SECOND YEAR OF MARRIAGE WAS TOUGH || TOLULOPE & GBEMIGA ADEJUMO
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- #family #marriage #newlyweds
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“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the LORD shall be praised”
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Music: Mark Pettitt - Something Inside [NCS Release]
At 22:06 , mummy Soteria wants to expose everything!!! 😂😂 It's interesting because the point you were making about not finding closure for everything is what stood out to me the most. Thank you both for your transparency
Thank u Mummy Tiara 💕
Auntie yemmy I see you ma,our are the kids and their Dad?
SisiYemmieTV my love 😍 sisi 💃💃
Sisi you're so real and supportive ...
I totally relate my dear Aunty Tolu. I got pregnant in August too and gave birth in may as well, the day you gave birth was the day I would have turned 40weeks but I gave birth on the 19th(39weeks 5days).. and in my first trimester I was very sick too and I felt my husband wasn't doing enough, I felt like he didn't care but he was trying in his own way, fast forward to 6months in, my mom died, and my husband fell sick so it was indeed a roller coaster for us but Jesus gave us Victory! Yes He did. I think one thing we have to understand is that Jesus never leaves us during the storm, and He is willing to carry us through to the other side so never let go of Gods hand during any storm, He is with you. Yeah! It wasn't easy but it's a testimony now. Shalom!
Shalom!!!
I gave birth at 39 weeks 5 days twice!
Noble Odinakachi God word of Faith.
Noble Odinakachi wow
God is a faithful God. I also had a miscarriage at week 5. God bless me with identical twins thereafter. God bless and keep your home. Amen
Woops... congratulations 💃💃👶👶
I Tap to the blessing of identical twin in Jesus Christ name Amen
@@billionairejumzietopbabe3304 thank you very much
Amen
Who liked before watching?
Me lol
Me oooo
I did dear, I promise you 😉😉
I always like before I watch
Me 💞💞
I’m a newlywed not up to my first year. I’m in a intercultural marriage and difficult is an understatement. It’s just now that Im understanding that the issue is cultural, my husband is truly being himself, he’s not being anything outside of that, but the reality of that is weighing heavily on me being a Westerner. But i signed up for this marriage good or bad so we will have to lean on God. Seeing videos like this gives me a renewed hope because people around me are not married, so I feel alone at times.
The realest video I have seen in a while. Keep the realness flowing. I would like to see a video on how you dealt with the the miscarriage both from you and your husband's perspective. Side note, you should leave your husband to express his quirkiness it adds to the life of the video.
They are friends
Our nose has reduced oh 💃💏👌👍
Dont mind me, I just cant help but say you are beautiful Tolu and you have a great husband, I Dont need to tell you. You guys are my numero uno
As in ehn... she made me conscious of the fact that pregnancy increases d nose size...looolz
@@topelaoye lol..am even afraid of how my own nose would look like cuz I gat a long nose
@Chioma Juliet , lol
Can 2 walk together except they be agreed? I see two great friends who knows christ as couple here. It really helps when u marry someone who compliments u. I love u guys and may you remain till eternity.❤❤❤❤
Your love for each other clearly radiates! May your marriage blossom more and more.
Congratulations mama.
A lesson learnt: always remember the bigger picture 👌👌👌
This is hands down one of my best videos and I'm soo saving it for future purposes! When I saw the time limit, I was scared because I was conscious of my data but it was worth it. Thanks mama.
Hi dear
@@mercyvennasadamalie7366 hello dear
Adult wept got me😂😂😂God continue to bless your home
And so right, just 3 months old in marriage oh...started getting angry that my Husband comes home late. Was even planning that when start work I will do same...but yesterday the "look at the bigger picture" advice just hit my head. Which is he is working hard for our future so this is temporal.
Thanks PJ...hope I got it right. God blesssssss you all again.
All the way from Douala Cameroon.
Tolulope you look so beautiful now. You're snapping back real fast. Big thumbs up 👍🏽 to Gbemiga. I think you're 'always' funny. Pls keep it up. Tolu, don't let see finish do u. Gbemiga's drama is always funny 🤪🙄
Thats true...shes always been beautiful thou.
I like his jokes too...not dry...lol
PG is mature about his feelings and experience. You guys should praise God for seeing you through. It could have been worse. Congratulations to both of you.
How come no one has asked what lipstick she’s wearing?
You look so beautiful 💜
Seriously, which people unliked this video? Na wa oh, see honest couple like this and you Dont like it. I respect you guys seriously because not everyone would be willing to share the 'buts' in their relationship. Especially, in this social media age, hmm. This is great, I love you guys. #Team Solutions. 💑💗
Anyone that unlike is wicked!
Everybody cannot like good things, dats why wickedness thrives in d world.
Honestly you won’t know how much I mean this... GOD BLESS YOU
I just love the way you are taking care of yourself
I think one of the things that helped you guys pull through that difficult phase was that you were first of all FRIENDS.
Pst Gbemiga please feature more.
its true these guys are buddies...
I love this! I especially love the way his shirt matches the quote on the wall and your lipstick matches the red door. Weird thing to notice but I still did lol! This video is SO REAL! Thank you so much for putting yourselves out there and sharing the truth with humour here and there. You're doing an amazing job and I've definitely subscribed and followed you on Instagram after this. You guys are so cute. This video made me really question if I want to get married at all, like there's so many storms in life no matter what decision you take. Only God can help us tbh
This video is hilarious.
Oh wow! I'm watching this & I'm like how are they telling my story so well. Pregnancy & all that comes with it. I wasn't so sick sick but then I was cranky like hell. My husband & I would fight over irrelevant things to the extent that I was throwing myself around. Hubby looked at me one day and said "if you let anything happen to this child I'd blame you". That bad! I thank God for the 3fold cord. Dear God. That "3fold cord" is so real, I'm grateful we had that as our toast& has built our marriage on that since. Yes before I forget, I can't be tired & say I'm not going to church o, mehn I will hear preaching & he will hear pregnancy lessons. So so baby Sharon went &dragged baby Soteria & they came months apart.
Debbie D 😂😂😂
I believe all new couples should get counsel before pregnancy comes in the picture. Men find it difficult to get along when they begin to see changes in their wives body and mood and ladies should also keep themselves together and be strong by engaging in lots of exercise such as taking a walk together when able.
I experienced this too and l believe most people do but a proper orientation is needed before getting to that season of life. May God help us all🙏🏽. Great video guys!
May you both remain knitted in Christ's love. Cheers to your forever 🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂
One thing that struck my heart is how you guys were so happy together and everyone saw your marriage as goals during those trying times. I learnt a lot from today's vlog thanks for sharing.
Sometimes, I look at my relationship and I just imagine how we will behave during storms everything seems so beautiful and mushy now and I just pray for God's grace and intentionality of growth. I know time is a true test of character and patience will birth that.
Tolulope, you and your husband are so much inspiration and you are in our prayers. E-kisses to lil madam soteria.
Please do you mind doing a delivery vlog.
Moments with Dee you spoke my mind ma'am
Moments with Dee debby 😘😘
Mummy Soteria's primary love language is definitely physical touch. Thanks for sharing
Cute couple ❤️❤️❤️ Tolu darling, nice hair, nice top, nice lipstick colour, nice everything.
Okurr mummy Soteria issa major babe. Thanks for sharing this. Gorgeous couple.
Awwwn aunty Lizzy is here
I see you sis
Please let all gather for our Sunday Tonic
Notification gannnngggg!!!!
Too much to learn from you guys in this video 👌👌😯 thanks so much for sharing but the truth is, we really love seeing you guys together on set please oo cuz honestly you both inspire a lot us here and am sure even out there. I must say I really do enjoy the video as well 🙌🙌🤩 God continue to bless and keep your home in peace IJN 🙏#teamsolutions 💖
Sorry, I'm new here is her name "Solutions" ?
Hi Tolu hope the baby is doing well tnx for always inspiring us God bless you and ur hubby.
Thank God for this video cos presently am passing through this challenge but with this I will try and do something and correct..... Love u guys
mojisola Adenekan God will see you through
Amen.I can relate
God will see you through!
Great video. ma always says that forgiveness is needed in marriage than in any other institution. On our 8th year and it's becoming sweeter every day coz of forgiveness. Let's keep the fire of marriage burning. Kenya
The way he looks at her 25:56. 😍
Thank you for keeping it real with us.
Lovely as usual. I always like PG's jokes, he makes the vlog more interesting. Learnt a lot, wish my future hubby could be watching from wherever he is and learn. Big ups guysssss
I really enjoyed watching this video. Learned so much today and I admire you two. May God keep you two and our little princess. God bless y'all.
I love you guys so much. Thanks for being so real here. 💓💓💓
You both are dropping gems! I really hope that young married couples are watching and taking major notes. I have been married for 8 years and I can totally tell you all these feelings and facts you’ve experienced are for real.
Generally in life and in this context marriage, change is inevitable but it requires positive adaptation simple because we’re creatures of habits; we don’t want things to change. These periods of transitioning are definitely trying and very challenging. No clique; Thank God for Jesus!🙏🏾
I really did enjoy this upload. It briefly validates this unintended pressure of starting a family shortly after marriage especially in Nigeria. #NaThemDeyRushUsO! 🤗
Thank you both and congratulations on your new blessing!
Nice one dear.please can u film on how u overcame ur miscarriage ,thanks.this vedio is great
I just love this awesome family, they are so real, the love is so obvious, God will keep increasing the love between you both, wishing to see these faces really in August in Akure, please do grant my wish
Thank you for this impeccable insight about marriage. God bless your home..😇🥰😇
Wow!!!I I have not seen couples that are this real for a long time now,thank God for you..I am really inspired..
Mami you look stunning! Jst staring at your face ! Jst starting watching this
Tolu truly i always watch you video without leaving a comment but for this particular video, i cant help but say i love you. Thank you for being real and letting us single ladies see the journey ahead and buckle up to prepare for it. You also are showing us the advantage of marrying in Christ. If to say na all this omo wobe guys........matter for long. I love you and God keep your family
Shout out to the makeup artist, the makeup is lit and I love your outfit
My friend introduced me to you a long time ago. I didn't really watch enough then,but recently I have taken a liking to your videos that I keep going back to watch some. Your love for Michael Todd also led me to watch his videos. So currently, I look up to you,Michael Todd, and true talk with Ella,Dara,and Tolu for blessing my spirit man. Your videos teach a lot that I had to take a mental note to watch most of your videos with my fiance, especially ones like this,it will go a long way to help us even though we know challenges comes in different way to different people, we know God is teaching us a lot through you. God bless you mama Solutions
I agree with you. It's so beautiful watching all of them. Please go watch Ayope videos too😍. They are the bomb too!
I can soo relate Omg this is deep, these are the kind of videos we need out here.. Anytime God is the centre of a home trust me you will surely survive. God bless you for sharing.
Communication is a key 😉
My husband suffered during our first baby, omo he totally refused we would have another baby, I cried and prayed, thankful to God, we now have 3kids😆😄😂.
Marriage is actually international hard work rooted on God, watching this 2years later and still enjoying it 🤎❤️🤎❤️
Amazing video. So brave and smart of u to discuss this rough patch in such a real way and not ‘christianize it’. WTG tolu! One of ur best videos.
Pls stop telling oga to stop. His jokes were funny. He brings a good comic relief.
I really admire you both. Never be discouraged by the number of likes. This is my first time of making a comment . Thanks for being sincere and willing to share your experiences publicly. You both are favored to have each other. More videos please. Lol
i like your truthfulness..... its the boom.. you mke.me love you so much and i keep coming back to watch ur channel😍😍
That's y,u need to marry who u really love naturaly or affection for ,u ll take him for who he/she is and build ur relationship on Gods rock cos wen d storm comes u ll be able to stand firmly. Though I am not married yet ,even in normal relationships we face lots of challenges that if you ain't strong u ll fall out of the race. Communication, trust,forgiveness and patience is d key. U ll be tired at some point but the love ll hold u firmly on the root.🥰 cheers
Thank you for sharing, I know a lot of people are learning from you
so much glory in one video .. God bless your family
You couples are so adorable. Thanks for always being transparent and honest. You guys are blessed beyond measure.
Yaaaaay Tolu!!! I always like even before watching lol..you guys are a blessing.. 🇰🇪
Actually I get your husband... He expresses his emotions differently
See how you are looking beautiful.. I love you Tolulope.
I am still watching this video but I have shared it with some friends already. I am seeing forgiveness differently. We should always forgive so we can have a fresh start. The fresh start is more important. You know what I love about your videos? You are not afraid to be vulnerable by sharing your experience. God bless you real good.
Thanks for sharing! It's always more fun when PG is in the Video.... love you guys
You look so beautiful Tolu
I enjoyed this video. Thank you for this.
I like how you guys are down to earth. I see lots of couples with miscarriages or trying to start a family. And I hear this a lot from the men, saying they feel used, intimacy was now a chore
Also pregnancy can bring a lot of strain on relationship.
The season does pass as you say and remain positive and supportive of each other.
Thanks for sharing
I Think that stage is what now bring separation between husband and wife, that makes the wife now transfr all the love seen or have for the husband to the child, and they now find it difficult to come back instead they will now beging to se each other differences, you know thats the work f the destroyer, very cunny devil. i really thank God for you yu guys that you healed and even to the ppont of been able to share the story. like it really blessed me. im so touched, i have always have fear of that moment, not maried yet tho however i always pray for that season, more to that from my end i have learnt a lot, NOT EVERYTHING SHOULD BE TALKED INTO WORDS LET SOMETHING SLIDE AND MOVE ON.... THANK YOU TLULOPE SOLUTIOS AND GREAT PGGGGGGGGG
First of all that hair and lippie....totally here for it sis!
So this video reminds me of when hubby was involved in a fatal accident a month before our marriage clocked 2years with both legs broken and having our 7months old baby back then - that was a low time for us so this is totally relatable. God saw us through and we never lost our hope n joy
Thanks for this guys. Loads of love 💛
God bless you
@@PatriciaAbijah Amen. Thank you and God bless you too
God keep you and yours always.🙏
@@theadunbarin amen and you too 🙏
Tolu ooo the lipstick jor. lol. late comers let's get ready for a selfie with PG &Soteria's mummy
Thank you for sharing these with us. There is nothing as beautiful as learning these things ahead of the married life. It gets us prepared and ensures that lesser mistakes are made. I celebrate you sir and ma. Please, kindly share with us how you handled the miscarriages' experience. Thank You.
Great video!!! You can see the magic when you're together. Thank you for making the rest of us not feel like perfection is the goal rather growth is key.
Omg! Ur hubby is hilarious, solutions looking yummy, luv u guys❤️❤️❤️❤️
Congrat my people 💕💕May God continue to bless the family .
God bless you guys for being real....please do a video on how you handled the miscarriage...
Congratulations guys♥️♥️♥️
Now the DO that you did gave us a beautiful smile on our face♥️♥️♥️
MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOUR HOME WITH LOVE PEACE AND HAPPINESS EVERYDAY, U HAVE REALLY REALLY INSPIRED ME ALOTS AM PRAYING FOR GOD TO GIVE ME WITH SUCH A HUSBAND LIKE YOURS, AM LEARNING ALOTS, GOD BLESS YOU ONCE AGAIN 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I can hardly describe how much of a blessing this video has been to me and my relationship. Thank u so much for taking time to share. Love you both loads!
Thank you PG and Tolu. Thank you for being real, thank you for being vulnerable for the Truth:s sake. One thing I just began to learn too is that in relationships you can't always find closure. God bless your home and baby Soteria ♥️♥️♥️
Funny how I’ve been checking my notifications right after church
Thanks for been real🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽God continue to uphold ur household 💋❤️pregnancy comes with all sort and i can relate.
A friend of mine sent me a video lately to learn from, I was just angry. Cause I hate stories of my life!!!. But as for TOLU, just watch and listen on the road like mumu...laughing and smiling alone. God bless you!!!!
Thank you for being real and sharing your personal experiences in marriage. It's rare to see this. This is inspiring! Thank you. Please do a video on how you both overcame the miscarriage.
Soooo relatable. Thank you so much for sharing. Hugs to baby Soteria ❤️❤️❤️
As a single lady, when married couples say Marriage is no joke, I wonder how real it is and what are some of the things some couples do that helped them overcome whilst others aren't able to? (These are my own mental thoughts and I believe for some ppl too) but this video calms me and opens my eyes too. Thanks Maa and Sir. The Lord is your Combined Strength in Jesus' Name.
This is easily my favorite video so far; especially because I followed your pregnancy vlogs, it comes with fresh perspective for me. Thanks for sharing. I have a question for PB: how did you handle the changes in your Solutions' body? I hope this isn't too personal...congratulations again to you both, on the TIMELY birth of your princess 🤗🤗
Thank you so much!!! Welcome back😍😍
You guys are the best.. You inspire me
Please please do a video on how the both of you were able to overcome the miscarriage😘🇰🇪
I love u guys. Am Cameroonian n an addicted fan. 3months old in marriage and learning a lot from u. God keep blessing u
Okurrrrrr I'm not alone here
Delapi's Bae Thank u
I love you guys so much 💖💖💖💖💖 thanks for sharing this video regards to iyunade💋
Thank you! This is from my heart. Thank you for being honest and real. So many lessons learnt. Love you two!
this is wonderful
Yasss first like and comment 😩💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
All I need to hear is your voice and I am swept away 🎈💐💗🌸
Congratulations again my bro n sis!! I feel Blessed to see you both rooted before and after the storm, Amen!
The way your husband looks at you got me blushing on your behalf. love you both
I love your connection....!!! I love your love together
More blessings
Every home is Work/Walk In Progress with God. Love your family darling
That season was really work. I thank God they are stronger
THANK YOU FOR BEING EXTREMELY TRANSPARENT.
Thank you Tolu…..Learning so much and jotting down
our sunday dose is here 😊😊
You marriage is wonderful. I love you guys so much
Mrs solution adejumo 💕💕you starting to look so much like Mrs Funke adejumo😘😘😘pls share your hair vendor ❤️❤️ThankS .
The Power of a relationship and marriage foundation build on the word of God.
May God bless your family in Jesus name