SARAH GETS SURGERY...and we receive some VERY UNEXPECTED NEWS

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  • @dearkorina3157
    @dearkorina3157 3 роки тому +671

    When Sarah started crying about not being able to pick up Jack I started crying too. Mother’s love is strong.

  • @jenniferpalmer1654
    @jenniferpalmer1654 3 роки тому +89

    I had endometriosis when I was in my twenties, and was told I would never have children. I have a 25 yo son and an 18 yo daughter. After two children I no longer suffered from endometriosis. It can make it harder to conceive, but not impossible.
    Get well soon, and keep being that awesome husband/father Derick.

    • @amandawilder7353
      @amandawilder7353 3 роки тому +5

      I had endometriosis thru high school and now have 9 kids. Babies will come.

    • @timestax
      @timestax 2 роки тому +3

      I was told the same. I got pregnant in 2 months. I didn't have surgery.

    • @leeannekemp8424
      @leeannekemp8424 2 роки тому +1

      I was told the same now have a 25 yr old and 23 yr old but at 29 I had ovarian cancer and had everything removed best thing I ever had done

    • @benharper1506
      @benharper1506 2 роки тому +1

      what an amazing community

    • @norma4363
      @norma4363 2 роки тому

      @@leeannekemp8424 sorry honey I pray they got it all and your still OK about the cancer.

  • @hjayne5481
    @hjayne5481 3 роки тому +810

    Derick- thank you for the honest and open conversation about women's reproductive health. I think it's a great example of maturity and respect that needs to be put out in the world more often.

    • @miamifirefly53
      @miamifirefly53 3 роки тому +61

      I was so impressed at how much he learned from her surgery and how he explained it! Very attentive towards her. Love it

    • @cindys.9688
      @cindys.9688 3 роки тому +38

      ♡I agree ... Derick was so knowledgeable and mature when explaining everything. Did such a great job!
      ♡Sarah, I pray for a perfect recovery. You're in awesome hands. Derick is so gentle and patient. Well, I learned something new! (Endometriosis can grow 𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕤𝕚𝕕𝕖 the uterus - and other tissues can get stuck to it.🤔)
      Very thankful that your ovary wasn't removed!
      Great news!🎉
      ♡I absolutely 𝕃𝕆𝕍𝔼 sweet, cutie, Jack!💙 Such a cute little sound he makes! Such a happy baby! Can tell he's a 𝕍𝔼ℝ𝕐 loved boy!💙
      ♡Sarah, praying for you here in California!😎

    • @purezamagno3135
      @purezamagno3135 3 роки тому +25

      @@cindys.9688 Am not surprised that Derick is knowledgeable about endometriosis because he's a medical student before. He just stopped due to lack of time esp. when Sarah got pregnant.

    • @vivek27789
      @vivek27789 3 роки тому +9

      @@purezamagno3135 he went to medical school?

    • @MamaJonesie
      @MamaJonesie 3 роки тому +15

      My husband could never talk about menstrual blood the way he just did lol

  • @msalyssababy
    @msalyssababy 3 роки тому +219

    As soon as I heard Sarah describe the pain she was having I knew it was endometriosis. That’s exactly how I described my pain. I was able to get pregnant again super easily, so don’t be too discouraged. ❤️

    • @purpledahliamedium1968
      @purpledahliamedium1968 3 роки тому +14

      I have had endometriosis for over 30 years. It is the worse. Even after my hysterectomy I still have it in some areas. Nature of the beast. Worse club to be a member of.

    • @karuchysierra525
      @karuchysierra525 3 роки тому +7

      I had Endometriosis when I was 21 yrs old had surgery than at 26 I had a huge fibroma and one of my tubes was irreparably blocked but a year later I had my son n 3 yrs after I had my daughter n have not had a problem since so faith it will all b ok

    • @lisahutchinson2860
      @lisahutchinson2860 3 роки тому +1

      I had same situation happen to me at 20 years old . My doctor said it was going to be hard to get pregnant and I needed to go in birth control to clear what is going on. Needless to say I turned 21 6 months later on birth control and 1 time that month bam pregnant. We were even trying because we were both young and in college. To be discouraged. The doctors have to tell you all the bad things that could happen in case it happens. I hope ur feeling better

    • @Ptls68
      @Ptls68 2 роки тому +1

      I have endometrio Big Big time plus fibromes and cystes it has been tremendously painful and i only had one child but he is of course the most wonderful ever. Im past 50 now and my periods just ended and that has mad such a difference i have hardly any symptoms anymore. Best wishes

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Рік тому +1

      Endometriosis affected every part of my life from age 17 until I discovered Motrin,
      Which was prescription in those days.....worked like a miracle for endometriosis.
      For years until I had early menopause, 42ish... I could function better but still had pain.
      I had a couple early miscarriages but never had a child.
      My longtime usage of NSAIDS, which no one knew were so dangerous, led to kidney/liver later in my life.
      Surgery was never offered to me.
      In the early years I was given prescription opioids. It's a wonder I did not get addicted...but I did not.
      I'm 73 now.
      Glad Sarah had options, good care and good recovery, as we know..
      She & Derek now have a 2nd child!
      Isn't it great! .

  • @nikkinicole5588
    @nikkinicole5588 3 роки тому +168

    Jack is rocking that pigtail! He's so cute.
    Sarah get better soon. We all love you and are praying for you.

  • @susanjones2276
    @susanjones2276 3 роки тому +106

    Derek... I am 100% impressed with how you handled this situation. It had to be terrifying but you dealt with it amazingly! Good job! Prayer for Sarah's healing. Thank God the doctors were able to get this taken care of. You did good!

  • @BK-gi6wk
    @BK-gi6wk 3 роки тому +121

    Such a Blessing that through the "Cyst" they were able to find the endometriosis & take care of both issues & have a plan for how to proceed from here. I've had 7 abdominal surgeries plus an ovarian cyst the size of a softball that luckily did not need surgery. Don't let the post op blues get to you, it is normal. Also, keep a pillow over your tummy! Before your 3 weeks are over, Jack will bump you or Derik might bump you in his sleep & IT WILL HURT! Also, if you feel a cough or sneeze coming, have Derik pull down on both sides of the pillow, it will greatly reduce the pain from them. Double check with your Dr but that is what I was advised and practiced. It works! God Bless all 3 of you!

    • @elizabethkoobs1060
      @elizabethkoobs1060 3 роки тому +9

      Yes, Sarah, keep a pillow over your abdomen as a safety measure. When you need to cough or sneeze, you can use the pillow for support, by pressing on the pillow over your abdomen. I hope that made sense.💜

    • @JennaLeigh
      @JennaLeigh 3 роки тому +6

      What fantastic advice! How kind of you to share it. This fandom is so refreshingly kind and wholesome. I love it. You guys rock.💖

  • @laine_s
    @laine_s 3 роки тому +88

    My mom had endometriosis, and soon after became pregnant with me, and that was with 1969 healthcare! I can't even imagine the leaps and bounds that medicine has undergone in 50+ years. You're brave, and you're going to do great!

  • @christinalarson54
    @christinalarson54 3 роки тому +141

    I had the exact same problem. I suffered from painful cysts in my ovaries and in surgery they discovered I had endometriosis. The worst part of that surgery for me, was the gas that gets trapped in your chest and shoulders. I too went on birth control, and was able to get pregnant soon after. You are a beautiful human being, and trust that God has a plan for you. Even if it isn't the plan that you wanted or expected, it is your special journey. Sending you love and healing prayers!❤

    • @ElineBlueEyes
      @ElineBlueEyes 3 роки тому +2

      Sameee that gas really hurts

    • @CherylBerryl
      @CherylBerryl 3 роки тому +9

      I suffered like a dog w/ HORRIBLE endometriosis. I started getting enlightened about natural holistic modalities, & I did a LOT of research. And I was able to heal my endometriosis completely naturally. It didn't happen overnight, but it gradually decreased & I FINALLY was healed.

    • @karenkordei9244
      @karenkordei9244 3 роки тому +2

      I had the same exact problem as well but I had Fibroids as well now I have identical twins daughter’s

    • @dace8828
      @dace8828 3 роки тому +2

      I wish they would have told me about gas related shoulder/ neck pain 😁 i legit thought they' d dropped me on me head while i was knocked out

    • @19mterry
      @19mterry 3 роки тому +1

      I still have the same problem 😭 but God has a plan. Prayers out to you Sarah!!! Endometriosis sucks

  • @kimbo500
    @kimbo500 3 роки тому +78

    Decades ago, I was at a surgi-center in Chicago for my initial arthroscopy for what ended up being stage IV endometriosis. Same thing....the damage was far greater than expected, I had to be closed up and re-admitted to a hospital for more extensive surgery. I know it's a shock to get such a diagnosis, and hear about your treatment options. Happy to answer any questions you might have, but I'm sure your doc has been very thorough with her explanations. Just know you are not alone....and lean on your support system, as well as listen to your body. You've got this! 💜

  • @susanchapman7332
    @susanchapman7332 3 роки тому +266

    Amazing that without the cyst, the endemetriosis would have continued until serious damage was done! God works in wonderfully mysterious ways to our good! So happy Sarah is healing now and Derek is awesome to take care of her and Jack!

    • @lynncuthbert2307
      @lynncuthbert2307 3 роки тому +3

      The cyst is just the start. No cure.

    • @claireashley427
      @claireashley427 3 роки тому +3

      Absolutely!! So glad they found that so she have it taken care of!

    • @susanchapman7332
      @susanchapman7332 3 роки тому +6

      @@lynncuthbert2307 but now that they know she has endometriosis, it can be controlled!

    • @lynncuthbert2307
      @lynncuthbert2307 3 роки тому +5

      @@susanchapman7332 That's the sad part. They can't control it. Millions of women are infertile and agony. It causes scarring. It's a Phenomenon. A disease. A full hysterectomy or a forced Menapause to stop the menstrual cycle.

    • @kirstincooper886
      @kirstincooper886 3 роки тому +29

      @@lynncuthbert2307 I'm sorry but this is a Christian family that believes in the power of the Lord and I totally disagree with you I had endometriosis when I was in my twenties I had it severely and bad I had three surgeries I now have had 5 children after endometriosis I have had no problem with endometriosis ever again. I also had my fifth child after I was 40 years old I have never had another issue with endometriosis I am healthy went through a normal menopause and still live a healthy life.
      Derek and Sarah have the power of prayer and God behind them and I stand in agreement that the power of God can provide miracles that are beyond a doctors statements

  • @candyverke3855
    @candyverke3855 3 роки тому +72

    Derik.. what an amazing husband… How blessed she is… to have somebody who loves you , and cares for you so selflessly

  • @connimace258
    @connimace258 3 роки тому +60

    What a awesome husband you have Sarah. The positive is you didnt loose your ovary an 3 weeks goes pretty fast. As long as Jack can sit beside you an you can kiss an hug him he'll be fine. Just get rest prayers for a speedy recovery. Derek you are the best dad an husband.

  • @michellereeder2989
    @michellereeder2989 3 роки тому +41

    I had endometriosis & a year ago I had an IUD, the pain is gone, no periods, no hormonal spikes. I hope everything goes smoothly...future baby #2 will be a huge blessing. Rest up Sarah, glad you had your boys to take good care of you 😊

  • @sheilajohnson9977
    @sheilajohnson9977 3 роки тому +182

    Aweeeeee Sarah, my heart goes out to you for not being able to pick Jack up...you will soon, heal sweet mom for now, dad got this...love you guys...✌🏾❤🤗

    • @wellbeingdiva
      @wellbeingdiva 3 роки тому +4

      I had endometriosis when I was 26yrs. I went through a similar treatment. The not great news was I had endometrial and uterine cancer removed with surgery. It Was caught early at grade 1 no chemo or radiation needed in 2017. I am 63 now. What I have learned since then is a change in my diet will help for future. Check out the SIBO diet or foods to heal the gut. Gut healing is the key to body health. I am on a program now called BetrHealth that has been teaching me clean eating to heal the gut. That endometriosis was a major cause of so much. Wishing you speedy recovery and good health and happiness. I believe you will be good. My cousin and I both had we endometriosis and was put on hormone treatment. Look into gut healing foods and SIBO for clean eating to also stop the endometriosis. 🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇❤❤ sending good energy your way.

    • @tonyamckenzie4653
      @tonyamckenzie4653 3 роки тому

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      @tonyamckenzie4653 3 роки тому

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      @tonyamckenzie4653 3 роки тому

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    • @SarahAndDerik
      @SarahAndDerik  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you🤍🙏

  • @DiscoBlahBlah
    @DiscoBlahBlah 3 роки тому +61

    I know many mommas that were able to have kids after diagnosis and treatment, so don't lose all hope! The important thing now is to heal. Just rest and take it slow, Sarah! You have a great partner by your side and Jack is the cutest little distraction ever! 💗💗

    • @Adhivava12
      @Adhivava12 3 роки тому

      Hii

    • @evalinawarne1337
      @evalinawarne1337 2 роки тому +1

      I had a cyst on my right overy when I was 14 years old. My girlfriend had one also. We had surgery on the same morning. Same doctor's,. Same church. Same hospital and they even put us in the same room. It wasn't even planned. We both had
      a lot of pain and went to E.R. It was GOD'S PLAN. We both felt better having each other to support one another. Plus, our mom's had each other. Pastor had prayed for both of us in JESUS'S NAME AMEN

  • @bridgetcameron8229
    @bridgetcameron8229 3 роки тому +117

    Aw Sarah, you're doing so well after the surgery. My mom had endometriosis and had 7 kids! Lol, so baby #2 will happen when it's right for your wonderful family. Derik is such a great caregiver and Jack is being so gentle for sure! 🙏 ❤ 😍

  • @cori7209
    @cori7209 3 роки тому +56

    The love that You Two have for one another and your family can be felt through the camera. It's awesome to see something so genuine on social media. This channel will continue to quickly grow because people can relate to your content. You two are amazing role models for teens and young couples.

    • @lenicelele679
      @lenicelele679 2 роки тому

      Love you Sarah. You are such lovely person. Be brave.

  • @tmalloy9
    @tmalloy9 3 роки тому +87

    I love seeing how much you two pull together when the going gets tough. You each continue to look after each other. Sarah wants us to give recognition to Derik while she’s barfing, and Derik is all about Sarah’s comfort and happiness while he is worrying so hard about her well-being.
    You both know, I hope, how much we have all been praying for you and sending our love and blessings your way. God bless you all. You will continue to thrive while you navigate this little whitewater passage. You’ve got this.🌻

    • @SarahAndDerik
      @SarahAndDerik  3 роки тому +2

      This made our day. Thank you so much!

  • @charissemodeste6489
    @charissemodeste6489 3 роки тому +43

    It's never oversharing, when you can get a serious conversation to an actual problem going.
    Thanks for sharing your journey 🙏

  • @KarmaTribe
    @KarmaTribe 3 роки тому +40

    I'm also an Endo girl and when your moon cycle comes along aleve is one of the best for the pain. I was lucky enough to have a OB GYN parent. I was taking naproxyn/aleve when it still needed a perscription and was called anaprox, I was 13 with endo. Don't take it before bed, it will keep you up all night(no idea why, happens to my sister too) and make sure to take it with food and liquid.
    Yayy ovary saved, I know the birth control set back is hard. Remember your body needs time to heal and be strong and healthy to carry a baby. You got this, take good care of yourself, heal and love on that sweet widdle boy who looks just like my son at that age. Wishing you the best healing vibes and blessings to you and yours.

  • @barbarawhite6138
    @barbarawhite6138 3 роки тому +15

    Wishing you the best. I had my last son when I was 43 and suffered from Endometriosis 2 years after, excruciating pain. Since I was old to begin with (lol) and not planning on any more children I opted for a hysterectomy, this was after them removing the Endometriosis once and it coming back again. Everyone is different, I am sending you prayers for a quick recovery. You three are awesome. Much love 💙

  • @kathytaylo4354
    @kathytaylo4354 3 роки тому +21

    My friend dealt with endometriosis for 20 plus years snd suffered with extreme pain every month. She never got surgery and should have. She is fine now but it took that long to get better.
    Sara, you will be fine because you did the right thing and had surgery. Bless both of you two! Good work! You deserve the best (and a gold medal!)

    • @acoe2012ac
      @acoe2012ac 3 роки тому +1

      Glad she’s feeling better but unfortunately there is no cure for Endometriosis

    • @vivek27789
      @vivek27789 3 роки тому

      @@acoe2012ac Really?

  • @michellebrown5084
    @michellebrown5084 3 роки тому +56

    I hope Sarah feels better soon!😊💗She's so lucky to have such a loving and supportive husband!😊💗You will be in my prayers and thoughts for a fast recovery!😊🙏💗

    • @lyndafromkin6468
      @lyndafromkin6468 3 роки тому +3

      Bless this beautiful family. Derick is a quality human being; full of love and
      caring for Sarah, Jack, his large family, and his loving parents ❤️.
      (BH)

  • @claudiabenham2977
    @claudiabenham2977 3 роки тому +67

    One silver lining is that it's actually easier to get pregnant after going off the pill, because your fertility spikes. I hope and pray for quick healing, and alleviation of pain.

    • @emms4867
      @emms4867 3 роки тому

      It took me 6 months to get my period back after coming off the pill 😬 but I do have suspected pcos so hopefully what you say is true for the majority of people. I'm back on the pill now and the next time i come off will be when we are ready to start trying for a baby, but I'm already worried about it

  • @aaliyahaaliyah3325
    @aaliyahaaliyah3325 2 роки тому +24

    When Sarah started to cry I felt so bad because the love she has for her kid is amazing and seeing her being upset over not being able to hold jack is amazing in a good way! I love that these 2 parents have a deep love for their child and is even worried he would be upset or feel like they don’t love them when they are hurting but all they do is be worried about how jack may feel I love it! ❤❤❤❤ I pray you guys stay safe and happy 😊

  • @kellyoneill-hinckley2955
    @kellyoneill-hinckley2955 3 роки тому +58

    Cont. “Excellent Prognosis” explanation 👍 …. It means he’s listening and cares about you Sarah … Best Wishes for your Family 🦋🎈🩴🌻🍦🛵

  • @donnar9864
    @donnar9864 2 роки тому +12

    What a blessing it is to have a husband that cares enough to help in a medical crisis...and Sarah, he's blessed to have you too baby girl... 💗

  • @kholbrook203
    @kholbrook203 3 роки тому +12

    I’m so glad the surgery is behind her now. Just rest and when you start moving around, please don’t over do it just because you are feeling better. Endometriosis is painful and can be debilitating. I had surgery for it when I was in my early 30’s. When I came home after surgery. The pain from the gas was the worse. But they didn’t tell me anything about the gas pain or what to do for relief.
    But you are in good hands now that you are home. I wish for you a speedy recovery. God Bless you all. I love all of you.
    🙏🏻🥰💖

  • @ashleyallen9967
    @ashleyallen9967 Рік тому +12

    I’m so glad she didn’t need her ovary removed. I have PCOS and Hypoplastic Uterus. Been trying to have a baby now, on and off, for almost 20yrs. Got pregnant once, 3yrs ago, but unfortunately miscarried our little angel baby boy, Karter. We’re still trying though!! I pray God gives us the gift of being able to be parents 🙏🙏 I’ve wanted nothing more than to be a mommy and I don’t get to. I always say, “I’m a momma with no kids”. I am sooo happy that’s not the cards you guys were dealt!!! Btw, congratulations on your new baby girl, Sunny Marie 🎉🥰💝 So happy for ya’ll, that you were able to have another baby. Sending ya’ll much peace and love!! ❤

  • @KM00Youtube
    @KM00Youtube 3 роки тому +55

    Prayers for Sarah, Derik and Jack during this challenging time. God was looking out for you and continues to surround you. ((((((((hugs🥰))))))) Mahalo 🌺🌺🌺

  • @melodychannon7814
    @melodychannon7814 3 роки тому +8

    You can do just fine since they caught it so soon. I had endometriosis and had to have a complete hysterectomy at 31 yrs old from not being diagnosed soon enough. Just follow your doctors advice and instructions. Keep your checkups with your doctor to ensure everything stays good. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. ❤️🙏

  • @carol.stoeser
    @carol.stoeser 3 роки тому +17

    Wishes for a swift recovery for Sarah. I had endometriosis and a large ovarian cyst, so I can emphasize with her: much pain. It's going to be tough not picking up Jack, but Derik is so great a caregiver that you will work things out. After you have recovered you can plan for baby #2! Life will be better from here on. Much love to the Beeston Fan!

  • @debb313
    @debb313 3 роки тому +1

    I had the same issue. But with cysts on both overies and a lot of damage. Had the surgery a year after our first baby, took the birth control for a year. Went off, got pregnant within 2 weeks. Repeat… 4 years later …# 3 ! 🥰 now I’m 54 with three children and 8 grandchildren!!!! I wish you both the same beautiful miracles!!

  • @kellyoneill-hinckley2955
    @kellyoneill-hinckley2955 3 роки тому +37

    Oh so happy your through the rough part -good doctor was able to clean the endometriosis to better prepare for Baby #2 🙃 Get well ❤️‍🩹 soon Sarah, thank you Darek for “excellent

  • @paulabeecham8065
    @paulabeecham8065 2 роки тому +10

    Your such a great man Derick for looking after your wife and little Jack

  • @Simone-rx4ri
    @Simone-rx4ri 3 роки тому +25

    I had endometriosis for years. It is different for everyone. No two cases the same. I wish you luck. I'm glad they found it now , as you can now deal with the pain. Lots of love to you both.❤❤

  • @thegreenroomsessions2632
    @thegreenroomsessions2632 3 роки тому +12

    Hoping for a speedy recovery so you can hold precious Jack again ❤️ I had something similar 3 years ago when I was 25, sadly they were too late to discover my cysts and my ovary had died therefore infecting my body and I contracted sepsis. So I’m glad you were lucky enough to find it so soon 🙏🏻 I’m hoping I can still have kids in future with my strong little ovary 💪🏻🤞🏻

  • @carolinemcallister692
    @carolinemcallister692 3 роки тому +72

    Hope Sarah recovers full and quickly as possible 😘

  • @juliatellespascon
    @juliatellespascon Рік тому +9

    Dear Sarah,
    I found out this Tuesday I have a cist in an ultrasound… I was so worried about it and the day after I had an appointment with my doctor and she told me that it’s very likely that I have endometriosis as well…
    I’m gonna have to do a new ultrasound in February to see how the endometrioma is going and if it’s the same or bigger, I’ll get surgery in March.
    Today I was feeling a little worried/emotional about this and remembered of this videos, just came back and rewatched it.
    It helped me so much and gave me hope that I’ll be able to make my biggest dream come true: have my babies 🥹.
    Thank you so much for that ♥️

  • @tmm5115
    @tmm5115 3 роки тому +56

    Sarah, wishing you a speedy recovery. Derik is already being a great nurse looking after you 💛

    • @SarahAndDerik
      @SarahAndDerik  3 роки тому

      Awe thank you! He definitely is🙌🏼

  • @jodybrand3076
    @jodybrand3076 2 роки тому +5

    Praying for Sarah, your caregiver, Derik 😀 and little Jack. 🙏 Speedy recovery and healthy body. In Jesus name! Thank you Lord! 🙌

  • @chevingladden5146
    @chevingladden5146 3 роки тому +38

    Your description of "someone inside you stabbing you internally" is 100% accurate. I had at least three ovarian cysts surgically removed. One of the happiest moments days of my life when I went to the hospital for a hysterectomy. No more ovaries=no more ovarian cysts.

    • @SarahAndDerik
      @SarahAndDerik  3 роки тому +7

      Ahhh I can't imagine! Starting to look forward to that hah

    • @swazi4769
      @swazi4769 3 роки тому +1

      I thought of removing my womb as well, but I'm young and have no children yet. But after 3 operations, I'm much better. I went on herbal.treatment

    • @lorriefinley3129
      @lorriefinley3129 3 роки тому +1

      @ Mathabata Khathide Removing your uterus won't affect your ovaries. It is always best to keep your ovaries when young because your body needs these hormones.
      If its just one ovary that's getting the cysts, the option could be to remove that one. But the condition causing it remains. Its a matter of determining the underlying condition. The best start to finding it is 1 of 2 in either order: go to an Endocrinologist and have your hormone levels checked and get them in balance. See a Ob-Gyn that specializes in disorders of the reproductive system. They usually do the hormone blood tests themselves.
      Just because you may not be experiencing any symptoms right now doesn't mean the condition isn't progressing. Its important to be evaluated. I also had an Ovarian Cyst "pie slice" removed when I was 20 while studying to by a RN.

  • @charlieoglesby3468
    @charlieoglesby3468 Рік тому +6

    Prayers for Sarah. You are doing a great job Derik. Jack is adorable as always 😍 Love and hugs for you all.

  • @monicahileman1644
    @monicahileman1644 3 роки тому +21

    God works in mysterious ways. Stay strong you have a wonderful husband and a beautiful son. May God continue to bless you and your family. Sending prayers and healing vibes your way. Love you all🙏❤❤🙏

  • @nicoleminnikin7555
    @nicoleminnikin7555 3 роки тому +21

    Best wishes on healing and everything on this scary journey, we are all here to support everything through this. Hugs from our family to yours

  • @jaimew1539
    @jaimew1539 3 роки тому +19

    Aww so glad you are doing well. I struggled many years with endometriosis and infertility. Had multiple laparoscopies and laparotomies and ended up having 2 children. Basically, it’s like backwards bleeding into the abdominal cavity which causes scar tissue and lesions. So happy you had the surgery and found out. One recommendation is to have children young as I eventually had to do IVF. Good news is birth control keeps endometriosis under control and you found out early!! Good luck guys!!!

  • @kimberlyclayton4985
    @kimberlyclayton4985 Рік тому +11

    I hope you guys have an eternal marriage. You’re perfect

  • @loribillings3810
    @loribillings3810 3 роки тому +9

    So thankful they got the endometriosis out. I've had that and it is very painful. Mine was so advanced that I had to have a full hysterectomy. Good news for you that getting pregnant in a few months is still possible. God bless you all.

  • @user-pb1cc3bo8v
    @user-pb1cc3bo8v 3 роки тому +3

    Youre family is so beautiful and real and I appreciate you sharing it so thank you!After a tubal pregnancy ruptured and an emergency surgery removed my right tube I was able to get pregnant with just the one so don't stress about it! Nature is powerful! ❤ All Love & Light.

  • @bethwhite4131
    @bethwhite4131 3 роки тому +62

    So glad Sarah got through her surgery! Finding the endometriosis was a blessing - and it's treatable, which is another blessing. I just know Baby #2 is in the cards for you, and it will happen - you'll find the right timing and the universe will give you and Derik a sibling for Jack. Keeping you and your beautiful family in my thoughts and prayers

  • @erinmay3109
    @erinmay3109 Рік тому +4

    Derik I love the love that you have for Sarah & Jack. Bless all of y’all

  • @cathyjones3403
    @cathyjones3403 3 роки тому +7

    I’m so glad they found it before it got to bad. I had a complete hysterectomy because of mine . You are doing great and thank you for sharing your life with us. God Bless

  • @doxiecracra4127
    @doxiecracra4127 2 роки тому +1

    Sara, how crazy it was watching this episode. I went thru the same exact thing many many years ago. My endometriosis problem, and scar tissue from previous surgeries…made my organs and bowel adhere to each other . So I went thru a rough surgery as well. And also had numerous surgeries due to cysts. Getting pregnant with my 2nd child was a blessing as it stopped the spread. Praying you are doing much better and will continue to be healed from it and the cysts

  • @KatBlack07
    @KatBlack07 3 роки тому +15

    It's so nice to hear all went well and home right away. Feel better soon. Dr. Derik will see to that, with his assistant Jack of course. Much love to you guys. ❤

  • @arunamaria6703
    @arunamaria6703 3 роки тому +1

    I can understand how you both feel. I went in for surgery last year with Stage 4 endometriosis. It is a challenging time but you will get better and stronger in no time 😊. IUD definitely helps slow down the progression of this chronic condition. My surgeon also did mention that breastfeeding a child for a long time can help slow disease progression. The analogy she used was estrogen is like lawn fertilizer and progesterone is like a lawn mower. While pregnant/breast feeding you are swimming in Progesterone and that helps control the endometrial tissue. It is sad that this issue is not as widely discussed as it should be. I suffered for 20 years with this issue and was taken seriously only in 2019. You will be fine. Stay strong.

  • @debrabrown2802
    @debrabrown2802 3 роки тому +14

    Raising you up in prayer for a quick healing and continued strength for Derik as he helps you and Jack! You are one of the sweetest families!! Love your wholesome ways of life. God bless you!!

  • @wandaw5083
    @wandaw5083 3 роки тому +2

    Feel better Sara. Jack and Derek will make feel better! Prayers for a quick and complete recovery. 🙏

  • @janicemurphy8175
    @janicemurphy8175 3 роки тому +25

    Sarah, I’m wishing you all the best in the this journey of healing, and I hope that Jack will get his siblings! Derik, great job daddy!❤️❤️

  • @kathleencarson2800
    @kathleencarson2800 3 роки тому +1

    I think it's awesome that you are sharing such intimate details to your online family (us viewers). Thank you for being so open and honest.
    I believe a burden shared is a burden lightened. You are not alone.

  • @Hakiii
    @Hakiii 3 роки тому +505

    Best wishes for Sarah and the whole fam❤️💪🏻

    • @carolinajackson9293
      @carolinajackson9293 3 роки тому +8

      @Ami From Texas it's about YOUR LIFE,SICKNES HERE!!! NOT HOW SHE LOOK 🥵🥶😵

    • @SarahAndDerik
      @SarahAndDerik  3 роки тому +38

      Thank you!

    • @carolinajackson9293
      @carolinajackson9293 3 роки тому +8

      @@SarahAndDerik BEST WISHES TO HOLE YOUR FAMILY AND THANK U FOR YOU LET ME ( US) BE WITH U IN YOUR LIFE❤

    • @carolinajackson9293
      @carolinajackson9293 3 роки тому +6

      @@SarahAndDerik HOW DID IT GO WITH ALL YOUR PHOTOS WHICH WAS GONE, WHEN YOU WERE ON VACCITION?? THAT WAS SO SAD FOR YOU! I CRIED FOR YOU THEN...🤤❤❤ BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT ARE ,YOU ARE ALIVE AND KICKING!!

    • @Adhivava12
      @Adhivava12 3 роки тому +2

      @@SarahAndDerik hiiiii

  • @shannonl.jewell386
    @shannonl.jewell386 3 роки тому +1

    I was 40 when I got diagnosed with endometriosis. I had a d and c done to remove my paragard iud. Also I had a cyst removed on my right ovary. I know the pain you are going through. Sending prayers hugs and love. May God Bless You all.

  • @Bianchi8000
    @Bianchi8000 3 роки тому +13

    Happy thoughts for you all. Sarah, you will be fine. You're a healthy young woman and you've got this.

  • @sammypearch4005
    @sammypearch4005 2 роки тому +4

    I love and appreciate that your husband is learning and concerned about you’re reproductive health. Mines like this too and tells other people about Endometriosis.

  • @pamshearer120
    @pamshearer120 3 роки тому +15

    Good Evening , Beetson Family ❤
    Get Will soon Sarah , Thank you so very much for sharing this this episode with everybody 🕊
    God bless and Protect all of you , Stay Safe !
    🙏 11 / 13 / 2021 🙏

  • @aprilpinkard9929
    @aprilpinkard9929 3 роки тому +3

    Yay Derik for taking great care of Sarah and Jack!👏🏻 May Sarah’s recovery be swift and perfect in every way.🙏🏻 My best friend did have an ovary removed (while pregnant with her first daughter, who’s grown and married now) and still had another beautiful daughter before having her tube (she only had the right tube) tied. Thanks for sharing your journey with us.🙂

  • @cristalhenson95
    @cristalhenson95 3 роки тому +7

    Oh I know what you are going through. After I had my 2nd son in 2006 I developed a cist on my left ovarie. In February of 2007 I had my period the entire month so my OB/GYN said it would be best to have a hysterectomy because we knew we didn't want anymore children. I cried when I couldn't pick up my boys who were 3 and 1 at the time. I understand how she feels when it comes to Jack. Praying for a Speedy Recovery 🙏

  • @Mea_DS
    @Mea_DS 3 роки тому +6

    Praying for a speedy and full recovery Sarah!! Blessings to you. Derik, and Jack!

  • @Emzzz78
    @Emzzz78 3 роки тому +6

    I’m glad they found it sooner rather than later. I’ve had it since I was a teenager and it only got worse from my first c-section, but didn’t know until I was 39. I’m 43 now and it’s under control, for the most part. No more babies for me though 😂. On the brighter side, my husband only had to look at me for me to get pregnant a few more times lol. They way medicine is these days, I wouldn’t worry about fertility. Just try to relax and think positive. Another bonus, no more of that awful, debilitating pain every month. Praying for you guys🤗

  • @michelefritze3988
    @michelefritze3988 3 роки тому +1

    I had endometriosis. I have so much sympathy for what youre going through. Its really painful and yes, pregnancy is the answer. Prayers up and love your show. 🙏🕊💞

  • @hollysmyth6363
    @hollysmyth6363 3 роки тому +6

    My prayers for you Sarah and your recovery. Tears to my eyes as you went thru all of this. Get well and God bless you Sarah and Derek and Jack. Keep your chin up and that beautiful smile on your face. 💞

  • @melisa8256
    @melisa8256 3 роки тому +1

    As a fellow sufferer of endometriosis I can empathize with Sarah so much. I hope you’re continuing to recover well, from what I’ve seen I believe you’ll be in capable loving care. Feel better ❤️‍🩹 Sarah & soon Jack will be in your arms.

  • @LaceyNatasha41
    @LaceyNatasha41 3 роки тому +6

    I'm so happy Sarah is okay, ive been praying for her, and will proceed to do so, happy healing sarah!! Derek your a very awesome husband and daddy for sure jeep up the amazing work!

  • @kindellcarter
    @kindellcarter 3 роки тому +1

    I was diagnosed with Endometriosis 5 years ago. I haven’t been blessed with a pregnancy yet, but I’m so glad y’all got one baby and pray you get another. Xoxo

  • @wjfauber
    @wjfauber 3 роки тому +34

    Prayers for continued healing and comfort. Blessings sweet Beeston fam.

  • @kimpeasester
    @kimpeasester 3 роки тому +1

    It ABSOLUTELY amazes me how mature you guys are. Its wonderful witnessing the unconditional love for each other. Things will be fine for both of you in the months to come.

  • @donnaw.6424
    @donnaw.6424 3 роки тому +8

    Prayers for a speedy recovery Sarah, hopefully being on meds for a few months your body will be nicely prepared for baby #2. I know y'all were planning on baby #2 soon after surgery, but remember the Bible says that God's ways are higher than our ways; also the mind of man plans his way but the Lord directs his steps... Open your Bibles and be reminded of the hope God gives His children. Derrick you are a wonderful caregiver, and Jack brings the comic relief. You are a precious family, thank you for sharing your lives with us.

  • @christinaquinlan9467
    @christinaquinlan9467 3 роки тому +1

    Prayers for a speedy recovery Sarah! As far as needing to wait a few months longer before trying for special baby #2, remember that our timing is not always what God’s timing and plans are. His timing is always perfect. Many blessings to all of you. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @melissacallan3991
    @melissacallan3991 3 роки тому +4

    All of you are a beautiful family with wonderful years ago. Best recovery to Sarah. Dr. Derik is devoted to both of you.

  • @whitalli
    @whitalli 3 роки тому +1

    I feel for you. I suffered for so long with cysts and endometriosis. I tried countless birth controls, multiple surgeries, and was told in high school that I wouldn't be able to have children. I was surprised when I found out that I was pregnant with my miracle baby and had my son when I was 22. Two years later I had to have a hysterectomy. I was one of the unfortunate one that my endometriosis destroyed everything. I could never get it to slow down. Thank goodness they know so much more now about the disease. All I can say is keep up with all your appointments and stay active. The more you sit still the higher the pain level can be. Again I feel for you and I am send get well soon wish

  • @TWBlack
    @TWBlack 3 роки тому +40

    Yeah they pump air into you to get everything out of the way of everything else and that air is what's causing the burping. My Mom had endometriosis (they thought I had it but didn't) which can get really bad, so VERY happy they were able to take care of it for her. Many advances in medicine to help these days. And yes birth control helps a lot!! Hopefully you don't have to be on it long and can get pregnant right away!! Good luck on everything. 🙏❤️🙏

  • @marshalutz2561
    @marshalutz2561 3 роки тому +1

    Just now seeing your video of your struggles with infertility or endometriosis is a hard reminder of what my aunt went through trying to conceive her first and only child Matthew he had came as a surprise and what a lucky kid he is and you guys are so beyond blessed and I'm sure after this procedure you will be blessed with some more beautiful beautiful babies you are a wonderful pair you're a wonderful Trio of a family I am sure that God will give you all that he has in store for you and your life I pray that your road gets easier as the days go along and don't let anything stand in your way let your conviction stand firm and that you will be successful with having a sibling for baby Jack who by the way is so adorable I'm new to your channel but have seen some of your shorts and you guys are amazing may God bless you always

  • @michellec9871
    @michellec9871 3 роки тому +8

    Derik would make a great pro physician. His patients would be worried and he’d say something like “… it’s a freak show in there…” made me giggle as I had worried face 😟 as he was explaining everything. Then, the worried expression went away as he continued to explain away the event.
    Sarah, believe it or not, Jack, like all other babies… have this innocent KNOWing. Babies are more intelligent than adults realize. He can’t express in words right now but, watch how careful he will be around you until you fully recover.
    Jack also have great parents with great parenting knowledge and that alone speaks for itself.
    The more rest you get, the quicker you will heal and the sooner you’ll be back to swinging Jack from side to side, chasing him and lifting him up in the air to swoop in for his wonderful hugs and kisses. For now, accept those side kisses, the kisses from Jack where Dr. Derik holds Jack in the air from behind you when you’re sitting on a chair or couch, and you receive those warm sugar smacks and neck hugs from Jack ❤️❤️❤️
    I’ve been in your shoes too many times to count and around your age too. Only you have a better support system than I had. No complaints, just letting you know, it appears you have a wonderful man that truly loves you.
    Continue the love you have for each other and get the proper rest you need in order to heal without complications.
    That hunk of a King that you married, protect and care for his Queen and Prince….he has it all under control.
    I say *appears because I don’t know your entire life. 🙂 We all have ups n downs…. It’s called reality. And no one escapes or is exempt from it. Anyways…
    S/N Derik is gorgeous and so are you just know, I’m not after him… he’s old enough to be my son! Eeeesh, not knocking it if that’s how some like it… it’s just not for me😆

  • @bethp5780
    @bethp5780 3 роки тому +6

    Oh my goodness Sarah! I went through the exact same thing! I had surgery and they found endometriosis. Also the ovarian cysts....ugh. I'll be praying for you! Love watching your beautiful family❤️

  • @Gumbier_Than
    @Gumbier_Than 3 роки тому +6

    I for one am glad her pain got taken seriously and is in recovery now. 🙏🏾

  • @tracybeehner5305
    @tracybeehner5305 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so happy that surgery went well. I have endometriosis also, you explained the pain perfectly. I had surgery at 15 and was on medication for a few years. At 25 I gave birth to my first son and at 27 had my second. Praying for you to heal quickly.🦋

  • @sharithompson1672
    @sharithompson1672 3 роки тому +7

    I’m so glad they discovered, and got rid of, the endometriosis. That stuff is indescribably PAINFUL! It will be like heaven not experiencing that every month. Cysts can be really painful too, but when you were describing your pain it sounded just like endometriosis pain. It would literally, physically, bring me to my knees sometimes (which got as embarrassing at times as it was painful). It can sometimes even get worse during pregnancy because of the stretching of the displaced tissue, so even if you may need to wait a couple of months to get pregnant again, just think of how much easier the pregnancy may be! Sending love your way💕

  • @conniemartin284
    @conniemartin284 3 роки тому

    Hallelujah Sara 🙌🏻
    I also had endometriosis… when I got pregnant all my systems went away… until after our third baby…
    It’s Extremely Painful! Prayers for you… and your family!
    Get Pregnant!! Trust God 🙏🥰

  • @kenmajikina1
    @kenmajikina1 3 роки тому +10

    Praise Jesus, I'm so happy Sarah got through this and Derik is there to take care of her and Jack! It was so sweet that your brother and family came by to see Sarah. Jack looks so cute playing around Mommy.
    Sarah, please rest and take it easy. I'll be praying for your quick recovery. Derik, you take care of yourself too! Make sure you eat and get enough rest also. I love you all. ALOHA from Makiki!!!
    KennyE.

  • @JennaLeigh
    @JennaLeigh 3 роки тому +1

    Finding the endometriosis is a blessing. It's treatable. You're surrounded by so much love, both in real life, and here online. We love you guys and are praying for you. Seeing how involved and concerned Derik is makes my heart happy. You guys are bonded by God and love ordained by Him- no weapon(or endometriosis) formed against you will stand! ✝ 💖 Praying for you guys and sending you so much love.

  • @natalietippin2155
    @natalietippin2155 3 роки тому +21

    God's timing is perfect. He never gives you more than you can handle. His strength is made perfect in your weakness.
    Instead of focusing on the things you're missing out, meditate on what God is protecting you from.
    He is so so good.
    Praying for peace, patience and comfort for you all 🙏❤️

  • @ll-kt4wj
    @ll-kt4wj 3 роки тому

    What a supportive King ,being there for his Queen and demonstration of true partnership, educate others on complexity &mystery of female body same time.🙏🏼💗

  • @lucp4683
    @lucp4683 3 роки тому +46

    “It was a freak show in there.” I laughed a lot. I used to have this disease, endometriosis. The pain is really bad.
    I’m sure you’re going to be fine, Sarah.

    • @perfectlyimperfect7373
      @perfectlyimperfect7373 3 роки тому

      What do you mean “used to have the disease”? I’m sorry, but I’m confused by your wording, as there is no cure for endometriosis. I’ve had it for 25+ years.

    • @madhuvanthigiridharan3894
      @madhuvanthigiridharan3894 3 роки тому

      Is there a cure for endometriosis?

    • @dace8828
      @dace8828 3 роки тому +1

      @@madhuvanthigiridharan3894 i had a successful surgery and treatment 2.5 years ago and now i can feel it coming back. Knowing all the symptoms from the previus time i know ecactly what this is

    • @mag796
      @mag796 3 роки тому +2

      @@perfectlyimperfect7373 Yeah, I have also been diagnosed with it few years back, and although it’s been completely under control ever since due to contraception, I was also made aware that there is no permanent cure for it. It requires hormonal regulation as long as woman menstruates.

    • @madhuvanthigiridharan3894
      @madhuvanthigiridharan3894 3 роки тому

      @@dace8828 i am sorry to hear that. Take good care of you.

  • @theweirdmom
    @theweirdmom 3 роки тому +1

    Oh girl. I feel for ya. I had endometriosis, in fact, I lost an ovary and a fallopian tube due to the severity of it. I had 2 kids several years after that. And it came back. But you're gonna get through this. Now that they know, they know and they'll monitor you. And there have been advancements, I mean look at you! They were able to save those ovaries of yours. Have faith and keep on keepin on. You got this. 🤜🤛
    🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺🌸🌺

  • @retired5218
    @retired5218 3 роки тому +16

    I had endometriosis with pain. Had a cyst on my left ovary and had to have part of my left ovary removed as well as the cyst and the endometriosis cleaned out. The best thing to do to keep it from recurring was to get pregnant, but in the same breath it was going to be hard to get pregnant. I was put on birth control to keep my hormones at a certain level but I didn't get pregnant until about 10 years later. But I got pregnant in 2 months after I went off birth control, and had a healthy boy.

    • @Gumbier_Than
      @Gumbier_Than 3 роки тому +1

      Nice! Love being a boy mom, hope you do!💪🏾

    • @swazi4769
      @swazi4769 3 роки тому

      Still waiting for my miracle baby after the cyst issue.

  • @ajhwood1961
    @ajhwood1961 2 роки тому

    I had 5 laparoscopies in 2 years in my 30’s for ovarian cysts and endometriosis so I completely understand! I had good years between 32 and 43 and was so grateful. I was able to save my ovaries and uterus until I was 43 years old when I finally had to have everything removed. I didn’t get married until I was almost 40 so I never had any kids. I’m sure that the past 20 years have seen a lot of improvements in treatments and you will do just fine!

  • @heidiperez1387
    @heidiperez1387 3 роки тому +20

    Sending prayers for a speedy recovery!🙏🌷 Sarah is lucky to have you Derick!❤😊

  • @ployplengvicha1052
    @ployplengvicha1052 3 роки тому +1

    I had the exact same thing had endo 5 years ago and they found a cyst on my ovaries, it was still small so was able to be removed, I’ve had 2 miscarriages and am now pregnant going onto week 13 it’s great when you have a great medical team looking after you ! ❤️❤️🥰 sending best wishes xx

  • @joadamiller4191
    @joadamiller4191 3 роки тому +16

    So glad surgery went well even though there were some surprises. It’s really good that they could take care of all that in the same surgery. Now, prayers for complete healing and for your future plans. Derik, you rock at taking care of Sarah and Jack! Good job! 👏🏻👍🏻👊🏻🙏🏻

  • @karencloutier5102
    @karencloutier5102 3 роки тому

    Sarah I totally understand what you are going through. I m in my early 70,s and my whole life I have dealt with what your dealing with. Really take good care of yourself and rest alot, eat good food for nourishment , and I wish you good health for your near future, and peace be with you and your man and sweet little boy!