How to Be A Lone Wolf (Evolution of Inner Connected Beings)
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
- In this video I talk about the 4 ways to form an inner connection (lone wolf energy)
REPARENTING, RECONNECTING, RECONCILING, REALIZING (who you are)
If you've been thinking that the secret to a happy life is based on the social connections you have, while still avoiding yourself, that will only take you so far.
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The real connection you need to focus on is the one you have with YOU
Learning about yourself in ways that allow you to connect on a deeper level dictate the quality of the social connections you are drawn to (or not drawn to) and that's what makes all the difference.
#lonewolf #loneliness #lonelinessepidemic
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100% on point, with this video, Fraya. I have been observing & contemplating this very topic, lately. People, just don’t know who they are - as you say, disconnected from themselves. I observe people searching for their identity , but they do not realise, that is what they are searching for. Invariably, it’s external, joining groups, political parties, sports etc, to validate a sense of belonging within themselves. Truth is, there are not many, able to sit with themselves & as you said, there lies the problem, in associating with fellow, like minded souls. The word beliefs, has the word LIE right in the middle, in plain sight. Again, so many have been embroiled into this system, which stems from our parents’ - pair-who-rents. We are given a name, religion etc, most grow up, within those perimeters & never question, so do not discover, who they really are. Removing myself from family, where the dynamics of how to be, were instilled from birth & breaking free, to become my own person & express my creativity & individuality, unhindered, was the most enriching experience to authenticity. The overwhelming peace & calm, this resulted in, is incomparable.
And do independent individuals recognize others who have left the hive?
25 years of independent research has revealed to me that "lone wolves" do not recognize others of same spiritual development.
Conventional education and media hold the attention of the hive-minded. To be aware takes a sincere sense of curiosity, and recognition skills.
"Small fish swim in schools; the Great White Shark swims alone."
cc. 👀 🐠 🌊 2003
@@speciallion1135 you got it! And you said it! And no doubt you’re all about it! Thank you for watching this video. I’ll be releasing a new series very soon with the Intro Episode premiering on Sunday that sets the tone for people to watch and be their real true selves! I can’t wait for you to watch my new show and tell me what you think ✌️☺️
It is not that people are disconnected from themselves because, they were never connected in the first place. Most humans are molded since childhood to be part of something ; friendship , partnership etc so they believe, the need others to fill their lives and so they spend their entire life hoping , waiting , needing that one person that will make them happy and loved without ever realizing that the only person able to love you unconditionally ( besides your mother if your are lucky ) has been , is going to, always been and will be YOU. Just observe a bunch of older people to realize that most of them are unhappy , sad and feel unloved and they will die alone wishing to have had that person who will sit by their side and tell them, they have been loved. All the best and have a great day.
@@carefulcarpenter, Well, at first sight, No , you wont but of you pay attention and spend some time with people, you will learn to recognize their behavior and then… it is not that we want to be friends with such people simply because I want to respect their desire for solitude the same way I expect them to respect mine .. Yeah, a conversation , chat or whatever is always welcome but then, continue your way the same as I do and if we meet sometime in the future I will be very glad to chat with you a bit more, other than that, you just will be a memory for me . All the best and hope you have a great day.
What people will never understand is we are all perfectly flawed. What we are taught is to become someone else. Which is why everyone different is wrong.
When we hide us out flaws we lose us . Be flawed be yourself.
And blessed be.
I've been a lone wolf since I was a teenager, I have close friends but I enjoy being by myself much more
My whole life I've been a lone wolf. Sometimes I look back now that I'm 57 and wonder how the hell did I do what I did. Having two kids, winning and failing at businesses, going through a divorce and being a single dad, all of it and more sometimes I wonder who is that guy?
Can you even believe it! and wait until you see what will happen next!
Yes! To THAT..
To Lead an Inward Life, we must live an Upward Life.
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Thanks!
Of course! Thank you for your support. 🙏
Thank you Fraya. I hear you. 👍 I'm an intoverted empath, but extroverted around people that bring me/us mutual peace. For me, there's being a "lone wolf" as a lifestyle choice - which is not for me.. and taking time out for yourself to re-charge internal batteries and reconnect with you! Because self care isn't selfish. 🕊️
@@infinitybassuk right on! 🙌
Very well said Fraya. I've been in many ways on the same path as you and for most of the same reasons. I still have a few close friends who are truly good friends tested and true, however I spend a LOT and I mean a LOT of time alone and by choice. There are so many amazing things we learn about a lot of things when sitting in peaceful solitude giving ourselves time and space to grow within. I am also a firm believer that we cannot contribute healthily to others until we are healthy within and I never knew what it meant to be healthy within until I spent enough time in solitude.
I hear you on that. The solitude is for sure an investment in ourselves.
Wow..
I’ve seen a reflection of myself in the mirror…
Amazing clarity and beauty
That's amazing!
YOU are amazing !
Instant love crush on your consciousness…
Expressed through a beautiful delivery system …
Extremely and soulfully attractive …and making me feel that way about myself ..as I resonate
Bliss
Thanks!
@@paulschembriyt 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
"Rejection may be a blessing."
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Ive needed the permission to allow myself to be with myself. I kept feeling like loving solitude meant I was broken. Plus I'm sober when I spend more time exploring my inner world. ❤
AGAIN ❤ and appreciate 🙏🏼 this. Very relatable.
Thank you for this. Being neuro-divergent and so different from most souls had been challenging. I have been spending a lot of time alone including 10 days of silence, connecting with the few who resonate, and participating in small private ceremonies to heal.
So glad to connect with you! ✌️
@frayamortensen It is nice to connect!
I needed to hear this today🎉
Certainly 'inner connection' is supremely important...but then you can navigate social connections (if you choose/want to), and do it without being harmed by it or afraid of it. it's all about knowledge. You don't get true knowledge from outside yourself. There's only 8 billion other people (souls) on the planet ready to tell you what 'the truth' is. It's in you, not what others think or tell you.
Exactly!! 💯
You hit this out of the park! Such good distinctions related to social/outward vs individual/inward structuring. Very well captured essence without unecessary straying away from the subject. 👏
I was too stubborn, but also too wounded to conform to what society or my close surroundings expected from me.
However, I reached other unhealthy extreme by dissociating and living too closed off.
Some people told me it's typical for Capricorns to be loners, but it's much more than that. Specially when trauma is involved.
I've been working on it for a while, started opening my shell and realizing how big power lays there. When you do the work, people not good for you are getting eliminated one by one, in diverse ways.
I promised myself I'll be very picky and keep looking for kindred spirits. So here I am, finding my people by following this kind of content. 😁❤
@@dragana.kuzmanovic yay!!! And thank you. It’s a long journey for some to find the inner connection as it can remain elusive for a life time if we let it. Meanwhile for others like us we know our life and authentic happiness depends on it.
@frayamortensen Absolutely! Recently a friend told me she's looking up to me, then higlighted my authenticity and unwillingness to compromise it in any way. She surprised me, 'cause I didn't look at it that way. It's good to know, even when you're not fine with where you are in your life, you're still capable of inspiring somebody with the way you are handling things, while staying true to yourself.
@ meanwhile, we don’t need anyone to look up to us because what if no one does? Does it mean we’re not living a life that is authentic and real? I know we still lean on external validation to confirm the work we’ve been doing on ourselves while the only thing we can always count on and rely upon is our own inner knowing and validation. Keep up the good work over there 🙌
@@frayamortensen Yeah, I understand your point and agree, it's just that I was surprised. My mind registered it as an unexpected confirmation that I'm on the right path. Thanks for the support 💪😎
@ right on 👍
Awesome video Fraya!! Thank you! Opportunities come along all the time; we just need to look out for them and be ready to take them or let them go knowing they rarely come again.
I love your perspective on opportunities! We are all so fortunate to have a life to experience and to choose how we want to create it.
Another brick on the wall 🧱 living comfortably numb most walking the planet. Awesome content!
Rock on! 😎🙌
Thanks & good job. We got this. Let's go!
REMARKABLE
At time sig. 15:10 I felt YOU in my reality …
“Conveying the patterns of recognition to other people in a way to help them connect
Great video. One thing for me that has led to more me-time is other people's over pre-occupation with their phones and misinformation. I've never gotten the fascination. I'm definitely not part of "the pack."
Fine tuning your inner connection can give you better reception to the collective unconscious and help you get to know your shadow
That is exactly the route!
Thanks for this video! I needed to hear all of it.
No technology in the world can create true connection. Social media is a superficial substitute for a real connection with ourselves. Ultimately, an understandable and well-intentioned distraction from the pain that comes when we dare to turn to ourselves.
music to my ears
Thank you! This channel is giving me so much inspiration. I want to do similar work to you
I love it and I wish you the most success!!
Great video!! You r giving me validation about how I feel! Love my friends but I need to follow something deeper!! ❤❤
You have funny music in your video lol. I like it
I'm glad you enjoyed it! And the music... well it's to capture the vibe I'm trying to give with my message of course 😁
Good morning Fraya. Nice to meet you. ☕️
@@cajuncrackerranch7990 ☺️✌️
So good to hear this ❤
Spot on! Thank you.
Your words and lines of tough inspire me, great job keep shining.
I appreciate that. 🙏
When you're connected internally you see that you cannot be alone.
Thank you for saying in words what I've had to figure out over the years.
❤I have much gratitude in finding your platform ❤
Thank you for being here 🙏🏼
I send you love. Thanks for warming out my heart with your words.
Thank you, it’s my pleasure! 🙏🏼
Great content Fraya, stumbled across your channel couple videos ago, that said, things you talk about ties greatly with shadow work, and some even older practices, think of the young hunter taking his spiritual journey/ first solo hunt, was it about the prey he brought or journey to get it, only he would know, and very few would understand. As humanity we regressed but we are coming back slowly. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, you got new subscriber and a friend, another wolf I might say among other names I think can be called as no light is pure but a mixture of 😊❤
You are so right about the journey! It's what really matters. Welcome!
Thanks for this! :D
You bet!
Amen to that
Well spoken !
Lol, I love this woman 🫶🏽🙏🏽
Couldn’t agree more! Blessings! 😘👍
Same to you!
@@frayamortensen thx! ;)
Very Much like they way your brain works, and ya face! Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏
most welcome 😁🙏
We need social disconnection to stay happy and sane!!
The more people in my life, the more aggravation it has brought to me.
We are born alone and meet our deaths alone, get used to being happy and content on your own, it might save your sanity?👌
Cute Freya❤🥰😘☺️
Helpful Fraya. And Dang you are beautiful ❤…
Not a believer in Buddhism but I am a Fraya Fan ❤
thank you so much! I have my own beliefs as well. I bet you're gonna love my new show that's premiering on sunday! Stay tuned for the Intro Episode! 😁😁😁
Let it all fall down
Don’t look
There in the valley of white
Stands a village
Pretty houses in time
Chimney and smoke and mist
And over there the tall mountain
Ancient and strong
Keeper of the forest
Protector of all secrets
All the beauty of the world
The roads far and wide
Passing me by
Laid before me, for me
Don’t touch
Busied my days
Building fortress and castle
Strong and safe
Do not wander, do not wonder
I didn’t look, I didn’t touch
Today I bury my failed life-
Here lies he who never complained
Never seen
Never heard
Today I bury my safety
Today I fail on purpose
And I will not don’t run and don’t fall
And I will not don’t speak
I will touch and I will look and I will laugh
Today I trade consent
For coincidences
Today I shovel clouds in my window
And forget about the snow
Let it all fall down
We are a social species. Our conceptualization of the world occurs primarily through social resources. We are mainly validated by our intimate social network.
People do not develop healthily and fully without sufficient social activity.
One, finding that the cost of socializing is very high (due to the particularity of their nature), may resort to substitutes that fill the void created by isolation.
I am autistic. I enjoy isolation very much. But I would not have developed functionally if I hadn’t had a social life (despite how challenging it has been for me to maintain one!).
I suppose that "inner connection" implies correcting an inner disconnection regarding mental and emotional content that is consciously or unconsciously ignored.
But this is just my superficial personal opinion. :)
i'm not denying that, what i'm saying is that without a strong inner connection, and internal validation system in check - social connection will not serve the lone wolf as it needs to. Many humans are not internally guided and only seek to gain external validation, some of us will not align with that sort of socialization, especially the lone wolf types.
@@frayamortensen I believe I understand your point. One problem that I see as dangerous for development is that people instinctively adjust their conceptualizations of reality through contrast with the ideas held by their social environment. An isolated person is prone to getting lost in their own interpretations, especially if they have emotional needs that could be met by creating an interpretation of reality that alleviates those needs.
Waves of circumstances and experiences that create anxiety and fear in people lead to psychotic interpretations (not grounded in their real experiences) that develop from the despair and frustration of not finding a rational way to cope with what they have suffered.
The double-edged sword of how we form knowledge is that it is collaboratively shaped by the majority, which includes generalizations that are personally unverifiable.
People tend to believe that what the majority thinks is most likely correct, and if the majority is mistaken, many individuals adopt that falsehood. Social media is very effective at manipulation because of this characteristic.
However, it is a slippery slope to assume that a person can develop a correct conceptualization of some aspect of reality without subsequently exposing it to the light of that same reality. One should love their ideas but not so much as to fall in love with them, and always be as distrustful of them as they are of other humans. :)
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Personal question but still married? Or able to be on this journey while with someone?
A lone wolf does not breed, it just dies a pointless and meaningless existence
Now that wolf becoming a Shepard
well that's quite a tail
@@KevinMannix-sf5zk the lone wolf breeds other lone wolves. I’d like to hear the tale of the shepherd. Not sure I’d like to be one of those since I was never a fan of hearding others.
@@frayamortensen The lone wolf by definition is a Lone wolf, they do not breed because they would not be alone would they ?
The they would be part of a pack and that pack defines them as not alone
Do you understand what the word alone means ?
Or do you imagine your utterly detached and alone when your not, because you like the imaginary idea ?
The Shepard's herds the sheep away from the Wolves whether they be in a pack or alone
Otherwise the Wolves devour the sheep
it's a very spiritually sick society where 90% of people follow it blindly and whole-heartedly.... the unfortunate cost of setting yourself free is loosing a type of harmony with this said 90%. It's not always easy, but worthwhile things often aren't.
@@Alexanderstarreveldo I 100% agree ✌️
Wow you did yoga😳
and still do! It's a great way to connect with yourself. (movement and breath) Do you practice as well?
@frayamortensen I was daily before the pandemic and not been back yet🙁 doing it alone feels meaningless!
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I can see what you're saying and that one was right actually... unfortunately.
I’ve denounced this shitty hell realm. My only objective is to find and settle down with a woman who hates the world and people as much as me, it’s pretty simple.
@@borrisyuslav4306 you hate the world and see it as shitty hell? We’re always creating the reality we live in. If you believe in that sort of thing. Finding someone else might not be the answer.
Sounds kind of depressing for all involved.
This resonates so deeply, a long walked path. Great video, although, can you not be so gorgeous in the future, it is interfering with the content.
Just came across your channel and found it quite sync, Dear Fraya (Freya?).... The Lone Wolf archetype takes on a whole nother level when one takes a deep dive into the Left Hand (Goddess) Path after a spontaneous Right Hand Awakening (Gnostic) in 2011.... She takes one into a whole different experience(s).... The DF Mother Goddess Energies are Anchored into Gaia now.... Big Love and a ReBalancing🌳🐲❤🩹💖💙🌌🎁🎶 Music is the Voice of the Soul and another core aspect of the DF Creative Consciousness....
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Lone wolf means weak and lost because wolves are stronger in numbers. I am a human that can’t be brainwashed by wolves and i have no fear what others have to say about me because they don’t pay my bills at home.
Please don’t be a lone wolf be a mentally strong person because these days it’s very rare for humans to be mentally strong and nothing can affect you in life.
So you're a lone wolf except for:
1. Your husband
2. Your daughter
3. A handful of friends.
That's like saying if you overlook the beef, pork and chicken I eat, I'm a vegetarian. That's changing definitions of words conveniently to suit your needs. Certainly not lone wolf.
This constant changing of definition is a major reason why the right and left have a cavernous political divide.
If you need an assistant I'm your guy. 🤓
what would you assist me with?
I'm a high introvert. You're very attractive. I'd love not to get to know you. Cheers!
You describe yourself brilliantly but why the term, Lone Wolf? In our society that phase more commonly means mass shooter. Cosmic Warrior I can grok. But as one who despises gun violence, your 'lone wolf' branding seems contrary to your message of the evolving human. No?
Perhaps watch more of the videos in the playlist - especially the latest one called Lone Wolf Empath and 3 Traits of Lone Wolf Empath. I suppose I am rebranding what the "lone wolf" is as I kinda like the wolf given they "howl at the moon" and so it's got some spiritual elements going for it.
Thanks!
@@daviddockhorn5196 thank you David. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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