Imagine There Was No Stigma to Mental Illness | Dr. Jeffrey Lieberman | TEDxCharlottesville

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  • Dr. Jeffrey Lieberman, Professor and Chair of Psychiatry at Columbia University and past President of the American Psychiatric Association, envisions that breaking down the barrier which arises from our stigmatizing mental health would result in better treatment for millions of individuals.
    Jeffrey Lieberman has devoted his life to the study and treatment of mental illness. He has passionately advocated for more research and better treatment of people with mental illness, and contributed to mental health care policy and legislation including the Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act and Helping Families in Mental Health Crisis Act. Dr. Lieberman is Professor and Chair of Psychiatry at Columbia University, Psychiatrist-in-Chief at New York-Presbyterian Hospital, Director of the New York State Psychiatric Institute and past President of the American Psychiatric Association. Dr. Lieberman has authored over than 500 scientific articles and written or edited 12 books on mental illness and psychiatry, including the critically acclaimed Shrinks: The Untold Story of Psychiatry (Little Brown 2015).
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 595

  • @Zanyotaku
    @Zanyotaku 7 років тому +626

    I remember when I was 15, I would go home and obsessively study because I was so terrified of failure I cried every day. I stopped talking to my friends and. I was called a "perfectionist"
    16, I literally ran away in the middle of a piano recital and locked myself in a bathroom stall for an hour. "Stage fright"
    17, I would run to the bathroom to throw up and cry in terror over class presentations. Again it was "stage fright"
    18, after moving to college I began suffering regular panic attacks. "Just nerves" and "homesick"
    19, and one of those panic attacks hit me in the middle of a biology lecture.
    And I had been so used to calling it other names I actually didn't believe my professor when she took me aside and asked me about my anxiety.
    And now I can't stop wondering: why didn't anyone tell me sooner?

    • @canizlupuzcanizlupuz
      @canizlupuzcanizlupuz 6 років тому +34

      I hope you get better. Thank you for sharing and good luck in the future!

    • @evacody1249
      @evacody1249 6 років тому +44

      Because people don't want to take the time to really learn about mental illness.

    • @user-id1ts2xo2u
      @user-id1ts2xo2u 5 років тому +4

      I tend to agree with this statement

    • @johnmay9394
      @johnmay9394 5 років тому +1

      That’s not mental illness it’s called getting nervous

    • @carolinemcguire6224
      @carolinemcguire6224 5 років тому +24

      I totally feel you. I've had panic disorder symptoms for 8 long years. That's 8 years of having panic attacks and nobody, parents, friends, family, ever thought anything was wrong, or never said anything. After so much time reinforcing and trying to cope alone with the attacks, it's very severe and extremely difficult to face, especially now that I've developed agoraphobia. After 8 years of suffering and being held back by anxiety, and a year of mental instability and depression symptoms, I'm finally on the road to recovery and planning trips to a doctor and a therapist.

  • @smthngintherain
    @smthngintherain 6 років тому +391

    not all heroes wear capes. a big salute to Dr. Lieberman and every other person who is out there raising awareness to end this stigma

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому +18

      thx much, I asked Santa for a cape for Christmas

    • @haroldmaio407
      @haroldmaio407 3 роки тому

      Lieberman calls for ending it, but not for ending teaching it.

    • @sandranorum6125
      @sandranorum6125 3 роки тому +3

      @@jeffreylieberman This was amazing. I’m currently trying to survive yet another mental health crisis. Your speech brought tears to my eyes. It warms my heart that there are people out there fighting for people like me and so many others who aren’t necessarily strong enough to fight right now. Thank you for trying to make the world a better place. 🙏🏻❤️

    • @justonemori
      @justonemori 2 роки тому

      no hero has ever worn a cape in the history of mankind

    • @thexpax
      @thexpax Рік тому

      Awareness is at least Awareness, and that is the start.

  • @uniqueusername_
    @uniqueusername_ 6 років тому +805

    Therapists, social workers, psychologists, and psychiatrists are all heroes that are not given credit.

    • @neuroanatomy
      @neuroanatomy 6 років тому +2

      Avery Smith i Agree!

    • @Intersexashleyleeanntv
      @Intersexashleyleeanntv 5 років тому +4

      uniqueusername_1024 idk if I feel the same way

    • @musiclolli7280
      @musiclolli7280 5 років тому +33

      Not ... All..

    • @Stash_box
      @Stash_box 5 років тому +10

      Don't forget the Occupational Therapists and Assistants who work with patients who have mental illness as well. They play a vital role in helping them participate in meaningful activities that greatly contribute to their overall wellness. :)

    • @hey.aidid_
      @hey.aidid_ 5 років тому +6

      Psychiatrists are the real heros. Psychiatry has changed my life. ❤

  • @kamihimes
    @kamihimes 6 років тому +383

    The number of views of this Ted talk tells us how many people are suffering because of the stigma of mental health illness. People don't outgrow bad childhood experiences or traumas, and can't just "get over it", just like they can't outgrow A congenital heart defect or other serious medical illnesses.

    • @evacody1249
      @evacody1249 6 років тому +23

      I wish more people understood that.

    • @ruthclareauthor
      @ruthclareauthor 5 років тому +25

      Totally agree. So many people are missing out on the help they need because they don't feel like it is safe to share their stories.

    • @farhanpatwary9345
      @farhanpatwary9345 5 років тому +3

      💯

    • @sni-ri1yg
      @sni-ri1yg 4 роки тому +6

      Ketamine and lsd can really help.

    • @quartani
      @quartani 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for stating the obvious because most think we are fixable so we can be healthy and normal. I think it’s a innocent mistake we all wanted.
      It’s clear to more of us how it’s a life long unlearning active work in progress until the day we pass.

  • @jorysmith1468
    @jorysmith1468 4 роки тому +40

    Stigmatizing someone because of how they adapt to stress/trauma/environment, is the biggest contributor to "stigma" he is talking about, not just the label of mental illness.

  • @__mastershifureads__
    @__mastershifureads__ 6 років тому +107

    Every last one of these talks about mental illnesses bring me to tears.

  • @EroticPlatypus
    @EroticPlatypus 4 роки тому +75

    Thank you everyone who is destigmatizing mental illness. I hope, as a person with mental illness, I can soon become well enough to share my experiences with others and help people become more loving towards one another in general, more understanding, and more willing to forgive one another.

    • @neuroconexion2932
      @neuroconexion2932 4 роки тому +5

      Tyler P Best wishes. When you’d like to share, let us know. We’ve recently launched our effort to break the stigma and share real life stories

  • @AndrewDeneHelbig
    @AndrewDeneHelbig 4 роки тому +216

    I came to watch this after seeing the move Joker. Though it had some violent scenes, it made me think a lot about how society doesn't value mentally ill people, how they're often left to fend for themselves. I hope that we can take away the stigma of mental illness and support one another, no matter if one has a mental illness or not. Thanks for this talk. That reading of the letter at the end was very nice to hear... We can all have compassion.

    • @VladaRono
      @VladaRono 3 роки тому +5

      I came to watch it after seeing Joker too)

    • @sunny4lady
      @sunny4lady 3 роки тому +24

      While I agree with what you have to say, Joker is a poor representation of people that live with a mental illness. Joker represents someone who is violent towards others and that does not represent 20 percent of the population who live with a mental illness. A very tiny percentage CAN be a danger to others but that is very rare. And movies like Joker only adds to that stigma because it does not represent the general population who live with a mental illness and who live a fairly normal life with treatment.

    • @trevorfranks69
      @trevorfranks69 3 роки тому +5

      Society.

    • @swetalinabarik6536
      @swetalinabarik6536 2 роки тому

      I don't know these days I'm lacking compassions towards people

    • @gevelegian
      @gevelegian 2 роки тому +7

      I don't know if I'm acting like the victim but all my years of headaches and anxiety and easily startled, coming from a broken home and a broken family and from poverty all evolved into a history of drug abuse and neglect. It's sad to see that family and people around just cast you out since I am not abiding to their ideals of being a "normal person". No one tries to understand me or even help, they just automatically punish me in the worst way possible with me suffering from anxiety and low self-esteem and that is by treating me as a sub-human and demeaning me and having me know that I am not welcome here. I don't care about the neighbors but hearing this from your own mother is quite a low blow.

  • @jam5533
    @jam5533 4 роки тому +42

    Some people just think or see physically and mentally disabled people as less than human or subhuman. Just because of someone has a difficulty with something than you doesn't mean they should be berated or put down or even humiliated. It's better to give a helping hand or even give someone a little push forward in general if needed.

    • @Dman9fp
      @Dman9fp 2 роки тому +2

      Or seen as "faking it"/ selfish(?) if it fluctuates, as in my experience with bipolar. Yep it isn't necessarily all bad "brain chemistry", but still largely out of our control a lot of the time, incredibly misunderstood... I get people are busy fending for themselves, but yeah time to stop the blame game imo (& if people want to say it's all our fault somehow, oh well nice knowing you lol)

    • @jam5533
      @jam5533 2 роки тому

      @@Dman9fp I understand.

    • @kj-my7se
      @kj-my7se Рік тому +1

      Name calling, insults and put downs are never ok under any circumstances. Some are more hurt and offended than others.

  • @SandraLopez-if3yz
    @SandraLopez-if3yz 7 років тому +195

    so inspired by this. I live and breathe with being a dual diagnosed person. proud to say substance free for 8 years and live with depression and anxiety and PTSD.

    • @taylorvelez750
      @taylorvelez750 7 років тому

      Sandra Lopez You mean you don't use meds for your conditions?

    • @SandraLopez-if3yz
      @SandraLopez-if3yz 7 років тому +13

      Karla Velez no I've tappered off and am doing just fine

    • @NoName-wc4qr
      @NoName-wc4qr 4 роки тому +1

      congrats

    • @daveprice3095
      @daveprice3095 4 роки тому +3

      Great to hear. Mine is similar. I’m a 37 male and started sleeping with a stuffed animal and was able to get off all meds. And feel better. You ever try?

    • @neuroconexion2932
      @neuroconexion2932 4 роки тому +1

      💕

  • @AM-bj7yo
    @AM-bj7yo 4 роки тому +37

    sitting here, having just finished my psychiatry rotations in medical school, and preparing for my psychiatry final tomorrow, i can't help but think of how judgmental i have been towards mental illness, and hearing how his empathy was the most important factor, i am without words.
    i can only pray that i am given some of his empathy and that i am able to help, and be a force of good, and not be so judgmental.

    • @lisahall1989
      @lisahall1989 3 роки тому +4

      I'm sure you will impact our world in a good way. The fact that you are convicted is a great thing. 🌻💕

    • @lisahall1989
      @lisahall1989 3 роки тому +1

      @Dagny Forever Amen to that!

  • @fallyfal4833
    @fallyfal4833 8 років тому +69

    Thank you. We appreciate your voice. I hope it amplifies the rest of ours.

  • @scorpioone1168
    @scorpioone1168 7 років тому +27

    thank you Dr. Lieberman, on a recent trip to the metal hospital this past new years after being off my meds and going into sycosis again, I was out side on one the few release half hour break on the outside world for a cigerete when I had to explain why I hid my smokes in the bush to an ordinary patient and explained we aren't alound to have them on our ward, and after explaining that I was on the mental health ward she immediately turned to me and asked me why the hell was I aloud out, I had to explain to her that not all of us a violent and that we all have our troubles, and that sometimes we need a little bit of help

    • @lisahall1989
      @lisahall1989 3 роки тому +8

      I wish I was there to sit and talk with you. Maybe that unkind person will get a dose of mental health one day. I don't wish that on anybody, but some people need to be humbled.

  • @ramblingsofabipolarmind9626
    @ramblingsofabipolarmind9626 5 років тому +30

    This video really hit me hard. I feel so ashamed and embarrassed even though I try so hard not to. Thank you.

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому +6

      Don't worry about the past, never too late to change

    • @hantzleyaudate7697
      @hantzleyaudate7697 5 років тому +3

      You’re loved homie. Take it from a random dude on the Internet - your presence is a present!

  • @cliffjamesmusic
    @cliffjamesmusic Рік тому +1

    In the 1980s the Campaign against Psychiatric Oppression (CAPO) met for regular music and poetry meetings in the Troubadour Café, London, to express their response to how people had been treated. I find it absurd that instead of learning from people who are classified as mentally ill and thereby changing society to avoid making people ill, we continue to support a socio-economic system built on cooperative abuse and exploitation, resulting in the adverse consequences for millions of people.

  • @gabrielacepeda6645
    @gabrielacepeda6645 Рік тому +4

    Thanks for keep advocating to stop mental illness stigma, you have no idea how much just some words can make to change the world.

  • @Curtis.Carpenter
    @Curtis.Carpenter 4 роки тому +37

    There is less and less stigma surrounding it everyday, it’s amazing. I work with many people who are super open about their mental health issues and everyone at work is accepting because he’s so willing to share and explain how it affects him. It’s allowed many others at work to feel the same comfort in sharing their problems. We’re all closer because of it

    • @bizarte24_
      @bizarte24_ 2 роки тому

      Mentally ill children shouldn't be allowed to run amuck or do whatever they please.

    • @nicmart
      @nicmart Рік тому

      YIt is routine for someone with opposing views to be labeled "narcissistic" or worse. As psychiatry has become more completely imbedded in American society, the stigma has become worse. Psychiatric terminology is the most important way to dehumanize someone today, just as religious terminology was in the past. Today a narcissist, yesterday a sinner.

  • @bigolbearthejammydodger6527
    @bigolbearthejammydodger6527 6 років тому +94

    What if there was no stigma to mental illness?
    Then my breakdown wouldn't have revealed the distinction between my associates and my freinds.
    Also Great talk doc.

    • @Luther835
      @Luther835 5 років тому +4

      Spot on! It's an eye opener.

    • @woundedhealerschool
      @woundedhealerschool 3 роки тому

      same, same.

    • @bigolbearthejammydodger6527
      @bigolbearthejammydodger6527 3 роки тому +2

      @@woundedhealerschool wow a reply from a comment so long ago but on a relevant moment! My gaming group is doing a stream for mental health charity right now. check w4stedspace on twitch.

  • @uglyroboticscot6665
    @uglyroboticscot6665 6 років тому +56

    I love your idea I struggle with anxiety and depression which stems from my high functioning autism and i was put aside by the teachers in school because they knew I had problems and sucidal thoughts and nothing was done my whole life untill now I’m now 19 and only been diagnosed with all of this, this year I think it would of helped if I got diagnosed younger

    • @del5360
      @del5360 5 років тому +1

      Live your life better than they do, you'll get some revenge, some day, your brain is extraordinary, just enjoy it (;

    • @lanzfarnazo6484
      @lanzfarnazo6484 4 роки тому

      Are you still stigmatize by society?

    • @gejost
      @gejost 3 роки тому

      Given that you understand what your issues are, what sort of things help you?

  • @canizlupuzcanizlupuz
    @canizlupuzcanizlupuz 6 років тому +12

    These talks are needed.

    • @OswaldDigestiveClinic
      @OswaldDigestiveClinic 2 роки тому

      If you found this video informative, you may also be interested to know that nutrition deficiencies can cause anxiety! For example, low vitamin D. You may not get enough from the sun, so you can go on a sunny vacation, buy a sun lamp, or supplement in the winter with 2000 IU/day! If you choose to supplement, just make sure you check with your dietitian/healthcare provider to make sure it's safe for you!

  • @paulgraham3377
    @paulgraham3377 6 років тому +29

    Having watched Dr Lieberman it has given me more motivation to share my story of my own live experience of schizophrenia, so that this can hopefully reduce the stigma and discrimination around mental health challenges. The more people talk openly the better this will be for the health and well-being of everyone.

  • @ameliaflowers9836
    @ameliaflowers9836 6 років тому +37

    After suffering for years alone with mental illness , I’ve lost compassion and interest for family and friends with physical illness.

    • @katarinamcdougall4983
      @katarinamcdougall4983 4 роки тому +4

      Amelia Flowers I feel the exact same way.

    • @NoName-wc4qr
      @NoName-wc4qr 4 роки тому +3

      that is normal you should be aware of that and make amends with friends and family.

    • @ARod-fr4fd
      @ARod-fr4fd 4 роки тому +2

      No Name Those you mentioned are the first to judge person with mental illness because they are the people know you and belittling you as a person. And imagined people don’t know your illness I’m pretty sure they will treat you as one of them.. Perhaps they are the one to blame that you’re marked by that desease!

    • @b.j.banditt206
      @b.j.banditt206 3 роки тому

      Though it may somewhat "off-topic", PLEASE STOP USING STIGMATIZING TERMS SUCH AS "MENTAL ILLNESS(ES)" & "MENTALLY ILL" BC IT'S VERY SYNONYMOUS W/THE STIGMA THAT U VOW AGAINST!!!!! Instead of "MENTAL ILLNESS(ES)", say "MENTAL DISORDER(S)", "MENTAL (HEALTH) ISSUE(S)/CONDITION(S)", & "MENTALLY DISTURBED". The suggested terms r MUCH LESS STIGMATIZING than the "M.I." terms.

    • @tommybro5313
      @tommybro5313 3 роки тому +2

      @@b.j.banditt206 Please don’t think this way. There’s no right or wrong by latter of those terms. You can only think it as a negative connotation but it is not. Never downgrade medical terms towards colloquialism. The more how we censor these things shows how stigmatizing already.

  • @katoreynolds8526
    @katoreynolds8526 2 роки тому +3

    I really appreciate people speaking out against the stigma of mental illness. As people we should come to understand that mental illnesses are as real and as serious as any physical illness. I really hope that there will be a time where people with mental illnesses have better care available and do not end up homeless and suffering even further. God bless this man!

  • @nurse7love21
    @nurse7love21 6 років тому +22

    I agree...I suffer from mental illness and am doing good in nursing school...hearing about his patient Lauri really touched me...I had been putting off consistent treatment for so long because I was ashamed...but not anymore and I'm going to join in the fight to help others

    • @amandajeanunger81
      @amandajeanunger81 5 років тому +5

      I've lived with my mental illness for several years because I was ashamed too ... But not anymore I've been focusing on my mental health and helping my husband because he's worse off then I am ... And I think more people talking about it the more society will listen so being a spokes person and activism I think is great cause the more of us who do this the louder we will get let's be so loud that people have to listen to us because we won't go away lol won't quit till people with mental illness stop being discriminated in society ... Being told we are dangerous and they are scared when we are not and they shouldn't have to be scared ... Not everyone with mental illnesses are dangerous and may only become dangerous if their problems are not addressed and parts of their lives cannot be improved because people won't let them work or go to school or anything because people say no we have to dismiss you from your position or decline your application because you could possibly become a danger to yourself or others based on mental illness or mental disabilitys
      Id like to see more of people like us to rise up and fight for our right to live in society just like everyone else we deserve to have education to learn skills to change careers and me deserve to be able to work anywhere we choose as long as our job performance is adequate and we have the skills needed to complete the task

    • @Augustus17
      @Augustus17 5 років тому +2

      @@amandajeanunger81 took me absolutely ages to free myself of the shame I felt about my mental health illness I also had a hard time because I'm a bloke I felt I should be stronger & I thought I was weak adding to the shame took a lot of extra self inflicted pain by drinking alcohol a lot before I accepted I needed help I also had to accept I had a mental health illness & I wasn't a weak person because of it

    • @NoName-wc4qr
      @NoName-wc4qr 4 роки тому +1

      That is great success nobody should be stereotyped for a mental illness im glad you are open and doing well..

  • @lisahall1989
    @lisahall1989 3 роки тому +6

    I love you Dr. Lieberman I wish there were more doctors like you in the world. More people with understanding, kindness and a love for people as you have.. I'm a hurting mother of a daughter with mental illness. I feel if she had a chance to meet with you that you could truly help her. The behavioral health system is broken.and people need LOVE not just medicine. God is the essence of Love.

  • @20DeeDee08
    @20DeeDee08 4 роки тому +11

    I couldn't agree more about a mental health professionals, and doctors being caring, and not judgmental. I've had a few who have spoken down to me, and made me feel judged. People will not respond, or open up, if they feel this way with the people who are supposed to be helping them.

    • @gejost
      @gejost 3 роки тому +4

      Yes, all doctors, should be professional, for starters, no matter what health conditions they are treating. . I had a very poor guidance counselor.

  • @candacecastillo2858
    @candacecastillo2858 Рік тому +3

    This was a fantastic presentation and speech. Thank you for bringing awareness to end the stigma of mental illness. The full-circle moment with his patient, Laurie, brought tears to my eyes. Beautifully said Dr. Lieberman!

  • @paulamacintosh8637
    @paulamacintosh8637 5 років тому +29

    It would be a great world.

  • @kavorjosep
    @kavorjosep 3 роки тому +4

    I'm kinda sobbing having watched this thoroughly.

  • @faletoomata8695
    @faletoomata8695 2 роки тому

    That was excellent. Thank you for sharing!

  • @squidneythesquid2487
    @squidneythesquid2487 4 роки тому +8

    I remember this year I didn’t finish an already late project for English(my depression has been terrible), and knowing I’d have to see the teacher first thing in the morning, I tried to give myself a migraine so I could get to school later, and have a “reason” to not be there. I literally gave myself a panic attack, hit my head, strained my eyes, avoided water, so I could hopefully wake up the next morning with a debilitating migraine.

  • @mariya5480
    @mariya5480 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for your message to the world!!!!!!!

  • @Augustus17
    @Augustus17 5 років тому +6

    Thank you for posting this video Doctor! Really appreciate you took the time to do so, I long for the day the stigma is finally gone from mental health problems & everyone suffering gets the help they need including myself! God Bless Doc!

  • @CrazyChaosClara
    @CrazyChaosClara 6 років тому +29

    That letter made me cry of joy... Beautiful. All you need to do is care.. and you might just save someone's life doing so! *sidenote Lieberman literally means nice man in german (lieber Mann) ❤

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 6 років тому +3

      Correct, actually the literal translation, I believe, is Dear Man

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому +5

      Thanks for the kind words and german translation (wasn't sure if it was Nice or Loving man)

    • @origin6163
      @origin6163 4 роки тому

      jawohl!

    • @lisahall1989
      @lisahall1989 3 роки тому +2

      Wow! His name perfectly fits him. Not only knowledge, but bedside manners.

  • @yacouba.hachine6500
    @yacouba.hachine6500 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you dr lieberman for inspiring the next generation of psychiatrist around the globe.

  • @fatimaausama4451
    @fatimaausama4451 3 роки тому +3

    The world is blessed to have people like him and others who do the same, may God bless them

  • @supportivepal
    @supportivepal 4 роки тому

    Thank you for your kind sharing

  • @rhea1620
    @rhea1620 4 роки тому +12

    These are the kind of videos I hit like on before I even start watching them.

    • @neuroconexion2932
      @neuroconexion2932 4 роки тому

      Rhea Do you have any suggestions for me as I make videos on mental health on my channel?

  • @3longatedmuskr4tmusic30
    @3longatedmuskr4tmusic30 3 роки тому +3

    As someone suffering from schizophrenia. I wish there was no stigma. Like the illness wasn't torture enough i know also am seen as not fit for well oiled society

    • @JesusSaves194
      @JesusSaves194 3 роки тому +1

      Jesus can heal you , he healed my brother instantly

  • @DeborahSRocha-fo6ti
    @DeborahSRocha-fo6ti 2 роки тому +1

    What a great message and challenge to each of us to be part of the change so desperately needed! Thank you!!

  • @PatriciaRamonas-cr5lq
    @PatriciaRamonas-cr5lq Рік тому

    Brilliant man with a kind heart. Keep sharing this message.

  • @lairyfights
    @lairyfights 4 роки тому +4

    I've realized that not all doctors are compassionate. When Dr. Lieberman said that what Lori remembered was his compassion for her I felt that. As someone with bipolar i overanalyze people's tone of speech when they talk to me and sometimes I get hurt when my doctor is not so nice to me. It may not be easy to understand or be nice to a mentally ill person acting erratically even if you are a psychiatrist. So I have nothing but respect for doctors who are kind and compassionate to mentally ill people

  • @raisethebridge
    @raisethebridge 2 роки тому +3

    I’ve never felt more understood in my entire life and the fact that the feeling was caused by a Doctor is shocking. Thank you so for this.

  • @vickimainard9566
    @vickimainard9566 6 років тому +8

    There are three words that can make a huge difference to someone with a mental illness. Are you ok? If they are they will either say so and that's end of it. Or you can open up a conversation as to what is troubling them and help them just by listening to them. My brother who has mental illness has told me countless times just listening to him and giving him my time and my ear have really helped him. I would love to see those three words help many more people like my brother.

    • @LustStarrr
      @LustStarrr 5 років тому +1

      A different conversation-starter, something that's phrased as an open question, & is asked with genuine compassion & curiosity, will be far more effective.
      'Are you OK?', by comparison, is pretty easy to brush off ('yes'), terrifying to admit to ('no'), & fails to steer the conversation towards things like why they're feeling that way, what help may be available to them, what they've tried in the past, etc.

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому

      YOU GOT IT 👍

  • @AlexanderZelaya
    @AlexanderZelaya 5 років тому +43

    Let's eliminate the stigmas, and let's talk about mental health!

  • @fabiolas.c.6129
    @fabiolas.c.6129 2 роки тому +1

    Yesterday was the first anniversary of my mental collapse, the one that took me to the psychiatric doc and meds. I tried not to think about it yesterday, but now, watching this, it deeply resonated. Much needed tears. The never ending struggling. Sometimes towards certain death, sometimes towards safety.

  • @jasminmarie7521
    @jasminmarie7521 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir !

  • @georgej7141
    @georgej7141 Рік тому

    This is by far the most important n interesting talk I've had the chance to hear. A subject which is commonly swept under the carpet in daily life in many families with frivolous commnents.

  • @pastapete9095
    @pastapete9095 2 роки тому +5

    The stigma discredits the patient allowing for easier exploitation. Families can often use the stigma against a family member for opportunity to win in petty disagreements. The stigma will be enforced by those who exploit it's various leverage points.

  • @lacyreeves8304
    @lacyreeves8304 6 років тому +13

    You articulate how it "should be" so perfectly; as I listened I thought how I hope you have the audience of those who can impact change to the point of creating such programs. In the mean time those of us who agree, need to step forward boldly to eliminate the stigma; by speaking up and by our actions. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому +1

      I have an audience but unfortunately it's not large enough nor includes those in positions of power i.e. the government and media

  • @taylorluvshorses16
    @taylorluvshorses16 6 років тому +29

    Fantastic speech, Dr. Lieberman! The email Lori sent you brought a tear to my eye. I’m hoping to make as much of a difference in the lives of my clients as you once I finish graduate school and enter the field. :)

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому +4

      Thx and good luck with your studies and career in mental health care

  • @harpersangels4443
    @harpersangels4443 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you!!!!!!! 💜💜💫

  • @docpaulchung6217
    @docpaulchung6217 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you Dr Lieberman! Great stories and examples that show the uphill battle we fight in mental health related to stigma.

    • @bhatkat
      @bhatkat 8 місяців тому

      The uphill aspect sure nails it, progress being on about the same order as with Sisyphus with that stone getting pushed back down all the time.

  • @fotissfetas8332
    @fotissfetas8332 3 роки тому +2

    Incredibly inspiring ❤️

  • @faithworks4633
    @faithworks4633 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this 🙏 you are my hero!! This should be a manditory class/presentation for all medical/mental health/ drug and alcohol/ authortive figures of any kind!!! I wish u could be my Dr. 🙏😢

  • @breindyhoch528
    @breindyhoch528 2 роки тому

    Excellent and much needed video.

  • @mridusharma8311
    @mridusharma8311 5 років тому +9

    Every person needs to watch this. So so helpful. Thank you so much, Sir! Speaking about an issue that most people only believe in hushing away. Can't agree more that compassion can genuinely make this world a much happier place. Let's keep talking about and break this stigma!

  • @rethikar6191
    @rethikar6191 3 роки тому

    Thank you Dr Jeffrey for your views on mental illness

  • @oliviafield9392
    @oliviafield9392 2 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @therealdaniellebrant
    @therealdaniellebrant 6 років тому +17

    Im going to be vocal about speaking of the fact i survived my MI experiences and stop hiding my experience as a survivor of CPTSD and all it entails. thank you

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому

      No, THANK YOU

    • @CPositivista
      @CPositivista 4 роки тому

      @Danielle Brent, as soon as I started speaking about my experience with PTSD and depression I found that others around me started talking about their experiences too.

  • @rach3092
    @rach3092 3 роки тому +3

    This is probably one of the most important TEDTalks thank you Dr. Jeff!

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman Рік тому +1

      thank you please share with others and my new book Malady of the Mind

  • @katiebaez855
    @katiebaez855 8 місяців тому +1

    This is life changing awareness!

  • @GrandMasterBruh
    @GrandMasterBruh 2 роки тому +2

    Stuff like schizophrenia and people in their 30’s with dementia really remind me how lucky we all are. It genuinely really is just a roll of the die, and that’s incredibly scary.

  • @brittloynaz516
    @brittloynaz516 2 роки тому

    What an amazing talk.

  • @adamnewton9302
    @adamnewton9302 6 років тому +24

    This was brilliant. Great content with a good balance of psychiatric knowledge, historical context, and personal experience. Very memorable.

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому +2

      Thx, will try to do another if TED will have me

    • @lisahall1989
      @lisahall1989 4 роки тому

      Amen

    • @OswaldDigestiveClinic
      @OswaldDigestiveClinic 2 роки тому

      If you liked this video, you may also want to know that Vitamin B12 deficiency can cause depression, but nutrition can help! Good food sources of vitamin B12 include: animal products, and vegan/vegetarian sources. Liver is a great animal source, which you can sautee with onions, or put on skewers, roast over an open fire, and add salt and pepper! Good vegan sources include nutritional yeast and mushrooms!

  • @arieltai23
    @arieltai23 5 років тому +3

    I am so on board with you Dr. Leiberman!

  • @alkasoli4002
    @alkasoli4002 2 роки тому

    Stigma is heart -wrenching

  • @woundedhealerschool
    @woundedhealerschool 3 роки тому +3

    Shunned, ridiculed, feared, treated like a pariah...I feel like that has happened to me my whole life. I wish these changes would happen, but I doubt they will in my lifetime. People don't care about the mentally ill, generally speaking. It's beyond sad.

  • @goldmeteora5617
    @goldmeteora5617 7 років тому +5

    Wonderful presentation.

  • @ExploreEmbraceExpress
    @ExploreEmbraceExpress 3 роки тому +1

    I am doing an interview tonight with someone who asked me to talk about depression and anxiety- one thing I would like to say, although I think this talk is absolutely fabulous, is I think we should be maybe choosing words that are more empowering when it comes to our health in general- like rather than say “suffering from” how about “experiencing”-- such as the difference between “I’m suffering from depression and anxiety” and “I am experiencing depression and anxiety”- -I just feel like one makes you feel like a victim, and the other and makes you feel a bit more empowered -just my two cents, but thank you so much for your time in this absolutely fabulous talk on such a serious issue. Sincerely someone who experiences depression and anxiety.

  • @hasanalyafei6864
    @hasanalyafei6864 4 роки тому +15

    I don’t care about stigma, I care about my suffering

  • @lukewilliams7061
    @lukewilliams7061 5 років тому +14

    It’s not really hard to understand. It’s just that the world is selfish because people that are not mentally ill are too driven to life and are oblivious to the fact that not everyone thinks that way. The stigma exist because you can’t see the illness. It’s not physical so therefore, no one will take that illness seriously. They only take it serious when someone takes their life. It leaves people bewildered as to why this person killed themselves and left their loved ones in pain but it’s simple, it’s because everyone needs to be more aware of what’s actually going on with the world which is dark reality. Humans are selfish in nature. Society just needs to be more understanding otherwise suicide is just going to keep on happening so it’s society that’s the problem and how the world works. It’s not rocket science.

  • @debrajenkins1622
    @debrajenkins1622 3 роки тому +2

    Not just stigma. People get angry at me if I'm high and or low. They go out of their way to yell at me. Only very rarely have some treated me with compassion.

  • @cynthiahawkins2389
    @cynthiahawkins2389 6 років тому +2

    I returned to college, wth great pride and fervent dedication, right after WTC 9/11/2001. I was 54 years old. I attended Columbia University School of General Studies, matriculating and majoring in English and Comp Lit. Won every major scholarship, within belching distance, maintained a 3.6 for quite some time. Eventually, the stresses of working outside, and school took a toll on me, and I began to suffer from serious depression. What I remember distinctly, was that all mental health counseling service were closed/unavailable to me. I was 'ineligible"due to my status as a part-time student. After many hours of evaluation, meetings and professional interviews which would have set a treatment plan in place and probably allowed me to remain at SGS - I was told, "We are sorry you misunderstood the program..". I dropped out of school. It is 2018 as I write - Columbia may or may not still do this to SGS students, or others, but at $1,000+ a credit when I was there in the early 2000's, the Ivy League grew way... short of the mark.

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому

      Unfortunately this is often the case. Schools and Universities are ambivalent about taking on this responsibility,

  • @capresti3537
    @capresti3537 Рік тому +3

    Every single psychiatric label stigmatizes the person being labeled and as long as we continue to use psychiatric labels (contained within the DSM) to describe behaviors, psychiatry will continue to profit while the public suffers. No psychiatric label, no billing insurance. No psychiatric label, no drug prescribed. So until we stop using these psychiatric labels, which mean nothing other than what some psychiatrists decided was a mental “illness,” we will never stop the “stigma.” The psychiatric labels are backed by corporate interests not medicine, and not science.

  • @SuperGorak
    @SuperGorak 5 років тому +5

    yeah, tell the majority of people. I am being kicked out of my shared apartment because my roommates have difficulty connecting to me due to my anxiety and depression. It's that easy to dismiss a person with problems and just so justified in the minds of other people. And I don't blame em. If they want to live with someone who they can connect to better, then that's their right. I think it's important to understand that for this scenario there is no one-dimensional solution. You gotta see it from the third person's perspective. Which in itself is a really important skill

  • @manalabushadi8050
    @manalabushadi8050 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much ❄️

    • @OswaldDigestiveClinic
      @OswaldDigestiveClinic 2 роки тому

      If you found this helpful, you may also want to know that Vitamin B12 deficiency can cause depression. Also, a person may eat lots of animal products (which contain B12), and still may not be adequately absorbing B12. Reasons for this malabsorption can include: history of having part of the intestine removed, having Crohn’s disease and associated intestinal inflammation, bacterial or yeast overgrowth, low stomach acid, taking meds that suppress stomach acid, and genetic predisposition!

  • @w3n33dam1racl3
    @w3n33dam1racl3 5 років тому +1

    What makes it hard for people to seek help are those social workers, therapists, psychologists who are doing it for the money. In the foster care system, Foster caregivers are guilty of this as well. But he hit the nail on the head when he said it was the fact he cared and was passionate about her overcoming. If people were more caring and showed active, unconditional support, the world would be healed.

  • @joywilliams4014
    @joywilliams4014 4 роки тому +3

    This gives me hope. Maybe one day they will have facilities for mental health like they do for addiction.

  • @memorabiliaexpert
    @memorabiliaexpert 3 роки тому

    Thanks

  • @jakehenderson746
    @jakehenderson746 3 роки тому

    This was so helpful I highly recommend!

    • @OswaldDigestiveClinic
      @OswaldDigestiveClinic 2 роки тому +1

      If you found this video helpful, you may also be interested to know that nutrition is an important factor when it comes to anxiety! Several nutrients that can result in anxiety if you're deficient include: magnesium, vitamin D, and vitamin B6!

  • @Clocloo0123
    @Clocloo0123 3 роки тому

    i used to hide away my mental asd ( autisum spectum disorder ) and many did never understand and i hid my mental state for 3 years but after i opened up and i talked to my whole class about my asd now i feel better i told pepole about my true self

  • @susanritchey1849
    @susanritchey1849 3 роки тому +1

    I'm right there with you. I'm a mental health consumer & worked in the field. Sad to say..most working in the residential facilities have no real clue about mental illness. I attempt to advocate for individuals with mental illness. My own family hasn't even become educated about it. I had to move to another State to be where people accepted me for who I was and loved me. Thanks for helping to reduce the stigma associated with mental illness.

  • @reeju9125
    @reeju9125 2 роки тому

    I wish our society could understand this. When people with mental illness function & give it all to perform, there is a different stigma. A feeling of others looking down on one. I've seen people treat one worst on account that one doesn't fit their idea of who, or what one should look like, sound like etc.. Especially if cultural differences add to the a perception. Leading a person not simply functioning , but over performing with a burden to be perfect.
    End results are that one suffers abuse in social, family, or work enviornments. People treat you badly, once they've realized one has a diagnosis can be an opportunity to behave unprofessional ways.
    I wish the society and work places understood the pain that people with mental illness go through after functioning well and being told otherwise.
    Thanks Dr. Lieberman for continuing to teach others that illness is not just physical.

  • @priyamandal3721
    @priyamandal3721 2 роки тому +1

    Two things that I will practice from today 1.Showing Compassion 2.Not Judging People.

  • @peacefulmind2612
    @peacefulmind2612 3 роки тому +2

    Let's break the stigma 🙏🏻...happy world mental health month❤

  • @muffyw5114
    @muffyw5114 8 років тому +3

    awesome Jeff!!

  • @neuroanatomy
    @neuroanatomy 6 років тому +4

    I hope we can end the stigma against mental illness, psychiatrists, and psychologists.

  • @carnystrickland7367
    @carnystrickland7367 3 роки тому +6

    Nothing makes me more upset in this world than the anti psychiatrist movement. I have moderate to severe bipolar disorder and severe anxiety that has ruined many things and relationships with people . The fact people don’t believe mental illness is real makes me upset because without this field I wouldn’t be here. Let’s break the stigma.

    • @JesusSaves194
      @JesusSaves194 3 роки тому

      Jesus Christ can heal you

    • @carnystrickland7367
      @carnystrickland7367 3 роки тому +2

      @@JesusSaves194 yeah no I’ve been praying for years never got better until I took action for myself and went to see the best psychiatrist. do you not believe in psychiatry. God or whatever is out there only helps if you take it upon yourself to get better with god help and seek treatment or whatever you need to help improve your life . My grandpa and father are pastors and have praying for me my entire life . I’m been the happiest I’ve ever been from leaving religion.

  • @alitpb
    @alitpb 5 років тому

    Tedx ..pls hold a talk on conversion disorder / FND and what the family and friends of the patients can do to support the patients....

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 7 місяців тому +1

    People can be really cruel and predatory toward people with mental illness.

  • @KendrasLaw
    @KendrasLaw 8 років тому +27

    Excellent speech. Especially like the part where you note that Gay AIDS victims ended ostracization/stigma by forcing government to engage in research that led to treatment. That is a better approach than that taken by the mental health industry and advocates, which is to seek government grants for their own organizations to run public service announcements teaching the public that there is stigma to mental illness. Thanks for speech

    • @kaylacorcoran1533
      @kaylacorcoran1533 8 років тому

      DJ, thought you didn't believe early treatment/detection was possible yet. Also thought you didn't find stigma to be a huge problem. A few things that stick out off the top of my head, seeing as you seem to typically describe them as a distraction at best. Along those lines, always thought you thought getting people on meds, and in therapy should take place before researching cause. It seems most ban together when it comes to outing antipsychiatry, even if they say stigma isn't a big problem. Even though, most of us advocate for compassion, which is why we reject the mental health system. Even if they advocate for things they normally claim is a waste. Even if we're the ones trying to prevent the inevitable stigma of being thought of as mentally ill, for life. Possibly violent, forced on medication, and locked up.

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому

      Thanks DJ, coming from you this is HIGH PRAISE indeed !!

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman Рік тому

      DJ we miss you. may you RIP

  • @derekkitchen9982
    @derekkitchen9982 6 років тому +9

    My name is Derek Steele I just turned 46 years old I have had to take psych meds starting at age 7 I've tried shock treatment and a lot of praying and I've been on over 280 psych meds that work at times but don't at others I'm a rapid cycler so my chemistry changes too fast just was wondering if anyone else has this problem thank you and God bless Derek

  • @Snenors4pres
    @Snenors4pres 4 роки тому +4

    There are so many people affected with these disorders we ought to be humble and recognize the probability of having a mental disorder ourselves.

  • @capresti3537
    @capresti3537 9 місяців тому +3

    The stigma? The stigma begins with the psychiatrists themselves. They're the ones who do the stigmatizing.

  • @angelusa73
    @angelusa73 Рік тому +1

    Unfortunately we don't feel free to open up with others and in this world humans are closing instead of opening up and trusting one another more. We humans are not paying attention and show compassion as a way to care for another person. The world would be and CAN BE a better place if each one of us would listen more and share and CARE for one another. It can be in a smaller and simpler way and it can make a BIG difference. Try it and knowing it help someone to feel better will make you feel amazing inside! :)

  • @theduckking5720
    @theduckking5720 2 роки тому +1

    As someone with mental illness it upsets me that people can deny facts makes me upset

  • @asdfghj123m
    @asdfghj123m 5 років тому +3

    its hard to find a doctor who truly care.

    • @jeffreylieberman
      @jeffreylieberman 5 років тому

      I KNOW IT'S HARDER TO FIND A GOOD PSYCHIATRIST BUT THEY ARE OUT THERE

    • @davidcole269
      @davidcole269 4 роки тому

      @@jeffreylieberman I agree with him on that. It is quite hard to find one. There are good doctors out there but it's really hard to find one when it comes to mental illness.
      Most of them are just busy doing their jobs. They have little care and patience for their patients. And that, among many other things, is one of the sad things about mental illness. The people who claim to know about it can't seem to extend the arm of understanding and care and we expect people who know little or nothing about mental health to do better.

  • @scarahjolielaide
    @scarahjolielaide 7 років тому +3

    Other than the fact he said BPD affects "young people" (it doesn't just affect young people) good talk...

  • @Mad_S
    @Mad_S 5 років тому +1

    A step in the right direction to be sure. But you also have to make it known, because I'd be willing to bet that I was not the only child in the world that didn't know it was mental illness. Its pretty hard to come forward when your first fear is being labeled as fake because you don't even know if it is forsure.