7 Disturbing Traits Of An INTJ Dark Side
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Did you know that in addition to MBTI type, you have other key personality functions? These functions are crucial to understanding how you function in society, and they're useful to know as a tool to help you learn more about yourself and others. Today we’re going to look at the shadow functions and how they create the dark side of an INTJ personality type. This dark side represents the unconscious parts of our psyche that you have less awareness of and control over. It hosts repressed, unwanted and overlooked elements of your personality.
If you are an INTJ (architect/mastermind) personality type chances are that you have already experienced some dark side traits at least once in your lifetime. You should undoubtedly be aware of your dark side since it will help in the integration of your unconscious and conscious selves, allowing you to better design your life and achieve personal growth. Here are 7 Disturbing Traits Of An INTJ Dark Side
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0:00 What is an INTJs' Dark Side?
1:14 - 1. Ruthlessness
2:26 - 2. Unfair judgments
3:26 - 3. Distrust
4:31 - 4. Isolation
5:38 - 5. Emotionless
6:41 - 6. Unhealthy perfectionism
8:02 - 7. Cluelessness
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Stop exposing my secrets.
Soon will be a video about INTJs' secrets ;)
Very intresting topic
@@Jack_howard_mayer Which one?
@@PsychologyRefresh about mbti intjs I like learning more about myself
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As an INTJ, I'm not emotionless. It's just that most feelings aren't important enough to care about. It depends on the feeling, the cause of the feeling, the possible outcomes, and, of course, the person feeling it.
As an INTJ feelings and emotions comes and goes any day of the week.
Feels good hearing people that think alike
oh GOD, thank you!
As an INTJ, just want to say. We also have all those emotions and kindness but honey! Not everyone deserves that side of us. It's just a premium for some people in our lives who actually deserves that. Showing this side to people who don't deserves is a waste of time and energy
Highly Agreed bro(As a fellow INTJ)
I'm an intj and I won't say I'm emotionless. I feel sad sometimes mostly when I'm rejected at school. Though I think other people think I act masculine (for a girl) and think I don't care. I do care!! A bit too much 😭😭🥺🥺😟
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
A lot of people also thought that I acted masculine for a girl, but I owned it. Not only did I continue to act the same, but I would wear things like chains and suits. I liked it. It was cool. Eventually, that got them to stop since they had nothing else to talk about. After that, I slowly became interested in dressing elegantly. I dress much more feminine, but sometimes I still dress masculine. I haven't changed much in the way I act.
When you show people that their comments don't offend you, they'll eventually get bored. They seek a reaction, and you can choose whether you ignore them, or at least you pretend it. Or you give them an unexpected reaction. They'll not know what to do. If you show them that you're confident, they'll not know what to do. Ignoring them can only be a good option of you truly don't care about what they're saying. Though I've always believed to serve the unexpected. It's very effective. For instance, imagine you're being bullied. The bully is expecting you to "Ignore it" or fight back, but instead you flirt with them. They'll be too busy processing what is happening, that they won't be able to react. Which, my dear INTJ, will give you, not only the upper hand, but the absolute control of the situation. It's a classic. And if they're bullying you because they like you, then they'll also feel a bit shy or defensive. Not to mention that If you succeed, and this person ends up liking you more, you'll be also to turn the tables. Pull out that Uno reverse car. Show them who's the mastermind. And bully them, for not being able to resist you masculine charm. If that doesn't work, I don't know what could. Side note: you need to act confident. Even if you aren't. Confidence is the key to most, if not all, doors.
I'm currently a Senior soon to graduate, and few people ever bullied me, but that was only back in Middle School. What I did was different. I scared them away. I give them the certainty that I'm capable to hunt them down and eliminate them. That could also be a choose. Just be careful. I hope that helped.
(Edit: I did not realized that I wrote half of the Declaration of Independence. In fact, I think that the DOI is shorter than this "comment.")
@Kaydee male INTJ in my 30's and I 100% agree this strategy worked for me.
Trust me, it gets better.
You should pick them up and body slam them. Haha I'm kidding just being funny. That would make you seem manly.
I’m also a girl in high school and they call me masculine 😂 girl f them and be yourself and more than likely you’re smarter than them. I’m the outcast because I dare to speak to truth publicly leading to me looking like the weirdo 😂 and emotions are kinda irrelevant to me unless it’s something serious or I often tell myself to stfu and deal with it
As an intj we are not actually that robotic emotionless freak you make us in every video !!! we have emotions , but we only portray the ones who are really necessary or important to portray
Great video.
Sadly, our dark side is often seen as everyday normal behavior. We have a bad reputation. 😒
Thank you! Do you think people see your dark side quite often?
@@PsychologyRefresh Not at all. Balance and self-improvement are the name of the game. Reading the Scriptures has helped me develop certain qualities like mildness, patience, and kindness. Since Fe is not my strong suite, putting those qualities into practice keeps the "dark side" at bay. Thanks for asking, and making such a good video.
@@BombshElle_7 Thank you for sharing! Stay tuned, because plenty of videos are coming, it will blow your mind!
To be great is to be misunderstood.
I have emotions, I just rarely show them. Admittedly it's usually when it's logically beneficial to be emotional. Emotions are a waste of time and lead to bad decisions.
Not showing or dealing with my emotions does lead to constant stress- especially controlling anger. So, there are severe physical affects.
My worst is my perfectionism. I expect the same from others too and of course they don’t play well.
Yeah me too it never lets me post a video on my channel
Bro I've had the INTJ death glare since I was a kid. So much that my harshness scares me
Its funny how I can be narcissistic at times because of how much more I know than other people while others can be narcissistic at all times and not like other narcissist even though they themselves are a narcissist.
I had to laugh when you said 1. Revenge. My boss is a ENFP and useless and I'm trying to get my revenge for their terrible decision making
Thanks for sharing!
I'm with you. Go for it!
Secretly recording them will be a good method to deal with them hehe :)
Humans annoy me. - INTJ
I need this T-shirt.
INTJ here, I don't think the author understands INTJs.
Why?
As an INTJ, I call BS on this. The unfortunate part of labeling people in this way is that people believe they "understand" the label and can therefore assign generalized "traits" to individuals. They also then perpetualize someone's hallucinations about what these labels "mean".
TL;DR: I think you are correct to some degree, but maybe not entirely and tried to explain why you probably shouldn't worry about it.
You probably think that labels are only labels, like I do. It's perfectly possible to train both your conscious and unconscious minds to become the total opposite of something. My question is, why would you waste time on that? I'm honestly fine with being described as everything in the video, because I have displayed certain tendencies in the past. Some more, some less, obviously. If we take this to genetics, every human's set of DNA is unique, therefore, everyone is a unique personality. Archetypes and labels probably exist only for the sake of categorization and generalization nowadays. But if you look back into the very distant past, there were only a handful of unique humans around that we all originate from. It's possible that people of the INTJ personality trait share their origin. Just as much as it's possible that people with the Sagittarius zodiac sign do, because they also display particular similarities. The primordial forces that move us are called good, bad and neutral. The conscious decision between healing, destruction, or inaction. Things start to get complicated when you start combining them. Even more complicated if you snap back to the present and consider things like mental illnesses, or rather just chemistry. It becomes clear that it's also perfectly possible to be an INTJ one day, and an ESFP the next one, if you have some type of personality disorder, or rather, if the chemistry inside of your brain is functioning differently. But, the fact remains that you are still the combination, of a combination, of a combination which originated from the same primordial source. All of those sources probably have their own sources, and at the beginning of all beginnings is probably what religions call God. I thought about this stuff a lot. Even if we originate from apes, all the way back down to single cell organisms, that changes nothing about anything I have said. Animals have personalities, too, it's been proven by science. I feel like I have wasted a ton of time on researching these things, only to reach the conclusion that I should stop thinking and start living in the present moment. That's why I'm sharing my knowledge with you. So that you don't waste as much time as I did and just start enjoying yourself while you can, because the time will come when you can't enjoy it any longer, and this will all end. You are of course welcome to do anything you want with this information. Every human tries to explain the meaning of life and his origin and I think this is as close as it gets: try not to make existing an even bigger problem than it already is, have fun and don't worry about it. Peace✌️
I actually wait months if not years to settle scores which by then the person would have forgot about what they did to me.
Thank you for sharing this!
Same.
I love being me despite what others say about me. I’m unique, rare and weird yes! In every great way possible
Elon is not an INTJ. He is too wordy and informative. INTJs are direct and get to the point.
A couple of things from an INTJ:
It's not that I don't think I can be wrong. To the contrary, if I ever get to the point where there is nothing else for me to know, I stop living. It's just that, especially when it comes to subjects that are in my wheelhouse (subjects I have an advanced degree in, work in, or otherwise have a great deal of knowledge in), I don't take assertions as fact. If I'm wrong, show me how I'm wrong. If you can't, if you're relying on anecdotes, or you're just appealing to emotion or sentiment, then we're done here.
Also, when it comes to emotion, it's funny - I've been classified as "emotionless" not only on MBTI but also on DISC. But I don't think I'm emotionless. If you ask my parents or my spouse, they'd tell you I can be emotional. It's just that I don't often show it in front of an audience, especially those I'm not particularly close to. I also tend to compartmentalize and I try to look at situations with reason. While I'm in touch with my emotions enough to be able to step back and ask myself why I think X or feel Y, or why I'm leaning towards a certain decision. But I can also look at a situation logically enough to make decisions based largely on reason rather than leaning too much on sentiment.
Hope that makes sense :-).
There is no outside world, only what we perceive
Can you elaborate a little?
@@PsychologyRefresh never.
My INTJ Mom: I won’t get mad as long as you tell me the truth. You know I can’t stand liars.
Me an INTP: Remembers the past and thinks, ya right, than bounce from that zero sum game.
Good one ;)
Not sure but all this seems to be more woke stuff
Seems like a normal mother to me nothing INTJish here. Even my ISFP mother does the same thing.
As an INTJ, i can relate
I’m an INTJ and that’s exactly what I told my daughter. I told her I don’t care as long as she didn’t lie.
"Bro who hurt you?"
"Some INTJ"
;)
Want to clarify the distrust chapter and about them being wrong.
It's not entirely accurate. We know we can be wrong, but we also speak on things we either thought of, or well read up on. You can convince us we are wrong, it just comes down to approach. If you use your anecdotal stories or personal feelings. We will brush them off like dirt. Case by case studies have a time and place, as well as personal stories. If the topic of debate is on a macro scale. These will be voided to INTJ. We thing with logic, sometimes brutally. If you want to use how you feel, then get mad that we say that doesn't work at large scale -here's why- and you want to argue. Now you lost respect, and you will see the INTJ maybe consider how you feel in the moment, to literally throwing that like yesterday's trash.
If you come at them with logic, facts, and actual reference material we can read to clarify later. Your chances of changing their mind improve drastically
Thank you for clarifying this! Very interesting insight.
As an INTJ woman, I admit that we may have challenges in “some” of these areas, but I draw the line at ruthlessness. My moral/ethical compass will not allow me to go there & actually, I think that many INTJ’s moral/ethical code wouldn’t allow for it either.
"All I care for is progress, human emotions don't concern me. Spare me your insignificant story, it suits me in no way."
Your content is totally unique man
Thank you very much!
well im an intj but i never think myself as perfect but im more realistic
Thanks for sharing!
Your video is absolutely right,you know stop revealing our secret hhhh,as INTJ i am suffering in life because everyday at least there's a fight between me and my sibling beacause i think iam always right and i cannot stand lies or if i think one of them try to take even a little advantage of the other one.
Thank you for this comment!
@@PsychologyRefresh
thanks for your videos ,before i know of your videos i thought iam the strange one among my family and my friends ,but your videos opened my eyes its just a personality ,I don't think as strange girl anymore .
Great video!
Thank you!
Emotionless doesn't mean that we don't feel anything. It's just our facial muscles that don't express
I am my dark side. But I am calm, and karma is my friend. The rest of you just don't know it...
Okay!
Before I know my personality, I was like an a**hole and selfish. I tried and tried to hide or just want fix all of my bad things that doesn't look to have in others and always tried to be like others and fix with others(not outstanding but more like standing out). But now, I know to cheer what i have good or bad, I will use them for own beneficial.
yep we wonder why everyone cares about each other feelings, thats your problem , not mine, you are too weak to control your thoughts, everyone is so fragile.
Can you make a video about the dark side of the ISFJ? That would be very interesting since me (an INTJ) got in a relationship with an ISFJ recently.
Stay tuned!
As an INTJ, i gotta say that i do really hate the way i am, if i could choose my personality i would be so different.
I live the condiction of to be INTJ as a disability and i'm not joking at all: EVERYWHERE i am i feel so different from the other people, i can see that they like talikng, eating together, they celebrate anniversary or new year or other bullshit, they work and have chill time with other people, instead, i always, obviously, really give a damn about all these things.
But why i consider myself as a disable? Just because the world doesn't work as i believe gotta be and given that the WHOLE society moves in the direction of sharing, talking, gathering, i feel always as a sick person: I JUST HATE ALL THE OTHERS LOVE (selfie, instagram, holidays, netflix series, show themselfs in any kind of way, gratification ecc) and everything i love it's just useless and careless for the others (learning languages, reading, psychology, diy, thinking about issues, stuudying ecc).
Now, i don't care much of pleasing others, it's just that it's incredibly tiring every day, every week, every month, every year, know and see people that look always so different from me.
Why can't i enjoy a meal with the others?
Why is impossibile for me accepting something irrational?
Why am i always ruthless in my thinking?
Why i dislike everything that likes to the others?
Why everything must i always explaine what is normal to me?
Why gotta be so hard the job time?
Why friendship gotta be impossible given that 90% of people are stupid or meaningless?
If we are cosidered by people,it is just (naturally) because we can perfectly solve their problems and not because "they see us as a person", but just as a calculator o something like that.
I'm sure that to be male in Italy is the worst thing ever for an INTJ, in Italy, males gotta be strong, noisy, always talking about women bikes and football, boast their ignorance and arrogance...
Well, i'm just tired of all this s*it after 33 years, i would like to be "normal" and enjoy the stupid things and LIVE as a normal person.
Bro you dont believe how much i understand what you are saying, i was once in a rollercoaster of a relationship with an INTJ woman, she also hated herself for these reasons. And i always told her everything about her is just human and belongs to this world, and nothing to feel bad about herself. I still understand why she had to think that way with similar reasons you told. She is incredible but its also a big challenge we broke up like 8 times and it always came back...there has to be a level of really seeing and understanding each other on the deepest level and that means work but i think its so worth it.
Greetings from an INFJ - i think INTJ and INFJ are very similar but still a clear difference which can be great for each other. Wish you the best dont give up - and dont give a fuck about this fake society that lacks understanding and dont see the value of people like us.
no.6 is spot on
Thanks!
I think INTJs are one of the few smart enough to realize they DON'T know everything.
He blew me up!
;)
very true
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You’re right. Yet what could I do
Ahah ahah. Boy this hits close to home. This is so spot on. Fuck
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the most factual video I have ever watched that describes me down to the last word hahaha
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I am an INTJ and there is nothing i want more than a long term relationship with a wife and kids :) but they always end rather early but not for the typical INTJ you might think ppl never ever assume I am INTJ usually opposite these days.
As an intj i can conform this
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I have already seen this video
@@vamsipuneeth6196 Great to hear!
I would say also master manipulative
Yup. It's just like with the "check your privilege" and "check your bias"... But I don't think for example being very cautious or living alone most of the time is so bad. We're all gonna die so let's let everyone spend the time as they want - physically or in their own worlds. Maybe they are going to write it down later in life and create a new Silmarillion? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I absolutley know I can be wrong. That's why I argue my point- to disprove it. I don't argue to convert. I agrue as devil's advocate to my own ideas. I am always open to a better idea or argument-
that right we hate infjs and enfjs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! diplomacy is not part of our character.
Never wrong😂 INTJ woman ✋🏻
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Why I am watching these videos continuously?
I do not believe this applies during stoism times. Stalker times. Doesn't apply. Out of context.
What is the name of that background music?
Generally I don't take revenge ant I leave them instead
well I do have some problems with myself but anyway
What kind of problems?
@@PsychologyRefresh all mentioned in the video
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Stop exposing me bro💀
I have all of these. However, INTP is even more introverted than INTJ... they won't even leave the house.
How u know
@@ElamW-bz3jt I have an INTP brother and nephew.
@@anonygent INTP is rare and isn’t everywhere so your bro and nephew may have social anxiety or shyness
@@ElamW-bz3jt My whole family with one exception is introverted and above average, so we're not typical.
@@anonygent it’s genetics so not INTP thing
Just not true. INTJs are extremely ethical. Read CG Jung.
Would you elaborate a little?
This
@KP Are you an INTJ as well?
@KP Thanks for sharing!
Sounds just like me ❤
:)
Im intj but i have strong emotions
Logic over emotions wins the day...not easy prey by sob story tellers.
Well said🫡 the video forgot to mention the plans for World Domination😆
The film is 100% true, but in the background there are embarrassing illustrations promoting a multiracial, pathological society.
i dont trust stacci gunner or ben falter as an intj i can triangulate some things!!!!!!!!!!! or some processes.
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wtf is an INDJ ?
What even is that thumbnail, lmao.
Do you like it? ;)
intj have triangulation.
Explain it please.
What is NTDJ???
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"Intuitive thinking disc jokey"
Most of the INTJ videos are really over dramatized. Stop wasting your time.
iam scared :D
Why?
@@PsychologyRefresh cause i am more funny ,when i am drunk :D
and i like satiric conversation :D
I am an INTJ AND a scorpio. I like being me. I don't fit anywhere
All the scorpios I’ve known… and I’ve known A LOT. They are total extroverts. All of them about 20 minus one, who was actually an introvert.
I swear all INTJs seem to be scorpios or capricorns
Ja bitte stop spreading mein secrets
;)
😀
Lol
Elon musk is an INTP bruh
What is your assessment of him?
He is an introvert
Id have to disagree. He shows way more INTJ traits
I'm sorry, but this is BS. It"s a shallow interpretation of behaviour, a total stereotype and inflammatory. This is not Psychology buy hype. I'm so sick of people who are afraid of quiet, sensitive people who think and so they turn them into a dangerous freak of society. Get a real education before you go around pretending you are an expert.
This is cute in that these, even considered together, are the fairer shade of an INTJ s dark side. But it s a good try.
The Chad Dark INTJ
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Literally Me
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