Building a beautiful place within ourselves and filling our own cup first allows us to radiate a magnetic energy, the people who are meant to be will notice that and will feel attracted, this apply to relationship or friendships. At the end, you will always have yourself to h old you, even at your lowest. And final food for thought, healed ones/ emotionally intelligent people are always willing to have the tough conversations as they know they are huge growth opportunities. I loved the kind of chill vibes of the video while eating grapes, keep up!
Just got ghosted after what I thought was a very genuine connection. Went through all the stages of grief and came out realizing that it's not the end of the world.
2 years and all that runs through my head is how the person I held so close now chooses to distance from me and tells me nothing will ever be the same. Being around friends and family helps but when i’m alone I just cry. I cry because it’s so unfamiliar. I cry because I found comfort in her. I cry because a part of my soul feels ripped from my chest. Thanks for this video. It’s helping me rest. I hope that I can improve myself for her, but sometimes I think it’s too late. Why am I chasing somebody who doesn’t want anything to do with me? I still have hope. I want to a be a better me for myself but also them. I just hope I can get this opportunity. Yea there’s plenty of fish in the sea. but I wanted this one so bad. And i just don’t know how it got to this when I never thought it would.
I send you peace. I also want to remind you, much time has passed and who you want to be better for should be yourself because the person you fell for has changed since then. They are no longer who you remember them to be. If you change for them, you will be met with disappointment. If you grow for yourself, you will be met with achievements 🌷
just going through a very messy thing rn and ahhh being an only child, hearing this is like an older sister talking to me and it feels like a huge warm hug. ily and ty so much
AWW! As my video was a warm hug, your comment was a freshly baked chocolate chip cookie. I'm sorry to hear about your messy situation. Keep finding yourself and love will find you! I wish you much peace 🌷
Thanks Lucy, this video came at the perfect time. I absolutely neVER comment on videos, but I just came out of a relationship where I experienced unrequited love, and your words really put me in the right mind space to ponder on how to learn from this experience. I feel a little better about the future now :)
still healing from a break up and my gosh i loved the way u threw light on certain stuffs that are usually shown negatively, thanks man. sending love and good wishes through screen )
Thank you so much for giving my video a chance! I am so glad you found peace with some of my words. I root for you in your healing journey 🌷 Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍁
Any kind of relationship can be accompanied by difficulties, it doesn’t always flow easily. I think this will be the one to come again when I feel confused with dealing with emotions. Thank you so much ☺️
AW I am so grateful to hear my words have brought ease upon your day and any future ones too. What you said is true. Difficulties are inevitable. It’s about what we do with the inevitability 🌷
Wow, your talks make me the unrequited love towards your vibes😂 How nice to meet you here. You are much maturer than your age 👍 Really love your talks.❤ Just keep talking.... 🤗
I loved hearing you the entire time ,love the music as well I heard it all while doing my makeup ,it felt as if I was listening to a friend advising❤ me
Wtfffff, right person wrong time hit so hard. I’ve thought about a lot of this stuff and reflected on so much of it, but it hits harder when someone vocalizes your internal thoughts. Thank you for this ❤️
I had limerence and I was confused when she stopped reciprocating(there was a good reason, I just didn’t know)- I probably conveyed myself as needy emotionally (paragraphs). Tried to end it on good terms but she started to breadcrumb me. Found another guy and started sleeping around. I got over my own feelings. I genuinely admired her and wanted to be friends. But slowly she started to actively avoid me, bare minimum respond but still pretend that we were on friendly terms. I confronted her about it and she made no indication anything was wrong, like it was coming out of nowhere. It was so confusing and hurtful. I made the decision to put a stop to it. There were points where I couldn’t have known what I was doing, only in hindsight. I’ve made my peace. I just wonder why she would do that. She seemed like a sweet person, with her own hardships- knows what it’s like to be dehumanized. Why? I wish I understood.
Her journey is not for you to understand. I am glad you chose yourself and found your peace. We are all growing in our own ways. Which means we have to live life in our own ways. I send you peace 🌷 and I root for the both of you.
My ex and I broke up last month because his feelings had changed. He was my first relationship, and I'd never been through something like this before, so it hurts so much. Over the last month, I've attempted to figure out where I fell short, and I've tried to blame him for everything that happened, including shattering my heart, in order to heal myself. But nothing helped me feel any better.Your video has given me a lot to think about and grasp regarding this scenario. Thank you so much for creating such an amazing video. I'll follow you and look forward to your next interesting video.
I wish you peace. I take such value in your words and I appreciate you so much for sharing them with me. It brings me joy to hear my video resonated with your aching heart. I hope nothing but the best for you in this hurting, yet healing time. 🌷
I’ve been through this many times over over years, but the times I came close to working out a first relationship but it doesn’t start. I pick up on more about myself and what I would like and not like on the failures.
I was talking to this girl for a month and we had an amazing first date, we kissed and held hands. A week later she said she didn’t see anything long term :/ crazy scenes
I talked to a girl who texted very dry. I thought she just texted like that but then when we actually met in real life she was a very lively speaker and caught me offguard. Its embarrassing but I just was too slow to follow her lead and a few days later she told me she “found it nice but good like this”. That was pretty painful but right now ive realised that i have a lot more headspace wich kinda helps.
That’s all fine but when you go the whole distance, get married, have kids, gone through all sorts of milestones with this other person only to have them walk out of your life and straight into another person, it hurts more than anything in the world. Nothing seems real after that point.
I asked her on a second date, i really think the first one went well, she seemed to enjoy it. Either im cooked or im not, whatever happens happens ig...
how to heal from the feeling of betrayal, disrespectful and disappointment on the person? i realized it's not about their love or attention. i really wanna move on from it.
I’m sorry to hear your heart is hurting. You deserve peace. Thank you for sending me this talking topic. I find much meaning with it. I’d love to add it to my list and post it soon. I root for your peace. 🌷
Its ok love itself is a scam,if my work life and career doesnt align then i would say love is a distraction.Me who has gone rejections and failures in life also all women dont like me and they prefer money and fame men,so its ok i am a failure and dont say i need therapy [that means there is no happiness in life]
There’s no blame if it’s just a matter of incompatibility. It would be easier to let go in that case. But to be breadcrumbed, led on, and then ignored and rejected like you meant nothing…❤️🩹
Being breadcrumbed, ignored, and led on is a matter of incompatibility. Because your compatible mate wouldn’t have done that. Ironically being wronged, pushes you toward the path of right. 🌷 sending you peace and rooting for you.
Building a beautiful place within ourselves and filling our own cup first allows us to radiate a magnetic energy, the people who are meant to be will notice that and will feel attracted, this apply to relationship or friendships. At the end, you will always have yourself to h old you, even at your lowest. And final food for thought, healed ones/ emotionally intelligent people are always willing to have the tough conversations as they know they are huge growth opportunities. I loved the kind of chill vibes of the video while eating grapes, keep up!
Thank you for your kind words + insight! 🌷🍇
@@lucyvolume My pleasure! Thank you for making these videos and also taking the time to read the comments
@@lucyvolumeany idea what the background music is 😅
Just got ghosted after what I thought was a very genuine connection. Went through all the stages of grief and came out realizing that it's not the end of the world.
"it's not the end of the world" 🌷
literal me rn
Happens
I feel like I’ve accidentally stumbled across a gold mine with this channel. The vibes are immaculate. Keeeeep making more videos you are great.
Thank you for such kind words!🌷I hope to be seeing you in the comments 🌟 Please lmk what to talk about next 🍀 Sending peace
2 years and all that runs through my head is how the person I held so close now chooses to distance from me and tells me nothing will ever be the same.
Being around friends and family helps but when i’m alone I just cry. I cry because it’s so unfamiliar. I cry because I found comfort in her. I cry because a part of my soul feels ripped from my chest.
Thanks for this video. It’s helping me rest. I hope that I can improve myself for her, but sometimes I think it’s too late.
Why am I chasing somebody who doesn’t want anything to do with me? I still have hope. I want to a be a better me for myself but also them. I just hope I can get this opportunity.
Yea there’s plenty of fish in the sea. but I wanted this one so bad. And i just don’t know how it got to this when I never thought it would.
I send you peace. I also want to remind you, much time has passed and who you want to be better for should be yourself because the person you fell for has changed since then. They are no longer who you remember them to be. If you change for them, you will be met with disappointment. If you grow for yourself, you will be met with achievements 🌷
I’m rooting for you.
Man, i hope it works out well for you. ✌🏾
At the same time, continue growth for yourself too.
7:22 was such a mindblowing moment for me! it really opened up a new perspective on self love. Thank you!
Thank you for your kind words! 🌷 May we all find ways to reach our higher selves!! 💕
just going through a very messy thing rn and ahhh being an only child, hearing this is like an older sister talking to me and it feels like a huge warm hug. ily and ty so much
AWW! As my video was a warm hug, your comment was a freshly baked chocolate chip cookie. I'm sorry to hear about your messy situation. Keep finding yourself and love will find you! I wish you much peace 🌷
Thanks Lucy, this video came at the perfect time. I absolutely neVER comment on videos, but I just came out of a relationship where I experienced unrequited love, and your words really put me in the right mind space to ponder on how to learn from this experience. I feel a little better about the future now :)
I am so happy to hear that this video resonated with you! Hoping to see you in the comments again! Sending peace🌷
Man you Rock Lucy. Your vids are so relatable and comforting. Feels like a friend talking to me
still healing from a break up and my gosh i loved the way u threw light on certain stuffs that are usually shown negatively, thanks man. sending love and good wishes through screen )
Thank you so much for giving my video a chance! I am so glad you found peace with some of my words. I root for you in your healing journey 🌷 Happy Thanksgiving 🦃🍁
i love listening to you yap, it makes me feel so comforted
Thank you for giving my channel a chance!🌷I hope to be seeing you in the comments 🌟 Please lmk what to talk about next 🍀 Sending peace
Any kind of relationship can be accompanied by difficulties, it doesn’t always flow easily. I think this will be the one to come again when I feel confused with dealing with emotions.
Thank you so much ☺️
AW I am so grateful to hear my words have brought ease upon your day and any future ones too. What you said is true. Difficulties are inevitable. It’s about what we do with the inevitability 🌷
Wow, your talks make me the unrequited love towards your vibes😂
How nice to meet you here. You are much maturer than your age 👍 Really love your talks.❤ Just keep talking.... 🤗
I loved hearing you the entire time ,love the music as well I heard it all while doing my makeup ,it felt as if I was listening to a friend advising❤ me
Thank you so much for giving my video a chance! I loved we were getting ready together! I appreciate your support so much💕 happy Thanksgiving! 🦃🍁
@@lucyvolume❤❤
Wtfffff, right person wrong time hit so hard. I’ve thought about a lot of this stuff and reflected on so much of it, but it hits harder when someone vocalizes your internal thoughts. Thank you for this ❤️
Thank you for giving my video a chance!🌷I hope to be seeing you in the comments 🌟 Please lmk what to talk about next 🍀 Sending peace
I had limerence and I was confused when she stopped reciprocating(there was a good reason, I just didn’t know)- I probably conveyed myself as needy emotionally (paragraphs).
Tried to end it on good terms but she started to breadcrumb me. Found another guy and started sleeping around. I got over my own feelings. I genuinely admired her and wanted to be friends. But slowly she started to actively avoid me, bare minimum respond but still pretend that we were on friendly terms. I confronted her about it and she made no indication anything was wrong, like it was coming out of nowhere. It was so confusing and hurtful. I made the decision to put a stop to it. There were points where I couldn’t have known what I was doing, only in hindsight. I’ve made my peace. I just wonder why she would do that. She seemed like a sweet person, with her own hardships- knows what it’s like to be dehumanized. Why? I wish I understood.
Her journey is not for you to understand. I am glad you chose yourself and found your peace. We are all growing in our own ways. Which means we have to live life in our own ways. I send you peace 🌷 and I root for the both of you.
thank youuuu internet 🙏🏻 love if the series continued, this helped a lot
I too, thank the internet for bringing me to your screen! Your comment has confirmed + encouraged me that I will be posting again next Friday! 🌟
My ex and I broke up last month because his feelings had changed. He was my first relationship, and I'd never been through something like this before, so it hurts so much.
Over the last month, I've attempted to figure out where I fell short, and I've tried to blame him for everything that happened, including shattering my heart, in order to heal myself. But nothing helped me feel any better.Your video has given me a lot to think about and grasp regarding this scenario. Thank you so much for creating such an amazing video. I'll follow you and look forward to your next interesting video.
I wish you peace. I take such value in your words and I appreciate you so much for sharing them with me. It brings me joy to hear my video resonated with your aching heart. I hope nothing but the best for you in this hurting, yet healing time. 🌷
I’ve been through this many times over over years, but the times I came close to working out a first relationship but it doesn’t start. I pick up on more about myself and what I would like and not like on the failures.
"Pick up on more about myself" 🌷
Thank you for posting such content. I felt as if I could take a deep breath.
No, thank you for giving my video a chance! I am so grateful I was able to provide a comfortable space for you from my videos! 🌷
@lucyvolume :) 💌
speaking to my soul rn and idk how to feel about it 😳
I am GENUINELY relieved to hear this 🪻!
this was very theraputic to listen to
It was very therapeutic to make 🌷 thank you for your listening ears!
I really enjoyed this video it was my first interaction with this whole essence but it caught my attention really enjoyed it
Thank you for giving my video a chance! 🌷I appreciate your kind comment
W yap session
AHHH!!🌷 ✨
you're the person I always see on tiktok with those poems
I am she :) 🌷
I was talking to this girl for a month and we had an amazing first date, we kissed and held hands. A week later she said she didn’t see anything long term :/ crazy scenes
Normalize being friends...
I talked to a girl who texted very dry. I thought she just texted like that but then when we actually met in real life she was a very lively speaker and caught me offguard. Its embarrassing but I just was too slow to follow her lead and a few days later she told me she “found it nice but good like this”. That was pretty painful but right now ive realised that i have a lot more headspace wich kinda helps.
I felt like I was listening to a big sister give me life advice
I've always wanted a sister 🌷
That’s all fine but when you go the whole distance, get married, have kids, gone through all sorts of milestones with this other person only to have them walk out of your life and straight into another person, it hurts more than anything in the world.
Nothing seems real after that point.
But I want to yap like you 😭 how do I make myself a yapper?
**grabs camera**
I asked her on a second date, i really think the first one went well, she seemed to enjoy it. Either im cooked or im not, whatever happens happens ig...
how to heal from the feeling of betrayal, disrespectful and disappointment on the person? i realized it's not about their love or attention. i really wanna move on from it.
I’m sorry to hear your heart is hurting. You deserve peace. Thank you for sending me this talking topic. I find much meaning with it. I’d love to add it to my list and post it soon. I root for your peace. 🌷
And happy Thanksgiving!! 🍁 💕
great tips and great font, can i get the name pls :((
and the editing software too
Davinchi resolve! I’ll get back to you on the font :))
Heey, could you reupload but without the background music? I like the message but its hard to focus for me, i dunno if its adhd or what.
That’s a very good idea! Unfortunately I already scrapped the file :( BUT now I will def plan on posting a video with no music 🌷
What is the song?
Irrelevant but where did u get your top from?
Not irrelevant! It is my favorite sweater up to date. I will reply with the brand later today🌷
Hm.. Thanks.
Welcome 🌷
Its ok love itself is a scam,if my work life and career doesnt align then i would say love is a distraction.Me who has gone rejections and failures in life also all women dont like me and they prefer money and fame men,so its ok i am a failure and dont say i need therapy [that means there is no happiness in life]
Sigh, I need to tell her soon.
🌷
can you talk about maybe body image next time :)
That is an amazing topic. Added to my list ✅
Hope you’re doing well Rachel 🌷 It’s up!! My newest video regarding Glow Up’s and my journey about body image.
@@lucyvolume omg thank you so much omw to watch it :))
Is this my sign to become a narcissist?
There’s no blame if it’s just a matter of incompatibility. It would be easier to let go in that case. But to be breadcrumbed, led on, and then ignored and rejected like you meant nothing…❤️🩹
Being breadcrumbed, ignored, and led on is a matter of incompatibility. Because your compatible mate wouldn’t have done that. Ironically being wronged, pushes you toward the path of right. 🌷 sending you peace and rooting for you.
Thank you for the kind words Lucy. I’m not fully there yet but in a much better place than the recent months for sure.