WHY MY PREVIOUS ENGAGEMENT FAILED; PLUS GET READY WITH ME || TOLULOPE SOLUTIONS ADEJUMO
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- Опубліковано 23 гру 2020
- As it is my 4 years 'proposalversary' with my husband today, I had the leading to share this on here. I hope it blesses someone and saves someone from a lifetime of pain. xo.
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This video came in handy. Mine engagement broke 5months ago and i felt i was gonna die being my one and only relationship of almost 5years. But I'm grateful to God i survived the lowest moment. A broken relationship indeed is better than a broken marriage.
Same here😣
So True...
Thank you for this video Tolu. Take home point for me: "if you see that the person has mouth more than action, that is a red flag!"
@@prophettaiwoojo971 fake account. Leave this place!!!
I literally did not date a guy because he talks too much and ends up saying more than he delivered
Thank you for sharing this, Solutions.
I can totally relate to this story because same thing happened to me and I noticed I started losing myself, I compromised on a lot of things and there was so much uncertainty as to if I’ll be happy if I go on with it or if it was the will of God for my life. The decision to end the engagement wasn’t easy but every time I look back, I’m thankful, happy and proud that I made that decision.
Just broke up few hours again. It wasn't worth it. it's not easy to go through the break up
Eye opener👁 for a woman that is not finding peace about that relationship, engagement or marriage proposal
17 years old me is just here storing all these virtues from solutions mama inside cooler till when they’ll come handy. Thank you for these words of wisdom ma😊😊
You have to start the prayer now prayer is like drop of water you have to start dropping the prayer now at God time your will be answered pls do not wait on till you are ready.As you are praying to have the best career in life, job ,buy a nice house,
you have to start telling God to pls when God time comes to give you a God fearing husband and God fearing in-law. It only God that known the right time for each of you.
@@debbieoputah1630 Thank you so much. I really appreciate this
@@prophettaiwoojo971 oh wow🤭 but does the real Pastor Chris know that there’s an imposter somewhere?
Woooow. We are plentyyyy 😂
Thank you Tolulope Solutions... I came to understand this some weeks ago before leaving my former relationship. I broke my rules and values just to please him... When I could finally see and understand how far I have gone, I was able to make the right choice to retrace my steps back to my maker. Thank you once again for your story. It's a blessing.
The truth is that when the relationship feels unsure, stressing then it is not the right one. If u feel you are doing too much and there is little reciprocation,,runnnnnn. I now look back and I am happy I left such relationships
My gosh. This story is literally answers to prayers. I had a dream of being in a similar situation (being engaged to someone I was clearly unsure of). In waking life, I'm not even in a relationship. As I was praying about it, I stumbled on your video--- literally minutes after. And it further clarified my dream for me. So while you might think this is random tea for Team Solutions (which it is😉), your timing was perfectly ordered by God, for me. Thank you😍. God is kind!🙏🙌
The timing is perfect for me too, thank you ma❤
I walked away from a 7 year old relationship 12 years ago..God gave me the insight to count the loss and move on..That was the greatest decision of my life..There is no fear in love..when you feel fear..run.leave for your life
Wow this came at the right time
Will be getting engaged to a guy I do constantly feel unsure of
But me watching this now am gonna make a right decision
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage
Thanks solutions
The most pain full thing in life is a broken marriage for those who have being the before.The ladies have said it all.A broken
relationship is far far better than a broken marriage.It good to marry a believer that have the fear of God.Tolulope may you be
bless with more wisdom that why i said it the holyspirit that direct you to do these post.God bless you family.Amen
This video was timely. God just used you to clear confusion from my head.
My marriage will be blissful mad fruitful in the name of Jesus Amen!.
Amen!
I am glad it did not work out so you can meet someone like your husband, down to earth man, respectful. God had a reason.
The summary of all this is that, the person was never God's will for your life, End of story. that is why entering a relationship without being led by God, is at your own risk, Thank God for his mercies!!
You really made this video for me, indeed the Holy Spirit sent this for me. God bless you and Amen to your prayers.
This is timely and educative
Know The Timeline, Don't Just Date
Don't lose yourself in trying to please your partner
U're even beautiful without makeup Jere😍😘😘😘
Thank you very much for this Mama.Timely!
I love how you are so real, thank you Ma!🙏
That’s the man of wisdom ooo thanking God 🙌🏻🙏🙌🏻🙏 congratulations 🎉🍾🎈
Thanks ma'am. Amen to make it right by God's living grace🙏
Amen Amen and Amen to that prayer, everything would work out well for our good🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽 thanks so much for the piece of advice ❤️
Thank you ma'am, I am believing God to make all things beautiful in his time!
Amen to your prayers.
God bless you for sharing this. I found it helpful.
God is wonderful.
Learnt alot from this ✨
God bless your Union ma'am and happy anniversary.
You are A blessing,so much to learn..Thank you so much mama solution
Hmmm, I am grateful for you sharing this with us especially me...I am blessed by this.
Thanks so much for sharing... my resolve to do relationship right is strengthened. And Amen!!!! to your prayers.
Thank you so much for this mama solutions. A broken courtship is far better than a broken marriage.
Amen sisterly😻😻😻 thank you so much for this piece.
I can totally relate to all of this...thank God for grace to leave when I could🙏🏽... thanks for sharing ❤
Great testimony Tolu. Can you do a video on why your in-laws rejected you at first? And what made them change their minds? Please get their permission before filming it oooo.
Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful family, thank you for constantly blessing us with entertaining, God- centered content!
I am really blessed watching this!!!!God bless u mama💙
I'm not even bothered about the gist, its the vibes that you both have.....
PG give us wisdom
Thank you so much ma.
Merry Christmas and Happy New year in advance.💖💖💖💖
Your skin is looking beautiful. Love the glow
Thank you Tolulope Solution. God bless you abundantly.
Omo this video is deep and answers to the many issues I’ve been dealing with. Funny how I’ve been seeing this video on my TL and not click it till someone actually sent it to me. Omo this God when he hints and you don’t listen he sends a confirmation to nudge you.
i can totally relate
Millions of thanks to you for this Solutions. God bless you real good 🙏
Eye opener!!!!! thanks ma'am.
I pray i don't mk a wrong choice.
wow... I love you ma with every part of me. thanks for always teaching and bringing light to our path.
THIS THIS THIS!!!!! I’m actually at this particular boat in my life and All you said just made sense to me.
The time wasted is “worth” it instead of not getting it right. Thank you so much Aunty Tolu.
Wow so inspiring and most especially when you said you don't live your life for people 🙏
Amen and Amen thank you for the words of encouragement I want the glory of God in my in my future marriage sometimes you think time is going thank you for the encouragement again may God bless you
Wow lovely video ma thanks for sharing and wow your skin glow
You look amazing 😍
Thank you so much for this 🙏 it really goes a long way.
Thank you so much for sharing this ma'am.....exactly story of my life.....thanks for the insight ma
So much to learn from this video... Thanks for sharing this mama sols🙏
My favorite 💗I love the love that is loving you guys
Tnk u so much for this ma'am
God bless you
Merry Christmas
Thank you so much for this vidéo aunty Tolu
Merry Christmas to the Adejumos.
Thanks so much for this topic.really inspiring to me and made me realize myself
I'm greatful that you share this ma
Your skin is popping.... This video came at the right time, thank you. Merry Christmas!
Great content, absolutely great!!!
3gbosa for the two people when born you
You are inspiration yourself that's why when you asked PG in one of your videos what qualities he admire in you,he said it's your brain that he loves the way you think.
Happy New year to you and yours sis tolu
Thank you for this Mama solutions.
Like you said mama, family approval is important, even though am no longer in a relationship, looking back after my break up this year Feb, close to 4 years in the relationship, there are things I see now that I was blind to and I started seeing things from my mum's perspective too which I once ignored..I once thought I wouldn't cope with the breakup but am doing fine now and trying to work on myself to be better before the right person comes along... Thanks for sharing
I understand where u coming from sis. May God see u through as u work on urself 🙏
Thank you so much for this Quality Information, this year I have to meet you really.
This was very timely! God bless you Tolu!
Thank you so much for this mama, it blessed me☺.....God bless you and continue to strengthen you in Jesus name
Merry Christmas in advance ma'am
You are amazing... So much wisdom ❤️
Thank You for the timely advice in this video. Merry Christmas to you and your family 🥰 🎄
Tolulope was created for me, seriously you are always timely mama
Sis tolu God bless you........this talk means a lot to me
Thanks for sharing this video! It is an eye opener 🥰
Thanks for sharing... Always happy to hear your story...
Thank you mama
This is so enlightening 🙏🙏🙏💃🏽
Thank you for this. It is precious! God bless you. I can't put it in words. But thank you for reminding me to make sure I don't loose myself in a relationship. Thank you for doing one thing that I still do,I keep on praying till I say I do at the altar. God bless you so much 🥰😍
Thank you soomuch tolulope solutions, this video was really helpful!! 🥰
This really spoke to me. Thank you soo much Mama Solutions. I really do hope to meet you very soon. 🧡🧡🧡
Thank you mama.
God bless you
Many thanks for sharing your story. I definitely can relate with walking out of a relationship when you have to compromise your personal values/ethics❌❌. I love the transparency and maturity on such conversation. Thank you.
P.S: Ardent subscriber that hardly comments. I had to for this video:)
I agree with everything you said.. thank you so much 🥰
Mrs Tolulope Solutions Adejumo!
Watching your vlogs is a breath of fresh air for me. If it doesn't make me laugh, it teaches me something.
I am not in a relationship but this is timely. It is for me. I will not rush things, I will be shameless, it doesn't matter how long it's been if it's not good for new, I'm dropping it.
I agree with you when you say family should agree. I'm also of the opinion that my family and my guy's family should have a relationship. It matters to me.
I loved watching this vlog. It pained me though that Soteria wasn't here to say "hello guys". He he😅
When you said "I can't do makeup" , I was shook but then I heard "...and talk". Ehen!
PS, red lipstick and hair looks so good on you😍😍😍
God bless you dear and I love your makeup 🔥🔥🔥
0:07 “I film about faith, marriage, lifestyle and motherhood”
Sisters pray for a Godly husband who will finish your intro when you run out of breath ooo!!!
I say ehnnnn
Yes you are right
I can totally relate to this story....am happy God equally gave me the opportunity to right it
Wahala for who no dey follow your content back to back. Thanks so much ma
Really learnt a lot from you ever since i subscribed to your UA-camc channel
Not ever a mistake joining this channel
Wow God bless you sis..thank you for this🙏❤
Oshey!! Beautiful woman...😍😍 Am blessed After all. Eshey ma
Thank you so much... and merry Christmas to you ma
Thanks for sharing, amen to the prayers mama solution 🙏🏾😍
Really nice video, lots of valid points 👌I hope someone who really needs to hear this gets to watch this video.
This is a really beautiful story and most importantly "an eye opener" for me😊🙂. I'm happy I took out time to watch this and learn from it. By the way, the makeup came out great. Thankyou so much Solutions. God bless and protect you and your whole family.
I resonate so well to this on so many levels. Thank you Mama Tolu, you really are a Solution.
Thank you so much for this video Tolulope Solutions
That part about losing yourself and values to please your partner is just too real! Thank you for this video!
Really encouraging, thank you so much for the video
Hmmm I dont know how I ended up watching this video but coincidence does not exist. Thank you for sharing. Welcom to Canada and God bless you and your entire family🙏
Ahhh! The way the Holy Spirit speaks! 🥺❤️❤️❤️ I am tempted to just say God bless you Holy Spirit! 🥺❤️
Thanks for sharing this Tolu!
Thank you Ma ❤️
We young ladies are really learning from you .
How am i just finding this channel???? You're such a blessing ma🤗
It’s the “It’s my life, it’s my journey” for me ooo
Apttt👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you Tolulope ❤️💙
Thank you Mama💙
Thank you so much for sharing this story, I am in the same situation, it takes more than love for me and for God.
This is timely😔😔 Thank you Mama