Yeah haha, and then when you can’t move on no matter how hard you try? No matter how long you’ve gone without any contact whatsoever? And it destroys who you are as a person? Cause same :)
A very important quote that hits me everytime I hear it: "When you love someone, let them go. If they come back, they remain yours forever...if not, there was nothing to begin with..."
Shakespeare wrote romeo and juliet and died drunk....tht is how close I am getting to love...write story abt it and probably die doing adrenaline rushing activities in my old age..
That’s a lie. A mother wouldn’t give up her children and hope they come back. Love is taught at birth. So the process of nurturing and falling in love are linked. If you love someone you’d never move on. Cause that love will linger in your soul. Otherwise it’s just another one who you moved on from. Tell them.
I recently lost some one who I loved more than anything in the world. I tried so hard for her.. in the end, she betrayed me. Worst of all, I really don't know why. It was always excuses and lies with her. Yet I still love her. All of the memories that should make me happy are now shrapnel in my heart.
My case: We weren't dating, we liked each other, but i know she was kinda starting something with another guy. I thought better, although i liked her very very much, i ceased to go after her. In my head she would be better with the other (based on what i was doing in life comparing to what she was doing at the time) and she is with him since then. It hurts but it was the right thing. I only partially knew what was going on through her head via a friend so, i don't know... I never forgot her, only one person kinda knows that i still like her after 3+ years, i believe... i don't think i've ever felt like this for another person.
@@Thouse_Muchachos thats exactly where I'm at. We were never together, but I love her, I'd do anything for her to be happy, anything at all, whether I'm in the picture or not, I just want her to be happy
This is what I told myself after the guy I loved didn’t go back to his church (not that it was because of me because he could be sick) but I gave up going to his church. I sent one final message and now I’m ready to move on.
Yeah it is as long as she’s happy it’s fine cause I LOVE HER but sometimes I feel that she doesn’t want me anymore cause I’ve cried too much for her because of her because of her pain but I don’t want that for her I don’t want her to be sad to cry anymore cause I love her too much
To anyone who needs to hear this : It's gonna be okay . Everything is going to be fine. You tried you 110% , but sometimes things don't workout . It's not your fault . There are better things in life waiting for you cause trust me I know exactly what you are going through right now . The feeling of sadness , like your drowning , the immense urge just to hear his/her voice once . But as much as it hurts me telling you this , DON'T HOPE , it's the worst , it stops you from healing , from moving on , and NO he/she doesn't love you anymore And yes , time will heal everything and you will emerge stronger then ever. Just don't give up your self-respect. Be strong , be proud. We got this brah , we are all gonna make it . Zyzz is watching over all of us. ❤️❤️ Edit : Almost 2.5 years since my breakup , and brother , i have never been better . Recently , i had my graduation ceremony , and guess who i met , my ex 😂. You know what she told me " I was childish and didn't know much at that time , maybe things could have worked out differently , still hesitant to accept the mental and emotional trauma she caused me , 2 years of working on myself , workout out religiously , focusing on my career , i was standing there 2.5 years later with a Software Engineering degree and a high package job , with the best physique I've ever had , and trust me i cant describe the kind of self satisfaction I've felt brothers . Over the months she texted me abit here and there , trying to connect , but never go back brother . And trust me when i say this , WE ARE ALL GONNA FUCKING MAKE IT !!!!!! Kill them with your success brother , with your grind ! Be the best she'll never get , be the best for your next , who'll love you with their entirety . The journey was hard , but the result 🔱🔱. FUAAARKKKKK
Despite how much harm it may possibly do, I believe hoping is one of the best things you can do. It’s one of the best motivators and can completely change your life depending on what you decide to hope for. In the end, we will always be hurt by something, whether it be hope or not, but we have the choice to continue going and place our hope in something else. To place our hope in something even more wonderful than whatever is before, such as hoping to thrive and move on.
Hope seems to be the one thing that truly makes us human, fuck I miss her and she's gotten me beaten up, she's taken my dignity, she even made me want so much less then I deserve and I can't stop loving her. Why I don't know nor wanna know, it's been almost 4 months since we parted, I think it's time I finally let go. We got this, you made me cry bro.
Be strong kings , we all got this . All this negetive emotions , the feelings inside you , use it in a positive way .And it's not going to be quick , it's gonna take months and months and months and sometimes you want to just give up , maybe I should call her once , maybe I should try again . NO , NO , NO , YOU are worth soooooo much more soooooooo much . Don't forget the pain , don't forget the hurt , use it to make yourself better , stronger not for him/her , but the future you , LOVE YOURSELF . The voices in the head , the anxiety , the medications, the depression , waking up sad , I have been through everything , and trust me when I say this , YOU WILL GET OUT OF THIS . YOU ARE FINE , YOU ARE STRONG . It's okay to be WEAK . But it's not okay to STAY WEAK. GROW STRONG MY KINGS / QUEENS 👑👑👑. ZYZZ is watching over all of us
As someone who is at rock bottom right now… reading these comments and feeling what you guys are feeling somehow makes me feel less alone. Wishing for a better 2023 for all of us ❤️ much love guys
It's okay to feel down at times but don't allow yourself to stay there. You need to create a happy playlist, turn it on and dance. Dance in your room, dance as hard as you can until youre out of breath. Find what makes you happy. Learn about yourself.
And pain, true pain … Pain that feels like your heart will split in two, shattered as if it were a fragile ceramic container; that’s how you know what you felt was real. That’s how you know you opened up your heart, and that’s how you know you’re _truly alive_ … It might hurt, especially when you try and put yourself back together like Humpty Dumpty, but at least you know that your big heart will keep beating, even if it feels like it could just cease to function, even when you think there’s nothing left inside of it and it’s a hollow shell, it will keep moving. You will too. You will keep letting love flow, and it might get hurt again. However … maybe one day we will mend that for good ❤️
And the pain is even greater when you love her a lot and she loves you back but after some time you lose her because you forgot about yourself... sorry, this definitely is happening to me right now and I am really trying to get her back just wanted to write this.
@@gamitha2213 this probably wont make you feel better but from my experience she wont come back and just try to put her in the past there are thousands of fish in the seas and plenty of decades to find the right one i haven't dated someone in 5 years and never had someone love me back. Idk if this will help you but i hope you learn something from it.
Probably one of the worst myths thats still being told to people. It’s made people that have such a difficult time loving themselves (due to depression or low self esteem or anxiety), think of themselves as not «good enough» for love, which is bullshit, every decent human being on this planet deserves love, even if they have a hard time loving themselves.
@@theeexcess You must never give in to despair. Allow yourself to slip down that road and you surrender to your lowest instincts. In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength. Uncle Iroh. Possibly one of my favorite quote.
You know for me nothing hurts more than to see someone you love, love someone else because then you realize that they probably never felt the same way about you and that realization hits hard.
My guy best friend was also my first crush but I told him when we were little but the feelings never went away and last year he dated on of my close friends and when I found out I broke down crying, I felt my heart shatter into so many pieces
Yea that's pretty difficult but they probably loved you even if it wasn't the right way there was still something there and if they have a heart they might feel a little bit of empathy for the pain they caused
It's been four for me, and I can't seem to have feelings for anyone else, I've tried, she doesn't love me back as you can guess. I thought it'd stop after 3, 4 maybe 5 years, you've had it for 10. That's what got me. I'll be like this for maybe 10 or more. It's okay, I'm ready.
You know what's really hard? Waiting for that one person but not ever knowing if they'll ever come back, but the last thing you want to do is move on when you know, that person, is your everything.
I get this bro... when you find that one person that makes your heart feel different, that you just cannot get enough of or find a thing wrong with. And then a year later you screw it up and dont realize how once in a lifetime it was until its too late. How you never should have taken it for granted. Wanting to be with them again more than anything, however they have moved on with someone new. Tossing aside every potential new partner that comes along, because you are still holding onto that hope that one day they will regain those feelings and you need to be available
How are you supposed to love yourself without coming home to them and having a big empty bed, like we had two kids together and she’s taking care of them herself and I see them during the weekend but I just want them to never have to leave
Sometimes love let’s a person go, to be their best version of themselves. Bc the version of them you’re loving maybe isn’t their best and maybe the version of them, that they’re growing into, is blinded by their love for you🙏🏼🫶🏻🥺
From one very broken person to the next. I want you to know that you are not alone, you're not crazy, you are not insane. You are loved, you are valued, and cherished. You have meaning and purpose. It may seem pointless but it gets better. You will be happy again. It will take time but it's worth it. Please don't give up, please don't let depression, sadness, anxiety and society break you. You're amazing!
2 years ago I told this girl I loved her, an absolutely brilliant creation that has no match, she is 1 of 1. Still to this day I’m so in love with her but I messed up and felt that burning desire to tell her how much she meant to me a little too early and it scared her off.. early 20s is a hard time for people who actually feel feelings. If you truly love someone you show them. Don’t confess with your mouth, confess with your actions and the rest will fall in line.
I fell in love with a girl when I was 13 or 14, but we were just classmates, not even friends, I told her and tried to show her which was really hard because we were just classmates and she litterally didnt care about me at all. After nearly 5 years I stopped loving her, but the depression stayed. Now I fell in love with a coworker of mine and its even worse. I dont know what I could do for her to show her, and another coworker (which i am friends with) sleeps with her. I asked him what they are but he just lies to me and tries to deny everything... Im afraid of destroying everything and I think I cant take it anymore
I was completely in love with this girl for almost 2yrs. I was going to move out with her and go out of state. I was willing to go everywhere with her even if it was going to make my life more difficult. Then when it came down to it, 3 weeks after we were official bf gf, she broke up with me and later told me she used me and wasn't going to comprise at all for me. So she never loved me...
0:00-0:52 I was crying after these words.. This is the hardest feeling of all. Missing someone unimaginably and enjoying that person's happiness at the same time...
Well I've died so many times it's been a slow death just needing others to be appropriate towards myself n others best their ability n I try not to harm myself while I'm still healing n try to focus on my goals n what I'm always saying is needed though certain things make things difficult
I don't miss people as deeply as I'd had in the past yrs ago that was more agony though it's a different sort of thing don't want to evaluate or discuss it not even to much to any of y'all hugs though
@@FahadJaturiihey bro stay cool.... Don't do anything stupid.... There's still beauty out there in this world. Don't worry everything will pass one day.... Have faith in yourself. Stay strong
To the one I think about the most I've been holding my memories close You haven't left my mind For quite sometime I still remember the first time I saw you Your galaxy hair Your beautiful eyes With that light bringing smile I couldn't help but stare I asked for your name Despite being afraid You told me with your voice That come from the divine It brought peace to my soul and mind When we got into deeper conversations And figured how much we were relating We sorta just fell for each other You had my heart like no other I miss you a lot I still talk with your ghost She says you're doing good I hope that's the truth My mind has lost a few screws Since we last spoke I've been stuck at the crossroads Trying to figure out which way to go I felt like I've come so far without you But I turn around and realize Im right where you left me This is the definition of insanity Doing the same things over and over Expecting change Bound to these chains Of rain and pain My friends and my mind are slowly going away But I wish it was only you That would've stayed It's crazy to think about the parts we played Was it all a dream? Are you doing okay? I'd just like to know Goodnight, my love Stay safe
It's crazy that I've loved this girl for over a year but she's just not as invested as I am. And everything written here is how I feel, and I when I think I've moved on, I've gone far, I'm back where I started, I hate it, it sucks so much, but I love her and I don't even know what to do
Don’t blame yourself, thank them for the wonderful memories and the lessons you have learned. I look back and smile at the good times, the saying “things happen for a reason” hits when you realize sometimes heartbreak is meant to happen in order for you to grow.
Thank you ❤. I broke my heart a week ago. I pushed away the person I cared for the most. She didn't deserve all those things I said. Not only did I lose a friend, but I lost a chance on love.
Thats true .. at first it will be so down , after seeing that the one you loved smile again , rejoice her life that you've already know that she deserved it .. that is not being with you . I'm really missed her , also pray and hope that she would never forget me , After years .. I understand which is , God know what we need and He has a better plan for us . -ASZ-
That “I love you” at the end… that one where you know it’s never gonna get returned. You just say it cos you know that you’ll never love anyone nearly as close as you do with them.
“Why do nice people always end up falling in love with the wrong people” that line right there hit me so hard and deeply because I’m known as the nice friend who’s always looking out for everyone and caring for them but when it comes to my own love life I have no one and everyone I’ve met had ended up some fake jack a who only wanted to use me. And with Valentine’s Day coming up I feel so freaking depressed..
@@poornimavetrivel1752 I’m glad there are people who relate to me but at the same time it makes me sad that there are people going through the same pain as me. I would never EVER want anyone to go through what I’ve been through…
@@KUR4H this shows real you don't worry about the past , there waits bright future for everyone who going through this pain , everyone deserve to love and have one , this what my father told to me everytime , we have to wait till our time comes good soul always find way in heaven🤗🤗🤗
@@poornimavetrivel1752 Thank you so much for your kind words legit I wanna cry right now. I’ve been going through a lot recently and just hearing this has helped soothe my aching heart. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
This is one of the only videos that has led me to take immediate action. The line where he says, "if you love someone you tell them" made me text this one girl I really liked. I liked her for probably going on 5 years and had just recently got enough confidence to start hanging out with her one-on-one, but I got the sense that she didn't really like me the way I liked her, so I stopped messaging her and didn't pursue her as much. That quote made me send her a message telling her how cool i thought she was even though she didn't feel that way, and she basically confirmed she didn't see me in that way. I don't know if I regret telling her how I felt. This was in January 2023, so 5 months ago, and like I said I've liked her for going on 5 years. Tryna move on, but I haven't met anyone who is as pure hearted as her. I've been distancing myself from groups that she is in with me so that I don't have to see her. It's kind of making my summer a bit worse honestly, but it makes most days better because I don't think about her as much. I don't know if I regret telling her how much I cared. I guess I'll never know. The alternative may have been worse. It may have been better. Just gotta live with it because the what if doesn't matter I guess. At least it doesn't matter anymore.
The thing that matters is in the end there won't be any 'what ifs'. I don't know you or her or whatever you have going on but I know that you did the right thing, something I wish I had but I wish you the best.
Same here I can confirm that I have been in the exact same situation. Knowing her for a long time and in the end catching feelings and you just pick yourself up to tell her regardless of the outcome. I wasn't lucky either because she didn't see me as I saw her even though she enjoys my presence and I felt like she complimenting my life in a way it would be worse if she wouldn't be around me. After I took some space to think clearly I was able to turn that into a way back into her life. Whether you distance yourself completely is really about your preference. I think it's important to know you didn't do anything wrong, you told her what you felt and people shouldn't be judgemental about that. You chose a path which is accompanied with lessons and progress.
It’s hurt to love someone and not have the courage to let them know how u feel. Let them know u love them , don’t wait for love in return , wait for it to grow in theirs and if it doesn’t be content he grew in yours
“We accept the love we think we deserve” if I am speaking honestly, we all need to raise our standards then, and realize how deserving we and the people around us are
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I wish l could experience love again. You know the whole feeling of with that butterflies in the stomach and the warm touch of the person you use to love.
I won't give up. I truly love her with all my heart I don't care what has happened. I want to love this woman more then I ever have, she pulls things out of me nobody else besides myself and my kids could.
I'm reading what sounds what's going on right now with the women I miss. I haven't heard from her for almost a week. I miss her calls, texts, smiles. She was a good friend but I supposingly pissed her off and she hasnt talked to me almost a week. Tearing me up inside. Can't think, cant work, can't think except about her. It hurts. Eating me up inside. I called 20 times and left many messages even texted im sorry. No reply back yet. So confused.
@@duumahh you can’t sound desperate, you push her away the more you bombard her with calls etc. giving people their space is always key to them coming back at times. If not.. then they weren’t meant to be in your life.
Give it a couple of months without her and you'll start realising all the little things you actually didnt like and the rose tinted glasses of your relationship will wear off and moving on will be so much easier! Tell you what's harder, losing your ex and every day wondering how you're going to carry on without them and finally getting to the point of letting someone else in and then the person that you find and like has a f'ing boyfriend so you gotta sit there with feelings that cant be shared at all🤦♂️
Never felt pain like this, I just want it to stop, my head won’t stop playing back the memories and the broken promises, I don’t have the strength for this man
I love how the Universe delivers exactly what we need to hear at exactly right time ! This is so true ! So emotional , so deep and simply describes true love . I know only one important thing for myself : you can love only once !! True love that touches you in the most significant way can happen only once in a lifetime . At least to me because when you truly love you can forget about all of your ex’s but not the One that is simply felt like your own Heartbeat . There might be many challenges but it’s always worth it to fight for true love ! Especially when both people are truly willing to be together ! I will rather face lots of challenges but experience true love ! It’s just worth it to grow , to become even wiser and simply just love each other till the last breath .. no actually in the next lifetime I promise to find you too because I would be grateful to live many lifetimes together . Am I too intense ? Who cares as long as I am sharing my inner truth with those who wanna listen . 🙏⭐️🎆
When you love someone without getting any love back - and you really want the best for them - then and only then it’s true love - unconditional. If you’re able to accept loving people that seemingly do not deserve it, if you’re able to make peace loving without getting anything back - then you really reached a high state of character - you’re the light then, the warmth that this earth is missing in so many places - keep going, trust yourself and have faith - joy and serenity will come for sure !
dealt with that with my two best friends. i was in love with one and he dated her instead despite acting like he wanted me. and guess what? as soon as they broke up i stopped loving him that way. he chose her, not me, and that made me realize that i shouldn’t love someone in that way who won’t put me first
I’m in love with her okay, if you’re looking for the word that means caring about someone beyond all rationality and wanting them to have everything they want no matter how much it destroys you, it’s love. And when you love someone you don’t stop, ever. Even when people roll their eyes or call you crazy, especially then. you just- you don’t give up because if I could give up if could just you know, take the worlds advice and move on and find someone else That wouldn’t be love! That would be… that would be some other disposable thing that is not worth fighting for. - my favorite line
That's what I say if you truly love someone you never stop no matter how apart you are no matter if it kills you inside if there not with you, you still want them happy I still love my high school sweetheart and I will till the day I die I'm in Illinois and he's in California we have been apart for over 30 yrs but I've never stopped loving him
Hey I just wanted to say a huge thank you to whoever made this video. It’s a short video but it has such a deep emotional effect on me and on thousands of others as I can tell by the comments. You have helped me with so many mental issues and I’ve watched your videos on repeat. Keep it up and continue to help people all around the world with your videos. You’re the best and hope you can see that your channel means a lot to thousands of people and that the work that you do is truly special. Good luck and thank you again!
It's nice that someone did this for someone. I feel loved and have Noone to connect it to. The song makes me so sad and says I never blamed you for giving up. 💔
You know you're sad when you've listened to this on repeat for so long you don't even remember when you started listening August 30th, 2022, 11:54 PM: I'm back boys...
"Hey, i know I'm probably the last person you wanna hear from right now. And I get that. Erm, I just miss you... A lot. And... I can't stop thinking about you. I guess I was just calling to check if you're doing okay. I'm not... Life's really hard without you. I'm glad that smiles back on your face. It suits you. You're. Ermm... I'm always here if you need me. You know that. I love you" that had me crying ngl
Bro, this hits on another level, it’s been 2 years since I broke up with my ex, it took me awhile to realize the mistake I made. I still miss her, but I can’t go back to her, she’s with someone else
I still remember those fun times we had, walking through the park late out, looking at the stars, I miss looking at her, and just feeling happy. But I was stupid and made myself depressed making myself think ‘I don’t deserve her’
You see, i'm in love with my ex. She broke up with me on Halloween and it hit me hard. We are still best friends, and i'm so happy that shes happy. But, i miss when it was me and her. i just wanted to put it out there that im a girl yall keep calling me a guy lol, have a great day everyone
Mine broke up with me and now he’s with someone else. I was desperate and sad and made things worse. He told me to let him try to be happy and to leave him alone. To let him figure out this new relationship and he’ll reach out to me in the future if he wants to. I was the cause of our break up. And it hurts to know that i may have pushed my soulmate into the arms of another. All I can do now is get better and hope we’ll find each other again in the future because I know we’re meant to be.
It's really hard to get over that one you love. Iam not going lie to you by telling you everything going to be ok because right now it's not. You need to think of yourself and start caring about yourself to. Yes it's fucking hard to do. Just take each day as it comes.if you need to talk let it out just reply I'll do my best to listen and give some advice.. take care
Honestly I’m in a relationship right now but all I can think about is my ex. He treated me like I was the only one in the world and I miss it, I miss it all. I fell head over heals for him. We made a promise when we were together that no matter what happened he would come back for me when he was 18 and well I guess I’m still hoping he comes back for me. He turns 18 on December 17th. I’m scared but still hopeful. Is that wrong?
Will that also happened to me,she also loved me but on this day2021/11/23 she said she lost her feelings for me and she loves one of my friend and we were having fun for a week and in that week she told me that she loves me but she was lying to me and that is the saddest but and even if i tell my friends my feelings they will not understand, they will say move on when i can't
I have been trying to avoid watching this video for so much. Randomly popping up on my recommendations. I knew how much pain it would bring from opening up wounds that have yet to heal. Reason why I am here. Here after having the vid on repeat for a good while. I just couldn't feel anymore. Have been numb for a couple of weeks. Being numb for a long time blinds you. Blinds you of what's in front of you. Blinds you of what's around you and those who are there. Blinds you of what's inside you. Of your own heart. I needed to feel again. I knew what would make that work. I knew because she would sing me this song as I played my guitar. The moment I pressed play on this video, the numbness started to go away with the tears that ran down my face. I could still see her smile and eyes as her heart sang to me. I hope I never forget that.
i sang while my old love played the piano and it made me fall for him even more but he hurt me and chose someone else, and they still broke up and i can’t want him anymore. i don’t know you but i’m sending my love to you. keep your head up and don’t stop fighting ❤️
I'm so happy someone finally had understood The Perks of Being A Wallflower for it's greatness. I think it's one of the best movie adaptations of a book.
Hey man I relate, it's been what more than a year and It still messes me up, I'm seeing her for the 1st time tomo and I'm scared shitless. God knows if it ever gets better does it?
i stopped being sad long ago, it's kinda refreshing. Learning to grow as a person, I'm doing so much better now and I'm so proud. To the one I love most now, I Love You so much, Thank you for being there :) 🌹
You are important to God, He loves you unconditionally and eternally. God will never stop loving you, you are loved. Allways remember that, Keep that in your heart, even when it’s breaking🫶🏻💜
If you find yourself looking again in here too. The guy who didn't know the answering machine would be memorable enough to have this incredible song that speaks to me personally. My name is Chad Everett Basurto I'm 44 01/04/197>4+4
So I met this boy in college He was the sweetest person I've ever met His smile, the way he used to look at me, I just can't get it out of my head I know something was between us, I could feel it But I was too insecure about myself And too scared to tell him how much I love him And yeah.. He fell in love with someone else And here I am Thinking about what we could have if I was more confident about myself and could tell him how much I love him
That first quote(1:00) hit hard because it’s from how I met your mother. The show my girlfriend showed me and got into, but now I can’t finish it because I’ll think of her. Nothing bad happened to the extent of abuse in both ends. We just got into our first real argument and I yelled at her. We tried working it out, but in the end hidden stuff came out and I got upset again and broke up with her then took it back. We talked again, but she told me that she couldn’t work on the relationship right now. It’s been a month. I went through anguish, had to go to the crisis center because my mental health was so bad. I miss her. People tell me to move on, you’ll date other people, better people, but they don’t understand that it’s her I want. I don’t want to be loved. I want to be loved by her, but if it means letting her go for some time so that we can find each other again when we’re both ready and better then I’ll do that. If we don’t ever get back together then I’m glad I was loved by her and at least we’re still in each other’s life as friends sorta. I’m trying to get her back, by working on myself: going to therapy, going to the gym, thinking of what happened and where I went wrong. I’m getting strong though. I don’t miss her as much and haven’t cried over her as much. I haven’t even texted and called her in almost 30 days.
A lot of people just don't understand when you tell them you're still grieving from the same person who hurt a year before. Grieving is not as easy as forgetting someone. You lost the person you made your dreams with; you lost who you are with them. It is not jus about the memories, it's also about the lost dreams, the future; you are also grieving for the life you could never live.
madara once said where ever there is light there will always be shadows be to found with in them yes there will always be light followed by shadows but only in the darkness is where the light will shine the brightest keep your head up it make take time but let the fire of hope build up over time things will get better maybe not today maybe not tomorrow but one day you will wake up and feel a little less sad don’t hurt yourself it’s not your fault don’t blame yourself don’t ever hate yourself find love for yourself only then can you truly make peace and be in a better place don’t ever settle for less ik they seemed like the world to you but in the end they abandoned you when they said they wouldn’t you fought and fought but they moved on don’t wait years for someone who doesn’t feel or care for you anymore she once did yes but people change people leave it’s hard life was never easy it’s not about what happened it’s about how you over come i hope you find inner peace
Without a reason love have you ever been so high days nights weeks even months starts fading together like time has slowed down Feels like a dream. That's a high that scares me for only one has makes me that high an she's gone
To My Moon: It’s been a year now since the last time I heard your voice. It was the hardest thing telling you that I loved you knowing you weren’t ready to hear it. It was my truth though and truths always deserve to be told. I never thought I’d be the girl to love someone after they ghosted. A full year and I still want nothing more than your happiness. I miss you more than you know and hope you are traveling all the wide open spaces you told me about in your stories. I know you find your peace there. Please be well and thank you for teaching me the lesson of unconditional love.
I’ve been through this like most of you and i have found rest in meditation. Whenever you drown in the thoughts and memories and you feel like there is no end just close your eyes focus on the breath. Of course your going to be going through intense pain and don’t try to change it. When those waves of immense hurt come just feel it’s effect on the body and mind. Feel the pain and the experience as you slowly bring your attention to the breath.
This video has brought me more peace of mind than anything I've ever watched or any piece of information anyone has ever given me. IT'S OKAY TO LOVE SOMEONE, NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS!!!
I started talking to this girl recently, one night we spontaneously met at a bar and ever since that night I finally understood “I never stopped falling in love”, every time she would start a sentence it was like discovering love all over again
Bro I'm glad I can come back to the video and tell everyone she came back guys....she came back man and I literally gotta say man that I love her guys I held on and she came back. No matter how much time passes she came back and picked me. I just want to say it's ok to let go and it's ok to love them. When they come back you'll understand how much you needed them and how much the space was needed even though it hurt. But for the ones that never came back just know they just made room for you to build yourself for that one dude. The one who actually needed everything that you are. So for whoever needs this I want you to know that you're damn amazing and when you find them they will know it too.
Damn man , im waiting on her congrats tho appreciate her more do the small things the small things count they really do , they build a place in her heart
I watched the whole video and didn’t cry , almost, but didn’t but the second I opened the comments and started reading them ,, that is when I started to cry
Ever love somebody, knowing they won’t love you back, scared to tell them because it’s pointless and you don’t want to ruin what you already have. And being close to them at all is better than nothing, and you don’t know what to do, because there’s no good ending, because the more time you spend with them the more it hurts, and the less less time you spend with them the more it hurts. And you don’t know what to do, so you just smile through the agony, hoping you can at least help anyone is your shitty situation, because one less person dealing with this is a win for the world, even if it’s killing you? Yeah, me too.
I'm in love with someone but they're in a relationship and I keep hurting them. It's hard to get into a relationship cause I feel like it won't be genuine and I'm kinda scared that my crush will get out of their relationship... but at the same time I feel like if they do, I'll be their last choice and that's probably what hurts the most...
I've been emotionally broken to the point of being numb to sadness. I come back to this video once in awhile to know what feeling sad feels like again..
(Possessed) You’re always in my dreams, you’re always in brain Even though it’s depression, I atleast feel something No matter what you do, it makes me go insane You made me stop breathing even when all you do is nothing I can’t stop staring at your eyes It gets in my body, in my blood, in my soul It’s a drug that makes me become paralyzed It’s contagious but for some reason I want more I miss the times I was thinking of someone else It’s easier to deal with the pain unlike with you that couldn’t be more different For some reason you’re the only one that I can’t explain My head feels like a bomb even though you’re not thinking of me It’s tickin away that only god sees I just know you’re thinking of him Why would you think of me Why would you think of me I wondered what it’s like if we never met, how I wouldn’t feel this way How I wouldn’t be possessed Would I still have met you if I didn’t show up that day? It’s so hard to let go and so hard to forget It’s even harder when there’s not a single regret The pain is real and it’s not going away, If I knew then what I now know, I would still do the same Just know Every time I see you I want to test the roulette even at the end it makes me dead Because knowing that you know me is worth it I would die a million times if you were the culprit Even if that’s all true You don’t like me the way I like you I became a little obsessed which is an understatement I hate that I would’ve had a chance if you weren’t with him I hate that I met you but I wouldn’t go back I just really wish I didn’t love you but at the same time that’s not a fact I try to look nice as if I’m gonna have a chance It’s inevitable that we’re just gonna stay friends This is just a one sided romance A romance that needs to end I think too hard For her to not think at all My plan sounds good For it to only meet a wall I can’t stop this It hurts so much Toughest thing I can ever do Is give you up It’s eating my brain It’s eating my brain This is so pointless, we’re all gonna die anyways
I just pray that she's happy, that she's in love with someone who thinks she's even more incredible than I do. Someone that will never make her cry...please be happy even if it's not with me. I'll always love you
I used to crave for this kind of love. That's what love meant to me. Until very late in years the veil starts to slip and you recognise that kind of love is toxic. Like poison you have in you and you are not cured to the point you are beginning to feel something separating. Feels like death and fear of loosing the other, not yourself mind you, still is the center of all attention. And that person never arrives, they have moved on with similar toxicity cos the chain we put on our ankle to keep something outside of ourselves attached to, not letting go no matter how distant that one moved away. After eons you meet and it's hard to let go. The idea that love breathes outside of me or us is love that takes soul away into the deceitful land of greenery and memories. Healing the heart, the same heart that once loved everything but this one heart that beats for existence is challenging to take care of. Leaving life in the hands of others to wait outside of the body and watch it getting eaten or shredded to pieces is not love. It's a rage that burns within us. To recognise it and hold your heart in ur own hands and love it and heal it so you can, I can love again. To meet the one who can love and has loved lived in the same breath to renew the heart to the pure love from which you and i and everyone rises. Love is never lost. However life is, and that's okay.
The Wisp Sings was our wedding song. Hearing it, with the heartbreaking voice over shatters my heart back into a hundred thousand pieces. I can't believe she's gone. I would've done anything. Anything. I tried everything I could. I'm on the dark path now. I know how this one ends.
I could never know what you’re going through, but you have to keep going. You have to keep hoping, keep living. What you’re going through now may be the worst part of your life, and it may take time, maybe even years to move past it. But if you keep fighting, i can guarantee you that one day you’ll thank yourself for having kept living even through all that pain.
Hey brother can I speak to you? I been feeling bout the same but we both know where it goes but only when it’s allowed to take us there, even when u feel down and like it’s not worth it, u gotta tell yourself it is and your mother most def loves u more than her and it’s gonna hurt everyone around even the person at the store u shop at everyday or whatever man it will break hearts and just make more people feel how we do now and that ain’t okay brother we know it but duck man why’s it gotta be so selfish to end shit smh, but it’s the facts and we gotta remind ourselves everyday of the good not that we had but that we are having today and can have tomorrow, and if u doubting life remember you’ve been “okay” before and if u ain’t been the happiest that’s okay, always will be but brother we gots to be men at the end that’s what’s the end, and to do that we gotta let ourselves cry it out and be miserable for a little and never let it off our mind that we will bounce back and we won’t if we don’t do the bouncing and u gotta bounce when u get out the bed and when u get in that truck or car and when u hop out and when u walk into work u gotta bounce back and have it in your step and tell yourself I will have a good day and will not let my bad thoughts or feeling affect the way my day goes or whether I treat others any different because then you’ve let it take over and u gotta stop that and do better for yourself and all that you love or loved! Love ya brother keep on keeping on! And be strong!
The girl I loved didn’t feel the same way and now we’re barely even friends. She made me happy and I absolutely hated the time where she went through some drama and cried about it. Now I have trouble focusing on shit and I just feel sad all the time.
He came over to me after we finally fell in love and confessed feelings to each other. I had finished going out and having a really fun time with friends, so when he came I was really on a high and excited to see him and tell him all about it. What I didn’t expect was a confession that he wanted to just stay as friends because of certain circumstances of our relationship. A break, if you will, to see if I was the one. I asked him why he would even want to do that, because he and I have discussed how “breaks” and “staying as friends” doesn’t work. He said that he really, really loves me, and that’s why he’s doing this; he wants to see if he’s really in love with me because he thinks I’m the perfect ideal woman. I don’t buy into it now, though, because everything in this video is how I think about love. No matter the circumstances, you try to make it work out and you keep going because you love that person and if you were to leave you’d tear their heart apart. I don’t think he realizes how much he’s breaking me because he thinks that I just have a little crush on him, but really I’ve never met anyone like him, and if I tell that to someone, they wouldn’t ever buy it. I used to stay up late nights until four or five in the morning and laugh with him about stupid things and him laughing with me, we would have to sneak around in terms of the relationship but get together again at the end of it all, we met each others first family, we talk really deeply about life and our futures with each other, we exchanged songs. Again, people would roll their eyes, but they didn’t know the relationship we had together. Everyone that talks to us thinks we’re a couple or mentions how oddly close we were with each other. He thinks that in the next year I’ll find someone to love that’s just like him, because he popped up so why wouldn’t a person like him come, but where we live I know for sure he’s the only one. He’s also being selfish, saying that his heart is cold and that he’s been broken one too many times and he doesn’t want me to do it to him again. No matter how much I tried crying and no matter how much he was crying, he stuck to it. I admitted that I think he’s making a dumb decision, and he admitted that he thinks he might be doing the same. So far I’ve cried every day about him and not a day goes by where I don’t think about him. I love him so much and I swore that we’d make it all work out but now I just wish that I’d never met him. The only lesson he taught me is to not fall so damn easily and to try to think with my head rather than my heart, which is the opposite of this video. If I didn’t meet him, I wouldn’t have heartbreak. If I didn’t meet him and wait for three quarters of a year to finally kiss him, and meanwhile get to know him better than anyone else, I wouldn’t be in love. I smile a little less now because he’s still always around and I have to try to keep going pretending like nothing’s happened between us at all. I don’t know when I’ll be back to the way I was, because truth be told I could easily light up a room, but now I hide in the back and even excuse myself often times to get my act together. Every time I see him anymore, or even the slightest mention of a happy couple, the bursting joy in my heart dissipates and turns into an unpleasant churning of my stomach and it makes me wanna throw up and cry. This is love, is what I’ve learned so far. I hope that someone will love me someday the way that I love him, whether it’s him or not. Right now though, I’m going through a really bad time, so it’s just one day at a time.
Very deeply and passionately felt! You deserve more and you will find the one that can love you as deeply and as passionately as you do them! You deserve better than he could give you and I can tell that just by reading the words you have written do not sell yourself short keep your head up and know that one will come when you least expect it!
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You ever get tired of loving someone you know isn’t gonna love you back?
Same.
Yeah
I loved someone who literally hated me. Worst feeling ever..
@@grumpy861 ik how you feel 😔
more than you know
Yeah haha, and then when you can’t move on no matter how hard you try? No matter how long you’ve gone without any contact whatsoever? And it destroys who you are as a person?
Cause same :)
Its so hard to be happy for someone when you wanted to be happy with them. But its worth it to see them thrive
Damn
I completely agree
Still fucking hurts to see..
I completely understand
I dunno... Is it _really_ worth it?
“I guess I was calling to check if you’re doing ok… I’m not” that hit me really hard because I feel that way too.
Sme here, same here.
I totally feel you, man. Totally, and no one gives a damn!
@@Morpheus903 ikr
Rn.😢
True
"I'm glad that smiles back on your face. It suits you, your gorgeous"
"I'm glad that smiles back on your face. It suits you, Your Gorgeous"
"I'm glad that smiles back on your face. It suits you, you're gorgeous"
kk ii
Definitely saving that one
💔💔💔💔
A very important quote that hits me everytime I hear it:
"When you love someone, let them go. If they come back, they remain yours forever...if not, there was nothing to begin with..."
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰
Oh no I am not heartbroken...I am 16...I study love...I don't fall in it....but thanks...
Shakespeare wrote romeo and juliet and died drunk....tht is how close I am getting to love...write story abt it and probably die doing adrenaline rushing activities in my old age..
That's a great quote ngl it helped me to just realize why I shouldnt feel anything for my ex she was great it just wasnt love thx brother
That’s a lie. A mother wouldn’t give up her children and hope they come back. Love is taught at birth. So the process of nurturing and falling in love are linked. If you love someone you’d never move on. Cause that love will linger in your soul. Otherwise it’s just another one who you moved on from. Tell them.
You don’t miss her, you miss the version of what she could have been.
No comments..?
@@xx_kronos_on_yt5852Silince is our way of agreeing
nah.. tbh I just miss her even before she's gone
@@LmaoTsetung 😔😔
I recently lost some one who I loved more than anything in the world. I tried so hard for her.. in the end, she betrayed me. Worst of all, I really don't know why. It was always excuses and lies with her. Yet I still love her. All of the memories that should make me happy are now shrapnel in my heart.
You know it's love when you'd gladly take the pain if it meant they could be happy
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰
My case: We weren't dating, we liked each other, but i know she was kinda starting something with another guy. I thought better, although i liked her very very much, i ceased to go after her. In my head she would be better with the other (based on what i was doing in life comparing to what she was doing at the time) and she is with him since then. It hurts but it was the right thing. I only partially knew what was going on through her head via a friend so, i don't know... I never forgot her, only one person kinda knows that i still like her after 3+ years, i believe... i don't think i've ever felt like this for another person.
@@Thouse_Muchachos thats exactly where I'm at. We were never together, but I love her, I'd do anything for her to be happy, anything at all, whether I'm in the picture or not, I just want her to be happy
This is what I told myself after the guy I loved didn’t go back to his church (not that it was because of me because he could be sick) but I gave up going to his church. I sent one final message and now I’m ready to move on.
Yeah it is as long as she’s happy it’s fine cause I LOVE HER but sometimes I feel that she doesn’t want me anymore cause I’ve cried too much for her because of her because of her pain but I don’t want that for her I don’t want her to be sad to cry anymore cause I love her too much
"Just because we dont talk, doesn't mean I don't think about you. I distance myself from you, because I know I can't have you".
:)
True!
exactly
This one describes my situation right now ):
@@IcarusLP Same the distance breakin us in pieces
Love can make a person the happiest they can be, but that same love can break someone so much that they'll choose not love anymore.
@@HaileyBW Go for it! 😄
@@FncyPengu Awesome! If it’s not up on November 7th (next Monday) it will for sure be up the following Monday, November 14th!!
Thats imperial
Truth
Or live anymore!
To anyone who needs to hear this :
It's gonna be okay . Everything is going to be fine. You tried you 110% , but sometimes things don't workout . It's not your fault . There are better things in life waiting for you cause trust me I know exactly what you are going through right now . The feeling of sadness , like your drowning , the immense urge just to hear his/her voice once . But as much as it hurts me telling you this , DON'T HOPE , it's the worst , it stops you from healing , from moving on , and NO he/she doesn't love you anymore
And yes , time will heal everything and you will emerge stronger then ever.
Just don't give up your self-respect. Be strong , be proud.
We got this brah , we are all gonna make it
. Zyzz is watching over all of us. ❤️❤️
Edit : Almost 2.5 years since my breakup , and brother , i have never been better .
Recently , i had my graduation ceremony , and guess who i met , my ex 😂.
You know what she told me " I was childish and didn't know much at that time , maybe things could have worked out differently , still hesitant to accept the mental and emotional trauma she caused me , 2 years of working on myself , workout out religiously , focusing on my career , i was standing there 2.5 years later with a Software Engineering degree and a high package job , with the best physique I've ever had , and trust me i cant describe the kind of self satisfaction I've felt brothers . Over the months she texted me abit here and there , trying to connect , but never go back brother . And trust me when i say this , WE ARE ALL GONNA FUCKING MAKE IT !!!!!!
Kill them with your success brother , with your grind ! Be the best she'll never get , be the best for your next , who'll love you with their entirety .
The journey was hard , but the result 🔱🔱.
FUAAARKKKKK
Despite how much harm it may possibly do, I believe hoping is one of the best things you can do. It’s one of the best motivators and can completely change your life depending on what you decide to hope for. In the end, we will always be hurt by something, whether it be hope or not, but we have the choice to continue going and place our hope in something else. To place our hope in something even more wonderful than whatever is before, such as hoping to thrive and move on.
Hope seems to be the one thing that truly makes us human, fuck I miss her and she's gotten me beaten up, she's taken my dignity, she even made me want so much less then I deserve and I can't stop loving her. Why I don't know nor wanna know, it's been almost 4 months since we parted, I think it's time I finally let go. We got this, you made me cry bro.
Be strong kings , we all got this . All this negetive emotions , the feelings inside you , use it in a positive way .And it's not going to be quick , it's gonna take months and months and months and sometimes you want to just give up , maybe I should call her once , maybe I should try again . NO , NO , NO , YOU are worth soooooo much more soooooooo much .
Don't forget the pain , don't forget the hurt , use it to make yourself better , stronger not for him/her , but the future you , LOVE YOURSELF .
The voices in the head , the anxiety , the medications, the depression , waking up sad , I have been through everything , and trust me when I say this , YOU WILL GET OUT OF THIS . YOU ARE FINE , YOU ARE STRONG .
It's okay to be WEAK . But it's not okay to STAY WEAK.
GROW STRONG MY KINGS / QUEENS 👑👑👑.
ZYZZ is watching over all of us
Diwakar Adhikari love u bro
Thank you 💙
"We Accept The Love We Think We Deserve"
Because good people always date bad people
@@abhijeetlenka1998 The Paul Rudd
Omg 💯💯💯
@@zake9793 🖤
From one of the best movies ever.
As someone who is at rock bottom right now… reading these comments and feeling what you guys are feeling somehow makes me feel less alone. Wishing for a better 2023 for all of us ❤️ much love guys
I wish I can say it's a better year so far...
I hate that the same fate, bestowed against my will, I feel like history repeats and I just won’t ever get that chance.
Bro I’m so close to nothing I don’t even know how my body has the will to breath anymore
It's okay to feel down at times but don't allow yourself to stay there. You need to create a happy playlist, turn it on and dance. Dance in your room, dance as hard as you can until youre out of breath. Find what makes you happy. Learn about yourself.
@@SaquavisTVhey brother you okay man hit me
There is pain to being all alone but there is more pain to loving a person that never loved you in the first place.
And pain, true pain … Pain that feels like your heart will split in two, shattered as if it were a fragile ceramic container; that’s how you know what you felt was real. That’s how you know you opened up your heart, and that’s how you know you’re _truly alive_ … It might hurt, especially when you try and put yourself back together like Humpty Dumpty, but at least you know that your big heart will keep beating, even if it feels like it could just cease to function, even when you think there’s nothing left inside of it and it’s a hollow shell, it will keep moving. You will too. You will keep letting love flow, and it might get hurt again. However … maybe one day we will mend that for good ❤️
@@user-vr5zk9ox8d shit im feeling that now
And the pain is even greater when you love her a lot and she loves you back but after some time you lose her because you forgot about yourself... sorry, this definitely is happening to me right now and I am really trying to get her back just wanted to write this.
@@gamitha2213 we are with you
@@gamitha2213 this probably wont make you feel better but from my experience she wont come back and just try to put her in the past there are thousands of fish in the seas and plenty of decades to find the right one i haven't dated someone in 5 years and never had someone love me back. Idk if this will help you but i hope you learn something from it.
Just remember you guys, it always starts with loving yourself before you can love someone else. Trust me on this one.
it's easier to love someone else than yourself
Probably one of the worst myths thats still being told to people. It’s made people that have such a difficult time loving themselves (due to depression or low self esteem or anxiety), think of themselves as not «good enough» for love, which is bullshit, every decent human being on this planet deserves love, even if they have a hard time loving themselves.
@@TheRealKwisty hey man it’s your journey, it’s just some advice passing through the internet.
But what if i cant, what if i cant bring myself to love, to love myself?
@@theeexcess You must never give in to despair. Allow yourself to slip down that road and you surrender to your lowest instincts. In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength.
Uncle Iroh.
Possibly one of my favorite quote.
You know for me nothing hurts more than to see someone you love, love someone else because then you realize that they probably never felt the same way about you and that realization hits hard.
Dear I will introduce you to the same Love specialist
who restored my broken relationship,he can bring your
ex back just fine he's good
My guy best friend was also my first crush but I told him when we were little but the feelings never went away and last year he dated on of my close friends and when I found out I broke down crying, I felt my heart shatter into so many pieces
Yea that's pretty difficult but they probably loved you even if it wasn't the right way there was still something there and if they have a heart they might feel a little bit of empathy for the pain they caused
the story of my life
10 years later and I'm still in love with my first love. How... Why... How does she still scare TF outta me
That's great.my first love lasted 5 months when she broke up with me,she found another man who was better than me.
True love prolly:")
4 years in and I am still not able to move on nor make connection with any other person.
@@neoenemy4145 10 years... And counting
It's been four for me, and I can't seem to have feelings for anyone else, I've tried, she doesn't love me back as you can guess. I thought it'd stop after 3, 4 maybe 5 years, you've had it for 10. That's what got me. I'll be like this for maybe 10 or more. It's okay, I'm ready.
You know what's really hard? Waiting for that one person but not ever knowing if they'll ever come back, but the last thing you want to do is move on when you know, that person, is your everything.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I get this bro... when you find that one person that makes your heart feel different, that you just cannot get enough of or find a thing wrong with. And then a year later you screw it up and dont realize how once in a lifetime it was until its too late. How you never should have taken it for granted. Wanting to be with them again more than anything, however they have moved on with someone new. Tossing aside every potential new partner that comes along, because you are still holding onto that hope that one day they will regain those feelings and you need to be available
Keep fighting…Because I am…and I know her and I will be together when the timing is right again for us both
Going through this right now :/ I’m choosing to wait and hope she can forgive me but it’s impossible to not cry everyday or break down
How are you supposed to love yourself without coming home to them and having a big empty bed, like we had two kids together and she’s taking care of them herself and I see them during the weekend but I just want them to never have to leave
The most heart-breaking thing, is when they tell you that you're their everything, and they still leave. Over and over again.
Exactly, me too
Same thing happened to me sucks
Sometimes love let’s a person go, to be their best version of themselves. Bc the version of them you’re loving maybe isn’t their best and maybe the version of them, that they’re growing into, is blinded by their love for you🙏🏼🫶🏻🥺
Yet..one chose the easy one..😂 but I know my love for you will always be true..authentic..only for u❤
@@RamonaC-w6x what?
From one very broken person to the next. I want you to know that you are not alone, you're not crazy, you are not insane. You are loved, you are valued, and cherished. You have meaning and purpose. It may seem pointless but it gets better. You will be happy again. It will take time but it's worth it. Please don't give up, please don't let depression, sadness, anxiety and society break you. You're amazing!
Reading this, I instantly thought about someone who most likely needs to see this
Thank u ❤
Breaks my heart even. Fading in darkness when light is more my fight. Ugh
I gave up a long long time ago I am now just existing
Too late
2 years ago I told this girl I loved her, an absolutely brilliant creation that has no match, she is 1 of 1. Still to this day I’m so in love with her but I messed up and felt that burning desire to tell her how much she meant to me a little too early and it scared her off.. early 20s is a hard time for people who actually feel feelings. If you truly love someone you show them. Don’t confess with your mouth, confess with your actions and the rest will fall in line.
I'm going through exactly the same... How's it going for you?
Exact same thing happened to me
Same shit happened.....now we never talk anymore
I'm really glad I read this. I need to show her with my actions and not just say it.
I fell in love with a girl when I was 13 or 14, but we were just classmates, not even friends, I told her and tried to show her which was really hard because we were just classmates and she litterally didnt care about me at all. After nearly 5 years I stopped loving her, but the depression stayed. Now I fell in love with a coworker of mine and its even worse. I dont know what I could do for her to show her, and another coworker (which i am friends with) sleeps with her. I asked him what they are but he just lies to me and tries to deny everything... Im afraid of destroying everything and I think I cant take it anymore
I saw this quote and it said, “the Bible says love never fails, so if it fails it wasn’t love.” And that just hits hard.
❤
Amen, I have read that scripture also 😞
That’s not true,same times bad things happen to good people,kid rock only God knows why!?
that makes no literal sense
@@MoonboyThangluai true love doesn't fail, because it's true love. If your love wasn't true then it Will soon fail.
I try my best not to cry, but the start of the video truly made me tear up….it’s a feeling that nobody can explain but everyone relates to…
Facts the feeling is unreal
I was completely in love with this girl for almost 2yrs. I was going to move out with her and go out of state. I was willing to go everywhere with her even if it was going to make my life more difficult. Then when it came down to it, 3 weeks after we were official bf gf, she broke up with me and later told me she used me and wasn't going to comprise at all for me. So she never loved me...
@@miatalevi5471 dang.. that is extremely tough. I’m sorry bro I wish I could give you a hug but this is online so I guess virtual hug.
Yes I know
Its the most soul crushing thing id rather put my hand in a vise
0:00-0:52 I was crying after these words.. This is the hardest feeling of all. Missing someone unimaginably and enjoying that person's happiness at the same time...
Be strong , everything will be fine
Well I've died so many times it's been a slow death just needing others to be appropriate towards myself n others best their ability n I try not to harm myself while I'm still healing n try to focus on my goals n what I'm always saying is needed though certain things make things difficult
I don't miss people as deeply as I'd had in the past yrs ago that was more agony though it's a different sort of thing don't want to evaluate or discuss it not even to much to any of y'all hugs though
Same, and i guess I'm watching this last time.
@@FahadJaturiihey bro stay cool.... Don't do anything stupid.... There's still beauty out there in this world. Don't worry everything will pass one day.... Have faith in yourself. Stay strong
The worst pain is being called annoying when your just being yourself
i resonate with that.
What hurts the most is letting go of what could have been, that the future you imagined will never happen
I put the shovel back in the shed Cause it has a use Even a dam goat can say naaaaa
To the one I think about the most
I've been holding my memories close
You haven't left my mind
For quite sometime
I still remember the first time I saw you
Your galaxy hair
Your beautiful eyes
With that light bringing smile
I couldn't help but stare
I asked for your name
Despite being afraid
You told me with your voice
That come from the divine
It brought peace to my soul and mind
When we got into deeper conversations
And figured how much we were relating
We sorta just fell for each other
You had my heart like no other
I miss you a lot
I still talk with your ghost
She says you're doing good
I hope that's the truth
My mind has lost a few screws
Since we last spoke
I've been stuck at the crossroads
Trying to figure out which way to go
I felt like I've come so far without you
But I turn around and realize
Im right where you left me
This is the definition of insanity
Doing the same things over and over
Expecting change
Bound to these chains
Of rain and pain
My friends and my mind are slowly going away
But I wish it was only you
That would've stayed
It's crazy to think about the parts we played
Was it all a dream? Are you doing okay?
I'd just like to know
Goodnight, my love
Stay safe
God
It's crazy that I've loved this girl for over a year but she's just not as invested as I am. And everything written here is how I feel, and I when I think I've moved on, I've gone far, I'm back where I started, I hate it, it sucks so much, but I love her and I don't even know what to do
My girl used to call me hell boy and she my devil girl I miss her so much
One of the best lines I have ever heard
Did you write this?
It’s very hard to lose someone you once felt so special for, I hope everyone here can somehow move on and find yourself smiling again.
Don’t blame yourself, thank them for the wonderful memories and the lessons you have learned. I look back and smile at the good times, the saying “things happen for a reason” hits when you realize sometimes heartbreak is meant to happen in order for you to grow.
❤
Thank you ❤. I broke my heart a week ago. I pushed away the person I cared for the most. She didn't deserve all those things I said. Not only did I lose a friend, but I lost a chance on love.
Thats true .. at first it will be so down , after seeing that the one you loved smile again , rejoice her life that you've already know that she deserved it .. that is not being with you . I'm really missed her , also pray and hope that she would never forget me , After years .. I understand which is , God know what we need and He has a better plan for us .
-ASZ-
You guys are some sad heartbroken people. :)
Ok
Thank you 🥺🥺🥺
I know but it's hard to stay strong without the one you love😔
I drink it like its from the fountain of youth 🥺
I am that toxic person for someone.
Stay away.
I may seem like a dream, though I assure you i am that nightmare.
😭
If you found this I'm just here to tell you you're gonna be okay.
Stay strong.
Ty :)
I really hope so...
@killuazoldyck8129has your situation changed ? I really hope it did, hope things got better for you bro, you’re strong 🙌
Thank you god bless you♥️♥️♥️
Don’t lie to me
That “I love you” at the end… that one where you know it’s never gonna get returned. You just say it cos you know that you’ll never love anyone nearly as close as you do with them.
“Why do nice people always end up falling in love with the wrong people” that line right there hit me so hard and deeply because I’m known as the nice friend who’s always looking out for everyone and caring for them but when it comes to my own love life I have no one and everyone I’ve met had ended up some fake jack a who only wanted to use me. And with Valentine’s Day coming up I feel so freaking depressed..
Same thing happened to me this year 🖤
i can relate to you
@@poornimavetrivel1752 I’m glad there are people who relate to me but at the same time it makes me sad that there are people going through the same pain as me. I would never EVER want anyone to go through what I’ve been through…
@@KUR4H this shows real you
don't worry about the past , there waits bright future for everyone who going through this pain , everyone deserve to love and have one , this what my father told to me everytime , we have to wait till our time comes good soul always find way in heaven🤗🤗🤗
@@poornimavetrivel1752 Thank you so much for your kind words legit I wanna cry right now. I’ve been going through a lot recently and just hearing this has helped soothe my aching heart. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
This is one of the only videos that has led me to take immediate action. The line where he says, "if you love someone you tell them" made me text this one girl I really liked. I liked her for probably going on 5 years and had just recently got enough confidence to start hanging out with her one-on-one, but I got the sense that she didn't really like me the way I liked her, so I stopped messaging her and didn't pursue her as much. That quote made me send her a message telling her how cool i thought she was even though she didn't feel that way, and she basically confirmed she didn't see me in that way. I don't know if I regret telling her how I felt. This was in January 2023, so 5 months ago, and like I said I've liked her for going on 5 years. Tryna move on, but I haven't met anyone who is as pure hearted as her. I've been distancing myself from groups that she is in with me so that I don't have to see her. It's kind of making my summer a bit worse honestly, but it makes most days better because I don't think about her as much. I don't know if I regret telling her how much I cared. I guess I'll never know. The alternative may have been worse. It may have been better. Just gotta live with it because the what if doesn't matter I guess. At least it doesn't matter anymore.
at least she now knows that she's loved. and isnt that what matters?
The thing that matters is in the end there won't be any 'what ifs'. I don't know you or her or whatever you have going on but I know that you did the right thing, something I wish I had but I wish you the best.
Same here I can confirm that I have been in the exact same situation. Knowing her for a long time and in the end catching feelings and you just pick yourself up to tell her regardless of the outcome. I wasn't lucky either because she didn't see me as I saw her even though she enjoys my presence and I felt like she complimenting my life in a way it would be worse if she wouldn't be around me. After I took some space to think clearly I was able to turn that into a way back into her life. Whether you distance yourself completely is really about your preference. I think it's important to know you didn't do anything wrong, you told her what you felt and people shouldn't be judgemental about that. You chose a path which is accompanied with lessons and progress.
It’s hurt to love someone and not have the courage to let them know how u feel. Let them know u love them , don’t wait for love in return , wait for it to grow in theirs and if it doesn’t be content he grew in yours
You took your shot.
Now you know she doesn't want you the way you want her. It sucks, but now you can move on from her and live your own life.
“We accept the love we think we deserve” if I am speaking honestly, we all need to raise our standards then, and realize how deserving we and the people around us are
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Yes
I wish l could experience love again. You know the whole feeling of with that butterflies in the stomach and the warm touch of the person you use to love.
"I didn't want to fall in love. Not at all. But at some point you smiled, and, holy shit I blew it"
❤
I won't give up. I truly love her with all my heart I don't care what has happened. I want to love this woman more then I ever have, she pulls things out of me nobody else besides myself and my kids could.
thats how it starts in the end you will end up bitter and left behind like me...
I'm reading what sounds what's going on right now with the women I miss. I haven't heard from her for almost a week. I miss her calls, texts, smiles. She was a good friend but I supposingly pissed her off and she hasnt talked to me almost a week. Tearing me up inside. Can't think, cant work, can't think except about her. It hurts. Eating me up inside. I called 20 times and left many messages even texted im sorry. No reply back yet. So confused.
@@duumahh you can’t sound desperate, you push her away the more you bombard her with calls etc. giving people their space is always key to them coming back at times. If not.. then they weren’t meant to be in your life.
Give it a couple of months without her and you'll start realising all the little things you actually didnt like and the rose tinted glasses of your relationship will wear off and moving on will be so much easier!
Tell you what's harder, losing your ex and every day wondering how you're going to carry on without them and finally getting to the point of letting someone else in and then the person that you find and like has a f'ing boyfriend so you gotta sit there with feelings that cant be shared at all🤦♂️
I hope everyone is doing okay. Don’t ever give up❤️
It's so hard not to, when you try your hardest and nothing changes but you still love them
I’m really trying not to
Trying my bestt
I think it will be better If I just give up everything will be soo numb n peaceful. ✌️ 🌸
@@rajatkumarverma7135 it won’t be for everyone you leave behind.
Never felt pain like this, I just want it to stop, my head won’t stop playing back the memories and the broken promises, I don’t have the strength for this man
i gocthu man i feel u , Been 9 months for me …
These truly capture the intimacy and trust that is human connection
I love how the Universe delivers exactly what we need to hear at exactly right time ! This is so true ! So emotional , so deep and simply describes true love . I know only one important thing for myself : you can love only once !! True love that touches you in the most significant way can happen only once in a lifetime . At least to me because when you truly love you can forget about all of your ex’s but not the One that is simply felt like your own Heartbeat . There might be many challenges but it’s always worth it to fight for true love ! Especially when both people are truly willing to be together ! I will rather face lots of challenges but experience true love ! It’s just worth it to grow , to become even wiser and simply just love each other till the last breath .. no actually in the next lifetime I promise to find you too because I would be grateful to live many lifetimes together . Am I too intense ? Who cares as long as I am sharing my inner truth with those who wanna listen . 🙏⭐️🎆
That was beautifully said.
I remember the words were effortless.wsy the words were spake. The pauses and the fluidity in others it is art.
It doesn’t get better, folks. Pray not for lighter burdens, but for broader shoulders.
When you love someone without getting any love back - and you really want the best for them - then and only then it’s true love - unconditional.
If you’re able to accept loving people that seemingly do not deserve it, if you’re able to make peace loving without getting anything back - then you really reached a high state of character - you’re the light then, the warmth that this earth is missing in so many places - keep going, trust yourself and have faith - joy and serenity will come for sure !
That is the love Jesus has for you💙
…then it’s right around the corner, it could happen 💜😇
Seeing your love with another guy is the hardest shit, personally i cant take it. If i cry i dont thing i will stop again
dealt with that with my two best friends. i was in love with one and he dated her instead despite acting like he wanted me. and guess what? as soon as they broke up i stopped loving him that way. he chose her, not me, and that made me realize that i shouldn’t love someone in that way who won’t put me first
I saw them hugging, i felt like my world crumbled
“Find someone who you can love like crazy and who’ll love you the same way back.” If only it was that easy
I’m in love with her okay, if you’re looking for the word that means caring about someone beyond all rationality and wanting them to have everything they want no matter how much it destroys you, it’s love. And when you love someone you don’t stop, ever. Even when people roll their eyes or call you crazy, especially then. you just- you don’t give up because if I could give up if could just you know, take the worlds advice and move on and find someone else That wouldn’t be love! That would be… that would be some other disposable thing that is not worth fighting for. - my favorite line
That's what I say if you truly love someone you never stop no matter how apart you are no matter if it kills you inside if there not with you, you still want them happy I still love my high school sweetheart and I will till the day I die I'm in Illinois and he's in California we have been apart for over 30 yrs but I've never stopped loving him
But not letting go, hurts like hell but even if you try you can't. Wonderful
if you didn't know, that's a line from How I Met Your Mother
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I do miss her every single day, I'm glad I told her how I felt then she left as long she happy..
@The One if you truly love someone you can't just sit back and let them slip away to another life and failed attempts for love...
@@misty6915 sometimes there just isnt any other choice..
The man in the answering machine is me.
love is like a magic trick, you know it’s an illusion and yet somehow you still enjoy it
Hey I just wanted to say a huge thank you to whoever made this video. It’s a short video but it has such a deep emotional effect on me and on thousands of others as I can tell by the comments. You have helped me with so many mental issues and I’ve watched your videos on repeat. Keep it up and continue to help people all around the world with your videos. You’re the best and hope you can see that your channel means a lot to thousands of people and that the work that you do is truly special. Good luck and thank you again!
It's nice that someone did this for someone. I feel loved and have Noone to connect it to. The song makes me so sad and says I never blamed you for giving up. 💔
You know you're sad when you've listened to this on repeat for so long you don't even remember when you started listening
August 30th, 2022, 11:54 PM: I'm back boys...
I’ve seen this video in my recommendations 8 times already
I always have pulled up this audio weekly and just lay in the dark. I love this and it makes me cry most of the time ❤
"Hey, i know I'm probably the last person you wanna hear from right now. And I get that. Erm, I just miss you... A lot. And... I can't stop thinking about you. I guess I was just calling to check if you're doing okay. I'm not... Life's really hard without you. I'm glad that smiles back on your face. It suits you. You're. Ermm... I'm always here if you need me. You know that. I love you" that had me crying ngl
Bro, this hits on another level, it’s been 2 years since I broke up with my ex, it took me awhile to realize the mistake I made. I still miss her, but I can’t go back to her, she’s with someone else
I still remember those fun times we had, walking through the park late out, looking at the stars, I miss looking at her, and just feeling happy. But I was stupid and made myself depressed making myself think ‘I don’t deserve her’
Its ohk buddy, whats important is u understand ur mistake. I know how it feels but u tried ur best
just because there's a goalie don't mean you can't score 😏🥴
@@m4rl3n44 LETS GOOOOOO LOL nah jk, I don’t really wanna ruin a relationship tho
Same, still in love after 2 years but she is also with someone else. I am happy for her, but damn I miss her.
You see, i'm in love with my ex. She broke up with me on Halloween and it hit me hard. We are still best friends, and i'm so happy that shes happy. But, i miss when it was me and her.
i just wanted to put it out there that im a girl yall keep calling me a guy lol, have a great day everyone
Mine broke up with me and now he’s with someone else. I was desperate and sad and made things worse. He told me to let him try to be happy and to leave him alone. To let him figure out this new relationship and he’ll reach out to me in the future if he wants to. I was the cause of our break up. And it hurts to know that i may have pushed my soulmate into the arms of another. All I can do now is get better and hope we’ll find each other again in the future because I know we’re meant to be.
I’m sorry you guys I’m balling right now I’m sorry
It's really hard to get over that one you love. Iam not going lie to you by telling you everything going to be ok because right now it's not. You need to think of yourself and start caring about yourself to. Yes it's fucking hard to do. Just take each day as it comes.if you need to talk let it out just reply I'll do my best to listen and give some advice.. take care
Honestly I’m in a relationship right now but all I can think about is my ex. He treated me like I was the only one in the world and I miss it, I miss it all. I fell head over heals for him. We made a promise when we were together that no matter what happened he would come back for me when he was 18 and well I guess I’m still hoping he comes back for me. He turns 18 on December 17th. I’m scared but still hopeful. Is that wrong?
Will that also happened to me,she also loved me but on this day2021/11/23 she said she lost her feelings for me and she loves one of my friend and we were having fun for a week and in that week she told me that she loves me but she was lying to me and that is the saddest but and even if i tell my friends my feelings they will not understand, they will say move on when i can't
"Beautiful!" ... " Love is truly patient, it's kind, and always seeks the needs of others " .. Blessings always, Ms. Deborah Steele - 12/08/21
I think I was regretting leaving things undone. Like hoping after.i failed to fail
Loving and missing someone is a whole new different feeling and pain
I have been trying to avoid watching this video for so much. Randomly popping up on my recommendations. I knew how much pain it would bring from opening up wounds that have yet to heal.
Reason why I am here. Here after having the vid on repeat for a good while. I just couldn't feel anymore. Have been numb for a couple of weeks. Being numb for a long time blinds you. Blinds you of what's in front of you. Blinds you of what's around you and those who are there. Blinds you of what's inside you. Of your own heart.
I needed to feel again. I knew what would make that work. I knew because she would sing me this song as I played my guitar.
The moment I pressed play on this video, the numbness started to go away with the tears that ran down my face. I could still see her smile and eyes as her heart sang to me. I hope I never forget that.
i sang while my old love played the piano and it made me fall for him even more
but he hurt me and chose someone else, and they still broke up and i can’t want him anymore.
i don’t know you but i’m sending my love to you.
keep your head up and don’t stop fighting ❤️
I actually realize I love him more than I thought.
Felt this
Same
How can I love someone, when all I see them is loving someone else.
I'm so happy someone finally had understood The Perks of Being A Wallflower for it's greatness. I think it's one of the best movie adaptations of a book.
Best book ever, got me through middle school.
I think my soul broke when I had to walk away from a toxic relationship with someone I thought I was going to marry
Hey man I relate, it's been what more than a year and It still messes me up, I'm seeing her for the 1st time tomo and I'm scared shitless. God knows if it ever gets better does it?
Same, But I feel as if mine was a little more complicated then that.
man i keep coming back to this video
Same
i stopped being sad long ago, it's kinda refreshing. Learning to grow as a person, I'm doing so much better now and I'm so proud. To the one I love most now, I Love You so much, Thank you for being there :) 🌹
True love never leaves....if they truly love you, they won't just leave you and come back. Trust me real love never leaves you alone.
I wish for once in my life that I could just be important to someone that I love…
❤same❤
You are important to God, He loves you unconditionally and eternally. God will never stop loving you, you are loved. Allways remember that, Keep that in your heart, even when it’s breaking🫶🏻💜
“what is grief, if not love persevering?”
He made me feel what is love and what it is to be loved!
You guys i made it! I found him! 💌
GOOD HOLD ON FOR DEAR LIFE AND NEVER LET GO…YOU ACCOMPLISHED WHAT ALL OF US HAVE BEEN HOPING FOR AND WHAT GOES WRONG FOR US ALL
Good for you, mate. Never let them go, please. Tell them you love them, show them you love them. Wish you the best cheers!
If you find yourself looking again in here too. The guy who didn't know the answering machine would be memorable enough to have this incredible song that speaks to me personally. My name is Chad Everett Basurto I'm 44 01/04/197>4+4
Love was never a feeling, it’s a commitment, a vow, and feelings often come along with that. Beauty fades, feelings fade, but love is forever.
and love never fails 🥺🫶🏻
"Find someone who you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back"
So I met this boy in college
He was the sweetest person I've ever met
His smile, the way he used to look at me, I just can't get it out of my head
I know something was between us, I could feel it
But I was too insecure about myself
And too scared to tell him how much I love him
And yeah..
He fell in love with someone else
And here I am
Thinking about what we could have if I was more confident about myself and could tell him how much I love him
Play a waiting game
You already are probably
I thought for a.moment you were inferring to the young man on the video. That was me
That first quote(1:00) hit hard because it’s from how I met your mother. The show my girlfriend showed me and got into, but now I can’t finish it because I’ll think of her. Nothing bad happened to the extent of abuse in both ends. We just got into our first real argument and I yelled at her. We tried working it out, but in the end hidden stuff came out and I got upset again and broke up with her then took it back. We talked again, but she told me that she couldn’t work on the relationship right now. It’s been a month. I went through anguish, had to go to the crisis center because my mental health was so bad. I miss her. People tell me to move on, you’ll date other people, better people, but they don’t understand that it’s her I want. I don’t want to be loved. I want to be loved by her, but if it means letting her go for some time so that we can find each other again when we’re both ready and better then I’ll do that. If we don’t ever get back together then I’m glad I was loved by her and at least we’re still in each other’s life as friends sorta.
I’m trying to get her back, by working on myself: going to therapy, going to the gym, thinking of what happened and where I went wrong. I’m getting strong though. I don’t miss her as much and haven’t cried over her as much. I haven’t even texted and called her in almost 30 days.
How did it work out?
Bro how's it going now? Stay strong!
A lot of people just don't understand when you tell them you're still grieving from the same person who hurt a year before. Grieving is not as easy as forgetting someone. You lost the person you made your dreams with; you lost who you are with them. It is not jus about the memories, it's also about the lost dreams, the future; you are also grieving for the life you could never live.
madara once said where ever there is light there will always be shadows be to found with in them
yes there will always be light followed by shadows but only in the darkness is where the light will shine the brightest
keep your head up it make take time but let the fire of hope build up over time things will get better maybe not today maybe not tomorrow but one day you will wake up and feel a little less sad don’t hurt yourself it’s not your fault don’t blame yourself don’t ever hate yourself find love for yourself only then can you truly make peace and be in a better place don’t ever settle for less ik they seemed like the world to you but in the end they abandoned you when they said they wouldn’t you fought and fought but they moved on don’t wait years for someone who doesn’t feel or care for you anymore she once did yes but people change people leave it’s hard life was never easy it’s not about what happened it’s about how you over come i hope you find inner peace
Everyone thinks I’m doing alright, but every night I still think about her. It’s so hard not to
It's crazy how when you love someone that you don't care that you might get hurt
we don't love someone only for who they are for us, but also for what we are for them
Without a reason love have you ever been so high days nights weeks even months starts fading together like time has slowed down Feels like a dream. That's a high that scares me for only one has makes me that high an she's gone
I didn’t just lose you I lost me too💔
I feel this on an incredibly deep level. I hope you're OK ❤
😔❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹😔
To My Moon: It’s been a year now since the last time I heard your voice. It was the hardest thing telling you that I loved you knowing you weren’t ready to hear it. It was my truth though and truths always deserve to be told. I never thought I’d be the girl to love someone after they ghosted. A full year and I still want nothing more than your happiness. I miss you more than you know and hope you are traveling all the wide open spaces you told me about in your stories. I know you find your peace there. Please be well and thank you for teaching me the lesson of unconditional love.
I’ve been through this like most of you and i have found rest in meditation. Whenever you drown in the thoughts and memories and you feel like there is no end just close your eyes focus on the breath. Of course your going to be going through intense pain and don’t try to change it. When those waves of immense hurt come just feel it’s effect on the body and mind. Feel the pain and the experience as you slowly bring your attention to the breath.
I’m glad that smile is back on your face it suits you you’re gorgeous 😢❤
This video has brought me more peace of mind than anything I've ever watched or any piece of information anyone has ever given me. IT'S OKAY TO LOVE SOMEONE, NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS!!!
I started talking to this girl recently, one night we spontaneously met at a bar and ever since that night I finally understood “I never stopped falling in love”, every time she would start a sentence it was like discovering love all over again
Never give up even if all hope is gone never let go it's never too late to try again
Id give anything to tell my mom.. Once more.. I love her.
Bro I'm glad I can come back to the video and tell everyone she came back guys....she came back man and I literally gotta say man that I love her guys I held on and she came back. No matter how much time passes she came back and picked me.
I just want to say it's ok to let go and it's ok to love them. When they come back you'll understand how much you needed them and how much the space was needed even though it hurt.
But for the ones that never came back just know they just made room for you to build yourself for that one dude. The one who actually needed everything that you are. So for whoever needs this I want you to know that you're damn amazing and when you find them they will know it too.
I’m happy for you man
Damn man , im waiting on her congrats tho appreciate her more do the small things the small things count they really do , they build a place in her heart
Love is that one that invokes every feeling, and then it tears your soul out daily.
The one person who disliked this has never truly loved someone and gone through hell after being devastated 💔
I watched the whole video and didn’t cry , almost, but didn’t but the second I opened the comments and started reading them ,, that is when I started to cry
Ever love somebody, knowing they won’t love you back, scared to tell them because it’s pointless and you don’t want to ruin what you already have. And being close to them at all is better than nothing, and you don’t know what to do, because there’s no good ending, because the more time you spend with them the more it hurts, and the less less time you spend with them the more it hurts. And you don’t know what to do, so you just smile through the agony, hoping you can at least help anyone is your shitty situation, because one less person dealing with this is a win for the world, even if it’s killing you?
Yeah, me too.
I'm in love with someone but they're in a relationship and I keep hurting them.
It's hard to get into a relationship cause I feel like it won't be genuine and I'm kinda scared that my crush will get out of their relationship... but at the same time I feel like if they do, I'll be their last choice and that's probably what hurts the most...
I dedicate the first words to myself as a kid, miss being myself as well as being happy
Wow that hurts
Appreciate the ones you love. Because you don’t know how long you have, cherish the moment
❤️❤️❤️
I've been emotionally broken to the point of being numb to sadness. I come back to this video once in awhile to know what feeling sad feels like again..
(Possessed)
You’re always in my dreams, you’re always in brain
Even though it’s depression, I atleast feel something
No matter what you do, it makes me go insane
You made me stop breathing even when all you do is nothing
I can’t stop staring at your eyes
It gets in my body, in my blood, in my soul
It’s a drug that makes me become paralyzed
It’s contagious but for some reason I want more
I miss the times I was thinking of someone else
It’s easier to deal with the pain
unlike with you that couldn’t be more different
For some reason you’re the only one that I can’t explain
My head feels like a bomb even though you’re not thinking of me
It’s tickin away that only god sees
I just know you’re thinking of him
Why would you think of me
Why would you think of me
I wondered what it’s like if we never met,
how I wouldn’t feel this way
How I wouldn’t be possessed
Would I still have met you
if I didn’t show up that day?
It’s so hard to let go and so hard to forget
It’s even harder when there’s not a single regret
The pain is real and it’s not going away,
If I knew then what I now know, I would still do the same
Just know Every time I see you I want to test the roulette
even at the end it makes me dead
Because knowing that you know me is worth it
I would die a million times if you were the culprit
Even if that’s all true
You don’t like me the way I like you
I became a little obsessed which is an understatement
I hate that I would’ve had a chance if you weren’t with him
I hate that I met you but I wouldn’t go back
I just really wish I didn’t love you but at the same time that’s not a fact
I try to look nice as if I’m gonna have a chance
It’s inevitable that we’re just gonna stay friends
This is just a one sided romance
A romance that needs to end
I think too hard
For her to not think at all
My plan sounds good
For it to only meet a wall
I can’t stop this
It hurts so much
Toughest thing I can ever do
Is give you up
It’s eating my brain
It’s eating my brain
This is so pointless, we’re all gonna die anyways
Damn, deep
Felt this brother dw stay strong
It’s gotten to the point where it hurts to keep this smile on
I just pray that she's happy, that she's in love with someone who thinks she's even more incredible than I do. Someone that will never make her cry...please be happy even if it's not with me. I'll always love you
that’s real 🫶🏻💯
I used to crave for this kind of love. That's what love meant to me. Until very late in years the veil starts to slip and you recognise that kind of love is toxic. Like poison you have in you and you are not cured to the point you are beginning to feel something separating. Feels like death and fear of loosing the other, not yourself mind you, still is the center of all attention. And that person never arrives, they have moved on with similar toxicity cos the chain we put on our ankle to keep something outside of ourselves attached to, not letting go no matter how distant that one moved away. After eons you meet and it's hard to let go. The idea that love breathes outside of me or us is love that takes soul away into the deceitful land of greenery and memories. Healing the heart, the same heart that once loved everything but this one heart that beats for existence is challenging to take care of. Leaving life in the hands of others to wait outside of the body and watch it getting eaten or shredded to pieces is not love. It's a rage that burns within us. To recognise it and hold your heart in ur own hands and love it and heal it so you can, I can love again. To meet the one who can love and has loved lived in the same breath to renew the heart to the pure love from which you and i and everyone rises. Love is never lost. However life is, and that's okay.
I was happy to give. I always love giving. Ask and you shall receive. Take and you get nothing
The Wisp Sings was our wedding song. Hearing it, with the heartbreaking voice over shatters my heart back into a hundred thousand pieces. I can't believe she's gone. I would've done anything. Anything. I tried everything I could.
I'm on the dark path now. I know how this one ends.
I could never know what you’re going through, but you have to keep going. You have to keep hoping, keep living. What you’re going through now may be the worst part of your life, and it may take time, maybe even years to move past it. But if you keep fighting, i can guarantee you that one day you’ll thank yourself for having kept living even through all that pain.
It ends with happiness please prevail I love you
Hey brother can I speak to you? I been feeling bout the same but we both know where it goes but only when it’s allowed to take us there, even when u feel down and like it’s not worth it, u gotta tell yourself it is and your mother most def loves u more than her and it’s gonna hurt everyone around even the person at the store u shop at everyday or whatever man it will break hearts and just make more people feel how we do now and that ain’t okay brother we know it but duck man why’s it gotta be so selfish to end shit smh, but it’s the facts and we gotta remind ourselves everyday of the good not that we had but that we are having today and can have tomorrow, and if u doubting life remember you’ve been “okay” before and if u ain’t been the happiest that’s okay, always will be but brother we gots to be men at the end that’s what’s the end, and to do that we gotta let ourselves cry it out and be miserable for a little and never let it off our mind that we will bounce back and we won’t if we don’t do the bouncing and u gotta bounce when u get out the bed and when u get in that truck or car and when u hop out and when u walk into work u gotta bounce back and have it in your step and tell yourself I will have a good day and will not let my bad thoughts or feeling affect the way my day goes or whether I treat others any different because then you’ve let it take over and u gotta stop that and do better for yourself and all that you love or loved! Love ya brother keep on keeping on! And be strong!
Just asking if you’re okay? Are you still there? Keep going King! We’re all here with you - this comment section understands!
The girl I loved didn’t feel the same way and now we’re barely even friends. She made me happy and I absolutely hated the time where she went through some drama and cried about it. Now I have trouble focusing on shit and I just feel sad all the time.
He came over to me after we finally fell in love and confessed feelings to each other. I had finished going out and having a really fun time with friends, so when he came I was really on a high and excited to see him and tell him all about it. What I didn’t expect was a confession that he wanted to just stay as friends because of certain circumstances of our relationship. A break, if you will, to see if I was the one. I asked him why he would even want to do that, because he and I have discussed how “breaks” and “staying as friends” doesn’t work. He said that he really, really loves me, and that’s why he’s doing this; he wants to see if he’s really in love with me because he thinks I’m the perfect ideal woman. I don’t buy into it now, though, because everything in this video is how I think about love. No matter the circumstances, you try to make it work out and you keep going because you love that person and if you were to leave you’d tear their heart apart. I don’t think he realizes how much he’s breaking me because he thinks that I just have a little crush on him, but really I’ve never met anyone like him, and if I tell that to someone, they wouldn’t ever buy it. I used to stay up late nights until four or five in the morning and laugh with him about stupid things and him laughing with me, we would have to sneak around in terms of the relationship but get together again at the end of it all, we met each others first family, we talk really deeply about life and our futures with each other, we exchanged songs. Again, people would roll their eyes, but they didn’t know the relationship we had together. Everyone that talks to us thinks we’re a couple or mentions how oddly close we were with each other. He thinks that in the next year I’ll find someone to love that’s just like him, because he popped up so why wouldn’t a person like him come, but where we live I know for sure he’s the only one. He’s also being selfish, saying that his heart is cold and that he’s been broken one too many times and he doesn’t want me to do it to him again. No matter how much I tried crying and no matter how much he was crying, he stuck to it. I admitted that I think he’s making a dumb decision, and he admitted that he thinks he might be doing the same.
So far I’ve cried every day about him and not a day goes by where I don’t think about him. I love him so much and I swore that we’d make it all work out but now I just wish that I’d never met him. The only lesson he taught me is to not fall so damn easily and to try to think with my head rather than my heart, which is the opposite of this video. If I didn’t meet him, I wouldn’t have heartbreak. If I didn’t meet him and wait for three quarters of a year to finally kiss him, and meanwhile get to know him better than anyone else, I wouldn’t be in love. I smile a little less now because he’s still always around and I have to try to keep going pretending like nothing’s happened between us at all. I don’t know when I’ll be back to the way I was, because truth be told I could easily light up a room, but now I hide in the back and even excuse myself often times to get my act together. Every time I see him anymore, or even the slightest mention of a happy couple, the bursting joy in my heart dissipates and turns into an unpleasant churning of my stomach and it makes me wanna throw up and cry.
This is love, is what I’ve learned so far. I hope that someone will love me someday the way that I love him, whether it’s him or not. Right now though, I’m going through a really bad time, so it’s just one day at a time.
Shine bright like a diamond.
hoping for the best
Very deeply and passionately felt! You deserve more and you will find the one that can love you as deeply and as passionately as you do them! You deserve better than he could give you and I can tell that just by reading the words you have written do not sell yourself short keep your head up and know that one will come when you least expect it!