Thank you so much for the advice. I am under attack by someone who feels threatened by me for some reason. I like to work hard but smart an get things done. I just don’t want to lose my temper an give him the satisfaction, I need to be smart about this situation. Thanks again Mike🤙🙏😎
I have a colleague that always publicly redicules my tactful behaviour or lowers the impact of every achievement I make, she asks me infront of everyone whether certain errors exist in my work and it is not true, not only that my team has won in a competition, she tried to make it look like I have not trained them and that the training is done by our common boss, at this point I confronted her but the boss is also biased she made it look like I am being confrontational at work.
My property manager has been gaslighting me but when I print it out all the emails and I'm going to go make copies at Kinkos and send them to the real estate commission and also the board of examiners for licenses for my state will they and the company that they work for and a company that they contracted that ripped my electrical line behind my condo they are all going to find out that professional gaslighting actually has karmic consequences and they will be held accountable through the proper channels
If only I found your video earlier. I was doubting my self, even my sanity! It's crazy how some people can make us feel that way.
Thank you so much for the advice. I am under attack by someone who feels threatened by me for some reason. I like to work hard but smart an get things done. I just don’t want to lose my temper an give him the satisfaction, I need to be smart about this situation. Thanks again Mike🤙🙏😎
Do gaslighters also shut you out or stop communicating? Or is that something different?
Yes! They do not want to hear your truth and they do not want you to have your truth confirmed by others
Yes. Silent treatment is on the power and control wheel and can be an aspect of gaslighting.
I work in a post truth organisation. Even when presented with a written record people will say it doesn't exist. The worst department is HR.
I have learned that I hate the grand majority of people.
This is a really great and practical video regarding gaslighting. I appreciate it so much and will be watching it more than once!
I have a colleague that always publicly redicules my tactful behaviour or lowers the impact of every achievement I make, she asks me infront of everyone whether certain errors exist in my work and it is not true, not only that my team has won in a competition, she tried to make it look like I have not trained them and that the training is done by our common boss, at this point I confronted her but the boss is also biased she made it look like I am being confrontational at work.
My property manager has been gaslighting me but when I print it out all the emails and I'm going to go make copies at Kinkos and send them to the real estate commission and also the board of examiners for licenses for my state will they and the company that they work for and a company that they contracted that ripped my electrical line behind my condo they are all going to find out that professional gaslighting actually has karmic consequences and they will be held accountable through the proper channels
This is a great video and wonderful advice.
Hr is not for you
HR is the one who is doing the gaslighting in my experience.
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