poor girl didn’t cry talking about her mother leaving, being abused, being molested, but she started crying when she talked about her grandpa dying. its evident how much she loved him and i’m glad she had at least one person on her side looking out for her.
Your comment got me in the feels 🥺😞💔 My sisters and I were in a slightly similar situation and we also had our grandpa there. We were being abused while my grandpa was out and about and, if he was alive, he had no idea anything was going on. We were afraid of the repercussions of an official telling this family member because he could get scary 😰 My grandpa passed in 2001 but I left the apartment in 1999.
@@camdecay I bet that’s why she’s such a good-hearted person. We all need that one person who loves and cares for us unconditionally, early on. I’m so glad she had him, too, but sad he couldn’t see her through longer. It’s so beautiful that, with everything she’s been through, she still cares about others.
So many people need help, and don’t deserve to be in such need. A lot of people hide their feelings, but they have feelings just like this. Where they’re at, if people see you cry and pour your heart out, it’s about to get used for someone else’s gain, and their loss. I do admire her vulnerability, though! It’s hard to get back, once you’ve learned it gets you hurt. There are people who really don’t care, though, and just manipulate and use people and expect things. When you’re around people like that, it’s hard to tell one from the other…for a reason!
When you say someone please help, remember you are fully capable of helping people yourself. Especially in your own community. I see people crying out for someone to help the interviewees on this channel like they're own feet are glued to the ground :( people need help everywhere, a smile, volunteering, whatever
@@mtzzz3013 I am volunteering in two places instead of fighting other counselors about how to treat my own clients who have never even smoked a cigarette. Its giving me way more good feels than those mean girls. They aren't doing anything but for themselves such as meeting for wine after work to complain about other people. Volunteering is awesome
I’m glad Mark was gentle and kind with her. I could tell this interview really got to him. God bless you for giving these people a voice. It helps us all be more compassionate, and grace-filled. You never know what someone’s gone through.
I broke down when the 7 Yr old girl saved her life and was kinder than the doctor who was supposed to help her cut her off, literally. God bless every single kind soul out there, sending you all my love Melissa ❤️
I have tried so fucking hard anyway my son's are all dead all 6. 4were living and alive 2 my wife lost in 2 trymaster know I have 1 daughter who is missing for awhile life fucking sucks my wife died to in 2018 know I have nothing in my life anymore and if my daughter ends up dead and I get that call it's not going to turn out well this world is fool of monster's and fake people who where mask to hide behind there true face know more then ever parents need to wake up and save there children what's more important than that?
That should be the#1 concern , the highest priority of parents , family, teachers, police, friends ,every person that See's any young person in need has to step up. It is sickening what so many go thru right in plain sight. This is why we have so many messed up people in this world
It’s a strange thing to comment on a drug addict’s body. I don’t think her “shape” is her choice, I imagine it’s the result of malnutrition and lack of access to food and genuine neglect for her body
@@katiekatwarren1676 it was a comment on her overall health. Obviously she had suffered, but she doesn’t look destroyed. She possesses vibrancy. Saying in good shape doesn’t refer strictly or necessarily about once body or figure.
@@katiekatwarren1676saying someone is in good shape can mean their mental health too. Also, she doesn't even LOOK like she's "neglecting her body" She looks fine.. back off
@@rayacarr2354 That statement was Ridiculous as angels have no wings, whatsoever. The Holy scriptures never say any such thing. Hebrews 13:2 } All angels are men in the Holy Scriptures as well. There is an order to Father Gods Holy Word.
@@rayacarr2354 You even say a man that portrays himself to be a woman, is beautiful. Father God calls them a Reprobate. Romans 1:16-32 } Your really confused
Such a sad story. This girl never had a chance. She wouldn't know what a normal life is. My heart breaks for her. Thank God her grandpa was in her life.
yeah...but she has 5! kids?!? Think about those lives..Why do these kinds of people have so many kids...always and someone who would love to have it just never happens in their lives
@@manatees9823cause they are often reckless because of trauma or try to fill the void of the love they should’ve experienced by having children. They often live through them or try to give them the best lives and still fail because of an inability to get therapy or rejecting therapy entirely. Starting the cycle over.
Hey Melissa- everyone’s pain is relative. We all go through it, and it’s just as valid as the next persons’s pain. You’ve been through so much trauma - losing your mom, being molested, losing your beloved grandpa three days before giving birth, and then kicked out by your aunt. Almost dying at the hands of an abusive POS, the doctor and nurses treating you less than human …. And not having your five kids. Please please recognize that you have survived SO much and have the grit and stamina t do so much more … clean. If you can survive all that, you can survive sickness and cravings. You have so much more to give the world - you even said it yourself - so please don’t give up on you. First step, get clean. And then get stable housing. One thing at a time. Best of luck and sending you so much love. ❤
Awww❤ such an empowering message I do believe she is soo strong and good hearted! She can thrive from here on out. It would be nice for to move to a good spot and apply for housing, go to school have a rewarding career. I pray she gets clean and chooses healthy n better things
I just knew somehow molestation, drug abuse and prostitution would be part of her story, it’s becoming a vicious cycle amongst some young people, it’s shameful💔
It’s been a while since I’ve had tears over a video. Now, this young lady got the best of me…I will have her in my thoughts and I pray she will move forward and away from the nightmare of a life she has been dealt with so far. Melissa never give up…❤
It's absolutely horrific what some people go through. I could never stay sane after being beat so bad the fetus was bleeding out of me. It's so traumatic I'm almost lost for words. Her situation is a never ending circle because that happened because of drugs but then again after experiencing such a trauma she most definitely turns to even more drugs. Sadly it never ends.
So sorry for Melissa’s suffering, life is extremely difficult for so many people out there. I believe life seeks balance, so hopefully God has prepared something beautiful for her in the future. Please take care Melissa, you’re no less than anyone else! Be strong and let God show you the way! ❤
The abandonment by the mother must be the one most horrible thing that can happen to a child. My God. I'm so so sorry. I had to stop listening a few minutes in, I was crying so much already. I hope nothing but the best for Melissa. May she be compensated for what she had to go through.
Emotional abandonment is worse because the parent is actually present but you know you will get absolutely nothing out of them. As you mature you realize, "Wait this person just doing things. There's nothing behind it. No happiness, concern. It's all... Robotic... Just protocol" If thy6 are gone then they are gone completely, it hurts but at least you don't have their presence to remind you of the deficiency you will always have. With a full abandonment you can accept the reality better but emotional it's always knawing st your heart.
Melissa CAN have a better life than what she's currently living. BUT, it's going to take help, & her WANTING that help. I truly pray that she will do what's needed to get her out of the horrible 'cycle' she's in. ❤
@@1FairyGothMother ? Your soul is what animates the vessel which carries you through this life cycle no matter how long or short of a time it takes to be sent off into the ether.
@@1FairyGothMother Well, this is only a 30 minute video but, in my very humble opinion I would say she has a good soul, she’s sharing her difficult life with a stranger to put out there to thousands of opinionated gawkers which in itself is self deprecating, that tells me she’s accepted her fate whether it’s good or bad? I’m also going to add she’s definitely a lost soul and not a cause, we can look at the adults who brought her into this world for that. I also understand we have a difference in opinion which I fully accept and appreciate.
“I saw someone who was murdered, but really cut up murdered. “. No worries…you had me at murdered! Yeah, on the blade, I saw a red heel outside the dumpster, and another one hooked over top of the dumpster, and a slip girls would wear as skirts. I couldn’t look in the dumpster, but I found a woman dead, later in the game, anyway. I get her 💯! I knew it was just the same crazy trick that just had me in his car until I made him worried he could get pulled over if he didn’t stop at the light, and I jumped out, cause I saw the body in his car. I smelled it first & my hair stood up on my neck, and then I knew why his hair was standing up like that. I actually called the police, but they just laughed at me because they knew who I was. They asked what drugs I was doing, but I actually didn’t do drugs at all, in those years. It does make you realize you could just disappear and it wouldn’t matter to anyone. If something happened to her, it would matter to me, though, even though I don’t know her. I’m sure that trick got away with it.
She is so BEAUTIFUL! And she has such common sense, speaks well, shows emotion correctly. It's hard to believe she's done Crystal so long and she's this put-together. God bless you, Melissa. You will find your way.
I almost didn’t watch this one and something tugged at my soul and I clicked it. I’m glad I watched. Much love to you Melissa. Thank you for sharing your story.
Her first mistake was leaving her first born to move to another state with her second child and his father. Who in the hell would leave their child to go with another man. Imagine how abandoned that poor boy feels. Also, her story isn’t adding up, if I heard it correctly. Did she say she had all that excessive bleeding and water when she miscarried at one month pregnant? It doesn’t happen that way.
Some interviews hit soo much harder than others and this was one of them for me. I'm here in my Irish kitchen and cant stomach my food because of all her trama 😢 Melissa, if you read this, please know you're deserving of all good this in life. You've been dealt a really horrible hand in life and im heartbroken for you. I wish you the very best things going forward and I hope you will turn your life around. You truly are a beautiful, brave, resilient and kind soul.
Melissa, I hope you discover just how strong you really are inside and win over the circumstances that life has placed you in. There is so much better out there for you, but you are going to have to fight your way to it. The first step is to get and stay clean. Don’t let anything bring you back down. You can do it! ❤
Melissa, same story. Raised by my grandparents cuz my parents "couldn't" what i was told. I will NEVER understand why people can kick out a mom and a baby. Not our own people! Wtf is happening to us all???
She has trouble with personal accountability. I also notice certain types of individuals on here get more empathy. This woman has children that she neglected.
Poor lady, this interview _as the others_ shows how abuse gets young undoubtful children in a bad vicious circle. That leg shaking when about to tell the molestation story… I feel so sorry for her.
@@PrimateProductions sorry English isn’t my first language. I meant these poor children going through all of this crap, without even knowing that it is terrible adults’ fault.
@@fricardpro oh ok...no worries. I just wasn't quite sure what you meant. Your English is actually very good considering it is not your native language!
I remember when I couldn't keep eye contact, through shame and active addiction. I started at 12 and had a psychic change at 42....No human power...Your still here. Jesus saves!
Melissa is so Beautiful on the outside and so beautiful within! I hope she got her bike to do Door-dash! I hope life starts treating her kind and she achieves what she wants!❤
'Mam, whoever told you that you "haven't been through much" is wrong. You have an incredible outlook on life, due to your Grandfather (may God rest his soul) and the example he set of *true* hardship. It certainly gave you a positive perspective on life, and that can go far. However, you shouldn't be gaslit into thinking you haven't been through horrible, traumatic events. You *deserve* to grieve, cry, and scream with anger. You deserve help. I wish you the best, truly, and PLEASE keep up the good fight!
The drugs won't help. This girl is so pretty and has so much to offer and also to receive. The drugs won't help. I hope she gets the resources she needs.
What chance did she have without her mother showing her how to be a good mother, but instead, her mother is probably repeating learnt behaviours from her mother and so on. I've got a similar story, but I walked away at age 19, also when I was pregnant. I've still got an addiction to cigarettes. The grandfather lost his mother. The grandfather lost his wife and his kids lost their mother. Melisas kids have lost her as a mother. Theme's past down the line. When I did my family tree and researched my ancestors the same themes and hardships were in their lives as my life. It's about breaking the loop. Which is dam hard. Especially if you are stuck in unresolved traumas. Good luck Melissa, I truly hope you find peace. Traumas trauma it all has the same effect. Be nice to yourself 🤞❤️ Give yourself the help you deserve it.
Good morning from Florida 🌴🦩SWU FAMILY and The Man of the hour Mark! It’s 6:16 am here. May this young lady find peace and happiness from here on out!! Prayers for you !! 🙏🏽❤️😍🤗
MARK PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE READ, Sir, u don't know, but if u sent me the fabric she's talking about I can make quilts that fold into a pillow, its called a quilto actually but they'd have a pocket, and i could add adjustable straps so they can be carried with ease. I know my mom made quilts for a family shelter here, she bought cases of wool blankets, wools the only fiber that'll keep u warm even if it's wet, I digress, but she bought blankets from the army surplus and they are a little longer and thicker, but they used those instead of quilt batting. she made 247 quilts, every stitch made with love and no judgment. I really wish u would reach out to me, I'm not associated with anything else except for my own failed attempt to start a NO profit organization called junkies r nt junk: humane humans being humane! However we can help each other Sir, I currently have at least 20 quilt tops already made, they need quilted, backed, and bound, Lucky u, I know how to do all these things Sir! I very much could do so a lot easier with recycled, washed, fabric if donated this way bud!!! ❤❤❤
I am so sorry. I see you, though. That beautiful sparkle in your eyes. You are not finished! Keep trodding in faith, please! So much love sent to you. A prayer- MOST DEFINITELY ❤❤❤
Sweet woman! Don’t discount your struggles, but do remember that you’re so strong! With love, may you find peace, love, and enlightenment. You deserve so much more in this life! ❤❤❤
Love yourself Melissa,Take care of yourself,Don’t pay attention to anyone that isn’t in your safe circle,Get sober,Stay sober,You’ll make it in the end,I pissed many years of my life away,Ppl started dying,And life started getting real,I got straight,It’s just me and the cats,.I wouldn’t have it any other way
I loved your comment, People like You, Can help people like her, Cause you've been there, And you made it out alive. Thank you for your Call matt again!!! Stay safe❤❤❤❤❤
This beautiful woman deserves so much support, she could live a life off the streets if she had consistent support. My heart breaks for you Melissa, your aunt seriously let you down. If she’d supported you instead of her husband, your life would have been completely different. I hope Mark can help you, stick with him, he’ll get you on your feet and your life will improve 10 fold.
Mark she is want to be maybe taking a chance on helping out first thing is does she want to get clean. I love the last answer to your last question. Maybe do a follow up on her in a year or 6 months. I think she's someone to invest in
I keep on thinking life can't get any worse And I listen to other peoples Stories And my life is not that bad... And I don't know how these people do. It.... i give them alot of Credit.... Because I don't know if I can handle it.
Where was her love when she had 5 children, 3 who had to have been born addicted to drugs, were removed from her "care"? Nothing about working to support them, but rather expecting support from family and blaming them for evicting her. It still isn't too late to seek substance abuse treatment, and get a FULL-TIME job to support herself.
This is heartbreaking to hear 😢💔I wish you a better future than the past. Blessings to you. And i wish that you will get love❤️❤️❤️you are a beautiful soul.
You can read between the lines…a few details of her responsibility in creating a mess. Poor thing doesn’t see it…but I do understand that she was damaged from age 2 and on starting when mom left. Drug use was a big part of her subsequent problems and when family kicked her out it was probably becuz of the drugs. What a sad cycle
This one is scary & definitely more to the story … her face literally lit up with a smile when describing the abortion apparatus!! She blames her life on everyone else … not one time did she take responsibility for her own actions…jerk boyfriend or horrible aunt etc
Too bad the system removed them from the grandpa .. sometimes I wonder if child services are good for anything at all! The Police should handle child abusers
Thank you for sharing your story Melissa! ❤ Your heart is beautiful, and what humanity needs more of. Those health care people who are to uphold the Hippocratic oath failed you. You were vulnerable person. Kuddos to you for taking the high road. You are courageous and intelligent. Wishing you peace and love on your journey moving forward ✨️ 🙏
poor girl didn’t cry talking about her mother leaving, being abused, being molested, but she started crying when she talked about her grandpa dying. its evident how much she loved him and i’m glad she had at least one person on her side looking out for her.
Your comment got me in the feels 🥺😞💔 My sisters and I were in a slightly similar situation and we also had our grandpa there. We were being abused while my grandpa was out and about and, if he was alive, he had no idea anything was going on. We were afraid of the repercussions of an official telling this family member because he could get scary 😰 My grandpa passed in 2001 but I left the apartment in 1999.
I couldn’t imagine the feeling losing the one and only person that had ever had your back. How scary and sad. Poor girl.
@@camdecay trauma was her normal
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@@camdecay I bet that’s why she’s such a good-hearted person. We all need that one person who loves and cares for us unconditionally, early on. I’m so glad she had him, too, but sad he couldn’t see her through longer. It’s so beautiful that, with everything she’s been through, she still cares about others.
I like her. She was dealt a shitty hand and still wants to show kindness. These are the people we need to help.
I hope all the cash Rebecca was given- can be reciprocated for this lady.
You can't fix broken people. And those who try, end up broken too.
❤. I agree! Her portrait, on the thumbnail, is very affecting. I hope she and Mark know they have done so much good, in sharing her story!
So many people need help, and don’t deserve to be in such need. A lot of people hide their feelings, but they have feelings just like this. Where they’re at, if people see you cry and pour your heart out, it’s about to get used for someone else’s gain, and their loss. I do admire her vulnerability, though! It’s hard to get back, once you’ve learned it gets you hurt. There are people who really don’t care, though, and just manipulate and use people and expect things. When you’re around people like that, it’s hard to tell one from the other…for a reason!
@@simjam1980Maybe you can't fix, but you can definitely help them get on the right track.
Some people have the worst start in life.
Melissa - you're still here. You've got this far and survived. I salute you.
Keep going.
I agree
Great comment.
Soft white underbelly sleeps with his interviewees?? That’s wild…
@@riseagain9677what are you even TALKING about?
Such a troll and a clown
Pathetic
To the people reading this, even though i don't know you. I wish you the best of what life has to offer ❤🙏❤
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Sending you extra DIVINE LOVE and LIGHT from Dallas. 🙏❤️
Thanks I'll take it.
Sending you love and light 🌟🌈🌟
Someone please help this soul get her life on track so she may go forward and do the humanitarian work that she craves to do!
When you say someone please help, remember you are fully capable of helping people yourself. Especially in your own community. I see people crying out for someone to help the interviewees on this channel like they're own feet are glued to the ground :( people need help everywhere, a smile, volunteering, whatever
@@mtzzz3013 I am volunteering in two places instead of fighting other counselors about how to treat my own clients who have never even smoked a cigarette. Its giving me way more good feels than those mean girls. They aren't doing anything but for themselves such as meeting for wine after work to complain about other people.
Volunteering is awesome
@@mtzzz3013agreed. We're ALL capable of doing our part
I’m grateful she had her grandpa to be that one example of true love for her.
Ditto
My grandma was so great, like that! ❤. I’m glad she had her grandpa, early in life! That’s probably why she has such a good heart ❤️
Slapping a kid in the face leaving a mark is not nothing.
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I’m glad Mark was gentle and kind with her. I could tell this interview really got to him. God bless you for giving these people a voice. It helps us all be more compassionate, and grace-filled. You never know what someone’s gone through.
I broke down when the 7 Yr old girl saved her life and was kinder than the doctor who was supposed to help her cut her off, literally. God bless every single kind soul out there, sending you all my love Melissa ❤️
We must protect our children.
I have tried so fucking hard anyway my son's are all dead all 6. 4were living and alive 2 my wife lost in 2 trymaster know I have 1 daughter who is missing for awhile life fucking sucks my wife died to in 2018 know I have nothing in my life anymore and if my daughter ends up dead and I get that call it's not going to turn out well this world is fool of monster's and fake people who where mask to hide behind there true face know more then ever parents need to wake up and save there children what's more important than that?
That should be the#1 concern , the highest priority of parents , family, teachers, police, friends ,every person that See's any young person in need has to step up. It is sickening what so many go thru right in plain sight. This is why we have so many messed up people in this world
And stop having children when not able to look after them
@@rl5725 wow youvreferringvto me watch yourself ..
"I saw her recently in like 2010" was CRAZY 😳
I was thinking the same thing
No, I thought that was correct. I think she meant recently as in her adulthood.
Drug use sure makes the time fly 😂
Shit I don’t use drugs and I still lose a lot of time. Getting old sucks man
Yeah that's over a god damn decade ago sis 🫠
After the hell she's been through, the only time she really cried was when she spoke about the death of the only person who ever loved her.
She’s worn it all well. She’s still beautiful and in great shape. She just needs a turn of good fortune. Best wishes. ❤
I would have never known by looking at her.
It’s a strange thing to comment on a drug addict’s body. I don’t think her “shape” is her choice, I imagine it’s the result of malnutrition and lack of access to food and genuine neglect for her body
@@katiekatwarren1676 it was a comment on her overall health. Obviously she had suffered, but she doesn’t look destroyed. She possesses vibrancy. Saying in good shape doesn’t refer strictly or necessarily about once body or figure.
@@katiekatwarren1676saying someone is in good shape can mean their mental health too.
Also, she doesn't even LOOK like she's "neglecting her body"
She looks fine.. back off
i don't usually comment but melissa's story/interview really touched me. i admire her strong will and hope the best for her
That little 7 year old girl that called the paramedics was her guardian angel.
Divine Grace incarnate. And the Black Dog her protector/familiar which eats the dark around her to PROTECT HER WINGS 🪽 amazing
I thought so too ❤
I feel like it could have also been the daughter that was supposed to be born. Either way, I believe God was with her.
@@rayacarr2354
That statement was Ridiculous as angels have no wings, whatsoever. The Holy scriptures never say any such thing. Hebrews 13:2 } All angels are men in the Holy Scriptures as well. There is an order to Father Gods Holy Word.
@@rayacarr2354
You even say a man that portrays himself to be a woman, is beautiful. Father God calls them a Reprobate.
Romans 1:16-32 } Your really confused
Her grandpa was a damn good man.
Sounds like a soft-hearted man who loved kids, which made him very special ♥
Such a sad story. This girl never had a chance. She wouldn't know what a normal life is. My heart breaks for her. Thank God her grandpa was in her life.
yeah...but she has 5! kids?!? Think about those lives..Why do these kinds of people have so many kids...always and someone who would love to have it just never happens in their lives
@@manatees9823cause they are often reckless because of trauma or try to fill the void of the love they should’ve experienced by having children. They often live through them or try to give them the best lives and still fail because of an inability to get therapy or rejecting therapy entirely. Starting the cycle over.
Melissa seems like a nice, thoughtful young person to me. She has had some really rough breaks in life, and I wish her an easier path going forward.
"Keep your wings" -Melissa Love it ❤️
Hey Melissa- everyone’s pain is relative. We all go through it, and it’s just as valid as the next persons’s pain. You’ve been through so much trauma - losing your mom, being molested, losing your beloved grandpa three days before giving birth, and then kicked out by your aunt. Almost dying at the hands of an abusive POS, the doctor and nurses treating you less than human …. And not having your five kids.
Please please recognize that you have survived SO much and have the grit and stamina t do so much more … clean. If you can survive all that, you can survive sickness and cravings. You have so much more to give the world - you even said it yourself - so please don’t give up on you. First step, get clean. And then get stable housing. One thing at a time. Best of luck and sending you so much love. ❤
Awww❤ such an empowering message I do believe she is soo strong and good hearted! She can thrive from here on out. It would be nice for to move to a good spot and apply for housing, go to school have a rewarding career. I pray she gets clean and chooses healthy n better things
I just knew somehow molestation, drug abuse and prostitution would be part of her story, it’s becoming a vicious cycle amongst some young people, it’s shameful💔
No way!!
What could have possibly made you think that regarding a woman who is living in Skid Row?
THAT has been going on for 60 years now .... If not longer.
It’s not just young people.
Nothing new about any of it, whether it be people on the street or people living in mansions.
@@prokesuk exactly, we just live in a world where these stories are more accessible than ever
It’s been a while since I’ve had tears over a video. Now, this young lady got the best of me…I will have her in my thoughts and I pray she will move forward and away from the nightmare of a life she has been dealt with so far. Melissa never give up…❤
I felt the same
It's absolutely horrific what some people go through.
I could never stay sane after being beat so bad the fetus was bleeding out of me.
It's so traumatic I'm almost lost for words.
Her situation is a never ending circle because that happened because of drugs but then again after experiencing such a trauma she most definitely turns to even more drugs.
Sadly it never ends.
Why aren’t people on birth control?
So sorry for Melissa’s suffering, life is extremely difficult for so many people out there. I believe life seeks balance, so hopefully God has prepared something beautiful for her in the future. Please take care Melissa, you’re no less than anyone else! Be strong and let God show you the way! ❤
The love she has for her grandfather, That really touched me😢
The way she lights up when she talks about her grandpa 🥹🤍 reminds me of my grandpa 🥺🤍 rip to our grandpas 😔🤍
we all need to come together to spread more love, and help people like melissa. she’s so sweet it hurts me to know what she’s been thru 😢❤
Pretty Sweet woman I hope God watches over her & guides her
The abandonment by the mother must be the one most horrible thing that can happen to a child. My God. I'm so so sorry. I had to stop listening a few minutes in, I was crying so much already. I hope nothing but the best for Melissa. May she be compensated for what she had to go through.
Emotional abandonment is worse because the parent is actually present but you know you will get absolutely nothing out of them. As you mature you realize,
"Wait this person just doing things. There's nothing behind it. No happiness, concern. It's all... Robotic... Just protocol"
If thy6 are gone then they are gone completely, it hurts but at least you don't have their presence to remind you of the deficiency you will always have. With a full abandonment you can accept the reality better but emotional it's always knawing st your heart.
The really sad part is that she now has 5 children that she abandoned.
Having an abusive one, who hates you is worse believe me.
@@moderatia1 emotional adanmdoment sucks but it’s better than no food on the table and a belt welting your ass
@@moderatia1oh BS. Emotional abandonment doesn’t even compare to ACTUAL abandonment! What a dumb comment!
5 kids? Please get some birth control.
The 5 year birth control insert should be free for any woman who wants it!
I feel sorry for those kids.
So sad.. you can tell how lost she is by the look in her eyes.. you can also see how hopeless she is.. I pray for her healing fr fr
If you can't raise children properly and in healthy circumstances, DON'T MAKE THEM!!!
Yeh, after 2 maybe take a good look at your circumstances. 🤷♀️
Melissa CAN have a better life than what she's currently living.
BUT, it's going to take help, & her WANTING
that help.
I truly pray that she will do what's needed to get her out of the horrible 'cycle' she's in. ❤
Learn from your Grandfather that you can survive if you stay on the right path.
What's really messed up watching this channel is most of these people have good souls. A lot of unfortunate events
We can’t know they have good souls.
@@1FairyGothMother ? Your soul is what animates the vessel which carries you through this life cycle no matter how long or short of a time it takes to be sent off into the ether.
@@miaace5070 And we can’t say they have good souls.
@@1FairyGothMother Well, this is only a 30 minute video but, in my very humble opinion I would say she has a good soul, she’s sharing her difficult life with a stranger to put out there to thousands of opinionated gawkers which in itself is self deprecating, that tells me she’s accepted her fate whether it’s good or bad? I’m also going to add she’s definitely a lost soul and not a cause, we can look at the adults who brought her into this world for that. I also understand we have a difference in opinion which I fully accept and appreciate.
Everyone is born with a Good soul, then some of us get terrible broken and become monsters. Nobody is born evil.
Honor your grandfather’s memory by changing your life. It’s possible! God bless! Praying 🙏 for you! SENDING YOU HUGS
One of the most chilling things about this video is how plainly and calmly, so matter of fact she recounts these deeply tragic experiences.
Despair is her normal :(
“I saw someone who was murdered, but really cut up murdered. “. No worries…you had me at murdered! Yeah, on the blade, I saw a red heel outside the dumpster, and another one hooked over top of the dumpster, and a slip girls would wear as skirts. I couldn’t look in the dumpster, but I found a woman dead, later in the game, anyway. I get her 💯! I knew it was just the same crazy trick that just had me in his car until I made him worried he could get pulled over if he didn’t stop at the light, and I jumped out, cause I saw the body in his car. I smelled it first & my hair stood up on my neck, and then I knew why his hair was standing up like that. I actually called the police, but they just laughed at me because they knew who I was. They asked what drugs I was doing, but I actually didn’t do drugs at all, in those years. It does make you realize you could just disappear and it wouldn’t matter to anyone. If something happened to her, it would matter to me, though, even though I don’t know her. I’m sure that trick got away with it.
She is so BEAUTIFUL!
And she has such common sense, speaks well, shows emotion correctly.
It's hard to believe she's done Crystal so long and she's this put-together.
God bless you, Melissa.
You will find your way.
I almost didn’t watch this one and something tugged at my soul and I clicked it. I’m glad I watched. Much love to you Melissa. Thank you for sharing your story.
Yes, you can see it in her portrait. ❤. She’s a really special person.
please be KIND and GENTLE with yourself.
you Are beautiful loved and blessed.
Unfortunate story of her life. WHY would you choose to make 5 kids. Ridiculous
Because of low IQ.
I hope she gets a bike. She's at least working and trying
Sad she’s no better than her mom who left/:
Another Beautiful Soul Captured By Circumstance, Substance, and Abuse
5 children??
Lots of excuses for bad choices 😢
Her first mistake was leaving her first born to move to another state with her second child and his father. Who in the hell would leave their child to go with another man. Imagine how abandoned that poor boy feels.
Also, her story isn’t adding up, if I heard it correctly. Did she say she had all that excessive bleeding and water when she miscarried at one month pregnant? It doesn’t happen that way.
Birth control, please!
Make your grandpa proud, and turn to him and god daily. Hope you find the help you need. We all want to see your follow up video ❤❤
Some interviews hit soo much harder than others and this was one of them for me. I'm here in my Irish kitchen and cant stomach my food because of all her trama 😢 Melissa, if you read this, please know you're deserving of all good this in life. You've been dealt a really horrible hand in life and im heartbroken for you. I wish you the very best things going forward and I hope you will turn your life around. You truly are a beautiful, brave, resilient and kind soul.
What a beautiful girl, inside and out! I pray God rescues her and helps her heal.
therapy is awesome.
changed my life.
sometimes talking to a stranger can put everything into perspective.
You have a beautiful heart Melissa. Even after so much trauma you're a good person. So impressed u do door dash. Nothing wrong w that
Melissa, I hope you discover just how strong you really are inside and win over the circumstances that life has placed you in. There is so much better out there for you, but you are going to have to fight your way to it. The first step is to get and stay clean. Don’t let anything bring you back down. You can do it! ❤
Shout out to all the amazing Grandpa's out there - much love xx
Definitely praying for these souls. Keeping them in my heart. ♥️
she warmed up as the interview went on... what a bright spirit
Melissa, same story. Raised by my grandparents cuz my parents "couldn't" what i was told.
I will NEVER understand why people can kick out a mom and a baby. Not our own people! Wtf is happening to us all???
She has trouble with personal accountability. I also notice certain types of individuals on here get more empathy. This woman has children that she neglected.
Poor lady, this interview _as the others_ shows how abuse gets young undoubtful children in a bad vicious circle.
That leg shaking when about to tell the molestation story… I feel so sorry for her.
_Undoubtful_ children? What do you mean?
@@PrimateProductions sorry English isn’t my first language. I meant these poor children going through all of this crap, without even knowing that it is terrible adults’ fault.
@@fricardpro oh ok...no worries. I just wasn't quite sure what you meant. Your English is actually very good considering it is not your native language!
I remember when I couldn't keep eye contact, through shame and active addiction. I started at 12 and had a psychic change at 42....No human power...Your still here. Jesus saves!
How many kids? My gawd
I hope mark was able to help her get a bicycle, even if it’s used. If he did I hope it’s enough incentive not to keep using.
Melissa is so Beautiful on the outside and so beautiful within! I hope she got her bike to do Door-dash! I hope life starts treating her kind and she achieves what she wants!❤
Those poor children... God help those poor children that she surely abused, neglected and traumatized
We must all never forget there are two sides to 'every story.🙄
Such as
'Mam, whoever told you that you "haven't been through much" is wrong. You have an incredible outlook on life, due to your Grandfather (may God rest his soul) and the example he set of *true* hardship. It certainly gave you a positive perspective on life, and that can go far. However, you shouldn't be gaslit into thinking you haven't been through horrible, traumatic events. You *deserve* to grieve, cry, and scream with anger. You deserve help. I wish you the best, truly, and PLEASE keep up the good fight!
The drugs won't help. This girl is so pretty and has so much to offer and also to receive. The drugs won't help. I hope she gets the resources she needs.
What chance did she have without her mother showing her how to be a good mother, but instead, her mother is probably repeating learnt behaviours from her mother and so on.
I've got a similar story, but I walked away at age 19, also when I was pregnant. I've still got an addiction to cigarettes.
The grandfather lost his mother. The grandfather lost his wife and his kids lost their mother. Melisas kids have lost her as a mother. Theme's past down the line.
When I did my family tree and researched my ancestors the same themes and hardships were in their lives as my life. It's about breaking the loop. Which is dam hard. Especially if you are stuck in unresolved traumas.
Good luck Melissa, I truly hope you find peace. Traumas trauma it all has the same effect. Be nice to yourself 🤞❤️
Give yourself the help you deserve it.
Very meaningful comment.
@nhlibra Thankyou.
Such a sad story. Wishing Melissa the best!❤❤❤
Good morning from Florida 🌴🦩SWU FAMILY and The Man of the hour Mark! It’s 6:16 am here. May this young lady find peace and happiness from here on out!! Prayers for you !! 🙏🏽❤️😍🤗
Good afternoon from Sweden...🤗
@@hallqvist77 Wow all the way from 🇸🇪 Sweden!! Awesome 😎
The miscarriage must have been very traumatizing. But at least she didnt have a 6th child to abandon.
Good point!
She is one of the most genuine and good-hearted people you interviewed. I’d vote for her for Governor.
MARK PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE READ, Sir, u don't know, but if u sent me the fabric she's talking about I can make quilts that fold into a pillow, its called a quilto actually but they'd have a pocket, and i could add adjustable straps so they can be carried with ease. I know my mom made quilts for a family shelter here, she bought cases of wool blankets, wools the only fiber that'll keep u warm even if it's wet, I digress, but she bought blankets from the army surplus and they are a little longer and thicker, but they used those instead of quilt batting. she made 247 quilts, every stitch made with love and no judgment. I really wish u would reach out to me, I'm not associated with anything else except for my own failed attempt to start a NO profit organization called junkies r nt junk: humane humans being humane! However we can help each other Sir, I currently have at least 20 quilt tops already made, they need quilted, backed, and bound, Lucky u, I know how to do all these things Sir! I very much could do so a lot easier with recycled, washed, fabric if donated this way bud!!! ❤❤❤
I am so sorry. I see you, though. That beautiful sparkle in your eyes. You are not finished! Keep trodding in faith, please! So much love sent to you. A prayer- MOST DEFINITELY ❤❤❤
Damn, she certainly knows how to make children!
Sweet woman! Don’t discount your struggles, but do remember that you’re so strong! With love, may you find peace, love, and enlightenment. You deserve so much more in this life! ❤❤❤
Praying for this young lady
Love yourself Melissa,Take care of yourself,Don’t pay attention to anyone that isn’t in your safe circle,Get sober,Stay sober,You’ll make it in the end,I pissed many years of my life away,Ppl started dying,And life started getting real,I got straight,It’s just me and the cats,.I wouldn’t have it any other way
I loved your comment, People like You, Can help people like her, Cause you've been there, And you made it out alive. Thank you for your Call matt again!!! Stay safe❤❤❤❤❤
This beautiful woman deserves so much support, she could live a life off the streets if she had consistent support. My heart breaks for you Melissa, your aunt seriously let you down. If she’d supported you instead of her husband, your life would have been completely different.
I hope Mark can help you, stick with him, he’ll get you on your feet and your life will improve 10 fold.
Mark she is want to be maybe taking a chance on helping out first thing is does she want to get clean. I love the last answer to your last question. Maybe do a follow up on her in a year or 6 months. I think she's someone to invest in
I keep on thinking life can't get any worse And I listen to other peoples Stories And my life is not that bad... And I don't know how these people do.
It.... i give them alot of Credit.... Because I don't know if I can handle it.
Thanks for giving these people a platform Mark.
love to all.
I love what she said for her greatest lesson, love is the ultimate answer
Where was her love when she had 5 children, 3 who had to have been born addicted to drugs, were removed from her "care"? Nothing about working to support them, but rather expecting support from family and blaming them for evicting her.
It still isn't too late to seek substance abuse treatment, and get a FULL-TIME job to support herself.
This is heartbreaking to hear 😢💔I wish you a better future than the past. Blessings to you. And i wish that you will get love❤️❤️❤️you are a beautiful soul.
BRIGHT AND EARLY, wake up y’all I’m on the night shift in my final hour, y’all gotta catch up with me 💯(I’m losing my mind)
@notreallyafamousartist695 Hi from New Zealand
I'm wake up! Do you want to talk?
You can read between the lines…a few details of her responsibility in creating a mess. Poor thing doesn’t see it…but I do understand that she was damaged from age 2 and on starting when mom left. Drug use was a big part of her subsequent problems and when family kicked her out it was probably becuz of the drugs. What a sad cycle
Thank God for grandparents😢they pick up the slack when it's nessacary,what a blessing in a grandpa
This channel is a downward spiral
If nothing changes, nothing changes. Crystal, abuse, adoptions, repeat.. hope you find your path
So many events, in such little time add up to hardship. Hope that life can smooth out. Compassion.
Good morning
Good morning ☀️
Bless your heart! Oh Melissa...my heart goes out to you. I'm praying for you dear.
This one is scary & definitely more to the story … her face literally lit up with a smile when describing the abortion apparatus!! She blames her life on everyone else … not one time did she take responsibility for her own actions…jerk boyfriend or horrible aunt etc
Too bad the system removed them from the grandpa .. sometimes I wonder if child services are good for anything at all! The
Police should handle child abusers
it seems like everyone except her grandad has treated her like crap .... what chance has Melissa had
I wish Melissa the best in life.
She could used protection and no pregnancies.
Melissa you are doing something good right now by sharing your story ! I love you thank you for sharing ❤
@30:21 holy shit, so profound. Thank you, Melissa
Thank you for sharing your story Melissa! ❤ Your heart is beautiful, and what humanity needs more of. Those health care people who are to uphold the Hippocratic oath failed you. You were vulnerable person. Kuddos to you for taking the high road. You are courageous and intelligent. Wishing you peace and love on your journey moving forward ✨️ 🙏
You're beautiful Melissa. Just keep trying. Life is not easy. Get clean and go back to your kids
Well she can't go back to her kids as they have been adopted by a family