6 Scientifically Proven Steps to Building Rapport with Anyone in Sales

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  • @SalesInsightsLab
    @SalesInsightsLab  2 роки тому +1

    Be sure to register for my free training on, "The Formula to Closing More Deals without Price Pushback, 'Think-It-Overs' or Ghosting" salesinsightslab.com/training/

  • @phillipmccargar5193
    @phillipmccargar5193 4 роки тому +52

    I am not a corporate salesman by any means. I sell TVs at Best Buy. I was a metal worker and a hard laborer for 12 years and transitioning into sales has been a nightmare for me. These videos have been a legitimate Godsend for me. Even on a smaller scale than you're speaking about, I've learned so much due to the lack of coaching and leadership in my current position that I truly can't wait to try these practices on a retail scale.

    • @goodmanwiseman303
      @goodmanwiseman303 2 роки тому +1

      This guy is really good. I hope it worked out for you and you didn't give up on sales.
      Read SPIN Selling by Neil Rackham too, its incredible and its a very short book (~130 pages).

    • @VictorMartinez-fi8lh
      @VictorMartinez-fi8lh Рік тому

      It has been 3 years. I'm curious to know what happened to your carrier after applying these principles if you don't mind sharing

  • @justinhartges
    @justinhartges 3 роки тому +8

    Literally used what you said at 9:50 and put it in my own words during a medical sales call. Magic. We began discussing service options at their hospital and now a door is opened thanks to your wisdom. Thanks, Marc!

  • @carl7445
    @carl7445 3 роки тому +14

    Marc has helped me get more clients. Im not a salesman by trade. Im a graphic designer but having good communication skills is essential in business. Learnt allot from him.

  • @mathieucinq-mars7786
    @mathieucinq-mars7786 3 роки тому +19

    It's funny how A LOT of this would also apply to clinical psychology, great stuff Marc!

  • @jasp9661
    @jasp9661 2 роки тому +2

    Even the way you're talking to us on this video, it's understanding and informative - like a teacher. Genius!

  • @zakofthefallen
    @zakofthefallen 2 роки тому +2

    Hey all. I suck at sales. My team and team members are all helping. I am seeking information everywhere. My weekend has started, so, my search has started again. I will buy a course or two from Marc and Chris Voss. First I need to make my numbers go up gradually to afford it. I was out of commission because of covid. So, lots of financial building to grow my business. Yup, my sales for any company I work with,... is my business. That is why I want to invest in my business, my skills. Nice to see like minds here too.

  • @alibukhari8669
    @alibukhari8669 Рік тому

    I have been working as a real estate agent for last one year & let me say, every word in this video is absolutely true. I really hope one day to meet Marc in person. Bro, if ever you visit Dubai, please let me know.

  • @pranshugarg9286
    @pranshugarg9286 2 роки тому +2

    Thank You for knowledge sharing. I am a door to door guy. I go through this video every time I start my work day. Guess what, every time I learn something new. Thank You so much🙏.

  • @Coachsamwel
    @Coachsamwel 4 роки тому +3

    Fantastic.. matching vocal & vibe..
    ✓ changing the pattern...not sound like a typical salesperson... sound like a doctor
    ✓Repeating and rephrasing
    ✓Focusing on them... Playing mostly their Choice Radio #WIIFM
    ✓Using feedback statements... Like are we together mr prospect,, do you like this....
    Be blessed 🙏

  • @growingoaks
    @growingoaks 4 роки тому +5

    1 & 2 can be condensed into 1 word: MIRRORING. Also see: "Pacing and leading"

  • @emilyjackson8767
    @emilyjackson8767 3 роки тому +3

    I really liked steps 4 and 6, but also how important it is to pay attention. Right now I'm working on behalf of the national humane society. Its been my first week and thank you so much for the video it was very informtive

  • @brentonrungasamy4401
    @brentonrungasamy4401 Рік тому

    I love you mark. I've started watching your videos about 4 years back and the first thing that came to my mind is that this is wayyyyyyy underated. You provide a mountain of value❤ Thanks alot bro

  • @LisaNobles
    @LisaNobles Рік тому

    Feedback Loop is what I enjoyed most. I enjoyed the entire presentation.

  • @queenlisa8279
    @queenlisa8279 4 роки тому +6

    very helpful thank you so much, I really felt distant with my clients and really didn't have as many conversations as possible, taking care of my pinch and correcting the mistakes. thanks alot

  • @jasonlui1183
    @jasonlui1183 2 роки тому

    Where were you when I started working in sales years ago?! You would’ve saved me lots of time. Great video! Thank you

  • @Memoreism
    @Memoreism 3 роки тому +4

    Your approach makes so much sense! Focusing on the prospect sounds way more fun than me just talking about myself.

  • @arzuagadavid1
    @arzuagadavid1 6 років тому +6

    Wow Marc you really killed it, appreciate all of your work. I always come back for a refresher, you always remind me of something I can correct and improve on.

    • @chrisvasey4032
      @chrisvasey4032 4 роки тому

      Hey David, if you can help me out and watch my video to see what you think, if you like please share around and subscribe, take care ua-cam.com/video/h5wQZyCI7dI/v-deo.html

  • @bear831tiger
    @bear831tiger Рік тому

    Man knows his stuff!!! Im not a salesman, but approve this message

  • @PaulPeixoto
    @PaulPeixoto 5 років тому +8

    Love your application of building rapport within the sales relationship. Keep up the great work, Marc!

  • @Ashtoberollin
    @Ashtoberollin Рік тому

    I love that you mentioned Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss. I recently have read the book and the moment you said to repeat and rephrase what they said back to them it made me think of the book. Great video all together

  • @jeffstephan6486
    @jeffstephan6486 2 роки тому

    Thank you for the hour of free training and sharing your experience!

  • @stirlingrnb
    @stirlingrnb 3 роки тому

    bro your videos are amazing. I recently started in pharma sales and your tactics have helped me nail my first accounts!

  • @lcobb5214
    @lcobb5214 5 років тому +4

    Dynamite info, not in sales now but sold cars many years ago. Would have made a killing if I had this type of specific insight!👍

  • @YouSpirit
    @YouSpirit 4 роки тому +2

    Video Starts @ 1:10

  • @nimkal
    @nimkal 3 роки тому +6

    Awesome video and well explained Marc! Great points really. Would of been awesome if you included some of the studies to help read into about these more but overall really good video. :) Thanks!

  • @tatianaarbulu6749
    @tatianaarbulu6749 2 роки тому

    Awesome!!! Super helpful! I will use these. I am just starting out in telesales as life insurance agent working from my home office. THANK YOU!

  • @jj2012ism
    @jj2012ism 4 роки тому +1

    Priceless Advice!!! Thanks so much Marc....your videos and knowledge on mastering the sales cycle is simply amazing!!!

  • @onwumerechibunna4592
    @onwumerechibunna4592 3 роки тому

    I’d say Repeat and Rephrase cause that’s the one thing that I’m sure that I’ve never really done/heard of. Thank you

  • @GirishVenkatachalam
    @GirishVenkatachalam Рік тому

    I like your voice and your ideas.
    I am just breaking into sales as we speak.

  • @Lado1677
    @Lado1677 2 роки тому

    Chris Voss is awesome! I watched his series on Masterclasses and it was superb!

  • @kayleen-west
    @kayleen-west 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for these tips, I am excited to hear more.

  • @arizonanative7409
    @arizonanative7409 2 роки тому

    Feedback loops. I think it’s easy to forget this when I’m the heat of presenting.

  • @leaderderisma5249
    @leaderderisma5249 2 роки тому

    Thanks for doing this from your heart with love.

  • @lol_yeahwhatever
    @lol_yeahwhatever 5 років тому +2

    This was an EXCELLENT video. Thank you for sharing everything!!!

  • @vincenterey1640
    @vincenterey1640 5 років тому +8

    🚒firefighters on the way for this fire content. Subscribed

  • @nirindusahasas9385
    @nirindusahasas9385 Рік тому

    You reshaped the way of selling man ❤🎉

  • @mavsach
    @mavsach 6 років тому +5

    Great video as always Marc!! I’m currently reading Chris Voss’ book and loved your point about rephrasing what your prospect says..
    Could you do a video on various sales books that helped you at various times in your career? Would be great to see your recommendations.

  • @briansalisbury6322
    @briansalisbury6322 5 років тому +1

    Thanks Marc great video, I love the repeat and rephrase part of the segment!

  • @samikdas4345
    @samikdas4345 2 місяці тому

    This is pure gold.

  • @klaramika
    @klaramika 5 років тому +3

    Hi Marc, I think it is super awkward to ask a prospect on a cold call "how have you been" and so on, it just makes people annoyed, like who is this and what do you want and how you got my number. My approach is just direct: Hello I'm XY calling form XY company, we have not been in touch, the reason for the call is that your company could be a good fit etc. etc. WDYT?

    • @BuddyLee23
      @BuddyLee23 5 років тому

      Makes a lot of sense for dealing with gatekeepers and other people short on time. As long as you know when to - and are able to - get more rapport with a decision-maker, seems like a good way to save time and ultimately reach more prospects.

  • @bigword3744
    @bigword3744 5 років тому +54

    Book is called "Never Split The Difference", Great video tho.

    • @StanleySweet14
      @StanleySweet14 4 роки тому +2

      And Way of the Wolf and other sales books. Many people have talked about this.

    • @dubsteppro777
      @dubsteppro777 3 роки тому

      Thank you lol, I was gonna make that comment.

    • @jeffstephan6486
      @jeffstephan6486 2 роки тому

      I would say, "Great video, too!"

  • @mary-jayne5459
    @mary-jayne5459 4 роки тому +2

    Great advice, Thank you for taking the time to share this with us! I wanted to let you know your camera is struggling to balance color. It gives off a orange/yellow hue, distorting all the colors in the video and esp your skin tone. I haven't seen any of your other videos so you may have updated this issue. If not, I wanted to give you a friendly note.

  • @lisafarmen9367
    @lisafarmen9367 2 роки тому

    GREAT stuff!! Incredible

  • @FloydBanks-th8ss
    @FloydBanks-th8ss Рік тому

    Chris Voss -Never split the difference

  • @pbryan1967
    @pbryan1967 Рік тому

    Chris Voss calls it “tactical empathy “ in his book.

  • @lisagarcia8349
    @lisagarcia8349 3 роки тому

    Love you video! New subscriber! ❤️ It makes total sense how you explained everything now I need to practice, practice, practice! Appreciate you!

  • @polarismurphy3092
    @polarismurphy3092 3 роки тому

    Just subscribed to your channel, lots of great stuff. I am definitely going to be trying these techniques in the field

  • @RaymondWLo
    @RaymondWLo 2 роки тому

    This is gold! Thank you.

  • @pattispieces4943
    @pattispieces4943 4 роки тому

    Who is George? You use that name in every video. I enjoy and learn so much

  • @sunvaj6754
    @sunvaj6754 2 роки тому

    This is a great information. Thanks for sharing.

  • @davidrenyold350
    @davidrenyold350 2 роки тому

    so helpful, thanks

  • @currently9143
    @currently9143 2 роки тому

    this is great! Thanks

  • @PatriciaAtengdem-im2sn
    @PatriciaAtengdem-im2sn 7 місяців тому

    I really understood this videos thanks so much❤😊

  • @seanjohnson505
    @seanjohnson505 4 роки тому

    Great value, I’ve learned about the hostage negotiator at a past employer.

  • @TheDim3s
    @TheDim3s 6 років тому

    Hey Marc,
    I'm working with an online shop where we basicly get a database of all the custmers that bought something at our page, and my job is to call them and offer XYZ products (currently smart watches are what im trying to do) the thing is that some days i sell 10 of them, and for instance today I only sold 1, my lines are always the same (more or less) since I cannot really offer any real value to them based on their problems.
    My question to you is, how should I sell it to make my customer engaged as much as possible, because many of them simply go to brick wall mode and all you hear is "No thanks".
    Any experience with that?
    I thank you for you reply in advance.

  • @dusancetkovic8245
    @dusancetkovic8245 4 роки тому

    I dont know why You still dont have milions of subs and views, loved the vid!

    • @SLVBULL
      @SLVBULL 3 роки тому

      Nije Srbin

  • @sunnychopra3918
    @sunnychopra3918 4 роки тому

    I am very much impressed and thankful to you

  • @mirian593
    @mirian593 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing this knowledge ❤️

  • @SOSM209
    @SOSM209 4 роки тому +2

    This Professional leader hypnotizes you into a right frame of 🧠🤝💚thanks Mark 👣

  • @jab1720
    @jab1720 5 років тому +2

    Thanks for this video. Very helpful.

  • @ramjanali8931
    @ramjanali8931 4 роки тому

    Undoubtedly It was amazing, i would obviously use those tips in my call with prospects...

  • @jamylawshainline7710
    @jamylawshainline7710 3 роки тому

    Repeat and rephrase or feed back loops. Just making sure the prospect knows there apart of the conversation and your not just trying to sell them something to get their money. You actually care that they will need and use the product 247

  • @SaaswathaInfraaProjects
    @SaaswathaInfraaProjects 2 роки тому

    Your video helped me

  • @DewiiAljoe
    @DewiiAljoe 4 місяці тому

    Great tips and video

  • @juniora9939
    @juniora9939 2 роки тому

    match vibe most def thanks man really usefull

  • @JoelRossWorld
    @JoelRossWorld 4 роки тому

    Sooo who makes that blazer and shirt 🤔

  • @Jrodriguez0524
    @Jrodriguez0524 6 років тому

    Marc! killing it! understanding the mind of a prospect!

  • @ninovaldemorocabugawan6605
    @ninovaldemorocabugawan6605 5 років тому +1

    I love the number 5 tip

    • @chrisvasey4032
      @chrisvasey4032 4 роки тому

      Hey Nino , if I can ask you to enjoy my new rapport video that would be much appreciated , take care my friend ua-cam.com/video/h5wQZyCI7dI/v-deo.html

  • @manuelfernando9729
    @manuelfernando9729 5 років тому

    Whats your view on the term "opposites attract"?

  • @BelakorVenator
    @BelakorVenator 4 роки тому

    I'm sure you've seen that assumptive feedback loops tend to be even more effective, correct?

  • @BILLROYALFX
    @BILLROYALFX Місяць тому

    What's the code..?

  • @za2196
    @za2196 3 роки тому

    Agreed. Best communication videos.

  • @Gogoletsgoo
    @Gogoletsgoo 4 роки тому

    I've learned so much from this video! thank u!!
    and i thought this is really helpful when my female friends talk to me about personal problems lol
    if I gave some advice, sometimes they get pissed off at me because they just want me to sympathize. I will only repeat what they said like robbot.

  • @isaacwick9522
    @isaacwick9522 4 роки тому

    Amazing content on a free video, I learned a lot.

  • @randao7793
    @randao7793 2 роки тому

    Great video! Love your content

  • @StanleySweet14
    @StanleySweet14 4 роки тому

    Feedback Loops, also known as Obligating Questions. Using a few of these can leverage commitment to obtain a close.
    ¨Mr. Prospect based off of what you said, does this look like a feature that would benefit you?¨
    ¨Yes.¨

  • @Makanfelez
    @Makanfelez 3 роки тому

    amazing video , thank you so much 😘

  • @mikegnever795
    @mikegnever795 5 років тому

    Do you do 1 on 1 confrontations

  • @nayrtnartsipacify
    @nayrtnartsipacify 3 роки тому

    If people don't like you, you aren't selling them anything. There a million ways to make someone like you but the most important one is be genuine.

  • @austinwachira5185
    @austinwachira5185 3 роки тому

    Great Insight here, Mark Thanks :)

  • @joaoguerrero2834
    @joaoguerrero2834 3 роки тому

    Thanks so much!!!!

  • @tekdon7672
    @tekdon7672 3 роки тому

    💯% correct. Gems!!

  • @joeyalfaro2323
    @joeyalfaro2323 3 роки тому +1

    In hostage negotiations it always best throw other person off their game. Best way is start shooting hostages. I breaks up small talk let's everybody know you mean business. Assure hostage negotiator when I'm done with hostages he is next

    • @oaksoptions
      @oaksoptions 3 роки тому

      Do you recommend I try this in SAAS sales?

  • @mattk8810
    @mattk8810 Рік тому

    The book is never split the difference

  • @a4e69636b
    @a4e69636b 5 років тому

    Thank you very much for this video.

  • @SaintlySaavy
    @SaintlySaavy 6 років тому

    Great stuff Marc!

  • @RichardGomezMx
    @RichardGomezMx 4 роки тому

    Very good. I agree.

  • @dariushdhg
    @dariushdhg 5 років тому

    Fantastic stuff man

  • @fatosalliu3655
    @fatosalliu3655 4 роки тому

    That's amazing man

  • @akulabourne
    @akulabourne Рік тому

    Totally agree! Every time I come in fast and hard and my wife is talking soft and slow she makes me sleep on the couch... with the dog... who needs a flea bath...

  • @Solarandsecurity
    @Solarandsecurity 5 років тому

    Awesome stuff man! 😎👍

  • @Brian.Maxwell
    @Brian.Maxwell 5 років тому

    Awesome videos Marc

    • @chrisvasey4032
      @chrisvasey4032 4 роки тому

      Hey BrY, if you can give my video a quick check out that would awesome, take care ua-cam.com/video/h5wQZyCI7dI/v-deo.html

  • @andrecamacho7660
    @andrecamacho7660 Рік тому

    honestly .. i hate when a sales person ask me how i am and make a pause to ear an answer .. 90% of them dont know me at all and it sounds like a rhetoric question that they dont care about my answer..and i dont feel like to answer to somebody i never met ... i am foucused on my work... thinking a lot of things... i just want them to cut to the chase and say what they want to say..and get back to what i was doing.

  • @landikobing5002
    @landikobing5002 3 роки тому

    Use feedback loops

  • @sonnym9938
    @sonnym9938 4 роки тому

    You are great.

  • @QuantumBits0
    @QuantumBits0 2 роки тому

    now I get why I hate everytime our teacher keep talking about the school mission, vision. My mind is always thinking blah blah blah idc just tell me how the grading system work so I can achieve top ranking. We only care about what's in it for us

  • @sachinkohli9147
    @sachinkohli9147 5 років тому

    Why the hell this all thing doesn't work

  • @mushon44
    @mushon44 4 роки тому

    you are good man!

  • @JasonfromMinnesota
    @JasonfromMinnesota 4 роки тому

    Dose that make sense... and wait and listen