That is so true. Everyone is amazed by my texts. Writing feels so freeing. But talking...talking is another story. People tend to tell me i look as if i were stuck in some dreamy-like state when i talk
Tell me I’m not the only one who experiences this: Whenever someone talks to me and asks me a question I have to think about, as soon as I start thinking I lose track and I start thinking about myself having to think. So I blank out like an idiot Update: turns out I have ADHD
O. MY. GOD. Thanks I'm not the only one. I like have to rethink what literally just came out of my mouth in order to even produce a grammatically correct sentence 😂 I hate talking in general. It's like my brain thinks too much and I don't have enough time to put my thoughts into words without the other person thinking I'm an complete idiot. So writing is best😂
Traits: 1. Stumble at words. Hard to find correct words to describe what they thought. 2. Get irritated easily (can see their face) when their ideas not agreeable with others. Or they got shame from that ideas. Opposite from other opinions. 3. Have big imagination minds. Visual person. Always ideas in their minds. 4. Love to understand the depth of something. Love psychology. Why people doing such a way or act such a way? Love to think about how world work. Love to find the meaning of something. Like purpose in life. Why God create human? Love using logic when thinking about something. 5. INFJ is curious person. Always asking themselves. INFJ love mystery. They love science. They can be good detective, doctor and scientist. 6. INFJ always get misunderstood by their action.
I talk this way and I've always hated it. Either people cut me off before I've made my point or I imagine they're getting bored or impatient while I finish speaking.
💚 Ha. I have become aware and a bit self conscious, of how often I look away from the person I’m speaking with. I know that I am trying to process my thoughts (because my thought stream is always evolving) but I don’t like thinking that the other person might perceive it as uncertainty.
If someone ask me a deep question I would rather write them the answer on a piece of paper than to answer right away. People demand quick answers but I am not a quick thinker.
I am a very quickl thinker.. infact...like i think so quick i m unable to to keep pace with my thoughts and my writing speed... Infact i m unable to. Speak also as fast as I think....(I speak very fast)...the problem is..it becomes a problem because people don't understand me.. especially when i m trying to explain something to someone... I m either misunderstood or improperly understood...also the difficulty in choosing the write words is like serious ughhh...even if i have conveyed myself unless i have used like proper "perfect"...i m not satisfied ..... This is a thing...also i hate this.. because of this... I m misunderstood... I hate being misunderstoo :''(
Infjs normally mimic the people's vibes and energies around them, whereas the people shown here are like sad, half-dazed, in a trance kinda vibe - that's what infjs are like alone
I agree to this when it comes to when I'm around my friends. But when the attention is on me like let's say someone is interviewing me, I look sad or blank as if my mind is flying😂
I think he actually thought about something and come to a conclusion where he decided to not tell it because it might be too complicated to tell so he just said i don't know
He was trying to come up with something other than, "well, obvs because they think I'm awesome", then thought the better of it, and went sidestepping down the humble route. ;)
That actually seems more like an Ne trait, because Ne focuses on the abstract OUTER world. Basically, possibility gathering. Ni converges on said concepts, and it's why they are so confident in their predictions. So, by proxy, xNxPs would have the wandering eyes. Of course, I think it's mainly a nurture thing.
@@andyroobrick-a-brack9355 It's actually NI (introspection) we look away as to not get distracted from the physical world, we look at random things as to not lose our train of thought by picking up on our conversation partners body language (FE). Also NE eyes would come out looking a lot more enthusiastically at the outside world as it seems it is a source of inspiration (patterns) for NE types to expand upon their ideas as opposed to NI (reverts to insight from cemented patterns/observation/more abstract in thought that they have stored), but I can see how it could go both ways.
I bet if the camera wasn't trained on you, that one on one, you're extroverted self engages (INFJ being the most extroverted of the introverts). I personally get camera shy...
Anybody else feel this way? Someone could ask me a question and my mind already has EVERYTHING that I want to say so I have to break it down and structure it to where it makes sense and in the process I forget what I’m going to say next and eventually lose my train of thought urghh so annoying or I end up expanding on one point then forget the others. I want to get everything out though 😂
Start talking about something, suddenly one detail reminds you of a whole different scenario, which you MUST mention now that you've thought of it, but instead of a mere mention, you have inadvertently started a totally different conversation, only that one ALSO branches into yet ANOTHER conversation, before long, your one story you intended to tell has turned into no less than 10 different "substories", the poor bastard who has been trying diligently to keep up is as confused as he is intrigued and entertained, because, while being scatter brained, disorganized and possessing the attention span of a fruit fly, you are undoubtedly a hell of a conversationalist. ......what was i talking about again???
It happens if I have to think about what the other person will think about what I say and I try to choose my words. If I talk with my mom, for example, I'll just say things without thinking. Because I say what I think directly. That is the process. I will get more ideas while talking and add them as I go. But she is ISFJ. It's hard to find someone who will actually let you ramble.
@@SharlenesJourney Oh yes I forgot, we should mask our true selves so others don't worry or misinterpret our expressions, even when we're totally fine. Right!
I'm an INFJ and I stumble over my words so much when I'm talking aloud to people. That's why I prefer to write down my thoughts because I can spend as long as I need thinking about what I'll put down. Conversations are 'in the moment' - you only get a couple seconds to choose your words, and I don't know whether it's because I'm slow, or I'm just a massive overthinker but often I get flustered in those situations because I'm thinking too much about what I'll say and what comes out my mouth isn't necessarily what I'd even planned.
INTJ here and i can relate, it's probably because the dominant function, Introverted Intuition (NI). The only difference is that when people trying to ask some specific question i tend to give them objective answers instead and i stumble over my words when they trying to get really personal with me
A fun thing about Joanna Newsom (the first girl) is that she could often come accross as a pretty average hip-like person... But she's a terrific harp player, writes epics for lyrics all by herself and could be easily considered one of (if not the) best modern artists to ever exist. One thing that amazes me about the INFJs is that they keep all that depth and soul under seven keys. They are not trying too hard to be deep (although they truly are), y'know? They are extremely gifted, but very humble about it.
I've realised as an infj, that i tend to be have good feelings towards other infjs, for example if i'm watching a movie/show/interview and i have a good vibe about someone or some character and they feel relatable to me, they're most likely an infj. infjs can sense each other's vibe ig
@@salmaa3801 thats awesome. Well its lots of fun, and also a very deep friendship because we infjs and enfps are both imaginative and also very empathetic. Also enfps are most introverted extroverts apparently
I have noticed this in myself I always gain more focus on these specific people who all turned out to be infj I think it’s a deep internal mechanism we develop, to better understand who we are
Those long pauses in between thoughts, the careful speech, scrutinising anxious eyes, I am definitely an infj. I don't think Marilyn is though, he sort of stuck out like sore thumb amongst the rest the same way the guy right at the end was clearly not the infj of the 2 interviewed.
Ja Gu I think that M. Manson is probably unhealthy infj. He looks like he is very depressed. Guy at the end is not infj, you are right. The girl (actress) is infj. It is my fault cause I didn't specifically indicate each infj celebrity from this video.
M.Manson is such an INFJ, the Ni is strong and seeing past facade, insightful, being a subversive mirror to society as messeger...likely INFJ enneagram 4.
I find it very hard to listen to Manson, he seems very dark, so I think that kind of distracts from the stereotypical good guy/good girl image INFJ's seem to have. There will always be individual quirks even among people of the same type.
Totally. It's so me. Everyone always tries to rush me with making a decision and I'll just be there thinking and thinking. But something good will come of it.
Oh, good to know, after years of training my speech patterns and still getting hung up, because suddenly during my rehearsed speech I had a better thought, I learn it's part of my personality. Often I just stay quiet and put together my thoughts to suddenly blast out the ultimate result in a very concise, in-depth way. Sometimes the final result only hits me while I shower in the evening though, and I never get to say it.
When you pause for a short while to reorgnize your thoughts on the matter and then you've finally settled in a way that you're going to deliver it, you speak and then a better analogy/delivery/more articulate way comes to mind and it rattles you and you stumble in your speech.
Me too! Just today I was literally describing the craziest nightmares I’ve been having lately and how interesting they are, but Typical responses are “did you tell your psych that”..
Vague or blunt questions amuse most INFJs, they make sure the person who's asking knows that the depth in their choice of words isn't the same as what their curiosity is about. A good example here, when he explains hypothetical scenario of standing with stick with some curious sign on it will draw enough attention, which doesn't necessarily mean something excellent is going on. They tend to make the questioner come to correct terms with thier curiosity and then answer them.
She asked him "Why are they so fascinated? (with him). The first thing that I'd want to say is "Are you saying that I suck?", but then have to assess the person asking the question, the situation, and decide if if the "suck?" response is good, or should I lead them off on any of several tangents for fun, to show them that I can be ridiculous and disrespectful as well. He picked an interesting tangent to answer an insulting, loaded, baiting question. I think his long pause was actually humorous, it spoke volumes. Interesting dude right there. In my younger days I would have tried to really answer the question thoughtfully. Now, as an older INFJ, I'd just say "Are you saying that I suck?" and stare at them waiting for an answer. Maybe I'll get to watch them dance. Why not play the game?
@@jfo3000 Yes exactly, the moment she asks the questions it's quite evident that a nerve is triggered there, but then also a lot of other emotions are also triggered which explain the choice between different tangents. The pause as you said speaks volumes that it's the time being taken to take into consideration all that has been triggered and matching each of it to that situation and see which fits right or most to it and then framing a reply which answers in a way that no doubt of any kind is to be left.
And the stare,they always feel unsettling when I hold that eye contact whether I’m asking questions or answering them. I can’t help but wanting to analyze you and see through you. It’s a habit that I want to observe your every detail as to what you’re saying
I’m INFJ and after reading your comment I’ve just noticed that all my life I make people uncomfortable when talking to them. It’s not something I want to do, and I certainly don’t do it on purpose. I’m not sure how I do it, other than the fact that I hold eye contact for too long. Idk how to stop doing this 🤦🏼♀️
Like Lord Shiva, calm on the outside and a thunderous storm brewing on the inside. Perfect embodiment of balance aren't we? BTW have global events been affecting all INFJs off late. I feel so much better when I'm alone, but when I go outside my energy goes haywire.
@@ASJacob It's funny you mentioned Lord Shiva. I practice Hinduism and his meditative state is what I'm idolising lately. And global events always affect me, don't even know why 😅.
@@ASJacob I have definitely felt affected from global events. A friend recently asked why I'd disappeared (it was a few days after a tragedy) and I thought about telling her, but I didn't want her to think I was crazy😅
when someone opens up a topic that i love and finds interesting, i would go super excited that i have to apologize because i was too hyper. theyd call me a weirdo or over reacting. so i have to stop myself ALWAYS. a lot of people would also say that i look sad or melancholic when talking though i am really not. they like my eyes the most, it speaks a lot.
When I talk I need to look to the side, not the other person because this is how I focus. If I don't, I'm just too aware of what a person does. Plus that I usually visualize what I talk about.
Omg i tend to overthink during exams and its hell .... i go through this whole process before i can even choose a single letter to circle. Then i look at the time and realise i spent 10 mins on one question
Once in like 5th grade I was doing pretty well in my math class, but then one test day I started overthinking where to put the decimals in my answers. So then I eventually changed the placement of all the decimals but I put my original answer on my scratch sheet just in case. My teacher came to talk to me about how I got everything wrong but then she saw my scratch sheet paper and was like "oh. Nevermind."
Haha, yup. Sometimes I think other people think I choose fancy words on purpose, but if I happen to know it, it's the first thing that pops into my head, and if it perfectly describes what I want to say, does it really matter if other people get what I'm saying? 😂😂😂 (Fe says: Yes. 😅)
@@ThaleiaFantasy Omg exactly this. Honestly I feel like there are times when it's pretentious to speak that way. What I do now is I say both words: "magnanimous, kind." I feel like people think I'm just being descriptive lol. .....actually now that I think of it, I have friends whose first language is not English (language partners) and so I find myself using synonyms in my speech quite often
I am an infj and I don't have a extensive vocabulary. I tend to feel things out and listen a lot more than I talk. Even though I don't know a lot of words, I speak with conviction and I am very passionate about the things I do say. There are times when I expect that others will know what I am trying to communicate just by watching me. So much of my communication is non verbal, and this is also the way that I tend to read people. I assume that by people studying my body language, watching the way I move my hands, or noticing the way I look at them, people will just feel the heart and soul that is within me. Unfortunately, many people are just not that tuned in and find intimacy uncomfortable. I hate it when someone is speaking to me and showing me a facade of who they are, because it interferes with what I am picking up emotionally from them.
Unless I have it written down in front of me, I won't be able to tell anything in a consize manner... I either get stuck on some aspects of an idea, overexplaining them, and end up forgetting the rest, or I simply stumble with finding the right words. I can also never carry the same message over more than once; it's as if I have to think of a reply (a verbal one) each time so it sometimes appears as if I'm not being consistant with my answers... whenever I talk about something I like, I just always forget to mention some things, or don't elaborate on others as much as I should. I can see the idea and core of what I want to say, but it is never apparent to others, and it's like constantly going in cirles trying to explain what I meant. I can tell which parts of my message others will misinterpret so I keep filling these holes up, answering them in advance, and then my messages end up being too long and boring... though if I didn't do it, they'd misinterpet everything and take offense :/
People tend to find me boring before they know me, just a handful of people get to know the real me. Actually, now that I think of it, which one is the real me? I become someone else with every person. Maybe because I want them to like me or idk, maybe I'm trying too much to read their thoughts that I forget to act normal and they think I'm crazy or weird. I find that other infj's annoy me lol. I prefer people who are not like me, we can be so difficult to talk to. Istg I am sober, I have no idea why I wrote all this. Now I'm wondering if I should click send or not. Oh well..
The whole speech fumble is kind of bullshit (some people are not verbally articulate, yes) okay I do it too; but not because I don't know what to say. I take a pause because I'm saying what I need/want to say in a word choice/style/language that the other person will deeply understand. Imagine when you understand a topic with a pre natural affinity or intuitive genius. This is what INFJ looks for, and yes for that to happen we already have analyzed your thought pattern and from what point to what point your personality stretches to. The people that know me get frustrated because they think I am patronizing their intelligence and ask me to just say my message without filtering. Then when I do speak in a unbridled manner, they don't understand lick spit of what I just said or get the complete wrong impression/idea *SCREAMS IN INFJ PAIN AAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaah*
Sighs... Apparently this is how I am when I speak- confirmed by the hubby. I didn't realize I came off this way while speaking 😣. Well, at least I can articulate my thoughts in a much more coherent fashion while writing.
I’m not an INFJ (I’m INTP) but they way Cohen spoke and looking around left and right and not looking directly at someone is much like how I talk. Maybe this is more of an Intuition type of thing or simply just anxiety.
George Harrison is a difficult one, he's definitely not an INFJ, he has very weak FE but you see it in later interviews so i think it became more developed as the years went on but it's certainly not his his auxiliary function. INFJ - Notice the warmness, the FE ua-cam.com/video/8cHKI-0Ky50/v-deo.html
Harrison was very guarded and somewhat cold and unapproachable, for this reason i know a few people that type him an an INTJ. He could be very passive aggressive which is very common for ISFP's and similar types, not INFJ'S though. I personally see him as either an ISTP or an ISFP. The two types are very different so it's a bit odd for me to be confused between the two, I think he leads with a judging function, so either TI or FI, in my opinion of course:)
Try using Fe openly when you've grown up in the Beatles - it would kill you! Ni protects us, makes us seem colder to strangers and the public. Especially the guys seem to have issues, because they are not meant to be that warm, according to patriarchy.
I am not warm in outward behavior and yet as soon as I am approached I give off a warm vibe. Always. It's a good way to deflect people you don't want to talk to. And if you do, you hang in with a smile in your eyes.
@@pash9956 This was two years ago, my knowledge of functions have increased by a ton but George Harrison is still an ISFP. As for Fi and Fe, Fe types are very warm, unless there Fe isn't so good but i guess it does depend, for the most part they are very warm, There are plenty of very NiTi INFJs though. I'v met cold Ni doms too, it really depends.
alright so im kind of confused with my mbti, im either infj (i relate to this more) but recently i took it over after some couple month and im isfp. so could you guys tell me which one am i? im afraid of people sometimes when im on the streets, i think persons are judging me i like to learn different language (but my determination skills are lacking) i mostly listen to people when they are talking. i dont make friends easily. i dont pot anything on social media, only use it to look on what other persons are doing. i dont like groups assignments. i love to sleep i love to be by myself, most of the time even though i may be introverted, if you get to know me, i extroverted im weird, (doing random stuffs) i always hurt myself like trip. i love to watch youtube i like when my opinions are heard but cant say it out loud to persons i dont know. sometimes i get disappointed in myself. i love to help others i cant say no to people, but when im helping them and they dont cooperate i tend to not have patience but will hide it. i also dont know how to open up to someone, but if someone is to open up to me, i will be willing to help them. i tend to hide my feeling to myself. i often cry in a sad show and when i dont want to cry and laugh along with it. when im doing a test, i have anxiety bcz i want to convince myself that i want to do well. because im doing very good at school and people tend to have high hopes for me. so im very exhausted to try to keep that.
You are certainly an INFJ and may even be a bit turbulent, making you a INFJ-T. As an INFJ myself, I felt this connection very heavily. ISFP are very physically creative people who have a knack for details. INFJ's, however, are more prone to be creatively influenced internally. This makes them very understanding people, giving them the gift of consoling and being therapeutic. From what I read about you, you are very INFJ-ish.
Not that you can type from just this statement, but Bittersweet is wrong. I am an INFJ. You remind me of my son, who is INFP... but not because of what you said about yourself, but because of how you said it. "i", "i", "i", "i", detail, detail, detail, listing, but without stress in the order; not any care at all about even getting grammar close to typical... You clearly like to be alone... Introvert. So then which function? Feeling. You hide your feeling to yourself. Then the introverted sensing list of what you know about yourself is easily organized, backed up by whether it feels right to you... Combined with the general vibe I get from you that you're AWARE that that kind of introversion is obvious, but you still think you're opaque instead of transparent; despite asking people to type you, you are still trying to come off as opaque. My INFP son does those things. One of the things that intrigues me is how much intuition increases someone's I.Q.. Despite being a Fi-dom, he's a VERY smart cookie. But he works kinda slow and his anxiety affects his performance adversely instead of well. That's inferior Te stuff... An INFJ would not be talking the same way, neither really saying those things. I know I'm 38, so I'm well into dealing with my inferior Se and my Ni, Fe, and Ti are strong, practiced, and mostly balanced(my Fe is still getting stronger, I was TORMENTED for much of my life, so I had to just wish well for my enemies more than really being able to do it, at the time... but now my 5th kid is on the way((FINALLY, A GIRL!!!)so Fe is busy). But, myself, if someone asked me to describe myself honestly, at the age of 38... I've learned enough from psychology and a life-time of learning how to put into words: Chaos torments my heart. I can handle loud, or crazy, or whatever... if it's PLANNED and/or organized. Random movements, crazy antics, sudden noises, etc. Cause me a great deal of stress. Lots. And I tend to feel guilty because people know it stresses me so I'm worried that they're worried that I'm stressed by the chaos... that's my primary downside. It's terrible. Otherwise, I'm just a thinker, a lover, a warrior, a leader... people come to me for advice. I'm like some kinda warrior sage at 38. It's... strange. I spend lots of time being very quiet, envisioning, processing, watching the flow, seeking the root or point of origination of everything under the sun(and above it, I suppose)... when I'm answering questions or having an insight, I will take pauses just like many in this video - but if I have PROCESSED my revelation, I will go to someone who will listen and BLAST, or I will write it down, or build it, or something. Because of some hindrances lately, I've had to file away all of those under an internal algorithm which will recreate that whole idea... and just a nod or breath towards that area again usually makes the whole thing play through my head again(Fe, or Ti, or Se, or even alternate Ni kickstarting Ni memory is best way to describe)... too much to explain, but I'm not going to delete because that would be antithetical to this cause. I feel like I have much more to say, but I lost track when my 1.5 yr old galloped through the hall. Basically, INFJ feels very alone, like we're the only ones who can see both all the reality and the abstract, while still having lots of empathy for people (sometimes, I find myself seeing people who are hurting as better than me, and people who aren't as less aware than me... weird, I know). But I love skills... if I can find the core reason, who I am really serving... I can't focus. He sounds like Pinocchio falling down wooden stairs and all he is doing is running through the hall... how is this kid so wild... he is so cute though!
It depends. Emotional stability isn't type related, but in general terms, INFJs lead with a dominant precieving function like ISxJs, so they may THINK in a more linear way. But All xNxPs have that sense of "scatteredness," possibly more of any other type. Even xSxPs are put together in a way because of how concrete their perception typically is. Ne, by it's nature, is a gatherer of concepts, a brainstormer instead of a predictor.
i think that trying to type celebities is impossible because they are always prepared for interviews(they know the date ahead it's organized with their agent) so they don't show their true self only when one dies we discover their hidden life
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. However, the Myers Briggs Personally Test is interesting but somewhat incomplete. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So let's start breaking some myths about the INFJ Personalty Type When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not attempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass. INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss. Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understand', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves. INFJ's feel uncomfortable being around large groups of people. However, once you get them talking, they never shut up. Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strange about this behavior. Some people become alcoholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and pretend you never existed. INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane. INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows. INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries? INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. If they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they will lie to protect that person's emotions. INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment or making mistakes. INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice - then completely ignore their recommendations! They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn things the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriend' button on Facebook. INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in. Do not mistake a INFJ's confidence as egocentrismn. There is a difference. INFJ's are frequently interpreted as posessing a Narcissist Personalty Disorder. This stereotype is absolutely false. A Narcissist loves adoration and attention. The typical INFJ cares more about others than themselves, sometime to their own detriment. INFJ's dislike themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation Issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves. The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's are compassionate which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. (2) They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (3) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. These are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer. It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group. The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological Disorder rather than a Personality Dysfunction). Fortunately, INFJ's are not prone to violent behavior. They give up easily, This is where the 'Door Slam' or simply walking away from an argument comes from. Once they reveal their true inner nature, you will begin to understand why only 1% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are so dam charming. INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted) INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots....even when there are no dots! When the Zombie Apocalypse occurs, a INFJ will be eaten screaming, "I told you so... I told you so!" Imagine your on the Titanic. It's 1912. You see a Iceberg coming. Your jumping around and telling everyone the ship is about to sink. People just laugh and finish their Champagne. Welcome to the wonderful world of a INFJ. Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying. Occasionally, you will notice a INFJ acting mysteriously, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes. Never tell a INFJ they have a 'Old Soul'. They are absolutely terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't need the extra competition on who should run Heaven (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity....that would be considered cruel and unusual punishment. Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials. INFJ's have a difficult time forming a thought or idea into words. Yes. Someday a INFJ will develop Telekinesis and scare the hell out of everyone. Stop laughing, it's going to happen. So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. INFJ's are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. There represent only 1% of 7.7 billion people on planet Earth according to MBTI statistics. In my opinion, this Myers Briggs Personality represents the noblest aspects of humanity....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Virtuous, Observent, Altruistic and Protective. Dispight their faults (which everyone has, no one is perfect) INFJ's are genuine. You get exactly what you see meeting these people. No convert agenda, deeply empathic intellectuals who sincerely care about you. They have a excellent sense of humor also (wink).
I don’t dislike myself. I feel alone, yes, but I feel like everyone does even if they’re around people all the time. We’re all alone - it’s just that some people are in touch with that side to their beings.
@@loisrabies8713 i'm one as well though lol, i feel like it's clear that when we're speaking there's a lot going on inside but we have difficulty with super coherent articulation
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For all my infj out there, the secret to combatting our method of speech is writing. Everything is more clear with writing
That is so true. Everyone is amazed by my texts. Writing feels so freeing. But talking...talking is another story. People tend to tell me i look as if i were stuck in some dreamy-like state when i talk
@@heroinbunny probably because we need to take time to think about our ideas. That's also why they are so great, cant rush perfection ;)
SO TRUE
Very true
that is very very true
Tell me I’m not the only one who experiences this:
Whenever someone talks to me and asks me a question I have to think about, as soon as I start thinking I lose track and I start thinking about myself having to think. So I blank out like an idiot
Update: turns out I have ADHD
YES. Same, you are not alone.
That actually does happen to me a bit and I hate it so much
Same and then I just say idk😂
O. MY. GOD. Thanks I'm not the only one. I like have to rethink what literally just came out of my mouth in order to even produce a grammatically correct sentence 😂 I hate talking in general. It's like my brain thinks too much and I don't have enough time to put my thoughts into words without the other person thinking I'm an complete idiot. So writing is best😂
WELL turns out I just have ADHD
Traits:
1. Stumble at words. Hard to find correct words to describe what they thought.
2. Get irritated easily (can see their face) when their ideas not agreeable with others. Or they got shame from that ideas. Opposite from other opinions.
3. Have big imagination minds. Visual person. Always ideas in their minds.
4. Love to understand the depth of something. Love psychology. Why people doing such a way or act such a way? Love to think about how world work. Love to find the meaning of something. Like purpose in life. Why God create human? Love using logic when thinking about something.
5. INFJ is curious person. Always asking themselves. INFJ love mystery. They love science. They can be good detective, doctor and scientist.
6. INFJ always get misunderstood by their action.
this read me too well
Hehe so me
Perfect description of myself!
this is me people
*rewatches video equipped with trusty inside intel* 👀
I talk this way and I've always hated it. Either people cut me off before I've made my point or I imagine they're getting bored or impatient while I finish speaking.
lol and its the most aggravating thing ever! Might as well start scratching a chalk board in front of me. >.
Lol now I know why I struggle watching videos from INFJs
- INTJ
Yees
💚 Ha. I have become aware and a bit self conscious, of how often I look away from the person I’m speaking with. I know that I am trying to process my thoughts (because my thought stream is always evolving) but I don’t like thinking that the other person might perceive it as uncertainty.
Sameee
If someone ask me a deep question I would rather write them the answer on a piece of paper than to answer right away. People demand quick answers but I am not a quick thinker.
INFJ's can turn a superficial question into something deep.
@@wr3kandrewwillis635 I’m the opposite, slower thinker but quick to articulate.
Yeah I feel like I can express my self more confidently and clearly through writing, drawing, playing instrument, etc etc
I am a very quickl thinker.. infact...like i think so quick i m unable to to keep pace with my thoughts and my writing speed... Infact i m unable to. Speak also as fast as I think....(I speak very fast)...the problem is..it becomes a problem because people don't understand me.. especially when i m trying to explain something to someone... I m either misunderstood or improperly understood...also the difficulty in choosing the write words is like serious ughhh...even if i have conveyed myself unless i have used like proper "perfect"...i m not satisfied .....
This is a thing...also i hate this.. because of this... I m misunderstood... I hate being misunderstoo :''(
@@wr3kandrewwillis635
Same, the words process is a nightmare.
Infjs normally mimic the people's vibes and energies around them, whereas the people shown here are like sad, half-dazed, in a trance kinda vibe - that's what infjs are like alone
Interviews push us into that zone. We no longer conform when we are made the center of attention.
I agree to this when it comes to when I'm around my friends. But when the attention is on me like let's say someone is interviewing me, I look sad or blank as if my mind is flying😂
because what is reality for infjs??
Here's a classic example at 3:00 with I think Dustin Hoffman:
Being asked a question, deeply thinks for 13 seconds and answers "I don't know" LOL
So true, but I think it is Leonard Cohen rather than dear Dustin.
@@edmondthomas282 yep it's Cohen 100%
I think he actually thought about something and come to a conclusion where he decided to not tell it because it might be too complicated to tell so he just said i don't know
He was trying to come up with something other than, "well, obvs because they think I'm awesome", then thought the better of it, and went sidestepping down the humble route. ;)
@@dhimaspratama2944 yes!
INFJ’s eyes wander a lot when they talk. It’s very whimsical and endearing.
That actually seems more like an Ne trait, because Ne focuses on the abstract OUTER world. Basically, possibility gathering. Ni converges on said concepts, and it's why they are so confident in their predictions. So, by proxy, xNxPs would have the wandering eyes. Of course, I think it's mainly a nurture thing.
jane doe I’ve tried to control it but it’s hard 😂
@@andyroobrick-a-brack9355 It's actually NI (introspection) we look away as to not get distracted from the physical world, we look at random things as to not lose our train of thought by picking up on our conversation partners body language (FE). Also NE eyes would come out looking a lot more enthusiastically at the outside world as it seems it is a source of inspiration (patterns) for NE types to expand upon their ideas as opposed to NI (reverts to insight from cemented patterns/observation/more abstract in thought that they have stored), but I can see how it could go both ways.
@@mokari9268 That's some pretty good insight.
It's really hard to control so I just let it be😂
Infjs have that look in their eyes
sadness and elegance at the same time...
Indeed Sara, good way to put it for sure =)
what look?
@@dan138zig LOL
It's an ocean in our eyes :)
the first girl talked exactly like me when I try to explain something, the body language lol. And people interrupt me a lot.
Yes the body language! Haha
I bet if the camera wasn't trained on you, that one on one, you're extroverted self engages (INFJ being the most extroverted of the introverts). I personally get camera shy...
Lmao me too
Me too!!!💜
Phillip Giustino oh my gosh yess
I talk like the first girl. The pauses. The wandering eyes. Some of them I didn't pick up on infj traits.
Also, she holds her chin. I do that! Def INFJ.
Anybody else feel this way? Someone could ask me a question and my mind already has EVERYTHING that I want to say so I have to break it down and structure it to where it makes sense and in the process I forget what I’m going to say next and eventually lose my train of thought urghh so annoying or I end up expanding on one point then forget the others. I want to get everything out though 😂
YES YES YES
@@oezgedamla it's so hard 😭😭😭😭
So freaking trueeeeee like how do i get them to understand that that's my prob??
Start talking about something, suddenly one detail reminds you of a whole different scenario, which you MUST mention now that you've thought of it, but instead of a mere mention, you have inadvertently started a totally different conversation, only that one ALSO branches into yet ANOTHER conversation, before long, your one story you intended to tell has turned into no less than 10 different "substories", the poor bastard who has been trying diligently to keep up is as confused as he is intrigued and entertained, because, while being scatter brained, disorganized and possessing the attention span of a fruit fly, you are undoubtedly a hell of a conversationalist. ......what was i talking about again???
It happens if I have to think about what the other person will think about what I say and I try to choose my words. If I talk with my mom, for example, I'll just say things without thinking.
Because I say what I think directly. That is the process. I will get more ideas while talking and add them as I go.
But she is ISFJ. It's hard to find someone who will actually let you ramble.
There's a tinge of sadness in their eyes
They just sleep-deprived das all
We “see” too much, while caring so much for others.
I've been told that my whole life. At school, teachers and classmates would often tell me "What's wrong?" "You look sad" when I was perfectly fine lol
S. T. Yesss or you should smile more what’s wrong lol
@@SharlenesJourney Oh yes I forgot, we should mask our true selves so others don't worry or misinterpret our expressions, even when we're totally fine. Right!
I'm an INFJ and I stumble over my words so much when I'm talking aloud to people. That's why I prefer to write down my thoughts because I can spend as long as I need thinking about what I'll put down. Conversations are 'in the moment' - you only get a couple seconds to choose your words, and I don't know whether it's because I'm slow, or I'm just a massive overthinker but often I get flustered in those situations because I'm thinking too much about what I'll say and what comes out my mouth isn't necessarily what I'd even planned.
It's smart.
INTJ here and i can relate, it's probably because the dominant function, Introverted Intuition (NI). The only difference is that when people trying to ask some specific question i tend to give them objective answers instead and i stumble over my words when they trying to get really personal with me
A fun thing about Joanna Newsom (the first girl) is that she could often come accross as a pretty average hip-like person... But she's a terrific harp player, writes epics for lyrics all by herself and could be easily considered one of (if not the) best modern artists to ever exist. One thing that amazes me about the INFJs is that they keep all that depth and soul under seven keys. They are not trying too hard to be deep (although they truly are), y'know? They are extremely gifted, but very humble about it.
She's Andy Samberg's wife
@@tanio7639 Yes
Cocteau twins! I have that album picture on a crewneck:) good taste my friend
I've realised as an infj, that i tend to be have good feelings towards other infjs, for example if i'm watching a movie/show/interview and i have a good vibe about someone or some character and they feel relatable to me, they're most likely an infj. infjs can sense each other's vibe ig
LOVE UR PROFILE PIC
@@Lisanne3 lmao I like it too
I love infj's, one of my best friends is an infj and we have a very deep intuitive soul connection with one another. I'm an enfp.
Im an infj and you really made me wanna know what its like to be with an enfp
@@salmaa3801 thats awesome. Well its lots of fun, and also a very deep friendship because we infjs and enfps are both imaginative and also very empathetic. Also enfps are most introverted extroverts apparently
You guys are meant for each other.
Marry that best friend.
As a INFJ I came up to the conclusion that the actors Ive always liked the most are INFJs. So its like I could sense their personality somehow.
Samething with me for Adam Sandler
I have noticed this in myself
I always gain more focus on these specific people who all turned out to be infj
I think it’s a deep internal mechanism we develop, to better understand who we are
Michelle Pfeiffer truly is great
it's like they have this intensity and clarity to their acting
And the character Dr. Strange is the reason I'd read into marvel
Those long pauses in between thoughts, the careful speech, scrutinising anxious eyes, I am definitely an infj. I don't think Marilyn is though, he sort of stuck out like sore thumb amongst the rest the same way the guy right at the end was clearly not the infj of the 2 interviewed.
Ja Gu I think that M. Manson is probably unhealthy infj. He looks like he is very depressed. Guy at the end is not infj, you are right. The girl (actress) is infj. It is my fault cause I didn't specifically indicate each infj celebrity from this video.
M.Manson is such an INFJ, the Ni is strong and seeing past facade, insightful, being a subversive mirror to society as messeger...likely INFJ enneagram 4.
I find it very hard to listen to Manson, he seems very dark, so I think that kind of distracts from the stereotypical good guy/good girl image INFJ's seem to have. There will always be individual quirks even among people of the same type.
+Rickus Kruger That's an act persona of his unconformist nature. I think you'll find he is not like this in private.
Totally. It's so me. Everyone always tries to rush me with making a decision and I'll just be there thinking and thinking. But something good will come of it.
Oh, good to know, after years of training my speech patterns and still getting hung up, because suddenly during my rehearsed speech I had a better thought, I learn it's part of my personality. Often I just stay quiet and put together my thoughts to suddenly blast out the ultimate result in a very concise, in-depth way. Sometimes the final result only hits me while I shower in the evening though, and I never get to say it.
When you pause for a short while to reorgnize your thoughts on the matter and then you've finally settled in a way that you're going to deliver it, you speak and then a better analogy/delivery/more articulate way comes to mind and it rattles you and you stumble in your speech.
The dude talking about dreams is so me tho lol
Me too even though I'm ENFP my dreams fascinate me.
Me too! Just today I was literally describing the craziest nightmares I’ve been having lately and how interesting they are, but Typical responses are “did you tell your psych that”..
Adrian Brody....he's also a pretty good actor. Waddya know???
Vague or blunt questions amuse most INFJs, they make sure the person who's asking knows that the depth in their choice of words isn't the same as what their curiosity is about. A good example here, when he explains hypothetical scenario of standing with stick with some curious sign on it will draw enough attention, which doesn't necessarily mean something excellent is going on. They tend to make the questioner come to correct terms with thier curiosity and then answer them.
Yes, we are always seeing through other’s bs. We like to know what their true intentions are.
She asked him "Why are they so fascinated? (with him). The first thing that I'd want to say is "Are you saying that I suck?", but then have to assess the person asking the question, the situation, and decide if if the "suck?" response is good, or should I lead them off on any of several tangents for fun, to show them that I can be ridiculous and disrespectful as well. He picked an interesting tangent to answer an insulting, loaded, baiting question.
I think his long pause was actually humorous, it spoke volumes. Interesting dude right there.
In my younger days I would have tried to really answer the question thoughtfully. Now, as an older INFJ, I'd just say "Are you saying that I suck?" and stare at them waiting for an answer. Maybe I'll get to watch them dance. Why not play the game?
@@jfo3000 Yes exactly, the moment she asks the questions it's quite evident that a nerve is triggered there, but then also a lot of other emotions are also triggered which explain the choice between different tangents. The pause as you said speaks volumes that it's the time being taken to take into consideration all that has been triggered and matching each of it to that situation and see which fits right or most to it and then framing a reply which answers in a way that no doubt of any kind is to be left.
And the stare,they always feel unsettling when I hold that eye contact whether I’m asking questions or answering them. I can’t help but wanting to analyze you and see through you. It’s a habit that I want to observe your every detail as to what you’re saying
I’m INFJ and after reading your comment I’ve just noticed that all my life I make people uncomfortable when talking to them. It’s not something I want to do, and I certainly don’t do it on purpose. I’m not sure how I do it, other than the fact that I hold eye contact for too long. Idk how to stop doing this 🤦🏼♀️
No, this is calling me out!!! 😭😭😭
Having a hard time finding the right words IS REAL.
That use of analogy is just so accurate when we can’t seem to express our ideas or what we are trying to point out about something
Infi’s are so Zen.
... On the surface. 😅
Like Lord Shiva, calm on the outside and a thunderous storm brewing on the inside. Perfect embodiment of balance aren't we?
BTW have global events been affecting all INFJs off late. I feel so much better when I'm alone, but when I go outside my energy goes haywire.
@@ASJacob It's funny you mentioned Lord Shiva. I practice Hinduism and his meditative state is what I'm idolising lately. And global events always affect me, don't even know why 😅.
@@nikita7570 it's our hyper sensitivity!
@@ASJacob I have definitely felt affected from global events. A friend recently asked why I'd disappeared (it was a few days after a tragedy) and I thought about telling her, but I didn't want her to think I was crazy😅
I admire that they can be themself with strangers.
I talk like this ony with my mom.
when someone opens up a topic that i love and finds interesting, i would go super excited that i have to apologize because i was too hyper. theyd call me a weirdo or over reacting. so i have to stop myself ALWAYS. a lot of people would also say that i look sad or melancholic when talking though i am really not.
they like my eyes the most, it speaks a lot.
The long ass pause at 3:00. Me all the fucking way
Dumbledore is an INFJ
When I talk I need to look to the side, not the other person because this is how I focus. If I don't, I'm just too aware of what a person does. Plus that I usually visualize what I talk about.
This so much...
The first girl is so me lol
all of them are so Infj... very accurate
Even Marilyn manson
Adrien brody is an infj? Omg i never knew that!
One thing I noticed when we are listening we look at people, when talking we look everywhere else.
Omg i tend to overthink during exams and its hell .... i go through this whole process before i can even choose a single letter to circle. Then i look at the time and realise i spent 10 mins on one question
Once in like 5th grade I was doing pretty well in my math class, but then one test day I started overthinking where to put the decimals in my answers. So then I eventually changed the placement of all the decimals but I put my original answer on my scratch sheet just in case. My teacher came to talk to me about how I got everything wrong but then she saw my scratch sheet paper and was like "oh. Nevermind."
Alexander Supertramp performance anxiety is actually very common for INFJs
Alexander Supertramp plus, what the OP was describing sounds more like being lost in thought than being anxious.
I think all the people in these comments are the 1% of Infjs in the world. I feel at home. ❤️
Spot on. My ex is an INFJ and I can definitely see the similarities.
Mormegil damn you lost a real one.
Oh Jetty - A real loser.
We do have a very broad vocabulary don't we..Just found out I was an INFJ yday, and I thought I was alone all this time..
Haha, yup.
Sometimes I think other people think I choose fancy words on purpose, but if I happen to know it, it's the first thing that pops into my head, and if it perfectly describes what I want to say, does it really matter if other people get what I'm saying? 😂😂😂 (Fe says: Yes. 😅)
@@ThaleiaFantasy your comment made me feel at home! :)
@@ThaleiaFantasy Omg exactly this. Honestly I feel like there are times when it's pretentious to speak that way. What I do now is I say both words: "magnanimous, kind." I feel like people think I'm just being descriptive lol. .....actually now that I think of it, I have friends whose first language is not English (language partners) and so I find myself using synonyms in my speech quite often
I am an infj and I don't have a extensive vocabulary. I tend to feel things out and listen a lot more than I talk. Even though I don't know a lot of words, I speak with conviction and I am very passionate about the things I do say. There are times when I expect that others will know what I am trying to communicate just by watching me. So much of my communication is non verbal, and this is also the way that I tend to read people. I assume that by people studying my body language, watching the way I move my hands, or noticing the way I look at them, people will just feel the heart and soul that is within me. Unfortunately, many people are just not that tuned in and find intimacy uncomfortable. I hate it when someone is speaking to me and showing me a facade of who they are, because it interferes with what I am picking up emotionally from them.
I actually have a hard time explaining things because I can't find the right words
Unless I have it written down in front of me, I won't be able to tell anything in a consize manner... I either get stuck on some aspects of an idea, overexplaining them, and end up forgetting the rest, or I simply stumble with finding the right words. I can also never carry the same message over more than once; it's as if I have to think of a reply (a verbal one) each time so it sometimes appears as if I'm not being consistant with my answers... whenever I talk about something I like, I just always forget to mention some things, or don't elaborate on others as much as I should. I can see the idea and core of what I want to say, but it is never apparent to others, and it's like constantly going in cirles trying to explain what I meant. I can tell which parts of my message others will misinterpret so I keep filling these holes up, answering them in advance, and then my messages end up being too long and boring... though if I didn't do it, they'd misinterpet everything and take offense :/
Hand movement, and that pause cuz random thought is so me XD
The sec guy look like classic infj male. Long face, long nose and sad eyes. 3rd guy look like infp or intj
Redrose Abd i literally just look up at the mirror and be like ... yea .. that seems about right
Long face and long nose?
@Alexander Supertramp it doesn't but i'm surprised how accurate he is
That the actor Adrian Brody
I’m infj and someone told me that you are very calm and I can feel that in these ppl too
Andrien Brody is white Snoop Dogg.
@Alexander Supertramp lol
People tend to find me boring before they know me, just a handful of people get to know the real me. Actually, now that I think of it, which one is the real me? I become someone else with every person. Maybe because I want them to like me or idk, maybe I'm trying too much to read their thoughts that I forget to act normal and they think I'm crazy or weird. I find that other infj's annoy me lol. I prefer people who are not like me, we can be so difficult to talk to. Istg I am sober, I have no idea why I wrote all this. Now I'm wondering if I should click send or not. Oh well..
I never thought there are many people that are same with me especially artists.
The whole speech fumble is kind of bullshit (some people are not verbally articulate, yes) okay I do it too; but not because I don't know what to say. I take a pause because I'm saying what I need/want to say in a word choice/style/language that the other person will deeply understand. Imagine when you understand a topic with a pre natural affinity or intuitive genius. This is what INFJ looks for, and yes for that to happen we already have analyzed your thought pattern and from what point to what point your personality stretches to.
The people that know me get frustrated because they think I am patronizing their intelligence and ask me to just say my message without filtering.
Then when I do speak in a unbridled manner, they don't understand lick spit of what I just said or get the complete wrong impression/idea
*SCREAMS IN INFJ PAIN AAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaah*
This is correct.
So true.
Argh! Relateable!
Wow, was not expecting seeing Joanna Newsom as the first example on this video. I love her so much. 😍
I definitely talk like michelle pfeiffer 🤭🙈
So relaxing
Sighs... Apparently this is how I am when I speak- confirmed by the hubby. I didn't realize I came off this way while speaking 😣. Well, at least I can articulate my thoughts in a much more coherent fashion while writing.
I thought that guy was Lin Manuel Miranda at first and I was like "oh HAIL no. There's no way that man is- oh."
Michelle Pfeiffer sounds like ... Janet Jackson in this.
Ahh yes, our peculiar cadence.
Michelle Pfeiffer is an INFJ? Wow!
I'm not convinced so far..
C. S. Same
3:02 - 3:20 is so true...
😄 I love it
Hi. Is there a group online for fellow INFJs like me (I'm also classified as an ambivert).
God bless, Proverbs 31
Yes, check out Personality Cafe.
I love George Harrison
I’m not an INFJ (I’m INTP) but they way Cohen spoke and looking around left and right and not looking directly at someone is much like how I talk. Maybe this is more of an Intuition type of thing or simply just anxiety.
Where’s Keanu?
Hes an infp
@@rakimahmanda8709 , is he?
@@rakimahmanda8709 yep.
Definite IxFP, not INFJ
George Harrison is a difficult one, he's definitely not an INFJ, he has very weak FE but you see it in later interviews so i think it became more developed as the years went on but it's certainly not his his auxiliary function. INFJ - Notice the warmness, the FE ua-cam.com/video/8cHKI-0Ky50/v-deo.html
Harrison was very guarded and somewhat cold and unapproachable, for this reason i know a few people that type him an an INTJ. He could be very passive aggressive which is very common for ISFP's and similar types, not INFJ'S though. I personally see him as either an ISTP or an ISFP. The two types are very different so it's a bit odd for me to be confused between the two, I think he leads with a judging function, so either TI or FI, in my opinion of course:)
INFJ-FE- ua-cam.com/video/8cHKI-0Ky50/v-deo.html
ISFJ- FE- ua-cam.com/video/2xG4mnm0bBQ/v-deo.html
Try using Fe openly when you've grown up in the Beatles - it would kill you!
Ni protects us, makes us seem colder to strangers and the public. Especially the guys seem to have issues, because they are not meant to be that warm, according to patriarchy.
I am not warm in outward behavior and yet as soon as I am approached I give off a warm vibe. Always. It's a good way to deflect people you don't want to talk to. And if you do, you hang in with a smile in your eyes.
@@pash9956 This was two years ago, my knowledge of functions have increased by a ton but George Harrison is still an ISFP. As for Fi and Fe, Fe types are very warm, unless there Fe isn't so good but i guess it does depend, for the most part they are very warm, There are plenty of very NiTi INFJs though. I'v met cold Ni doms too, it really depends.
i love adrian brody
alright so im kind of confused with my mbti, im either infj (i relate to this more) but recently i took it over after some couple month and im isfp. so could you guys tell me which one am i?
im afraid of people
sometimes when im on the streets, i think persons are judging me
i like to learn different language (but my determination skills are lacking)
i mostly listen to people when they are talking.
i dont make friends easily.
i dont pot anything on social media, only use it to look on what other persons are doing.
i dont like groups assignments.
i love to sleep
i love to be by myself, most of the time
even though i may be introverted, if you get to know me, i extroverted
im weird, (doing random stuffs)
i always hurt myself like trip.
i love to watch youtube
i like when my opinions are heard but cant say it out loud to persons i dont know.
sometimes i get disappointed in myself.
i love to help others
i cant say no to people, but when im helping them and they dont cooperate i tend to not have patience but will hide it.
i also dont know how to open up to someone, but if someone is to open up to me, i will be willing to help them.
i tend to hide my feeling to myself.
i often cry in a sad show and when i dont want to cry and laugh along with it.
when im doing a test, i have anxiety bcz i want to convince myself that i want to do well. because im doing very good at school and people tend to have high hopes for me. so im very exhausted to try to keep that.
You are certainly an INFJ and may even be a bit turbulent, making you a INFJ-T. As an INFJ myself, I felt this connection very heavily. ISFP are very physically creative people who have a knack for details. INFJ's, however, are more prone to be creatively influenced internally. This makes them very understanding people, giving them the gift of consoling and being therapeutic. From what I read about you, you are very INFJ-ish.
@@bitter-sweet-music thank you very much for helping I really appreciate it
Not that you can type from just this statement, but Bittersweet is wrong.
I am an INFJ.
You remind me of my son, who is INFP... but not because of what you said about yourself, but because of how you said it. "i", "i", "i", "i", detail, detail, detail, listing, but without stress in the order; not any care at all about even getting grammar close to typical...
You clearly like to be alone... Introvert. So then which function? Feeling. You hide your feeling to yourself. Then the introverted sensing list of what you know about yourself is easily organized, backed up by whether it feels right to you...
Combined with the general vibe I get from you that you're AWARE that that kind of introversion is obvious, but you still think you're opaque instead of transparent; despite asking people to type you, you are still trying to come off as opaque.
My INFP son does those things.
One of the things that intrigues me is how much intuition increases someone's I.Q.. Despite being a Fi-dom, he's a VERY smart cookie. But he works kinda slow and his anxiety affects his performance adversely instead of well. That's inferior Te stuff...
An INFJ would not be talking the same way, neither really saying those things.
I know I'm 38, so I'm well into dealing with my inferior Se and my Ni, Fe, and Ti are strong, practiced, and mostly balanced(my Fe is still getting stronger, I was TORMENTED for much of my life, so I had to just wish well for my enemies more than really being able to do it, at the time... but now my 5th kid is on the way((FINALLY, A GIRL!!!)so Fe is busy).
But, myself, if someone asked me to describe myself honestly, at the age of 38... I've learned enough from psychology and a life-time of learning how to put into words: Chaos torments my heart. I can handle loud, or crazy, or whatever... if it's PLANNED and/or organized. Random movements, crazy antics, sudden noises, etc. Cause me a great deal of stress. Lots. And I tend to feel guilty because people know it stresses me so I'm worried that they're worried that I'm stressed by the chaos... that's my primary downside. It's terrible. Otherwise, I'm just a thinker, a lover, a warrior, a leader... people come to me for advice. I'm like some kinda warrior sage at 38. It's... strange. I spend lots of time being very quiet, envisioning, processing, watching the flow, seeking the root or point of origination of everything under the sun(and above it, I suppose)... when I'm answering questions or having an insight, I will take pauses just like many in this video - but if I have PROCESSED my revelation, I will go to someone who will listen and BLAST, or I will write it down, or build it, or something. Because of some hindrances lately, I've had to file away all of those under an internal algorithm which will recreate that whole idea... and just a nod or breath towards that area again usually makes the whole thing play through my head again(Fe, or Ti, or Se, or even alternate Ni kickstarting Ni memory is best way to describe)... too much to explain, but I'm not going to delete because that would be antithetical to this cause.
I feel like I have much more to say, but I lost track when my 1.5 yr old galloped through the hall. Basically, INFJ feels very alone, like we're the only ones who can see both all the reality and the abstract, while still having lots of empathy for people (sometimes, I find myself seeing people who are hurting as better than me, and people who aren't as less aware than me... weird, I know). But I love skills... if I can find the core reason, who I am really serving... I can't focus. He sounds like Pinocchio falling down wooden stairs and all he is doing is running through the hall... how is this kid so wild... he is so cute though!
Glad to know Manson is an INFJ.
I think Gaga is too.
Does anyone know what type Madonna is? I'm curious.
ESTP (not sure though) saw it somewhere online.
This is literally me
Infj's seem more stable than infp's, am I right ?
not true - irrelevant
It depends. Emotional stability isn't type related, but in general terms, INFJs lead with a dominant precieving function like ISxJs, so they may THINK in a more linear way. But All xNxPs have that sense of "scatteredness," possibly more of any other type. Even xSxPs are put together in a way because of how concrete their perception typically is. Ne, by it's nature, is a gatherer of concepts, a brainstormer instead of a predictor.
i think that trying to type celebities is impossible because they are always prepared for interviews(they know the date ahead it's organized with their agent) so they don't show their true self only when one dies we discover their hidden life
Some people are able to see ,,what's behind"
Infj:
Slowed down thought pattern
I am always acting, so I can't be sure about who I really am.
OH WHAT ADRIEN BRODY IS AN INFJ good to know :]]
I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. However, the Myers Briggs Personally Test is interesting but somewhat incomplete. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So let's start breaking some myths about the INFJ Personalty Type
When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not attempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass.
INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss.
Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understand', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves.
INFJ's feel uncomfortable being around large groups of people. However, once you get them talking, they never shut up.
Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strange about this behavior. Some people become alcoholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and pretend you never existed.
INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane.
INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows.
INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries?
INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. If they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they will lie to protect that person's emotions.
INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment or making mistakes.
INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice - then completely ignore their recommendations! They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn things the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriend' button on Facebook.
INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in.
Do not mistake a INFJ's confidence as egocentrismn. There is a difference.
INFJ's are frequently interpreted as posessing a Narcissist Personalty Disorder. This stereotype is absolutely false. A Narcissist loves adoration and attention. The typical INFJ cares more about others than themselves, sometime to their own detriment.
INFJ's dislike themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation Issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves.
The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's are compassionate which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. (2) They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (3) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. These are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer.
It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group.
The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological Disorder rather than a Personality Dysfunction). Fortunately, INFJ's are not prone to violent behavior. They give up easily, This is where the 'Door Slam' or simply walking away from an argument comes from. Once they reveal their true inner nature, you will begin to understand why only 1% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are so dam charming.
INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted)
INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots....even when there are no dots!
When the Zombie Apocalypse occurs, a INFJ will be eaten screaming, "I told you so... I told you so!"
Imagine your on the Titanic. It's 1912. You see a Iceberg coming. Your jumping around and telling everyone the ship is about to sink. People just laugh and finish their Champagne. Welcome to the wonderful world of a INFJ.
Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying.
Occasionally, you will notice a INFJ acting mysteriously, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes.
Never tell a INFJ they have a 'Old Soul'. They are absolutely terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't need the extra competition on who should run Heaven (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity....that would be considered cruel and unusual punishment.
Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials.
INFJ's have a difficult time forming a thought or idea into words. Yes. Someday a INFJ will develop Telekinesis and scare the hell out of everyone. Stop laughing, it's going to happen.
So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. INFJ's are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. There represent only 1% of 7.7 billion people on planet Earth according to MBTI statistics. In my opinion, this Myers Briggs Personality represents the noblest aspects of humanity....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Virtuous, Observent, Altruistic and Protective. Dispight their faults (which everyone has, no one is perfect) INFJ's are genuine. You get exactly what you see meeting these people. No convert agenda, deeply empathic intellectuals who sincerely care about you. They have a excellent sense of humor also (wink).
I don’t dislike myself. I feel alone, yes, but I feel like everyone does even if they’re around people all the time. We’re all alone - it’s just that some people are in touch with that side to their beings.
Wow thank you very much for the information.
ENFPs and INFJs match perfectly because we love every trait of you guys. Infjs are awesome 😚
@@cemo1740 I, as an INFJ, felt so happy reading your comment so thank you sm! 😄 Again, as an INFJ, I think ENFPs are just wonderful! 💫
This comment is 🤌
This is... indeed. Insightful. - INFJ
Leonard Cohen 💋💋💋
my eyes wander alot the expression is like that
They all have a huskys gaze
Explain
I have a huskey and we both just stare at each other in silence.
Nice!
who is the second guy?
infj but kissing halle berry like that didn't seem very infj
Spenser T yea it seems very “I am a human with a pulse” shit I’d do it and I’m an infj woman!
Dummy
No....it was just rude.
Halle is isfj. The opposite of infj.
manson is probably an infp or intj definitley a star in the Dope Show.
This is how FJ talks
I'm ENFJ and it's how I talk but faster 😂
I love michelle
Could anyone tell me, who all these people are? (I have to admit, I barely know anyone ^^')
Thank you already very much for every help! :D
Joanna Newsom
Adrien Brody
Marilyn Manson
Leonard Cohen
Michelle Pfeiffer
George Harrison
Rooney Mara
First two total INFP ‘s.
What are the names of those people? :)
These*
Jack
Bobby
Tommy
Sammy
Are Infj open warm understanding patient ?
I thought that INFJ didn't like to be in the spotlight ...
we dont
We don’t, but sometimes that’s just how it happens.
Who was the first celebrity?
bunnyblurrz Joanna Newsome :)
I love her so much!
@@SaraMBTI Second Celebrity?
Liana Love adrien brody
Yes Marylin Manson!!!🤘🏼🔥🔥
And ashey olsen is INTJ
Kaecilius hey, Ashley was not in this video :)
Lol
Kaecilius he seems so doped...
Well. Thank you for that information.
I am the 222nd comment and the 800th like 😂
Great video, lol.
Philosophical But Wise.
Lol how are those two conflicting? They're related and often present together.
Adrian Brody💋👀💋
What about Heath Ledger? He seemed like one to me.
I believe the general consensus is that he is INFP.
I second this.. he is totally an infp.
The sound is horrible, I barely can hear
isn't bella hadid an isfp tho?
She wasn't in this video. I think you confused her for someone else.
Michael Jackson is a pure example of INFJ
Anonymous Michael is isfp
Hard to see a difference between infj and infp it seems really similar
i disagree, there's more fluidity and lots of ideas coming together as one when infps speak
@@candletabletop154 as an infp I may disagree on that lol
@@loisrabies8713 i'm one as well though lol, i feel like it's clear that when we're speaking there's a lot going on inside but we have difficulty with super coherent articulation
@@candletabletop154 yeah that makes sense. I usually can’t speak correctly
George Harrison💋❤️❤️