I thought she was just being quirky and I was like "Damn, I wish I had that kind of confidence in my coordination but I'd fall and break my hip" and then I realized she did that because of her leg and now I have mad respect for her.
When I was 23, I dated a 46-year-old woman. She looked great, she was beautiful, smart, sexy, extremely interesting, a lot of fun and a great companion! She taught me a lot and we dated for 2 years. I can honestly say that that was the best relationship I've ever had in my life and now I'm in my late 40s. I ended up marrying someone my own age a few years later and we got divorced after 5 years. Interestingly enough, I dated a 23-year-old girl 2 years ago and although I was quite hesitant, it was also a very nice relationship. Sadly, she moved to another country to study her masters, but the moral of my story is that sometimes age can be just a number. As long as both people are consenting adults and they like each other, why not do it!
Honestly this is one of the age gap couples where I feel like it's genuinely not just a money thing. They seem like they really click with each other and he seems like a super nice guy.
Heather MF i agree. This is one age gap video that doesnt gross me out or feel wrong. They seem sweet and it doesnt seem like either of them are taking advantage of the other.
Nice maybe, how bout when shes 45 and he's 78, this is the main issue with what humanity look at and if they have kids and if he even lives that long, he will be elderly or passed away and she may be a widow, shes most likely looking for a father figure, maybe she doesn't have one?
Agreed. I get that vibe from them too, and one of the first things he said was I dont know if this would work if she was a typical 22 year old....that's good for them I hope for the best.
dont want to be judgemental. but 36 is really too far. A pretty girl who is 24 years younger than me liked me in tinder , I am 48 and we had conversations .It is hard to resist her but intellectually i will only accept max 20 years age gap, not because i dont like young women (I do) but i dont want her to get widowed early.Dilemmatic isnt it? . What do you guys think of my dilemma?
Before it wasn't an election for most girls, hun, but now that it is I don't see the big deal either, date whoever makes you happy, if it's a legal, healthy and respectful relationship, why not?
@@skringli i am not looking/swipe for them.they liked me in tinder which is a bit weird too becuz i dont consider myself as handsome and definetely dont look rich , I only uploaded one casual picture on tinder and they are not sugar babies either.my conclusion is there is a portion of young women who like much older men . 15 - 20 + years gap
Voices - I’m glad I’m not the only one. That impressed the heck out of me. I really like this relationship, I’m glad they are happy. I wish I could updates. They look good together and I’m happy for them. Just don’t fall down the stairs. ❤️🥰
@Meno UA-cam me neither. 58 is wayy up there. I mean to each their own and beauty is in the eye of the beholder but idk when he was patting her butt at the beginning i was a bit creeped out. Its like ur dad being w u.. My max age id do is probably 41-45 and 45 is pushing it a bit
I mean she's been through so much in her life it'd be hard to find an American 22 year old with the same level of pain/experience/maturity as her for her to date
That's a good point. They seem to be a genuine great couple. Im close to his age and I can't imagine think of any 21 year old as anything but a cute kid. I guess time will tell how long this last for them. I wish them both much luck.
Basically what I feel is people of that age look for good body structure in their partners or tend to choose if their partners are wealthy ,hardly find true love
Extensive trauma means that one in one way you mature, in another way your inner child stays undeveloped. That means insecure attachment. Trauma bonding is one of the most unhealthy ways to start a relationship- unfortunately.
My parents were more than 30 years apart in age. When I was born, my mom was 27 and my dad had just turned 61. They were together for nearly 30 years when my father passed away from cancer. The age gap may sound significant when you only look at the numbers but I think it really depends on the couple. Rick and Alyssa, I wish you the best in your relationship!
My great aunt was 30 years older then her spouse. She was 21 and he was 51. Married for 30 years until he died. But thing is, these older generations with larger age gaps. Maturity was there and taught. These people married younger and married at all. There was male and female roles and children were second class. Times have changed to where young adults just arent mature enough, many of them. The occasional relationship has potential to work but really only if they prove they can be independent and mature. Not just in it for fun. Without the intent to divorce. A more reasonable age gap today is 15-20 years but that varies because these early 20 somethings and sometimes late 20s just cant hold a relationship together because they're not focused on goals and want to do their own thing. They cannot commit.
They way he worded it sounded more like either they snuck around anyway and HR found out about it or some thing else happened and he was fired/let go so it worked out anyway
@@Kevinthewoman We didn't do anything until he left the company! He got a new opportunity, but didn't leave the old place without burning some bridges.
@@Alyssatheamputee I'm glad he left on his own terms, he just worded it really weird. I have a friend who was in a manager position and was accused of dating a co worker, and was actually let go. Funny thing was, they were just really good friends and she had a boyfriend. But because they were seen having lunch together they gave him an ultimatum sad really
Are you serious?? It's like no matter what age no man will get married these days. At least he was honest, my ex proposed to me twice when I tried breaking up and moving on because I was only dating for marriage, but still didn't marry me after 6 years and I finally just left him. Now he is with a woman who might be okay with that, or maybe she just doesn't know he doesn't want to marry her (I ran into him and he told me he will not get married to his current girlfriend of almost 2 years).
@@wolfzmusic9706 my parents got married in less than a year together and still happily married. My brother got married after a year with his wife, and things keep getting better. A two years is plenty of time to get to know someone and make up your mind. Don't want to get married, fair enough. Next.
Why did he mislead her? He would have known that’s what she would have been expecting the relationship to lead onto. I wonder how many marriages he may have gone through up to this point?
He did say that he worried about tying her down to him when he looked past the first 10 years, when she would be in her thirties and him possibly needing diapers.
Personally I wouldn't date someone if the age difference is more than 10 years or so but as long as both parties are consenting adults, I don't care what others do.
Naturally women in general are attracted to men who either look. Act, or have mannerisms similar to her father figure. Its just a psychological thing. Theres been many studies done on this.
@@celestebrusciano3637 They are freaking Adorable tho, don't you think? It's like they were literally made for each other. This episode really made me happy. Idk why. Lol
Jeff Bezos, you sly dog you! On a serious note, they’re both consenting adults and they seem level headed and genuinely in love. Good for them! I wish them the best!
I wish them the best It's a hard enough world other people need to leave well enough alone I'm 63 my other half is 40 He acts older than me most of the time Well I am a crazy Granny with a love of speed and mischief in all its forms life's too short for being serious Bless them both Jenny x
Furiosa - I feel ya! Sorry ur so fatigued, my medicine makes me that way too, I have Trigeminal Neuralgia. I have a friend who’s a trainer, he keeps telling me I need to get outside and get some Vitamin D from the sun, I wish, but I’m so tired I can’t get up. Virtual hugs 🤗
At first I was thinking “Oh great, another one of those stories, hope he makes her sign a prenup”. But after watching the video I think they are actually a cute couple and seem like they genuinely do care for each other.
My husband is 76, I'm 53 - 23 year old difference. We've been married for over 13 years now and more in love than ever. Age shouldn't matter if you have genuine love. I'm happy for this couple.
She is young......she is living her life the way she feel it. Maybe she isn't comfortable around men her age. Maybe she want someone as a daddy figure (loving and protecting her). Anyways....men are men....with or without money. If he is useful to her on financial or emotional help. It's good for her.
a man that age who willingly dates a 20 year old (the age is showed on her tinder profile) is not someone who is loving and protecting. that is a predator.
@@niklas7379 Why am I. This young woman want ( or need ) a man. This old rich man show up. She see he can fullfil lots of her needs. She accepted the deal. Whatever the reason she is with him or he is with her. It's their deal. It's between ghem
Out of this entire video, the most disturbing aspect is her complete disregard for handrails! Just because you're able to ski down stairs one legged, WHILE HOLDING A LAUNDRY BASKET, doesn't mean you should.🤣
If you look at 1:27, her right foot is a prosthetic. So she probably learned to slide down the stairs on her left foot because it was quicker than walking. Thank you for coming to my TED talk
Um... Hate to break it to you but if you watched the rest of the video she mentions in detail her prosthetic leg and that she has Tibial Fibial Wingardium Leviosa (something similar to that, cbf checking the name). Soz for interrupting your Ted Talk, carry on.
I met my husband at work. He was my boss and I quit to date him...2 years later we got married and was welcomed back to the company. 10 years later he's a partner, I'm a manager and we make it work. It's ok to marry older and still maintain your place in the company.
As everyone is ignoring the “father wound” she’s carrying around in her heart. All of us (50) old men know what that is and how to take advantage of it if we wanted to be scumbags.
I totally agree, this girls was a childish broken mess, it was hard to watch her say out loud that her biggest dream was a ring.... from a near 60 year old,, on top he was caught off guard at this moment, he didn't even seem that enthusiastic -- she will change his diapers??? Good for him... soon she may have to -- for the girl?? Just as broken as every child who are abandoned by their mother -- they cry endless tears that somebody is able to love them,,, criminals, addicts, rapists, old men,, doesn't really matter, as long as they REALLY need what the broken girl is offering ..... a smashed heart, low self esteem, no healthy boundaries, no way close to a similar lifestyle as people her own age,, I am NOT IMPRESSED WITH A COUPLE HAVING TO POUR OUT ENDLESS ARGUMENTS TO DEFEND THEIR REAL LOVE
Uhmmmmm I want to try the stair thing!!!! How?!!!? Edit: I didn’t realize she had a prosthetic when I first saw it and was thinking how random of an intro that was 😂😂
When I was 25 I met a women who was 41. We've now been together almost 11 years and each day is just as amazing as all the ones before it. Love is love.
so glad they showed us her family pic so we could all be absolutely certain this is daddy issues - and yes you can have daddy issues even if you had a super loving and protective dad.
And you might have issues not suitable to be discussed on youtube after being used by low class men. You hate men and dont want any woman to be in a happy relationship.
You can't just make opinionated claims and sell them off as facts. She clearly doesn't have Daddy issues, seriously, you bootleg therapists love equating "consensual age gap relationships" to "Daddy issues" as if that is an absolute trait from these relationships
@@Nikole.Segura.C cause she wanted to get married and he doesn't. And I'm not an ageist but let's be honest here, age gap, especially generational gap relationship is not everyone's cup of tea. And the risk becomes high when your partner is even older then your parents. I mean can u imagine seeing your kid getting laid wid a person who could nearly be your uncle or aunty. The feeling only is making me sick to the bone. Like, chhee!
The fact that she is a bloody golddigger and that old man is a filled with fantasy lust is what makes me sick about these sort of relationship. Getting laid with girl half your age is 🤮
Why do people have to be so f**** judgemental? My father was 22 years older than my mother, he died of cancer when I was 12 and when my mom was 41 yo. My father's family thought that she was a gold digger (she came from an Eastern European country, he had a good job in a Western European country, a house, savings)even though she had always wanted to work, she refused to be supported financially by him, learned my father's language perfectly and even got herself a degree at the University. But still, my father's family was skeptical, until they saw her trying EVERYTHING to save him, my aunt (my father's sister) said " I didn't think she really loved him that much" when she saw my mother grief-stricken at the funeral. By my mother's own admission my father was the best companion she could have asked for and the best one she ever had. I never noticed any difference form the other dads, he was my father, loved me, played with me and, although he died too soon, I'm happy that I got to spend the time I had with him. So it's people like you who make sick...
The couple talking about their odd relationship UA-cam comment section: "omfg, did you see how she went down the stairs?!?!" That's the best thing ever!!!
I watch a lot of these little shows about love and I've seen a lot of stuff that, to me, personally, is sort of strange, but the way he was looking at her as she talked about how she wasn't supposed to live, how she lived in the hospital, and then in an orphanage...you can tell he truly loves her. You can see it in his eyes. She seems to be a happy person and he does, too. I wish them the best.
*They met on tinder and she said she KNEW who he was.. How can she say "it was wrong and we can't do this" when you have to swipe yes on him too?* she knew what she was doing, he didn't
The guy is awesome and truly loves her and she loves him too. They'll make it because they both allow each other to live their lives and not try to change each other... I love that.
I was thinking before I knew her condition that she goes down the stairs so fast and well on one foot. I thought she was just having fun. Now I know why.
@@rb2546 Not really you can die at any age young or old.Plenty of younger people failed to outlive me as I know of much younger friends of mine who died of cancer.
@@misscindy1596 It doesn't matter if a person is younger because it doesn't guarantee a longer life for them as they could die at anytime.Plenty of young people i know of died way too soon in life from cancer. My friend died at only 28 and my sisters friend at only 17.None of us know when we'll die as life is so unpredictable at times,so it's best to live your life to the full.
I’m just here to say I am older than she is but I was too adopted and born in Ukraine and I was very sick as a baby and died 2 times yet here I am. Stay strong!
A lot of times with these age gap things, one or both of them seem like weirdos. Other than her possible trauma from her childhood, them both seem like nice, well adjusted people who genuinely care for each other
The way she flies down the stairs is sooo impressive. They seem like such a beautiful couple. He seems like such a lovely man. I see no issues! Love it xxx
Whatever. Be happy! I understand. I fell in love with a man 24 years older than me. Love comes in so many forms. You can tell this is love.. I see chemistry through the screen! I wish them the best 🥰
My wife and i are nearly 14 years apart. Women want to feel protected and want a sense of security. An educated, mature, established man can provide that. I see nothing wrong with this relationship whatsoever. Nothing at all. Good for them!!
Hey you two ! I was married to my husband who was 27 years older than I for 30 terrific years ... we had our ups and downs but the last year of Dans life was sweet .. We also had 6 terrific kids, btw... so be happy, be joyful..
@@1967MGC Okay. For argument sake I'll say I was wrong, but the average reader can verify, if they dare, that a couple with that age gap didn't share the same ECONOMICAL challenges before BARGAINING and BARTERING with reach other.
@@zenny1258 I'm not (though my partner happens to be 9 years older than I am) but I have no issues with it in regards to others. I personally am not into it but to each their own! It's not as though you're harming anyone. If anyone has a problem with it, it's THEIR problem, not yours, it's your own personal business, and they need help, NOT you! Remember this.
Met someone online in her mid twenties, had one drink with her, found out I was one year older than her dad, never talked again. That was just too weird for me. I guess I was thinking her parents would be older than me, maybe had kids later in life.
It’s their life. She could just as easily been mistreated by a young guy. They are good for each other apparently. I hope they have many happy years together.
This is the first large age Gap relationship that I have seen in several years that I look at it and can see there is a real affection there that is both sided that does not creep me out! She is very mature for her age and a lot of that has to do with what she lived through the first four years of her life! What an amazing testimony she has!
Hi yoga with Concha I'm not married I'm very active open minded people you can marry with me but I'm from India 32 year old and I'm a good person really please rply me what your number please I'm serious for you ok
And why was he looking at a 20 year old when he was 56? I'm pretty sure you can set an age range on dating apps! I've never had Tinder, but I've used another one and I never had to look at 20 year olds!
I used to date men around my age up to 10 years older. But then I met my ex who was 24 years older than me. It was the only relationship up until then that actually worked. We were together for 4,5 years almost. My partner now is 18 years older and when talking about it, it's weird. We don't see each other like that. We are equal. There is no age on love! You love who you love and if that is somebody who is much older than you, so be it!
Cynthia Treptow you can make my life partner tell me I'm not married so single boy I'm 32 year old but I'm from India I'm also a good person very experience of active open minded people ok please rply me
Everyone will be focused on their relationship and I'm here amazed how she goes down stairs
She has a fake leg!!
@@celestebrusciano3637 you my friend are a prophet.
Me too!!
@@celestebrusciano3637 r/whooosh
She handled them stairs like a boss tho!
He looks like her dad. Not in the mean way. He literally looks like her father from that photo
yeah, that picture confused me!
Yeah, I thought that too
Absolutely
Daddy issues intensifies
I thought the same, I had to rewind it!
This is the first age gap relationship I’ve seen that doesn’t freak me out. They seem genuinely happy
i feel bad for the girl who talked about orphanage… i’m glad she’s doing good with her man 🤗💕
nah. Theres nothing right about a just recently graduated highschool girl dating her grandfather.
They're not hurting anybody, and they're happy.
truth
The so called "Alpha Male" in the comments just mad the old guy got a chick that he couldn't
Excuse me miss? Madam? I need a tutorial of the stairs thing
@@LoooLnEeeSs and? Having one leg doesn't make it easier to do that
1) wear a helmet 2) increase your speed when going down steps 3) i take no responsibility for your actions
just use heelies
Vic lmao same
@@LoooLnEeeSs IC thanks!
It’s cool how she went down the stairs like that w/o falling
I thought she was riding heelies down the stairs lmao
I thought she was just being quirky and I was like "Damn, I wish I had that kind of confidence in my coordination but I'd fall and break my hip" and then I realized she did that because of her leg and now I have mad respect for her.
I want to try it
@@beccaslayer haha same here
I was gonna say “that doesn’t look so hard”......but then realized she doesn’t even have that leg, so will now hold my tongue lol
When I was 23, I dated a 46-year-old woman. She looked great, she was beautiful, smart, sexy, extremely interesting, a lot of fun and a great companion! She taught me a lot and we dated for 2 years. I can honestly say that that was the best relationship I've ever had in my life and now I'm in my late 40s. I ended up marrying someone my own age a few years later and we got divorced after 5 years. Interestingly enough, I dated a 23-year-old girl 2 years ago and although I was quite hesitant, it was also a very nice relationship. Sadly, she moved to another country to study her masters, but the moral of my story is that sometimes age can be just a number. As long as both people are consenting adults and they like each other, why not do it!
Sounds like you've had some good relationships! 💙 wish I could say the same lol
Why didn’t it work with the 46 year old women, if you don’t mind me asking?
@@Amylisette74 mind your own business
@@henriquemacedo9834 lol he literally put his business on the internet
@@Amylisette74 telling you that he broke up with someone and why he broke up with that someone is different maybe he doesnt want to share this part
I think she only agreed to do this to show off her skills. How is the way she's going down the stairs not a sport?
Mmala Mokone 💀🤣😂LMAO
Mmala Mokone hey
😂😂😂😂
It's really fun actually but it can definitely hurt if you do it wrong.
😂 basically dated an older guy for a year and a half just to show the world hey look at me
I'll be honest with everyone I tried the whole one leg stair thing........ I fell down 12 of my stairs and now have a sprained ankle 😥
seriously? I'm surprised with your dedication to trying but still hope your ankle gets better fast
Nugget haha
Feelsbadman
Oh the irony
Oh no :( I'm sorry
"there is no way it would have worked if she had been the typical 22 year old girl"
And still, there you were, looking for women that age on line....
I caught that too, lol
Exactly lol
@Notifications off probably has a wife half his age too ^ KEKW
Girls in the 20s are in their prime physically.. what's not to like about that
@@SXI96 and might as well make money off it too.. lol
She’s a doll ! So happy she survived and thrived ! People can’t do that with 2 legs. I love how she says All you two leggers
Honestly this is one of the age gap couples where I feel like it's genuinely not just a money thing. They seem like they really click with each other and he seems like a super nice guy.
Heather MF i agree. This is one age gap video that doesnt gross me out or feel wrong. They seem sweet and it doesnt seem like either of them are taking advantage of the other.
Nice maybe, how bout when shes 45 and he's 78, this is the main issue with what humanity look at and if they have kids and if he even lives that long, he will be elderly or passed away and she may be a widow, shes most likely looking for a father figure, maybe she doesn't have one?
Agreed. I get that vibe from them too, and one of the first things he said was I dont know if this would work if she was a typical 22 year old....that's good for them I hope for the best.
Hii
Welp. This comment didn’t age well. They broke up lol
When I first saw the way she came down the stairs, I legitimately thought it was so cool, and she was just being a kid at heart. Great story.
Lol. Me too. I was like "ohh she has a lot of energy..." Nope. She has one leg.
Same here... I thought she was goofing around 🤭
because she is a kid lol
@@junebugx1312 that is what makes him attracted to her
why are age gap relationships so popular on UA-cam now, like it’s existed forever
boujee baby it’s happened forever but In
the last 70 years, it’s always been a bit taboo which makes it interesting to people.
dont want to be judgemental. but 36 is really too far. A pretty girl who is 24 years younger than me liked me in tinder , I am 48 and we had conversations .It is hard to resist her but intellectually i will only accept max 20 years age gap, not because i dont like young women (I do) but i dont want her to get widowed early.Dilemmatic isnt it? . What do you guys think of my dilemma?
Before it wasn't an election for most girls, hun, but now that it is I don't see the big deal either, date whoever makes you happy, if it's a legal, healthy and respectful relationship, why not?
@@andia968 Why are you looking for people that young if you don't wanna date them?
@@skringli i am not looking/swipe for them.they liked me in tinder which is a bit weird too becuz i dont consider myself as handsome and definetely dont look rich , I only uploaded one casual picture on tinder and they are not sugar babies either.my conclusion is there is a portion of young women who like much older men . 15 - 20 + years gap
Rather than their relationship everyone is hyped about the stair thing😂
Like she has both knees why can't she bend her leg?😂
Voices - I’m glad I’m not the only one. That impressed the heck out of me. I really like this relationship, I’m glad they are happy. I wish I could updates. They look good together and I’m happy for them. Just don’t fall down the stairs. ❤️🥰
I want to do that!
She has a prosthetic leg
@@cindyski4413 how did that go?
He does have a charm about him and a very attractive masculine voice so I can understand her attraction to him.
@Meno UA-cam me neither. 58 is wayy up there. I mean to each their own and beauty is in the eye of the beholder but idk when he was patting her butt at the beginning i was a bit creeped out. Its like ur dad being w u.. My max age id do is probably 41-45 and 45 is pushing it a bit
Lol so do I but I'm not about to wait 3 more years for my future wife to be born
thats kinda creepy
@@jhuntley575 Omg 💀
I do like his voice and masculine presence. Very sexy
90% of comments: STAIRS?
It's an important skill!!
Cuz is cool!
I mean she's been through so much in her life it'd be hard to find an American 22 year old with the same level of pain/experience/maturity as her for her to date
That's a good point. They seem to be a genuine great couple. Im close to his age and I can't imagine think of any 21 year old as anything but a cute kid. I guess time will tell how long this last for them. I wish them both much luck.
Basically what I feel is people of that age look for good body structure in their partners or tend to choose if their partners are wealthy ,hardly find true love
Extensive trauma means that one in one way you mature, in another way your inner child stays undeveloped. That means insecure attachment. Trauma bonding is one of the most unhealthy ways to start a relationship- unfortunately.
There's plenty of people who have been thru trauma but it depends how they handle it
@For yt how do you know they're not a couple anymore?
My parents were more than 30 years apart in age. When I was born, my mom was 27 and my dad had just turned 61. They were together for nearly 30 years when my father passed away from cancer. The age gap may sound significant when you only look at the numbers but I think it really depends on the couple. Rick and Alyssa, I wish you the best in your relationship!
My great aunt was 30 years older then her spouse. She was 21 and he was 51. Married for 30 years until he died. But thing is, these older generations with larger age gaps. Maturity was there and taught. These people married younger and married at all. There was male and female roles and children were second class. Times have changed to where young adults just arent mature enough, many of them. The occasional relationship has potential to work but really only if they prove they can be independent and mature. Not just in it for fun. Without the intent to divorce. A more reasonable age gap today is 15-20 years but that varies because these early 20 somethings and sometimes late 20s just cant hold a relationship together because they're not focused on goals and want to do their own thing. They cannot commit.
I'm surprised he left the job... seems that If he was the CEO then maybe she should have left instead? Idk!! Otherwise at least they are happy
They way he worded it sounded more like either they snuck around anyway and HR found out about it or some thing else happened and he was fired/let go so it worked out anyway
@@Kevinthewoman We didn't do anything until he left the company! He got a new opportunity, but didn't leave the old place without burning some bridges.
@@Alyssatheamputee Happy that you guys are happy!! My first husband was 14 years my senior!! You love who you love!!
@@Alyssatheamputee I'm glad he left on his own terms, he just worded it really weird. I have a friend who was in a manager position and was accused of dating a co worker, and was actually let go. Funny thing was, they were just really good friends and she had a boyfriend. But because they were seen having lunch together they gave him an ultimatum sad really
@@celestebrusciano3637 YES!
Ganna try the stair thing when I get a chance wish me luck
Lmaoo
Be careful u break your leg
Don’t you dare 😂😂😂
Got me laughing so hard!!!
Don't do it..I tried.. didn't work out the way it did for her😂
Checked Alyssa’s IG account and she posted about their recent break up. Rick doesn’t want to get married. 😔
Are you serious?? It's like no matter what age no man will get married these days. At least he was honest, my ex proposed to me twice when I tried breaking up and moving on because I was only dating for marriage, but still didn't marry me after 6 years and I finally just left him. Now he is with a woman who might be okay with that, or maybe she just doesn't know he doesn't want to marry her (I ran into him and he told me he will not get married to his current girlfriend of almost 2 years).
@@agnes8679 well him not wanting to get married is fine & 2 yrs is pretty early on in a relationship to get married
@@wolfzmusic9706 my parents got married in less than a year together and still happily married. My brother got married after a year with his wife, and things keep getting better. A two years is plenty of time to get to know someone and make up your mind. Don't want to get married, fair enough. Next.
Why did he mislead her? He would have known that’s what she would have been expecting the relationship to lead onto. I wonder how many marriages he may have gone through up to this point?
He did say that he worried about tying her down to him when he looked past the first 10 years, when she would be in her thirties and him possibly needing diapers.
Are we NOT going to talk about how this man looks just like her adoptive dad 4:16 🤔 No shade. Just an observation......
There was a story about two guys who hooked up after meeting online who later found out they're biological brothers.
Exactly what I thought too.
I saw that too 😱
And no mention how her adoptive parents feel about them being together. That has got to be an odd feeling for her adoptive Dad.
yeah, i honestly thought it was her bf in the picture, not her adoptive dad.........
Personally I wouldn't date someone if the age difference is more than 10 years or so but as long as both parties are consenting adults, I don't care what others do.
Yea 10-12 n dats it....
my soulmate is 28 years older than me 🤗
Ana Saucedo what happened
@@anasaucedo969 I got you yo.
Why not?
“she’s got energy like i’ve never seen” well duh your 40 years older of course she’s gonna have way more energy than you lol
As long as she got that energy in the bedroom 😂
@@palmtreewhisperer she most likely does and he most likely doesn't
😄
He kinda looks like her adoptive father.
LilStampBug I thought it was her boyfriend in the pic 😂😂😂
Yep sure does!!!!!
Nope
Sweet Mother of God! Her boyfriend looks IDENTICAL to adoptive father!! What.The.Heck?!
I thought that was a picture of the boyfriend and his ex wife and kids at first
I was wondering if it was a daddy issue thing
That's not normal ...it makes me wonder is she attracted to dad?
Thats what i was thinking, but at first glance i thought the mom was her boyfriend in a wig for some reason haha
Naturally women in general are attracted to men who either look. Act, or have mannerisms similar to her father figure. Its just a psychological thing. Theres been many studies done on this.
She says “we worked together” and he says “no I was the boss of the company” Lol
How did she go down the stairs like that tho
Same way Tina did to greet Jimmy J. With flair.
Legit watched it like 10 times over
@DragonK K what do you mean she doesnt have one leg... yes she does... she does have one leg 😂 also no need to feel bad for her she is happy
Lol
@@celestebrusciano3637 They are freaking Adorable tho, don't you think? It's like they were literally made for each other. This episode really made me happy. Idk why. Lol
4:17 her adoptive father looks EXACTLY like her boyfriend
Special Agent Dana Scully daddy issues
Wat? I thought that was her bf and his previous family.
I am single
Well you 💑💑😍😍❤❤ me
They look dopple-gangers almost
Literally saw that.
Jeff Bezos, you sly dog you!
On a serious note, they’re both consenting adults and they seem level headed and genuinely in love. Good for them! I wish them the best!
I wish them the best It's a hard enough world other people need to leave well enough alone
I'm 63 my other half is 40 He acts older than me most of the time
Well I am a crazy Granny with a love of speed and mischief in all its forms life's too short for being serious Bless them both Jenny x
Nah, this girl did not seem like a concenting adult, more like a broken child
I find serious relationship 🙏,I'm 23 years old,I'm female
I see a strong resemblance between her adopted dad and her man.
Exactly my same thought 😂
En Francais svp
Nah white bald men all look the same hahahaha
They look like twins.
Had the same thought.
why they put that old filter on her lmaooo
Fr hahahahaa
Ya creepy!
took me by surprise lol
Hey it made me laugh
I thought Im was being crazy about the quarantine and I had to replay this part of the video to check it 😅😅😅😅
She’s got energy like you’ve never seen, she’s 22, we all had that at 22, because we were young.
I had no energy at 22. I missed the youthful energy thing.
I am 22 and have no energy at all. Clinical depression has been eating all of my energy.
Furiosa - I feel ya! Sorry ur so fatigued, my medicine makes me that way too, I have Trigeminal Neuralgia. I have a friend who’s a trainer, he keeps telling me I need to get outside and get some Vitamin D from the sun, I wish, but I’m so tired I can’t get up. Virtual hugs 🤗
I thought he meant energy like she's got great energy to be around
I have same energy like her ,but no one to keep up with it ,sad story of my life
How did she go down stairs like that like oop-
Kiar Ran she has a fake leg
She goes down the stairs on the real leg tho!!!
@@miguelgomez8908 oh I didn't know
Wait but they’re actually super cute..... or is that just lonely me speaking 🤔🤔
Skinny Legend MD just lonely you..
I think they make a cute couple🙄
At first I was thinking “Oh great, another one of those stories, hope he makes her sign a prenup”. But after watching the video I think they are actually a cute couple and seem like they genuinely do care for each other.
I strangely agree!
Love is love!
My husband is 76, I'm 53 - 23 year old difference. We've been married for over 13 years now and more in love than ever. Age shouldn't matter if you have genuine love. I'm happy for this couple.
I love a young boy too he is 20 and I am 42 😥 He is more mature than me sometimes I feel, he is older but the reality is that I am so scared
She is young......she is living her life the way she feel it. Maybe she isn't comfortable around men her age. Maybe she want someone as a daddy figure (loving and protecting her).
Anyways....men are men....with or without money. If he is useful to her on financial or emotional help. It's good for her.
You just straight out told everybody what a horrible person you are. Congratulations
ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
no.
@@niklas7379
How is that making him/her a horible person???
It's in fact true. If she is happy who are we to judge their situation?
a man that age who willingly dates a 20 year old (the age is showed on her tinder profile) is not someone who is loving and protecting. that is a predator.
@@niklas7379 Why am I. This young woman want ( or need ) a man. This old rich man show up.
She see he can fullfil lots of her needs. She accepted the deal.
Whatever the reason she is with him or he is with her. It's their deal. It's between ghem
The most impressive thing about this video is how she goes down the stairs.
Out of this entire video, the most disturbing aspect is her complete disregard for handrails! Just because you're able to ski down stairs one legged, WHILE HOLDING A LAUNDRY BASKET, doesn't mean you should.🤣
i was thinking that she's just making fun gliding down the stairs and i was like wow she's so cool😲😲 until she talked about her condition😔
If you look at 1:27, her right foot is a prosthetic. So she probably learned to slide down the stairs on her left foot because it was quicker than walking. Thank you for coming to my TED talk
Fiona Boyle 1:42
Fiona Boyle I have one leg and I’ll confirm it takes forever to go down the stairs
Um... Hate to break it to you but if you watched the rest of the video she mentions in detail her prosthetic leg and that she has Tibial Fibial Wingardium Leviosa (something similar to that, cbf checking the name). Soz for interrupting your Ted Talk, carry on.
I met my husband at work. He was my boss and I quit to date him...2 years later we got married and was welcomed back to the company. 10 years later he's a partner, I'm a manager and we make it work. It's ok to marry older and still maintain your place in the company.
She's into older daddies. She's got the experience. Calm down people.
I prefer a Daddy & im not ashamed of it i have a Daddy but he isnt that large of age gap
@@cyntiamartin4941 I have a daddy too. Ain't nothin wrong with it. Age Gap, or not. A daddy is a daddy.
@@HashslingingSLASHER92
Thanks for the positive comment
I'm from Alabama and my daughter has been taking care of my sexual needs after my wife died.
@professionnel name No.
Forget the relationship...you see how she glides down the stairs totally cool 😃
💀🤣 I was like what th-
I could never go down the stairs like that as I would break my damn neck.
Paul Barnes I second that lol
@@paulbarnes9490 but her leg though that's why she has to do that you idiots
@@Queenofrap2011 I know that I was just trying to be humorous.
As everyone is ignoring the “father wound” she’s carrying around in her heart. All of us (50) old men know what that is and how to take advantage of it if we wanted to be scumbags.
Can you elaborate please? I don't understand.
Ummm...so, did you see her adoptive father in the picture of her family? Hellloooo
@@Duxaization Her husband looks suspiciously like her father...
I totally agree, this girls was a childish broken mess, it was hard to watch her say out loud that her biggest dream was a ring.... from a near 60 year old,, on top he was caught off guard at this moment, he didn't even seem that enthusiastic -- she will change his diapers??? Good for him... soon she may have to -- for the girl?? Just as broken as every child who are abandoned by their mother -- they cry endless tears that somebody is able to love them,,, criminals, addicts, rapists, old men,, doesn't really matter, as long as they REALLY need what the broken girl is offering ..... a smashed heart, low self esteem, no healthy boundaries, no way close to a similar lifestyle as people her own age,, I am NOT IMPRESSED WITH A COUPLE HAVING TO POUR OUT ENDLESS ARGUMENTS TO DEFEND THEIR REAL LOVE
And her adopted father looks exactly like her bf
Uhmmmmm I want to try the stair thing!!!! How?!!!?
Edit: I didn’t realize she had a prosthetic when I first saw it and was thinking how random of an intro that was 😂😂
I just noticed that too!!!!
The one she’s going down the stairs with is her leg. She only have one prosthetic.
Same!
Her hands too
Maybe she just really wanted a dad.
Pretty sure you don't bang your father.. Unless you're living in Alabama lmao
He looks just like her adopted dad, if you look at the picture.
4:18
Definitely, I 100% think it was mummy and daddy issues due to her upbringing
Sofa Pop yes thank you... I was thinking the same thing
When I was 25 I met a women who was 41. We've now been together almost 11 years and each day is just as amazing as all the ones before it. Love is love.
Child abuse is not okay
@@jamesjustin9181 stop hating 🖕🏾
so glad they showed us her family pic so we could all be absolutely certain this is daddy issues - and yes you can have daddy issues even if you had a super loving and protective dad.
And you might have issues not suitable to be discussed on youtube after being used by low class men. You hate men and dont want any woman to be in a happy relationship.
@@digit313 where did that come from?
You can't just make opinionated claims and sell them off as facts. She clearly doesn't have Daddy issues, seriously, you bootleg therapists love equating "consensual age gap relationships" to "Daddy issues" as if that is an absolute trait from these relationships
No one:
Employee: And they are co-workers
*"Oh my gawd they are co-workers"*
And now they're ROOMMATES
She has an emotional intelligence and maturity because of her childhood. This is the first relationship that doesn't make me question their motives.
Actually now they have broken up because of him. In her Instagram she has updated that.
@@praveenhoro8198 why for him?
@@Nikole.Segura.C cause she wanted to get married and he doesn't. And I'm not an ageist but let's be honest here, age gap, especially generational gap relationship is not everyone's cup of tea. And the risk becomes high when your partner is even older then your parents. I mean can u imagine seeing your kid getting laid wid a person who could nearly be your uncle or aunty. The feeling only is making me sick to the bone. Like, chhee!
The fact that she is a bloody golddigger and that old man is a filled with fantasy lust is what makes me sick about these sort of relationship. Getting laid with girl half your age is 🤮
Why do people have to be so f**** judgemental? My father was 22 years older than my mother, he died of cancer when I was 12 and when my mom was 41 yo. My father's family thought that she was a gold digger (she came from an Eastern European country, he had a good job in a Western European country, a house, savings)even though she had always wanted to work, she refused to be supported financially by him, learned my father's language perfectly and even got herself a degree at the University. But still, my father's family was skeptical, until they saw her trying EVERYTHING to save him, my aunt (my father's sister) said " I didn't think she really loved him that much" when she saw my mother grief-stricken at the funeral. By my mother's own admission my father was the best companion she could have asked for and the best one she ever had. I never noticed any difference form the other dads, he was my father, loved me, played with me and, although he died too soon, I'm happy that I got to spend the time I had with him. So it's people like you who make sick...
i just love how every question/story detail he gives, is placing all responsibility on the girl
The couple talking about their odd relationship
UA-cam comment section: "omfg, did you see how she went down the stairs?!?!" That's the best thing ever!!!
I watch a lot of these little shows about love and I've seen a lot of stuff that, to me, personally, is sort of strange, but the way he was looking at her as she talked about how she wasn't supposed to live, how she lived in the hospital, and then in an orphanage...you can tell he truly loves her. You can see it in his eyes. She seems to be a happy person and he does, too. I wish them the best.
*They met on tinder and she said she KNEW who he was.. How can she say "it was wrong and we can't do this" when you have to swipe yes on him too?* she knew what she was doing, he didn't
Truee...I guess she just swiped right to inform him about that haha
I agree on that one and that's the vibe I got.
Well that’s what he said. Come on how many girls are there with one leg
She said she swiped to tell him lol
Love don’t judge is basically all this channel posts anymore :/
@d b Nobody put a gun to her head she made her decision to date whoever she wants.
@@paulbarnes9490 never heard of grooming or exploiting trauma?
@@fusselmietz5929 Yes but if she pursued him it isn't grooming.
@d b what's wrong with you
@d b there is a difference between a pedophile grooming a child who doesnt know any better, and 2 consenting adults.
The guy is awesome and truly loves her and she loves him too. They'll make it because they both allow each other to live their lives and not try to change each other... I love that.
I’m 35 my hubby is 54 I couldn’t imagine life without him
'his money'
@@otikokoso1956 sorry love I make my own and I make more than him
@@treniesablunt same here :D & age gap of 14 years
@cockstrong3333 and so are they
@@treniesablunt blessings for you and your partner.
I was thinking before I knew her condition that she goes down the stairs so fast and well on one foot. I thought she was just having fun. Now I know why.
The opening shot of her coming down the stairs...yasssssss!!
Edit: Had NOT realized she was an amputee when she flew down the stairs 🤣
I always wonder how these relationships workout 20+ years from now? 🤔
She gets all his money and he’s dead probably
R B well Damn...😂
@@rb2546 he could live another 40 years if he takes care of himself
@@rb2546 Not really you can die at any age young or old.Plenty of younger people failed to outlive me as I know of much younger friends of mine who died of cancer.
@@misscindy1596 It doesn't matter if a person is younger because it doesn't guarantee a longer life for them as they could die at anytime.Plenty of young people i know of died way too soon in life from cancer. My friend died at only 28 and my sisters friend at only 17.None of us know when we'll die as life is so unpredictable at times,so it's best to live your life to the full.
And I'm here worrying about my 7 year age gap relationship 🤦🏼♀️
Thanks to your comment. Lol. My bf is 7 years older than me and we have this conversation. 😂.. which I don’t care about but he does.
I’m just here to say I am older than she is but I was too adopted and born in Ukraine and I was very sick as a baby and died 2 times yet here I am. Stay strong!
DIED? hold on-
Congratulations to both of you. What a beautiful couple!
@@ローラシ he done hit respawn
@@ローラシ 🤣
Honestly, of all the different age gap relationships I have seen, these two actually seem happy and in love.
A lot of times with these age gap things, one or both of them seem like weirdos. Other than her possible trauma from her childhood, them both seem like nice, well adjusted people who genuinely care for each other
I feel like they both genuinely love each other, and this is too sweet ;)
Hi 😍😍❤❤❤❤
@Gold Glitter For real??
No. That old man is taking advantage of her. Scumbag.
He looks pretty good for his age, and he's in decent shape. She seems happy. So good on them.
I am 50 year old
Single ❤❤😘😙😍😍😍😍😍
He looks exactly like his age
Even though he gets sick, she still have to stick with him through thick and thin.
Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to
In my honest oppinion I think she struggles and wants security she missed her real father figure but I’m happy he loves her xxx
Well, that's the easiest promotion at work place.
I got daddy issues too lol my husband is 26 years older than me
I got strong Lana Del Rey vibes from this. I'm happy for you and your husband!!
you do your thing doll! 💕
Mine 20..and its perfect
Iff you're happy go for it girl
My man's 24 yrs ole than me! Best relationship thus far
The way she flies down the stairs is sooo impressive.
They seem like such a beautiful couple. He seems like such a lovely man. I see no issues! Love it xxx
Are you married?
Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to
Whatever. Be happy! I understand. I fell in love with a man 24 years older than me. Love comes in so many forms. You can tell this is love.. I see chemistry through the screen! I wish them the best 🥰
You mean love knows no bounds when the guy has money
Am single 😍😍😍💑🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to.,
My wife and i are nearly 14 years apart. Women want to feel protected and want a sense of security. An educated, mature, established man can provide that. I see nothing wrong with this relationship whatsoever. Nothing at all. Good for them!!
you just want that tightness. all good tho.
We don’t want a father 🤷🏾♀️ haha. I want to grow old together not watch my man die first 😂.
Not all women I want a man to grow with.
This old geezer is a fruitcake. He can't provide anything except money.
No one is weirded out by the fact that her adoptive dad looks IDENTICAL to that grandpa he’s dating 😬
Hey you two ! I was married to my husband who was 27 years older than I for 30 terrific years ... we had our ups and downs but the last year of Dans life was sweet .. We also had 6 terrific kids, btw... so be happy, be joyful..
That's amazing!
Some people have all the luck in life as nobody has ever shown me any love.
Honestly I think they're cute. They seem to have a healthy dynamic. Who cares about the age difference?
I'm still looking for the girl that doesn't notice his age when he's as broke as she is...........
Maybe it was on this channel, but I recall a MUCH older guy- I think bout a 40+ age difference- who lived in a trailer. And he had a kid with her.
@@1967MGC Okay. For argument sake I'll say I was wrong, but the average reader can verify, if they dare, that a couple with that age gap didn't share the same ECONOMICAL challenges before BARGAINING and BARTERING with reach other.
True, where are they?
I'm here
I really like them, they're not harming anyone and would you look at that adorable cat!! I love people who love cats!!
I do too. They come off as very genuine, not just to my own personal judgment, but with each other. I think they're great!
@@amandalynn6663 exactly! And I am also interested in men older than me but I haven't found anyone yet, haha
@@zenny1258 I'm not (though my partner happens to be 9 years older than I am) but I have no issues with it in regards to others. I personally am not into it but to each their own! It's not as though you're harming anyone. If anyone has a problem with it, it's THEIR problem, not yours, it's your own personal business, and they need help, NOT you! Remember this.
😂
@@jordiflower what's so funny?
This 55 year old man was clearly on tender.. and other dating apps or sites looking for young girls..
Lol
And she was clearly looking for older men..it's what's called a "win-win" situation. 👍
@@truthfullness4157 that's a great Point you're right that's very true I like that that is definitely true good point...👍👍👍👍
Shes of age? Get over it
@@SausageRoll4u of course you would say that Chelsea probably your 20 years old and you like old Bag men old men...😂😂😂😂😂😂
Met someone online in her mid twenties, had one drink with her, found out I was one year older than her dad, never talked again.
That was just too weird for me.
I guess I was thinking her parents would be older than me, maybe had kids later in life.
I love when she runs down the stairs, my reaction is a mix of tears and happiness. Go girl 👏🏾
run is so ironic
I love her. She's such a ray of sunshine. So what if she likes older men? She seems really cool. Total best friend material.
If someone 36 years older is on the same wavelength and maturity level and shares the same goals, they are very immature
I broke both of my ankles watching her go down the stairs.
🤣🤣🤣
Hahahaha...🤣🤣🤣
It’s their life. She could just as easily been mistreated by a young guy. They are good for each other apparently. I hope they have many happy years together.
Mfundo Mtintsilana finally! Someone who get’s it.Young guys would be freaked out and the others would use and hurt her. She is fine with who she has!
Am genuinely happy for her.the guy seems nice.thay both happy.that all what matters.
This is the first large age Gap relationship that I have seen in several years that I look at it and can see there is a real affection there that is both sided that does not creep me out! She is very mature for her age and a lot of that has to do with what she lived through the first four years of her life! What an amazing testimony she has!
When I'm 800000 years old I will get on Tinder to find my 23 year old future wife.
23?? Disgusting. I'm going 20 max.
@@juliawhite3014 Sorry, I have no standards. 😁
Ahahahahahja
I don’t believe him when he says he didn’t recognize her.... suuuuurrreeee buddy!!!! Lol 👀🤔🤣🤣
There are people that's work work work only so they join dating sites cause they dont "see" anybody at work.
Hi yoga with Concha I'm not married I'm very active open minded people you can marry with me but I'm from India 32 year old and I'm a good person really please rply me what your number please I'm serious for you ok
Lol
Yeah but he did work for a company that had over 200 employees. Probably very possible he did not recognize her.
And why was he looking at a 20 year old when he was 56? I'm pretty sure you can set an age range on dating apps! I've never had Tinder, but I've used another one and I never had to look at 20 year olds!
Man alyssa ability to go down those stairs like that proves that she has amazing agility god bless her.
I think her first initial attraction to him was that he looked like her dad.
They way she hopped down the steps 😂😂💀. I’m so impressed
Update: they are no longer together
She had a hard life, and she seems she's missing a connection to family and this guy is s replacement dad.
Autumn Summers great analysis Sherlock
@@marcozolo3536 Hi Rick!
Yup and he wants his youth back...
Please dont call it a replacement dad
I swear I've replayed that one leg glide down the stairs😂😂
I did too 😭 it was honestly satisfying 😭😭
I used to date men around my age up to 10 years older. But then I met my ex who was 24 years older than me. It was the only relationship up until then that actually worked. We were together for 4,5 years almost. My partner now is 18 years older and when talking about it, it's weird. We don't see each other like that. We are equal.
There is no age on love! You love who you love and if that is somebody who is much older than you, so be it!
Good for them! Glad they are happy, that’s all that matters!
Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to
She seems like at nice girl.. She's also beatiful.
That opening to the video…. Was epic games .
When they changed her face to the old lady.. lol. And, her stairs trick. Wow! 🤯
Cynthia Treptow when?!
Cynthia Treptow you can make my life partner tell me I'm not married so single boy I'm 32 year old but I'm from India I'm also a good person very experience of active open minded people ok please rply me
Hi
❤❤😍😍😍😍😍
At first, seeing the thumbnail...
Me:Here we go, another Gold Digger, Sugar daddy
3mins in:wait a minute..i think there is something here💑💏