Husband tries to get wife to lose weight she gained by drinking so much coke [Part1] | K-DOC
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They're doing their daughter a disservice by letting her do whatever with no accountability. The world will not care that her parents spoiled and let her run rampant. Until they discipline her, she miraculously mellows out, our she meets her match, she will continue to act the way she does. Of course she is little, but that's when they learn boundaries.
Exactly.. 주세요? Like come on man.
Agree
...and her parents probably don't know this, but drinking sugary soda can contribute to a child's lack of concentration and bouncing off the walls/ADHD-like behavior, and it's likely this girl is drinking coke. Hopefully they'll get educated on this soon.
don't over think, there are worse kids and I was even worse even having good parenting but I am not the same. kids are kids, if she won't do these things now then will she do. also it's not about whether it's right or wrong. the only problem here is the mother is overweight but still that is only health related. THEY ARE NOT DOING THEIR DAUGHTER DISSERVICE!!!!!!
Maybe they are uncomfortable disciplining her in front of other people.. I know that I feel that way, when I'm out with my nieces and nephew. It's not that I hit them, when no one is looking, or anything, but I still can't discipline them properly with people around. And kids can sense when you're restraining yourself and try to push boundaries.
I think the perfect way for couples to get back in shape is just going on walks with each other! You’re in it together and it’s not too strenuous but you’re actively burning fat. Perhaps less nagging and more encouragement as the wife said could go a long way too. Hopefully they’re both able to build good healthy habits so that they can live a long time and see their child mature, get married, etc. (which btw if i was half as energetic as the kid when younger i wouldve been disciplined…immediately. like climbing onto things or coloring the walls)
10000000000% trueeeeeeeeee❤️
Walks will help a little but not a lot. I tried walking more to lose weight and had no change but I started working out and it helped a lot more.
Losing weight ain’t easy…requires a change in eating habits….one can spend 24 hrs strenuous exercise a day but with no change in eating behavior is totally useless…to try to have an unreasonable goal wt is attainable but will surely gain it back in no time and worst, times 2 or double the wt…. Best is to change eating habits, lose wt slowly thus one can achieve its goal n be healthy
This sounds nice, but going on walks is not going to burn fat, especially a large amount. That being said, neither is nagging or in encouragement! Its all up to the individual to want to do it... and then going out and actually doing the dieting and exercising. Also, not a good idea to have your significant other be your coach. Only causes resentment.
and they can bring the kid with them, she has a lot of energy and walking can be very tiring for little children. of course, they need to decrease their calorie intake because that's the only way to lose weight, nonetheless, going for a walk is helpful and everyone should try to do it for at least a hour every day.
Mexico as a whole is the largest consumer of Coca-Cola products in the world, there's plenty of places where it's easier to get a coke than clean drinking water.
Wow
I watched a documentary about that and it quite depressing.
Yes i saw a vid about that too… i feel bad for them, especially the children growing up and have coke addiction, it’s not their fault tho…
There's a racist aspect to it.
Those who are of more native or African descent have corner stores filled with soda whereas the areas where people are more white aren't
The problem mexico and the rest of the southern Americas is the racism .
I also watched a documentary about it, they seem to be drinking it more than water…
She can replace cola with a glass of ice tea (just tea+ice no sugar added), that's how I overcome my addiction to sugary drinks and I managed to lose weight slowly just by reducing sugar intake without even exercising
this is actually a really good idea!
I should try this. Was it sweetened iced tea ?
@@soydoratheadorer7348 so I'm not who u asked but I will tell u what I did to wean myself off soda.
1) I was drinking 3-4 cans a day. I started by switching out 2 of the sodas with Snapple ice tea in peach flavor (that's the only one I drink). I only had soda at lunch time & afternoon. Also I made sure no soda at home.
2) then after 2 weeks I switched to having a cup of tea in the morning with honey instead of sugar, soda with lunch, 1 snapple for dinner. In between I made sure to drink 8 oz of either ice cold ocean spray cranberry&peach juice diluted 50/50 with water or plain water (I downloaded an app to remind me to drink 8oz every 1-2hrz).
3) after 4 weeks I started drinking 2 real teas in the morning, snapple for lunch, diluted juice and water thru the day.
4) by fifth week no soda, no snapple. Diluted juice with meals, ice cold lemon water rest of day.
5) now I rarely have soda. I drink lots of tea thru the day or water. I still drink diluted juice but not daily. Usually around pms when I'm craving something sweet I'll buy one.
I have soda in my house that came with meal that ended up expired because I no longer crave soda & drink it so rarely. I think it's important to make the change slowly & steadily. Also don't let others negativity affect u; I had ppl saying g things like that's not going to work or it's pointless & u can't keep that up. Find what works for u & don't stress if u slip up, just restart again.
I just switched to sparkling water, tasted horrible at first but i forced it on myself and i went months without touching coke. I still drink it once in a while, but it could be once or twice a month.
Ice tea has tons of sugar too or do you mean self-made like cold tea with peach flavor and ice cubes?
A lot of times a weight gain is a sign of depression. I love coke whenever I can get my hands on it but I probably drink it once or twice a year. She’s craving it and does not look happy. There may be other issues going on and she might need to start there.
The child is tiring 😅
exactly, plus she's in a new country away from family & friends :/
OR LAZYNESS
Trueee. You can clearly see that she’s not happy
@@dbtv4691 and whom is,,married to a foreigner,specially so from ASIA?
whom would be? wait until she start working to "complete" her misery and unhappiness,from all the negative energies at work.with all the toxicity there
Typical, husband criticising his wife and treating her like shit when he himself looks awful.
Mom is stressed which can contribute to weight gain. Eliminating sugar products for her Daughter will calm her down significantly. Also take Daughter on long walks and long playtime outside which will tire her out and create a calmer child. Stress eating is a very hard habit to break. She definitely has to figure out tasty alternatives to drink. Get a juicer.
Ketogenic diet will bring her back to her glory days. It will help kick the habit of all Carbonated drinks.
@@MNcoquicoqui I quit cold turkey and I regained a significant amount of my energy back and slimmed down.
@@MNcoquicoqui not necessarily. a balanced diet is the best. she just needs to reduce carbonated drinks and exercise.
@@_ryu__jin_ Keto will help her cut Coca-Cola for good. The diet is designed to eliminate all sugars and all carbs. I've lost over 80 pounds on Keto. It 💯 will benefit her. Been there.
Keto isn't for everyone though
I think their daughter would benefit greatly from having some sort of physical activity to go to, idk sports, just to work off all that energy. I don't think we can chalk it down to just the parents not disciplining, or her getting too much sugar, she looks like she genuinely has a lot of energy and play in her and putting that to better use through a hobby outside the house would give her a focus and the parents some down time.
the kid lacks discipline tho ruining appliances, not listening to her parents and downright loud. even smiling when saying no, they should correct that before it gets worse.
my niece who has…tremendous energy , she would climb to the counter, run around the house the WHOLE DAY. as asian second generation, we dont want to hit her for her to listen, but we looked for alternative ways. We let her watch whole bunch of sports and pick 2 sports/activities that she loves. she chose ballet and karate lol she loves it , like a lot. she doesnt act like a wild child at home anymore because she spent all her energy at these 2 activities lol
More people need to walk their kids
I can’t bear watching their spoiled child create such chaos and disruption… Be a responsible parent first, please.
She's a child let her have fun. You can't always stay being a child and obviously they gonna talk to her but just because her parents are letting her be a kid and behaving like most children doesn't mean she is spoiled. Children at that young age are seen as more energetic so as long as they are watching over her and not hurting herself then that's fine. So don't call her spoiled just because she is behaving like most kids behave 🙄
She’s a toddler. Until she’s in elementary school, she isn’t gonna get physically disciplined.
Same. So ugly ew
@@aallieen9119 no one said anything about physical discipline. You should let a child have fun and learn about the world, but it's also as important for them to learn about the consequences of their actions and to take responsibility. You knocked something over? That's okay. But you should pick it up, not someone else.
Based on how energetic she is, may i recommend some form of gymnastics programme.
it think it was disrespectful for him to touch her belly like that and embarrass her on live tv as well as not disciplining their child to not destroy their house
He is her husband. He have every right to do that. She is just obese and stubborn that does not listen to her husband advice.
@@cnachopchopnewsagency you're a joke. There's being a husband but you don't embarrass your loved one in front of national TV about her insecurities. And I'm a man myself. Your comment is disgusting
@@cnachopchopnewsagency she isn't stubborn. I'm sure she has reasons as to why she drinks it so much. Maybe she just likes drinking it. She isn't stupid. She knows that it's bad for her. Maybe she's tired of hearing from everybody that she should stop drinking coke, and it's actually making her feel worse. I'm not condoning her life choices, but everyone has different lives, and it's not always as easy as "ok ill stop drinking it now" or "ok I'm going to stop this now".
@@forgotmyusername2 You are literally condoning her. Next, she is stupid the moment you said "she knows that it's bad for her". Your line of reasoning is too shallow that I dunno if you're just fooling around. Really can't take your comment seriously by reading them 😂
Their child just reminded me why I don't want any. I cannot stand children especially disruptive ones. Yes it's the parents responsibility and no I have no maternal instincts.
Hating kids ain't cute boo
@@radfem28 what makes you think they were trying to seem cute?
Alot of this has to do with whether you give your child coke. The child may grow out of it when they go to college and drink a different beverage like green tea.
excellent for you! 👏🏼 at least you acknowledge that you can’t be the mother type because many women still go on to have a child/ children when they don’t have maternal instincts.
@@radfem28 I wasn't being cute. I don't hate children in that sense I just would never have any and I go out of my way to avoid being near them. You require grace, patience, empathy and a level of kindness that I just don't have. Maternal instincts are not in everyone, why would I raise a child to damage them? I'd rather regret having none than ever having any and raising them poorly.
Disciple is something she needs to develop, and please place boundaries on the little lady. She's adorable, but that's a bit much. Dad must be stressed
I hope she doesn't develope any other health issues as a result of drinking soo much coke. It's so bad for you. 🥺
I think it is already too late. Overweight more than the requited BMI is a sign of underlying health disease. Don't get me started on diabetes since she drinks coke all the time.
It’s actually a cultural thing, there’s some parts of Mexico that drinks coke as a social norm. Even preforms rituals with coca cola. Just look up “Mexico’s Coca Cola addiction”.
she'll lose a leg if she get diabetes drinking too much soda
THE SONG DROP AT 3:18 LMAOOO
i wheezed 😭
Im thankful to live in a house with 5 acres of land so my kids can run freely. I cant imagine being stuck in a tiny apartment with energetic children.
That is very sweet of the husband..some men will just look on as their partner self destructs but this guy is actuallyy trying to make his wife healthy..the saddest is when a partner completely gives up on you and just lets you sink deeper
PLEASE TEACH THAT CHILD SOME MANNERS.....IT'S NOT TOO EARLY.
My thoughts exactly!
Husband is always nagging wife to get in shape but he is not much of a help. Help her in the house chores and taking care of the kid and let her go out to exercise or send her to gym period. My husband told me to exercise because I'm 60 kilos and over weight but he's not helping me at all. He always go out with friends and drink. 3 years here in korean he insisted me to do anything not even work. He doesn't know what I want and I just let him do everything he wants till he realizes what is wrong with our relationship. I'm an adventurous person if I go with my passion maybe he will give up.. I like hiking, trekking, biking, sports and nature exploring. Unlike him he always go party and can't live in the province he like crowded places and alot of friends unlike me.
That child writing on anything she lays her eyes on plus the screaming and climbing furniture reminds me of my nieces 😭
They grow out of it eventually ....i hope.If i were in her shoes,i too would fill my void with coke.
2.5L of coke/day?!!!!!! Thats asking for diabetes, cavities, osteoporosis, etc..
The husband needs to stop nagging, the wife needs to decrease her cola intake, and they both need to teach there kid what "no" means. If the little girl ever gets hurt, it'll be too late.
Um, why is the grandmother feeding the child. She is well old enough to eat by herself.
How she went to the fridge right away and drank soda after the "workout "i just can't 🤣
Might sound weird but mother-in-law has very beautiful teeth. I thought she must be in bad health because of her body posture but damn those teeth look great
Maybe fake
You don't say that to your wife. She does everything for you. Carry. Clean cook. Everything
She acts like a kid, you have to be mature enough to see that's not good for your health or your family, and that kid, I'm not a mom or anything but I couldn't let my daughter draw in the house like that, I understand that's she is a kid but you have books and stuff to draw, spoiled kids starts with small things and the world won't care that you kids was spoiled.
As soon as I saw the title I knew she was going to be Mexican. Yes Mexico loves coca cola, many people say it tastes sweeter than American coca cola, but it is also easier and cheaper to get soda than clean water in some rural places. You can literally refill the bottles with soda much like people in American refill water jugs. Why, well because the tap water is in some occasions not safe to drink and bottled water is more expensive in most cases then a bottle of Coke sadly. Remember Mexico is not a developed nation unlike South Korea or the USA.
With that being said she doesn't strike me as coming from a rural area so maybe she just got addicted to the sugar!
Oh my, you too!
I saw anoth2r documentary title about Coke consumption in Mexico, then saw this title, saw the girl's eyes, and was like, dang, I hope she isnt Mexican 😭
@@dorcaso1619 I saw that documentary, Truly eye opening and sad and maddening because in order to make coke you have to purify water first. Which makes water cheaper to produce than coke, yet bottled water is more expensive :??
@@SY-bn3iz
All just sickening. Just sad
I'm mexican and I don't want to excuse her but drinking soda while we eat is very ingrained in our culture. It is a way to show affection and spend time with our family. Unfortunately, it is a terrible habit that harms us at catastrophic levels, and yes, many communities don't have access to drinking water, but in large cities this is not the case and surely in her case it isn't as well. It is simply a very strong habit that is difficult to leave behind because it becomes an addiction. And sorry, I see many Americans in the comments complaining when their country is the same or worse.
¿Tomar Coca para mostrar afecto y tiempo con la familia? Eso solo pasa en la publicidad de Coca cola.
Excuse me but this could lead to a misconception of water supply in Mexico, I am Mexican and I can say it is absolutely not the same in all the country, some places are easy to get water or soft water but specifically in Tamaulipas (the place where she is from) is not the best place to get water or high quality food or water so please do not misunderstand what they say!!!
Wow^^ I can easily relate with their story. Because I once a coke lover here in South Korea. My wife is korean. She told me always that drinking much cola is not good to our health. by the help of her, I eventually stop drinking any unhealthy fluids/drinks/bevarages.ㅋㅋㅋㅋ.
.I can't wait to see the next episodes🥰🥰🥰👏🏻👏🏻🥰👏🏻
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Honestly I think she is depressed. Being a SAHM with very little support from other family is extremely hard. It is a 24/7 job with no breaks and you're constantly touched out emotionally and mentally. I sympathize with her.
Also the coke might be a way to get her dopamine. I hope she can replace that dopamine need with exercise because if she continues this way she won’t get to see her child grow up
Besides soda being cheap and tap water being non-drinkable, it’s also part of the culture.
When I go back home, grandparents and aunts don’t ask me « do you want a glass of water? ». Nah, they don’t even ask, they already pour soda in a glass and offer me. Like, imagine being tired and thirsty after travelling and they offer you a super sugary drink that makes you even thirstier lol.
Also, it’s the ignorance of not knowing what soda contains and why it’s so bad. Like, even toddlers ask for soda and children drink them more than natural fruit juices, it’s horrible.
In Latin America it’s all about the sugar. Almost all of our drinks have a lot of sugar. At this point they should be considered desserts. Nah but even if you explain to them, they don’t wanna listen, they stubborn af. « Oh bc you come from the US now you can tell us what to eat and how to do things? » or sm shit like that. Many people know at this point that soda is bad, but they don’t want to acknowledge it.
I heard about this issue in a certain village in Mexico (people drinking Coke instead of water because tap water is not safe to drink), but is bottled water really more expensive than Coke? I hope someone from Mexico or who knows about the issue can explain it to me, because its seems like a very big problem for those who live in those areas
No but Mexican Coca Cola is very delicious!!! Better than what they sell in Korea and US because it’s made with real sugar!!! I will have one a year as a treat lol!!!
yeah me too! i saw that doc!
So as a Mexican let me explain. We do not have access to clean water, like in the US, we have to buy it, we usually have to buy large jugs of water usually 20L to put in a water dispenser, this costs around $60 pesos per jug or $3 US dollars. Now you might think, that's not expensive what is the big deal, but our minimum wage is around $172.87 pesos or $8 dollars a day ( overtime is not paid), not by the hour, and we get paid bi-weekly. Also, we do not have tax returns as in the US. Considering that normally we have to buy 3-4 jugs every two weeks ($240 pesos), for drinking and washing vegetables, with a biweekly check of $2,074.44 pesos before tax ($2,00 after-tax, $4,148.88 a month), and living expenses a month (not so great living conditions)are around $3,500 pesos or $169 dollars, this is quite hard. If with this amount of income and monthly living costs, someone wants to buy 3-4 jugs that they would need, this would only leave $168.88 pesos left or $8.15 dollars. IF the household has children that go to school this would be impossible to do, because even in public schools there is a monthly fee of $250 pesos. A 2L bottle of coke is $10 pesos or around $0.48 dollars, and in neighborhoods, there are small stores where you can take your empty 2L coke bottle to get a new one for only $0.50 pesos, so in reality buying around 2 of the 2L coke bottles is more economic.
@@danielaguedeacostas9888 thank you for your reply and for taking your time to explain it to me!
@@danielaguedeacostas9888 the ironic thing is Coca Cola also makes bottled water. I don't know if there's one in the Mexico, also if the company sells in the same price level as coke.
So as a Mexican let me explain. We do not have access to clean water, like in the US, we have to buy it, we usually have to buy large jugs of water usually 20L to put in a water dispenser, this costs around $60 pesos per jug or $3 US dollars. Now you might think, that's not expensive what is the big deal, but our minimum wage is around $172.87 pesos or $8 dollars a day ( overtime is not paid), not by the hour, and we get paid bi-weekly. Also, we do not have tax returns as in the US. Considering that normally we have to buy 3-4 jugs every two weeks ($240 pesos), for drinking and washing vegetables, with a biweekly check of $2,074.44 pesos before tax ($2,00 after-tax, $4,148.88 a month), and living expenses a month (not so great living conditions)are around $3,500 pesos or $169 dollars, this is quite hard. If with this amount of income and monthly living costs, someone wants to buy 3-4 jugs that they would need, this would only leave $168.88 pesos left or $8.15 dollars. IF the household has children that go to school this would be impossible to do, because even in public schools there is a monthly fee of $250 pesos. A 2L bottle of coke is $10 pesos or around $0.48 dollars, and in neighborhoods, there are small stores where you can take your empty 2L coke bottle to get a new one for only $0.50 pesos, so in reality buying around 2 of the 2L coke bottles is more economic. So drinking a lot of coke becomes a habit.
I am also Mexican, but coke is more expensive than water or at least in the state where I am from, in a water purifier it costs 13 pesos to fill a jug of water and a coke costs almost 30 pesos for 2 liters without having to buy the bottle of course, if the water is expensive, 40 pesos but if you buy it with everything and the jug in a normal store, but if you refill it it is not that expensive in fact, I don't know what part of Mexico you are from But at least that's the way it is in the state where I'm from.
I am not saying it in a bad way, I am just giving my experience since it may be different in various parts of Mexico. 😊🙇
@@lilianalizbethadamejimenez536 I am from the state of Q.Roo, I do notice that in larger states it’s a lot better, but in smaller states like mine this is quite normal, especially the southern states. My dad is from Monterrey and my family mostly live in DF, and I remember as a kid being confused why it was so much affordable for them to drink water. It’s most likely because central to northern states of Mexico are a bit larger and have more funding from the government but southern it’s quite the same form my experience of traveling
@@danielaguedeacostas9888 growing up, I heard it was what the people from Southern Mexico do
@@danielaguedeacostas9888 If someone has funding from the government is the southern states LOL.
No, let's be honest there are ways to purify water, if you have a stable income, you can have access to water, if you have internet, you have access to water, don't try to show as if in Mexico everybody is so poor, that there is no water, c'mon now, it's very different when we talk about indigenous villages, if you live in a city, you have clean water..
En dónde una botella de 2L de coca cuesta 10 pesos? Y un garrafón de agua cuesta menos de 20 pesos, solo las marcas caras cuestan más de 50.
man... I watch video after video of Korean male spouses with such terribly low EQ being displayed on situations towards partners who are no longer "beautiful" due to depression or post-partum weight gain and I just realize: it's no wonder misogyny is a scourge there
If you think this Korean male is being too honest, you would find all Koreans very disconcerting. Korean culture is very, very confrontational. They don't let their concerns fester and get worse.
They didn't discipline their child like they should, she'll not learn or respect anything.
This hits hard in my gut. 😭 my boyfriend is strongly addicted to coke cola too. It's aggravating trying to get him to stable his intake with water. I encourage him but he always drinks coke first thing in the morning, lunch and night. I can't remember when I last seen him drink water. Its sad really. 😞 he hates compromise and I told him recently I had more than enough. He want his pop and unhealthy habits that I can't change, I just wanted a healthy relationship and ended up with this damn dude. I can't remember when we last walked around the block together. He's a gamer and his crazy addiction to soda is just too much. Needless to mention, I do absolutely everything for him and I just had enough.
Leave him, I know it’s his choice but watching someone ruin themselves is very frustrating.
It's time to leave. Don't give him an ultimatum either. That's wasting your time. He is immature and isn't ready for a woman. Imagine marrying him. Or having his child. Ew! Gurl run!
Sis, dump him... You deserve way better, you're not his therapist, hospital or nurse. If he doesn't take care of his health and mental health, you can't fix that.
Unhealthy life style he's going to die very young. He has to want to better himself. It's time to move on and be with someone who doesn't have an unhealthy lifestyle. I don't know how people can drink soda... they're so sweet
So sad to hear!! Addiction even of coke (coca cola) are very hard to change. Has he tried carbonated water with syrup you buy, might contain less sugar. Also, tell him to see a doctor he might be depressed as wel. But most importantly take care of YOURSELF mentally and jump ship if needs be. It cant continue like that. Wish you much strenght.
Seeing kids act like this is not cute or funny. This just reminds me of work, because we the teachers have to deal with these kind of behaviors in Hagwons because some parents just let their kids do whatever they want at home. Behaviors like that need to get under control.
BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE MUST WALK TOGETHER DAILY. PUTTING SOMEONE DOWN AND KILLING SELF_ESTEEM. NOT HEALTHY. GIVING BIRTH WOMEN BODY CHANGED A LOT.
Exercise means nothing in the face of a bad diet. If she’s depressed and using coke to cope she’s needs help ASAP
It's not easy losing weight .
@@AlexClayland1232 There is a mental struggle that goes along with losing body mass. In theory, it is easy but it is mentally and emotionally stressful sometimes. be considerate and not so narrow-minded.
@@AlexClayland1232 it is easier said than done. I am overweight. I don't drink soft drinks. I dont't eat sugary food. But I gain weight because I have a slow metabolism. Same with sedentary lifestyle since I study all the time. No time to work out. You don't say to eat more rice with underweight people right?
Yep…I agree losing weight takes a lot of effort and support from the spouse. Nagging doesn’t help either.
@@AlexClayland1232 oh gosh...you really dont take into account that we are HUMAN, we naturally seek comfortable situations in which losing weight and eating less dont fall into. It requires effort, time and money. Stress eating, binge eating, under-eating, are examples of clinically acknowledged eating problems that maybe u havent experienced, but that doesn't mean you get to discredit peoples lives based on your narrowness and inability to think outside of theory. I'll say it again: in theory, yes losing weight is simple(caloric deficit and excercise). But there are countless factors which can make this 100x more difficult. E.g if you have a low income- may force you to eat fast food everyday and stress may cause overeating.
@@AlexClayland1232 yh...you're very uneducated.😂 I'm not gonna argue with you about something you can easily get research on. But stay safe lol
As an online English teacher l get to teach such disrespectful kids with no manners what so ever! It's frustrating to say the least.
I think the wife would be more motivated if the husband was nicer and supportive about it. He could cook healthy meals or compliment her on the efforts.. The nagging is so annoying
East Asian family members nag! A lot!
It's a deeply ingrained cultural trait, especially among the Chinese and Koreans. I'm sure her Korean co-workers or strangers would comment that she's fat or needs to lose weight. That's how they are. It's not good, but it's difficult to change an entire culture overnight. The husband is not really that bad in comparison.
Healthy meals aren't the issue. The principal reason for her weight gain is her heavy consumption of very sugary Coke. She is a Coke addict! Not only is all that sugar bad for your health, so is all that soda drink - it harms tooth/bone density and health.
"Healthy" meals will make no difference if she continues to drink so much high sugar Coke (or any other high sugar drink, but carbonated sodas are worse for health than high sugar non-soda drinks).
I'm sure it would help if the husband were more supportive and together they addressed the over-consumption of Coke. But don't forget that she has a sugar addiction, and it takes way more effort to overcome a physical and psychological addiction, than just some compliments on how she looks. It's a "doing" process and unless SHE wants to change, it's not going to happen.
He's really not that bad tho. He's not saying she's disgusting or a pig
She’s drinking soda because she’s probably stressed or depressed. I noticed when she became angry at her husband for not supporting her she drank soda.
So as a Mexican let me explain. We do not have access to clean water, like in the US, we have to buy it, we usually have to buy large jugs of water usually 20L to put in a water dispenser, this costs around $60 pesos per jug or $3 US dollars. Now you might think, that's not expensive what is the big deal, but our minimum wage is around $172.87 pesos or $8 dollars a day ( overtime is not paid), not by the hour, and we get paid bi-weekly. Also, we do not have tax returns as in the US. Considering that normally we have to buy 3-4 jugs every two weeks ($240 pesos), for drinking and washing vegetables, with a biweekly check of $2,074.44 pesos before tax ($2,00 after-tax, $4,148.88 a month), and living expenses a month (not so great living conditions)are around $3,500 pesos or $169 dollars, this is quite hard. If with this amount of income and monthly living costs, someone wants to buy 3-4 jugs that they would need, this would only leave $168.88 pesos left or $8.15 dollars. IF the household has children that go to school this would be impossible to do, because even in public schools there is a monthly fee of $250 pesos. A 2L bottle of coke is $10 pesos or around $0.48 dollars, and in neighborhoods, there are small stores where you can take your empty 2L coke bottle to get a new one for only $0.50 pesos, so in reality buying around 2 of the 2L coke bottles is more economic. So it becomes a habit to drink more coke more than water
@@danielaguedeacostas9888 Gosh that's crazy...in my home country, I basically have a well in my backyard, and even certain streams and small rivers you can drink without hesitation.
My brother after a few years of drinking only coke has diabetes, almost loosing his first foot. Coke is bad
Someone get that girl some cola zero and cheer on her as she works out at home please !!!
their story is so cute
This poor woman my heart goes out to her. I hope when she gets sick of his bossy ways she'll stand up for herself.
yeah especially in a foreign country that must be tough. Hopefully he changes after the show
Mexican men are no different from Korean men. I might not even face her that he bosses her around. But it’s posible that not only drinking Coca Cola all the time, is the reason why she can’t loose weight, she might be stress living in a different country/ different language culture.
East Asians are like that to their family members. And honestly he's not that bad in comparison. If he were, she'd never have gotten to that size. If it were my father, she'd never get a bottle of Coke in the house. He would have insisted on buying the food and drink himself, and not allowed her to buy any. She'd have to sneak outside the house and buy and drink Coke in a convenience store, where my father couldn't see.
She should try visiting China - strangers would point out to her she's fat. Or Vietnam - everyone is slim there, while many young people are getting fat in China due to easily available and affordable fast food and snacks, and lack of exercise.
I kind of feel bad for her. But she's on the road to some serious health issues - nor just potential diabetes from all that sugar consumption, but all that soda drink is bad for bone/tooth health. Being fat is less of an issue but if she continues to get fatter (and she's young now, but wait until menopause) she'll have various other health issues that can affect major organs (like heart, liver) etc.
@@SY-ok2dq Seek therapy
@@Thn91 What for?
I'm not the one with an addiction to sugar and bone-damaging soda drinks. I knew of some kids whose mother let them consume tons of soda and sugary stuff. They all had skinny bones and had bad teeth quite early. At the time I wasn't aware that the soda was probably most responsible for that, and not just the sugar.
The husband and too many other people focus only on the weight and the sugar, but soda drinks and especially Coke are highly acidic and damaging to bone health.
She needs to go to a park or bike rides everyday or go to an activity like karate or sports 😭 the child has so much energy from sugary drinks and being cooped up. 😂
Praise The Lord
I’m from Mexico and yet never in my life have bought myself a Coca Cola bottle I think it depends on your family upbringing, having said that I'm aware that the majority of mexican families consume coke as it was water which is very sad
Never? How is that possible. My family is not obsessed with coke. For example, we don’t really have any in the house. When we go out to though , that’s different
This. I am from Mexico too and never drank soda growing up. I think the lady must be from a poorer town.
My grandfather is also Mexican and loves coke, he said he can’t drink water anymore because he claims it make him lightheaded 😂🙄
When you gain weight sometimes the coke sensations feels like it helps with digestion or acid reflux.
Mexicans are the highest consumers for coke, that's all, most of the country drinks, more so then water, I would to if their water wasn't as pure, as the government has a deal with Coke to be able to use all the water, as much as they want for their business. Sad for the people of Mexico though,
So as a Mexican let me explain. We do not have access to clean water, like in the US, we have to buy it, we usually have to buy large jugs of water usually 20L to put in a water dispenser, this costs around $60 pesos per jug or $3 US dollars. Now you might think, that's not expensive what is the big deal, but our minimum wage is around $172.87 pesos or $8 dollars a day ( overtime is not paid), not by the hour, and we get paid bi-weekly. Also, we do not have tax returns as in the US. Considering that normally we have to buy 3-4 jugs every two weeks ($240 pesos), for drinking and washing vegetables, with a biweekly check of $2,074.44 pesos before tax ($2,00 after-tax, $4,148.88 a month), and living expenses a month (not so great living conditions)are around $3,500 pesos or $169 dollars, this is quite hard. If with this amount of income and monthly living costs, someone wants to buy 3-4 jugs that they would need, this would only leave $168.88 pesos left or $8.15 dollars. IF the household has children that go to school this would be impossible to do, because even in public schools there is a monthly fee of $250 pesos. A 2L bottle of coke is $10 pesos or around $0.48 dollars, and in neighborhoods, there are small stores where you can take your empty 2L coke bottle to get a new one for only $0.50 pesos, so in reality buying around 2 of the 2L coke bottles is more economic. So it just becomes a habit
Mom is clearly depressed and needs to get out of the home for a bit every day. It would help her depression, and her daughter could run and play.
The child is wild she need discipline. My kids will get pop of they do that
The baby girl is so pretty. She should be a little star ⭐ herself.
I lost more than 20 pounds after I quit drinking soda and eating junk food. It took more than a year to lose the weight but it never came back. That's all this lady has to do. Doesn't need to workout at all or change the rest of her diet. Eating pig feet and samgyapsal is perfectly ok. The only exercise needed is walking. Simple transition.
Lol, all of this isn't cute at all. No1, that child needs some discipline and order. The mum looks depressed as hell. She's not drinking coca just for "energy" lol. She should see a psychologist bcs I don't think she's happy with her life. And that husband should go to the gym first instead of "fat-shaming" her in front of tv.
exercise is not the problem. Proper nutrition is the challenge. Bottom line nutrition.
LMFAO the latina is strong in that little girl. Explains all the erratic, rebellious behaviour. Just wait until she becomes a teen. Korean Dad is going to lose his mind. God bless him haha.
Where can I find the full episode?
She speaks the language very well
Well guess what? She’s going to run herself ragged now that she turned down that job to do what…this 24 hours a day? Cook and clean? Both her husband and child (who gets no consequences) are manipulative. I no longer feel badly for her. I want see them in a year’s time. Her turn turning down that job was a terrible decision. I wouldn’t be surprised if she drank more and gained more weight.
These 2 were so ethnically ambiguous. I was like are they Filipino, then I was like is she middle eastern and he Pacific Islander and then I was like is he Pacific Islander and she Filipino?
I don’t think so, I could tell right away that she was Latin/Hispanic. So when she talked about Mexico it clicked instantly.
Lol they don't look like either.
hahaha at first i thought the same thing! she’s mexican and he’s korean ☺️
same lol at first i thought she was eastern european, specially when she has black hair
@@alexisrobinson9180 Latin/Hispanic isnt an ethnicity its a culture. Hence why the woman looks ambiguous. She looks Asian , meaning she has a lot of native blood in her.
I was just like her!!! I still must have coke in the morning but I cut down to what she is drinking to two cans a day. Not great but makes a big difference as the crash after drinking so much takes your energy. I also exercise everyday. I’m not beautiful as she is so if she just tried to cut back a little at a time until she is comfortable and has reduced her craving for it she will have so much more energy and she will look so amazing her husband will want her to drink more lol❤️
Good luck in cutting down on coke! Might be hard but you can do it, take care and stay healthy 🤗
Why is she prettier than you?
In Mexico it’s very common to drink coke with every meal. Breakfast, lunch, and dinner are all accompanied by a glass of coke 🙁 it’s a pretty big problem because obesity rates are skyrocketing due to the soda culture
I love when my son sits on my back after a day of work *life hack* its like a professional 💆♂️ massage
It's hard. In the past years I just drink poor water without anything. But my husband love coke and soda water etc. And because he don't have water in his house, I just drink. First it was hard, but than I really. Love it. And this is sad. It's not easy but I try😊
After watching hundreds of clip from korea, ive notice the korean people doesnt have the basic thing of thinking of saying things in a good way, they instead saying things in a harsh way towards their loved one, i really dont like that about the contry.
TRUE FACT:
Saying stuff in that kind of way is extremly rude and disrespecting but korean people it seems to be a normal thing, if you are over weight, your whole family and all other will say how fat you are and instead of telling people," you love them and wish them to be healthy and not die early, lets lose weight together!" , korean people are like " your fat,stop eating, you need to exerise more" lol
(ive lived in 3 different contries and all had different cultures, so this thing ive just seen from korea)
Yeah that's how Koreans are, very blunt about such things and family members nag and criticize children or spouses a lot. Chinese people are like that too (Japanese are not blunt but they are conformist and quite slim people, and fatness is shamed). They're very conformist cultures.
Not just family but strangers will point out that you're fat or should go on a diet etc.
The coke obsession is so real that it looked like they're having a zombie apocalypse 😳
I understand how she formed the habit of drinking coke but she's no longer live in Mexico and it's not even about weight gain anymore at this point. It's not the habit you want your kids to imitate.
It might just be a comfort drink for her, doing that she’s living in a different country/ different language / culture
Is the lady in black clothes is Yuri... Mother of Zen????
yeah i heard there is a country that drinks cokes everyday cuz its cheaper than water! its sad really D: the gov. should help them get clean water, i think it was mexico or smth.
So as a Mexican let me explain. We do not have access to clean water, like in the US, we have to buy it, we usually have to buy large jugs of water usually 20L to put in a water dispenser, this costs around $60 pesos per jug or $3 US dollars. Now you might think, that's not expensive what is the big deal, but our minimum wage is around $172.87 pesos or $8 dollars a day ( overtime is not paid), not by the hour, and we get paid bi-weekly. Also, we do not have tax returns as in the US. Considering that normally we have to buy 3-4 jugs every two weeks ($240 pesos), for drinking and washing vegetables, with a biweekly check of $2,074.44 pesos before tax ($2,00 after-tax, $4,148.88 a month), and living expenses a month (not so great living conditions)are around $3,500 pesos or $169 dollars, this is quite hard. If with this amount of income and monthly living costs, someone wants to buy 3-4 jugs that they would need, this would only leave $168.88 pesos left or $8.15 dollars. IF the household has children that go to school this would be impossible to do, because even in public schools there is a monthly fee of $250 pesos. A 2L bottle of coke is $10 pesos or around $0.48 dollars, and in neighborhoods, there are small stores where you can take your empty 2L coke bottle to get a new one for only $0.50 pesos, so in reality buying around 2 of the 2L coke bottles is more economic. So it becomes a habit
. Soda gives a quick fuel and helps released burden from stress. Sugar is another form a addiction
She gotta be careful In not becoming insulin resistan(pre-diabetic). Also need to visit a psychologist and a nutritian, I notice that she drank soda after a stressful moment which means she can also be doing stress eating. Witch needs to be evaluated to diagnose how stress levels are and see if there’s any signs of Depresion .
Anxiety & stress lead to Depression later on.
And sugar is very addictive. Stay away from those. Eat fruits instead.
As a mexican person, Im sure is not in all the country but in some places is more easy to get coke than water cuase coca cola company is in any place of mexico, but is not more cheaper! Also, like in rural areas in some places when a guest coming you need giving them coke if you give water means you dont respect them or you dont has money is even like social status....
But as i say is in some places cause I born in country side and in that region is not like that, depend on each family and ofcurse if you go to the city there is water but some people like to drink coke, so in conclusion depend on each family and in some places its a custom
I see why she needs the sugar high, her husband nags her all the time about gaining weight using comparison pictures from 10 years ago, her mother-in-law openly dislikes her and criticizes her constantly, and her daughter is a (excuse me but I can’t find better terminology) gremlin who has no discipline whatsoever. I’m not saying she shouldn’t cut down on drinking so much but if I lived in her shoes I’d be smoking newports 5 times a day and I don’t even smoke.
Thank you. Now I see why ppl dont want to get married lol
Anyway husband needs to stop nagging and lead by example, he's not exactly skinny either ¬_¬
If you are dumb enough to drink 2 5 liters of coke per day (because that IS dumb) then you deserve to be nagged at
He is at ok weight. (Or you wamt him to be anorexic). But his wife is obese and fatty. Thats a health and spousal problem.
That's a rude way of making your wife lose weight. Stress is a killer. I hope the girl gets better
One thing I wanted to mention is that Korean men are unlike other in the world. Being so cute and doing such moves in first meeting would be strange elsewhere.
Many have the addiction to Coke - can be dropped by drinking more water, juices, teas etc. I left mine by using coffee.
I understand the Wife's cola addiction. It was similar in my pacific island too. When we spent school holidays there, our Mother refused to let us drink tap water! We always got sick from tap water. Only one hospital, it was expensive fees/medicines, no car to get to & you would most likely die from complications. Soft drink was cheaper than bottled water, which wasn't popular in 70's and 80's. Much better nowadays.
Not being rude, does mummy wash her hair regularly? She just seems so unhappy physically.
yeah gross
how can't you feel sorry to let your mother in law do things that you as mum should do.. she's already old and done so much for raising her children.
Yes my Korean boyfriend never Cheers me on or says anything positive about me working out hard. He doesn't understand.
There’s a documentary about Mexicans being addicted to coke because of the water that’s crazy that’s she’s still addicted despite there being better options in Korea
Coke can be used as a cleaning agent. So she's consuming chemicals that can be used to clean toilets.
It's the acid that does the cleaning, not the "chemicals" (really Coke is just sugar, water, gas, and flavors which can be found in other common processed food).
I'm waiting for more episodes
they’re coming 🔜
@@k-doc467 where can I watch the full episode these shows ? Is there a website?
Let her be 🤭 she's die new wife ❤️❤️❤️
I dont think coke is the main issue here. She's drinking that coke like it's drugs. She may have some other (emotional) issues going in life/ marriage. Also it was kinda cringe when he poked her belly. 😬 very disrespectful even though they are married and I didn't feel like a joke.
When I get older I'm gonna make clean water for Mexico and the Indonesian people that are suffering from lack of water
If I would have said No no no no LIKE THAT to my mother, I would have gotten a severe ass whooping.
i see a lot of rude comments based on their parenting skills and how the child acts. she’s a child, how is she supposed to act?? let her be energetic and have fun.
Self control is very important.
does anyone know where i can watch the whole thing??
I died when she told him he gained weight too lmfao she’s like ur v line is gone…. Ahaha
what do you mean
I don’t know why Asian men (usually older gen) think it’s ok to tell women to lose weight and point out what they don’t like about their physical attributes. It’s pretty gross. Work on yourselves first.
Agree with you
I think it’s perfectly normal for a husband/wife to tell a wife/husband to lose weight. Especially when it comes to his/her health. Just because you’re afraid to hurt their feelings, you can’t just sit and watch your loved ones ruin their health and lives.
Sometime it’s critical to be butt ass honest.
I'm a woman but the wife is obviously unhealthy. Is she trying to die early with that amount of coke?
No ma’am in marriage honesty is the best policy and you need to be attracted to your partner in order for the marriage to continue on what’s wrong is marrying someone and they look a certain way but then let themselves go afterward then get mad when cheating happens!
Hello? Its not any man. Its her husband. He have every right so to it.