It's not what you call as love, but this has been the traditional Conservative understanding of marriage and responsibility. I wouldn't be surprised that you think of it as something unusual considering your liberal lifestyle.
@@lcfflc3887 many don't care when situation came like this, he loves that's why he cares otherwise if he fear of society he does nothing like bathing, makeup etc
You don't enjoy the Paralysis duty but responsibility and commitment to your love ones. I believe with hard work exercises, she can recover 90% & can walk well as long we see she can cycle and move her legs already.
I thought I knew what love was and my wife wronged me in so many ways. I almost forgot what undying commitment meant. Glad one real human exists... also my wife told me if I even lost a finger she would leave me while I would be willing to carry her on my back forever if she was paralyzed. I almost forgot what devotion to someone meant..... I won't make that mistake again.
I'm blessed to have a boyfriend which behaves exactly like this man. I'm also very sick, with chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia, I can barely help home with some basic tasks, and take care of myself and our small dog (mostly). I have been sick for over a year, after a covid infection. In the beginning I couldn't even walk to the toilet by myself and I needed help showering and eating even. He helped me with everything since minute one. When I got sick we were finishing our masters (we are both in our mid 20s) and our situation was also quite bad, not as bad as this truck driver and his wife, but we also shared a tiny 20m apartment in a very badly acoustically insulated building. Luckily, since then he could finish his master's and find a nice job. We have now moved to a larger apartment in the countryside and our life is much calmer without money stress. I was so lucky to find him, he also stuck with me without a doubt, even if we had only been dating for about a year before I got sick.
@@myaccount9498yes i wish you and your boyfriend will get through everything , all the hardships challenges! And you getting better with your health. From Australia, true love never die!🎉🎉🎉
Hi thanks for sharing. Sister, please check out Medical medium, Anthony Williams. Celery juice and heavy metal detox and other things he shared, works very well. It helped me and a dozen friends. Please kindly help yourself by giving yourself a try. You have nothing to lose. Seriously.
I am so grateful to read about your partnership and the upgrades to the living situation! I'm in one of those poorly acoustically insulated apartments on the druggie street, in a town that loves it's diesels. Next to a highschool track field 🤣😮💨
@@dddaaa6965 It's not a joke. There are no wedding vows in traditional Chinese weddings. So "in sickness and health, till death to us part" doesn't mean anything to the Chinese. They are connected by to each other on the finger with a red thread of fate. The ceremony is simple: bow to heaven and earth, bow to their parents, then bow to each other. Then they drink a lotus seed tea with each other. The thread of fate gets shorter metaphorically as they get closer to each other over the years.
@@dddaaa6965 as a Chinese I think he or she means in Chinese mythology, the fairy in charge of love matches will connect two lovers with a red thread, so in traditional Chinese weddings, the husband and wife would hold two ends of a red ribbon to symbolize the bond between them.
Mad respect to this guy as a Truck Driver the Truckers really are Proud of him for having such Dedication towards his Job while also taking care of his wife!
My dad was married to my mom for 40 years until she died in 2017 from a long term illness. He obsessed over her and her comfort. He loved her till the end. He was so lost without her, he ended up dying in 2021. I believe he was never the same without mom. This is love. What this gentleman is doing for his wife is love.
This is what true unconditional love is. Totally unselfish. The wife is on the road to recovery. She may not reach 100%, but is in the right direction. Undivided love and care for each other. I'm not totally disabled. However, my wife has looked and cared for me and I could never pay her back. She's amazing and I feel really blessed every day.
That's what true love is all about. Blessings to you both! ❤ Throughout my life I witnessed my precious Aunt give that kind of dedicated care to her husband who sufferred with crippling rheumatoid arthritis. She worked for several years in a factory, getting up super early to get him bathed and ready for the day, while another Aunt and my dear Grandmother took care of him until she got home in the afternoon. I don't know how she did it. I loved her so dearly and I believe she's my guardian angel.
Very True, there are not many people who have relationships that can handle this. If you got someone like this in your life don't take them for granted.
You'd be surprised how many men are willing to do this for the right woman in their life. There are many, the problem often lies with the women. Obnoxious, lazy, not caring for the family, expectations on husband, demanding, contemptuous or condescending to the working husband or worse betrayal. Listen to what he said...he recognized her dedication and hardwork for those 10 years. Her hardwork and devotion did not go un-noticed (he had been watching). Marriage is about sacrifices, not about what the other person can do for you. If you go into marriage with this kind of mind-set, I am confident 80% of the husbands will even die for you.
@@Berrygirl6784 Very few. 1 in 10,000 perhaps. You will need to dig very hard to even find one and then once you do, quickly use her to boast of the dedication and sacrifices of the modern feminists, who otherwise have contributed nothing to humanity except problems and shames. Vast majority of women will leave their partners when their partners become a vegetable and go broke. That is fact.
@@Berrygirl6784 2 year ago, There was a similar story about a woman name Sun Hongxia from China’s Anhui province whose selfless love and dedication brought her husband out from 10 yrs of coma.
Men are great creatures, most wemon wouldn’t do that for a man, some would but its rare in this day and age, and to michael, he is 40 and she is too, youths now a days wouldn’t do that. He is a man from a different time and so is she, a time when marriage was taken more serious.
@@dimitar297 She is doing her part and working through rehabilitation, and successfully might I add. Its only a matter of time until she fully recuperates.
i started watching this only for a few seconds and immediately i was swept away in tears for this man and his wife. This is what it means to be loved and to have love in your heart.
@@newyardleysinclair9960 Even if they were not spoken by the mouth,they were by the heart,this man does more for his wife than most westerners who take a vow.
This is the embodiment of the wedding vow, “to love, honor, and respect, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do us part”. What an inspiration this couple is to the rest of us.
Now this is what being a man is. Do it for your own self, do it for love without being asked to do it. I raise my hat and bow to this man as he is better than most.
Yeah but this was a woman who actually loved him and stuck by him… dangerous attitude to have unless your actually lovers with a proven and trusted loyalty.
@@JK-vy8vh I joke but this man truly is a hero. And as a couple they are inspirational. I will admit it’s great to see her recovery coming about and they have children together and that’s fantastic. Too many people these days are so willing to just give up. Not these two. That makes them hero’s.
I know a similar case. There's an Ukrainian woman who got married to a Vietnamese man. They moved to Vietnam to live. Her husband is paralyzed after an accident. She went back to Ukraine to sell her house and everything she owned and return to Vietnam to take care of her husband. She opened a restaurant to make a living in Hanoi and she has been taking care of her husband for over 20 years without complaining. When asked how she can take care of her hubby for a long time. She replied because I love him.
And because she was fit to do so and no other choice then To put him in a home I got chronic back arthritis If some happen to my husband there’s no way I can look after him love or not
@@ayurbadmaev7174 She's from Kyiv. Her name is Svetlana Nguyen. All article and videos don't reveal her full Slavic name. Copy and paste this phrase " phụ nữ Ukraina nuôi chồng bại liệt 20 năm" in youtube and google search, you can watch and read articles about her life. This Vietnamese phrase above means: An Ukrainian woman taking care of her paralyzed husband for 20 years.
Kinda hard when women are told to hate men throughout academia and elsewhere. You wanna support a woman like this when you are told women don't "need" men? Feminism hasn't hit eastern Asia.....yet.
This is unconditional, true love. He's a role model for all of us. This is a display of devotion and pure beauty from inside out. I wish both of them a happy and long life, side by side.
1. He loves her because of her personality, what makes her, her. 2. What can she do.. love him? 3. Yes she can, you can clearly see her talking with him in the video. 4. Some may think having to look after her is a burden, but it'd probably bring them closer together. 5. If you think he's suffering, that's fine, you can give him sympathy, but he may not take it. 6. Love is love, if you don't love your girlfriend or wife just because they're paralyzed, you're never going to find a soulmate. Get lectured by a teenager, ya dog
@@jediahfish I'll just reply to your first point, that is sufficient. You know absolutely nothing about her personality. He didn't even say he loves her because of her personality. You made a baseless assumption and this means your thinking was illogical. Making statements out of thin air is just dishonest.
@@skyhappy she could've said the same thing when she was raising their kids alone at home, when she was home making, when she was cooking & cleaning & waiting for her husband for 10 long years. She was dedicated to him now its his turn. Besides, they are in love & she is getting better.
She would be so lost and dishearten with life, if not for him. She knows he’s always around, and can fully focus on getting well again, instead of thinking about negative thoughts. No doubt at times she will experience that. Pretty sure he minimised that greatly
True, but first and foremost to ponder .. . Can we maintain those high standards ourselves before expecting someone to be so loving and dedicated towards us... many will simply say 'Yes', but its not an honest answer.
@@thepipun I wish I can reply something sensible to you. But I think i don’t have an answer myself. Being someone going through a rough patch, I wish everything turns out well and i can give my all. But there’s a lingering thought if that is at all worth it. But I still do what I ought to do, what I want to do for the other half. But I just can’t say that ‘yes’ resoundingly.. that’s just for me
I’m crying. My best friend’s dad and her mom are like that. Her dad has stuck with her even after my friend passed away. He’s always there for her mom.
WOW! that is such committed love and I am blown away by their relationship. How he cares for her is amazing and she is such a beautiful person and so is he. I love it.
the makeup part adds so much more to this. Not only does he take time to fulfill her basic needs but he learned how to and applies make up to her on a daily basis to make sure she is pampered and her dignity is as well. This is the definition of living for someone
This mans love for his wife is on a level I can't even begin to fathom, when he said "for better for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and cherish always." he meant that!
@@martuuk8964mb not verbatim as i put it, but there are vows exchanged at a chinese wedding(atleast at the few i attended both at the ceremony and Gov offices). But my point is whether Western or Eastern cultures as husbands we do make a vow to our partners to do what this gem of a man is doing for his wife. Most don't stay true to that vow. This man right here? Exercise love not only in word but in deed n he is a legend for that. We can learn from him no matter the cultural background.
@@martuuk8964 verbalization is meaningless if you don't mean it. Take action instead of talk or promise. I think it's kind of the meaning. His whole way of living/actions and intentions/ambitions are saying that on it's own.
You can’t give him donations if he is from China . the government will corrupt the donations . It’s better to give to some poor people in your own country
Yes I couldn't agree more maybe people will open their hearts and start a fund for them to make life a little more comfortable like toilet shower a hoist there are people out there with amazing talents to assist them .
Great husband and he meant everything his world for his beloved wife while in reality every person is different some stays some won’t last forever but hope that this man is another level❤️🥰
As a 31 year old man that is sometimes skeptical about life and love, seeing things like this give me hope. Is it so hard to find someone that you want to be completely loyal to, care for, help grow along with you and start a family? Anyone that has found that in life is truly blessed. And these two are definitely blessed! I wish them nothing but the best
You can't be picky and you have to see past people's looks to find such a person. Amazing women like this exist but they're not glamorous or beautiful. It doesn't matter though, their beauty grows as you get to know them. You probably have a woman like that in your life that you've overlooked due to physical appearance
My husband Was like you. It Was really heardworking to Show let him believe that he can trust me and i love him and he can trust me. He ex hurt him so much. Now he is believing and happy. And me too because to give work even not easy everytime showed me a wobderful husband. Wish you the same ❤
@Jay-bs4qw bro as a 30 year old guy i can feel u i have been single since my whole life and its obviously due to my flaws of being an introvert and low confidence but slowly i grew up to be really loving being alone maybe or maybe not i cn find someone for me someday but for now i feel that its fine to be alone.
Women are stress most the time. They’ll make you question your psyche, through psychological abuse. They are regarded as psychos for generations and generations for a reason.
A wonderful husband, sleeps in a tiny 10 centimetre space, looks after his wife's personal hygiene, doesn't complain once. A true man. Wishing them both better times ahead and hope his wife will make a recovery however big
Why do you asume he did? Asians have their own religions, it's selfish to say things that correlate to your religion. There are better religions out there.
She has a better caretaker than most people in care facilities in the USA. In the USA the nurses are short staffed and frustrated so the quality of care is lower and lower everyday. But even in the truck she has an amazing person looking after her. Very inspiring.
Love the Ip Man reference! Yeah, Ip Man not a real man at all going out like that and also slapping his defenseless friend all because the latter colluded with the Japanese to be a translator. This one's a real man without over the top Chinese patriotism!
For someone with a spinal cord injury I can respect his efforts 1000%, this is what we call true love for another human being! If you don't feel teary-eyed watching this then it didn't hit you like most of us. This is the kind of love the world needs right about now ❤️❤️❤️👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
All "Husbands" are loveable. Men that are not up to this level are not "Husbands" in the truest since of the term. I would have no objections to doing this for my wife who I love dearly. Titles have honor we must not diminish their distinction.
She's the love of his life, when you love somebody this much you'll do anything to them. Unconditional love is the most pure love you have share with someone.
This is so heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time. He’s an angel. I really admire his determination and love for his wife. I didn’t even think this type of men or person exists . I wish the best for them and hope his wife will get better soon.
You'd be surprised how many men are willing to do this for the right woman in their life. There are many, the problem often lies with the women. Obnoxious, lazy, not caring for the family, expectations on husband, demanding, contemptuous or condescending to the working husband or worse betrayal. Listen to what he said...he recognized her dedication and hardworking for those 10 years. Her hardwork and devotion did not go un-noticed. Marriage is about sacrifices, not about what the other person can do for you. If you go into marriage with this right mind-set, I am confident 80% of the husbands will even die for you.
People who have not experienced this will never understand what it really is like... To give you an idea what it is like it's like you are working 18/7. Imagine doing your job for 18/7 every single day for years. You only have that 6 hours for sleep, rest of the day goes on work. You don't have free time, you don't have vacation, you don't have time for yourself... And the longer that goes, the longer it takes to recover from that exhaustion.
@@StrongRespect No amount of love will hold your mentality together... Each person needs time to rest and take time for themselves. I know from experience how difficult it is to look after someone else... Especially person who needs your constant care.
That is what a real man is. Around the world there are very few men that are mentally and emotionally able to be anything close to him. Blessing on their family and her rehab/ recovery.
Young generation has to know what is true example of heroes in this world. Like both of them. Watching that video is a thing, but be deeply touched is an other. The Generation of zapping doesnt take enough time to understand how the situation they live is an profond accomplishment. Im really sad to see most of young people have lost faith in the power of love built by effort over time. Like all has to be fast and without strong commitment..
A lot of people would’ve felt overpowered by expressed emotions and tensions due to disabilities, accountabilities and responsibilities. To fight through that demonstrates true love.
Don't be afraid James. Cherish and live. Life is short for all of us. Don't waste one minute in fear. Hold her close and feel her love. Live now and don't think about tomorrow because that's tomorrow. Bless you, my friend.
@@xxyyxx2861 2 year ago, There was a similar story about a woman name Sun Hongxia from China’s Anhui province whose selfless love and dedication brought her husband out from 10 yrs of coma.
Love in its purest form. I know of a story of the complete opposite of this. I know a lady(used to work with her many years ago) her husband was in a bad car accident and became very dependent on others and she left him for someone else
He loves her and you can tell that. Just by the way he cares for her. I would do the same thing for my wife and I feel she would do the same. It says a lot about his character. When you take a vowel in sickness and in health. You are supposed to mean it or you shouldn’t say it. I believe that is the problem in today’s society. People only caring for themselves and saying things that they don’t mean.
I am speechless with how this man loves this woman who's his wife. Absolute dedication and no complaints. Agape Love ❤ If I had the resources to help them I would. I'll pray for bigger n better trailer. GB
This truly made my day! This man deserves all the praises and respect in the world. I pray for a quick recovery for his wife and many blessings to this couple.
Anyone who truly loves their wife understands this man’s thought process, and would no doubt do the same for them, if given the circumstances. Absolute respect to this man, and also I hope they continue to have a loving relationship in the future.
You are very correct more the roles may change but taking care is the core of humanity. Historically there has been evidences that stone age humans take care of the paralysed ones. They carry them, feed them look after them as much as possible.
That's what I call love. I wish nothing was but happiness for these two people.
It's not what you call as love, but this has been the traditional Conservative understanding of marriage and responsibility. I wouldn't be surprised that you think of it as something unusual considering your liberal lifestyle.
that man has no obligation to stop himself from moving on but the pressures of society makes it difficult to Walk away.
@@lcfflc3887 many don't care when situation came like this, he loves that's why he cares otherwise if he fear of society he does nothing like bathing, makeup etc
A woman would never do that
@Yinhua Any more bets like that and you'll be carried on the back of your Chinese husband soon.
Not only he's taking care of her every need, I have a feeling he enjoys every single second of it. That's just beautiful.
You don't enjoy the Paralysis duty but responsibility and commitment to your love ones. I believe with hard work exercises, she can recover 90% & can walk well as long we see she can cycle and move her legs already.
@@wendyshoowaiching4161 Yes and if the day arrives I'm sure she'll return the favor he did to her
Eventually it’ll get old. As he gets older he won’t be able to care for her as much.
Til death tears them apart
I thought I knew what love was and my wife wronged me in so many ways. I almost forgot what undying commitment meant. Glad one real human exists... also my wife told me if I even lost a finger she would leave me while I would be willing to carry her on my back forever if she was paralyzed. I almost forgot what devotion to someone meant..... I won't make that mistake again.
this husband gives a whole new meaning of marriage vows, " in sickness and in health". kudos to him. that is love, folks!
Yes it is
Its another fake video...
Right, true love 💕 n a faithful man.
@@kiyushot You are a fake person too
No, that’s what the vows meant all along.
I'm blessed to have a boyfriend which behaves exactly like this man. I'm also very sick, with chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia, I can barely help home with some basic tasks, and take care of myself and our small dog (mostly). I have been sick for over a year, after a covid infection. In the beginning I couldn't even walk to the toilet by myself and I needed help showering and eating even. He helped me with everything since minute one. When I got sick we were finishing our masters (we are both in our mid 20s) and our situation was also quite bad, not as bad as this truck driver and his wife, but we also shared a tiny 20m apartment in a very badly acoustically insulated building. Luckily, since then he could finish his master's and find a nice job. We have now moved to a larger apartment in the countryside and our life is much calmer without money stress. I was so lucky to find him, he also stuck with me without a doubt, even if we had only been dating for about a year before I got sick.
Yes that's incredible dedication by your boyfriend. I hope u will both be happy forever. Hoping u get better as well! Blessings from Australia 💜
@@myaccount9498yes i wish you and your boyfriend will get through everything , all the hardships challenges! And you getting better with your health. From Australia, true love never die!🎉🎉🎉
Have you tried juice cleanse for fibromyalgia? I’m going to try it for a different condition.
Hi thanks for sharing. Sister, please check out Medical medium, Anthony Williams. Celery juice and heavy metal detox and other things he shared, works very well. It helped me and a dozen friends. Please kindly help yourself by giving yourself a try. You have nothing to lose. Seriously.
I am so grateful to read about your partnership and the upgrades to the living situation! I'm in one of those poorly acoustically insulated apartments on the druggie street, in a town that loves it's diesels. Next to a highschool track field 🤣😮💨
Seeing her at the end moving and improving made my day. Bless this man and his family.
right. was happy seeing that too
She passed away last February.
@@kaboomvn201shit, now my day is ruined… I hope she was at least able to enjoy the time she had left despite her struggles.
You had to ruin it didn't you??@@kaboomvn201
@@Sumire9287 至少她是在爱人的陪伴下离开的
This man deserves a lot of credit. He obviously loves his wife and takes his vows very serious. Much respect
His rewards will come from the Lord
@@leoniehendrickson2530 i believe that and i believe that we make our inner self-respect. And he has a lot of it.
Wt vows
@@basbosaize for better or worse part
@@chrispoe2947 what is that
This folks, is a REAL man.
Chad!
Imagine if more men in the world had his dedication and selflessness. Society would improve so much.
*a REAL human
@@avalonjustin
*more people
@@avalonjustinmen are not slaves to society because that what it seems like what is like to be a real man from my perspective
Give that man a humanitarian award. His dedication should be standard for every human to follow.
My wife is in a similar situation. It’s my honor and privilege to take care of her. 39 years of love and devotion.
I bet your wife cheated on you when she was healthy
Kudos to you
Real man.
Bless your heart and your marriage.
You are a real man and not a coward like some people are.
His love will certainly help his wife's recovery process. Nothing is more powerful than true love. May Mr. Nie always be healthy, and lucky.
Amen 🙏
Agree
Absolutely
I’ve never heard of recovery from paralysis
@@rbanerjee605 i think in the movies.
He takes “in sickness and in health” very seriously and that is immensely respectable. 😭🤧👍🏻
There's no such vows in China lol. Maybe he takes the red string connecting them very seriously.
@@sigerlion8608 can you explain that joke, even if its racist im actually curious either way
@@sigerlion8608 oh...are you talking about the cloth holding them together?
@@dddaaa6965 It's not a joke. There are no wedding vows in traditional Chinese weddings. So "in sickness and health, till death to us part" doesn't mean anything to the Chinese. They are connected by to each other on the finger with a red thread of fate. The ceremony is simple: bow to heaven and earth, bow to their parents, then bow to each other. Then they drink a lotus seed tea with each other. The thread of fate gets shorter metaphorically as they get closer to each other over the years.
@@dddaaa6965 as a Chinese I think he or she means in Chinese mythology, the fairy in charge of love matches will connect two lovers with a red thread, so in traditional Chinese weddings, the husband and wife would hold two ends of a red ribbon to symbolize the bond between them.
😭this is unconditional love. What an angel-husband 🌼🌻
Mad respect to this guy as a Truck Driver the Truckers really are Proud of him for having such Dedication towards his Job while also taking care of his wife!
Where are the Children?
@@irenedavo3768
They’ve been married 20 years. So the kids are either at college or old enough to take care of themselves maybe 🤷🏼♀️
@Nicky L what's the matter? In china, a couple could married at 15. It's common there.
@@iAmAtomic1986 male22，female20，dont be silly
😘❤✌
My dad was married to my mom for 40 years until she died in 2017 from a long term illness. He obsessed over her and her comfort. He loved her till the end. He was so lost without her, he ended up dying in 2021. I believe he was never the same without mom. This is love. What this gentleman is doing for his wife is love.
Thats true love all these people are the great example of sacrifices
Goals...
Amen to your dad💙🙌🙏
Same for my father. My mum passed away in October 2020. My father was equally lost and lost his will to live. He passed away 8 months later.
How many kids did he have?
Mehn I’m tearing up,he didn’t abandon her . I’m genuinely happy for people I don’t know
rare for a man
@@almilall
I agree.
He should divorce her.
woman abandon, men dont
You realize women are hard to find in China due to the one child CCP policy.
@@almilall Rare for a woman*. Not man.
You can tell just how much he loves his wife, he adores her always.
A role model, a great husband, and a real man. They are both lucky to have each other. In sickness or health, till death do us part.
Exactly, that's a real role model, a real tough guy. A perfect human being.
@@deneb3552 i dont think no one is perfect but he is best example of it
@@-GHOST--ci4ho you can be a perfect human tho, humans are imperfect by default
@@deneb3552 wait wut?
So what happens after the till death do us part
This man has a huge heart, much bigger than mine. I have the utmost respect for what he does for his wife.
This is what true unconditional love is. Totally unselfish. The wife is on the road to recovery. She may not reach 100%, but is in the right direction. Undivided love and care for each other. I'm not totally disabled. However, my wife has looked and cared for me and I could never pay her back. She's amazing and I feel really blessed every day.
❤👍..
May Allah swt give you and your wife happy, healthy long life.
Aameen
That's what true love is all about. Blessings to you both! ❤ Throughout my life I witnessed my precious Aunt give that kind of dedicated care to her husband who sufferred with crippling rheumatoid arthritis. She worked for several years in a factory, getting up super early to get him bathed and ready for the day, while another Aunt and my dear Grandmother took care of him until she got home in the afternoon. I don't know how she did it. I loved her so dearly and I believe she's my guardian angel.
Very True, there are not many people who have relationships that can handle this. If you got someone like this in your life don't take them for granted.
@@Wumbology378 So true. Many leave for a lot less than this.
I hope i have that kinda relationship someday it not easy to find
There isn't one part of this story that I don't love! Sweet couple. This is loyalty and dedication.
She passed away of a cerebral hemorrhage earlier this year.
@@Romy--- I bet your the life of every party.
This is worth to be in a video "MASSIVE RESPECT". I can tell he willing to even sacrifice himself to protect his wife
You'd be surprised how many men are willing to do this for the right woman in their life. There are many, the problem often lies with the women. Obnoxious, lazy, not caring for the family, expectations on husband, demanding, contemptuous or condescending to the working husband or worse betrayal. Listen to what he said...he recognized her dedication and hardwork for those 10 years. Her hardwork and devotion did not go un-noticed (he had been watching). Marriage is about sacrifices, not about what the other person can do for you. If you go into marriage with this kind of mind-set, I am confident 80% of the husbands will even die for you.
@@marvelcomiks8078 the problem is always the woman to you, isn't it
@@marvelcomiks8078 same how many women willing to take care of paralysed husband
@@Berrygirl6784 Very few. 1 in 10,000 perhaps. You will need to dig very hard to even find one and then once you do, quickly use her to boast of the dedication and sacrifices of the modern feminists, who otherwise have contributed nothing to humanity except problems and shames. Vast majority of women will leave their partners when their partners become a vegetable and go broke. That is fact.
@@Berrygirl6784 2 year ago, There was a similar story about a woman name Sun Hongxia from China’s Anhui province whose selfless love and dedication brought her husband out from 10 yrs of coma.
Now that is man’s man! Dedicated to his spouse, for better and worse. My respect goes out to him!
Brother perfect words - It's amazing how today's youth thinks.
Men are great creatures, most wemon wouldn’t do that for a man, some would but its rare in this day and age, and to michael, he is 40 and she is too, youths now a days wouldn’t do that. He is a man from a different time and so is she, a time when marriage was taken more serious.
@@dimitar297 you need help
@@dimitar297 She is doing her part and working through rehabilitation, and successfully might I add. Its only a matter of time until she fully recuperates.
@@fullmindstorm you need calm tf down my guy
Have you met most woman
I would argue that woman are more loyal than men
This man is 1 in a million, what an incredible human being. I hope that his wife continues to recover and that their lives get easier.
make it 1 in a billion in this era
@@pummyy nope every where
Most men are like this low key.
@@deletdis6173
What are you talking about? No they aren’t. The vast majority of people would not do this.
@@roems6396 You sound bitter af.
i started watching this only for a few seconds and immediately i was swept away in tears for this man and his wife. This is what it means to be loved and to have love in your heart.
In sickness and in health.... this man is an inspiration.
Yes many people don't compromise and sacrifice and that is why they break their marriages
Really touching. He never forgot the "for better, For worse" vow.
If the paralized was the man , he would have been discarded. Vvomen are trash
They're Chinese. Do they make the same sort of marriage vows as we do in the west?
@@newyardleysinclair9960 Even if they were not spoken by the mouth,they were by the heart,this man does more for his wife than most westerners who take a vow.
In this selfish world that Vow is just a word for many..
We don’t have those vows
The vows are stuff in western world mainly
This is the embodiment of the wedding vow, “to love, honor, and respect, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, til death do us part”. What an inspiration this couple is to the rest of us.
It's love, honor and obey, not respect!
This guy is pure gold, his devotion is without compare, if you really mean the words " I do" ,this is what you do !
True love is not about looks ,money ,fame &all its about caring each other .Showing up for one another at their worst. This man has my full respect
Yam chummi vy
👑
@@user-vs9db4tj2g a manipuri😄 what a coincidence
Now this is what being a man is. Do it for your own self, do it for love without being asked to do it. I raise my hat and bow to this man as he is better than most.
Poetic
@@ChristineFisher123 just get you another one.🙂
Truly an amazing man that is inspirational. He must sleep very well at night knowing she can’t run away.
Yeah but this was a woman who actually loved him and stuck by him… dangerous attitude to have unless your actually lovers with a proven and trusted loyalty.
@@JK-vy8vh I joke but this man truly is a hero. And as a couple they are inspirational. I will admit it’s great to see her recovery coming about and they have children together and that’s fantastic.
Too many people these days are so willing to just give up. Not these two. That makes them hero’s.
I know a similar case. There's an Ukrainian woman who got married to a Vietnamese man. They moved to Vietnam to live. Her husband is paralyzed after an accident. She went back to Ukraine to sell her house and everything she owned and return to Vietnam to take care of her husband. She opened a restaurant to make a living in Hanoi and she has been taking care of her husband for over 20 years without complaining. When asked how she can take care of her hubby for a long time. She replied because I love him.
Hella beautiful. I need true love like this in my life.
And because she was fit to do so and no other choice then To put him in a home
I got chronic back arthritis
If some happen to my husband there’s no way I can look after him love or not
Could you give her name or the link to the article with her story?
@@ayurbadmaev7174 She's from Kyiv. Her name is Svetlana Nguyen. All article and videos don't reveal her full Slavic name. Copy and paste this phrase " phụ nữ Ukraina nuôi chồng bại liệt 20 năm" in youtube and google search, you can watch and read articles about her life.
This Vietnamese phrase above means: An Ukrainian woman taking care of her paralyzed husband for 20 years.
Wow! People these days don't understand unconditional love like this. Bless them both. ❤❤❤
Kinda hard when women are told to hate men throughout academia and elsewhere. You wanna support a woman like this when you are told women don't "need" men? Feminism hasn't hit eastern Asia.....yet.
This is unconditional, true love. He's a role model for all of us. This is a display of devotion and pure beauty from inside out. I wish both of them a happy and long life, side by side.
1. He loves her because of her personality, what makes her, her.
2. What can she do.. love him?
3. Yes she can, you can clearly see her talking with him in the video.
4. Some may think having to look after her is a burden, but it'd probably bring them closer together.
5. If you think he's suffering, that's fine, you can give him sympathy, but he may not take it.
6. Love is love, if you don't love your girlfriend or wife just because they're paralyzed, you're never going to find a soulmate.
Get lectured by a teenager, ya dog
@@jediahfish I'll just reply to your first point, that is sufficient. You know absolutely nothing about her personality. He didn't even say he loves her because of her personality. You made a baseless assumption and this means your thinking was illogical.
Making statements out of thin air is just dishonest.
@@skyhappy ua-cam.com/video/qO4u-mmZBVQ/v-deo.html
@@skyhappy she could've said the same thing when she was raising their kids alone at home, when she was home making, when she was cooking & cleaning & waiting for her husband for 10 long years.
She was dedicated to him now its his turn. Besides, they are in love & she is getting better.
@@jediahfishDid you reply to a deleted comment?
As a married man this brings a tear to my eyes. That's real love from a real man!
Do this to ur from now... Ok
Either of you married? Been married 5 years and it still feels like we just met. Do you say the same?
guess wat if the gender where flipped she will never to the same. not even close.
No.
Ever seen women telling women what it means to be a real woman ( to selfless love their man)? No, right? Then shut up, ok.
An amazing husband. So selfless and loving to his wife. We should all be so lucky to have such a person in our lives.
She would be so lost and dishearten with life, if not for him. She knows he’s always around, and can fully focus on getting well again, instead of thinking about negative thoughts. No doubt at times she will experience that. Pretty sure he minimised that greatly
True, but first and foremost to ponder .. . Can we maintain those high standards ourselves before expecting someone to be so loving and dedicated towards us... many will simply say 'Yes', but its not an honest answer.
@@thepipun I wish I can reply something sensible to you. But I think i don’t have an answer myself. Being someone going through a rough patch, I wish everything turns out well and i can give my all. But there’s a lingering thought if that is at all worth it. But I still do what I ought to do, what I want to do for the other half. But I just can’t say that ‘yes’ resoundingly.. that’s just for me
Don't many just enter a relationships expecting people to change?
@@thepipun 🙂 i can't ... This kind of loyalty needs real high level morality ... Where is that in me.. i hv this question to myself
protect this wonderful man at all costs, he is an angel. she is very lucky to have him
She's beautiful. He's beautiful.
Their souls are beautiful.
The way he looks at her even when they're being recorded.. I can tell.
Makes me cry.
I’m crying. My best friend’s dad and her mom are like that. Her dad has stuck with her even after my friend passed away. He’s always there for her mom.
I have more respect for this man than I ever had for anyone. This is TRUE love.
I respect my parents more and you should too
@@durkskuntunemun and you should not tell me what I should or should not do. My parents are dead you Genius.
All parents don't deserve respect
@@durkskuntunemun speak for yourself. You don't know what other people have gone through in their lives in regards to their familial relationships.
😭😭😭😭
To see her start exercising and her smile is priceless.
That smile is what drives him to care for her day in and day out. Such a sweet story.
WOW! that is such committed love and I am blown away by their relationship. How he cares for her is amazing and she is such a beautiful person and so is he. I love it.
the makeup part adds so much more to this. Not only does he take time to fulfill her basic needs but he learned how to and applies make up to her on a daily basis to make sure she is pampered and her dignity is as well. This is the definition of living for someone
this is the definition of true love
She is also a beautiful woman.
Beautiful story
This mans love for his wife is on a level I can't even begin to fathom, when he said "for better for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and cherish always." he meant that!
Chinese weddings don't have those vows. That's a western thing.
@@martuuk8964mb not verbatim as i put it, but there are vows exchanged at a chinese wedding(atleast at the few i attended both at the ceremony and Gov offices). But my point is whether Western or Eastern cultures as husbands we do make a vow to our partners to do what this gem of a man is doing for his wife. Most don't stay true to that vow. This man right here? Exercise love not only in word but in deed n he is a legend for that. We can learn from him no matter the cultural background.
@@martuuk8964 verbalization is meaningless if you don't mean it. Take action instead of talk or promise. I think it's kind of the meaning. His whole way of living/actions and intentions/ambitions are saying that on it's own.
This is wht u call unconditional love! So proud of him and hopefully his wife back to normal someday
Very 💓 touching.1in amillion couple.
Real love...🥹
May you both always be healthy and happy...🙏🏻
When you think true love doesn't exist in this world.
It does this is a proof of it I pray for such unconditional love
@@brendadickson9583 Amen!
Did it say what happened to his wife?
Wow. I know. Speechless.
@@kss8866 yes, she suffered a brain haemorrhage in 2020 as per the video.
This is where donations and money should go. To help and assist those who are truly in need of a hand for simple things we take for granted.
You can’t give him donations if he is from China . the government will corrupt the donations . It’s better to give to some poor people in your own country
Yes I couldn't agree more maybe people will open their hearts and start a fund for them to make life a little more comfortable like toilet shower a hoist there are people out there with amazing talents to assist them .
Nah people are too busy donating to twitch streamers
Chinese officials will take all the donations
Yes
What a man, what a husband, what an amazing human being. Wow
More like a descent person
@@ramenomirice2767 A decent person wouldn't go as far as to take her to his job just telling you.
Great husband and he meant everything his world for his beloved wife while in reality every person is different some stays some won’t last forever but hope that this man is another level❤️🥰
As a 31 year old man that is sometimes skeptical about life and love, seeing things like this give me hope. Is it so hard to find someone that you want to be completely loyal to, care for, help grow along with you and start a family? Anyone that has found that in life is truly blessed. And these two are definitely blessed! I wish them nothing but the best
You can't be picky and you have to see past people's looks to find such a person. Amazing women like this exist but they're not glamorous or beautiful. It doesn't matter though, their beauty grows as you get to know them. You probably have a woman like that in your life that you've overlooked due to physical appearance
@@Nonyah123 you have spoken incredible words my friend. I am sure you have so much wisdom to share
My husband Was like you. It Was really heardworking to Show let him believe that he can trust me and i love him and he can trust me. He ex hurt him so much. Now he is believing and happy. And me too because to give work even not easy everytime showed me a wobderful husband. Wish you the same ❤
@Jay-bs4qw bro as a 30 year old guy i can feel u i have been single since my whole life and its obviously due to my flaws of being an introvert and low confidence but slowly i grew up to be really loving being alone maybe or maybe not i cn find someone for me someday but for now i feel that its fine to be alone.
Women are stress most the time. They’ll make you question your psyche, through psychological abuse. They are regarded as psychos for generations and generations for a reason.
The fact she is getting better is amazing, both to get the life she used to have and for the husband to have less stress. Best wishes.
Utmost respect from 🇺🇸. This man is what we should all aspire to be.
100%
Cold war
Usa china 🥶
@@RakeshKR10 Cold war is created by the "rogue state". Search for William Blum's books.
@@RakeshKR10 🇨🇳 & 🇺🇸 have many more reasons to not go to war than to. Stop believing everything you see on tv.
BLESS THIS MAN. I LOVE YOU.
A wonderful husband, sleeps in a tiny 10 centimetre space, looks after his wife's personal hygiene, doesn't complain once. A true man. Wishing them both better times ahead and hope his wife will make a recovery however big
Mr. Nie is truly living up to his “In sickness and in health” vow he took at the altar! Much respect sir 🙏🏻
Why do you asume he did?
Asians have their own religions, it's selfish to say things that correlate to your religion.
There are better religions out there.
@@AutodidactEngineer lol
@@AutodidactEngineer heh ?
you high?
@@AutodidactEngineer You have the brain of a 15 year old atheist, congratulations
She has a better caretaker than most people in care facilities in the USA. In the USA the nurses are short staffed and frustrated so the quality of care is lower and lower everyday. But even in the truck she has an amazing person looking after her. Very inspiring.
There are staffing shortages and issues with the staff. I've seen staff neglect and torture patients. Though there are also amazing staff.
Oh yes the CCP is great.
@@Me-ds3nm This has nothing to do with politic.
@@Me-ds3nm typical reply of a "patriot" aka one who doesn't like it when flaws within the system are pointed out
@@Me-ds3nmcringe asf what does it have to do with ccp?
This is a REAL man!!!
This is the real definition of a real man, not the man that go out and fights 10 guys alone but the one that has golden heart and loving.
Absolutely
Agree 💯
Love the Ip Man reference! Yeah, Ip Man not a real man at all going out like that and also slapping his defenseless friend all because the latter colluded with the Japanese to be a translator. This one's a real man without over the top Chinese patriotism!
@@chaxologist2024 Dont disrespect the goat Ip man
This comment deserves 7 billions of likes 👍.. thank you for pulling this out..
For someone with a spinal cord injury I can respect his efforts 1000%, this is what we call true love for another human being! If you don't feel teary-eyed watching this then it didn't hit you like most of us. This is the kind of love the world needs right about now ❤️❤️❤️👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Amen!
@@SpecialSalads fixed it thanks 🤗. The video had me emotional and wasn't paying attention to what I was writing.
@@TheBajanMan We all knew what you meant. 😊 No worries; it is a great comment! 💐
Yes, romantic love, which most women crave and would leave their husbands to chase it, is not love. Love is like this right here.
@@tomsd8656 Very true Tom! 💐
My Dad did this for my Mom……what a lovely thing to do for someone you love. It’s hard, but not as hard as living without them.
So that's what called a PURE AND TRUE SOULMATES LOVE❤
That's what I call a true lovable husband. This puts tears in my eyes to see such a devoted, lovable family sticking together.
All "Husbands" are loveable. Men that are not up to this level are not "Husbands" in the truest since of the term.
I would have no objections to doing this for my wife who I love dearly. Titles have honor we must not diminish their distinction.
Amazing when a person doesn’t complain and stand by her side no matter what. That gives the meaning of in sickness and in health a true meaning.
This is the kind of people we need in this world. Much respect from the Netherlands.
No this is the kind of person we need to be
@@Slay963 agree.
Beautiful acts of kindness towards his wife love is unconditional ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
People often brandish the word 'King' and 'Queen' around but I think that man truly deserves to be called that
To me he is a real man, because kings and queens are just moochers 😂
@@Mario7p that's very true, Kings & Queens live lives of luxury with servants whereas this man works very hard
How do you know he identifies as a man? I would ask him his pronouns first.
@@camaroman101 I dont think he cares about american binary culture
Kings and Queens mean nothing. He is a man. This is what it means to be a man
We can all learn something from this man. It’s easy to say love when everything is fine, but much harder when faced with adversity.
Ccp scam
@@bb-yk5cc shut up, bot
@@bb-yk5cc You can hate the government but don't hate the people brother
It’s wonderful to know that exists people like this. All my respect!
She's the love of his life, when you love somebody this much you'll do anything to them. Unconditional love is the most pure love you have share with someone.
This is so heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time. He’s an angel. I really admire his determination and love for his wife. I didn’t even think this type of men or person exists . I wish the best for them and hope his wife will get better soon.
Well said
You'd be surprised how many men are willing to do this for the right woman in their life. There are many, the problem often lies with the women. Obnoxious, lazy, not caring for the family, expectations on husband, demanding, contemptuous or condescending to the working husband or worse betrayal. Listen to what he said...he recognized her dedication and hardworking for those 10 years. Her hardwork and devotion did not go un-noticed. Marriage is about sacrifices, not about what the other person can do for you. If you go into marriage with this right mind-set, I am confident 80% of the husbands will even die for you.
Paralysis is recoverable. The wife will be back to health. I hope it's sooner than later.
I'm disgusted at your view point generalizing all men and am going to assume you wont meet a decent one because of it.
@@Zedd2087 chill
It takes a TREMENDOUS amount of patience and love to keep this going. He has my utmost respect
People who have not experienced this will never understand what it really is like... To give you an idea what it is like it's like you are working 18/7. Imagine doing your job for 18/7 every single day for years. You only have that 6 hours for sleep, rest of the day goes on work. You don't have free time, you don't have vacation, you don't have time for yourself... And the longer that goes, the longer it takes to recover from that exhaustion.
No just a regular love
It is just people don't understand what love means
@@StrongRespect No amount of love will hold your mentality together... Each person needs time to rest and take time for themselves. I know from experience how difficult it is to look after someone else... Especially person who needs your constant care.
He really said “ I’ll be right by your side trough thick and thin ” the love , patience , dedication he devote to his wife is heart warming .
While millions of spouses divorce their partners for even petty issues. I salute this man!
Hope his wife got a full recovery 🙏🙏.
I really hope so.
Sincerely so too.
I'm still searching for their update, but one website is full of chinese characters and I can't read them 😆🤣
@@fadhilsyarif5374 send if to me pls
Please keep us updated!
That is what a real man is. Around the world there are very few men that are mentally and emotionally able to be anything close to him. Blessing on their family and her rehab/ recovery.
Stereotypes
Oh yes, yes, SO right . Beautiful person.
There are very few women who would take care of a man like that as well.
Young generation has to know what is true example of heroes in this world.
Like both of them.
Watching that video is a thing, but be deeply touched is an other.
The Generation of zapping doesnt take enough time to understand how the situation they live is an profond accomplishment.
Im really sad to see most of young people have lost faith in the power of love built by effort over time. Like all has to be fast and without strong commitment..
100% agree.
We should have more people like this, who don't have much but do the best with what they have.
Why don't you become one like him?
Amén to that.
That is total love
I send my love and best wishes to both of them and their family
What an inspiration 👏 ❤
Этот мужчина настоящий Человек!!!Мое глубочайшее уважение!!!
A lot of people would’ve felt overpowered by expressed emotions and tensions due to disabilities, accountabilities and responsibilities. To fight through that demonstrates true love.
A lot of people would treat their dogs and take better care of their pets better than their own wives.
The love that he has for his wife is amazing. One in a million to see this kind of compassion. Bring a smile to my face.
Found this in my recommended for the first time. Incredibly touching story, goes to show there is always hope.
What an amazing human being! I wish his wife a speedy recovery.
This is what "love" actually looks like! She is blessed, he is a blessing. Amazing!! Stay healthy! Both of you!
I’ve been married to my wife now 39 years. She scares me when she says she’s ready to go. I don’t know what I’d do without her.
Don't be afraid James. Cherish and live. Life is short for all of us. Don't waste one minute in fear. Hold her close and feel her love. Live now and don't think about tomorrow because that's tomorrow. Bless you, my friend.
Just dont show for likes that you are also like this man.
@@Bert_de_Wit Christ are Mostly lovely boys
@@neerajshukla2756 why would you comment trash are you jelous
I'm praying for you and your wife. Enjoy every day with her and know that all will be okay one day at a time
What a beautiful story. I hope she continues her recovery and they can enjoy the rest of their lives together.
This guy should be a role model for every human being.
For every man.
@@allah-is-a-slavemaster As well as woman, unless you're a feminazi who wants every man to the same.
@@allah-is-a-slavemasterwhy not for women?
@@xxyyxx2861 2 year ago, There was a similar story about a woman name Sun Hongxia from China’s Anhui province whose selfless love and dedication brought her husband out from 10 yrs of coma.
I pray she becomes well and healthy.
This guy has my full respect.
Love in its purest form. I know of a story of the complete opposite of this. I know a lady(used to work with her many years ago) her husband was in a bad car accident and became very dependent on others and she left him for someone else
He loves her and you can tell that. Just by the way he cares for her. I would do the same thing for my wife and I feel she would do the same. It says a lot about his character. When you take a vowel in sickness and in health. You are supposed to mean it or you shouldn’t say it. I believe that is the problem in today’s society. People only caring for themselves and saying things that they don’t mean.
Dude if a man got bedridden then his wife would dump him or take divorce. Just look at Steven Hawkins life .
she wouldn’t trust me
Men loves idealistically, vvomen loves opportunistically.
That is "extreme" taking care of a loved one. Personally, i wouldn't be able to do that! That shows true love..
@@elizabethlau5152 Typical woman.
I am speechless with how this man loves this woman who's his wife. Absolute dedication and no complaints. Agape Love ❤ If I had the resources to help them I would. I'll pray for bigger n better trailer. GB
People like him are the example of patience and perseverance.
Mad respect
I don't think u females will do the same for a man
@@EyeHateYoI'm a male
@@lexieliulover8238 😅
@@EyeHateYo it’s not about male female it’s about an individual
@@Bagelxoxo Statistics disagree with you.
Deep respect for this man who's take care fore his wife in all conditions ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This truly made my day! This man deserves all the praises and respect in the world. I pray for a quick recovery for his wife and many blessings to this couple.
*THIS IS WHAT LOVE LOOKS LIKE!* This guy is a freaking hero!
That's a real man there. She is so lucky to have him in such difficult times. I hope things improve for them.
Anyone who truly loves their wife understands this man’s thought process, and would no doubt do the same for them, if given the circumstances. Absolute respect to this man, and also I hope they continue to have a loving relationship in the future.
That's one responsible husband, such a man cannot be bad, may the Almighty reward you abundently
🙂
Beautiful. This is what humanity is about, caring for each other. I'm glad she's getting better.
You are very correct more the roles may change but taking care is the core of humanity. Historically there has been evidences that stone age humans take care of the paralysed ones. They carry them, feed them look after them as much as possible.
Just saw this. I haven’t teared up in a long time. What a Saint this man is. I hope him and his wife well.
お互いの存在が大切に思っててすてきです💗