10 INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT YORUBA MEN | AN IGBO WOMAN’S PERSPECTIVE
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Thank you iyawo wa (our wife) lots of love from this side,your marriage is blessed at all time by God’s grace.
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I 100% agree with the appreciative part😅 Yoruba people generally not only their men are very appreciative or rather greet a lot. They will tell you welldone for everything and anything like welldone for sitting, for standing for going to the market, for sleeping etc 😅 that how “eku joko” (hope I got it right) got sticker in my head from Lagos😃😃 Nice one 👍
My hubby watched the video and said there is thank you for last year too only that he never used that for me or anyone just yet 😂
You are right o, infact we can greet you for what you did 10 years ago seff. 😅
Yorubas are world citizens and are not bothered about who they date as long as you pull your weight, respect yourself, with them and others
@TheofficialChi I am Igbo,Imo state precisely, I live in New Jersey USA, u just opened my eyes more about the Yoruba men,I have one Yoruba guy now in same County with me,talking about marriage, but honestly I just blocked him yesterday bcos I am getting tired of him not telling me how beautiful I look,or asking me my brother's phone number and other things anyway, he has alots of Female friends, u re right but I am d very jealous type,can't. Am taking a break to see if he is gonna go out of his way to come look 4 me,even after blocking him,then I will tell him,what d problem is,bcos am already falling out of love with all his attitude, I met him last yr,when I wanted to buy car from him online but finally meet dis yr. January physical no intimate yet.❤ from USA.
These are true facts👌
Am married to a yoruba man too.
A new subscriber and i love your videos!!
Oh thank you so much.
I should have added that they love Igbo girls a lot! 😀
Our wife ❤❤❤you know so much about us May God keep your marriage with joy, happiness as well as good health
Thank you our Yoruba wife much love ❤❤❤.
If not 💯%, you are 95% correct. I'm a Yoruba man married to an Abia woman, about cooking my wife is a genius but she doesn't eat locust bean like I used to,occasionally, she allows me to cook my veggies with enough locust beans(iru) and eat it alone. My in-laws from Ohafia,pH,both home and abroad are wonderful people but I'm always trying to be extra ordinary careful like what you said earlier. Thank God for my wife, she understands
Kudo to your parents for allowing you to marry a Yoruba man. God bless them.
I wish you and your husband a very successful and ever lasting married life.
Thank you so much for your kind words
As a Yoruba man I want to wish you all the best in life and your marriage ..... may it be fruitful. I liked and subscribed to your channel.
Much appreciated. Thank you so much!
American Black Woman married a Yoruba man. Love him so much. Definitely a lovely husband
I thought everything you said was what Nigerians did. I did not know we were so different. But you opened my eyes to the Igbo culture. WOW. Cool video. Thanks for sharing. My wife needs to see this. BTW, I am a proud Yoruba man.
Nigeria is a big country of many tribes with different cultures 😀 In all our differences makes us beautiful 🥰 Thanks for engaging
Good job asanwa bekebeke…..enjoy your marriage. Love is a good thing. And I’m a Yoruba man 😂
Interesting delivery .. insightful 🎉
You are absolutely right on your analysis about yoruba men. We are wonderful husbands, particularly when you are in good terms with our mothers and sisters.
This woman don see us finish
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Mrs A
Thank you for giving us an insight 😊
Thanks for engaging babe 🤩
Good one and thank you
You are absolutely right our dear wife
God bless
You really tried iyawo wa! I appreciate you! A woman that married from another tribe and doesn't bother to know or study some things about her husband and his tribe will definitely have problems in enjoying the marriage. Keep enjoying your marriage.
Good of you!
Well said. Thanks a lot 🙏
My husband sabi cook o🤣🤣🤣
I enjoyed watching the video. Your home is blessed.
Thank you so much!
We can't eat ordinary beans, we love respect alot, we don't like too much involvement with inlaws, we like different swallows, we appreciate it when you do good, we can greet you till you are tired, cook, we can only assist you, we think it's not our work jare. You are very correct dear. Keep it up
Phew! Someone who agrees! Thanks for engaging 🤗
You're brilliant lady.....your position is very real.
Well, I love cooking. Cooking is indeed my hubby and I do better than my Woman of God... Chaiiiiiii, I hope she'll not see this o🤣
You have tried so much our wife.
You are very correct ..
I am an Igbo, and I don't eat beans on its own either. I will add yam, plantain, or rice. Otherwise, my stomach might run.
I forgot to say that even when it’s beans and yam or plantain or potatoes, they’ll still eat it with bread, garri or white rice 😂😢
Is my name sick how are you my friend🎉🎉🎉🎉😂 Is there are you best
She is adorable and gracious. God bless and keep your family IJN
We cook concussions we learned in schools as undergrads
At that in law relationships , I agreed and learned. True
For this alone i am subscribing,i am an Igbo man that grew up in Lagos and you are spot on especially the aspect of in laws.It is affecting my relationship with my mum in law
Don't take it to heart my Bros. Your Mum In Law will come round. Keep treating your Wife well, and try to find out what your Mum in Law likes - surprise her with it once in a while. Don't even give it to her directly. Let your Wife deliver it in your name. She is just testing you to see if you are a 'correct guy' that is good enough to be her in-law. It is her job to keep you on your toes! Even we Yoruba Men know our Yoruba Mothers-in-law can be hard work 😅
@@originallandlord2026 Thanks so much boss,I am so so grateful
Omg! She is so right
Bless you my dear girl. ❤😊
You did very well in your analogy. Well done, "iyawo wa". 😊
Thank you! 😃
Very interesting
Thanks ma 🤩
You are very right my sister. Kind regards
Thank you.
Solid foods are called swallows but are not meant to be swallowed during eating ,according to biological science the chewing before swallowing is the proper way of nutrition cause the digestion of starch takes place in the mouth . Biological enzymes in the mouth saliva acts on the solid starch and convert it to glucose before it goes down to the stomach so the Yorubas are doing it the right way by chewing
The respect part is spot on accurately.
Appreciating part is 100% we appreciate with words, action and money it’s our way.
Verbal Love expression is individual oh many of us that I know are good with sweet words, if not how do we woe ladies. It reflects in our songs and praising God but not everyone would have such skills
Cooking skills true, more can not but it’s up bringing
Smiles swallow is not swallow oh truly we love varieties of swallow but we do not shew it.
Locust beans that’s true for my parents but my wife doesn’t put in my food and am fine, she’s not Yoruba.
Yes eating beans alone is strange truly
Reality
Iyawo wa 😍
Lastly, what Yoruba men doesn't like from their wife is to switch or change or be calling their children names different from the one they named their children. If I named my child Ayomide, I want my wife to call him Ayomide and be known as Ayomide by everyone. Do not allow the name you gave the child overshadow the name the Yoruba husband gave the child.
THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT
Anyway you tried but only very few do chew their swallow,we love to add something to our cooked beans like maize,this one supper,beans & maize cooked together,may be as a Christian and a married personnel,I have more male friends...and lastly we read meanings to actions most expecially we of analog era...I appreciate you your good moral upbringings,you are one in millions...
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Eat just beans ke? Can never happen! The appreciative part is a Yoruba thing...💯
We will thank you for last year or for ten years ago if we didn't see you after the last time you did us a favour or did something we appreciate...that's when you hear people say 'e se ojo' (thank you for the last time). So that you know, we love it when people appreciate what we do and say thank you the next day or when next you meet or speak. We Yorubas are the best 'greeters' in the world😉🤣
We have a greeting for every activity! A typical Yoruba woman/man would greet you for eating, sleeping (e ku oju orun), dancing (e ku ijo), and playing (e ku ere). Name it, we have a greeting for it, even for idleness and bathing😁😁
You got a new subscriber😘😘
Nice video
Thanks
Your facts are real
We eat beans with yam or fried plantain. You have done well as a proud Yourba woman . You have done well as an Ebo lady .👍.
Nice
Thanks
😂😂😂Yes o. I am a Yoruba woman. if I get cut disrespecting my husband, he will repeat that same word to me 500 times to remind me i disrespected him. And he won’t stop Until I say I am sorry, it is a slip of tongue 👅.😂😂😂 However, he is a very lovable man who adore me with all adoration, calling me sweet Yoruba names that were not even my name😂😂😂❤❤❤
Very good analysis ❤
Thank you
You’ve just gotten a new subscriber by merely looking at your natural beauty. I’m from Mbaise too, you’re my younger sister. Ahiara to be precise. You’re a doing well.
I agree with the in-law part
For real 😂
Interesting. I know about that iru part
Right? 😂
GOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE MY SISTER
Thank you 🤗
Absolute Research 😅😊
You can say that again 😂
U have my sub 👍
Thank you 🤩
Yoruba men can cook. They are some of the best cooks
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It takes a lot of courage to marry outside your tribe.
You must be adventurous and broad minded person and from a large hearted family..
I wish you peace and a long and hapoy life with your hubby❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much 🙏
The beans narrative, is true about me as well. But, I like beans and fried plantain a lot.
Please introduce one to me 😂
The volume is too low and kind of overshadowed by the background music.
The other room is our pride
Summary
1. They Love Respect
2. Not Very Expressive
3. They are sensual/Sexual
4. Very Appreciative
5. Not very good cook
6. They Love a variety of swallow foods
7. They are not usually invested in being a good son-in-law (my view Overdo they cause billing at times)
8. They love Iru in every food
9. They can never eat beans alone
10. They usually have more female friends
It will be better for the two strong tribes to iron out their differences and settle it and make peace.
Why the Yorubas are angry with Igbos is that the Yoruba feels the Igbos are not appreciating their spirits of accommodation and the sacrifices they made for them during the war and aftermath of the war instead they want to blame them for the loss they had because of the war but the fact is, that Yoruba did not caused the war or the losses they had because of the war.
Accommodation my foot,the Yorubas that are living in the UK and Brazil in great numbers,how many times have their host countries abused and chased them away bc they're living there?
How can you say that you accomodate people who wanted to opt out of the forced marriage by our colonial slave masters? Igbos lost the war on two accounts,one the influence of our slave masters the United Kingdom and their allies and secondly the economic blockade orchestrated by Awolowo where igbos were not allowed to have access to food
Igbos developed their own ammunitions they used to fight the war by themselves,that's the western world especially the UK 🇬🇧 and their allies hate the igbos with passion even till eternity
The difference is in the culture - Yorubas are very respectful and appreciative. Even when the Yoruba stranger is more Prosperous than the host, the Yoruba will still behave in humble and submissive manner but in the same situation, the Igbo man easily gets carried away, and forgets he is only being accommodated in a strange land. Yorubas love and respect Igbos, especially Igbo Women 😅
@@originallandlord2026 No, Yoruba is not humble or submissive to Igbo but regards them as a fellow compatriots and likewise the Igbos regards the Yorubas as fellow compatriots., and no tribe is more prosperous than the other. Stop saying this kind of talk.
Yesssss ooooo -- we love iru in everything especially Yoruba from Kogi axis, name it stew, rice, beans soup etc etc should have ‘IRU’ …. just like the other room - it’s our love language….. if that is reducing it’s a signal we are no longer connecting 👊🏾
……..I ENDORE THIS VIDEO 🤠
Our wife, you don see us finish. Good job. Higher heights, brighter horizons.In Jesus name.
Thank my wife❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are very correct. We change swallow 😂😂😂😂😂
7:02 hahahaha
There is nothing like swallow in yoruba land it is called okele which means solid
Most observations are right. They can't eat beans alone, mostly with fried plantains. Not all youruba men have female friends. It just happened that yours is like that. You just need to be vigilant if that is the case.
You will really enjoy your husband. That is good of you.
You forgot to add that Yoruba is not so particular about money.
Yoruba loves respect so much, that he has proverbs for it...
Eni a se l'ore ti o dupe, bi olosa ko ni l'eru lo ni
yi'ni yi'ni k'eni le se'mi
They're experts in DRINKING GARRI, you forgot to mention that.
😂😂😂😂me like to drink garri but is seasonal
I have lived closely with these people....they can't do without GARRI and EKPA. ( groundnuts)
High grade Garri comes from Ijebu land largely, and it's a must to take it as a flakes. Other low grade Garri are meant for okele or swallow.
My dad loves eating beans with pap or with fried plantains.
Yoruba men are loving.
😊
I agree 😀
May God bless your mariage. ❤you are laerning fast. Well done Ezinwanyi. 😊
Thanks so much ❤️
They drink " AGBO " ( local herb ) a lot before they get to the other ROOM.
Charming!
Thank you ours wife, God bless your marriage ❤❤❤but tell our Son not to compere you and your Children later with the females friends he is having now and later, it will destroy you and your Children, when God joined the two of you in to one, He knew what He was doing.
Thanks so much for engaging 🤗 Like I said, all the points I mentioned are not necessarily attributes of my husband but what I’ve seen and gathered from associations of friends and families.
@@TheofficialChiDiscourage him in a mild way from keeping female friends now that he is married. Some of these female friends are ex girlfriends that are still emotionally attached to your man.
Thanks our wife but it remaining to aquire our language to make it complete. But for me I cook well
Generalization
Yoruba did not like show off or expensive thing most believe that the money can be use for other things. Then we love family and even extended family, we don't easyly forget thing that is the reason we love history.
Niceee
How can you eat beans alone? It doesn't sound right at all. You are 99.99% right with your observations
That no 2 and not eating one swallow is what i hate about them .
Absolutely 😂
😂😂😂 U r very funny! Are U available or un-available! 😂😂😂😂
She get everything walahi...that beans part 😂😂
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About the swallow. That’s why I prefer Eba with Garri ijebu cox of taste and the semo u must add small salt to give it taste. Just respect my parent, family and you shall be spoilt everywhere including oza room. More of Iru and less maggie, beans with sprinkle Garri or soak Garri when the beans is hot is bae.
Madam na your husband not general public ooo lol 😆 na only your own u know
That’s why I said it may not be a “general” thing but a “majority” thing 😂
What are the points you disagree with?
@@TheofficialChi 80% Right. what u said is true
You are one beautiful sister. And I glad that you are not hiding your natural hair under any wig or have your hair straightened. God bless
Thanks so much 🤩
2:55 really?
YOU ARE VERY OBSERVANT!
I don't eat locust bean.
SHE LOVES YORUBA MAN, AWA NI OMO LUABI/ OMO ALADE NI WAA.
Beeni oh 😀
enjoy your marriage oh. Nawao you will come back and do another video on how he cheated
@TrendingInNaija wise words coming from a fool
@TrendingInNaija Wise words coming from a fool
You tried....
Thank you 🤗
Iru I don’t even like 😂, but the funny 1 is in-law 😂 I actually don’t involve my in-law at all
Try and get involved with your in-laws oh 😂
@@TheofficialChi na their daughter I marry not my in-law.
For how many years have you been married, and you've gathered so much intelligence about us? I put it to you that you're dangerous 😂
The way Nigeria is going, it is advisable to marry from your own ethnic, because very soon, the products of marriage from other ethnic would not be allowed to hold any political position in Yoruba land. This is the truth of what will happen in the nearest future. Use Lagos state as an example.
God bless you for saying the truth
Swallows have different taste na😂, how would you eat the same all d time
We actually respect in-laws o, infact in Yoruba folklore an in-law is more of a deity(oro l’ana) so u would rather avoid them so you don’t make any error or mistake or disrespect that would offend them
Lastly you have to eat beans with something na😂😂
The cooking stuff, maybe na your husband cos am fucking good in kitchen. When people even want to do special occasions, I was call
Wao that good
@@TheofficialChi even my kids prefer my cooking to their mother cooking. It’s just personal interest to like cooking
You try small
Thank you 😀
You’re not an Ibo lady as you are trying to confirm. Your surname is Adeyeri isn’t it.. OR Are you married to a Yoruba man ? Let us know
I disagree with the iru part😅
Really? 😂😂
@@TheofficialChi
yes ooo...I felt its only in efo and ewedu thats necessary,
any other soup or dish that its been added to aside the a
above mentioned is based on the owner's choice
Yorubas can add "iru" in their water before drinking it. They love the dirty smelling thing too much.
Thanks, our wife. may Almighty God bless your union. I really enjoyed your submissions and everything you said is inch perfect except on the point that Yoruba men kept female friends than male friends. I beg to disagree on this. Infact i should simply tell you that's not true. An average Yoruba man enjoys the company of his male friends any day any time. Anything different from this omo open your eyes o. That is not say it is a taboo to relate with female friends, but this is usually few. Cousins, maybe. Exes, i dont subscribe to that.
Thanks for your submission on this topic…🙏
Good to know that not everyone has the aforementioned attributes 😀
Lol. "Yoruba men being on the fence".
Definitely! Probably the most diplomatic tribe in Nigeria.
Even reading history about how they interacted with the White colonial officers in 1800s, you will already see the constant diplomacy, even though they did not the whites to dominate them.