I am truly impressed. This South African woman is everything a man wants in a woman. Intelligent, God fearing, business and family oriented. She is a total package. Nice show.
This Woman from South Africa that married a Nigerian of IBO stock is a strong woman like an Ibo Woman just like my Mother. She is actually a decent woman because she is born again and a daughter of Zion.
@@PrettyHlelaIf not you are fool. Your South African sister had just murdered her Nigerian husband using South African men to gun him down. Maybe we will start calling all the evil you guys are doing that Nigerians don't talk.
Pls always allow your guests talk. You interrupted alot special train of thoughts. But I must commend you for this beautiful video. Thank you Sir and greetings to your lovely guest. As a Nigerian I hail and respect her.
Wow, I loved listening to my dear sister here. Her words and outlook are filled with wisdom and positivity. I love the way that you are leading my sister. As an only girl amongst boys in my own family, I could relate to some of the things that you mentioned. Actions speak louder than words. As long as you have a positive mindset and you put God first in your endeavors, then the world will be your oysters. Thank you for sharing about your journey. it's highly appreciated 💐💝🇿🇦
I salute this woman. Charity begins at home. Respect and morals starts at home. As a South African i agree with her that a woman must understand who she is first. Loving yourself and knowing who you are as God's image that's where it starts. And if growing in a home of love and being brought in love and good morals then automatically even though you have your children will be full of love and healthy .Even relations next door or community or even where you are or coworkers will feel 💕😘 that you are..So love to respect and good morals go together. If the world let love lead the world will be a better place for every human being.
Listening to this lady made my Christmas more enjoyingable. She is what every man would want in a woman. This Igbo brother is lucky to have such a woman for a wife. Bless her and her family.
This interview was very rich with a lot of wisdom and lessons to learn. I particularly enjoyed the aspect of you praying for God's own choice and not your own choice. I must say that I'm impressed by the standards to which you held yourself in both your life and your marriage especially as a South African. I must say also that I'm shocked to know that there's a South African Christian of your quality in South Africa. I never believed that South Africa have good Christians like you. Thank God for your life.
That is an insult, we also don't think there are good Nigerians because drug trade and pimping so both countries have work to do to improve relationship for Africa's sake
So when we generalise Nigerians are criminals you get cross, but you generalise as well. Lots of Black south Africans are entrepreneurs but you claim people are lazy. Nigeria like South Africa has bad corrupt governance.
My dear sister, If a Nigerian man loves you to the extent that he asks you to marry him, you will end up doing just that regardless of your Nationality.❤ 2.This is because the Nigerian man will be the best man you will ever encounter in your space. Period!🎉
Follow ur instincts... a bum is a bum no matter their nationality or tribe...and again, not enough opportunities for a black foreign person in mzanzi... maybe encourage him to go back home and look for an opportunity
@dinamosia. Learn to be more patient and encourage the change whilst "balancing". The Lord gave you the mind to think and if capable to do that for your husband, then gladly do. No person can change another except God who has everyone's blueprints. Your husband is yours irrespective of tribe because the blood of Jesus cleansed us all and covers us all equally. Issues of change, bring to God in prayer and fasting. Count yourself blessed to even have a spouse.🙏🏿
Your comment is funny, though. Everyone cannot do business for God's sake. Do you even know that Nigeria is the most industrious country in Africa? The competition is high. That's why traveling to other countries to do business is necessary. In the Igbo tribe, we practice artisanship, which has helped build business moguls in Nigeria and extended to Africa.
If you are a guest in a country, and majority of your nationals show similar pattern of a certain negative behaviour of disrespect, arrogance, thuggery and unsavoury nature, then that shoe seems to fit many people of that nation
As a Tanzanian when I first entered Nigeria, all I saw and still see are business opportunities everywhere, and some Nigerians who take advantage they do very well but there is a good number of them that do not see these opportunities at all 😢
It is the same mentality Nigeria used whenever you hear them travel to other countries. There are business opportunities everywhere in the world. We are many, and moving to somewhere else placed another search for opportunities. Ironically everyone cannot be business men/women.
@@jameschidum2197 wife and children belongs to the Husband not the other way around. Nigerian men should have pride and take their wives and offsprings to their homeland
You see I am a Zambian. My father is from Zambia and my mother is Zimbabwean. I went to secondary school in zim. They are the most wonderful human beings and they are not as hateful, awful, tribalistic and nasty as black and coloured south Africans. You are an incredibly horrible people who think you are better than other black Africans. Shaka zulu was a wicked person who drove out many tribes and these tribes settled peacefully in other parts of Africa. The ngoni settled in Eastern Zambia where my fathers tribe comes from. So your xenophobic attacks on other Africans is not a surprise, because shaka zulu did 5he same thing. Uou have forgotten so soon how other blacks stood in solidarity with black South Africans....... What an ungrateful lot. @@tloutlou2655
Mmmmm Joy ...i remember when we were singing at church choir,on a break she said ...mantombazana masithandazeleni imishado meaning (girls let's pray for marriages)and guess what! She was the first to get married,a white wedding for that matter,she is a good woman, very prayerful,she new what she needed and now they have a big family with Collins👏more grace more blessings to them.
she is a brilliant women she has a open mind we need more of this to unite SA & nigeria please SA lets bury our hatchet and unite for the common good of africa
They only go the extra mile when you are an established man😂 Don't be fooled. Its all about what they can see and get from you. And that's how they are scammed.
@nokuzolaofoegbu5453 Thank God he was buying nice cloths for your father good and well trained man. how many south African guys are taking care of their in-laws.
,South Africans ae very tired o f Nigeria don't come here and tell about Nigeria love story that is your story . South African want to fix their problems without Nigeria hamba uye kwakho e Nigeria please please please
You are dating someone in your twenties and he is gifting your father with a Rolex? Make me laugh again. The interviewer should ask how much were they because we need to to probe more here.
He gifted him bcoz he had intensions of marrying me. Is it wrong to gift someone？My husband is a giver naturally we have an organisation where we feed people.
Guys why our sister Nokuzola was suppose to seek permission to relocate to his husband's home or country. In African culture a woman gets married and automatically relocate to her in law's family, period. No permission is sought unless if the customs are different.
My sister stay there. You are happily married to a Nigerian, that makes you a Nigerian. Please can we not hear nonsense like your husband is a South African.
This Woman from South Africa that married a Nigerian of IBO stock is a strong woman like an Ibo Woman just like my Mother. She is actually a decent woman because she is born again and a daughter of Zion.
'I don't go out validation from anybody', a really great lady. Confident, independent minded, and God-fearing.
I am truly impressed. This South African woman is everything a man wants in a woman. Intelligent, God fearing, business and family oriented. She is a total package. Nice show.
Am impressed by this interview. Great job, guy
You are a sound interviewer, your interjections, cuts and questions are on point. I hail you. The Nigerian wife, super.
She's a really wise woman, a blessing to her entire family. God bless her. Amen.
You are a WONDERFUL South African...LOVE from Lagos, Nigeria...
This Woman from South Africa that married a Nigerian of IBO stock is a strong woman like an Ibo Woman just like my Mother.
She is actually a decent woman because she is born again and a daughter of Zion.
She is just a mere Jollofinah. Nothing special
It's not about being born again. She just understands the dynamic of marriage and accepted and natural assignments as a wife
Igbo and not Ibo for heaven's sake.
@@stevenwilliams3015my upbringing contributes, but all in all, God has been my helper through out.🙏
May Jehovah God almighty bless this woman, she is a true definition of a good wife the holy bible talks about.
Until she's used for retuals 😂
@@PrettyHlelaIf not you are fool. Your South African sister had just murdered her Nigerian husband using South African men to gun him down. Maybe we will start calling all the evil you guys are doing that Nigerians don't talk.
@@PrettyHlelainstead of you to focus on your spellings, you are talking about "retuals".
Pls always allow your guests talk. You interrupted alot special train of thoughts. But I must commend you for this beautiful video. Thank you Sir and greetings to your lovely guest. As a Nigerian I hail and respect her.
Ma'am you have a wonderful upbringing
Bless you.
Wow, I loved listening to my dear sister here. Her words and outlook are filled with wisdom and positivity. I love the way that you are leading my sister. As an only girl amongst boys in my own family, I could relate to some of the things that you mentioned. Actions speak louder than words. As long as you have a positive mindset and you put God first in your endeavors, then the world will be your oysters. Thank you for sharing about your journey. it's highly appreciated 💐💝🇿🇦
Thank you so much❤
Bless you my sister❤
Madam you made my day am proud you and you husband
I salute this woman. Charity begins at home. Respect and morals starts at home. As a South African i agree with her that a woman must understand who she is first. Loving yourself and knowing who you are as God's image that's where it starts. And if growing in a home of love and being brought in love and good morals then automatically even though you have your children will be full of love and healthy .Even relations next door or community or even where you are or coworkers will feel 💕😘 that you are..So love to respect and good morals go together. If the world let love lead the world will be a better place for every human being.
This woman is me honestly as a man that I am. Then wishing my wife thinks like her with honesty.
I love this table talk. Very indepth . Today's marriage of this Era is going somewhere I can't imagined. We need the old tradition of marriage.
Listening to this lady made my Christmas more enjoyingable. She is what every man would want in a woman. This Igbo brother is lucky to have such a woman for a wife. Bless her and her family.
Bless you Sir
She is indeed wise and a blessing to my Igbo brother. She's family's oriented and God fearing, which is the most important.
This interview was very rich with a lot of wisdom and lessons to learn. I particularly enjoyed the aspect of you praying for God's own choice and not your own choice. I must say that I'm impressed by the standards to which you held yourself in both your life and your marriage especially as a South African. I must say also that I'm shocked to know that there's a South African Christian of your quality in South Africa. I never believed that South Africa have good Christians like you. Thank God for your life.
That is an insult, we also don't think there are good Nigerians because drug trade and pimping so both countries have work to do to improve relationship for Africa's sake
Because you listen to some small brains😂 from your country 😂😂
So when we generalise Nigerians are criminals you get cross, but you generalise as well. Lots of Black south Africans are entrepreneurs but you claim people are lazy. Nigeria like South Africa has bad corrupt governance.
Thank you brother, actually tjeres a whole lot who are even better than me. Bless you
@nokuzolaofoegbu5453 Tsek
This woman is a blesssing in Southafrican of today ❤❤❤❤
I love this, just subscribed.
We need more of this type of discussion.
There so many men and women like this trust is key !
She is right on the business aspects
🎉❤🎉 her story , words experiences.. it's quite interesting.. I see god's hand, her thoughts full of wisdom
A great program
i am so impressed with Nokuzola.thank God for her
Showing. From. Houston tx
She. Is. Beautiful and. Mind. Open
oh I thought the interview was held in Nigeria for a change.
Stop putting Nigeria and South Africa in the same sentence, please.🇳🇬
My dear sister,
If a Nigerian man loves you to the extent that he asks you to marry him, you will end up doing just that regardless of your Nationality.❤
2.This is because the Nigerian man will be the best man you will ever encounter in your space. Period!🎉
😂😂😂😂
Dreamer land 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
His interruptions were apt.
Am exhausted this relationship is going nowhere,I have to do everything more especially thinking and he is Yoruba
Follow ur instincts... a bum is a bum no matter their nationality or tribe...and again, not enough opportunities for a black foreign person in mzanzi... maybe encourage him to go back home and look for an opportunity
@dinamosia. Learn to be more patient and encourage the change whilst "balancing". The Lord gave you the mind to think and if capable to do that for your husband, then gladly do. No person can change another except God who has everyone's blueprints. Your husband is yours irrespective of tribe because the blood of Jesus cleansed us all and covers us all equally. Issues of change, bring to God in prayer and fasting.
Count yourself blessed to even have a spouse.🙏🏿
Xhosa name Nokuzola , clan is something different
Mr. Interviewer, please allow your guest to talk.
The interruption from the host did not allow the guest to finish her thought.
She. Is. Full of. Wisdom
We will teach you, it SA baba
Omg she is on point about opportunities in nigeria, that Nigerians don't see
my dear, that's how life is. Even within interstates too. you'll find what's lacking in there.
Your comment is funny, though. Everyone cannot do business for God's sake. Do you even know that Nigeria is the most industrious country in Africa? The competition is high. That's why traveling to other countries to do business is necessary. In the Igbo tribe, we practice artisanship, which has helped build business moguls in Nigeria and extended to Africa.
Behavior shouldn't be generalized to certain people or tribe. Everyone grew up with different circumstances around them.
If you are a guest in a country, and majority of your nationals show similar pattern of a certain negative behaviour of disrespect, arrogance, thuggery and unsavoury nature, then that shoe seems to fit many people of that nation
As a Tanzanian when I first entered Nigeria, all I saw and still see are business opportunities everywhere, and some Nigerians who take advantage they do very well but there is a good number of them that do not see these opportunities at all 😢
They see it my dear, but can't be bothered. Just try to speak with them, they would give you reason why they should not.
It is the same mentality Nigeria used whenever you hear them travel to other countries. There are business opportunities everywhere in the world. We are many, and moving to somewhere else placed another search for opportunities. Ironically everyone cannot be business men/women.
I am yet to see a South African man married Nigerian woman
This. Is. Best. Show
Ask questions and allow your guest to flow uninterrupted unless he or she is short of words.
very sound woman. but many SA laddies don't reason like you do
How many have u interacted with to come to that conclusion?
Just like many nigerian men dont behave like her husband
@@maybe12985I'm South African he is right.
Some o f them have started coming now. Many SA are in Nigeria now
That is a true love amakoti wase Nigeria that's very good you know Nigeria take your husband and children go to Nigeria umakoti ugana kabondoda
Why must you dictate where they have live? Who gave you that authority? So weird Sad Africows.
@@jameschidum2197 wife and children belongs to the Husband not the other way around. Nigerian men should have pride and take their wives and offsprings to their homeland
We need a whole lot of more intermarriages between Nigerians and South Africans! 😊 Proudly Kenyan 🇰🇪❤
@our10picks18, We don't! People should marry who they love. It is not about countries.
We don't want that nonsense. We want more between SA , LESOTHO, Eswatini And Botswana. And a bit of Zim.
Na u born them to be black Africans @@tloutlou2655
You see I am a Zambian. My father is from Zambia and my mother is Zimbabwean. I went to secondary school in zim. They are the most wonderful human beings and they are not as hateful, awful, tribalistic and nasty as black and coloured south Africans. You are an incredibly horrible people who think you are better than other black Africans. Shaka zulu was a wicked person who drove out many tribes and these tribes settled peacefully in other parts of Africa. The ngoni settled in Eastern Zambia where my fathers tribe comes from. So your xenophobic attacks on other Africans is not a surprise, because shaka zulu did 5he same thing. Uou have forgotten so soon how other blacks stood in solidarity with black South Africans....... What an ungrateful lot. @@tloutlou2655
Nah, we don’t. We good as Nigerians
Am here, send the bachelor's to me
Zulu Lydia how are you? Let’s chat.
Fuseki leliNuku...
Umphupho
Mmmmm Joy ...i remember when we were singing at church choir,on a break she said ...mantombazana masithandazeleni imishado meaning (girls let's pray for marriages)and guess what! She was the first to get married,a white wedding for that matter,she is a good woman, very prayerful,she new what she needed and now they have a big family with Collins👏more grace more blessings to them.
Bless you sisi, i cant see you or your name.❤
@@nokuzolaofoegbu5453 💝💝💝💝💝💝
she is a brilliant women
she has a open mind
we need more of this to unite SA & nigeria
please SA lets bury our hatchet and unite for the common good of africa
Why are begging them?to unite is not by force.
Nigerians must learn from SA...we way better ❤ and ahead of time
@edirindafe1210, what have you done to South Africans that you are begging for?
Not until yiu accept there are bad Criminal Nigerians in our country and call, them out instead of covering for them.
We don't want to unite with Scammers wena. We fine without them.
Bro abeg, allow your guest talk and stop interrupting so much .. OMG allow her finish before you jump in
Relax! It is conversation between them.
Its an interview matNEWDSe needs to shut up. @nmg1909
A woman of wisdom.🇳🇬
They say South Africans are lazy. I do not see any laziness from this woman.
So she represents all south Africans??
@@truethots3088Yes oo!
@@truethots3088 Yes.
@@truethots3088envy!😂 why are, we the biggest middle class in south Africa as blacks if we are lazy 🦥?
@@GoforiGuguYou are day dreaming. Nigeria is a mystery till date.
Illiteracy is the problem of negativity
Accountability is the problem, SA xenophobia which is a lie and Nigerian drug trade, work needs be done from both sides
Fix your country first
Talking about literacy while your litter 🚯 your country 😂
Wow
Criminality with arrogance and no accountability is what happened between the two generations.
You are a good woman
thank you
All praises be to Allah
PLEASE YOU INTERRUPT TOO MUCH, ALLOW HER TO SPEAK. YOU TALK TOO MUCH. ALLOW HER DO THE TALKING
They only go the extra mile when you are an established man😂 Don't be fooled. Its all about what they can see and get from you. And that's how they are scammed.
We started together with my husband, he had nothing, not even a car. The first property he bought i persuaded him to buy it.
@nokuzolaofoegbu5453 Thank God he was buying nice cloths for your father good and well trained man. how many south African guys are taking care of their in-laws.
@sammybomyi5685 my own brother does. And some people i know do that, its all about who wants to do the right thing.
,South Africans ae very tired o f Nigeria don't come here and tell about Nigeria love story that is your story . South African want to fix their problems without Nigeria hamba uye kwakho e Nigeria please please please
I am in Nigeria, and South Africa is my home. I come and go as i please😂
Madam, pls pray for a husband. I am sure you need one, bless you
You are dating someone in your twenties and he is gifting your father with a Rolex? Make me laugh again. The interviewer should ask how much were they because we need to to probe more here.
He gifted him bcoz he had intensions of marrying me. Is it wrong to gift someone？My husband is a giver naturally we have an organisation where we feed people.
@ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣replied like a true Xhosa lady. Secure the bag 💼.
@@mpram5522Very proud of being a Xhosa. I secured salvation first
No she a die hard,who in her clear mind would relocate or marry a Nigerian,does she have a family,do they love her 😂
I have a great family sis and bayandithanda. I go home every month and my husband,s family adores me as well.
Guys why our sister Nokuzola was suppose to seek permission to relocate to his husband's home or country. In African culture a woman gets married and automatically relocate to her in law's family, period. No permission is sought unless if the customs are different.
My sister stay there. You are happily married to a Nigerian, that makes you a Nigerian. Please can we not hear nonsense like your husband is a South African.
You are jealous
@@michealmicheal2305bcoz he can not do what real men do.
The God that directed me to marry him, will direct me on what to do. Thank you
@@nokuzolaofoegbu5453 Pls don’t involve God in Nigerian lies.
This Woman from South Africa that married a Nigerian of IBO stock is a strong woman like an Ibo Woman just like my Mother.
She is actually a decent woman because she is born again and a daughter of Zion.
IGBO, NOT ibo....Thank me later.