How mental illness made me a better person: Joe Schaefer at TEDxAlbany 2013

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  • It was during his senior year of college, less than 6 months before his first marriage, that Joe's life drastically changed due to the onset of mental illness. In his TEDx Albany talk, Joe shares "How Mental Illness Made Me a Better Person and Enriched My Life."
    In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)

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  • @joeschaefer6298
    @joeschaefer6298 7 років тому +93

    I want to thank everyone who took valuable time out of their lives to watch me speak of my experiences and living a new reality. I hope that anyone having a difficult time will reach out and get help. I'm far from out of the woods, but this is better than it was. Much love. Peace to you all. Thank you.

    • @UncleRichie101
      @UncleRichie101 6 років тому +1

      Joe Schaefer amazing talk. Really resonated with me, I could relate to alot of your points. Having bi polar (lvl 2) myself I can really relate to the way you now view the world. If you can look through the shadows of life there's a lot of light to marvel at. I also experience something called crippling empathy (causes me to relate to everything and everyone, even if I know they are a work of fiction), was wondering if your experience is similar, or exclusive to "real" people? Much love and respect, peace.

    • @FreeJulianAssange23
      @FreeJulianAssange23 5 років тому +1

      Joe. If you read this. Talk to your mom, trust that she hears you. You and her have had many conversations that leave you wondering if it was her answering because it sounds like you in your mind. It’s her. Tell my son I love him Locomo tion no idea what that means.

    • @Satsui_No_Hado
      @Satsui_No_Hado 5 років тому

      Joe, I myself struggle with my own form of mental illness( continuous depression), it's stories like yours that give me hope, way to step in the arena and share your story, thank you again and fantastic speech

    • @mauricevdc6548
      @mauricevdc6548 4 роки тому

      Wow thanks for sharing your story this was 6 years ago after going through what I went to I just hope I could impact some people in a way thank you

    • @JohnLee-dt9fz
      @JohnLee-dt9fz 4 роки тому

      Josh, the brain is so powerful. Read carl jung. Define for yourself what is normal. Remember fiction is trully mentally ill. I time travel, have waking delusions, met 12 with people from the past in real life, see synchronicity, reality that distorts, its all in your psyche. Dont endanger self and others. Good luck.

  • @deenababie
    @deenababie 8 років тому +15

    I'm so proud of my friend Joe!!!

  • @synneecha1900
    @synneecha1900 6 років тому +4

    Thank you for your beautiful inspiration story, noticed how every time I listen to everyone story and they started crying me to.

  • @CrystalAndersson
    @CrystalAndersson 7 років тому +20

    I'm a bit taken aback that there are only 11 responses (12 including mine) to this talk and over 23,000 viewings. There needs to be more dialogue on the topic. So much of our arts, entertainment, revolutionary ideas, history and modern science can be attributed to those with mental illnesses. A beautiful genius it is. Great speech. Thank you for lending your bravery and for treading into territory that is apparently unspeakable to the vast majority. Much love! ❤

    • @joeschaefer6298
      @joeschaefer6298 7 років тому +3

      I agree. Thanks for watching Crystal :)

    • @TheHandsGamingCommunity
      @TheHandsGamingCommunity 5 років тому +1

      The lack of response is because he is not crazy.

    • @JohnLee-dt9fz
      @JohnLee-dt9fz 4 роки тому

      Read foucault book on the history of mental illness. I had a counselor tell me i am not sick but a shaman who had a psychic break in my subconscious. I accept myself more, held a job and have a great family. I have friends inside and beautiful worlds that i go to. I have laughed off my add and my mistakes that got me depressed. I have felt my dead parents presence which other cultures would accept but this one surpresses. Wel

    • @JohnLee-dt9fz
      @JohnLee-dt9fz 4 роки тому

      @@TheHandsGamingCommunity even with the real ones, we should have them learn to adjust to it too with therapy from other cultures besides or including drugs. They address the spiritual side of mental illness.

  • @nhess8590
    @nhess8590 6 років тому +6

    Dear man ... thank you . Helps me understand my daughter ❤️

  • @ericwallker1331
    @ericwallker1331 7 років тому +4

    Thank you for sharing so bravely.... I'm still working out of a 10 yr rabbit hole and you inspire me

  • @johannagoossen1192
    @johannagoossen1192 8 років тому +9

    Beautiful message. thank you!

  • @aleche96
    @aleche96 8 років тому +15

    This was just wonderful.
    I'm struggling with my reality, but this makes me feel more relieved.

    • @joeschaefer6298
      @joeschaefer6298 7 років тому +1

      I hope you find peace. Thanks for watching!

    • @hiraofarts
      @hiraofarts 5 років тому +1

      Same honestly

  • @lissaajz
    @lissaajz 5 років тому +1

    I in the middle of that path still feeling the pain you talk about, and I really hope to get to that place some day. It’s truly beautiful, to grow from all the hurt and despair we get from our brains and I hope I too can be in peace with myself one day so I have peace and love to give to others as well. Thank you 🙏🏻 💙

  • @godisright2155
    @godisright2155 5 років тому +2

    Thank you Joe for sharing. You really bring light into things for me.

  • @balamama6709
    @balamama6709 3 роки тому +2

    Omg 😱😱😱, I had schizophrenia and experienced the same thing that this guy is telling, I thought I was only one who experienced that, I'm in total shock rn🤯

  • @lavidaesplendida
    @lavidaesplendida 8 років тому +7

    Very powerful. Thank you.

  • @robinjardine8366
    @robinjardine8366 5 років тому +2

    wow, what an amazing talk, I can't believe that he still did it after his mum had passed away, that was a shocker, ultimate respect, well done Joe.

  • @FromtheLightofTheDarkness
    @FromtheLightofTheDarkness 6 років тому +4

    Excellent, I love this gentleman and can relate so very much! Thank you my brother!

  • @bigdec1
    @bigdec1 6 років тому +4

    Thanks for sharing your experiences , what you were saying is really informative but also changing peoples perceptions of mental health. Many thanks Declan

  • @emmetmcnamara5514
    @emmetmcnamara5514 3 роки тому +1

    Brilliant I thought I was the only one who experienced these things.

  • @audreys1931
    @audreys1931 6 років тому +4

    Joe, thank you for sharing your story!!
    First off I want to mention that the commenting functions aren't typical on this video, and I wonder if that's why there isn't more dialogue here. Idk much, since I rarely comment.
    Your story tugged at my heart strings though. I'll be ruminating over this for awhile.
    I had some some observations about the talk that I wanted to share, but can't quite word them at the moment without inserting unnecessary personal monologue. I'll try to come back when I can be more concise.
    Best of luck in your endeavors and your treatment... whichever forms they may take :)

  • @humanbeing8531
    @humanbeing8531 5 років тому +3

    First of all bosses in companies, Management/CEO/Principals/Managers in academic/non academic fields should be tested (normally like blood tests) and if they are mentally fit for the positions, then they should be selected to become leaders. This can be done like making identity card by Govt. This way society welfare will be taken care of and economy will improve along with protecting such professions in medical fields. Nice speech Sir. Thank you👏👏👌

  • @treborironwolfe978
    @treborironwolfe978 5 років тому +1

    ...I believe there is something greater than "meeting again". As many greats have said to the effect of "Do not worry my child".

  • @bryantholbeck7456
    @bryantholbeck7456 5 років тому +1

    I give you my respect, and say thank you..

  • @raspberry1011
    @raspberry1011 6 років тому +5

    I hope you see your mum again. Lovely talk, was really interesting.

  • @joelfry4982
    @joelfry4982 8 років тому +5

    This is beautiful indeed. Thank you.

  • @SauceT21
    @SauceT21 9 років тому +5

    This is brilliant

  • @coffeeman8590
    @coffeeman8590 5 років тому +3

    I have schizophrenia... Thank you for your video...

  • @cynthiahawkins2389
    @cynthiahawkins2389 6 років тому +5

    Two people very dear to me, (both with mental illnesses, both now deceased) were improperly medicated. And their lives throughout...were..blighted, that's the only word I can use. The third one, received no meds at all, and one day had an episode: he threatened to kill our neighbor's kids before we got him out in the hall, and past the knife board. Mental illness covers a wide spectrum, of course.Not everyone with an episode becomes a potentially violent person. But with better understanding, stronger intervention, and more education for everyone, we can at least do better, more humane job... for those citizens among us who are often not dangerous, but extremely fragile. And get them help!!!

  • @jlangdon2
    @jlangdon2 7 років тому +4

    "compassion times 1000%" haha classic

  • @LukeSchaeferFilms
    @LukeSchaeferFilms 10 років тому +6

    Beautiful :)

  • @kimlec3592
    @kimlec3592 Рік тому

    Dear Sir, you already are a "better person".

  • @ajsrabbit7564
    @ajsrabbit7564 5 років тому

    Give them a chance... thank you

  • @sjanoski8878
    @sjanoski8878 2 роки тому

    I have a dear dear friend. Thank you. And I loved Breaking Bad as well.

  • @julianjarquin3859
    @julianjarquin3859 5 років тому +1

    San Francisco CA has lots lots of people with mental illness, a lot of folks, like more than 70% probably...

  • @treborironwolfe978
    @treborironwolfe978 5 років тому +1

    So.. could schizophrenia be related to the Eastern philosophy of reincarnation? Only this experience occurs while in life, and not in death?

  • @sidarthur8706
    @sidarthur8706 6 років тому +1

    billy pilgrim doesn't look anything like the way i imagined him

  • @EricCampbellUAV
    @EricCampbellUAV Рік тому

    a better person? i used to have a career… a mortgage… friends…

  • @alexandragulko8135
    @alexandragulko8135 Рік тому

    You learn to be less judgemental