You guys have made me cry so much. My Carolinita came out and I saw her in those times she felt lonely, unappreciated and abused. Neglected. And I told her I'm here and will be with her now. I see her and recognize her worth and powerful way of being. Thank you for this beautiful conversation
Two amazing people, sharing their vulnerability & how they continue to work to overcome the adversities they still face…What a great talk this was. Thank you both for sharing your struggles & what you continue to do, to keep going forward! 🙌🏼🤯
I am not kidding this interview is saving my life. I am going through a lot like an unbearable amount of suffering and I am holding onto a little hope because of you guys.
I would have never guessed that Ed would prefer to stay in his room at a hotel!! I’m the exact opposite, I need to be outside the room, where freedom lies! The room makes me feel trapped! You don’t know how strong you are, until strong is the only option! 🙌🏻💁🏼♀️💯
Ed, this interview with Gabby really helped me put my trauma in perspective and it was very powerful! Both of your energy and authenticity plus compassion is very refreshing! Thank you both for this excellent interview!
Ed I’ve followed for years and have read all of Gabby’s books too. What a POWERFUL conversation. I had some big ah ha moments myself too. 🙌 keep being awesome your book will change so many lives. It’s your time, it’s my time, it’s our time. 🙏💜⏰
@@EdMylettShow that I have more trauma then I even can remember or type out in one comment. It would break a lot of people but it's making me one hell of a person and I love how I can help people walk through their trauma. I refuse to let other people and trauma change the person I am or make me a "bad" person. My future is bright! Remember my name and my company DeadSetMind or don't you'll hear it again anyway. Thank you for what you do and the butterfly effect your dad started
@@Coreybengold same my ugly cry is a single tear and my eyes staying watery I haven't cried in 12 years I guess I went threw enough when I was younger that my response is to num myself laugh and call myself a bitch lol
This is a must watch. I now understand why being alone has always been my "safe place." Not because that's what I ever wanted but it's where I wasn't hurt. 😢
Anyone else in here balling their eyes out! Wow I’m literally going through what Ed is experiencing right now as well at 33 wow wow wow I love the work you both are doing I learn so much from you Ed and I’ve been a huge fan of yours Gaby also! Thank you thank you and thank you!
So many of us had childhoods of trauma. My dad I believe had post trauma from WW II. He has a breakdown when I was 5. My mom became the in charge person and it was arguments many nights about each other's families. He died at 56 from a massive heart attack. Then I became like the other parent and caregiver. So much to let go of and be Lynda the giver who is also able to be a legacy creator for me then family. Thank you for your new book 200 of us will be reading it on my 9 am meeting .this morning. God knows what will happen. I received it yesterday. I need to finish my children's book. Help I need an illustrator. Is anyone here an illustrator? Please DM me! Blessings all! #legacy #faithoverfear #maxout #selfimage
I saw Ed today in his vulnerability as such a strong, kind, manly, real human. My administration for him grew a million fold. I have just bought Gabby's book and can't wait to start reading it.
Every time I listen to this show, I am wow-ed even more and I thank God for you Ed- a ray of sunshine and soothing energy right when it is needed the most🙏🙏🙏
Dear Ed & Gabby...thank you for being real/vulnerable...I'm wondering if that onion wasn't peeled in record time...rest assure MANY peoples lives have been triggered including my own. Again & again, you've blessed us with an amazing/timely interview. Congrats to your game changing book & God Bless you Ed Mylett
One of the most amazing interviews you have ever done. I appreciate you being welling to do the work live. I got her book and look forward to listening. I pre-ordered your book a while ago, very excited. Love your work! It matters.
@@EdMylettShow so you doing the work and talking about it with Gabby and you started to realize in your head about your childhood, that made me relatable in my life and my struggles growing up. Gabby's energy and compassion was amazing. both of you getting raw with emotions made me cry and afterwards made me dig deep into my inner child so thank you. Both of you have the goal of teaching if I can do it so can anyone. I believe that in myself. Some day when I meet you in person I will shake your hand and say thank you. I have watched like 95% of your videos. Thanks for replying. Have a great day!
Some believe that all time exists in the same time, that everything happens NOW, even our younger self. Connecting with these younger versions of us, is like stepping into a parallel universe and telling young me that life will be fine, that it will work out. I have done this work and I do believe it is essential to letting trauma from younger years go. Thank you both for the wonderful interview
IFS comes up again and again on your show! I’m so glad to see this: IFS has helped me change my life! Ed I really admire you for doing therapy in front of the world!!!!
Thank you both. Love it so much. I’m sober 25 years and so I know what the program can do and has done for me and countless others. So, thank you Ed and Gabby. POWERFUL. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
OMG guys!!! I absolutely connected with this session, I applied the techniques myself during the call, I cried during the call, I RELEASED something, that I know, and it feels truly profound and incredibly healing, THANK YOU, YOU TWO, for speaking about your own vulnerability, giving a safe space for us suffering with big Ts and abuse, to do the same. 🙏✨️💯💞
Thank you so much this was beautiful watching you do the work live it’s not easy going down this road and visiting our child like self but it’s definitely a necessary process to healing and letting go.. so very proud of you ! ❤️ I love gabby she’s a beautiful soul ❤️ Trauma doesn’t define us when you finally get to do the work and let go you are truly free!!
Ed, thank you for being so open and vulnerable! Watching IFS therapy in real life was so VERY helpful. I follow Gabby and I’m getting thru Gabby’s new book Happy Days. It’s not an easy read because it brings the “bad parts” out. Watching this interview helped me pick the book back up and keep going! Thank you Ed and Gabby ❤️🤗
Dear Ed, I'm so SO grateful to you for this show ! You have absolutely no idea what it has done for me.. Usually I'm not an emotional one but I'm in tears right now. I've just realized how much denial I've been living in all this years. My mind came up with all these excuses and justifications and reasons for the way I am, for the way I show up in the world , in relationships, in life. And the Protectors - everything I've done and become - All to just cover up the unbearable pain that still hides and lurches in me and apparently never left.. And you two are thriving, thank Goodness. Your protectors made you overcompensate and achieve so much. Mine forced me into hiding and being a "grey mouse". Right now, at this very moment, I am living my most difficult and challenging period of my entire life, something I never could imagine happening, ever. Just facing the insanities of the crazy world we are living in. I cannot believe I am sharing this. My mind is judging me for being weak and whiny. But after watching the show I feel like I have to break this wall of silence I've been living behind. Right now my family is stranded in a foreign country without papers and means. And in my head I must be "the Man" right now - find solutions, hustle and fight to get us out of this mess. But instead, my little nightmare has showed up, after years of being locked "in the dungeon" - I'm having the worst anxiety attacks and self-sabotaging thoughts that make me completely dysfunctional an frozen.. I'm 44 and I am feeling like a scared 5 year old which apparently I still am somewhere inside. I know now that after today I must begin the work Gabby and you are talking about. My own soul is pushing me to do this by squeezing me into this impossible circumstances. I just hate that my loved ones have to suffer because of me.. More reasons to do this and change myself. God bless you !
I woke up at 3, not intentionally, did a short meditation and was then inspired to check your UA-cam channel for some inspiring conversation. I've read a few of Gabby's previous books, but wasn't familiar with this new one and the title intrigued me, especially in connection with her name. I feel like it was a ten minute conversation, time went so quickly. I was moved, soothed and inspired to actually sit down with my little self, the young girl who I believe was sexuelly abused and I want to walk into that room with her because I already know she feels safe with me today. Gabby's book is now in my audible library and I'm excited to listen to it as my next book. Ed, I pre-ordered your book on audible. Thank you, Ed and Gabby.
This was amazing! I cried through Ed’s session with Gabby. I am going to share this with my daughter because I know it will change her life too. Thank you Ed for all you do. I saw you live at Family Reunion for KW and it was so moving. We have all been impacted so much and then brought it back to our individual offices and shared again. We watched it while making vision boards this past Tuesday. You are a gem❤ Thank you for sharing the gift you have been given.
I've had trauma and all your videos are my therapy. Edd that's beautiful and why your blessings will flow in Jesus name I pray for you daily because what Jesus does in you.
Very relatable. Definitely identify as the 8 year kid with thick glasses who grew up alone reading in his room where I felt safest. Grew up to be in the proximity of greatness. The tapping of bringing myself bliss through a touch point I’m in control of is gratifying. Can’t wait to disperse your 600 books to worthy causes and charities to bless the world
Love that you were able to get Gabby on the show. I purchased and read the book back in February when it was released. It's been really helpful, but for me, the most helpful of all is conversations like these -- HEARING the stories and people talk about it... so thank you for supporting our healing (my healing) through your interviews.
This was so so spot on. Im presently pursuing Masters in Clinical Psychology and have been thinking of pursuing PhD in IFT and coming across this, Im sure that its exactly that and somatic healing that Id like to pursue.
mind blown, listening in, made me think about my struggles in life and how some things I react to today, are the same things that I was trying to unconsciously protect myself from. the irony the develops from habits is deadly
Sincerely thank you!! The hardest topic of my life is this stuck energy where I feel I have trapped and disassociated memories from my past. So much shame and guilt that I haven't released but have always suspected I haven't faced some of my memories. I love this conversation more than I can say! ❤️🙏🏼
I will be sharing this on my blog and my social media. Phenomenal show....incredible insights and what is so needed for this very moment with all that our country is experiencing, collectively and individually. Thank you Gabby and Ed from the bottom of my heart. I am 7 years into doing this very kind of inner work and healing -- and in turn helping others on their own journey.
7 minutes in and childhood experiences that I too dissociated from. Until recently at 41 those things have come back up as I've been facing my sub conscious behaviors that ruled my life.
@@EdMylettShow absolutely. I've been taking them the last 18 months as I am part of a new program called Deep Recovery. It's a Trauma program that uses Faith, neuroscience and applicable tools. It has already given me freedoms that I didn't think were possible. As I've been working it and gaining the strength to face it all, more n more of my blocked out past is coming up.
Oh gosh i feel that way currently for a few years. I've been wanting to write a book about my journey overcoming trauma of being molested and emotionally abused from my father. I can relate to sooooo much what Gabby is stating. I feel the same about living the pass to understand and to tell my story.
@@EdMylettShow As a trauma therapist I'm always hunting for stories of not just surviving, but thriving. I love how you showed your vulnerable side by talking about your experience in the hotel, showing that although you are very successful healing has many levels of so much depth if you chose to continuously seek to understand yourself and grow. Thank you for showing up in the world as a powerful example of what is possible.
I had a series of really harmful and traumatic experiences with therapists, ironically, that almost drove me to ending my life. That was two and a half years ago, and up until recently, it was deeply affecting me every day. I haven't listened to this yet, but I am interested in hearing what she has to say.
As I am listening to this video It is exactly what God needed me to hear. I have been going through a huge transformation as I face my trauma and trying to find out what happened. The Shame is huge. I lived in dream land most of my life. I’m 46 years old and I only have just found out some of the bases and I have been struggling to write about my journey.
Thank you Ed and Gaby for this awesome episode. May you both continue with this blessing work. I have a question: how do your spouses and friends/family deal with this? And how can you offer help to someone who isn't there yet. You see that their traumas are limiting them and they feel stuck.
This makes 2 weeks in a row you've made me cry. Next week have Andy Frisella on to even things out. So profound! I love your willingness to show vulnerability. ❤️❤️❤️
We are truly blessed in this world Ed, for your bring individuals like Gabby into our lives! Trauma is a word I never considered from small to huge regarding what I've gone through. Appreciate how my spirit connected with yours today on the vulnerability side! I FELT IT! We ARE the messengers and should share this for others who are living with this but.. Here's a lifeline.. Gabby said it nicely as she said when you asked "how does one start"... "you've already started" was Gabby's reply! Blessings 2U both!!
I just had to pause and check in with myself I can feel tears rising and a lump and in my throat as I watch this.....I have always been a fan of both of you and have nit checked either of you out for a while and lately I've just been practicing the stuff I preach about showing up for myself and making being me my daily practice just doing me and I felt inspired to come watch an interveiw and when I saw you 2 had done one I knew this was the one......just pausing to write this comment and express my gratitude to both of you for sharing your vulnerability thank you thank you thank you
Yes!! I love this so much! This is the work that happens in so many therapy offices but it doesn't have to be stuck in a therapy office (I'm a psychologist turned coach). People can learn to walk through these exercises with a coach too or in other guided ways. One thing I'd add - Ed, go back to that little boy and once he feels safe invite him to join you, to grow up with you safely. It will help "unstick" all of the trigger points he was guarding so closely. Let him know that you love him and thank him for his service and tell him that he can come be part of the "whole" you. Watch him either grow up before your eyes or even become a part of you in a big hug.
It should happen in therapy offices, but for many people, including myself, it doesn't. I actually had so many harmful and traumatic experiences at the hands of therapists that I almost ended my life. It's stuck deeply with me for the past 2 and a half years and had profound effects on my emotional, mental, spiritual, and even physical health. Unfortunately, there's many of us out there where our trauma is directly tied to what happened to us in therapy.
@@nathanieljohnson6259 I agree, there is a lot of negligence that happens in therapy offices. I'm sorry you had so many bad experiences. I hope you've found new tools and helpers who can help you move forward from all of the trauma.
Yes reparenting your younger self! Talking to your younger self about it and working through it! It’s hard work but totally worth it! And you will be triggered again and again, but you now have tools to help you and make it easier. You come out stronger for sure! 💪❤️
Wow! That is The.Most.Powerful episode I've seen. Ed, the simple part where you connect the so-called introvert room service behavior to a trauma response of being with your dad in a public place. How many of us have behavior patterns that we think, "Oh, I'm just ___________ (fill in the blank) " and that behavior is really a prisoner to trauma in the past. The subtitle of Gabby's book- From Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace. I can't wait to get her book.. and yours. Thank you.
This is for sure my favourite show you've done Ed, my husband and I have been watching since, I believe the beginning when it was Max Out. My husband purchased your book its on its way, and I will be purchasing this book from Gabby. Sending you and yours love and blessings. Thank you so much 🙏
Excellent interview Gabby and Ed, thank you. The visible/acknowledged trauma, tragedy and resulting pain, disassociation and dysfunction in peoples lives is but the tip of the iceberg. Keep up the good work.
Wow...just wow!!! What a raw and emotional interview! My subconscious trauma was coming up just a few minutes into it. Thank you Ed and Gabby for being vulnerable and giving us paths to heal. Can't wait to get and read both of your books.
I was watching Ed on Bigger Pockets (real estate related) and decided to hop on his channel. Of all the videos I clicked on this. And I do believe spirit guided me to this video. More to provide insight on a friend whom I believe has experienced Big T and going through dark times (alcoholism, destructive lifestyle, etc). I have been hoping to help him for some time now but he isnt allowing me to. I purchased Gabby's book, perhaps he will need to read it as well.
I've spent years on my self healing journey sitting with my demons and un settled part of me. Although I feel way more at peace then I ever have, I do have these triggers that pop up from time to time. This right here just touched my soul with calmness and understanding. Beautiful information, I try n share everything I can to help other along my journey because I know so many people that need information like this. Absolutely blessed to come across this one and from the bottom of my heart thank you. Such a beautiful message and understanding of what lies inside all of us. 🙌🙌🙌
Ed, I like many can spot a phony a mile away. This interview was sincerely a great, honest and really interesting topic. I will be ordering her book. GOD bless you both!
Ed, did you notice that everything you said to that little boy is what you tell other people during your interviews? Turns out you needed to say it to yourself. That was beautiful.
Wow.. only three minutes in and I’m choked up as well with the both of you. I already looking to purchase her book and I haven’t even finished the video. Great timing for my life with this video! Thanks Ed & Gabby!!
Such thought provoking process to change. The inner work is the hardest. Reconnecting to the inner child, or inner protector. Thank you for this session.
As a massive fan of Gabbys work already (I've got all her books incl Happy Days) and having just listened to this episode, I COMPLETELY RESONATE with both of your inner child's, this left me in tears but at the same time an incredible peace within. THANK YOU BOTH for being valnurable while leading by example through your own trauma releasing experiences.
I just started learning about meditation tapping. I did this tapping on my hand while yall did it and omg I got so emotional. I love this whole interview!!!
@@EdMylettShow I honestly felt as if you were both talking directly to me the entire episode. I realize how many Big T traumas I had and how i have dissociated out of my memory and play it as if people have it worse. And at 42 years old with a high desire to achieve great things she really allowed me to see my self sabotage and and lack of empathy I have for myself by denying my broken little me that was never loved and left. Thank you brother Ed this truly opened my heart to know healing is a must 🙏
Regarding "psychotic work mode". I get like that when I am on a Divine mission... When I was writing my book I found myself in that mode and meditated and felt guided that this is my mission. The message I am sharing is needed and my isolation and fasting was to keep the message pure and in flow. It was only for a period... It's now with an editor for mainstream publishing 🥰 I've worked on cases to help women and children in crises and get in this mode because time is of the essence. Getting crucial reports and evidence together as quick as possible gets those people out of their oppressive situations faster... I've found that when most people are in Psychotic work mode it's because it's something that needs full attention right now... I used to feel guilty if I had to take myself out of my normal schedule to jump in to help a situation or put something together the Kingdom of Heaven guides me to do to help people awaken to ascend... Now I realize we are given that crazy focus and energy for a Divine reason. 100% of the time what I had to get done with that focus lead to saving lives... I feel guided you are the same... Love that Saintly version of yourself. Support it and let the people you love know that you have this or that project that needs your 100% right now. The people who love you truly will understand and support you. They know you're a Saint changing lives through your focus. They will support you... Maybe even bring you sandwiches and juices so you can still focus if fasting isn't one of the things you do for focus anyways 🥰 God bless you both and everything you do! ✝️🌈💜
Ed, when I heard you talk about how your father behaved in the restaurants I remembered that you mentioned once, many video's ago, that you don't feel comfortable sending food back or letting a server know you are not happy with your food. I'm curious if you are worried about making a scene or acting like you father. I instantly thought of that old video when you mentioned that trauma in this video. This is really powerful stuff!!
@@EdMylettShow It makes me feel that as a man I am also allowed to be vulnerable! You've taught me this over many years, not just with this video. A lot of trauma in this world is caused mostly by men and pride, and I feel that if men are allowed to show their feelings, it would solve so many problems we have today!
You guys have made me cry so much. My Carolinita came out and I saw her in those times she felt lonely, unappreciated and abused. Neglected. And I told her I'm here and will be with her now. I see her and recognize her worth and powerful way of being. Thank you for this beautiful conversation
The part where Ed said thats what qualified someone to help his Dad is a lightbulb moment for me. Thank you
I came here as a gabby person. I’d never heard of you, Ed, but you are such a beautiful, kind person. This interview is EVERYTHING.
This should have more views. It’s a difficult topic but needed for most of us. Be sure to share this with the ones you love the most
Two amazing people, sharing their vulnerability & how they continue to work to overcome the adversities they still face…What a great talk this was. Thank you both for sharing your struggles & what you continue to do, to keep going forward! 🙌🏼🤯
Being vulnerable and showing humility is big strength all around. Humility always wins ❤️👌🏼
That’s why it’s difficult, all good things needs good effort
I am not kidding this interview is saving my life. I am going through a lot like an unbearable amount of suffering and I am holding onto a little hope because of you guys.
I would have never guessed that Ed would prefer to stay in his room at a hotel!! I’m the exact opposite, I need to be outside the room, where freedom lies! The room makes me feel trapped! You don’t know how strong you are, until strong is the only option! 🙌🏻💁🏼♀️💯
Ed, this interview with Gabby really helped me put my trauma in perspective and it was very powerful! Both of your energy and authenticity plus compassion is very refreshing! Thank you both for this excellent interview!
Ed I’ve followed for years and have read all of Gabby’s books too. What a POWERFUL conversation. I had some big ah ha moments myself too. 🙌 keep being awesome your book will change so many lives. It’s your time, it’s my time, it’s our time. 🙏💜⏰
I respect the hell out of you, Ed, for your vulnerability in this and putting this part of you out there.
Thank you, Gabby
Can't stop crying, you two are touching my soul. Crying for little Ed, little Gabby , and little me....so many light bulbs. Sending love
This episode got me crying and eating ice cream in my room at 4am. The tapping and telling myself I'm safe got me ugly crying
You are so strong for recognizing it, What did you take away from this that can help you grow?
@@EdMylettShow that I have more trauma then I even can remember or type out in one comment.
It would break a lot of people but it's making me one hell of a person and I love how I can help people walk through their trauma.
I refuse to let other people and trauma change the person I am or make me a "bad" person.
My future is bright!
Remember my name and my company DeadSetMind or don't you'll hear it again anyway.
Thank you for what you do and the butterfly effect your dad started
I wish I could ugly cry that same thing made me cry for like 3 seconds and then I disassociate and don’t let myself feel more pain.
But I will not give up for my family and the world. I will overcome this somehow.
@@Coreybengold same my ugly cry is a single tear and my eyes staying watery I haven't cried in 12 years I guess I went threw enough when I was younger that my response is to num myself laugh and call myself a bitch lol
I spent years isolating in my room too. It was my safe place. It has taken me years to come out.
This is a must watch. I now understand why being alone has always been my "safe place." Not because that's what I ever wanted but it's where I wasn't hurt. 😢
Anyone else in here balling their eyes out! Wow I’m literally going through what Ed is experiencing right now as well at 33 wow wow wow I love the work you both are doing I learn so much from you Ed and I’ve been a huge fan of yours Gaby also! Thank you thank you and thank you!
Angels on earth! 🤍
So many of us had childhoods of trauma. My dad I believe had post trauma from WW II. He has a breakdown when I was 5. My mom became the in charge person and it was arguments many nights about each other's families. He died at 56 from a massive heart attack. Then I became like the other parent and caregiver. So much to let go of and be Lynda the giver who is also able to be a legacy creator for me then family. Thank you for your new book 200 of us will be reading it on my 9 am meeting .this morning. God knows what will happen. I received it yesterday. I need to finish my children's book. Help I need an illustrator. Is anyone here an illustrator? Please DM me! Blessings all! #legacy #faithoverfear #maxout #selfimage
I saw Ed today in his vulnerability as such a strong, kind, manly, real human. My administration for him grew a million fold. I have just bought Gabby's book and can't wait to start reading it.
Every time I listen to this show, I am wow-ed even more and I thank God for you Ed- a ray of sunshine and soothing energy right when it is needed the most🙏🙏🙏
This is super powerful. Two powerhouses in the industry showing up as servant leaders. I admire you two!!!
Dear Ed & Gabby...thank you for being real/vulnerable...I'm wondering if that onion wasn't peeled in record time...rest assure MANY peoples lives have been triggered including my own. Again & again, you've blessed us with an amazing/timely interview. Congrats to your game changing book & God Bless you Ed Mylett
One of the most amazing interviews you have ever done. I appreciate you being welling to do the work live. I got her book and look forward to listening. I pre-ordered your book a while ago, very excited. Love your work! It matters.
Wow, thank you! What part stayed with you the most?
@@EdMylettShow so you doing the work and talking about it with Gabby and you started to realize in your head about your childhood, that made me relatable in my life and my struggles growing up. Gabby's energy and compassion was amazing. both of you getting raw with emotions made me cry and afterwards made me dig deep into my inner child so thank you. Both of you have the goal of teaching if I can do it so can anyone. I believe that in myself. Some day when I meet you in person I will shake your hand and say thank you. I have watched like 95% of your videos. Thanks for replying. Have a great day!
Some believe that all time exists in the same time, that everything happens NOW, even our younger self. Connecting with these younger versions of us, is like stepping into a parallel universe and telling young me that life will be fine, that it will work out. I have done this work and I do believe it is essential to letting trauma from younger years go. Thank you both for the wonderful interview
IFS comes up again and again on your show! I’m so glad to see this: IFS has helped me change my life! Ed I really admire you for doing therapy in front of the world!!!!
Thank you both. Love it so much. I’m sober 25 years and so I know what the program can do and has done for me and countless others. So, thank you Ed and Gabby. POWERFUL. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
OMG guys!!! I absolutely connected with this session, I applied the techniques myself during the call, I cried during the call, I RELEASED something, that I know, and it feels truly profound and incredibly healing, THANK YOU, YOU TWO, for speaking about your own vulnerability, giving a safe space for us suffering with big Ts and abuse, to do the same. 🙏✨️💯💞
Thank you so much this was beautiful watching you do the work live it’s not easy going down this road and visiting our child like self but it’s definitely a necessary process to healing and letting go.. so very proud of you ! ❤️ I love gabby she’s a beautiful soul ❤️ Trauma doesn’t define us when you finally get to do the work and let go you are truly free!!
Ed, thank you for being so open and vulnerable! Watching IFS therapy in real life was so VERY helpful. I follow Gabby and I’m getting thru Gabby’s new book Happy Days. It’s not an easy read because it brings the “bad parts” out. Watching this interview helped me pick the book back up and keep going! Thank you Ed and Gabby ❤️🤗
Dear Ed, I'm so SO grateful to you for this show ! You have absolutely no idea what it has done for me.. Usually I'm not an emotional one but I'm in tears right now. I've just realized how much denial I've been living in all this years. My mind came up with all these excuses and justifications and reasons for the way I am, for the way I show up in the world , in relationships, in life. And the Protectors - everything I've done and become - All to just cover up the unbearable pain that still hides and lurches in me and apparently never left.. And you two are thriving, thank Goodness. Your protectors made you overcompensate and achieve so much. Mine forced me into hiding and being a "grey mouse". Right now, at this very moment, I am living my most difficult and challenging period of my entire life, something I never could imagine happening, ever. Just facing the insanities of the crazy world we are living in. I cannot believe I am sharing this. My mind is judging me for being weak and whiny. But after watching the show I feel like I have to break this wall of silence I've been living behind. Right now my family is stranded in a foreign country without papers and means. And in my head I must be "the Man" right now - find solutions, hustle and fight to get us out of this mess. But instead, my little nightmare has showed up, after years of being locked "in the dungeon" - I'm having the worst anxiety attacks and self-sabotaging thoughts that make me completely dysfunctional an frozen.. I'm 44 and I am feeling like a scared 5 year old which apparently I still am somewhere inside. I know now that after today I must begin the work Gabby and you are talking about. My own soul is pushing me to do this by squeezing me into this impossible circumstances. I just hate that my loved ones have to suffer because of me.. More reasons to do this and change myself. God bless you !
Ed, your work with your podcast is a profound gift to the world. Thank you for your bravery and hard work. God’s richest blessings to to.
I woke up at 3, not intentionally, did a short meditation and was then inspired to check your UA-cam channel for some inspiring conversation. I've read a few of Gabby's previous books, but wasn't familiar with this new one and the title intrigued me, especially in connection with her name. I feel like it was a ten minute conversation, time went so quickly.
I was moved, soothed and inspired to actually sit down with my little self, the young girl who I believe was sexuelly abused and I want to walk into that room with her because I already know she feels safe with me today.
Gabby's book is now in my audible library and I'm excited to listen to it as my next book. Ed, I pre-ordered your book on audible.
Thank you, Ed and Gabby.
This was amazing! I cried through Ed’s session with Gabby. I am going to share this with my daughter because I know it will change her life too. Thank you Ed for all you do. I saw you live at Family Reunion for KW and it was so moving. We have all been impacted so much and then brought it back to our individual offices and shared again. We watched it while making vision boards this past Tuesday. You are a gem❤ Thank you for sharing the gift you have been given.
I've had trauma and all your videos are my therapy. Edd that's beautiful and why your blessings will flow in Jesus name I pray for you daily because what Jesus does in you.
Very relatable. Definitely identify as the 8 year kid with thick glasses who grew up alone reading in his room where I felt safest. Grew up to be in the proximity of greatness. The tapping of bringing myself bliss through a touch point I’m in control of is gratifying. Can’t wait to disperse your 600 books to worthy causes and charities to bless the world
Love that you were able to get Gabby on the show. I purchased and read the book back in February when it was released. It's been really helpful, but for me, the most helpful of all is conversations like these -- HEARING the stories and people talk about it... so thank you for supporting our healing (my healing) through your interviews.
This was so so spot on. Im presently pursuing Masters in Clinical Psychology and have been thinking of pursuing PhD in IFT and coming across this, Im sure that its exactly that and somatic healing that Id like to pursue.
mind blown, listening in, made me think about my struggles in life and how some things I react to today, are the same things that I was trying to unconsciously protect myself from. the irony the develops from habits is deadly
Sincerely thank you!! The hardest topic of my life is this stuck energy where I feel I have trapped and disassociated memories from my past. So much shame and guilt that I haven't released but have always suspected I haven't faced some of my memories. I love this conversation more than I can say! ❤️🙏🏼
Thank you for encouraging people (esp. men!) to open up
Love you Ed!! God bless you!!!! Thank you Gabby!!!! Love you both
I will be sharing this on my blog and my social media. Phenomenal show....incredible insights and what is so needed for this very moment with all that our country is experiencing, collectively and individually. Thank you Gabby and Ed from the bottom of my heart. I am 7 years into doing this very kind of inner work and healing -- and in turn helping others on their own journey.
I've had tremendous trauma is many areas I realized listening to this I need some major healing of my inner child
7 minutes in and childhood experiences that I too dissociated from. Until recently at 41 those things have come back up as I've been facing my sub conscious behaviors that ruled my life.
same bro, stand tall and live the moment
Awesome show you too just flow, could have listened for hours. Thanks
I am so proud of you acknowledging that, are there steps you will take to address them?
@@EdMylettShow absolutely. I've been taking them the last 18 months as I am part of a new program called Deep Recovery. It's a Trauma program that uses Faith, neuroscience and applicable tools. It has already given me freedoms that I didn't think were possible. As I've been working it and gaining the strength to face it all, more n more of my blocked out past is coming up.
Pure gold. Thank you both for being so vulnerable, you have no clue how impactful this episode is.
Loved the taping exercise. Also, 27:20 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Gabby, ur amazing, Ed, thank u and ur little boy!
Oh gosh i feel that way currently for a few years. I've been wanting to write a book about my journey overcoming trauma of being molested and emotionally abused from my father. I can relate to sooooo much what Gabby is stating. I feel the same about living the pass to understand and to tell my story.
Wow, what a powerful talk. By Far one of the hardest hitting yet. I love both your vulnerability . Thank you for inspiring me. ❤
What an amazing interview! This is such an important conversation. Thank you Ed and Gaby for showing up for the world. ❤️🙏🏼
Our pleasure! What resonated with you most?
@@EdMylettShow As a trauma therapist I'm always hunting for stories of not just surviving, but thriving. I love how you showed your vulnerable side by talking about your experience in the hotel, showing that although you are very successful healing has many levels of so much depth if you chose to continuously seek to understand yourself and grow. Thank you for showing up in the world as a powerful example of what is possible.
I had a series of really harmful and traumatic experiences with therapists, ironically, that almost drove me to ending my life. That was two and a half years ago, and up until recently, it was deeply affecting me every day. I haven't listened to this yet, but I am interested in hearing what she has to say.
OH wow! That is DEEP! Vulnerability
is about seeing myself. I feel that to the depths of my soul!
As I am listening to this video It is exactly what God needed me to hear. I have been going through a huge transformation as I face my trauma and trying to find out what happened. The Shame is huge. I lived in dream land most of my life. I’m 46 years old and I only have just found out some of the bases and I have been struggling to write about my journey.
Thank you Ed and Gaby for this awesome episode. May you both continue with this blessing work. I have a question: how do your spouses and friends/family deal with this? And how can you offer help to someone who isn't there yet. You see that their traumas are limiting them and they feel stuck.
What an inspiring interview! Thank you both for sharing such a powerful conversation.
This makes 2 weeks in a row you've made me cry. Next week have Andy Frisella on to even things out. So profound! I love your willingness to show vulnerability. ❤️❤️❤️
We are truly blessed in this world Ed, for your bring individuals like Gabby into our lives! Trauma is a word I never considered from small to huge regarding what I've gone through. Appreciate how my spirit connected with yours today on the vulnerability side! I FELT IT! We ARE the messengers and should share this for others who are living with this but..
Here's a lifeline.. Gabby said it nicely as she said when you asked "how does one start"... "you've already started" was Gabby's reply! Blessings 2U both!!
I’m TOTALLY with u Ed! I feel the subconscious comfort in pain.
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS !!! Two of my favorites together speaking truths ❤️❤️❤️
I just had to pause and check in with myself I can feel tears rising and a lump and in my throat as I watch this.....I have always been a fan of both of you and have nit checked either of you out for a while and lately I've just been practicing the stuff I preach about showing up for myself and making being me my daily practice just doing me and I felt inspired to come watch an interveiw and when I saw you 2 had done one I knew this was the one......just pausing to write this comment and express my gratitude to both of you for sharing your vulnerability thank you thank you thank you
This is exactly the story of my life. Thank you my lovely inspirations
Every week you seem to up your game on the interviews!! Thanks Ed!!!!
Thank You! 💓💓💓🌏🌍🌎
This is EXCELLENT!!!
I’m an SE practitioner and got sober in 2005 also
Yes!! I love this so much! This is the work that happens in so many therapy offices but it doesn't have to be stuck in a therapy office (I'm a psychologist turned coach). People can learn to walk through these exercises with a coach too or in other guided ways. One thing I'd add - Ed, go back to that little boy and once he feels safe invite him to join you, to grow up with you safely. It will help "unstick" all of the trigger points he was guarding so closely. Let him know that you love him and thank him for his service and tell him that he can come be part of the "whole" you. Watch him either grow up before your eyes or even become a part of you in a big hug.
It should happen in therapy offices, but for many people, including myself, it doesn't. I actually had so many harmful and traumatic experiences at the hands of therapists that I almost ended my life. It's stuck deeply with me for the past 2 and a half years and had profound effects on my emotional, mental, spiritual, and even physical health. Unfortunately, there's many of us out there where our trauma is directly tied to what happened to us in therapy.
@@nathanieljohnson6259 I agree, there is a lot of negligence that happens in therapy offices. I'm sorry you had so many bad experiences. I hope you've found new tools and helpers who can help you move forward from all of the trauma.
This was needed. Just feeling like I could talk to myself about my past helped put me at some ease. Love your stuff!
I could feel the amazing energy! Two of my favorite people doing a podcast!! Love it!
OH MY GOODNESS!!!! How useful is this podcast in that I can relate on sooo many levels. WOW!!! This is so impacting.
Yes reparenting your younger self! Talking to your younger self about it and working through it! It’s hard work but totally worth it! And you will be triggered again and again, but you now have tools to help you and make it easier. You come out stronger for sure! 💪❤️
Wow! That is The.Most.Powerful episode I've seen. Ed, the simple part where you connect the so-called introvert room service behavior to a trauma response of being with your dad in a public place. How many of us have behavior patterns that we think, "Oh, I'm just ___________ (fill in the blank) " and that behavior is really a prisoner to trauma in the past. The subtitle of Gabby's book- From Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace. I can't wait to get her book.. and yours. Thank you.
This is for sure my favourite show you've done Ed, my husband and I have been watching since, I believe the beginning when it was Max Out. My husband purchased your book its on its way, and I will be purchasing this book from Gabby. Sending you and yours love and blessings. Thank you so much 🙏
Such a blessing.
Excellent interview Gabby and Ed, thank you. The visible/acknowledged trauma, tragedy and resulting pain, disassociation and dysfunction in peoples lives is but the tip of the iceberg. Keep up the good work.
Thank You both so much!!!!
Wow! Thank you Ed and Gabby❤
Wow...just wow!!! What a raw and emotional interview! My subconscious trauma was coming up just a few minutes into it. Thank you Ed and Gabby for being vulnerable and giving us paths to heal. Can't wait to get and read both of your books.
I was watching Ed on Bigger Pockets (real estate related) and decided to hop on his channel. Of all the videos I clicked on this. And I do believe spirit guided me to this video. More to provide insight on a friend whom I believe has experienced Big T and going through dark times (alcoholism, destructive lifestyle, etc). I have been hoping to help him for some time now but he isnt allowing me to. I purchased Gabby's book, perhaps he will need to read it as well.
Thank you so much, this is beautiful and transforming, so deep and so real, so so courageous! Sharing this to many people.
I've spent years on my self healing journey sitting with my demons and un settled part of me. Although I feel way more at peace then I ever have, I do have these triggers that pop up from time to time. This right here just touched my soul with calmness and understanding. Beautiful information, I try n share everything I can to help other along my journey because I know so many people that need information like this. Absolutely blessed to come across this one and from the bottom of my heart thank you. Such a beautiful message and understanding of what lies inside all of us. 🙌🙌🙌
Ed, I like many can spot a phony a mile away. This interview was sincerely a great, honest and really interesting topic. I will be ordering her book. GOD bless you both!
Ed, did you notice that everything you said to that little boy is what you tell other people during your interviews? Turns out you needed to say it to yourself. That was beautiful.
Wow.. only three minutes in and I’m choked up as well with the both of you. I already looking to purchase her book and I haven’t even finished the video. Great timing for my life with this video! Thanks Ed & Gabby!!
Thank you, I am so happy, that availability to such tools you make it so easy.
Such thought provoking process to change. The inner work is the hardest. Reconnecting to the inner child, or inner protector. Thank you for this session.
As a massive fan of Gabbys work already (I've got all her books incl Happy Days) and having just listened to this episode, I COMPLETELY RESONATE with both of your inner child's, this left me in tears but at the same time an incredible peace within. THANK YOU BOTH for being valnurable while leading by example through your own trauma releasing experiences.
Thank you 🙏
Very beautiful episode. Love it Gabbie love it Ed🤙
Very Good, Thank You!
I love your content. I feel you’re where I came from.🙏
Wow!!! That was amazing!! I need to do that myself acknowledge the little girl within me.
I just started learning about meditation tapping. I did this tapping on my hand while yall did it and omg I got so emotional. I love this whole interview!!!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ so powerful
I relate will purchase this book. Thank you Ed
I'm in absolute agreement with so much what she is saying wow
I couldn't agree more. What resonated with you most?
@@EdMylettShow I honestly felt as if you were both talking directly to me the entire episode. I realize how many Big T traumas I had and how i have dissociated out of my memory and play it as if people have it worse. And at 42 years old with a high desire to achieve great things she really allowed me to see my self sabotage and and lack of empathy I have for myself by denying my broken little me that was never loved and left. Thank you brother Ed this truly opened my heart to know healing is a must 🙏
Thanks guys
I love that insight you had about your dad Ed.
Regarding "psychotic work mode". I get like that when I am on a Divine mission... When I was writing my book I found myself in that mode and meditated and felt guided that this is my mission. The message I am sharing is needed and my isolation and fasting was to keep the message pure and in flow. It was only for a period... It's now with an editor for mainstream publishing 🥰
I've worked on cases to help women and children in crises and get in this mode because time is of the essence. Getting crucial reports and evidence together as quick as possible gets those people out of their oppressive situations faster...
I've found that when most people are in Psychotic work mode it's because it's something that needs full attention right now... I used to feel guilty if I had to take myself out of my normal schedule to jump in to help a situation or put something together the Kingdom of Heaven guides me to do to help people awaken to ascend... Now I realize we are given that crazy focus and energy for a Divine reason.
100% of the time what I had to get done with that focus lead to saving lives... I feel guided you are the same... Love that Saintly version of yourself. Support it and let the people you love know that you have this or that project that needs your 100% right now. The people who love you truly will understand and support you. They know you're a Saint changing lives through your focus. They will support you... Maybe even bring you sandwiches and juices so you can still focus if fasting isn't one of the things you do for focus anyways 🥰
God bless you both and everything you do!
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Looking forward to this
Amen just celebrated 21 years but see I have much work to do great episode
This is so helpful! Wow!
Thank you 🥰 amzing interview🦄
Yes sista!!
Ed, when I heard you talk about how your father behaved in the restaurants I remembered that you mentioned once, many video's ago, that you don't feel comfortable sending food back or letting a server know you are not happy with your food. I'm curious if you are worried about making a scene or acting like you father. I instantly thought of that old video when you mentioned that trauma in this video. This is really powerful stuff!!
Awesome that people are talking about trauma so publicly! You're only as sick as your secrets!
This is so true. How did it make you feel to be enveloped in this conversation.
@@EdMylettShow It makes me feel that as a man I am also allowed to be vulnerable! You've taught me this over many years, not just with this video. A lot of trauma in this world is caused mostly by men and pride, and I feel that if men are allowed to show their feelings, it would solve so many problems we have today!