:):):) a great man and you can see he is doing a fine job in bringing up his children I hope all goes well for all of them in their future lives...good job dad! :)
I always say ,never say died,hardworks still can overcome everything in life n nothing to be ashame off,failure or setback will make u become more better,best of luck in yr endeavour.
you are their superhero. Very inspiring. Agreed, once they are teenager, likely they will spend lesser time with us. Their childhoods are important. I must make sure I am in their childhood memories. Gambateh. Great things to your family
Dude, bring your kids to the library, or the beach. Bring them to a concert, or a park, or even a combo of the two : a free concert within a park, for e.g. those concerts at the Botanic Gardens. Bring them to these places where their childhood will be filled with enriching experiences. Please don’t bring them to the Arcade, which does nothing for the mind, and is really a waste of time and money. These kids are smart. Notice that they were not exactly thrilled at being told by you that they were going to the Arcade.
Give him some time. I am sure he think Arcade was his past time that he forgot about other activities. Can't blame him. It definitely tiring being a single father plus being in debt. Another thing to note is exposing his children,i wonder what will the outcome be knowing his children will be make fun of having a single parents or a father with debt. Hope this father muster his courage to keep working hard while spending time understanding his own children needs.
Free movie nights at botanics too. There are alot more fun and free places to experience and explore. The huge playgrounds, gardenby the bay, freeeeee and pretty, Build their strength and immunity outdoor. Free and really good.
Hi all thanks for the encouragement. My wife is around just that she doesn't wanna be on screen that's all. She has been thru the toughness and sweetness together with me in life. ☺️ So no need worry let's all do our best in life to give our next generation. Cheers.
When I was in my very early 20's, I tutored labs, and a lady almost 50 was one of the students. She wanted to study in that specific field, even though later in life but age is only a number.
Wow, he actually took accountability and working multiple jobs to pay off his debt and take care of his kids. If this was the US why do I have a feeling the person wouldve been crying victim and asking the government for a free check? I hope this guy makes it big and his family enjoys his sacrifice and learn his hard working foundation as his kids will have a better chance in the future.
Can't imagine what it's like to be in debt close to SGD100,000 today. He's got his priorities in life right though. Raising his kids in an allrounded healthy home environment as evidenced from his children's demeanor. That, cannot be faked out in the video. The plus points going for him: • he's still relatively young. • got never-say-die attitude. • willing to Grab; no problem. • got additional side income. • got great understanding wife. • debts nearly cleared; very important. • got HDB asset. • got helpful SG Government financial assistance in children's education, utilities, GST vouchers, transport, etc. Every bit of financial assistance helps.
Human desires are the root cause of frustrations and bondages. The more human desires one has, the more stressed out he will experience. But wise, we want so many, but we only need so few. Happiness is knowing what is the most important things in life : Peace. But what is peace? Very few people really know. Most people have never experience real peace in their entire life. The things that most people think will give them happiness; money, family, career and possessions. All the superficial things in life. Grow up, be wise. Life is deeper than this. Don’t take more than you can chew. We want so many, but we only need so few. Life is short, travel light,
There’re a lot of free entertainment/venue Singaporeans can enjoy/visit for free. Don’t need to spend. Financial aid, free textbooks/education for the kids etc too
How much can he earn as a Grab-driver a month? There is no stability in his salary. No basis/OT Salary,no Annual,Childcare,Medical Leave, etc. Might as well be a cleaner. Can earn more
Where is the mother? Or has she abandoned her whole family because the dad is in debt now. This is a real legend of a father. Singapore should do more to support harsh life families like this. Create more opportunities for the children to thrive
Looking at the other angle -> at "prime career age" where new citizen doesn't need to serve the army or Reservist [I think it goes against the enlistment act] and taking away good paying jobs from equivalent locals? I'll say, its sad to see locals Singaporeans paying off "debts" and struggling through lives just to make ends meet. Hence, I think the "Swiss Standard of Living" is for others. What do you think?
Jason, how in the world is it possible to pay off all your debts without doing exotic dances!?!?!? I thought that was the only way to pay your debts off in Singapore?
Many people failed because still hang on to old SG feel, old method..old mindset..old certificate..today, u need to be witty, outsmart..gutsy to live in SG..not school not distinction certs ..so long people telling u been react differently work differently make $ differently u are safe! Those don’t take bold steps and follow what your parent say or government say n rely on single paycheck are just slowly digging your own family graves,,dragging all down,,end up appearing in video like this..this video is a reality wake up call for all..not for u all to sympathise..don’t like? Then migrate to neighbour countries and lehpak there..today all heartlanders mostly end up grab or panda or kangaroo or honey bee delivery riders..jobs don’t require the Mind power but legs n hands power ..slowly back to old sg coolies day..perhaps one day is SG turn to export our women out as domestic helpers to survive
Why have 3 kids. Cost to rear one kid to 20 year old is about SGD$1milliion. Having three kids is like taking out a SGD$3 million loan payable over 20 years. Do the maths before having children - it is called Family Planning.
Not one of the comments says to grab to better the fare😢s of the rides...cos all customers in the end think of themselves only and how cheap they can get their rides...based on per km..what do you think the driver should get.....taking 4 Bangladesh workers for 2 km and \driver gets 4rm..is this fair? Bullshit lah
Mum is a homemaker, just camera shy...that’s why he’s the sole bread winner. That’s why when he’s out with the two bigger ones mum is home minding the little one...
Guys stop speculating, pretty sure something happened to their mum or maybe they divorce, it may or may not be his fault. Most impt, it is also not his fault to have 3 kids because he was doing well previously with his business so he could have the 3 kids by then and nobody knew what will happen in the future.
What an incredible man and father. Your children is blessed to have a dad who is a wonderful role model. All the best in your future endeavours!
Real men sacrifice their time and money for their family respect ✊
But smart men don't start a family with kids they will struggle to take good care of
@@noelloh561 I have to strongly agree on this. But sadly many many people are not prepared or worst think that they are prepared.
Hats off to Jason
He does not give up. He is a responsible guy
sadly you'll never hear that "real woman should bla bla bla.." nowadays
Real men think of consequences and don’t have so many kids in the first place
Hat’s off to this father. Hopefully the mother is around to support the family as well
@Straight facts😱 you know the mother?
Respect bro. You the man.
Hats off to the "real" man. A real man don't give up his family even during the most difficult times. They stand up and just be a man!
Respect to you Jason!
Everyone has their ups and downs in life, it’s what you decide to do with it.
Your kids will be proud!
Everything will be alright.Your kids will be proud of you.Take care and stay safe.
Feels like he is a good dad. Everyone fails now, and his kids would learn from him picking himself up.
This kids r lucky to have a good father .respect n salute to this brother .🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍
Kids must be really blessed to have such an amazing father. 👏
Wish I had a dad like Jason. He knows what needs to be done and handles the reality like a man.
Kudos to you sir! You are not alone on this path, just so you know and encouraging you on !
Very respectable. Wishing him all the best!
This just makes me appreciate my parents even more
He is a good father with a great sense of family responsibility.
Your hard work will pay off and your kids will understand . so much Respect for u
Such a great and respectable man and father. Salutes and respect!
Just wondering, Where is the mum? Whatever it is, stay strong bro..
That’s what I call responsibility, doesn’t matter what job or origin of your root .
Good work bro! Hats off to you! At the end of the day, family comes first. Great that you have paid off the debts early.
Be strong 💪 don't give up. You are still young at mind and body.
A hard working father raising his three kids and pay off the debts. Kudos to you and have my respect. Greeting from sarawak. Malaysia.
:):):) a great man and you can see he is doing a fine job in bringing up his children I hope all goes well for all of them in their future lives...good job dad! :)
I always say ,never say died,hardworks still can overcome everything in life n nothing to be ashame off,failure or setback will make u become more better,best of luck in yr endeavour.
i am inspired by Jason and his sacrifice and perseverance.
What a great dad!! Kudos to him & family. He practically explained what real life is all about in minutes.
What a great dad
RESPECT to you!!!
you are their superhero. Very inspiring. Agreed, once they are teenager, likely they will spend lesser time with us. Their childhoods are important. I must make sure I am in their childhood memories.
Gambateh. Great things to your family
Dad will always be the unsung heroes.
Salute to this Daddy 🙏🏽🙇🏻♀️🌹
You have my respect Sir.
The boy's reaction when his father spoke of homework. 🤣
Single dad is quite popular than a single mother.
加油!!! there are many in your footstep.
We shall all pray for you and drive safe.
Work very hard to support us..
appreciate them..
stress work outside..
Much Respect for such an inspirational and motivational role-model for others
💪
Good kind loving daddy. Strong daddy. 😍
Very inspirational and all the best wishes from sabah malaysia
Pray for things to be better for them...
Dude, bring your kids to the library, or the beach. Bring them to a concert, or a park, or even a combo of the two : a free concert within a park, for e.g. those concerts at the Botanic Gardens. Bring them to these places where their childhood will be filled with enriching experiences. Please don’t bring them to the Arcade, which does nothing for the mind, and is really a waste of time and money. These kids are smart. Notice that they were not exactly thrilled at being told by you that they were going to the Arcade.
True true bring somewhere that is closer to nature from there they are able to learn more….
Give him some time. I am sure he think Arcade was his past time that he forgot about other activities.
Can't blame him. It definitely tiring being a single father plus being in debt.
Another thing to note is exposing his children,i wonder what will the outcome be knowing his children will be make fun of having a single parents or a father with debt.
Hope this father muster his courage to keep working hard while spending time understanding his own children needs.
Free movie nights at botanics too. There are alot more fun and free places to experience and explore. The huge playgrounds, gardenby the bay, freeeeee and pretty, Build their strength and immunity outdoor. Free and really good.
Actually what's wrong with Arcade?
Hi all thanks for the encouragement. My wife is around just that she doesn't wanna be on screen that's all. She has been thru the toughness and sweetness together with me in life. ☺️
So no need worry let's all do our best in life to give our next generation. Cheers.
This is a real man...
When I was in my very early 20's, I tutored labs, and a lady almost 50 was one of the students. She wanted to study in that specific field, even though later in life but age is only a number.
After imposing the three-minute no show rule (and creating unhappiness) and now this "brought to you by Grab", wow... clap for you lah.
positive dad!
Wow, he actually took accountability and working multiple jobs to pay off his debt and take care of his kids. If this was the US why do I have a feeling the person wouldve been crying victim and asking the government for a free check? I hope this guy makes it big and his family enjoys his sacrifice and learn his hard working foundation as his kids will have a better chance in the future.
This is what life is about and not chasing after materialism.
Respectable!
Can't imagine what it's like to be in debt close to SGD100,000 today. He's got his priorities in life right though. Raising his kids in an allrounded healthy home environment as evidenced from his children's demeanor. That, cannot be faked out in the video.
The plus points going for him:
• he's still relatively young.
• got never-say-die attitude.
• willing to Grab; no problem.
• got additional side income.
• got great understanding wife.
• debts nearly cleared; very important.
• got HDB asset.
• got helpful SG Government financial assistance in children's education, utilities, GST vouchers, transport, etc. Every bit of financial assistance helps.
When you buy a hdb. Youll be 200++k in debt.
Monthly installments la, stupid.
Human desires are the root cause of frustrations and bondages. The more human desires one has, the more stressed out he will experience. But wise, we want so many, but we only need so few. Happiness is knowing what is the most important things in life : Peace. But what is peace? Very few people really know. Most people have never experience real peace in their entire life.
The things that most people think will give them happiness; money, family, career and possessions. All the superficial things in life. Grow up, be wise. Life is deeper than this.
Don’t take more than you can chew. We want so many, but we only need so few. Life is short, travel light,
I think what a father goes through to provide for family.... society simply doesnt recognise..
Jia you, not easy to be a father with debt, i am glad you faced it and clear off your debt, and not desert your kids and do drugs.
In Singapore today, in his case better don't have 3 kids. Let's be realistic!
There’re a lot of free entertainment/venue Singaporeans can enjoy/visit for free. Don’t need to spend. Financial aid, free textbooks/education for the kids etc too
You are not the only one.
Good job. Keep moving forward
Grab so awesome awesome 👍😍😍 let him have a better Life's with his kids again. But wonder where is children mother's. ???
How much can he earn as a Grab-driver a month? There is no stability in his salary. No basis/OT Salary,no Annual,Childcare,Medical Leave, etc. Might as well be a cleaner. Can earn more
Inspirational
Thanks for sharing.
Respect
Thanks
Salute
💯 respect for you man
Where is the mother? Or has she abandoned her whole family because the dad is in debt now.
This is a real legend of a father. Singapore should do more to support harsh life families like this. Create more opportunities for the children to thrive
respect~
wow i aspire to be like him
Grab didn't help him, he helped himself.
bank didnt help him to clear his $100k business debt
he go do Grab to pay the bank😀😀he helped himself to do Grab to pay
he can just work @ any company
Not easy for the dad!! 3 young kids. Not sure how he manages??
Hopefully their mother can help themn
Wow!
Looking at the other angle -> at "prime career age" where new citizen doesn't need to serve the army or Reservist [I think it goes against the enlistment act] and taking away good paying jobs from equivalent locals? I'll say, its sad to see locals Singaporeans paying off "debts" and struggling through lives just to make ends meet. Hence, I think the "Swiss Standard of Living" is for others. What do you think?
what is the business sia?
Where is teir Mummy??
Jason, how in the world is it possible to pay off all your debts without doing exotic dances!?!?!? I thought that was the only way to pay your debts off in Singapore?
Where's the mother?
hello i am harmony
Inspired
Where is the mom?
I wish my father was that way. But we are sons of men, so expect our unrighteousness at times. 🤷
The door quite dangerous must tell your's daughter don't put her head inside.
Many people failed because still hang on to old SG feel, old method..old mindset..old certificate..today, u need to be witty, outsmart..gutsy to live in SG..not school not distinction certs ..so long people telling u been react differently work differently make $ differently u are safe! Those don’t take bold steps and follow what your parent say or government say n rely on single paycheck are just slowly digging your own family graves,,dragging all down,,end up appearing in video like this..this video is a reality wake up call for all..not for u all to sympathise..don’t like? Then migrate to neighbour countries and lehpak there..today all heartlanders mostly end up grab or panda or kangaroo or honey bee delivery riders..jobs don’t require the Mind power but legs n hands power ..slowly back to old sg coolies day..perhaps one day is SG turn to export our women out as domestic helpers to survive
Jia you!
but it's a grab ad innit
Hey transport minister time to wake up
Why have 3 kids. Cost to rear one kid to 20 year old is about SGD$1milliion. Having three kids is like taking out a SGD$3 million loan payable over 20 years. Do the maths before having children - it is called Family Planning.
Nice snipping from distance and be more companionate mate
I wont provide my kids even if it means abandoning them at the roadside
Amazing dude.
Singapore nothing is cheap..everything money..Gov't (Pap) realy rich bcuz of what..collect money🤔
Dun worry garment will give u 100 dorar gst voucher. Then charge u millions for 12% GST
What happened to the mum?
She's in the room watching k drama , shy to be on camera
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
MLM?
Not one of the comments says to grab to better the fare😢s of the rides...cos all customers in the end think of themselves only and how cheap they can get their rides...based on per km..what do you think the driver should get.....taking 4 Bangladesh workers for 2 km and \driver gets 4rm..is this fair? Bullshit lah
What happened to mum
Why yall assume the mum around though? The video didnt say anything abt the mum
Mum is a homemaker, just camera shy...that’s why he’s the sole bread winner. That’s why when he’s out with the two bigger ones mum is home minding the little one...
Where is your wife?
Where is the wife?
Guys stop speculating, pretty sure something happened to their mum or maybe they divorce, it may or may not be his fault. Most impt, it is also not his fault to have 3 kids because he was doing well previously with his business so he could have the 3 kids by then and nobody knew what will happen in the future.
Where got debt... still got time and money to arcade lol
He drive grab. A few trips than bring kids to arcade
He is in debt, not in jail.
go become housing agent... done! all $100k within 6 months