Why Being Handsome Is Not Enough (THIS is What You Need!)

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  • @Austindunhamfit
    @Austindunhamfit  Місяць тому +7

    Calculate Your SMV For Free: www.thedigitalromeo.com/smv-calculator

    • @Sammytheman
      @Sammytheman Місяць тому +1

      Hi Austin how are you I'm always sexy lol

    • @RitsonBenn-be6re
      @RitsonBenn-be6re Місяць тому

      No lie since I been watching these videos Austin Dunham, all I did is keep educating myself and share my knowledge with the guys about me, at this moment I'm 146 gaged to hit 170 leaned, having a lil baby Girl ohhh boy even my wife getting a bit crazy when I wears vest not even like mi around her friend.. kid from Guyana 🇬🇾

    • @Rar-b8o
      @Rar-b8o 26 днів тому

      I love you my man Austin Dunham

  • @CodeDusq1
    @CodeDusq1 Місяць тому +133

    Working on your appearance is a start, but having good social skills is what creates lasting connections.

    • @Luooffe
      @Luooffe Місяць тому +17

      In fact you can make it on good social skills alone. They just have to be really really good

    • @numbat0072
      @numbat0072 Місяць тому

      Yep he often blabs on with alot of crap , though I admire his dedication to physical exercise some would call him a wanker (jerk) prone to hyperbole

    • @Blinkers2007GameDev
      @Blinkers2007GameDev Місяць тому

      @@Luooffe It's hard, sometimes you could but the opportunities don't present themselves that often and even if they do you have to be really really good to compensate

    • @Yeahbruh200
      @Yeahbruh200 Місяць тому

      mkay that isn't hard bruh. You would have to be extremly socially inept to not a get a gf if you are good looking. If you are good looking dating is very easy. You don't need amazing confidence or social skills. The girl will make it easy.

    • @bekabeka71
      @bekabeka71 Місяць тому

      @@Yeahbruh200but it’s the first step 🤦🏻‍♂️ trying to approach is a killer haha I do get looks in the gym or when I’m out in public but I just relapsed today so I think I might lose my glow 😔

  • @KickFlickz-u2b
    @KickFlickz-u2b 13 днів тому +3

    Plus Knowledge, you teach a girl something that she’s genuinely interested in and she’ll never forget u. And u get respected. Next thing u know she’ll want your opinion on everything.

  • @oghenetegaumukoro113
    @oghenetegaumukoro113 Місяць тому +5

    I love this video. It's like you're speaking to me directly. Thank you Austin. You've changed my life in so many ways. You're like my online big brother. God bless you

  • @gomez3357
    @gomez3357 15 днів тому +1

    One of his realest videos

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon Місяць тому +13

    In terms of what’s best for yourself: money > status looks. In terms of ulling o’s: status > looks > money

    • @Zamintsupremacy
      @Zamintsupremacy Місяць тому +2

      Looks >>>>>>>>>
      But yea for yourself specifically money is very important for women of any kind looks>>

    • @cwrichardson3
      @cwrichardson3 Місяць тому

      Ulling O's???

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 12 днів тому

      Most men won’t have high status or make tons of money even if you do just know none of it is genuine attraction which is only achieved through looks

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 12 днів тому

      If you use money status to get wm your basically a glorified trick pay for play longterm pro it won’t end well either

  • @tumultuousforce6204
    @tumultuousforce6204 Місяць тому +3

    enjoying the authentic vibe from this video dawg

  • @dannyrwagamba
    @dannyrwagamba 11 днів тому +1

    Awesome advice

  • @ZestyDL
    @ZestyDL Місяць тому +48

    You have to also give up any vices. Such as cornogrophy addiction. That will destroy your confidence even if you look good.

    • @numbat0072
      @numbat0072 Місяць тому +2

      Is "cornograhy addiction" an addiction to corn ?

    • @ZestyDL
      @ZestyDL Місяць тому +1

      @numbat0072 🤣🤣No

    • @numbat0072
      @numbat0072 Місяць тому +1

      @@ZestyDL what actually is it ?

    • @ZestyDL
      @ZestyDL Місяць тому

      @@numbat0072 Replace the P with a C

    • @william_SMMA
      @william_SMMA Місяць тому +3

      cap.

  • @thisguyrools2807
    @thisguyrools2807 24 дні тому +4

    Looks and money aren’t enough. You have to have a certain mindset and aura that attracts women. A woman who is married to handsome guy with a six figure salary will still get with the cool edgy pool boy or cool bartender and even a janitor behind his back.

  • @DeepakKumar-bp6lj
    @DeepakKumar-bp6lj Місяць тому +4

    perfect timing

  • @tsn15
    @tsn15 Місяць тому +6

    Exactly, theres way more to life than looks, not saying they aren’t important, but its not the difference between you living a shitty life and the life that you want

  • @7embersVeryOwn
    @7embersVeryOwn Місяць тому +4

    I have to disagree on two things. First, you don’t choose your confidence level like you pick a t-shirt, the reason why it is a decisive factor is exactly because it is rare, and it is rare because it relies on factors that are immutable. Confidence or lack thereof is awareness of your capabilities, awareness which is obtained from external signal, not decided from within. At least not when it comes to TRUE RAW confidence.
    Secondly, don’t lead with your wallet or carreer. It is true that women value money more with time but that is because they are less and less looking for a man they are genuinely attracted to and more and more for a someone to build a life and raise children. Those are two positive but very distinct things

    • @nicpeters3306
      @nicpeters3306 Місяць тому +1

      man i agree for complete, you told all, and is complicated because equals your says get tough if you get some girl using your wallet or carreer, on first opportunite that she find some guy more handsome than you she cheat on you with him. Is very sad this situation, you know your wife,gf is with you just for the fact you is a provider,like lets say you lost everything, then she leave you

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 12 днів тому +1

      Confidence and personality is all formed on your upbringing parenting and how your treated based off your looks it is pretty much set in stone unless something drastic happens to you

  • @solankivijay4079
    @solankivijay4079 Місяць тому +94

    all of your videos click with the things I've been reading in the book 'Magnetic Aura', warm recommendation to everyone

    • @ildemarorequena2221
      @ildemarorequena2221 Місяць тому +14

      have you really been reading that book, or have you been spaming in every comment section you read it? 🤡

    • @foreignM
      @foreignM Місяць тому +1

      bs

  • @jflexys5114
    @jflexys5114 27 днів тому +1

    The looksmaxing and dating stuff is cool, but do more videos on getting money, finances, and ways to increase income, my G.

  • @adamrogers6591
    @adamrogers6591 Місяць тому +4

    All of it is pointless unless you take action.

  • @secondone3249
    @secondone3249 Місяць тому +2

    Good looking + shy (lvl 1 autism) I'd go with. Confidence doesn't just fall out of the sky
    And for ugly, I don't mean dudes that are just simply overweight but have around 2 or more significant facial flaws that greatly damage their appearance. Flaws in the big 3:
    Eyes:
    -Unfortunate angle of negative canthal tilt
    -High amounts of Upper Eyelid Exposure
    -Bug Eyes that protrude out the skull
    Midface:
    -A tall midface will result in a horseface/tallface look and a big no-no
    -Recessed Maxilla
    -Completely Flat & low-set cheekbones
    Jaw:
    -Very narrow width
    -Major Recession
    -Asymmetrical
    -Loose Hyroid Skin
    ^ If you have more than one of these, you are below average unless you have other good facial features.

  • @jamespain2138
    @jamespain2138 Місяць тому +2

    My confidence comes from my looks

  • @reuby6726
    @reuby6726 Місяць тому

    Started my looks journey at 19 and didn't start my money and status journey till I was 24/25 and now am 30 at my prime although my money and status is almost there just need 1 or 2 years more, it feels amazing if also you work on your communication and confidence skills to. Girls like are at the very least interested to want to talk and know me better
    My brothers, you can do it if you put in the work and work smart at it

  • @AZ-gs6hj
    @AZ-gs6hj Місяць тому +2

    None of this will matter if you don't have charisma and a good personality too. Seen too many guys focusing on looks and when it comes to actually talking to women, they struggle and lack the needed charisma to actually be enjoyable to be around.

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 12 днів тому

      You can have personality and charisma but if you don’t have looks and height it’s done also your personality and charisma is already formed when growing up it’s not something you can change really people form their personality in total based off upbringing and how the world treats them based off their looks

    • @AZ-gs6hj
      @AZ-gs6hj 11 днів тому

      ​@@thedarkestknight8381 I agree. Attractive people are always the most confident and confidence allows you to be yourself. When you're insecure. you are much more likely to be a recluse. Attractive people have life on easy mode. Their worst day is stubbing their toe.

  • @thenxomar
    @thenxomar Місяць тому

    Feeling this right now.

  • @cashflowhunter1033
    @cashflowhunter1033 Місяць тому

    Humm. I believe that being handsome will build confidence.

  • @niharheamgaddi8340
    @niharheamgaddi8340 Місяць тому +14

    0:53 bro you don't need to be personal there

  • @HenryLongmire
    @HenryLongmire Місяць тому

    Great video 💯

  • @JB_Sejour
    @JB_Sejour Місяць тому +1

    This Thumbnail and video title give mad Night City from Cyberpunk vibes

  • @jeremyferguson5588
    @jeremyferguson5588 Місяць тому +1

    Mane height and looks are wayyyyyyy more important than confidence. I'm 5'5 and confident and I promise you women don't care. They still don't want me

  • @matthewkiggin5456
    @matthewkiggin5456 Місяць тому

    It’s my negativity mind set that most of the time make me think I’m ugly

  • @swordsnorchids1997
    @swordsnorchids1997 Місяць тому +2

    I'm a good looking young woman and I can relate to this I'm kinda struggling right now..

    • @thegoat8447
      @thegoat8447 Місяць тому +3

      Struggling with what?

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 12 днів тому +1

      I guarantee if your good looking wm it won’t be long before someone approaches you you won’t be single very long someone you like will definitely come up to you soon wm have it easier you dont have to approach but if you do there’s a high percentage chance a guy will say yes especially if your attractive

  • @nicpeters3306
    @nicpeters3306 Місяць тому

    even not seem that this nigga is same age than me 😭, it's is perfect example about as earlier you start your personal develop path is as you get the most best things from life more quickly, sure no manner the time for start, but is impossible deny that as earlier better

  • @SamLesGo
    @SamLesGo Місяць тому +3

    Make sure you have money. In this day and age your look dosent make much difference. If you have the cash and still look like shit you get what you want.

  • @VonArtic
    @VonArtic Місяць тому +2

    Looks= 40
    Character= 30
    Wealth=30
    =💯

    • @KCFlightClub10
      @KCFlightClub10 Місяць тому +8

      Looks is 70 percent lmao

    • @samueli7759
      @samueli7759 Місяць тому

      @@KCFlightClub10 There are ugly guys that bag pretty girls. Personality/game is underrated.

    • @thedarkestknight8381
      @thedarkestknight8381 12 днів тому

      @@lyrikiletrifealso it’s not genuine it’s money status

  • @jorgevargas441
    @jorgevargas441 Місяць тому +1

    I wish I would have seen this video 3 months ago

  • @nolovedre8455
    @nolovedre8455 Місяць тому

    I’m 21 years old girls my age or in my generation specifically black girls never really called me handsome but it tends to be much older black women calling me handsome some like 30’s and 40’s
    But other races my age tends to find me attractive like Hispanic and white girls im black by the way and not in that good of shape but my personality makes pretty girls find me attractive 💭😊💯

  • @jayz3479
    @jayz3479 Місяць тому +1

    you could become the most handsome but without social skills you will still fail inevitably

  • @WGPhil-uw5cs
    @WGPhil-uw5cs Місяць тому

    It makes it a lot easier to get a date or a hookup. If a woman isn't physically attracted to you, she's going to cheat, or you'll end up a foodie call.

  • @MhalaTeacher
    @MhalaTeacher Місяць тому

    I completely agree on this video
    I'm attractive than Austin and I'm from India and I'm so shy so I can relate what you are sayin

  • @jabigchad1749
    @jabigchad1749 20 днів тому +1

    Dayum I’m 5”11 160 and I still looks like a twat, must be bone density or sth 😮

  • @Yeahbruh200
    @Yeahbruh200 Місяць тому +1

    Looks are enough and the only thing, as long as you aren't socially inept you are going to be fine bruh tf. It is very very rare to find a man who is good looking and tall and just not have a good dating life bruh. Like I said you would have to be an complete bafoon to not get women if you are good looking and tall. women will naturally make it easy for you if you're good looking and tall, and they don't care if you're shy or akward.

  • @Yeahbruh200
    @Yeahbruh200 Місяць тому

    Lol I say what I want do what I want and live my life how I want. Yet I don't get any women lmao because I'm 5'6 and average looking. Confidence doesn't matter if you aren't good looking.

  • @seantheansea5792
    @seantheansea5792 Місяць тому +1

    English is my second language, where should I start?

  • @Losblancostalk
    @Losblancostalk Місяць тому

    Most women are dry when it comes to conversations tho. Men just don’t hold them accountable.

  • @dorej8432
    @dorej8432 Місяць тому +9

    Looks are not as important as men think. I'd take an ugly man that's confident and has a sense of humor than a man that "thinks" he's handsome.

    • @kidntee
      @kidntee Місяць тому +22

      Bs

    • @slide6314
      @slide6314 Місяць тому

      well that's you, you definately dont speak for all women

    • @myfakinusername
      @myfakinusername Місяць тому +1

      It's not intuitive at first but it's true, I've seen it firsthand

    • @jaysondemarco
      @jaysondemarco Місяць тому +4

      Bluepill

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Місяць тому +2

      @myfakinusername Yep lot of girls prioritize is he fun to be around. Especially offline

  • @OnlyRussians
    @OnlyRussians Місяць тому +2

    Yes in Cold approach looksmaxx helped me. Because if I approached woman I got more nice positive reaction from Woman as before looksmaxxing.
    But game is also important

  • @acexae2411
    @acexae2411 18 днів тому

    what classifies as small talk

  • @use-just-S
    @use-just-S Місяць тому

    So it is cost 5k to get girl in US . Much better to get one in ASIA . There you know for sure you have a chance to find really good girl with everything a Man ever need.

  • @PalestineParalell
    @PalestineParalell Місяць тому

    GET A WIFE YOUNG FELLA .. OR WHATS YOUR END GAME ? .. I’m 57 & HANDSOME AS FCK .. but if I wasn’t .. MY WIFE THINKS SO .. she’s seen me butt ass ugly . .. it’s like Single women talking about good men .. how would they know what a good man is SHES SINGLE ZERO EXPERIENCE.. so if your end game is one person to the next . It’s ok advice. .. you’ll be 57 one day . Then reflect on this video ..

  • @abs33.Z
    @abs33.Z Місяць тому +6

    Nah how you editing your jawline 😂

  • @monchichipower6334
    @monchichipower6334 Місяць тому

    I showed my gf and her female friends pic Jeremy Meeks and she doesn’t think he’s handsome at all

  • @raiyannahid6361
    @raiyannahid6361 Місяць тому

    why you giga morphing your pics with faceapp man

  • @dannyrwagamba
    @dannyrwagamba 11 днів тому

    0:21 “5.12 *lakh* subscribers”… your video editor is either Indian or Pakistani lol

  • @OFFICIALRAMKO
    @OFFICIALRAMKO Місяць тому

    No really!? Being handsome isn’t enough? God I thought women just were about the physicality. 😂

  • @fxfundedfxf8776
    @fxfundedfxf8776 Місяць тому

    personality is #1 so many gorgeous women dating ugly dudes lol..... a lot of women will make it hard for handsome dudes and they feel more comfortable with the less looking guy..

    • @Els09066
      @Els09066 Місяць тому

      The ugly dudes more a time is a trick n she’s with him for safety she gon cheat. Just cah she w him don’t mean she fuckin him, read between the lines kid

  • @LeadLeftLeon
    @LeadLeftLeon Місяць тому +4

    6/10 who’s around a lot of hot girls will do better than a 9/10 who stays home with his gf lol

  • @recklessnotion1899
    @recklessnotion1899 Місяць тому +1

    I chose ugly and confident. Anyone who lives in a big city that goes outside knows why

    • @toochukwuuzohue89
      @toochukwuuzohue89 Місяць тому +1

      Why?

    • @william_SMMA
      @william_SMMA Місяць тому +4

      stop lying
      in a big city being handsome and having a decent amount of money will make you bag so many chicks

  • @AhlumileDiamond
    @AhlumileDiamond Місяць тому +3

    First at this video

  • @pep1679
    @pep1679 Місяць тому +2

    What if you're good looking but have autism

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Місяць тому

      Autists can hyper focus and get rich faster than normal people. Get rich be in nice places meet better women

    • @Kevinfowlks
      @Kevinfowlks Місяць тому +6

      As long as you have game

    • @secondone3249
      @secondone3249 Місяць тому

      Depends on the severity of it (like how noticeable it is), and how it influences the behavior

    • @pep1679
      @pep1679 Місяць тому

      @@secondone3249 It's not that noticeable because I'm able to mask well however, after a while it's hard to keep up the mask. I eventually get burned out and have no energy to talk or socialize.

  • @dustencross357
    @dustencross357 Місяць тому

    Lol, what kind of " man " alters his photos like a women on tender???

  • @kiarashjafari8875
    @kiarashjafari8875 Місяць тому

    First comment 💪

  • @raphacooljohnson3469
    @raphacooljohnson3469 Місяць тому +1

    K

  • @ArunaAruna99u
    @ArunaAruna99u Місяць тому

    I love you boyfriend 🌷💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋 will you marry me 💋❤️💋❤️💋❤️💋❤️💋❤️💋❤️💋❤️💋

  • @gio957
    @gio957 Місяць тому

    For some of you guys struggling to have a conversation, try alcohol. Alcohol can make you feel more confident and less inhibited, which can lead to more talking. Of course, drink responsibly.

    • @guccimane4249
      @guccimane4249 Місяць тому +5

      thats true but that is bad advice. that's artifical confidence you should work on getting real raw confidence

    • @LeadLeftLeon
      @LeadLeftLeon Місяць тому

      Alcohol makes you think less. So does doing a couple of approaches. The first approach is the hardest one

    • @Prep-d4h
      @Prep-d4h Місяць тому +2

      @@LeadLeftLeon So in order to improve my social skills I should just talk to people more?

    • @guccimane4249
      @guccimane4249 Місяць тому +3

      @@Prep-d4h that's a no brainer

    • @vegeta1818
      @vegeta1818 Місяць тому

      try ashwaganda

  • @AlexanderLodge1
    @AlexanderLodge1 Місяць тому

    I'm going to make the huge step to improve myself, My image and fitness it has to happen ☝🤳💪🫀🧠🦸

  • @VonArtic
    @VonArtic Місяць тому +1

    Looks= 40
    Character= 30
    Wealth=30
    =💯