear if you can’t add any value . In most cases they are of high value and most western women can’t meet up the standards of the Nigerian so they label him as a cheater . Nigerian men are especially loyal and generous.
It’s true, also they want a woman to understand if they are struggling to provide her needs , because they always return the favor unless you insult them
oga u said 10 subjects in primary school! it's more than 10 subjects oh!! at least where I finish from its 16 subjects. some it's even more. the dullest student in Nigeria ends up being the best abroad cos learning their is easier, and like I heard on ur pace
Honestly listening to this makes me feel like I’m super blessed. As a Nigerian guy, My white girlfriend washes me with praises, she does everything to please me.
@@eleazarthomas2881Son of oloshos she didn't say Nigerian men are bad. All this men who lack home that's why you can say rubbish. And relationship between man and woman is transaction except God.
Growing up as a kid in Nigeria was very interesting. Coming second in class was never good enough. We never called our elders by their names. We always wanted to be the best in all we do. We have to be bold and outstanding. We want our parents and country to be proud of us. It’s like a competition among ourselves.
How do you know the positive feedbacks/testimonies are true? 1. Nigerian women find it really difficult to date foreign men, as they consider those men uncaring, uncultured, immature.. e.t.c They usually run back to Nigerian men 2. Nigerian Men even though they love Nigerian women, find it easier dating foreign women as they feel more appreciated and loved by foreign women. 3. Foreign men often consider our women too demanding and rarely have a successful relationship with our women. 4. Foreign woman tend to get addicted whenever they get into a relationship with a Nigerian man. Hence I totally agree with all the assertions about Nigerian Men
I don't know why you are all talking down on the man in red he is making sense seriously Ladies should learn to get good man from what he is saying he make great sense bruh
A man do not need love, he needs RESPECT. Do not talk down on a or Nigerian man, because you will definitely pay for that and remember, a man or Nigerian man will never forget!
Nigerian men are very traditional and most women they hurt aren't traditional. He will take good care of you however he expects respct and other traditional values in return
Na wa o... All these allegations on the nigerian man... Pesin never make am sef una don level allegations as if na only nija men dey the dating scene...
Well said and informative. Nigerian men and women are very hard working in any environment and tasks they're being confronted with. The average Nigerian child, has access to nothing, including good and quality education. Yet, they do better if given any opportunity.
Imagine the stereotype, Nigeria is not 1 country, Nigeria is different people, different culture, different ethnicity, different mindset, they were forced together by the British, they don't do things the same way, stop this ignorance stereotype.
A Nigerian man wants a replica of his mum.... I u want and love a Nigerian man... Try get to meet his mum... I bet u... You will understand d Nigerian man u re dealing with.
It's a topic, it's not stereotyping my brother. Nigerians are interesting topics because of the way we carry ourselves. We are all very unique creations. We love your opinion my bro!
I dated a girl in the US with two beautiful boys that I loved so dearly. She was a heavy weed smoker. While we were talking, I was asking serious questions to see if she could be a good mother and wife. I asked her if she could cut down on or stop smoking weed altogether, she made the excuse of weed isn’t bad, somehow connected it to some new age stuff, Quanza or so. I asked what she thought about smoking around the kids. Don’t you think that’s bad? Would you like it if they start smoking too?She said she would let her kids choose if they’ll smoke or not when they’re age 10 or so. Some very ridiculous age. Can’t remember exactly but not up to 15 even. Agree that evening I was done with her. Never had contact with her again. People in the west are in a world of their own. People’s reasoning here will baffle you. However, I don’t completely agree with everything these Nigerian brothers have said on this video. There’s dysfunction in every culture and we have ours in abundance in our Nigerian culture. We can open our mind, pick the good from other cultures and discard the bad. Every culture should do the same as every culture has something to learn from others.
The guy in red jump suit should allow the other guy to speak. He talks way too much and he does not speak for all Nigerian men. In fact, he doesn't sound like a Nigerian. His accent sound like his is Liberian.
You guys failed to defend your points on leading you on and leave you, also on being scans because of lack of opportunities so are other African countries.
Brother you say Nigeria men or boys take 10 subjects in primary school remember in that classroom there are Nigeria women or girls so don’t just say Nigeria men, Nigeria men because we the female are also in the classroom and we experience the same if not even worst starting from home, in the community and all over the Country Nigeria 🇳🇬
Yea some women can’t attract a professional, educated affluent Nigerian men, so she nailed the character traits of a typical Nigerian man not properly groomed, we need to also take responsibility of who they attract.
I will disappear…if you are bleeding me..Nigeria men are like other men but wouldn’t tolerate nonsense from any woman ..what about American men with so many baby mamas?
I get your point, we are only trying to discuss Nigerian men since they have become almost too controversial. American men, next. We appreciate your insight.
Nigerian men are loud because most grow up with loud music or watching TV loud, so they grow up being loud. Secondly, they have humor and will share their with you. If you notice, most clowns in real life are really loud. Nigerian men are very conservative at home and this is misunderstood as beign demeaning.
I will quote my brother 2 face ididbia...' if no one talks about you then you're nobody ' God bless Nigerian Men.
If you're a lady and want to keep Nigeria man just one thing he needs from you is respect Nigeria men love to be respected bu their women so if you're a lady you don't respect him just know that one beautiful day he will walk away from you and never look back
Respect is repriocal in any relationship. I’m not sure why in Nigerian culture respect is only subjected to the man. If you are disrespecting me and I’m in a relationship with you why do you think you deserve respect? It is earned not given. A lot of Nigerian men fail to understand
@kind2423 I think this is the mindset that put a lot of modern women in very messy situations....?. Would I be wrong if i said that a woman must earn her love from her man before he loves her... Must a woman earn the care of her man before he cares for her...?I would like to believe you know that the first thing a woman desires in a relationship is love and a man's desire to be respected.....
@@LuckyOsain it’s 2024 everything is “modern”. Are we suppost be stuck in the 1950s? Societies have to progress. Like I said no relationship will thrive if there is no mutual respect or love. No justifications
@kind2423 You said that society has progressed.... That is very true scientifically...... But morally, has society progressed or retrogressed.... You still did not answer my initial questions..... I'm not against respecting anybody...... But the idea of it must be earned before it can be given, just destroys everything......Another question to add to the others.. Can you go into any relationship without feeling loved ....? If your answer is no, would it be wise to say that you did not earn the love first before it can be given to you......
Food for thought here: The belief that respect should be earned is one of the highest levels of self degradation if you think that way.....When you say it must be earned, if a man shouts at you, and he's doing it often, are you going to shout back at him, or try and get a good solution that would favour you and him...... If you shout back, are you better ,or you're just another him..... This also goes for women...
Nigerians are not good no cap
I am a Nigerian Man and I approve this message
Thanks man
Tell her that Nigerians 🇳🇬do study computer science without using computer in school.
And we study engineering only in classrooms. You're on point, Thanks a bunch.
@@Dotmanmedia And that is why we are the smartest people on earth. No matter what is going on in Nigeria 🇳🇬 we are the best people on earth and our men are the best 🧡
@@Ladymeg you are right ✅️
But I will say that we study lots of course without even seeing it , touching it and feeling it
Very funny but true😂
@@Ladymegleading in fgm and child marriages?
Proud of you two men, Nigeria all the way 🇳🇬
God bless you my sister!!
Two cars, houses, phones are fruits of hard work. An average Nigerian is hard working and deserves everything that goes with it. It is not showing off. It is only lazy people who sees it that way.
Gbam! You nailed it!
some times its for reliability one device or car can disapoint u.
True Facts...I. disappear with people that sets me back especially when in MED SCHOOL, many opportunities here in USA. As a Nigerian I add values in anyone I dealt with.
My ex girl friend went clubbing and came back at 3am.She can't even get into my estate without my consent.I was surprised when I was called at the gate if they can allow her get in.Story short,after getting in,I told her this is not right for a lady to go around at this time of the day,she just got angry called uber and left.I didn't call her nor check on her.After about 3weeks,she started calling and wanted to come back but I said no.Nigeria men in many ways are very protective of their partners but bcs of cultural difference they won't agree
Most nigerian men are transitional and cultured, man! Someone who embodies:
• Adaptability
• Resilience
• Open-mindedness
• Emotional intelligence
• Empathy
• Curiosity
He navigates life's changes with grace, embracing new experiences and perspectives. This individual:
• Values diversity
• Learns from others
• Shares his own culture
• Fosters understanding
• Grows through challenges
Remember that a transitional and cultured man is a bridge builder, connecting people and ideas across boundaries. He enriches his community with his inclusive spirit, creativity, and wisdom. The above are what most makes nigerian people particularly particularly the men different different from other men.
We need you on the show!!! you're good!!!
A Nigerian man will disappear if you can’t add any value . In most cases they are of high value and most western women can’t meet up the standards of the Nigerian so they label him as a cheater . Nigerian men are especially loyal and generous.
You lie
Very true
You are absolutely right 🎉
Very well spoken
It’s true, also they want a woman to understand if they are struggling to provide her needs , because they always return the favor unless you insult them
NIGERIA PEOPLE ARE VERY VERY SMART AND FULL OF AGILITY RESILIENCE PEOPLE SELF COURAGEOUS HIGHLY ESTEEME PEOPLE
Yes oo,we don't give up,we move.
oga u said 10 subjects in primary school! it's more than 10 subjects oh!! at least where I finish from its 16 subjects. some it's even more. the dullest student in Nigeria ends up being the best abroad cos learning their is easier, and like I heard on ur pace
Honestly listening to this makes me feel like I’m super blessed. As a Nigerian guy, My white girlfriend washes me with praises, she does everything to please me.
Because you're the prize. You must also be a good person.
Are you going to marry her? Don't break her heart.
@@fiae2897 I don’t know the future. But I made her know that I dare to marry. But who knows
Kudos to you guys. You are saying totally fact
Thank you so much for your support.
I don't think there's country in the world that has inter married like Nigeria, we go for is befits us regales of were the person is coming from.
Good talk my person!
These guys are spot on.
Thank you guys for putting those plaster and complete paint on Nigeria men because e no easy.
Na wa oo! The plaster and paint is just too much with straight faces.😂😂😂
7:07 It died a natural death 😂... Oh man. There are some things you only hear in nigeria
I Love this beautiful lady how she smile ands talk about Nigerian man .
She's a sweet soul. You're well appreciated for your contribution!!!
Thank you
@@DotmanmediaCan you link me to her? I am a Nigerian men
Thank God for social media a lot people only know about the negative sides of Nigeria before social media
We are Nigeria 🇳🇬 and we are hard-working people, and we can not be apologetic.
Brilliant Podcast 👏
Thanks a bunch!
Proudly Nigerian!
Bless you any day!!!
Character is extremely important to a Nigerian man. A woman who don't listen is of no use to a Nigerian man.
Unfortunately, a lot of Nigerian 🇳🇬 women are poor listeners. This is where the likes of South African women earn the heart of Nigerian men.
@@esew7124 You might be right
@toplyf.you are right
You need Nigerians Lady to talk more on these than these men,because they experience the men themselves than they way the see themselves.
Relationships in Nigeria, can seldon be transactional. So you can't really that way. So the facts might differ
because you be olosho and u dey go after money and not love that's why u don't see anything good with your own people.
@@eleazarthomas2881Son of oloshos she didn't say Nigerian men are bad. All this men who lack home that's why you can say rubbish. And relationship between man and woman is transaction except God.
Growing up as a kid in Nigeria was very interesting. Coming second in class was never good enough. We never called our elders by their names. We always wanted to be the best in all we do. We have to be bold and outstanding. We want our parents and country to be proud of us. It’s like a competition among ourselves.
How do you know the positive feedbacks/testimonies are true?
1. Nigerian women find it really difficult to date foreign men, as they consider those men uncaring, uncultured, immature.. e.t.c They usually run back to Nigerian men
2. Nigerian Men even though they love Nigerian women, find it easier dating foreign women as they feel more appreciated and loved by foreign women.
3. Foreign men often consider our women too demanding and rarely have a successful relationship with our women.
4. Foreign woman tend to get addicted whenever they get into a relationship with a Nigerian man.
Hence I totally agree with all the assertions about Nigerian Men
Love you bro!
Nice interview, keep it up
I don't know why you are all talking down on the man in red he is making sense seriously Ladies should learn to get good man from what he is saying he make great sense bruh
It's expected. Everyone with their own views and we love it all. Views help us make things better.
The best podcast 🤍🤍🤍 Keep up the good work. Proudly Nigerian
Thank you 🙌
I could not have said it better, thank you guys.
my men really delivered with straight faces
That’s true 💯 I live in Germany but I’m a Nigeria so I connect to what they said
Gob bless you for us. Thanks for your contribution.
A man do not need love, he needs RESPECT. Do not talk down on a or Nigerian man, because you will definitely pay for that and remember, a man or Nigerian man will never forget!
Respect is mutual. Do not talk down to anyone!
The most ridiculous generalization of people in a country with 220 million people and 300 ethnic groups.
Exactly…the obsession with Nigerian men is uncanny.
Mata nor taya u... Dem nor go just rest
I do not know what you mean by most ridiculous generation
@@mannyobinyan6039if English hard u, u 4 rest abeg 😅
@@jahguda6017 you still not making any senses
Love both of you with your contribution. More Grace
Thanks Baba
Nigerian men are very traditional and most women they hurt aren't traditional. He will take good care of you however he expects respct and other traditional values in return
Something people's don't know about Nigeria is .... Nigeria man take a resk to survive poorvat simple 👌👌🇳🇬
You're talking! Thanks a bunch.
These guys spoke the truth
Every question she asked, Every other races are also liable to it. No need explaining.
Na wa o... All these allegations on the nigerian man... Pesin never make am sef una don level allegations as if na only nija men dey the dating scene...
I wonder oo
Lol 😂😂😂
We are cut from a different cloth..😂😂😂😂
Up ninja ❤❤❤🎉🎉
It's always wrong to generalize.
I agree.
Yoruba people often say if you can find 15 out of 20 things you want from a woman, she is the best woman for you however..walk away
Wow
Wow!!
Well said and informative. Nigerian men and women are very hard working in any environment and tasks they're being confronted with. The average Nigerian child, has access to nothing, including good and quality education. Yet, they do better if given any opportunity.
😂😂nice one bro 🇳🇬one love 👍🏾
One Love!!
They spoke correctly and that is the true fact
Imagine the stereotype, Nigeria is not 1 country, Nigeria is different people, different culture, different ethnicity, different mindset, they were forced together by the British, they don't do things the same way, stop this ignorance stereotype.
…but not 1 country??
@@Out-Here. Do you really want that answer?... or you just need my attention
Yes I need to know about your uncivilized comment
@@goodmanaustin9415 bruh Nigeria is diverse but it’s 1 country.
@@Out-Here. you are probably young and just need attention.
Una go explain tire 😮
6:50 Women cannot read our minds though.
A Nigerian man wants a replica of his mum.... I u want and love a Nigerian man... Try get to meet his mum... I bet u... You will understand d Nigerian man u re dealing with.
That's wisdom, coming from you. We see you. Thanks!!! Please stay tuned.
This is just the fact
We are very smart we study computer science without haven't computer😂😂
Word!!!
Stereotyping Nigerian men is absolute rubbish!!
This is not stereotyping but bringing attention and debunking how Nigerian men are viewed.
@@Gottahavesunshine1overhyping
It's a topic, it's not stereotyping my brother. Nigerians are interesting topics because of the way we carry ourselves. We are all very unique creations. We love your opinion my bro!
@@IgnatiusSanya....hhmmm.....🤔🤔....that handle looks familiar..
See how they're struggling to defend the undefendable... 😂😂😂...
You foolish 😡
Your brain is so dump like a waste material ozuor
Your level of stupidity and foolishness is higher than mountain everest
Really?😊
11:34 oh no. Man please never repeat that again
👍👍👍👍👍🇳🇬
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Y dis guy on red dey speak phone
Why even explaining to this lady. No one is ready to stay in a toxic relationship...not even her the white lady.
What are these guys saying? 😂
I dated a girl in the US with two beautiful boys that I loved so dearly. She was a heavy weed smoker. While we were talking, I was asking serious questions to see if she could be a good mother and wife. I asked her if she could cut down on or stop smoking weed altogether, she made the excuse of weed isn’t bad, somehow connected it to some new age stuff, Quanza or so. I asked what she thought about smoking around the kids. Don’t you think that’s bad? Would you like it if they start smoking too?She said she would let her kids choose if they’ll smoke or not when they’re age 10 or so. Some very ridiculous age. Can’t remember exactly but not up to 15 even. Agree that evening I was done with her. Never had contact with her again. People in the west are in a world of their own. People’s reasoning here will baffle you.
However, I don’t completely agree with everything these Nigerian brothers have said on this video. There’s dysfunction in every culture and we have ours in abundance in our Nigerian culture. We can open our mind, pick the good from other cultures and discard the bad. Every culture should do the same as every culture has something to learn from others.
The guy in red jump suit should allow the other guy to speak. He talks way too much and he does not speak for all Nigerian men. In fact, he doesn't sound like a Nigerian. His accent sound like his is Liberian.
That guy in red does not sound like us…. He Dey form accent lol lol 😂 e be like say he want that oyinbo girl. I dey suspect am.
Na Yoruba boy. All instead of Hall, urt instead of Hurt😂
@@lovejoseph1899how do you know he is a Yoruba?
@@lovejoseph1899 He has East African accent. He's not a Nigerian.
You guys are funny o! Una no see him name? Adetoun na Liberian name?
This guy in red na suspect....but as e cap well we go allow am access into the Nigerian brotherhood.
Thank you for your generosity, he'll be available anytime for it. lol. Thanks for your contribution.
You guys failed to defend your points on leading you on and leave you, also on being scans because of lack of opportunities so are other African countries.
Brother you say Nigeria men or boys take 10 subjects in primary school remember in that classroom there are Nigeria women or girls so don’t just say Nigeria men, Nigeria men because we the female are also in the classroom and we experience the same if not even worst starting from home, in the community and all over the Country Nigeria 🇳🇬
You sound insecure,everything is not gender war,the subject of discussion is Nigerian men not women.
Thank you guys for clearing your name, but we the Nigerian women knows you ghost a woman after sex. Period
You know nothing about Nigeria men
😊😊Are American women jumping for Nigerian men too. Please where are the other country men of other countries?😂😂😂
Ask them. My wife is American though.
Where's the lie tho , she's absolutely right. She nailed it as if she had experienced "Nigerian men" herself.
No lie there! We appreciate your comment.
Yea some women can’t attract a professional, educated affluent Nigerian men, so she nailed the character traits of a typical Nigerian man not properly groomed, we need to also take responsibility of who they attract.
23:33 The lady may have a point there
11:46 have
I will disappear…if you are bleeding me..Nigeria men are like other men but wouldn’t tolerate nonsense from any woman ..what about American men with so many baby mamas?
I get your point, we are only trying to discuss Nigerian men since they have become almost too controversial. American men, next. We appreciate your insight.
Nigeria is filled with baby mamas too.
We're not all like this... That's all I'm going to say
Nigerians are not monolithic
This woman must be so dumb to put a whole country in a box.
She's not dumb, she's only asking about the controversies about Nigerian men. Thanks for your contribution though.
Nigerian men are loud because most grow up with loud music or watching TV loud, so they grow up being loud. Secondly, they have humor and will share their with you. If you notice, most clowns in real life are really loud.
Nigerian men are very conservative at home and this is misunderstood as beign demeaning.
Miss presenter you are interviewing the wrong people.
The guy in red should be a Liberian, not a Nigerian.
Why mention Liberia, you love trouble lol.
These guys are talking as though women can reason
A lot of women can reason, I can assure you. Only a few are spoiling the pack. Thanks for your contribution. appreciated.
The man on red is not a Nigerian man
Yes, he is. Born and bred.
@amandaeguale1641 which country is he from?
What makes you think so? His accent?
😂 are the only country in Africa that students study under trees? Pls get sensible people to give u answers, bcuz this guy in red isn't ok
That's why it's his opinion. You don't have to be rude my brother. He is talking about his country.
Why answer this sorts trashed questions. It's annoying.
The guy in red talks too much. I expect that he is yoruba. Usual noisemakers...
Wowwww, thats what u got from his charisma way of talking? U need help ooo cos we Yoruba move regardless of ur negativity towards us!!!!!
Coming from the usual tribalist fool - the tribal suspect!
Are you sure you are mentioning Yoruba or you make a mistake because we knows who are noise makers and cry cry baby
Yes he is Yoruba. Thanks for the comment though. We will tell him to shut up next time.
@buway1 has he said anything that is wrong?