I'm so pleased the lady with the short hair didn't mention the other ladies face. But they were so comfortable with each other it didn't seem to matter at all. IT was so refreshing to see that superficial things didn't matter. The lady with The short hair was so open and candid, her smile 😃 was so sincere it lit up her eyes and makes her beautiful.
Personally I would have mentioned it. I would have asked her what happened and how it's affected her life because obviously it has. People think that ignoring things like this is always the best approach or is always the right thing to do but it isn't, because often times it means ignoring a part of someone that might be a very important part of their life.
I couldn't do that because I find it hard to look at people, I don't know why and it's something I really need to work on in my life, it makes me feel incredibly awkward like I'm standing there stark bollock naked, I wish I knew why...
I know uou guys say that stuff to be nice and all. But its kinda empty. Because even if you say you would. There is almost no chance you would date her
I find her beautiful too, why wouldn't we date her? Do you think we're lying to make ourselves feel better? Because I am really not. I am disabled myself, in a wheelchair, and I really hope that when people (at least some of them) think that about me, or say that to me, they actually mean it :)
Wow. This is amazing. I take public transportation almost everyday, and I pass by so many people. Sometimes faces that I recognize, but mostly completely strangers, and I always like looking at people and imagine what they’re like, where they’re from, where they’re going and such. There’s such a lack of human interaction in our time, and it upsets me a lot.
Baekhyun’s mullet me too! I used to lean against the wall at a subway and just watch the people pass by and imagine with each one an entire universe of knowledge, information and stories disappearing
Very inspiring 🙂 Living with a physical defect is the hardest thing. Some days I get on with it and some days I struggle, seeing this gives me some confidence.
I would've asked about the face because I sincerely care to understand the struggles of others and give them the support they need. I truly don't like avoiding sensitive topics as if they are taboos, I would rather face them head on and break that formal fake barrier, I mean, we're staring at each other's eyes already. It's Ok to have a noticably deformed face, but it's not healthy to pretend we did not see a clearly visible deformation. Rather, we better tell the other person that we see it, but it's perfectly fine to have it, it's not something weird, it's just unique, you're one of us, we love you however you look, because at the end of the day, what truly matters is YOU, never the shape of you! ❤
I was thinking the exact same thing! People think that ignoring or acting like you don't notice deformities (though personally I don't like this word) or disabilities is always the right thing to do but it isn't always so. People don't realise that just by being comfortable enough to bring it up and genuinely want to learn about it shows that you care but that your care is for the right reasons. I would have brought it up as well.
What you're missing is the fact that these people know and are hyperaware that they have this deformity. And they know you're aware of it when you look at them too. They've had to talk about it and let it define them to other people 100x over, they want to be seen past that, in the same way we tell people not to judge women on their beauty, people want to be seen as more than the things they can't help or change, but for their achievements and qualities. Nobody wants you to enlighten them of something they've been aware of all their lives, as if you're pointing out something unknown to them. Nobody is pretending they didn't see the deformity, they are simply being respectful enough to not delve into someone's privacy and force them to talk about something that perhaps is a sensitive topic to them. Likewise those with deformities are 100% aware that everyone notices it, it's impossible not to, but the gratification comes when they're aware that someone has seen past it.
I wouldn't ask them with the intention of enlightening them on anything though, I'd ask to be able to understand how their lives have been shaped by their deformity, because I'm genuinely curious and I personally believe it is helpful to understand these aspects of other people's lives. If they're uncomfortable talking about it I'd understand, but my experience has been that people with disabilities/ deformities/mental illness or anything like this actually want to talk about these things because of the need to spread awareness and understanding, but they want to have meaningful and informative conversations, so it depends on how you talk about it. I get the point you're making but I feel differently. I don't think there's a right or wrong approach necessarily.
Maybe so, but that's part of why I'd ask. To know how she honestly feels about it. I can't know that unless I ask. If it's the case I could easily apologise and I'm sure she'd understand.
The girl with the long hair and I we know each other really well. We know us since my childhood and sometimes we spend some time together. Her instagram is @obviouslyellie 😉
Wow i would love to so something like this here in Germany. It was amazing to see two people so comfortable in such a situation and it's right smiling makes everyone double that beautiful than before. I'm feeling a little bit guilty to be a smombey after seeing this... On my phone...
That might come across a bit negative though. Because that pretty much validates that all we do these days is look at people and wonder "ew wth happened to you?" But I also kinda get your point though.
Jason 'Ryback' Hemingway we are definitely too interested in superficial, trivial nonsense to sit two people down in chairs for three minutes of staring at someone else, especially at someone with a physical ailment/defect, whatever to not have the first question be, "WTF is wrong with your face?" I'm not saying people in the UK aren't above all that, but in our culture right now, it's all labels: gender/sex/identity/race and playing the victim card.
The Man From Krypton do it then. Test your theory. Go downtown, set up two chairs with a sign explaining how it works and see what happens. Don't just write people off because you're frustrated with the political climate.
ga kailyn that's the exact reason I know it probably wouldn't work today. In the 90s, or even the 00s - 2011 possibly, but today, nope. Someone would argue they were misgendered or someone did use the other person's made up pronouns, or privilege or race comes into it...no thanks.
Honestly my first question to the long haired woman would be where did u get ur coat, and to the woman with the short hair where'd you get ur hair done at
i wish i had the opportunity to do something like this. i have a hard time making eye contact with people, i always have. it’s something that i’ve been trying to work on.
That short haired woman was almost certainly pretending she didn't wonder what happened to the other one's face. She was just trying to convince herself that she didn't notice. It's become a crime to actually wonder about uncomfortable things. If you ask at least you can get it "out of the way" and move onto other things easier.
Roflmao she did Not realize her face was really like that she thought she had a thinking hard face on😂😂😂 good forgive me that was my first thought also
They both have such a cute style
I'm so pleased the lady with the short hair didn't mention the other ladies face. But they were so comfortable with each other it didn't seem to matter at all. IT was so refreshing to see that superficial things didn't matter.
The lady with The short hair was so open and candid, her smile 😃 was so sincere it lit up her eyes and makes her beautiful.
Georgia J UNFORTUNATELY THE REAL WORLD ISN'T LIKE THAT.
Personally I would have mentioned it. I would have asked her what happened and how it's affected her life because obviously it has. People think that ignoring things like this is always the best approach or is always the right thing to do but it isn't, because often times it means ignoring a part of someone that might be a very important part of their life.
Wesley O. People are naturally curious
Well maybe she is sick of constantly explaining what happened to her face. So maybe it was nice to finally talk about something else.
Georgia J I was hoping she would ask about her face. Like that’s the true reality of the situation
The redhead has the cutest smile
jaimeeashley I love her.
I couldn't do that because I find it hard to look at people, I don't know why and it's something I really need to work on in my life, it makes me feel incredibly awkward like I'm standing there stark bollock naked, I wish I knew why...
Sue F I feel exactly the same!
I do to.. because I'm shy and suffer from low self-esteem
I totally agree. My first thought after watching these videos was I could never do that. Five minutes is a LONG time to stare into someone’s eyes. 👀
Jason 'Ryback' Hemingway if everyone is "special" then no one is.
i to suffer from self-esteem issue, and i can't look at anyone in the eyes for more than 2 or 3 seconds, not even my best friend so you're not alone
They were both absolutely precious. The women with the short hair seemed so full of light honestly made me tear up just watching her smile
Awwww they are both so beautiful
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Beautiful moment between the lovely ladies
Gurl ur every where
the girl in the long coat is genuinely so pretty
ik, she’s beautiful!!
i was thinking the same thing. :)
Zee Kmz right she just has a deformity it doesn't make her ugly
I know uou guys say that stuff to be nice and all. But its kinda empty. Because even if you say you would. There is almost no chance you would date her
I find her beautiful too, why wouldn't we date her? Do you think we're lying to make ourselves feel better? Because I am really not. I am disabled myself, in a wheelchair, and I really hope that when people (at least some of them) think that about me, or say that to me, they actually mean it :)
Wow. This is amazing. I take public transportation almost everyday, and I pass by so many people. Sometimes faces that I recognize, but mostly completely strangers, and I always like looking at people and imagine what they’re like, where they’re from, where they’re going and such. There’s such a lack of human interaction in our time, and it upsets me a lot.
Baekhyun’s mullet me too! I used to lean against the wall at a subway and just watch the people pass by and imagine with each one an entire universe of knowledge, information and stories disappearing
Very inspiring 🙂
Living with a physical defect is the hardest thing. Some days I get on with it and some days I struggle, seeing this gives me some confidence.
Shane 0 Strate That's very brave, stay strong.
Their both sooo beautiful. I love this series.
nah
I would've asked about the face because I sincerely care to understand the struggles of others and give them the support they need.
I truly don't like avoiding sensitive topics as if they are taboos, I would rather face them head on and break that formal fake barrier, I mean, we're staring at each other's eyes already.
It's Ok to have a noticably deformed face, but it's not healthy to pretend we did not see a clearly visible deformation. Rather, we better tell the other person that we see it, but it's perfectly fine to have it, it's not something weird, it's just unique, you're one of us, we love you however you look, because at the end of the day, what truly matters is YOU, never the shape of you! ❤
I was thinking the exact same thing! People think that ignoring or acting like you don't notice deformities (though personally I don't like this word) or disabilities is always the right thing to do but it isn't always so. People don't realise that just by being comfortable enough to bring it up and genuinely want to learn about it shows that you care but that your care is for the right reasons. I would have brought it up as well.
What you're missing is the fact that these people know and are hyperaware that they have this deformity. And they know you're aware of it when you look at them too. They've had to talk about it and let it define them to other people 100x over, they want to be seen past that, in the same way we tell people not to judge women on their beauty, people want to be seen as more than the things they can't help or change, but for their achievements and qualities. Nobody wants you to enlighten them of something they've been aware of all their lives, as if you're pointing out something unknown to them.
Nobody is pretending they didn't see the deformity, they are simply being respectful enough to not delve into someone's privacy and force them to talk about something that perhaps is a sensitive topic to them. Likewise those with deformities are 100% aware that everyone notices it, it's impossible not to, but the gratification comes when they're aware that someone has seen past it.
I wouldn't ask them with the intention of enlightening them on anything though, I'd ask to be able to understand how their lives have been shaped by their deformity, because I'm genuinely curious and I personally believe it is helpful to understand these aspects of other people's lives. If they're uncomfortable talking about it I'd understand, but my experience has been that people with disabilities/ deformities/mental illness or anything like this actually want to talk about these things because of the need to spread awareness and understanding, but they want to have meaningful and informative conversations, so it depends on how you talk about it. I get the point you're making but I feel differently. I don't think there's a right or wrong approach necessarily.
Have you ever thought that she might be sick of CONSTANTLY talking about it and having to explain herself?
Maybe so, but that's part of why I'd ask. To know how she honestly feels about it. I can't know that unless I ask. If it's the case I could easily apologise and I'm sure she'd understand.
I want to be their friends!! I love that they are always smiling and have such a positive energy 😍👌🏼
The girl with the long hair and I we know each other really well. We know us since my childhood and sometimes we spend some time together. Her instagram is @obviouslyellie 😉
Wow i would love to so something like this here in Germany. It was amazing to see two people so comfortable in such a situation and it's right smiling makes everyone double that beautiful than before. I'm feeling a little bit guilty to be a smombey after seeing this... On my phone...
the more I looked at them both the more I want to meet them at a coffee shop at 6:30 A.M. and have a coffee and a really amazing conversation
they are both such beautiful beings :)
people like them make me happy
So funny. While I waited I felt my first question would have been what were you thinking as well. I loved the encounter. Seemed so genuine. Thumbs up.
The lady with long hair has beautiful handwriting. @ 3.03
That was beautiful. I needed to see that, thanks.
I would ask “what’s your story”
That might come across a bit negative though. Because that pretty much validates that all we do these days is look at people and wonder "ew wth happened to you?" But I also kinda get your point though.
The girl wearing a purple jacket looks like a star she's a beauty
this is why i love BBC Three
At 2:20 she laughs like she just heard a good joke.
Love this series!
This is adorable, I smiled the entire time
Those two are so freaking pretty
bless her so brave
Wheres the other 13seconds
Alisha Sully
🕛They had to catch the train. 🚂💨
That was beautiful
I highly doubt this would work in the states.
Jason 'Ryback' Hemingway we are definitely too interested in superficial, trivial nonsense to sit two people down in chairs for three minutes of staring at someone else, especially at someone with a physical ailment/defect, whatever to not have the first question be, "WTF is wrong with your face?"
I'm not saying people in the UK aren't above all that, but in our culture right now, it's all labels: gender/sex/identity/race and playing the victim card.
The Man From Krypton do it then. Test your theory. Go downtown, set up two chairs with a sign explaining how it works and see what happens. Don't just write people off because you're frustrated with the political climate.
ga kailyn that's the exact reason I know it probably wouldn't work today. In the 90s, or even the 00s - 2011 possibly, but today, nope.
Someone would argue they were misgendered or someone did use the other person's made up pronouns, or privilege or race comes into it...no thanks.
ga kailyn how about you do it, since you seem to think it will work?
@@SciFiFan2012 No thats only some people who bring it up xdd
Their smiles are amazing
I want to be friends with them they seem so chill
Honestly my first question to the long haired woman would be where did u get ur coat, and to the woman with the short hair where'd you get ur hair done at
i wish i had the opportunity to do something like this. i have a hard
time making eye contact with people,
i always have. it’s something that i’ve been trying to work on.
LOVE & ACCEPTANCE...that's all that really matters x
That was so wholesome.
their all so beautiful!
Amazing.
Oh my gosh Liz is so infectious
They are so nice and bot are so beautiful inside and out 🌸❤️🌸
Dijkstra Kruskal dude, they look nice. Don’t be like that. It’s very unnecessary.
the person in a purple jacket has such a cute and bubbly personality
is this a staring contest??
JogBird eye contact is normal when you talk to someone.. technology has changed us to where eye contact feels weird
The second voice sounds so similar to Sophie Turner from GoT
Aww I’m in love with this! Needed this so badly in my life ♥️❤️🌈🌈
I'd love to do this
Made me smile.
Ellie you're wonderful! ❤️
This was fantastic 💥😍💜😍
Omg Liz is sooo pretty
what if that myth about if u make eye contact with someone for 4 minutes you fall in love is true
I hope all of you are having a wonderful day and if it’s getting tough, just know tomorrow is brand new. Make what you will of it. ♥️
I see myself hanging out with these two ladies ...... yup I would.
The girl with the obvious facial issue is really beautiful. Even with the issue, still beautiful.
Honestly
Very powerful!
I love this❤️❤️❤️
That short haired woman was almost certainly pretending she didn't wonder what happened to the other one's face. She was just trying to convince herself that she didn't notice. It's become a crime to actually wonder about uncomfortable things. If you ask at least you can get it "out of the way" and move onto other things easier.
The girl in the blazer is really intelligent
They are so lush. I want to bump into them and grab a drink with them. Look like people I’d like as friends.
That's beautiful ❤❤❤
I’d like to take part....
Very...eccentric people.
How can people make this sort of eye contact lol I suck at it, feels so awkward to make more than like 5 whole seconds of eye contact
There wearing the same shoes
What happened to Ellie's face?
Liz is super cheery and bright. Shes a beam of light
both beautiful girlies xx
Roflmao she did Not realize her face was really like that she thought she had a thinking hard face on😂😂😂 good forgive me that was my first thought also
she looks exactly like sofia richie
Do you hear laurel or yanny?
Where did the short haired one get her coat though
Ellie is German 😳 I saw her in a German TV show
I wanna do a photoshoot with both of these ladies at the models pretty please
In front of people like what
0:48 ربعنا 😂😂
R قاعدة أدور على كومينت زي كذا 😂😂😂
صحح😂😂😂
? I thought The first long hair girl was just thinking very strongly
That was awkward
The girl with the long hair had her feet tucked in under her
The girl with the long hair has heterochromia. One eye is brown and the other blueish.
Bystanders in their skinny jeans, with their tiny little legs
The girl on the right is so beautiful!
Sayeedah R they’re both so beautiful:)
That orange haired girl looked like an elf hobbit hybrid
Malik McCullom then what does that make you. Something digustingly inhuman surely.
this made me laugh so hard
That's cruel. You can't say that about someone
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I'd ask the long hair girl how long she's been growing her hair.
Like life isn't already complicated enough, so lets make it more complicated.
Vlaja how?
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This is so generically contrived it’s difficult to take seriously.
Y pick disabled people
The girl with the brown hair looks like the chick off 10 things i hate about you
She looked like when u go on reshape on facetune and just pull down one side of your face.
This is cringe
1st
What is most prescsssshhhious to you?
When you choose the wrong size while using the smudge paint.
Star Light Very
Star Light Sure thing boss
Can we get normal people to do it now
Ahmed Hassan well, they are normal...
Ewwww I feel sick