The Female vs Male Gaze

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  • @idakt
    @idakt 2 місяці тому +99

    In my opinion, the things that *most* women vocalize their distaste in are things they're actually helplessly attracted to, and usually have dealt with in the past but for whatever reason they didn't get the outcome they expected, and now it leaves them unsatisfied. There's some extremes, of course (read: educated hood dudes) but for the most part if a woman says something, believe the opposite. Case in point, I wanted more tattoos after getting my first. SO many women told me I didn't need more. I realized the reason why they said that was because it would make me more attractive to women. It's the same thing when you're skinny or out of shape and your girlfriend gets comfortable, but once you start working out and gaining muscle she either tries to shame you out of exercising or starts to sabotage the realtionship. It's women's passive way of competing, they use their words as ruses to conceal their real intentions.

    • @S.Eds2
      @S.Eds2 2 місяці тому

      😒

    • @lemiphil2388
      @lemiphil2388 2 місяці тому +18

      This is something that happened to one of my closest friends. He wanted to start doing something illegal to make money and she told him not do do it and that she would break up with him if he did. They ended breaking up much later for entirely different reasons and she ended up in a relationship with a guy that was engaged in the same activities she threatened to leave him over 😂😂😂

    • @biscaynesupercars
      @biscaynesupercars 2 місяці тому +5

      Wow the tattoo thing hits home for me because I have a few earlier tattoos on my ribs that weren’t visible when I had a shirt on but I later began getting more that were visible on my arms and leg and my gf at the time became openly insecure about me having them but was more attracted to me and would make insecure backhanded compliments like “ I guess you’re getting all the girls now cuz you’re tatted up”. Point being do not let her insecurities become your insecurities and also women yap a lot but they tell on themselves if you can decipher what they’re saying

    • @ThisCultureIsCompletelyBroken
      @ThisCultureIsCompletelyBroken 2 місяці тому

      BWmn do not sleep with men because "attraction" they do it for control, as a form of self-mutilation, for rebellion.
      The sooner brothers stop thinking in such simplistic imperatives, the better.
      The same sisters calling MBJ and Will Smith lame will bust it open for Jonah Hill and Michael Cera and you goofy brothers will excuse that.

    • @ThisCultureIsCompletelyBroken
      @ThisCultureIsCompletelyBroken 2 місяці тому

      You sound silly.
      Notice how sisters only want brothers to do those self-destructive things?
      If they lust so hard for that then why the double standards?

  • @user-uw1sm1jb4x
    @user-uw1sm1jb4x 2 місяці тому +35

    The only reason why women say they don’t like over good looking guys is because they feel they dont have leverage

    • @adultcartoonsandcereal15
      @adultcartoonsandcereal15 2 місяці тому

      @@user-uw1sm1jb4x Exactly, they just want Control

    • @adultcartoonsandcereal15
      @adultcartoonsandcereal15 2 місяці тому +13

      Same reason they say they don't want Men with Muscles, YES THEY DO, they are just threatened by in-shaped dudes, if the dude is in good shape then THEY HAVE TO BE IN SHAPE 😂 nd they struggle with that

    • @RippedDad6
      @RippedDad6 Місяць тому

      These are facts my brothers. Women are masters at gaslighting, and manipulation. They are insecure as well, they say these things because they know that they will have to compete with other women for this man. My wife has said this about me. They want control, they want Tyrone and not John because they feel like they will have more power in that situation. When all else fails just do the very opposite of what these women say.

  • @siriusshabazz7746
    @siriusshabazz7746 2 місяці тому +105

    You're gonna have a brain aneurism if you keep thinking this hard. "Died trying to figure out women." Is what your tombstone will read. Great work, though.

    • @Edelweiss-w7w
      @Edelweiss-w7w 2 місяці тому +8

      😂

    • @wnttalk
      @wnttalk  2 місяці тому +13

      🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @infamouseli92
      @infamouseli92 2 місяці тому +2

      Lmao 😂

    • @GNIKOFFICIAL1
      @GNIKOFFICIAL1 2 місяці тому +1

      😂 ey relax

    • @kreativeforce532
      @kreativeforce532 Місяць тому

      1:27 You're not supposed to have a beard. That beard shit is a scottish insult for their teenagers that they then shifted on to Africans upon meeting us as our overseers. So Black women insulting Black men for lacking a beard or not having a full one are really demanding a white or mulatto man. A man who lacks the African Y-Chromosome because he got his from white men. Next time a 304 says that your beard doesn't connect point this out to her and tell her to think about what it is she's actually asking for.
      Its like a Black man insinuating Black women are not complete women because "ayo your ass isn't totally flat and freckled. yo shorty where are the red flecks at." You see how stupid that sounds right?

  • @tercial
    @tercial 2 місяці тому +25

    The superman and Clark kent effect

  • @marcopolo2028
    @marcopolo2028 2 місяці тому +22

    Attraction is not really monolithic. I remember going to the gym with a friend and on our drive home back we had a long argument over who we thought was the baddest female in the gym. And I for the life of me couldn't understand his choice and vice versa. People are just into different things. And the more feminine looking guy thing has been around for a long time. For example Michael Jackson, Prince, ect. There is a market for whatever you look like.

  • @RD-zj6vc
    @RD-zj6vc 2 місяці тому +34

    Women are filmmakers because films are stories. All stories are supposed to have conflict, and women get a thrill out of conflict.

    • @Al-Rob-ei1iu
      @Al-Rob-ei1iu 2 місяці тому +11

      Them films ending all the same with sad endings

  • @tpayne12no
    @tpayne12no 2 місяці тому +27

    I remember the Jon Boyega self interview. The comments were startling, eye opening, and a little disturbing. They were falling head over heels for a FICTIONAL character versus the actual actor. All I could do was shake my head and take notes of the lunacy.

    • @MIent1313
      @MIent1313 2 місяці тому +2

      @@tpayne12no simply put, to bro's point: women are filmmakers AND critics. They love a backstory

  • @smartmouthriveria
    @smartmouthriveria 2 місяці тому +78

    I could care less what women find attractive ......PS5 Pro this November !!!!!!

    • @collegerebel
      @collegerebel 2 місяці тому +7

      It's " you *couldn't* care less". The way you phrased it implies you do care.

    • @smartmouthriveria
      @smartmouthriveria 2 місяці тому +15

      @@collegerebel ma'am.....Playstation 5 Pro is more important than what goofy women find attractive. " I " truly could care less. on God!

    • @infamouseli92
      @infamouseli92 2 місяці тому

      😂😂

    • @starsoftheworld5150
      @starsoftheworld5150 2 місяці тому +1

      @@smartmouthriveria really Man U forcing on gaming rather than improving yourself

    • @gintoki_sakata__
      @gintoki_sakata__ 2 місяці тому +1

      ​​@@starsoftheworld5150you can do both.. Youre the weak one who thinks being on a journey means there's no time or place for leisure

  • @skycontrolproductions
    @skycontrolproductions 2 місяці тому +18

    I use to chase women like I needed them to breathe now that I'm focused on my goals , most women (not all) just want😮 your stuff and not help you aquire it oh well...

    • @n0wherefr
      @n0wherefr Місяць тому

      @@skycontrolproductions Faxs, when you move through life without treating them like they’re the next best thing since sliced bread, they treat you better or just leave you alone

  • @Underratedcommentator
    @Underratedcommentator 2 місяці тому +43

    When it comes to John Boyega, there should be an asterisk beside women. Generally speaking, *black* women are attracted to the POOKIE aesthetic. Other cultures prefer cleaner cut men with masculine jawlines.

  • @leeyanluke2167
    @leeyanluke2167 2 місяці тому +4

    I appreciate your content normally, but the level of cinematography/editing here is definitely worth pointing out. Dope.

  • @MagicMike07492
    @MagicMike07492 2 місяці тому +1

    7:09 It was John Mayer a picture of him shirtless with a guitar.

  • @infamouseli92
    @infamouseli92 2 місяці тому +4

    3:58 that clip was crazy 😅

  • @raykincaid684
    @raykincaid684 2 місяці тому

    This video is INCREDIBLE.

  • @c.m.e.washington6737
    @c.m.e.washington6737 2 місяці тому +3

    that picture at @2:42 had my heart drop Daamn lmfaooo

    • @masterme550
      @masterme550 2 місяці тому

      @@c.m.e.washington6737 a.i

  • @dominicamoakobaah9516
    @dominicamoakobaah9516 2 місяці тому +5

    Women have told me I am not sexually attractive because I can't grow sides of my beard

  • @Saint_Darius
    @Saint_Darius 2 місяці тому +3

    You can see elements of this in every community but I think it’s objectively worse in a certain community.

    • @TheBoon14
      @TheBoon14 7 днів тому

      in the N communities?

  • @GodBodyKing98
    @GodBodyKing98 2 місяці тому +5

    You’re a very intelligent guy, well articulated points, funny add in clips and good story telling. You should delve deeper into this topic.
    all these videos on female gaze and i’m still left confused.

  • @raykincaid684
    @raykincaid684 2 місяці тому

    I always thought this ...but i could never put it in words.....i was always told i was attractive... never had problems with getting women.....but whenever i looked in the mirror...i could never understand why 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CLEANDrumCovers
    @CLEANDrumCovers 2 місяці тому +2

    Yo, nice format. Nice background music, nice intervals with other videos/content to keep it fresh. Overall nice video, man

  • @StormKoriHQ
    @StormKoriHQ 2 місяці тому +2

    Additional points to you for "They Cloned Tyrone" shout-out. Everyone go see this movie!!!

  • @noahmoore334
    @noahmoore334 Місяць тому

    That movie shows john boyegas range. The way he acted was like an entirely different person down to the way he sat.

  • @bluecheckmiya
    @bluecheckmiya 2 місяці тому +13

    Idk I just think the more I’m hearing about female psychology the more I think… they’re kinda just wasting their time lmao

  • @KeepitOneHunnedGrand
    @KeepitOneHunnedGrand 2 місяці тому +3

    Lineups are a bad example. Women definitely do like lineups. Hairline lineups to be exact.
    Everything else on point.

  • @NebulaSon
    @NebulaSon 2 місяці тому +1

    An ad after 1 minute is crazy

  • @infamouseli92
    @infamouseli92 2 місяці тому +2

    4:21 lmao 😂

  • @360SunTzu
    @360SunTzu 23 дні тому +1

    Unfortunately you can't believe shit woman say😢

  • @Ameibright
    @Ameibright 2 місяці тому +2

    But somethings woman do, don’t do it for male validation. Just like somethings men do, don’t do it for woman.

  • @VOlDTALES
    @VOlDTALES 22 дні тому

    This dude doesn’t think Rick Ross had a fake beard lol.

  • @MrDee001
    @MrDee001 2 місяці тому +2

    To put it simplisticly, it's all a game to trick the other side with acting skills. Nobody cares about authenticity from start to finish. It's all a play if you want to be successful.

  • @zenclicks4480
    @zenclicks4480 2 місяці тому +1

    Look at Pop the Balloon 🎈 or find love ❤😂

  • @dixbowman3452
    @dixbowman3452 2 місяці тому +3

    This is true. Ive always been clean shaven. Now i have a beard and im getting all types of attention. 😂😂😂😂😂 older and younger women. Even men. 😂

  • @infamouseli92
    @infamouseli92 2 місяці тому

    “ I rather sleep outside “ 😂

  • @shellyhunt4910
    @shellyhunt4910 2 місяці тому +7

    I prefer more masculine looking men

  • @OneMoSet88
    @OneMoSet88 2 місяці тому +65

    Timothee Chalamet does not have a feminine face. His face is more masculine then most men. He has thick low eyebrows, wide and high cheek bones, a wide, square jawline and a wide, square chin. His whole head is square shaped. He has a very masculine face aside from facial hair.

    • @thekid8224
      @thekid8224 2 місяці тому +18

      I agree Timothee has a masculine face he just looks young

    • @ahmorgan
      @ahmorgan 2 місяці тому

      He looks like an androgynous twink

    • @Southforthewinter
      @Southforthewinter 2 місяці тому +5

      @@thekid8224 I think the no facial hair is the reason, I’m the same age as him and ppl think I’m 19-21. I’m just a late bloomer, my facial hair is coming now and I’m building muscle. Being slim also makes you look younger

    • @nxrth9463
      @nxrth9463 2 місяці тому

      He's a lil twig boy, nothing masculine about him.

    • @TwistedLullabies
      @TwistedLullabies 2 місяці тому +5

      If he didn't look masculine, women wouldn't find him attractive

  • @Mr27Klub
    @Mr27Klub 2 місяці тому +4

    Life advice. Never listen to a woman. Whatever she says she likes, do the opposite. Don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do.

  • @facelessman5362
    @facelessman5362 2 місяці тому +19

    Why should I have to augment my authentic self as an upwardly mobile black man if my life is good and other groups of women's 'gaze' of my attractiveness is fine just to garner more attention from sisters? LOL

    • @mrt094
      @mrt094 2 місяці тому +1

      Seriously bro? No one is saying become something you're not, it's about putting your best foot forward. No race of women is taking you seriously if you dress like a bum. And I doubt you are upwardly mobile while neglecting your appearance.

    • @WoodenGenius
      @WoodenGenius 2 місяці тому +2

      *WORD LMFAO*

    • @Saint_Darius
      @Saint_Darius 2 місяці тому +3

      If you’re getting the attention that you want from other women, you shouldn’t.

    • @Al-Rob-ei1iu
      @Al-Rob-ei1iu 2 місяці тому +1

      This is why I’m a firm believer that women are the problem

  • @d-1beats
    @d-1beats 2 місяці тому

    I love the point made about the lashes 😂 i think sisters be too influenced by social media thats why they wear them

  • @daetheknight.
    @daetheknight. Місяць тому

    Austin Dunham is in the recommended lineup saying the exact polar opposite of what you're saying. lol I give up. Instead of looksmaxing I'm going to money max & never commit.

    • @VOlDTALES
      @VOlDTALES 22 дні тому +1

      Just means you gotta find what’s right for you. Don’t let another dude tell you how to live your life. Yes learn from them but don’t let it be your entire world.

  • @noahcrockett9641
    @noahcrockett9641 2 місяці тому +4

    Filmmakers...real life barbie family. Ken does what they want ken to do for "barbie" (them).

  • @skycontrolproductions
    @skycontrolproductions 2 місяці тому +3

    Great content !! Women also change their preferences when they get older ....

    • @Saint_Darius
      @Saint_Darius 2 місяці тому +1

      Change their preference or change what they’re willing to tolerate?

    • @brucepower3429
      @brucepower3429 2 місяці тому

      Lol they don't if she prefers light skin for an example she will prefer that till she is gone from this earth

    • @ElGuarro22
      @ElGuarro22 4 години тому

      Their preferences change because their options change

  • @areyourhandsbroke
    @areyourhandsbroke 2 місяці тому

    Have a great day ninjas😂🤣😂

  • @ChaosReignShow
    @ChaosReignShow 2 місяці тому +1

    All well with you O.B?

  • @LoyalTC
    @LoyalTC 2 місяці тому

    Funny irony of me watching this cuz some chick called me a pretty boy today. Ma’am cuz I’m not raggedy doesn’t make me a pretty boy lmao

  • @MrClaudemabry
    @MrClaudemabry 2 місяці тому

    I agree

  • @PreppyPrincess777
    @PreppyPrincess777 Місяць тому

    Aries Spears is a MESS😂😂😂😂

  • @kreativeforce532
    @kreativeforce532 Місяць тому

    Raised browlines are neanderthal features 3:15

  • @bridgettedenise
    @bridgettedenise 2 місяці тому +1

    Neither

  • @AC-ss5oy
    @AC-ss5oy 2 місяці тому +1

    Guys- from dude to dude, DO NOT GET A LINEUP. it looks weird. i stopped getting a lineup about 12 years ago and never went back.

    • @SasukeUchiha-rb1rs
      @SasukeUchiha-rb1rs 2 місяці тому

      Are you black bro? I don’t feel right without a clean lineup you are trippin 😂

  • @shadowone01x99
    @shadowone01x99 2 місяці тому

    Dude loose the earrings . Uurgh!!!
    It contributes to the "looking gay" comment from the lady u spoke about.

  • @ephrem2720
    @ephrem2720 2 місяці тому +1

    Is it possible to make these videos without the effects. It’s distracting and it comes across as filler.

    • @bobbykite8705
      @bobbykite8705 2 місяці тому +6

      Idk about you, but I liked the examples he was presenting as he was explaining.

    • @Takashii85
      @Takashii85 2 місяці тому

      But that wasnt what bro was talking about.​@bobbykite8705

    • @Saint_Darius
      @Saint_Darius 2 місяці тому +6

      You’re easily distracted?

  • @noahcrockett9641
    @noahcrockett9641 2 місяці тому

    Filmmakers...real life barbie family. Ken does what they want ken to do for "barbie" (them).